Transforming my hoarders cupboard into the cupboard of my dreams!

In this video I transform the messy cupboard that I have been putting off for WAY too long, and over a series of days, turn it into a space that brings me comfort and joy! And I hope you enjoy watching the process as much as I enjoyed making the video ❤️

[@user-eb6pt6gz6d]

Remi, I hope you know how special you are. I’m a 56-year old wife and mom in the USA, and you inspire me, and I admire you so much.

[@michellenorthway619]

I (a 61 year old working woman in the US) too am inspired - I cleaned my makeup brushes when I saw you doing yours while I listened to your lovely voice! Thank you.

[@kristiclifton3974]

I couldn’t have said it any better-thank you, Remi, for sharing your journey w/all of us!!🥰

[@kendrawaterbury2328]

Ditto

[@erinsondgeroth6351]

Same

[@remiclog]

Oh this is so lovely! Thank you so much! 😭❤️

[@thetruthwithtarot2301]

I'm a 14 year old girl in the USA, yet I clicked this video probably as soon as it was posted and haven't watched it until today... this video was just supposed to calm me down while I ate lunch, but I instantly realized how great my life is. I have my mother and grandfather living with me, many friends, the necessities (food, shelter, water), and my loving pets. I've suffered from hundreds of panic attacks and anxiety issues, and every time I have one, I hear that little voice in my mind saying that I'm all alone in my struggles. I'm on the verge of crying because of this video. It showed me that even chaos can become something to be proud of and that I am not alone even if its not exactly like me, there's someone out there that struggles with similar issues. I'm sorry for rambling a bit. All you really need to know is that this was just supposed to be a fun video to watch while I eat, but it has made my day better, and probably will continue to make my days better for a long time. Thank you.

[@pattymccallen]

I’m a 72 yo woman from the US and this is a remarkable video! I am so glad you found it so young!!!!! Go out there and be amazing! One grateful little baby step at a time! I I love to journal & I have a disability so I can only journal a word each day to help me focus …sometimes I get overwhelmed & that’s my opportunity to be kind to myself & start over with NO shame…. This vid truly makes me remember & be super grateful!!!

[@user-qd8mk2pp4n]

I don't know if you will see this, but I was just like you, when I was 14 I had so many panic attacks, and my life was a mess, but now I'm 17, and only three years later my life looks so different, and I have found so many amazing friends ❤ so keep going no matter what, it does get better even though in the moment its hard to believe 🥰

[@BananaBread.03]

The amazing thing that I don't know if you know... You actively clean, declutter, and beautify the environment around you and the ones you love but, you also do the exact same for us. You clean out the self doubts, the anxieties, the self dislike over our shortcomings related to what we had always been told are mental or physical faults. You declutter the stress, the mental or emotional exhaustion when we want to start doing better but we don't know where to really start. You beautify how we see ourselves and how we choose to go forward handling things around us and the environment our beloved families grow in 💙

[@m.slater493]

Beautifully written, I totally agree. Remi, your channel is a safe and happy space, and I'm so grateful you're doing it. Love from Australia 🦘❤

[@juliaouzts5781]

Very well said. That was what ithink , just did not have your words. :)

[@sierramilam9587]

Amen!

[@user-mm2gg7fh4g]

Remi, how did you get to be so wise at such a young age. I don’t think you realize what a beacon of light you are to so many people, me included. At 65 you inspire me so much after the passing of my husband. Just remember, you are loved. ❤

[@katiechapman6473]

You darlin might be one of those most beautiful humans i have ever come across. You were sent here to change the world. Those boys are so blessed to have you as their Mama.

[@joanklaczek4009]

We really need a thumbs up button that we can press multiple times, as we all get so much more from your story than one thumbs up can acknowledge.

[@suzannebrookes5950]

"I am a gross old toad" had me dying. Remi you are a wonderful mum, amazing content creator and listening to you is super soothing, your words hit and I love that even with the most daunting of messes that we all have in our houses, you find a way to simplify and get through it, not rushing to get it all done in one day, normalising that things take time and you don't have to be spending all of your time in one area of your life to make things work. I don't know if you realise just how relatable you are, even for me as a clean freak, I still get overwhelmed by the upcoming tasks and I still have that one cupboard that is my hideaway of junk.

[@shelbysittig1047]

Love, I purged for an entire week. I realized that my grandmother whom I grew up with in my younger years and how she had put on me her obsession with keeping things because she lived through the Great Depression. I decided it’s time to let things go. I started with apartment closets in bedrooms and deep cleaning them then moved onto the next room. I started on Sunday and dropped off the final donations on Saturday. I gave away 24 bags of everything from crafting supplies to clothes. I decided to make decisions and let go. Now I’m working on keeping a clean house one room a day so that I don’t feel exhausted by doing the entire apartment at once. Cleaning up little bits has been a blessing for me and you. You can do it. Everyday is a battle to clean and reclaim your space will help your mental energy to strengthen.

[@Joanna88016]

same here my grandmother is still stuck in the ways from the great depression

[@NenneSez]

Wow! Well done and Bless You.

[@willimacdo]

Yes, I realised my mum was affected by living thru the Great Depression. Congratulations on all your good work.

[@remiclog]

It makes SO much sense that people who lived through certain situations and times developed tendencies to hold on to as much as they can! And I think a lot of people don’t take that into consideration. Your insights are brilliant, and well done for making the choice to let things go, I know how hard it is ❤

[@marionbylsma1167]

Yes my parents were immigrants. They came over in 1950 with four kids had two more by 59 moved into the house my dad built he was a carpenter in but they lived in Amsterdam join the war and it did turn my mother into a container harder, but it was never messy. It was never fall down. She could find what she wanted, if you can’t see what you have saved, you need to mark on the box what it is

[@LazyDaisyDay88]

"My anxiety has no power" - amazing words! Thank you for sharing Remi. Best wishes to you and your lovely family.

[@traciewilliams4630]

Will remember this one Remi , I did CBT not so very long ago and one of my goals was to just have a " normal " day and not to be dictated to by my anxiety , when I'm having a "moment" I will remember your wise words 😊❤ thank you

[@remiclog]

Thank you! Best wishes to you and yours as well ❤️

[@nicolesurphlis1558]

@@remiclog am doing house work today because am off on holiday on Thursday elry hours in the morning xx

[@velvettnunn8153]

😮​@@traciewilliams4630

[@jaycee533]

Thank you for being genuine and realistic. It is so refreshing to see ‘normal’ house decluttering

[@pennyrunge6886]

Pat yourself on the back!!remi your awesomeness ❤❤❤❤

[@claireu1377]

Absolutely! Genuine tidying, decluttering and cleaning. Very refreshing to see and makes you feel you can achieve this too. Thanks Remi 😊

[@janetswope5695]

Oh, Remi…you are just a gem!!! I have absolutely reverted back to my happy, precious childhood. Little treats for myself tend to make my whole day. Cleaning and decluttering at least one shelf, one cabinet, one drawer…anything…is so rewarding to me. I absolutely LOVED to color as a child and now I have sets of colored pencils and coloring books for adults and it makes me so calm and so happy to color. I crochet. I read. I nap. All of these things would be so much fun in your little cupboard! You are priceless!

[@pink4078]

For someone so young. You are so wise. What a beautiful soul you have. Love from Australia.

[@mifnp8887]

On your way to a million+ subscribers, Remi! And we're all here rooting for you. ❤ I swear, HGTV would be remissed not to offer you your own show!

[@foxxstreet5389]

I so enjoy your videos

[@remiclog]

This is such a huge compliment! Wow! Thank you! ❤️

[@joankeenan9030]

Thank you

[@SA-vu5et]

Couldn't agree more!

[@debbiecollett7417]

I love the fact you're so realistic. Thank you x

[@remiclog]

That’s really lovely to hear, thank you ☺️

[@sylviaeneriz4808]

Why do fairy lights make everything look so much better? I totally loved the idea of making a board with pictures of what you are grateful for and choosing a different word to focus on each day. I think I’m going to make one myself so thank you for the idea! Finally, your list of things to be grateful for: your parents still being alive, running water, having food and so much more, made me tear up. It made me realize how many simple and yet absolutely essential things I have to be grateful for. Just to be alive on this spinning blue planet out in space is a gift so thank you, just for being you. YOU and these videos are an act of service for this world. Thank you.❤

[@sylviaeneriz4808]

Finally, Remi, I think you should print out those absolutely precious photos of your boys each wearing the hat and hang them along with the tweed cap in one of those recessed frames they sell at craft stories. That way that little hat can be preserved and showcased (hey, and maybe your future grandkids can be photographed wearing it as well) for the future. P.P.S. You stated that certain things go into the attic, have you thought of doing a video on purging the attic too?

[@remiclog]

That is such a fantastic idea!! Wow!! Thank you 🥰 as for the attic, it’s not stable, aside from a few plywood boards, if we stepped up there we’d fall through the ceiling! All that is up there (balancing on the boards) are Christmas and Halloween decorations and a few airtight bags with some of my favourite baby clothes, and some clothes that are hand me downs from Rudy that Ike doesn’t fit into yet.

[@strawberry1025]

Oh Remi, you inspire me. My cupboard of doom is three times the mess, and it's all paperwork, photographs, precious letters, old university files, artwork, AND complete rubbish, all mixed up . And every single piece of paper has to be read and discarded or kept. For over twenty years I keep opening the door and closing it again. Your suggestion to break it down into small goals is the way to go. I'll start with clutter first too but for me it will be one shelf at a time. I am actually going to give myself three months to do it as I am disabled. My goal is to have it done by the end of summer [31st August]2024. There, I've said it out loud! But three months is not long to clear a lifetime of words.... Thanks Remi.

[@rebeccamc8084]

I've been declittering for nearly 8 years. Every cupboard, drawer and wardrobe was packed full of stuff, it meant I couldn't put anything away! I'm finally feeling things are getting more sorted. Loving your videos xx ❤

[@KiraNoSan]

I love decluttering, letting go is easy but i have missed some things ocer the years some clothing peaces and now i am scared of declutteri g clothing please give me sum advice how to let gow again

[@elckefahwehinmi1466]

⁠you thit great my darling En the words so treu Happy and thankful for every day

[@stelladowsett7151]

Well done Rebecca. I have been living with clutter for about 11 years. Trying really hard to make a start.

[@SueSniffles]

@@KiraNoSan Hi Kira before you declutter your clothing turn your hangers backwards. As you wear an item turn the hanger. Pick a length of time, say 3 or 4 months. Remove the items that the hangers are still backwards and are out of season. Put the clothes in a box or plastic bin with an expiration date. You can always take out an item but whatever is in the bin/box at the expiration date gets donated. Just an idea. Good luck with your decluttering.

[@gettingtidy2495]

I only recently realised I'm not just untidy I've got too much!!

[@raneemilliman7130]

The last thing I look for is a channel with an already perfect house with a pretend mess or clutter. I want the real life of people who are trying every day to make things better for themselves and for others. I enjoy decluttering and particularly, organizing. Cleaning, not as much, but it gets done eventually. This cupboard looks fantastic and very cute idea. Everyone needs their own space, big or small, just for a moment or two to collect ones thoughts or just enjoy a little peace. You are definitely on the right track, and I wish you continued success and look forward to your next video.

[@UkisFarm]

Exactly! I love Remi's posts!

[@tonit7732]

That pretend mess is so annoying

[@jmcmurrah]

This video is breathtaking, not just for the remarkable transformation of this cupboard, but the wisdom and compassion behind it, and the very beautiful way you express your challenges, fears, hopes, and dreams. You are so gifted in so many ways, inspiring, and remarkable. You deserve all the good things, dear Remi.

[@abbimelissachute2488]

You speak my thoughts out loud I swear. Things I can't get straight in my head, you piece together like a puzzle and make it clear in my mind for me. So many feelings.

[@MareldineWilliams-dl8be]

Mine too! She just has a way of saying what I cannot pur into words❤

[@lormor460]

Your voiceover is so comforting, like therapy. It is all reals, things we all feel. And you speak so well. I just love it. And I love what you did with the closet! It looks amazing! Thank you, Remi, another wonderful video.

[@mindsjanne]

I really love the VoiceOvers as well. Soothing voice and clever thoughts❤

[@tinaroberts5858]

I love how you clean your makeup brushes. Love the stories you share. You're right, most of us hold onto so many things we really never use or need. I keep telling family to please stop buying me Christmas gifts and birthday presents that I truly don't need. I'm almost 63 and don't need anything except the people around me that I love.

[@Yodavilla]

You can ask them to give you experience gifts (a spa day, or theater ticket, etc, something that you really enjoy).

[@remiclog]

Absolutely, same here! All I want is to spend as much time with my loved ones as possible ❤️

[@courtneywootton4641]

When I look for cleaning motivation, I turn to your channel because you're the most realistic cleaning motivation channel I've come across. So, thank you!

[@ruthan3370]

I hope that at least once in a while you're going to sit in that cozy little nook and have gratitude towards the person who created it for you (that is, you!)

[@pate2680]

Though I'm nearly old enough to be your granny, I am so inspired by your videos, your cleaning methods, and your positive attitude. There are so many similarities in our personalities, as well as in our personal struggles. Thank you for helping me to better understand myself.

[@debobable]

Me too! How refreshing to be inspired by a young woman like Remi! ❤

[@brianamullins9979]

Ahhhhhh!!! So excited for this video. Thanks for all the hard work Remi.

[@remiclog]

Thank you so much!!! I really hope you enjoy it! ☺️ x

[@YunuPolsen]

Yay! Remi posted🥳

[@brianamullins9979]

​@@remiclogthat before and after was amazing. Also, I love what you did with the cupboard. The fairy lights and the daily note in the middle of the pictures was perfect.

[@heathercoles3096]

I am trying to do a massive loft de-clutter, at a point in life where ‘stuff’ isn’t necessary anymore - wish me luck 😂

[@nelsonmiller-oe7co]

Your home is a rotating double shuffle. Your a borderline hoarder. Purge purge purge.

[@troupe1963]

You're an absolute beautiful soul and an absolute shining light in these times. Bless you lovely Lady xxx From a 61 year old woman in South Australia

[@caratpatch7131]

I think this is your best video ever! Your comments were so uplifting, you stuck to it and did a huge declutter, and you made a space for yourself that just cries out. "Remi"! Good for you! You inspire us.

[@remiclog]

Thank you so so much!! 🥰

[@YunuPolsen]

“Make a plan and keep plotting on.” So true Remi. One step at a time and we get there🤩

[@cathyprosser1050]

Thank you, Remi. There was so much in this video that I needed to hear, need to think about myself, and I didn't even realize it. You're an amazing young lady and it's a true blessing to have someone share some of the real life moments and anxieties. And I adore that little cupboard and how you made that space into something very special that can bring you a joy break. It's just lovely, as are you! Thanks again ❤

[@YunuPolsen]

I would just love to give Remi a huge hug. She is such a joy and so insightful.

[@Janne_Mai]

I also deal with health anxiety, have for years. It's currently under control. Here are some things that can help: - therapy! I know it's not affordable for everyone, but if you can get it, this is worth talking to someone about. - validating the feeling without validating the wrong thought. You probably already do that with your kids! If they're scared of the dark, you might say "I understand that, I used to get scared too! But I know now that everything is safe. Let's check together!" You can do the same thing for health anxiety. When I started saying to my brain "yeah, if we were having X condition, that *would* be bad, I agree. I checked though and it's all okay" it really helped me. It's like the fear doesn't have to be as loud if it knows I'm also paying attention. - sometimes I'd have anxious feelings first and then the thoughts would come after. In those situations, I'd cycle through illnesses. "Well if I don't have A, I might have B!". When that's happening, I need to calm my body down, not argue with my thoughts. So I try to figure out if something triggered this episode (and if so, remove the trigger) and then I do something calming like playing music, crafting or going for a walk. Think of your body like an overtired toddler that's just saying random things so it doesn't have to go to bed yet. It's saying one thing ("we need to see the doctor") but it needs another thing (rest, less exposure to triggers, more connection with people...). And you are a strong mom who can notice those warning signs and do what's actually right for your body, rather than what it thinks it needs. I know this is all related to health anxiety about myself because I don't have kids, but maybe these strategies will help you too ❤ mental health is emotional health, too, not just about what thoughts we think. You've got this!

[@user-zw1ll9jp4j]

Your channel is the only one I'm subscribed to. Your empathy and self knowledge is so very inspiring. I don't know what your degree is in or your job, but I hope it is in some sort of social service because you need to share your gifts. Thanks from a 64 year old in the USA.

[@anitaward2120]

Hi Remi. Love your channel. Personally I think you should be a motivational speaker. watching and listening to you is so enjoyable. Love from Canada 🇨🇦

[@coreenvolovski4470]

Remi, have you ever heard of a “WAR ROOM? It’s a space in your house dedicated to Gratitude, Reflection, Prayer etc…I converted a “junk” closet into a War Room to “Reflect, Pray, Dedicate and just Appreciate my life. Life is a series of small battles everyday, dedicating a space and moments of time helps not only to overcome obstacles but to experience joy. Love how you tackle your challenges!!❤️

[@chrisjust2855]

I relate to everything in all of your videos that I've watched. Thank you , its helped me enormously. 52 year old from UK😊

[@rebeccalavanture9741]

“We can’t advance in one area if we are stagnant in another.” Wise words Remi!!!

[@trevagordon422]

The bit at the end about living in gratitude and being present in the moment, really spoke to me. I’ve been really struggling with mental health a lot lately. Thank you so much for reminding me what’s important the cupboard looks amazing and you did a great job. I’m proud of you.

[@nancymallo4400]

I always watch all of your videos from beginning to end. Because you hold my interest and I love that you talk through them. You have some words of wisdom! Love that you made a little space just for you.

[@mandeliongardens]

When you’re talking about procrastination and anxiety, you are describing ME! Pushing through it, trying to get better bit by bit. ❤❤

[@marystrenke3050]

Yes!!! I have to rewatch this. Remind expressed it perfectly ❤ So much insight 😊

[@SueSniffles]

Hi Remi I am going through the same journey as you. I am trying to declutter and simplify my life. You are doing it in your 30's and I am in my 60's. You are inspiring me. You are a great mom and don't let anyone tell you different.

[@Lisa-yj2hd]

Oh Remi. Your last words about gratitude are beautiful, really beautiful. You're an amazing human ❤️ x

[@shirleyh9020]

I love that cupboard. Every day I tell myself, today I choose to be happy. Sometimes, it's not easy,but I'm getting there 😊

[@anjelg.5811]

Damn, I think Remi is healing a person like myself dealing w depression and anxiety and trauma.. I love her accent and what she talks about, it's hitting really hard and.. Just thank you Remi! 😊

[@d.k.s.4057]

I enjoyed this so much! The transformation of the cupboard was wonderful but the real treasure is you and what you have to say....-- Wanted to share with you that people who have had trauma (including extreme displacement like sudden location changes, people dying unexpectedly, stormy divorce, abuse and/or neglect) prior to age 20 often have free-floating anxiety about the stability of happy living (good partner, healthy children, reasonable financial security, etc.) as adults. The earlier the trauma- the younger the individual is when it happens- the more likely this is and the more severe it can be. There are so many people out there who experience this and don't know what is happening, especially if their current situation seems long-term and positive. They ask such things as 'Why do I worry NOW?'. This is due to a deep-seated fear of the changes that the person has already gone through which can teach that life in general is not safe or predictable. I don't know if this is a part of your life history but I felt strongly the need to share as it is part of mine. Helpful and specific counseling was instrumental in my changing to a more positive outlook and minimizing (not eliminating but it's better!) the anxiety which was all too prevalent in my emotional life. Please use if you want...-- You inspire me- thank you so much.🤩

[@cs.390]

Amazing use of space after a full declutter. When I was young girl we had a small cupboard in the kitchen mum never used , I remember she painted inside of it and set up a place where I would play with my Barbie dolls , furniture and lot . It brought back memories, I’ve done it now for my child she uses it for toy animals , Lego . Let the imagination run , your a great person it shows in your videos and your voice . Keep doing what your doing .

[@annw1395]

That sounds like heaven for a child!

[@nicolechew1029]

Remi, I can't believe someone else just verbalized what I feel all the time. That life is too good to be true, and it's only a matter of time before something bad happens. Thank you for making me feel like I'm not crazy and not alone.

[@samanthapayton-sayer1689]

You are an old soul in a young person. Your videos are calming and beautiful and wise. Thank you x

[@tonielia9050]

The moment I pressed play, I found your voice to be calming. However, half way through the video, I realized I hadn't heard a word you said. It wasn't until you began speaking about being grateful and appreciating the little things that I started to hear you. You see, for the first time in my life, I am renting an apartment I haven't seen before moving in. Not necessarily the smartest thing, but things happened so quickly and smoothly, I am convinced it is meant to be. I started to worry about the kitchen being too small, not enough closet space, the color of the rug, etc. Then I heard you. Then it sunk in. I am getting my own place that I can afford, in a beautiful neighborhood,where I can take my cat, and run around naked with my hair on fire if I so choose, without bothering anyone else. Thank you for reminding me that the little details aren't always the most important thing. Being grateful for a new beginning, and not sabotaging this new adventure, is what my mindset should be. And it will be. Thank you so much for the slap of gratitude that I needed. I am so glad I found you.

[@Paintspotsandpaper]

Hi Remi, this was so comforting, right at this moment. I, like yourself suffer with anxiety, although mine is a social anxiety, to do with going out alone or mixing with others. I also tend to want to do all or nothing, I don’t seem to have a happy medium and always feel that I should do more. I also find it very difficult to part with things just in case I’ll need them one day and never get round to using them. This is due to having so little as a child and never being accepted by other children because of how I looked etc. I’m now nearly 70, and still have these problems, however just to say that you make me feel so much better and think differently. I tackle many more jobs that used to terrify me and I’m so happy that there is such an awareness in the younger generation about mindfulness and anxiety, hopefully one day it won’t ruin any other lives. Sorry to ramble on, just trying to say thankyou for making me feel more normal and strong. Take care and keep up the good work 🥰🥰🥰

[@noreenjohnson6433]

Remi, I hope you know how much joy you bring to viewers. You are such a lovely young woman. I get so excited when you post new content. You keep it real. ❤️ Cheers from California!

[@mollivier7688]

I am 72 yrs of age, and since I was about 69, I started to leave messes wherever I go. Too much stuff, too much craft and art supplies, too much of keepsakes and mementos etc. I now live in a small apartment of only 800 sq. ft. and it is bulging at the seams! Your vids are so important to me and your understanding of yourself is awesome. I always learn and take away a word of wisdom from your vids. You are doing excellent, young lady, and I thank you so much for your inspiration. Luv to you and family, MO from Vancouver Island, BC Canada

[@bovanbussel]

Remi is very sweet and has a wonderful way of thinking about life and giving us a positive mindset. For more practical inspiration on how to declutter or start cleaning you can also watch Midwest Magic Cleaning, he is very different but great for practical ideas as well.

[@hildaba-wu1499]

Hello Mo, greetings from🇩🇪Germany to Canada🙋🏼‍♀️ You r living at a very beautiful place of the earth👍. I got a cousin over there & I m 72 as well! Wish u all the best & good luck with decluttering which means freeing yourself! Hilda

[@jeannewagner8133]

I just watched your kitchen clean up video and I watched this one next. I am in the US up in the middle of the night with my heart beating weirdly - it's a thing I have, tons of tests, no danger, but very annoying - and I feel like you are speaking words that are in my own mind. I think and feel so many of the same things about life and the philosophy of it all. I just cleaned my bedroom after not cleaning and tidying since the worldwide lockdown. It was a hot mess, let me tell you, but now I sleep better. and I am no longer afraid of anyone seeing it. It brings me satisfaction instead of dread. I have many other areas of my house that I need to do this with. Some boxes that I never unpacked after moving in 20 years ago. Definitely sentimental. I enjoy your videos so very much, especially your running dialog. I'm sorry you are having anxiety about your boys' health, and I hope this decluttering and tidying process can help calm your mind a bit. Bless you.

[@poodlegirl55]

I could cry for you when you opened the cupboard. You have changed, I don't think you can continue to be messy now that you know how wonderful spaces like this can be.

[@missymariebee]

The end of this video as you spoke about all the little and big things we tend to take for granted, but with some intention can remember to be grateful for.. so inspiring ✨️ what a wonderful way to start the day. Thank you!

[@dorothywatson4440]

WOW !!!! You are AMAZING. Thank you for this wonderful, wonderful video. You have such a wise head on your shoulders. I'll be 81 soon and you are teaching me things. Thank you for you, dear. Love, Dorothy.

[@kimberlylamitie2869]

You are wise beyond your years. I love to listen to you. At 57 I’m learning right along with you 😊. I love your gift to yourself.

[@michelem9277]

Loved today's video. When you talked about gratitude, you brought me to tears. Thank you for your kind heart and attitude.

[@christine1373]

I’ve tackled a few very full closets in my time and the easiest way to start is to take everything out first! You do need to decide how you want to use the space, then decide what you need or want, get rid of what you don’t, then organize it! I was always amazed at how much stuff could be in there! You are doing great!

[@remiclog]

That’s the perfect order to do it, I think!! Thank you so much 😊

[@danicacharles4221]

You are a lovely human ❤

[@coriel2597]

Thank you for making your life real for us. My life could not be more different from yours. I am a retired computer teacher who lives in New Mexico US. I have all day to clean and only my husband to see after. I have trained myself and him to tidy as we go! So messes rarely happen. But I still need to declutter and keep up with cleaning a house. Heavy sigh. I love how you love your family ❤❤ and how you still work and keep your house up! I watch your videos and learn a lot. Anyway, thank you. Today I cleaned out my utensil drawer in the kitchen. It was a disaster. Looks great now. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@kitchenworker446]

I love watching you do this kind of thing Remi. I have been decluttering since lockdown. I decided that I was not going to leave my kids the huge task of emptying a house of all my stuff after I'm gone. This is what happened to me. My parents were wonderful and definitely not haorders - but they did keep things for sentimental and 'just in case' reasons. It took me over a year to empty their home...mine should be much easier...

[@josephdaly2015]

Omg take a bow 🙇‍♀️ that is a beautiful space that you have. I love the cards you made. I try to be grateful every day. Covid made me realise how lucky we are to live out in countryside, have our house, food, heating, car, work, when so many others are in small apartments or worse homeless in a hotel room. Thanks for the reminder of all we do have. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍🙏💐

[@knotjusthooked]

Today, I was feeling some of the things you talked about in this video. I need to make an important phone call, and I'm struggling to get it done. I feel overwhelmed and crippling anxiety over it. I feel silly, but this has brought me to tears. I was diagnosed with treatment resistant depression years ago. To the point I had to quit my job or get fired. This was devastating to me! I was on disability for 5 years, but I'm back in the workforce to the best of my ability. I'm proud of that. I struggle every single day to make there, get myself out the door, but I'm winning that fight every time I do. So, yeah, I can relate to many, many things you talk about in these videos. So, thank you for the time and effort that you put into these videos. ❤ Hugs from Jen in Wisconsin,USA

[@ElliLew-pf4ub]

I am overjoyed to find your channel! I am a neurodivergent mama and constantly looking for things that will truly help, in the way that actually helps people with brains like us. Thanks be to God for your service to society in this sunshiny, gem of a channel. Your articulate realism not only feels like a breath of fresh air, but more like a relieving gust of pure oxygen! God bless you, Remi. You are diligent in beaming hope from your corner of the world out to all of us who need it most. I will report back on how finding your channel is changing my life, thank you, thank you, thank you!!!🩵🦋

[@leslierodgers6634]

What an ABSOLUTE TREAT that cupboard is now!! I cannot get enough of your transformations, encouragement, therapy sessions...your channel has changed how I look at my home AND my life! I want to send you my before and afters every time I clean a section of my mess and have you tell me how proud you are of me! 😂

[@cynthiabennett236]

My go to affirmations: "We're all just walking each other home". "Let whatever you do today be enough". "Things are not falling apart, just falling into place." I am 67. For the last decade I have known that our young people are coming to change our planet for the greatest good. Awesome job Remi!

[@deetee8100]

“We’re all just walking each other home.” I love that! Thank you for sharing it.

[@NenneSez]

I shall borrow the one about walking eachother home, if that's OK! Rather brilliant, isn't it? Thank you for your positivity around the younglings in our world, bless them.

[@katiemarsh4970]

One of the most empowering things I’ve gotten as cleaning advice is just the idea that making a mess isn’t bad…we make messes while doing a craft with our children, cooking a meal for your best friend, giving our pet a bath…those things are good, and the messes they make are good too…and then we clean them up so we can make new messes in the future ❤

[@teresadoyle1396]

A great job Remi, it looks very nice. It is so rewarding to read-do a space regardless of the size, I love it!

[@juliefrost308]

I adore your cupboard! I would climb in there with a book for a bit of "me time"!

[@rhondatemple-lf1bn]

This is so beautiful and awesome...I love it! You are such a grateful, good person! God bless you now and always!! ❤😊🎉🎉

[@LivingFREE307]

You and I are in the same "season"... Although I'm a 45 single mom to a 20 yr old daughter and a 12 year old son. Everything from the smells to romanticism in our daily lives. I wasnt always depressed and anxious and overwhelmed. I was a house cleaner. I love cleaning. But in the paat 4 years I've lost 4 very important people to me. Not to mention a son and a sister when I was 18. These days I deal with it all and listening to you and watching you has been so enjoyable. It's like I'm listening to a friend. Someone I can relate to on almost every level. Thank you so much!

[@FunkyVulture]

I had no motivation and was totally overwhelmed. But after this video I am loading the washing machine and getting the upstairs bathroom cleaned! Without you, it would have been impossible!❤❤❤❤

[@Some1sAuntie]

You just don’t know how therapeutic I find this or how it made me to feel to hear someone voice what I’ve been going through for the last 7-10 yrs. I appreciate you, the short videos, and the longer ones.🙏🏾

[@paigeforrest7209]

I’m a 26 year old mum to three young children who feels like I am going crazy everyday. Thank you for being real and making me feel more in place. I look forward to your videos every week ❤

[@sherrieray3360]

I like watching organizing videos, but I have never enjoyed listening to anyone as much as you. Your honesty and generosity are so impressive, you’re also very brave, you have reason to be proud of yourself.

[@novagardener2785]

Your are a very wise woman and I enjoy your videos so much! I struggle with trying to manage the amount of “stuff” in my life and it is so uplifting to watch you handle yours. I try to remember it is just stuff and holds no power over me if I don’t let it. You’ve given me the encouragement I needed to tackle a room that is out of control. Thank you!

[@deidrecraig1697]

I am so happy.... I've been checking back al most everyday looking for a new Remi... A Day without Remi is a day without sunshine. And imagine my great joy to find it was the Nightmare cabinet. Well done you.

[@Elwene2fr]

OMG YOU DID SO WELL WITH THIS CUPBOARD!!!! Congrats Remi! You rock

[@katebettesworth2638]

Great video hun. If you intend to sit in your mini-room to read, don't forget a couple of lovely soft cushions. And maybe a little blue tooth speaker for some gentle, soothing music. Enjoy your me-space Remi, you so deserve it. You are wise beyond your years, its a gift. 🙏🏼💚💚💚

[@user-gg1bf5xx6v]

Fellow chronic-procrastinating yeti here, popping by to cheer you on. You're an inspiration, not just for what you accomplish every day, but for being sincere, all-accepting and unapologetically yourself.

[@user-gg1bf5xx6v]

PS: wanted to expand on this a lot more, but if you're like me, the long paragraph would put me off

[@user-nd9uv7xg8z]

You really are an inspiring person. I am so glad you have a channel where like people can see there IS a light at the end of the tunnel. Keep up with your wonderful messages of hope

[@pattyhafer813]

You are a wise , intelligent, intuitive, and very loving human being ! Thank you for being " you " , and always thanking God for such special people as yourself on this planet ..😊

[@YunuPolsen]

Patty, thank you for expressing such lovely words regarding Remi. I am in full agreement! She is such a joy to listen to and I am so glad she is willing to share a little bit of herself with us. Greetings from California

[@NoShelfControl]

Omg, the end before and after shots are just so, so satisfying.

[@knittenpurl4274]

As a yarn addict, I spent way too much time admiring your knitted blanket at the end of the bed. :)

[@lorraineearle5967]

Fabulous job, Remi! Remi, your consciousness, self-awareness, and emotional and intellectual intelligence at your age is astounding. I really admire you! 🌞🇨🇦

[@tracycook7355]

Hi I’ve just found your channel. At 61 I totally understand where you’re coming from. I procrastinate day in and day out. I would love that dream space. It would be my prayer zone. Love it

[@denisecurtis7422]

You’re a very wise young woman. I’m so glad I found you.😊

[@Jessssssxo]

It looks stunning😍 Loved your thoughts at the end of the voiceover about gratitude! Brilliant video as always🫶🏻

[@margaritadiaz3779]

Thank you! What a great way to end my day(grandma from Puerto), and learn a lesson from the young people in this world. You are a blessing to your children ❤❤❤.

[@evelynmarie6880]

Reminds me of a saying when u were talking about gratitude. Gratitude turns what we have into enough.

[@remiclog]

Yes!! ☺️

[@zainabwaqas4922]

Remi, you are so genuine and such a lovely person to watch. I love how honest and real you are. Your words are helping so many people go through times which can be difficult to manage. Your words bring hope and light into our lives and I just want you to know what a lovely, relatable person you are. Thank you for making these videos and for brightening up our lives. ❤x

[@kirstyangus4155]

That's an incredible transformation. I want a cupboard just like that! It's been amazing getting to know you, Remi. I found your channel a year ago, when I was off work to care for my 15yr old daughter. She has autism, executive dysfunction, chronic pain and developed debilitating FND in 2023. You have taught me a lot about how she functions and given me hope for her future. Thank you.

[@ACarole]

❤ When you said that you like to stay inside in your PJs all the time and I couldn't agree more! I have been working from home for four years now, and I rarely leave the house. Every once in awhile, my husband will shake his keys at me and ask if I want to go for a ride in the truck like I'm a Labrador. 😂

[@lubabmohammad9164]

Remi this has got to be one of your best videos ❤ so full of love and heart. Thank you for your lovely words and always reminding me what truly matters ❤

[@NoShelfControl]

Listening to you talk is literally like therapy for me.

[@angid3953]

Wow! Look at what you accomplished! & created! Love how that little space is yours. Adorable. I love the fairy lights. Have a great week! You’re doing amazing work, the changes you’re making in your home and life will carry on through friends, family. Thank you for doing all of the things & showing us. 💖

[@KathleenCanada7]

Amazing transformation! I love the fairy lights and the books and the special little place for Onions ashes. Your gratitude for all we have echoes my own sentiments exactly. Bless you Remi. You are an inspiration , a lovely woman and wonderful mum ❤🇨🇦

[@chelseygallier1145]

I think this was your best video yet! You’re so right with everything you say. I just want to say that I love your videos and as an ADHD sufferer these really help! ❤

[@heather5610]

Really enjoyed this video. I'm trying my hardest to declutter and reorganise I don't have any kids but I enjoy your channel very much. I like your attitude and outlook and how real you are and your home is real and projects you do aren't always perfectly aesthetic and curated immaculately but they are big improvements and progress and it's so tempting to want everything done and perfect now it's a good reminder that anything better, any niche carved out, anything freshly wiped or with a little paint can be joyful and useful again. So thanks x

[@lw5836]

Remi, YOU are amazing! The “She Space “ is beautiful. Loved the video too. It doesn’t matter how long it takes to put a video together….. don’t stop putting them up!! 😉

[@Gosia-MG]

You are a beautiful human being. Keep shining your light. Loving your authenticity and vulnerability.