as a transman who's is goth and likes dresses, corsets... I feel invalidaded by assholes who think gender is clothes. I felt less masculine for a long time and this video might help me be seen as a guy by other people :)
@Everettalla Жыл бұрын
Transmasc kids, listen up- I FEEL like a lot of us are at least familiar with Minecraft. If you’re confident enough, wear the kind of Minecraft shirts that a 12 year old boy would wear. Best decision ever.
@dejavous666.3 ай бұрын
anime shirts if your a weeb
@spikedflowerz8 күн бұрын
LMAOAOAO I DO THIS TOO
@lucymurphy3581 Жыл бұрын
trousers tip: they're quite expensive to buy new, but levi's ribcage straight leg jeans are great at hiding hips. they are marketed towards women, but the sizing goes by waist and inseam length
@bothandapparel Жыл бұрын
Or Both&'s jeans, which are made specifically for AFAB folks who want masc silhouette!
@gayratparker3 жыл бұрын
pants tip from me! for people who are the size of a literal child (like me
@bothandapparel Жыл бұрын
Or try out Both& jeans which are made specifically for transmasc folks body proportions!
@Fresh_Limeade Жыл бұрын
I’m non-binary trans. I dress masculine (or I try to). I call myself “trans” because it’s easier than EXPLAINING nonbinary 😒. My friends are like “dude you’re not nonbinary you’re a trans man” Which has made me feel invalid. I’m here to tell you, no matter how you present yourself, how YOU feel is how YOU feel and don’t let people tell you who YOU are. You ARE valid and YOU deserve recognition and respect. No matter who you are. Weather you’re a… Cis female presenting masculine Cis male presenting feminine Cis female presenting feminine Cis male presenting masculine Trans male presenting masculine Trans male presenting feminine Trans female presenting feminine Trans female presenting masculine Non-binary presenting feminine Non-binary presenting masculine Cis female presenting androgynous Cis male presenting androgynous Non-binary presenting androgynous Etc etc YOU ARE VALID AND DONT LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE. (Reply if you want me to add more genders and presentations!)
@whoissuns3t Жыл бұрын
AMEN‼‼‼ 🙏🙏
@Fresh_Limeade Жыл бұрын
@@whoissuns3t >:D
@Fresh_Limeade Жыл бұрын
@Somerandommf43 alright!
@Fresh_Limeade Жыл бұрын
@Somerandommf43 done!
@Fresh_Limeade7 ай бұрын
They were right... I am a trans man...
@Alex_Lakemoon Жыл бұрын
I'm a trans femboy, but I want to look more male-like in my face and my hair so that people don't see me as a girl
@wh3n-w1ll-1t-3nd. Жыл бұрын
SAMEEE idk if u already achieved this bc I’m like 9 months late but I saw a vid that said if u put ur arm on a table and like put ur hand in a fist and put ur jaw on the top of ur fist and open and close ur jaw while like putting pressure/force u get a masculine jawline- idk if it actually does anything but u could try :D
@Round2_Fight1 Жыл бұрын
I feel feminine in my head, and I love to dress masc. My hair is also REALLY short, which leads to many people thinking I'm a guy and I ADORE it. I love the way I look.
@advu_ Жыл бұрын
this reminded me i have like no clothes in the first place so now i have an excuse to go buy cool masc clothes. this is really helpful, especially because my monkey brain didn't realize you can put t shirts on top of a hoodie.. i forgot layering existed
@oladegteva1912 жыл бұрын
Me walking into my dads bedroom stealing all of his clothes be like Edit: they’re all like 8 sizes too big 😀
@Witchy_bab Жыл бұрын
Enby person here, will say regarding pants: if you are well endowed in the butt/thigh area and are trying to find pants that fit, size up in jeans and pants that are non stretchy. I will also say: khaki/cuffed joggers are such a gold mine if you want to help reduce the look of your thick legs😤👍🏻 great job with the vid pal
@F3mboym4scdvd3 Жыл бұрын
I'm gender fluid but I use he/they\ he/him a lot and this is rally helpful
@Canine_Fossils4 ай бұрын
Around 3 years later, I can confirm small-town America is still selling cheap stuff at thrift stores It's wonderful
@sillylittleman11999 ай бұрын
goodwill had the best masc and cozy clothes and its nice able to get so much since theyre cheaper
@pandapan57973 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH this was so helpful. Yesterday I went to the mall, it was my first time **actually** choosing my clothes (for christmas) and i didn't know what to do, so i just went home sad and empty handed. I found your channel thanks to the trans tips video and happened to come across the best transmasc clothing guide ever. Super helpful dude, ty!
@bothandapparel Жыл бұрын
It's for stories like this that we exist. So messed up to live in a world that has been literally designed along binary lines. It's so important for us to start designing for ourselves and getting more options out there so that these terrible mall experiences (I've had so many growing up) become a thing of the past.
@peterevans64803 жыл бұрын
I only have sisters but yeah I have "stolen" some of my dads clothes edit: I love that worm on a string shirt so much
@carter...apollo1472 жыл бұрын
The layering section was AMAZING!! I'm visiting a friend in two weeks where the weather is a lot colder than where I live, and I've been anxious because I don't have a masc winter coat yet. The hoodie and denim jacket combo is absolutely insane!! I look so handsome 🥺 thank you so much theo!!!
@bothandapparel Жыл бұрын
Layering is such a classic transmasc staple. Have you looked at any of Both&'s designs though? They're made to eliminate that need because the cotton is heavyweight so it holds structure and doesn't cling (and also the proportions are made specifically for AFAB masc presenting bodies)
@jasper_the_killjoy3 жыл бұрын
All of your videos are super helpful! Very underrated if you ask me. Thanks for taking the time to help a baby trans out
@TheosGhost3 жыл бұрын
thanks for taking the time to watch my video :)
@art-w-jay6 ай бұрын
I'm a transmasc highschooler, and I'm super grateful to not be super dysphoric about my body right now! But I really like watching these tip videos from you, Theo, because you never know!!! it might help :D
@theunboxer3964 Жыл бұрын
I have major chest dsyphoria. So this video definitely helps.
@bothandapparel Жыл бұрын
Hang in there! Have you found any things that are particularly helpful with chest dysphoria?
@AquaKeyBlade982 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, so I have two cismale cousins (whom I adore) who I know would GLADLY let me take some clothes, but I NEVER would have thought to even ask them! 😱 How could I forget I have at least a few people in my family who are in my corner? Thank you for the suggestion! Really helped open my eyes! 🖤🖤🖤
@bothandapparel Жыл бұрын
Family support is the absolute best!
@vitaliy18582 жыл бұрын
I'm late to this video but if your hips are making you uncomfortable I highly recommend cargo pants, I barely wear jeans anymore because of how much I love cargo pants lmao, they don't even have to be oversized, the cut usually hides your hips very well + it looks badass alright
@dogteeth74073 жыл бұрын
Hey I'm a trans masc punk. I really appreciate your tips! I was wondering where you got your pins that were on your denim jacket? I've tried to find some everywhere but I could only find any at hot topic in my local mall and even then I don't really like the photo copy look of a lot of them
@TheosGhost3 жыл бұрын
some of my pins are actually from hot topic, but a lot of them are actually from etsy/local small businesses
@Invalidcas2 ай бұрын
dysphoria + sensory issues is a bad. i have a hard time wearing multiple shirts, unless the one under is really small and the one over is really big, i can wear a jacket or hoodie over a t-shirt but thats about it- i also cant comfortably wear watches or rings- i hear a lot of guys talk about rings masculinizing your hands which would be AWESOME for me because i hate my hands- but i just cant do it- :(
@HaiBusker Жыл бұрын
I am a 14 year old transgender male. I am going shopping this weekend and trying to find tips on what to wear and what will fit me the best and things like that.
@IanMelchizadek2 ай бұрын
I am so thankful to have big feet! I got teased about the largeness of my feet all the time when I was little, but it's awesome now because I wear a regularly available men's shoe size and don't have to worry about hunting down adult styles in small sizes...Whew!
@pecopeco28153 жыл бұрын
hii!! i've just started watching your videos and as a transmasc nby i'm so satisfied with all your tips!! i look forward to seeing you more often on my recommended videos :]
@anonymouscommenter947811 ай бұрын
watching this and realising I've already subconciously been doing all this despite not knowing I was trans 🤡
@jakeb.64872 жыл бұрын
KIIIIING absolutely GOING OFF with that modelling 😭😭🔥 thank you so much for this video, man !!!
@Invalidcas2 ай бұрын
i have no problem with my hips, i actually really like my hips, what i dont love are my thighs- because i LOVE baggy pants, i love how they look on other people, and i have never found pangs baggy enough to not squeeze my thighs- I'm curvier and heavier, and my thighs are huge, im not super insecure about my weight, i just wish i knew how to find clothes for me...
@HaiBusker Жыл бұрын
I NEED YOU WORM SHIRT 😭😭😭
@_thezombiedinosaur_ Жыл бұрын
Hi I’m a trans guy and I’m 20 I new I was trans when I was 17 and came out when I was 18 but my father that I lived with is kinda a biggit and said I was ruining the country but I’m completely out now and I will subscribe for videos like this because I’m still learning what I can do to pass
@InigoMontoya-cg6bmАй бұрын
lol if you are only 18 and already ruining the country that's lowkey impressive like you're not even old enough to be president (this is a joke i know you're probably not actually ruining the country)
@tinklostboy Жыл бұрын
great tipps and also i love your rat 💚💚💚💚 doing their little thing in the background amazing
@zachfrommars80132 жыл бұрын
Idk if this is helpful to anyone, but if you're not out and you want to buy men's clothes or get hand me downs, saying that men's clothes are more comfortable and that's why you want them could help you. In general I find them to be that anyways since they're more loose fitting.
@InigoMontoya-cg6bmАй бұрын
You could also say that you like the bigger pockets, or for pants, that you don't want to spend time dealing with women's sizing.
@anmiya97133 жыл бұрын
Litterally was doing my thrift shopping while watching dis video. Bought a couple of hoodies and high heels to make tiktoks. Omg so much gender euphoria being a guy on heels! One of hoodie is green (men section) with little golden embroided words 'take care of yourself'
@idontexist75302 жыл бұрын
"it would always be in fashion bcs people will always hate themselves" lmao
@peterevans64803 жыл бұрын
i really like your vibe edit: thats a very weird thing to say but i didnt know how else to put it lmaooo
@teejskates Жыл бұрын
why is no one talking abt the rats their so cutteetetete
@808.5__2 жыл бұрын
rewatching this video bc I'm going to school next week
@iamleondion2 ай бұрын
wish i watched this before my cursed walmart haul 💀
@Mu1ch1r0.. Жыл бұрын
I may be a bit late.. but can you find ways to make long or medium hair looking masculine I can't cut mine and it just makes me uncomfortable
@AlexIsToAwkward2 жыл бұрын
Ty this helped a lot!! But like the one thing I'm struggling on is like shopping in irl. Honestly everytime I go shopping I wanna go in the men's section but I feel like I'll be stared at (bc I live in a place where trans people aren't really excepted as much as other places) and I just would like to know if you know some other places to go shopping at where there arnt separate section!!
@rivroyerr2 жыл бұрын
Today was my first day of school and I’m worried people think I’m a girl and I know another trans guy and he passes so well and my mom full on told me that if I dressed like him she would believe me that I’m trans
@duolingobird3641 Жыл бұрын
“Now that the depot girls have arrived” 🤣❤️
@rabbitdad3 жыл бұрын
honestly if you have any tips for working out without messing up your ribs that would be super helpful. i really want to get back in shape but sports bras make me v dysphoric haha
@nambid43682 жыл бұрын
transsss tapeee maybe
@muffinpie94832 жыл бұрын
@@nambid4368 I’m pretty sure using tape (even though it might be made to bind I’m pretty sure it’s still way more damaging than binders) there are a lot of things I found on Pinterest stretches for when wearing a binder. I’ll try to find a video for stretching with a binder
@jacksonns3332 жыл бұрын
try using a binder thats a size up from your normal size, that way you dont gotta wear a sports bra but also arent hurting yourself :)
@IanMelchizadek2 ай бұрын
@@muffinpie9483trans tape is totally different than ace bandages - it does not go all the way around/does not squeeze your ribs
@artsypigeon73413 жыл бұрын
dude your videos are so cool, i love your like 'vibe' ig? that sounds lame but whatever
@TheosGhost3 жыл бұрын
thankyou, i like to think i have a good vibe :)
@learnt2love2 ай бұрын
Sports related clothing is dope
@Invalidcas2 ай бұрын
what sucks is im bigger than my brotehrs, but much smaller than my stepdad- im a similar size as my transphobic dad but..... yknow-
@zoedun8513 жыл бұрын
I love ur channel
@augustr4wberry2 жыл бұрын
I just steal my dad's clothes to wear😂
@GothicPop9 ай бұрын
worse im stuck at 4' 11" >.>
@theunboxer3964 Жыл бұрын
Nice
@armypolice22502 жыл бұрын
Plus your male relatives clothing will anyway not fit you because a women's medium in clothes is a man's extra-small in clothing and most men are a medium and up in men's clothing
@IanMelchizadek2 ай бұрын
Not all trans guys are petite. I, for instance, wear a large in men's sizing.
@armypolice22502 жыл бұрын
O yes they will and it will be FUKING awkward when they go throw your stuff and find there clothing items in it
@Bones_but_cooler2 жыл бұрын
You share my name :D.
@munkey2042 жыл бұрын
doesnt work lmao
@sportstronics2 жыл бұрын
I identify as a cobra snake Monday through Friday then I'm a large mouth bass on the weekends. God is totally cool with it. My kids are confused as hell and will most likely grow up all messed up but I don't care I'm selfish..me me me
@ottoell36742 жыл бұрын
lol dod you know how being not cis is? buddy, thats not it. stop throwing hate if you dont even know what your talking about LMAO
@AlexIsToAwkward2 жыл бұрын
Bruh stfu, you thought u really ate 💀
@SkelitonWren2 жыл бұрын
Oh cool. What would your pronouns be?
@St4r.C4m7772 жыл бұрын
Atleast u know that ur selfish lmao
@dontreadthisplease2416 Жыл бұрын
Imagine thinking this comment makes a point.
@taylor69666 Жыл бұрын
straight fit pants a size up or two in dark colours- thank me later ;^)