Transgender Teen Confronts Mom Who She Says Doesn’t Support Her

A transgender teen confronts her mom about what she calls her mom’s unsupportive behavior. And, hear some of the statements the teen says her mother has made about her.
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[@vampirevaleria]

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[@Kappa-o1g]

You should probably turn off comments for this, a lot of transphobia and stuff.

[@Kappa-o1g]

@Noon What’s funny

[@Kappa-o1g]

@Gabriel Hanson lmao ok, I’m trans, I just don’t want to see transphobia, it’s 2021 people should know not to asses by now

[@quonomonna8126]

polygraph the mom to see if she really loves her daughter

[@eshalaaa]

The mom kept referring to ariana as “he” then the mom started saying “she” suddenly edit: thanks for 1k

[@waterh6944]

@@08starheart actually you can when you take hormones it changes your chromosomes

[@08starheart]

@@waterh6944 I don't believe in altering

[@tired9551]

@@08starheart yes the genetics don't change. That's why she was biologically male but TRANSitioned to be her actual gender, female. So SHE is a woman 🥰 plz go study some biology honey being educated isn't that hard

[@waterh6944]

@@08starheart you are ignorant

[@Tom-fi7xt]

@@08starheart Genetics have nothing to do with pronouns

[@ethanewart1716]

I thought my mom was bad when I first came out. The worst that she would do is yell at me. She never put me down like this. It’s disgraceful

[@ink_absorber]

I’m sorry you had to go through that hopefully it gets better :/

[@ethanewart1716]

@@ink_absorber it’s much better now.

[@Sipsipsippinonlambtears]

@@ethanewart1716 How's your mom doing? Has she accepted it now? Or...?

[@ethanewart1716]

@@Sipsipsippinonlambtears Kind of...we don’t talk about it. But she does love me

[@tommyboy_t3a]

Think about it like this, back when your mom was a kid, they didn’t tolerate “coming out” meaning your mom was raised that way, with our generation we allow it more

[@Lollia_anne]

Some people just need to have a license to get a kid.

[@sammaelabaddon9993]

IKK right!!!

[@honigblumchen9848]

Ik i get hated on that BUT i actually understand why the mother was reacting like this. If its right or not, i dont want to judge. They were all raised on other philosophies. Many in her age are reacting this way when the children having an coming out. I will never do this to my future cildren because i was born in a another time. In a another century with other social views. I am bisexual since I was 12 years old and my father never accepted that. Im 22 now.

[@westelkhunts1974]

That’s what’s wrong with the human race! You don’t get a kid! A MAN and WOMAN make kids! Only way naturally!!!! You don’t just get a kid!

[@makhnovistgang5643]

Eh I agree and I’m trans but I’m pretty sure that would lead to eugenics I agree with the sentiment but pretty yikes

[@BeckBeckGo]

@@honigblumchen9848 so the philosophy she was raised on was one where your child isn't the most important thing in your life? Nah not gonna fly. My mom was a lot older when she had me and she's never in my life had a wrong word to say about trans people. Before she understood it, she simply said it wasn't her life or her business and I was to treat people the way I'd want to be treated if it were me. Now she does all she can to learn about it and understand it more so she can address the passel of morons out there who didn't even pass high school science but insist on bleating on about how the science of transgenderism is wrong. And we don't even have any transgendered people in our family. Nah, being an outdated Karen is no excuse for this.

[@downylithe]

Notice that the mom changes the pronouns she uses when she wants to look good - it's complete manipulation. Anybody able to lie like that is an absolute threat behind closed doors

[@Chan-md2hb]

Nah I think she did that accidentally since everyone else was referring to him as she. She's still a horrible mother tho and he's still an unfortunate son.

[@niks7921]

@@Chan-md2hb she its a she

[@blackgateboxingxuanmenquan6407]

You can’t be born in the wrong body. You CAN just put bad and distorted ideas in your head. And it’s easy to fix the latter. No surgery needed.

[@niks7921]

@@blackgateboxingxuanmenquan6407 you’re wrong x maybe use something called GOOGLE

[@ccshumshum8104]

rofl cant imagine making this out to be the moms fault

[@orchidmdg]

A loving mother wouldn't tell their child to kill themselves. A loving mother would educate herself about transgender people. ANd don't be afraid to ask their child questions about it. And how they are feeling and thinking about themselves. Trying to figure out who you are is hard. Not having support from parents makes it much harder.

[@AK-M-xm6jt]

True

[@mrchunk07]

@Nhật Đoàn bruh, why tif do u care lmao why u getting so mad and shouting false facts, go cry

[@pally3370]

@@alicemayumi PREECH KING/QUEEN/MONARCH IDK WHAT TO SAYYYYYY

[@GoneXX2]

@@dutchvanderlinde4965 he gay

[@whimsicalcolorcreep1746]

@@GoneXX2 and that's absolutely fine and also happens to be none of your business

[@allisonchristian5678]

I’m so glad she has a supportive friend there who clearly loves her and has her back. It makes a big difference when you have someone in your corner.

[@kurtsvensson4362]

He* Him* His*

[@_abby_g]

@@kurtsvensson4362 **she **her **her

[@kurtsvensson4362]

@@_abby_g I think you a bit confused. He is still a male. Wearing girls clothes and makeup doesn’t change that.

[@allisonchristian5678]

@@kurtsvensson4362 does the gender she chooses to go by really affect you that much? Live & let live.

[@kurtsvensson4362]

@@sementastic nah

[@carolinemikkelsen8516]

You don’t get to say “ we tell you all the time we love you” when in the next breath you degrade her test scores and talk about her killing herself. That’s your child, no matter what.

[@paddysgirl2098]

*his

[@mrchunk07]

@@paddysgirl2098 her* buddy I can do this all day

[@goldenone6626]

Hissssss

[@camotty]

@@goldenone6626 her*

[@ScarletCelestial263]

Her* her* her* way to many transphobic twits, who need to keep there mouths shut. Thank you.

[@VictorMatthieu]

"I won't use female pronouns!" *uses female pronouns See, lady? It's not difficult. You can do it. I believe in you.

[@MommaWolf1967]

Actually the pronouns are she/Her

[@conman9315]

God I'm so ashamed if my own generation

[@VictorMatthieu]

@@conman9315 ?

[@VictorMatthieu]

@@MommaWolf1967 ?

[@JENNATHEZOMBIEE]

@@conman9315 huh?

[@notthefather3919]

Honestly, I was shocked when I heard the mother had a husband....

[@nainikadighavkar1433]

Okay this comment is sooo underrated 😂

[@someonehere4344]

Why? She is a NORMAL mom.

[@dishasaini3981]

@@bayonettaslover *your* There fixed your comment. 😊😝

[@ejkk9513]

The mother and father are ex-military. I bet they both have short crops and are hardasses.

[@notthefather3919]

@@yng_lxx it has nothing to do with her views on trans people. So you played yourself. NEXT!

[@Shrxxmy]

I’m sorry... but the mother looks like a boy but... but wants to disregard her daughter? I- Sis what?

[@nvardmanasyan543]

OMG THE FIRST THING I NOTICED

[@tired9551]

@ExtraSwirl trans women are not just "feminine guys" they are women. likely, trans men are not "tomboys" they are men. Trans women, trans men, tomboys, feminine men, etc. everything is diff. don't mix it all up and if you really want to have a saying on this, go educate yourself first 🙏🏻 it's not that hard ✨

[@duhurensohn8416]

stfu the mother is right

[@Pro-mj5nr]

“I-“ “Sis what?” Your 100% 13 or 16 a woke kid You don’t love yourself is you change something so huge about yourself

[@tired9551]

@@Pro-mj5nr you got all that from 'sis what-' and 'i-' lmao you're probably an oldie and can't understand these simple fun slangs oh my god. Can't believe you got offended by gen z slangs, you're such a snowflake 😛

[@purpleplanet888]

At the end the mom literally manipulates her child again by saying i love you and you know that by doing that shes making her child get confused and its an endless cycle of not being sure whether the love is real. Its a very narcissistic trait of the mom she should stop it and face her own mistakes.

[@sasfishadventures9729]

Shes an abusive narcissist

[@CamSiv996]

And this is why transwomen/men having trouble with their life. It's their parents that are so narcissistic that they like to manipulate their kids' identity. Especially the gender identity.

[@CeltycSparrow]

To me, it sounds like she's saying "I love you....so long as it meets all of my conditions for you being worthy of my love. This mother's heart is made out of solid ice. HOW DARE SHE mock her daughter for cutting. HOW DARE SHE say these cruel, UNTRUE things to her child? Who tells their child "GO KILL YOURSELF....I am EMBARRASSED to be seen with you....I WON'T use female pronouns or see my child as the sexual identity she has chosen". Its like she's saying I love you with one hand, while the other is slapping and kicking her daughter as hard as she can. That is NOT love.

[@KingJackson11355]

How is that lady transphobic when she’s a full butch lesbian?

[@iasked147]

Yeah I got amber heard vibe from her

[@shinelkasingh4040]

I'm glad that the mother seems realistically grounded instead of being so overly motherly that she gives in to her sons delusions about himself.

[@clairebordeaux]

Yes, thank you!

[@ravenwoes]

That moms pissed because her daughter is way more beautiful than she could ever be. Jealousy is a sickness

[@insanity8253]

What goes through your mind? Like I’m very interested someone is this stupid

[@kan50805]

@@insanity8253 🤣🤣

[@worstdbdplayer7435]

Ummmm??? Daughter? More like son

[@ravenwoes]

@@worstdbdplayer7435 how creative

[@killlerkai18]

@@worstdbdplayer7435 she is a woman

[@awaefan9970]

The mother: *calls her daughter all these names* Me:Damn the disrespect is real😑

[@scarlz243]

@Todd scholefield it’s daughter

[@scarlz243]

@Todd scholefield how would it be daughter

[@scarlz243]

@Todd scholefield and I’m not deluding my self

[@mrchunk07]

@Todd scholefield ur a nonce for caring so much about what’s in people’s trousers Jesus Christ

[@JohnLennonsocks]

@Hazries45 female*

[@bobthet-rex2718]

She is beautiful, I hope she is out of this horrible situation with her family and is living a happy life as the woman she is.

[@shabala3438]

he*

[@imterrifiedofchickens909]

@@shabala3438 *she

[@ItsToXxy]

@@shabala3438 She, you tard.

[@kurtsvensson4362]

He*

[@theapotheosisTA]

@@kurtsvensson4362 she

[@finechian3966]

Also feel like mom herself was bullied possibly for dressing more masculine and she is reflecting onto her beautiful courageous daughter. Either way it’s unacceptable to deny your child love .

[@somebody-br2hm]

Still, no excuse to abusing your kid :/

[@sxlencx3347]

Son*

[@KingJackson11355]

How is that lady transphobic when she’s a full butch lesbian?

[@Niggleblade1986]

Its a boy

[@mineconcringetopia4000]

@@Niggleblade1986. You are the kind of person who would misgender a cis woman because she isn’t feminine

[@milindpotla1460]

That woman isn't a mother, she's just the biological parent. A true mother would never treat their child like her.

[@footballequalslife7452]

A true mother would just accept there son becoming a daughter?? Throughout history parents have wanted masculine sons that should just change now?

[@milindpotla1460]

@@footballequalslife7452 if you can't except your children for who they are then don't have children.

[@milindpotla1460]

@@footballequalslife7452 don't try to be smart. You can't control your child's sexuality or what gender they identify as. If they're not hurting anyone then it shouldn't matter.

[@problematicbitch8014]

Preach girl

[@josjos-x5s]

​@@footballequalslife7452 Masculinity is stupid and just an outdated term. Its stupid to think that a guy has to be super strong and what not, if they don't want to they don't have to, it isn't a problem. And also she isn't even a son anymore, she has publicly transitioned to the gender she identifys with most so why anyone would still try to tell her to be masculine is above stupid. And like a woman can be the traditional meaning of being masculine too if they wanted to it jsut doesn't matter

[@eggplantunleashed4740]

You can see the hurt in Arianna's eyes. The mother is absolutely shocking, with those statements, does she really think that her kid is going to change after all this?? Nope! I wish you the best of luck in the future, Arianna. You will become accepted by the communities in your area.

[@julianhermanubis6800]

There's no way to resolve this, except for her to move out once she turns 18, although the parents can't be forced to support her financially afterwards. The father won't budge an inch on this, and the mother's badly conflicted but disapproving basically. This is just impossible.

[@dc9067]

💖

[@mongomaddy]

that’s a man

[@khonshugodofthenightsky2159]

*He. That is a male with serious problems

[@AnastasiaBeaverhousn]

He🙄

[@brandocalrissian3294]

That's a guy. Why do you keep saying her?

[@iloveplasticbottles]

"I told her I won't be responsible if she does" She calls her kid with correct pronouns only when she's called out for being a shitty parent. This parent has a lot of growing up to do before they ever consider having another child.

[@blackgateboxingxuanmenquan6407]

This boy is surrounded by toxic females: cutters, enablers, and house-wrecking emo chicks. The only thing this mom did wrong was not intervening earlier and putting her foot down.

[@KristijanRisteski-zp7bx]

Another one???????? Because this one turned out hella right in the brain

[@baileyholland7843]

She is a cruel and callous human being. Her lack of respect for her daughter and her pronouns is appalling. As a parent your children should always feel loved and supported, especially by you.

[@Ikhlashasib10]

son you mean well of course you mother has the most love for you but she can there's so much she can take

[@nuttynutsnutstache]

@@Ikhlashasib10 That is untrue. There are many mother's who have been abusive to their children. Mother's aren't automatically good people. Also, its daughter, have some respect.

[@alexyordanov6250]

If your kid comes to you and tell you that is doing drugs that could kill it on the 5th dose ............ Are you gonna supported .

[@alexyordanov6250]

@@nuttynutsnutstache The mother is right . She is trying to be respectful ,she is trying to help him as much as possible . But she just can take it anymore . Her son aways comes with a new bullcrap and want respect for it . He is so old and yet he still lives with his parents and force them to ambrace his madness that mentally hurts him without him even realising . He wants respect , but he himself never gived respect to his parents himself . He doesn't do anything ,he just sits there and hope his parents would take care of him like a piadestal . And when they do there best and ask him for one thing , he just calls them evil and try to play the victum. And the worst part is that there are people stupid enough like you , to actually believe him .

[@iasked147]

@@Ikhlashasib10 abusive moms: am I a joke to you?

[@Jenna-in4br]

She is so mature for her age, I feel bad for her. She has probably been through so much trauma because of her awful mother

[@Jenna-in4br]

@@yng_lxx her* ❤️ Go away transphobe :)

[@Jenna-in4br]

@@yng_lxx 🙄

[@Jenna-in4br]

@@captainultraswagga ew a transphobe

[@Jenna-in4br]

@@captainultraswagga that makes zero sense and just makes you look more stupid lmao, at least try and look smart 😂

[@Mateus01234]

@@Jenna-in4br *Facts* mean nothing to people in this world. *HE* was born with an organ that requires a female to reproduce. *HIS* DNA would clearly define *HIM* as a *MALE*. Just because *HE* won't deal with it doesn't change the *FACT* that *HE's* a *MALE*.

[@bucket8703]

Maybe she's pissed 'cause her daughter is prettier than her

[@maryam4056]

My respect for you 📈📈📈📈📈

[@aero4089]

@Chad Gibbs the daughter, is a girl. She is transgender, not a boy.

[@aero4089]

@Chad Gibbs yes, but she, now identifies as a female, as we should treat her as one.

[@hsfox2792]

@@aero4089 YES. That's called respect.

[@Rodrigodrt]

Son. And he's more drag looking than lady like, but it's his decision and we must respect.

[@katana9937]

Nahhh I’m siding with the mother

[@chris42690]

exactly

[@KingJackson11355]

You mean that lesbian lady?

[@SodaP0Pv]

Don't you notice how the mother doesn't let the girl speak like any other parent ever, they think they are higher than their children to the point that they don't let their kids speak while in a argument. Its always hard for me to tell my story because people don't let me or someone speak.

[@sydneystyles9070]

Same

[@fizzy870]

I hate this. Whenever I argue with my parents and they won't let me speak or they begin shouting, I just leave at this point. No idea arguing if they won't let me tell my points.

[@Hm-dh1vu]

Sheepish luv , Damn cute profile girl ngl

[@SodaP0Pv]

@@Hm-dh1vu ty

[@adenwu7846]

*boy

[@bunited4408]

What a great mom,she deserves a medal.

[@rose-byte]

You clearly didn't have a good mom yourself.

[@daveyJ0nes]

I hate when parents like this say "You know I love you." NO THEY DON'T CUZ YOU DON'T ACT LIKE YOU LOVE THEM

[@PepsiMagt]

The mum loved her son since he was a babe. You can't expect her to pretend that her son is a girl.

[@mountain9310]

@@PepsiMagt her *daughter* is a girl but her mom can’t respect that cuz she’s transphobic by oppressing her *daughter*

[@PepsiMagt]

@@mountain9310 her boy is a man, who wishes he was a woman, something that he can never be.

[@mamaa344]

@@PepsiMagt thank you for explaining

[@brandocalrissian3294]

Her son doesn't act like he loves her either.

[@kristenharnish8773]

This poor child. As if society isn’t hard enough, it’s disgusting that home treatment is this bad. There is a wonderful community that will be so welcoming and I hope you find all the support you need.

[@BulkBogan1920]

Lol no

[@kristenharnish8773]

@@BulkBogan1920 people like you are the people we will keep fighting against. Sad that you were raised to be so ignorant. This is 2022, your shameful comments online don’t hurt anymore 😂 go find something better to do than shame a child. I can’t even imagine how bad of a parent you would be.

[@Iamnotyourregularside]

No one wants to have a son who wear a wig.. these kids needs treatment and not surgery

[@thesoftweirdo6082]

I love how she (the mom) tryed to be transphobic and call her a he, but than she forgets and started calling her a she.

[@theeggcracker]

transphobes are dumb lol

[@brandocalrissian3294]

How is it transphobic to call him a he? He's a man. He will never be a woman so what else should you call him? Also, transphobia doesn't exist.

[@Sky-wz9fw]

I love that the title says she 🙂 (ty for being accepting phil!)

[@yunique_vibez579]

No it’s he

[@Sky-wz9fw]

@@yunique_vibez579 No,it's talking about the Mtf girl in the video

[@yunique_vibez579]

@@Sky-wz9fw it’s a damn guy dumbas

[@Sky-wz9fw]

@@yunique_vibez579 No,it's not, it's a girl

[@yunique_vibez579]

@@Sky-wz9fw it’s a boy and always will be a boy

[@chrishunter1439]

I mean the mom isn't wrong...

[@chris42690]

facts

[@LibaneseGurl]

we are in a world where a Normal mother telling the truth is weird and she don't Deserve a child!!! thanks god i live in UAE

[@houseofthediamond8191]

Someone needs to tell the guy he's a boy.

[@brownie5560]

Exactly what I’m saying !!

[@-raincl0uds-622]

BUT SHE ISNT

[@-raincl0uds-622]

@MeMillionthDollar ? get a life bro

[@brownie5560]

@@-raincl0uds-622 you’re like 5 💀💀

[@-raincl0uds-622]

@@brownie5560 oh no im gonna cry and sob. anyway

[@corganosway5415]

You cant expect the mom just to adapt to this craziness...

[@echilcote4235]

I agree.

[@SenorAwesome117]

I aswell.

[@mctlp2323]

This isn't craziness

[@josjos-x5s]

There is nothing crazy about her daughter just being herself. Y'know whats crazy? How horrible this mother is to her daughter and the fact her daughter has to put up with this craziness... well craziness would be too nice, its out right horrific how horrible this mother is.

[@KingJackson11355]

Who the lesbian lady?

[@jordaanww]

I feel so bad for her. I can’t even imagine how hard it would be to have to live with someone who would say such hurtful things. Especially her own mum. I’m closeted trans ftm.

[@ghostman7817]

why are you calling them a her..? dude they're just some loser who wants attention. people like this should be taught a lesson.. they have it very nice in life, and treat it like its horrible. I think that their mom is pretty trash, but i WOULD never act like my life is trash. people have it a lot worse sometimes.. and in the first place... they're male and always will be.

[@Mateus01234]

*Facts* mean nothing to people in this world. *HE* was born with an organ that requires a female to reproduce. *HIS* DNA would clearly define *HIM* as a *MALE*. Just because *HE* won't deal with it doesn't change the *FACT* that *HE's* a *MALE*. Being rude towards other people is another story, tho.

[@jordaanww]

@@ghostman7817 I am calling her a her because those are her pronouns. And no, if she identifies as a female, she is a female. You should respect that too.

[@nash9637]

@@Mateus01234 Gender's not clear cut even scientifically. It's mainly just a bunch of traits overlapping and than being labelled as male or female. But that's names we gave it ourselves. For example, native tribes had two-spirits. It's more of a spectrum scientifically! Which is why it makes perfect sense that there's trans people.

[@shannondominguez9725]

@@ghostman7817 Wow with a name like this im not surprised by your comment it shows you have no respect for others who are different or the choices they make, a complete lack of compassion and your clearly showing the type of person you are.She’s not wanting “attention” but only to be accepted and supported by her family that’s honestly not too much to ask but the fact that her own mother is telling her to go die and she’s dumb,that she wouldn’t care if she died tomorrow is absolutely despicable and disgusting. By no means does she have to agree with her child’s choice but she absolutely has zero respect or love for her at all,normal parents don’t say such awful things to their kids. Maybe you should take a look at yourself in the mirror because you could learn a thing or two about acceptance and tolerance you’re entitled to your views of course but saying she’s just attention seeking or that she needs to stop complaining is ridiculous you don’t know what she’s had to go through it doesn’t seem like you’ve had anything difficult or challenging happen in your life.🙈🙄

[@robloxfan4271]

what sort of "mother" is this? my mum doesn't accept me for being trans but she would never do or come out with any of the things this woman has done and said to her poor daughter

[@urmomstoe6798]

SHE IS SO STRONG

[@stanvdh5133]

He*

[@annylovy7572]

@@stanvdh5133 she*

[@bent2]

He

[@cowboicoolchild8339]

@@bent2 She honey :)

[@cowboicoolchild8339]

@Todd scholefield she hun :)

[@evergreenedits8867]

I puked when i heard him.🤢🤮 Its a disaster what our generation has come too

[@-raincl0uds-622]

her

[@rebekahmcc23]

Wtf? I think you're the problem. She is beautiful and strong!

[@perchaos2453]

she seems lovely, and with taking HRT, her voice could become more feminine, its not nice to say things like that :-)

[@aiky12rsa89]

@@rebekahmcc23 Strong in the wrong way. Strong in disagreeing to reality yuh. Yk, idk care what kind of lives people live if it makes them happy, he's right for me it's disgusting, but they shouldn't really care. But if this trans piccholeto was raised elsewhere, he could've been a real someone. And I strongly disagree to "women can be men, men can be women",especially if you're not playing your supposed roles because putting a dress or being won't make you a woman. They'll always have their biological instincts no matter what. And more we'll have people supporting that madness, more we will all approach disaster.

[@aiky12rsa89]

Yeah, hope it won't get worse

[@optiTHOMAS]

Glad the friend is there to help out! She's seems like a great friend! 👍🏻

[@aphengkonyak5686]

After changing his gender now he is blaming his mama. This generation is so sick. I’m with the mama no matter what.

[@nicolelindsay4376]

I love her supportive friend who stands up for her. More people should be like that.

[@jmundi2002]

Him*

[@taleszeeofficial9138]

@@jmundi2002 bruh su damn.

[@optiTHOMAS]

Love the profile of Alex from totally spies! At least it looks like her! Love that show back in the day! Classic! 😁👌🏻

[@slobodanjevtovic7102]

This mom is awesome. I fully support her. Stay strong mom

[@nahhlolol]

jesus 😂 there’s no way people actually support this. obviously a man no matter what he wants to be. i would be embarrassed and def wouldn’t want him in my house 🤣🤣

[@corfukitty]

The only way to make money these days is to sell your body? Aren't fast food restaurants hiring anymore?

[@katiix]

I would love an update to see how she's doing, I hope she's in a better place with people that love her and support her.

[@HF1.0]

I think you meant to say “him/his”. That’s a biological man, regardless of how he feels.

[@haneiyu]

@@HF1.0 I love how you think you did something, LMAOOOO. Anyway, she's a girl. She/her. Science supports transgender people, so she is a woman. Regardless of how YOU feel.

[@Runeterra11]

​@@HF1.0 Gender identity forms in the brain. Is brain not biology? What is it then?

[@macjalac5845]

@@Runeterra11 Down there? Hormones?

[@khonshugodofthenightsky2159]

*He

[@mx.rodriguez5560]

SHE doesn’t even look like a boy. SHE looks like a natural girl.

[@deeznutz8320]

That jawline says something else

[@kan50805]

@@deeznutz8320 lmao 😂

[@problematicbitch8014]

Im not trying to be rude but you can tell

[@seekingthemiddleway4048]

Not really. Male jaw. Adam's apple.

[@shawtravis7384]

Haha - its a bloke in a dress!

[@bravoprojectrunwayfans]

This mom is completely insane. What did she get out of this???🙄

[@Niggleblade1986]

The boys insane

[@mindfuqq]

the moms insane for wanting her son to act like her son and not a pretty little princess he looks dumb and you all patronize him for it thinking its wonderful. if its such a great thing why do so many trans self delete?

[@KingJackson11355]

How is that lady transphobic when she’s a full butch lesbian??

[@wynterschmidt1459]

@@mindfuqq they commit suicide because of people like you who degrade them, they start to feel like they have no reason to live if they can’t just be themselves. Like just leave people alone and let them do what makes them happy, it literally doesn’t affect you at all. Life is stressful, there are much worse things to worry about that DO directly affect you.

[@Greatergood3]

@@Niggleblade1986 There's a big world out there where people might be different than you. I know it is hard to accept and you build this bubble around you where everyone outside of it is insane and who knows what other words you describe people with, but I suggest humbling oneself through exploration of the the world and understanding that if you have certain feelings, others might have those same feelings, except not exactly towards the same things or people as you. I know you think the world is only what is you think it is, but one minute into a brain like mine you might go back and cry from the poor judgments you have made through your worldview. It is what it is though, I would be a hypocrite if I didn't understand where your thoughts come from as well. The world will keep turning, I just hope you don't hurt people on the way through your life

[@spacemaze7779]

as a detransitioning 27yo trans MTF back to male,i dont see a mother who against her child choice i see a mother who is scared for the future of her baby living as a women i hope the family is good now.

[@OtakuKota]

I'm all for Trans, honestly I know the future we're headed for people can't even comprehend; what customizations we will be able to achieve, not just changing genders, but DNA modifications to cybernetics. Or, even transferring your consciousness to a hard drive. For someone, who knows it'll happen; it still boggles my mind. I accept LGBT, but I do notice people do make swift decisions as teens, especially if HRT it's not fully redouble. I also, know that de-transitionary individuals even get more outcasted from the lgbt community, that once accepted them. Yet, still frowned upon on the moral/playing god crowd. I hope your de-transition goes well, and you don't regret it after it's done. I honestly wish, I could talk to you and see maybe it is more of a culture thing, or a mental, of course many factors. Don't think we'll ever pin it down.

[@IAMASELENATOR92]

The mother asking the friend where she was... Um...IT'S NOT THE FRIEND'S JOB TO BE HER MOTHER.

[@dusermiginte4647]

HIS* mother... ita a guy..

[@amyashlyn9293]

She looks very sweet. She deserves better. Mother is controlling and abusive

[@HawkEditx007]

*he нене

[@amyashlyn9293]

@@HawkEditx007 *she

[@AnastasiaBeaverhousn]

He

[@amyashlyn9293]

@@AnastasiaBeaverhousn she

[@mercury1949]

I hate how the mother said it made her and her husband uncomfortable! it's not about you, i'm not hurting you or anyone i'm being myself why does that make you uncomfortable!

[@DomOfSin666]

You can't possibly know how those parents feel. It may be against our set of morals, but their kid being trans is more screwed up to them than we could imagine

[@xdtijnntssyu3314]

True

[@KingJackson11355]

How is she transphobic when she’s a full butch lesbian?

[@EmilyMarie87]

Oh so sparing parents from the intolerable embarrassment of having a trans kid is more important than making sure that trans kid is Happy and their body matches their soul so they don't kill themselves? Because parents still don't wanna take responsibility for their children and accept them no matter what without controlling their lives and their bodies

[@averysanders8865]

I hope the daughter can get out of that situation. Get away from her terrible mother and find people who will support her. People like this just...I have no words.

[@mr.herbert_the_pervert2197]

Wait, who's the guy then?

[@averysanders8865]

@@mr.herbert_the_pervert2197 well the mom was referring to her daughter as a boy, if that's what you mean.

[@mr.herbert_the_pervert2197]

@@averysanders8865 You saying there wasn't a guy???

[@averysanders8865]

@@mr.herbert_the_pervert2197 I'm not exactly sure what you mean

[@KingJackson11355]

How is that mother transphobic when she’s a full butch lesbian?

[@DisneyFan1]

Can we just appreciate now pretty the girl is?

[@ca4318]

That's a whole boy

[@DisneyFan1]

@@ca4318 There trans therefore you don't call them a boy.

[@ca4318]

@@DisneyFan1 basic biology says otherwise. His gonosomes are xy and that will never change. He has no fallopian tubes, ovaries etc like a real female. He can't ovulate, breastfeed etc like a real female. I don't care how he feels, facts don't care about feelings. If you feel like you are 9 ft tall and richer than Elon musk, does that make it true?

[@DisneyFan1]

@@ca4318 Idc about the basic knowledge, I care about pronouns and feelings because i'm not cold-hearted. Also if you didn't know something called lgbtq+ exists you should educate yourself on it.

[@ca4318]

@@DisneyFan1 answer my question. If you feel like you are 9 ft tall and richer than Elon musk, does that make it true? Yes or No.

[@MH-ro1lg]

My child also has a mental disease. He thinks the microwave is talking to him, and since im woke, I tell him the microwave is totally talking to him, and he should listen carefully to everything it tells him. I call it microwave affirming care. Im so virtuous.

[@taurushere6380]

Me when I have no idea what mental illness is

[@EternalEmpr3ss]

keep yourself safe

[@moonnuchamling9875]

Arianna is so gorgeous and her mannerism is exactly like bio born woman. Who is another girl as gorgeous like Arianna? She is beautiful inside out too.

[@teaieaves]

@CiaNeVilius69 there are plenty of women with deep voices, and square jaws. Looks have nothing to do with gender,

[@assjam3104]

@CiaNeVilius69 Who tf is Joe? Literally there is no one on that stage legally named Joe

[@blaraspberry6395]

@Shrödinger Kat we stan dr.phil for wearing makeup

[@moonnuchamling9875]

@CiaNeVilius69 Im sorry but why are you so transphobic? I mean our own children\grand children in the future can be any gender from gay, trans, bi,les, straight. We should try to accept and understand them. As they are also human being just like us but nature did injustice to them. They are not trying to be women\men by their choice, they were born with a heart\emotions\feelings of a female. So there is nothing wrong in it and its not their fault. Though I do understand you too. When we are born and raised in certain society we happen to be unknown to lgbtqia+ community. Other than straight\heterosexual no other gender exists and is considered as real\pure so, its hard to change our mindset. But I hope you soon will try and understand, have some empathy and accept them for who they are just like us. Blessings to you✝️💝💐

[@jackroberson6231]

This mom is in the right. She may have been rude about it but she is in the right and it is so sad that her son is so confused.

[@xedgelord75x65]

you really don’t know what you’re talking about, the daughter is not confused at all,

[@-raincl0uds-622]

you really need to educate yourself

[@anidamien]

people don't realize using someone's pronouns is suicide prevention. all we ask for is acceptance. and people can't even respect that.

[@malondo4233]

Lmao

[@aurxra8462]

@Noon it does when you respect the pronouns

[@contentdeleted4570]

I don't exactly support LGBTQ, neither does my mom. But we would NEVER act like this to someone. This mom is disgraceful

[@skellytheskeletos8490]

And people like you we respect

[@Lilaclightning12]

Yeah! Just treat humans like humans

[@josjos-x5s]

I mean you not supporting them doesn't help... all they are asking for is to be treated as equal humans than any straight, non-trans person

[@josjos-x5s]

@@Lilaclightning12 Thats what the LGBTQ are asking for so by not supporting them your not helping

[@dickjohnson5979]

I wouldn't support HIM if HE were my SON!

[@petersaysthings]

Living up to your username, huh?

[@darkpaw1522]

I think she’s just upset her “son” looks better as a woman than she does.

[@biggestdazzlah5322]

Lmaoooo after the friend brought up killing herself, the mom started saying “she” and “her”

[@Anteater92006]

@Todd scholefield its she. Did you even watch these videos or read the titles.

[@concept5631]

@Todd scholefield Wrong.

[@vea1sven162]

to all the parents out there dealing with this I SAY THIS BE THANKFULL YOUR KID ISNT GOING TO JAIL FOR MURDER OR DRUGS OR A TERRORIST OR WORSE sit back and accept them WE HAVE 1 LIFE ITS EVERYONES RIGHT TO FIND PEACE AND FIND WHAT MAKES THEM HAPPY

[@Frombc2thefuture]

What’s wrong with being a arab u got a problem

[@vea1sven162]

@@Frombc2thefuture nobody said anything about arabs do not msg me ever

[@JayTowers901]

@@vea1sven162 this even about transgender anymore. This is just a toxic relationship between parent and child. The mom cares but is rough, the daughter (son) doesn't listen, and gets distracted easily.

[@JayTowers901]

This is a double edged sword here

[@Blachexx]

@Beni neither is going to jail but ok.

[@ariebeston187]

Our children are a reflection of ourselves and the love we show them. This poor kid, I’ll be your mom.

[@avakinlifeuser6888]

🤤

[@avakinlifeuser6888]

🤤

[@avakinlifeuser6888]

🤤

[@avakinlifeuser6888]

🤤

[@avakinlifeuser6888]

🤤

[@freshprinceshaun]

You may not agree with your child lifestyle. However, damn! You dont have to degrade YOUR OWN CHILD!

[@jamie6506]

I was scared to look in the comments but you all are wonderful people, thank you for seeing people as people and not how they feel in their bodies

[@yazistired4402]

No I felt that. Another Dr. Phil video about a trans child lacking parental support and acceptance had comments FILLED with transphobia, it was blood boiling.

[@rafaelfactor120]

Be careful I saw some transphobia in the replies but yes it is heartwarming to see positive comments

[@Mike-sp6tt]

Same

[@PepsiMagt]

Transwomen are men

[@jamie6506]

@@PepsiMagt Ok sweetie

[@nate-ox5lw]

No offense but the audience always claps at the worst time in this show 🤣

[@mctlp2323]

Yes 😂

[@arjunamolligoda]

I am sorry... I am a parent... I will never allow this to happen in my household

[@samk.4158]

I can tell the mom is the fault of the families problems. She never takes in any criticism, she flips flips the conversation on others, and when she talks she obviously has a lack of empathy for the child. The moms the issue

[@shelby8281]

All I heard out of that mothers mouth was “We have said and done this for you, you (her supportive friend) have not been there through any of that you don’t get an opinion or say on how I degrade my child you haven’t been there” well that is a manipulative tactic if I ever did hear one. And just because her friend wasn’t there during those times doesn’t mean she doesn’t matter now! She is validating and supporting her friend now when her own parents won’t which says more about her as a parent and a person.

[@ninni7704]

These comments didn’t pass the vibe check. Don’t watch this if you don’t support it just stfu and leave. I hope Arianna is doing fine, her mom sucks. :(

[@canary4365]

that mom needs a different type of help. she’s ASKING to lose her daughter.

[@amandab60]

Are we forgetting that this kid was still in his mother's house? Abide by their rules or get out. Simple as that!

[@SlasherIncorporated]

That's not an excuse for a parent to treat their child with disrespect. I don't give a damn WHO's house it is. Simple as THAT.

[@ourfoundfamilysystem3908]

It doesn't matter how long this person has been in the picture because it doesn't take a scientist to see that you don't love your own daughter.

[@clairebordeaux]

It’s her son.

[@clairebordeaux]

@Truth And Justice It’s her son. It is IMPOSSIBLE for a male to “become” female & vice versa. It’s never happened in the history of human beings & it never will. Deal with it.

[@KingJackson11355]

How is that lady transphobic when she’s a full butch lesbian?

[@galvinstanley3235]

​@@clairebordeaux And the mom is abusive.She may not like it and that's okay,but to get mean is never something good.

[@brittpadgitt2970]

This mom should not have the title of mother! Absolutely shameful

[@KristijanRisteski-zp7bx]

Neither should the son have the title of a daughter

[@danigolightly799]

Damn. Just be a good mom and get your daughter a decent wig.

[@안녕하세요-k2w2x]

Why do you gotta do ariana like that iam sorry but I laughed😂

[@pizzamozzarella2786]

@Todd scholefield you are really pathetic aren't you

[@raincasthills5013]

@Todd scholefield Imagine being called Todd im sorry lmfaoooo your parent must hate you

[@matchboxgenie04]

💀💀

[@footballequalslife7452]

@@alicemayumi oh my God such hardship this mans mum refused to buy him a wig how can he cope

[@Atlastheyote222]

If you don't support your child in their life decisions then are you even a parent?

[@Lilaclightning12]

This is great

[@acheface]

I'm old(ish) the era I grew up in was very intolerant to homosexuality and transgenderism. I've adapted as time passed. I hope the young lady in this video gets everything they need and want in life. I hope her mum has also adapted and learned to love.

[@acheface]

@Opossum Teeth You be who you are in life. I'm sure you will be far happier than haters will ever be. :)

[@lejlahandzic4756]

you got brainwashed, sad asf

[@footballequalslife7452]

@Opossum Teeth but yeah its 2021 so your being a good person ☺

[@sisonoproprioio]

@@lejlahandzic4756 it's becoming a decent person.

[@mctlp2323]

@@lejlahandzic4756 you're being brain washed by your church

[@spacescorpion9116]

Even if you “disagree” with being trans it is really inappropriate for you guys to be calling her he in the comments especially after seeing what she’s going through you should have sympathy Instead of trying to tear her down

[@Lilaclightning12]

I like this person This is a good person

[@memillionthdollarbackfromt2432]

no

[@asavtripple6]

Why should you respect someone who doesn't respect themselves, why do you think is ok to be insecure, what happened to the phrase "be happy with who you are" never change who you are, what happened to that? But I'm suppose to respect that, if you told me a goat is a lion would I be happy? Ofcourse not your insulting my intelligence don't go around expecting people to think its right, or respect them because they don't deserve respect what part does it make him strong, you can't say he's strong mentaly cause that's a lie if he was strong mentally he would put up with being a man, oh and when someone's fat don't you say that you should be proud even though they don't like being fat? You people keep on contradicting yourself is sad 😩😩

[@dmf1301]

Well summarized, Space Scorpion. You can support someone even if you don't get it.

[@bearzdlc2172]

yeah this mans going through enough already give him a break

[@Moonsick.Morgan]

I wouldn't be able to keep my composure if I were either of the girls who were having to deal with that mother..

[@hahahahahaha9026]

Jesus, she shouldn't be a mother. What a disgrace.

[@melinuevaera]

& she continues to misgender her🙄

[@melinuevaera]

i love her friend for being there

[@aIabamaman]

misgender, you mean the correct gender he doesnt believe he actually is cause hes a bit fcked in the head?

[@riduls9137]

@@aIabamaman You're name is Alabama man, that says it all

[@jonathandevereaux298]

​@@riduls9137judging a book by its cover says a lot about you as well.

[@mjwieden1095]

she is a gorgeous woman who doesn’t need her mother!

[@KingJackson11355]

How is that lady transphobic when she is a lesbian??

[@primerointern2427]

He is a he regardless of how his mother acts. His mother should be kind given that he is confused and "feels" he is a woman when he is clearly a dude. His mother should simply state I am not participating in your delusion, I deal in science and facts you are a boy and we will help you

[@BulkBogan1920]

Thats a man

[@leahflops9425]

@@KingJackson11355 lesbians can be transphobic

[@lemonweirdo]

@@KingJackson11355 lesbians can be transphobic. Even trans people can be transphobic. Being LGBTQ+ in any way doesn’t mean you can’t be homophobic or transphobic.

[@lindsayosterhoff2459]

I wish I could take this poor young girl in. She deserves so much better. It is a parent's job to love, accept, and support a child unconditionally. UNCONDITIONALLY. This mother is failing her child so deeply. I hope this young lady finds a chosen family of people who love her for exactly who she is. I also hope that this "mother" finds karma one day. I hope that mom finds out just how painful her behavior truly is.

[@PepsiMagt]

@HeyThatsAlex658 and that ain't no daughter, its a crossdressing bloke

[@rogerdiagosantos7557]

I think you're one of disrespectful child to your own parents..

[@williamreilly9017]

He’s not a girl 🤦‍♂️

[@lindsayosterhoff2459]

@@williamreilly9017 The fields of psychology, neuroscience, and medicine would disagree with you. What makes your opinion better than their scientific evidence?

[@toriplayssg]

@@lindsayosterhoff2459 science and medicine would not say she is a girl, they would say she identifies with and as a girl. Scientifically you either have XX or XY chromosomes.

[@apocratos0174]

I feel so bad for The Mother for having a Child like that... no parent deserve that

[@aangsiwa6595]

she kinda sounds like Ellen degeneres

[@aangsiwa6595]

@Todd scholefield no she is a woman. I was talking about her mother

[@shelleyferguson5737]

@Todd scholefield *She

[@fennyfoxy3435]

@Todd scholefield bro they were talking about the mother.

[@skay9096]

Yesssss oh man yess lmao

[@goldenone6626]

Ones a he the mum a she

[@mikefromwa]

Is it just me, or does mom look very, very masculine? I swear to God I thought she was a guy at first.

[@DomOfSin666]

not as much as the "daughter"

[@zayajazz817]

@@DomOfSin666 I’m sorry but that’s not a “guy” either my guy. As a gay guy, I am a guy. This is a trans woman, so she’s a woman dude. Was she born male? Yes, but she’s still a woman.

[@DomOfSin666]

@@zayajazz817 "my guy" did you just assume my gender?

[@zayajazz817]

@@DomOfSin666 Yes I did 😂 What are your pronouns Dom?

[@cecealaniz7120]

She is so beautiful and precious 🥺❤️ I just wanna hug her and let her know she is loved and accepted ❤️

[@PepsiMagt]

He is a man, and he can't even accept himself.

[@xdtijnntssyu3314]

@@PepsiMagt she’s a woman

[@PepsiMagt]

@@xdtijnntssyu3314 He is objectively a man. If they send tissue samples to a 100 different labs, a hundred results would test male.

[@closed3319]

Yes the mother is loved, if you are referring to the transtrosity then no it is not accepted.

[@josephstalin5419]

He*

[@SHARPO17]

I’m against the mom being this cruel, but what I’m also against is to support his delusion.

[@kittylouvex]

I wonder how she’s doing now🥺

[@footballequalslife7452]

Hopefully found God

[@bravoprojectrunwayfans]

🧐 Couldn't find any update on her today. Dang. Hopefully she's doing well

[@footballequalslife7452]

@@bravoprojectrunwayfans ariana slaven on Twitter go have a look 😂😂

[@makennaharris2965]

@@footballequalslife7452 No that's not how it works.

[@footballequalslife7452]

@@makennaharris2965 well her mothers fears have come true and you all cheered her on

[@nicola_x]

Every child deserves a parent but not all parents deserve kids

[@mootubevideosample5201]

She was probably holding back tears and I feel really bad for her. I’m glad she has a supportive friend helping her.

[@Boo-boo.bear934]

he*

[@raygrasso1612]

You're right, I feel bad for the mom as well.

[@KingJackson11355]

How is she transphobic when she’s a full butch lesbian?

[@taleszeeofficial9138]

@@Boo-boo.bear934 can u shut up dude-

[@taleszeeofficial9138]

@@raygrasso1612 never that

[@starwarsluvr1133]

if you’re not gonna accept your child if they come out as gay or trans or anything of that sort, don’t have kids.

[@okbutatwhatcost9087]

Thank you!

[@michaelpflaumer2487]

Awe, the joys of narcassistic parents.... 50+ yrs old and I'm still dealing with the trauma and the results of my shitty parents...

[@jefrreyjeffery2192]

Never obey your parents

[@mr.herbert_the_pervert2197]

@@jefrreyjeffery2192 We can see you did tht lol.Pls stop.

[@conman9315]

As someone in this generation I am ashamed...

[@jamespostonii4689]

The mother is a flipping control freak!

[@footballequalslife7452]

shut up the mother is reacting how any sane human would throughout history but it's 2021 and we woke 🤦🤦🤦

[@footballequalslife7452]

@Mirroranother tranformer defender shaming the mother for wanting her son to stick with the gender he was born with as we have done throughout all of history

[@footballequalslife7452]

@Mirror go check this guys twitter and see how he turned out and then tell me the mother wasn't completely right

[@footballequalslife7452]

@Mirror I said check his personal Twitter account and see what he's doing with himself

[@footballequalslife7452]

@Mirror what do I need to research the mum was extremely concered for her sons future and what she predicted turned out to be true. Does nobody think how it feels for the parents? She invested so much in her child for him to end up selling himself online. But I guess that's fine that's why people dislike your community all logic and rationale goes out the window when you claim LGTB whatever

[@charlessanders1342]

No way for a parent to treat their own child regardless of this situation. I would support them any way I could if I had a child that was transgender.

[@IceCreamCarly3460]

PLEASE USE CORRECT PRONOUNS!!!!!

[@iveneverhadagoodusername8808]

@Todd scholefield my god why do y'all feel the need to be anoying

[@glenndanzigsmanycats2045]

@@iveneverhadagoodusername8808 cuz hes an edgelord

[@CopperheadAirsoft]

dont have to. its a he

[@IceCreamCarly3460]

Guys seriously its just about respect. Just respect other people and how they identify themselves. Just respect other people

[@glenndanzigsmanycats2045]

@@CopperheadAirsoft *she

[@cecevegan5934]

Some people should not be parents. 😢

[@Bloody-Butterfly]

The majority!

[@roguejester4986]

If any of my children go out as trans, non-binary, or anything of the LGBTQ+ it would never change my love for them. I would wish every ounce of happiness and give them firm love and attention. Like my family did when I came out.

[@-raincl0uds-622]

legend

[@re3171]

“Non binary”

[@roguejester4986]

@@re3171 People who consider themselves them/theys.

[@re3171]

@@roguejester4986 what I’m tryna say is supporting ur child for coming out as non binary ur just deluding them.

[@roguejester4986]

@@re3171 I would not be deluding them, I would be respecting them. Non-binary doesn't mean denial of their biological gender but believing that the label of gender is ridiculous in society.