Trevor Noah ON: For People Who FEEL LOST In Life, WATCH THIS To Find Yourself | Jay Shetty

Today, I am talking to Trevor Noah. Trevor is the most successful comedian in Africa and is the host of the Emmy and Peabody Award-winning “The Daily Show” on Comedy Central. Under Trevor, “The Daily Show with Trevor Noah” has broken free from the restraints of a 30-minute linear show, producing engaging social content, award-winning digital series, podcasts and more for its global audience. He has written, produced, and starred in 11 comedy specials, including his most recent, “Trevor Noah: Son of Patricia,” which launched in November 2018 on Netflix. He is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller “Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood” and its young readers adaptation “It’s Trevor Noah: Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood,” which also debuted as a New York Times bestseller.
Trevor opens the conversation by sharing what it was like growing up, how he sees the rest of the world, and why it felt like it was okay growing up the way he did. We then exchange thoughts and perspectives on topics such as finding the true meaning of having a ‘home’, the type of friends we often surround ourselves with and why, finding independence in a completely new and foreign place, and being mindful of yourself and in one with your inner thoughts.
What We Discuss:
00:00:00 Intro
00:02:18 Same story, same book but different meaning
00:05:33 Comparing your hardships to others experiences
00:09:27 “It was not bad because it happened to everyone.”
00:13:27 Are you forced to be grateful for everything?
00:19:13 The true definition of the word home
00:21:39 What is your purpose?
00:25:19 Who are your friends?
00:35:43 Becoming unrelatable to people
00:44:43 How does a monk fire someone?
00:46:48 What is your idea of safety?
00:52:30 When’s the best time to walk away?
00:56:37 Having conversations with yourself
01:03:37 When you leave home
01:09:25 The burden our parents unconsciously give us
01:17:54 The Many Sides to Us
01:24:03 Trevor on Final Five

[@iheartcandra]

I like to say “I’m not grateful for my suffering but I found meaning in it. And that meaning is what I’m grateful for “

[@charitymasango2649]

Baaaaaaaarrrrrssssssss 🔥

[@KennlitoeWanjiru]

This got to me too. It makes more sense.

[@crazyanimeloveable]

Beautiful! ❣️

[@lonewolf7704]

Damn, that is so well put.

[@mourineachieng76]

Well put

[@Meowx96]

"The only thing scarier than accepting who we are is accepting that we don't know who we will be when we let go of the things that have made us who we are today."

[@eye-ris8898]

Powerful

[@calinapopa6690]

This right here

[@shawnlivers2757]

Profound statement, thank you.

[@suzettewillams7487]

This right here is powerful

[@lmansur1000]

They talk about dying before dying - that is a total letting go and living life in liberation right here. We cannot control it, we just have to gently let go until the "Berlin" wall crumbles and then, I suspect, it will be a new experience of being.

[@j.r.bergstrom6230]

I'm nearly 70 years old. I just discovered these podcasts. It's work like this that gives me hope for the future. There are so many wonderful younger people, like you, doing amazing work. Thank you.

[@BeatheSommer]

I am 35 years old and I feel the same way!

[@didid7880]

I never realized that Trevor was such a cerebral person. This was a great interview!

[@DonovanAlexander-lj3gu]

You too

[@182sanroque]

I know Trevor is smart but boy this conversation gave me a new meaning of life and what's is all about (well almost) thank you both Jay and Trevor.

[@therealsWa]

Trevor Noah is a true Son of Africa. The depth of mindfulness. The spirituality. The empathy. The kindness. The humor. I miss my brothers and sisters of Africa.

[@Rin-jo2se]

I am yet to come across a person in my life where I could have a deep heart to heart conversation like this..people like them are so rare.

[@stacielivinthedream8510]

Wow, you should look for groups maybe on meet-up app. They're are lots of groups that you could join. There are hiking, spiritual, etc. Also there are addiction groups of all kinds to join. We need others who we feel comfortable with to share with.

[@sassycat6487]

I work in retail so I meet a lot of people and I've had a lot of deep conversations with people like this! If you are a people person and want to connect with others working in customer service can be very rewarding.

[@minah19845]

@@stacielivinthedream8510 me too, am looking for deep people

[@thesingerintheshower]

Exactly. This is the reason that I love Trevor Noah. It's also the reason that I love my best friend 💕. She is one of two people, next to my sister, with whom I can have conversations like this one.

[@madeline467]

❤ wow! I love Trevor Noah even more now! Not only is he gorgeous and funny he’s also extremely wise! Very inspirational.

[@fomorekontent83]

Trevor Noah is such a phenomenal human being. Not only is he a comedian but also a teacher and inspiration

[@Amish07]

only that he became too woke

[@brendakmorales]

@@Amish07 Seriously?! You know his background, right? His parents were not even allowed to live together in South Africa. He titled his memoir Born a Crime because of that. If anyone has the right to be "woke", it's Trevor Noah.

[@Jojos329]

@@Amish07 you are too misinformed

[@jkovert]

@@brendakmorales He's repugnant.

[@elsaelsa2213]

Yesss and he is cute too

[@lucasnkgabane7679]

Trevor is one smart guy, we need to hear him talk some more. The world needs this kind of content from him

[@calmbeauty2392]

Hopefully in the future...there shall be more. God bless his future family...❤🎉

[@clarelouise42]

I agree.

[@HarveySpecter2020]

@@clarelouise42 love you

[@cedricjones7470]

Say that!!🎉

[@holly_kalonji]

This is, by far, one of the BEST "brain-picking", thought-provoking & eye-opening interviews I've ever watched! Trevor's way of thinking is utterly mind-blowing & completely OUT OF THIS WORLD!👏🏾❤️

[@nnooan]

This is the magic that happens when two insightful, enlightened people converse! That there was a free counselling session for us listeners🙏🏼

[@chilufyangandwe8007]

I was looking for such a comment It is super profound

[@genevrajean1658]

Yes, exactly my thoughts! So beautiful

[@ratnapandjaitan6214]

Can’t agree more.

[@carlasamuels479]

👌🥰

[@FloraMBrown]

Absolutely! Powerful!

[@siyolisemakaka6013]

This is not an ordinary interview, it's a conversation between two intelligent men that are open to learn from each other.. This is Phenomenal ❣️.... Mad respect for you guys💟

[@tessydakwan6994]

Awesome

[@esperanzamedia2710]

So tremendous talks

[@shalondawilliamslynard]

I absolutely love this!

[@betielsoltani1179]

The deepest and most enriching conversation I have heard in a long time. Thank you gentlemen!

[@rixslade6032]

this racist is intelligent obama has brain washed you

[@keriannmeyers1171]

I have 4 sons. I'll consider myself a successful mother if they turn out with Trevor Noah's character traits. I want them to have his empathy, compassion, understanding, wisdom, and ability to see humor in life.

[@stinareed270]

We need more nurturing mothers for our sons. That's a great intention for your boys.

[@MV-xu8xv]

wonderful words.

[@SowingSeedsWithChristy]

Yes, it's our greatest wish as mothers, along with being able to create something valuable out of adversity. May your wish come true for all your sons. ❤❤❤❤

[@linawiers4715]

Smile! I understand! However, what Trevor has accomplished, came with a price. I grew up in the south, but in a different era than my mom and dad and I still will not want to go thru the challenges of growing up to accomplish his success. We as people sometimes want what someone else has, but if we knew their trials and sacrifices made to get it, we’ll say, “Oh no, forget it. I don’t want it!” If U are a believer in Christ Jesus, pray and ask God to give all 4 of your sons those characteristics traits; and to give to U as well, if U don’t have them; but a couple of those requests are taught and learned behaviors. If U haven’t purchased his book, “Born a Crime” please do. Best wishes to U and your sons! ⭕️

[@SowingSeedsWithChristy]

@@linawiers4715 Wise. We have to be careful what we ask for. We just might get it and in ways we didn't want. I know something of that. The hand of God is mighty. I will add that we do have to remember as parents to allow our children their own challenges and hurdles to overcome, whatever they may be. We mustn't think loving them means giving them everything we didn't get or sparing them hardships of various kinds. Just be there as a guide or to help them recover, hopefully, better for the lesson. And for those reading along, I'm not talking about standing back and letting extreme things happen to our children, lest anyone go there. We are, of course, to protect our children as best as we can and when necessary, but only when appropriate to the age and developmental ability of each child. Then the question comes, "How do we do this?" Perhaps like you, I learned the discernment needed for this kind of parenting by studying and practicing biblical principles.🙌🏽 I made no important decisions that impacted my son's life without prayer and consulting the Holy Spirit. Thank you for your inspiring comment. 🙏💞 Best!

[@jimpayne9545]

21:12 -- "My definition of home has always been where I feel I am living my purpose." 🤔💯

[@LucyDiamond31]

I like "Your friends in life are your horcruxes. We break ourselves into parts. Whenever we meet people, we give them a part of ourselves."

[@susanbyron6499]

Had to look up the HP word "horcruxes" and was quite surprised what it all includes...

[@methu6]

Felt this

[@bilqiswilliams]

My favorite part of the conversation, it literally summarizes this whole conversation and reiterates that he is truly mercurial

[@jnioursunshine836]

My favorite 💝

[@benmavinn1666]

What I realised is that as we evolve through time, we tend not to resonate with some parts we left in the hands of our friends. They know as differently as we know ourselves now.

[@PriyaTilkar]

I love how clearly he is able to think and explain his thoughts ❤️ Sometimes I really can't find words to explain what I am thinking.

[@em0_tion]

He's a true master of that skill. 🙏

[@DynaMic31]

@@em0_tion Exactly....man, same thoughts wllh

[@rixslade6032]

its easy i think he is full of shit

[@tamarabuxton2516]

Relatable 🤟🧡🇨🇦

[@Nyumba_girl.]

This is so powerful 💯

[@dwijenshah8193]

I loved what jay said about, “ The only place higher than heaven/spiritual world is the one where you living your purpose.”

[@ngalahansel6066]

I would rather say it's a place closer to,but not higher than heaven😊

[@ilsagita5257]

​@@ngalahansel6066there is no heaven life to the fullest here

[@stinger_chronicles]

When your two mentors seat at the same table, Its Amazing.

[@Kamulah]

There's just something about listening to Trevor. I could do it all day. And the way they bounce energies and ideas off of each other is so refreshing. I love this!

[@LauraMorland]

I totally agree. I could do it all day, too. (Unfortunately I have a life that interferes... ;-)

[@tomasandersongallagher5753]

This aging Vietnam Vet feels grateful that somehow I found this discussion with Trevor & Jay. It made me look deeper into myself, the good, bad and ugly and how I can become a better human being. A very challenging time over the last several years that has tested all of us. Feel more than ever that kindness, love, truly listening to others can break down the walls between completely diverse people on this small planet of ours.

[@denasharpe2393]

Maybe our generation had to grow old in order to grow up!!

[@sharonxia6694]

Well said

[@jakobbauz]

Beautiful comment, thanks man.

[@deborahjandle1207]

Beautifully stated

[@jenjen2744]

Thank you for your service- you're an inspiration!

[@taariqkhanoflegend4622]

I still remember when Trevor was a small time presenter on some South African kids program. His climb has been something out of the heavens.

[@dbossamarachi]

Absolutely

[@deniseyang9723]

What’s so special about this is you can tell they’re not trying to impress each other, they’re just sharing thoughts. This kind of interaction is so soothing yet so rare now

[@spiracrosslifecare]

I have watched many interviews but this one is on a different level all together...... Trevor and Jay are pure gems, how vulnerable you guys are on this episode is just phenomenal and will definitely help millions of people!!!!

[@roumelio]

I feel like this is something every other person who is watching the Joe Rogan podcast, and Jordan Peterson should actually watch instead. They're talking about vulnerability and healing in a healthy way, rather than a destructive way.

[@silviahoffmann158]

❤❤

[@ajdarc880]

@Enrich Media Kenya, hata mimi loved loved them

[@sukuloluhlen]

Two lessons I’ve learnt from this episode: 1) I need to reevaluate my safety net and determine whether certain parts of myself that I’m holding onto are actually holding me back. 2) In order to learn and understand others, it is necessary to let go of self. One word for this episode - wow.

[@conradmiller5735]

Totally agree. Unrelated - I love your name.

[@rixslade6032]

you got all that from this racist

[@jasminekyoko7179]

That comfort in chaos phenomenon Trevor talks about hit deeply for me...

[@MrCrumbie]

I did not want this conversation to end. Thank you for this.

[@halaali1721]

This was definitely 2 way interview for two whom I really admire 👌it felt two friends meeting each other

[@evstyle]

I agree. I thought the same thing. They are a great duo together.

[@sparliah]

I agree, it was a wonderful conversation and very inspiring. Thank you for sharing this conversation with us Jay

[@handlum]

Exactly right? I feel like they must become friends if they're not already.

[@teresiasyowai5156]

The mutual respect and admiration from both Jay and Trevor is amazing

[@ingebrauer2674]

What a feast for the mind, as well as the eyes

[@kcp44]

I agree

[@damionbiddy673]

Forgot for a second going into this video that Trevor is also an interviewer, and was reminded about halfway through 😂 I could listen to these two talk for hours

[@masseradumas]

It’s amazing, I can listen to Trevor Noah and Jay Shetty speak for hours. It’s the eloquence of their dialogues, the clarity of their answers that allows even for someone with different experience to find logic in their thoughts process. I found a bit of myself that can relate, through this podcast.

[@clarelouise42]

Do you know if more conversations between these two? If so please share, I would love to hear them.

[@claptongirl536]

Trevor is self-aware, insightful, mindful, and empathic. To move and grow in life, it's essential that you let go of some things, but it is scary; especially when it is something familiar. Learning how to ask thoughtful questions can result in conversations that go beneath the surface that can promote enlightenment (for the person asking and the person answering the question). Great interview!

[@tracysimon7972]

Very well put

[@hebelu959]

Trevor has such thoughtful perspectives, love that guy.

[@mutintamwiya4881]

What I appreciate the most about the fruit of this conversation is how at the end of it, you’re fueled with a deep desire to look into yourself and not to necessarily lean onto one’s view or outline of life and that’s super dope… we aren’t being influenced to see life a certain way, we’re being influenced to sit with ourselves and reconcile our experiences and journeys and challenged to grow ❤️

[@pamelaconstantine170]

So well said! You summed up exactly how I am feeling.

[@LumkaJwara]

Love this ❤

[@leilagoncalves2185]

❤❤❤ amazing ! I just found Jay ! This combination is amazing ! Out of this world !

[@TheRunpoker]

When i first Trevor’s standup I immediately knew that her is one of the wisest and brightest people alive. Now I understand that he is as insightful as he is brilliant❤

[@aaroncmumba8568]

Man! I love trevor's mind. The guy is a genius. I love how articulate he is. This is one of the best interviews I've ever seen.

[@naturallyfit4443]

What a blessing it is to be witnessing this conversation!!

[@maryboros-te8wn]

This conversation has helped me to remember who I am at my core. It also re-inspired me, to forgive myself. Thank you both.

[@sifisomabuza]

This is one the Best if not thee best talk show or podcast I've ever Watched, so chilled and profound conversation... Salute Jay Shetty + Trevor Noah 🔥👌💯

[@maymunahsydow6276]

He is from South Africa and we are so so proud of him! What a journey! In so many ways we are blessed!

[@vasmoodley7634]

Two brilliant men.lv them to bits🙏🙏🙏

[@juliemidgley5287]

This is by far, one of the greatest prodcasts that you have done Jay. Trevor, just WOW. An inspiration beyond words. I am absolutely blown away, by the depth of this conversation. Love each and every minute, shared between you both. FERTALISER....what a beautiful purpose.

[@moniquemichelle7295]

The safer belt keeping you safe but tapping you when it’s no longer needed is a perfect explanation of trauma. Just beautiful. Great conversation.

[@evamariealvarezdeltoro4962]

When Jay expressed his purpose in life, I felt it. I receive from his interviews exactly what he described on this interview and I never had an idea that it was his purpose. All of those perspectives help me amplify my view of things and even shape them for better. Jay is phenomenal and this interview is great because both of them have such beautiful and optimistic views of life that I love to soak it all in.❤️❤️

[@mutintamwiya4881]

Yes and he’s super intentional about it, it’s inspiring

[@VivashaGovinden]

Ive only seen Trevor doing comedy but today I resonate at another level. Especially as a someone who suffered from child trauma. Loved the fact that we do not need to be grateful for what happened but for the resilience. Thank you Trevor.

[@magalidacostaalves1948]

That’s it!

[@yoonahkang7384]

Often comedians understand humanity in a way we dont.

[@curiousgirl.4134]

I love that both Trevor and Jay were interviewing each other. The back and forth should be a lesson on how to seek understanding of others. 🤗

[@jeannaheflin2846]

It was truly eye opening to hear what "safe" meant to Trevor and to realize that safety and what it means to be safe is so different for each person. I am a teacher, so this was very necessary for me to hear and understand as it will allow me to further reach and teach my students understanding that their primary need (to be safe) means something different to each and every one of them. Thank you for being fertilizer in my life Trevor!

[@jennieshepherd5845]

I would love to hear what you have to say about integrating that into your classroom. If one child finds safety and therefore an ability to learn in chaos while their classmate finds it in solace, can you ever teach a successful lesson or are you doomed to create 2 of everything for the sake of necessary accomodation?

[@amberts180]

Their conversation had so many levels. We miss seeing you everyday, Trevor. Jay is more intellectual than I thought. It was an opportunity to see Trevor and Jay differently.

[@amberts180]

Jay, I have so much more respect for you. It’s good to see how people move in discomfort and get a better idea of who they really are and what they’re really about. I’m glad you posted this interview. 10/10 you shined.

[@ROCK_Music_Fan_BG]

These two are the real deal. Congrats on this amazing interview 💛

[@vanhoudtshoorn]

Agree 100%

[@Khoigeek]

"Friendship is a choice"- we forget that so often. Thank you for sharing Gents. Reflecting right now on so many things. 😍

[@benlake5903]

The audio book of Born a Crime is amazing because Trevor reads it so it’s like he is talking to you telling his story

[@AviMarie21]

Yes I listen to it twice

[@maameaba4701]

Now, I'm looking forward to listening to it!

[@bonniejmattson]

Trevor Noah is so talented and in so many ways. I love his contributions in this time. He’s positive, so funny, completely lovable and needed in our day! ❤

[@brendadossantos701]

I didn't know I could love this guy any more than I already did. What an amazing human.

[@Creashone]

and the hair. 100%

[@FloraMBrown]

I agree wholeheartedly.

[@rresonge1178]

He is a gift especially if u can listen n understand him

[@RimaZaybak1]

I feel the same

[@adrianas3951]

Felt the same way

[@thiagolive3]

“I try my best to eliminate GOOD or BAD”, that was powerful

[@Emma-7777]

Trevor is phenomenal I love the way he process the world & his reflectiveness, wow.

[@Iam_only_human]

As an African, I always relate to his stories, and feel attached. We have the same mindset and view of the world. I've always appreciated this man.

[@rame6652]

I start typing something but then nothing seems to justify how grateful I feel for Trevor and genuine people like him, so I end up with this 💜Thanks for existing! Beautiful conversation, thanks Jay, was really waiting for Trevor to be on your show. There are fans, and there are admirers but for me, Trevor feels like home/familiar. 💜

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

Well said!! Such a beautiful sentiment for such an inspiring conversation 🙏🏾.

[@Nordia16]

Yes! He does feel like home.

[@lynoresmith7118]

Mom was a single parent , 5 kids ,now being 67 yrs ,growing up on welfare ,playing street games ,no exams tree ,due each child given a gift ,an a cake on each birthday,an not realized we were undepriveliged ,been grateful for everything. Mom always had music playing even when we had chores.loving home ,spirituality was always on the agender .starting with Sunday school. Pleased to say were all doing ok ,Mom an dad have passed on .I personally I have great memories. xxxx

[@rame6652]

@@lynoresmith7118 Thank you for sharing your story 🤗💜

[@lwandomweetwa2908]

Trevor Noah the day walker seems ages ago now ☺️ Very deep and timely conversation here.Keep on

[@lynewandia8453]

That was great.. I learned that. I don't always have to glorify or be grateful of the pain but acknowledge the resilience that I got from it. 2. Never assume 3. Like a seatbelt it's the most important thing when it comes to your safety on the road or air but when it becomes dysfunctional you can get stuck.(apply it in your life) This conversation was so profound. I love ❤️ Trevor Noah. Learnt alot for sure

[@sarahlieberman2421]

Humility is honoring our soul

[@sarahlieberman2421]

@@TrevorNaohofficial blessings and robust laughter!

[@SinfulAeon]

Just wanted to chime in to their conversation about having to be not needing to be grateful for what happened. I think that its not about being grateful for the hard times. It's more about being grateful for the opportunity that it presents. Not saying that sexual abuse and violence are good things because they aren't. Life throws shit at us constantly and most of the times, the shit it throws at us is completely at random. Everyone subjectively goes through their own versions of pain and hardship. But it is important to remember that we aren't defined by the problems and traumas we have experienced in our lives. That is not us, that is not who we are, they are experiences and they are what life has decided to randomly throw at us. Instead I think we are defined by our ability to rise above these circumstances. The harder the circumstance, the greater the opportunity, because to be able to overcome those extremely difficult situations, requires an extreme amount of resilience and faith in ones self to be able to push through and heal from the trauma. So in that sense, it's more about feeling gratitude for the opportunity that each and every circumstance, difficulty or challenge presents to us because we all know that at the end of tunnel there is such a huge amount of potential for us to grow and eventually initiate ourselves into greatness.

[@marciahamilton2513]

It was an eye opener when Trevor said” how lonely comedians get after the show has ended”. We hold comedians and other artists in such high regards, that we sometimes don’t think about them as being lonely, ( call me naive if you must). It is so important to have close friends, that understands who you are, and you can totally be yourself with. This was a wonderful interview thank you for sharing ❤❤❤❤.

[@cal2780]

Stephen Fry spoke to this in an interview. The overwhelming emptiness after experiencing overwhelming adoration from an audience, going back alone, to an empty hotel room.

[@kelliyarbrough1111]

@@cal2780 yeah I've heard a few comedians talk about it. I've always been a really really really big fan of stand up comedy, like to the point that I would rather watch a stand up that I've seen a hundred times than watch anything else 😂😂😂 so of course I love to watch their interviews. Roy Wood Jr actually talked about being lonely after a live show in 2020 when a lot of the celebrities were doing the "ask me anything" highlight on IG? Roy Wood Jr decided he was going to ask the questions and post people's answers on his highlights and one of them was about being lonely after a show. I remember thinking about Robin Williams when I read Roy's highlight...

[@mimiboucher1182]

I never thought about that after the show let down. I just assumed they partied with a bunch of random people. I know alot of comedians have inner pain or a hard life they use humor to cope

[@yuvashreeharidoss7496]

I love that this is one of Jay's only two way conversation with a guest. This interview feels like a true collaboration

[@nicolewade160]

Yessss!!!!

[@AChorister]

I totally understand Trevor's ability to handle chaos better than calm.

[@ed70erjml]

For me until now the best interview. Love from Portugal

[@karenknowles1537]

I was a psychotherapist for 30 years and I can fully relate to being seen in only one dimension. A few times in those years a client wanted to be friends after their therapy ended. They could not handle or relate to 360° of me and likewise I could not connect with the whole of them. Where people may want/expect Trevor to be funny all the time, my clients thought I would be wise about everything all the time. Perception of people sets the path for the connection or lack of connection. The conversation between the two of you was enlightening and special. Thank you.

[@halcyonmanchew2079]

Wow , the Level of this intellectual discussion, the ease with which it is delivered and the language and clarity of their minds are beautiful and amazing

[@dreamingrightnow1174]

Aside from all that, it would be super narcissistic of you to become "friends" with a client, but it happens.

[@karenknowles1537]

@@dreamingrightnow1174 I disagree. I never suggested a friendship and carefully evaluated the client when they asked to be friends and an appropriate amount of time had elapsed after therapy ended.I have ex clients that became my long term friends.

[@wonderfullymade5191]

@@karenknowles1537 How would you handle what Trevor was talking about? Being on stage then nothing - he resorted to chocolate.. do you know what it’s called. I have the same situation.. doing great work in the community-daily-coming home to nothing - overeating. How do we overcome it?

[@karenknowles1537]

@@wonderfullymade5191 We tend to fill an emotional void with something. For some people it is drugs, sex, food, work and countless other things. Recognizing the void is the first step, talking about it out loud with others is the next step. The third step is to try something other than our chosen fix. It will most likely feel strange and unsatisfying in the beginning. But stay with and try several things until something clicks a bit. It takes about two weeks to form a new habit. Be patient with your self, the emotional void you feel is painful. 🌷

[@lorna197]

What a fantastic interview. I see Trevor as such a gracious, kind, open-hearted man. Jay, I see you as being just as kind and open-hearted. Beautiful to watch two open-hearted men share their souls. What has stuck with me from the podcast is much; however, Trevor shares how he views being grateful, and not being grateful for the traumatic event, but grateful for what was learned and how he grew from the experience. Wow, that is big. The term grateful and gratitude get used out of context often. I so enjoyed this special interview. Thank you.

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

I agree 💯!! This interview was so powerful that it brought tears to my eyes from such profound, honest, & thought provoking statements & ideas.

[@carlasamuels479]

👌

[@paula4086]

I have platonically loved Trevor for years and I'm so happy I will be able to see him perform in June. This is such an amazing interview, thank you Jay! Namaste

[@praptishukla6012]

Trevor Noah is my celebrity crush and I love listening to him talk about life❤ thank you Jay Shetty for this amazing conversation

[@MimiMosia19]

I have never felt more relatable to Trevor then I do now. This was such a good conversation between you two, opened a lot more avenues that I need to reflect on in my own life.

[@rosh3478]

The humility is striking, from both Jay and Trevor. That makes this a profound conversation. Thanks for sharing with us.

[@juleetarver268]

Trevor, you are an amazing Human. Thank you for your thoughtfulness!

[@ConsultancybyTS]

I used to be a fan to Trevor Noah as a comedian, but now I am amazed also by the other side of his personality as a person, this interview is on a very different level, thank you for sharing

[@maryjane2965]

Omg I didn't know you were going to have Trevor on.Trevor is always a blessing.No matter what he Talks about, I could listen to him ALL DAY!

[@mariabravo-ruiz1214]

I am grateful for genuine people who can publicly admit they are not grateful for their pain and suffering. 🙏🏼 How refreshing!

[@sophieakoth5771]

It was lovely especially the last part about bank balance.

[@claudiabrown6382]

Trying to find myself at 56 but you help me on this Sunday afternoon in year 2023 ..thanks for the great conversation ❤...in Jamaica cooking my Sunday dinner 😅❤

[@walterminja5817]

I'm grateful for this conversation for many reasons, partly because I have heard Trevor say " my child"... As an African I can't wait to see Trevor Noah Jr 😍🤠

[@mapaseka3941]

Lmao me too😂, when I heard that I was like oh he changed his mind now 😅

[@walterminja5817]

Sure!

[@msbeecee1]

It surprised me to hear that too !

[@jr33zy57]

Trevor Noah is so articulate man. Bro is so aware of himself and seems like such a rational person. I loved this video so much

[@fondationdr.hedenbertine182]

"Definition of home" is adapting to your environment and keeping a piece of your culture to share with people that you are spiritually connected with!

[@johnphakathi6369]

From this convo, "my vibe attracts my tribe"🤔☯️🙏🏼👍🏽

[@michellecd4722]

Most people can't receive love; so refreshing that Jay understands this. It can be challenging & even lonely being a deep thinker & I believe whenever we deep thinkers all scattered about the globe find another kindred spirit, even if they're on YT, TV, an author of a book, or whatever we'll feel that unspoken connection over the distance & airwaves even if it is in one direction, you know you're not alone. We truly are in a unified field.

[@dossube]

Man, I can watch these two brilliant minds converse for 10 hours straight. Love the fact you both asking each other questions and honoring the answers. This is fantastic and so therapeutic. Need to do it again very soon. ❤

[@beatrixczagany7245]

I feel the same way.I wish they have 2. Part and 3. Part The depth of this conversation was refreshing compered to other people podcast.Thank You Trevor & Jay

[@kjarchow]

Love your phrasing, "...honoring the answers" Many have mastered the question part and have yet to get to the listening. Bravo.

[@samyafawz3695]

I felt JOYFUL listening to these deep thoughts .. thank you 🙏🏼

[@lelialarosiliere742]

Jay is a genuine person who makes you feel at ease.

[@responsablehlongwane1031]

This interview is so healing . Why am I in tears. Thank you

[@alettakgare9154]

Very healing hey

[@matselisomosebi1269]

Trevor never fails to amaze. He is so gifted.

[@kerrybaral9241]

‘ I don’t need to live my life according to others standard- well said Trevor. Even so called Guru or philosophers found their truth; we need to find our truths and meaning

[@gugulamimasiza6964]

Not only is Trevor insightful but he's thought as well...in a world that lacks mindfulness, it was refreshing listening to him speak his mind.

[@tarahrousseau-sakho5154]

I loved that Trevor said he hopes to be fertilizer to enrich the soil. I must say both Trevor and Jay have provoked many thoughts by asking the questions they have and sharing their perspectives on topics. I am grateful for this. I personally took away alot of understanding from this interview about why I myself interact in the world the way I do and how I want to proceed.

[@maggyhanrahan]

It's so enrishiñg listening to people. Who have something real to talk about.🙏

[@maggyhanrahan]

Took it from this interview Jay and Trevor sound people.

[@erinh5191]

I loved listening to two men around my age connecting, talking, sharing, being introspective, listening, seeking to relate....I don’t see a lot of this in my personal world, and I really value it, it’s healing....to listen and feel...warm hearted, intelligent, humble, compassionate men. Loved this. Many warm wishes.

[@samyuktanair3239]

That was the most beautiful description of friendship I’ve ever heard ❤️❤️

[@jakkimassey904]

Trevor & Jay... What an incredible duo of articulate culture and wisom ❤

[@donnaperry6015]

I would love to hear Trevor talk more about how he manages his ADHD. I'm a therapist who made assumptions about people with that diagnosis. Not good ones. Trevor has changed my perspective. He could help so many to feel better about themselves. I would never have guessed he has that diagnosis.

[@nissan_skyline]

Me too! Because I have ADHD and its been incredibly challenging. Wish I hadn't been misdiagnosed for years and years whenever I attempted to seek help.

[@celestialnubian]

One's success in managing ADHD is greatly influenced by one's emotional maturity and mental development.

[@angiemosoaboli4622]

This felt more like a conversation than interview. I love it. Thank to both you Trevor and Jay🙇🏻🙇🏻

[@cedricjones7470]

This truly humbled my soul to share this conversation with the two of you.

[@ann3700]

Being comfortable in chaos totally relatable to my core...thanks Trevor for bringing this to discussion

[@JennyGaston]

This was such a great conversation about how to be open to our identity changing. I loved how Trevor stressed that we don't have to glorify our trauma but we can use the lessons to teach us and ground us❤.

[@mrandmrsbeauty]

Two incredible humans. ❤️ Both next level energy.

[@neftalemfikre8122]

I was really down these couple if days as I live in a country (Ethiopia) in a time of conflict & lawlessness and I feel unpowered.. because the macro issues have effected my views on humanity or lack of it. It's unusual but your frank discussion is really helping me slowly find my own way and addressing how I can go about it and this is an addition to the trauma I had growing up

[@kareni7973]

Sending love and prayers

[@quodraticequation7435]

This is one of the best conversations I’ve heard in a long time. I love how both were learning from each other. This really blessed me.

[@juanitabeason1644]

This was the most insightful and meaningful conversation I’ve heard all year. So glad I stumbled upon it!

[@sunsetglitter3886]

I feel exactly the same way,,,,,

[@kabzimpossible1566]

There's no way you can't feel moved or uplifted after that. Amazing conversation 🙏🏾

[@rusbastervaloyi5955]

I feel at home listening to this two gents, genuine conversation right there 🙌🏿

[@amberts180]

Trevor Noah is so centered. It’s extremely attractive. May God continue to bless you, Trevor.