I lost my daughter (age 31) . I think of her every day and try to live life as she would want me to, trying to keep her memory alive for her two sons. I also have a son battling cancer . I feel for Chacha losing his daughters. Peace to you chacha
@TRYBALS8 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss 😥
@jeanettelettegard65988 ай бұрын
😢❤🙏
@flyfamille56718 ай бұрын
so sorry for your loss, it's ok to say that you miss her, when the kid's do sweet things that are pretty much just like her you can say it feel like daughter is here. that how we keep those who are physically missing still presents in my family. you're still relearning how to breathe without her give yourself grace
@saturahman75108 ай бұрын
Thank you for your story. Please remember, you are not alone ! ❤
@marynorth79888 ай бұрын
I thank God I believe we shall meet our loved ones again.... My prayers are with all in your situation ... May God Bless you and your beautiful son and grandchildren ! I wish you strength and health for you to continue your battle ! WHAT an amazing wonderful mum and Gran you are .
@jackiea83948 ай бұрын
Beautiful sentiments and Abdul’s story about every night thinking of his daughter and one day meeting her in the afterlife, brought tears to my eyes. Bless him and all of you.
@TRYBALS8 ай бұрын
🥲
@thyra_UK7 ай бұрын
I lost my son 36 years ago when he was 5 months old, this song still makes me cry, I still celebrate his birthday every April 13th.
@rosemarywoolley83947 ай бұрын
I lost my daughter 3 years ago. Her birthday was April 13th. She was 45 years old and had only just started to be happy with her life. I feel blessed to have her for 45 years. I'm sorry you did not have more time with your son.
@TakenTook8 ай бұрын
01:02 -- He is praying that he and his deceased child will recognize each other in heaven, and asking that the Lord will let her know that her daddy is there now for her, and make sure they find each other, once he arrives there too. Before even hearing the song, he already knows exactly how it feels. Of course, he always is the member of the group who interprets the songs correctly before even hearing the translated lyrics, but this time he knows even before watching the video, because he has lived through it himself. 😢
@TRYBALS8 ай бұрын
Really amazing he shared something so related to the subject without even knowing the subject and it's lyrics.
@TakenTook8 ай бұрын
@@TRYBALS -- Perhaps he was inspired to mention that specific aspect -- hoping that she will be told "your father is here now" so they can find each other -- because the Lord is promising him that it will be done.
@SailorYuki8 ай бұрын
Eric Clapton has stated that he doesn't want to sing this song anymore. He wrote it to deal with the loss of his song, but all fans demand to hear it all the time. For him it is now torture. He's forced to relive the worst moment in his life over and over again. So, he said that he will not song it again and asks his fans to not request it.
@justkiddin847 ай бұрын
I can understand that. It’s a loss that never leaves.
@cathytice63706 ай бұрын
Then we respect his wishes.
@angelahawman42638 ай бұрын
These men know people. Their eloquence in empathy is heart-warming.💗 Thank you. From Yorkshire UK.
@Hugh_Morris8 ай бұрын
Where abarts in Yorkshire you from?
@SassysSpliff7 ай бұрын
@@Hugh_Morrissunny Wakefield yeah mush.😂
@SeebAbid8 ай бұрын
I'm a Pakistani living in Australia. Watching these beautiful men listen, empathise and express in such delicate, respectful and eloquent manner just warms my heart and makes me miss home even more. Such beautiful people we have. I hope we (all humans), like them, can learn to understand/know people. We're all the same, just separated by borders.
@chickadeeacres38647 ай бұрын
Imaginary borders too! Men made them up.
@christineburgess38267 ай бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree with your sentiments. I am a British white woman age 68, and as a human being could feel the understanding of how these men see and feel grief.
@juliafox79046 ай бұрын
❤yes🙏✨🌏🌎🌍
@SandraKindreich3 ай бұрын
I love these videos, and find a lot of what Abdul in particular says inspiring.❤
@lanadellhatestheclock33253 ай бұрын
❤
@StenyGaming7 ай бұрын
I have never lost a child but have lost 3 brothers, 4 friends and many fellow people because of war. PTSD has destroyed my brain. I can no longer work, eat, sleep or enjoy life. I feel lost. Thank you for sharing. I hope the best for you all. Love from the United States.
@SassysSpliff7 ай бұрын
As an ex junkie, 2weeks clean, life seems pointless, WE have to ALL deal with death n loss. it's the human condition. chin up and soldier on my man, good times are there, no god talk, just best wishes n respect..
@justkiddin847 ай бұрын
@@SassysSpliff So glad you have chosen this path, we need you here.🫂♥️
@justkiddin847 ай бұрын
It truly does f us up. I have some of this as well. Some days are okay, and then the brain goes fog mode. And I have huge blocks of missing memory. Partly my fault for drinking a bit too much when I was younger, but I was that way under 20. Just do your best. You are never alone in this, sadly.
@SICKYPOPP7 ай бұрын
i wish u all the best to heal and find peace in yourself.i lost a friend 26 years ago and i still think about him almost everyday. i have pictures of him right beside me here on the wall! RIP Chrissy
@thanoscube85737 ай бұрын
good luck to you all. I wish you long and great health and happiness
@TheHopperUK8 ай бұрын
Beautiful. To hear Abdul speak about having the same thoughts - will they know me when I get there? It touched my heart.
@TRYBALS8 ай бұрын
It's amazing he said that even before knowing anything about the artist or song that we were gonna listen to. People are same no matter the differences between them. We all feel somethings in the same way.
@TheHopperUK8 ай бұрын
@@TRYBALSYes, grief and hope are universal. human truths.
@snicky588 ай бұрын
I love Abdul so much. He has had so much grief and pain in his own life -- maybe that's why he is so sensitive. Not only in this episode, but in every one that I've seen. He has a gift for reading people and their true feelings. I could listen to him for hours. I would love to hear him tell stories from his life, and tell about how he gained the wisdom that he obviously has. I believe I heard him say on another episode that he is very ill. I hope he'll get better,
@michelleikoma29538 ай бұрын
I also lost my daughter when she was 23, just becoming herself as a young woman and about to become a nurse. It has been 8 years. I miss her every day , but the grief is just a part of me now. Songs like this bring it to the surface again. I cannot listen to this without tears in my eyes and a lump in my throat.
@Grizzlox7 ай бұрын
It's 2am and I found your comment. Just know I have shed tears for you and your daughter whom I do not know. 4 years ago, my mom left this world for Heaven, and I just know as beautiful as heaven is... it's even more beautiful now that my mom and your daughter are in it.
@thatgardeninggirl28647 ай бұрын
My Aunt buried both of her children She said something that made a lot of sense. Grief is love with nowhere to put it. I'm praying for you Mama.
@pam96907 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss. God bless.
@0Pinger7 ай бұрын
almost wish I hadn't watched this reaction but same for me. My mothers death in 2000 at end of March, brought it right back. In 2015 I had seen a few voluntary helpers, all hail Salvation Army, to talk over it as I still had the grief/guilt still after 15 years. Then today 8th april 2024 it surfaced again in full force. Once you grieve its should be more of a happy memory, but a song/film/TV show with same sentiments is a trigger for me, but the release from a good cry gives you are buffer to it not coming back for a while. So for anyone that has just lost someone, once you accept you need help, talk to someone. In my case I had tried psychiatric nurses and eventually 2 helpers from Salvation army gave me my best help. If you don't get help with one, try another professional or mental health volunteer, but talk to someone once you accept you Need help.
@jitaamesuluma97307 ай бұрын
These are very smart men, they could not even understand the words but they understood the pain, , I listen to all sorts of music, all languages, music talks to your soul
@lornemajor48068 ай бұрын
There's also a beauty in the song's simplicity. It is almost like a nursery rhyme. It is something that a 4 year old could appreciate.
@HarryNansen7 ай бұрын
10:17 - _"Yeah, it's an expression of pain"._ The old guy summed the entire thing up in one single sentence. Well done! 🙂
@richardfraser75237 ай бұрын
never underestimate the compassion of these men, they are more aware and understanding than most people in more modern countries,
@tomgnyc8 ай бұрын
Loving to see the shared humanity across the world. Love from the USA.
@whatthehaehl7 ай бұрын
I'm an American and I absolutely love this channel. Chacha Abdul (I hope I am referring to your Ustad in the correct respectful way, please correct me if I am wrong) has so much wisdom to share. I am sorry to hear he has lost a child. It truly shows that despite our cultural differences, we are all human and feel the same pain. ❤
@theresacavallaris22518 ай бұрын
Thank you for playing this i just lost my only grandson he was in a bad car wreck with his best friend they were on their way to go eat breakfast like they had done every Sunday it killed both of them instantly he was 17 and his best friend was 19 it happend 03-24-2024 his funeral is friday and this is the hardest thing i have done this song is one i picked to play ❤😢😢
@elizabethfarrar25158 ай бұрын
💔
@therealhousewifeofballtown7 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for the loss of your precious grandson . You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers ♥️
@bridgetteperry98025 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss ❤
@damian_smith8 ай бұрын
Peace to all of you, and extra love to Uncle Abdul for sharing his sorrow.
@cheryljackson56598 ай бұрын
Grief is universal - part of the human experience. Although there is a language barrier, these lovely people were able to zero in on Clapton’s facial expressions as well as the response of the interviewer, and articulate the beauty and pain of this song. Very nice reactions.
@MOS6508 ай бұрын
My niece lost her son last year at 15 years old, now when I hear this song its even more sad but I do love it.
@speccwolf8 ай бұрын
what can i say other than sorry
@MOS6508 ай бұрын
@@speccwolf Thanks , such a terrible pain.
@DMAC13018 ай бұрын
It is such a joy to witness men that know. There is no pretense, no lie, just knowing. So beautiful.
@juliecumming92437 ай бұрын
One of my favourite songs. I really felt sad for Abdul losing children. He is such a lovely man. I always enjoy his point of view. God bless. ❤
@julierussell43167 ай бұрын
Clapton one of the greats, we played this for my beautiful Daughter's passing... words fail the depths this song represents
@FionaEm8 ай бұрын
Watching these men's reactions to this beautiful song from the 90s reminds me that, no matter what your culture or language, human feelings of love and grief are universal ❤
@NB-oi4uc7 ай бұрын
It couldn't have been said more beautifully. These gentlemen are very, very far from my culture (Austria) and yet they reflect and express the same feelings that I have about this beautiful song, what great people !!!
@cathytice63707 ай бұрын
This is wonderful because it shows reaching, sharing. I will never stop feeling for Mister Clapton. I will now never stop appreciating these men, who understand. Thank you for this.
@DukePastrami6703 ай бұрын
I've watched several of the Tribal People videos and I have to say that the older man with the long white beard is a genius. He doesn't know the language but understands the meaning of the songs just by hearing the music, the vocal tones, and the facial expressions of the artists. Check out the 'Stairway to Heaven' and the 'Hotel California' videos.
@ofraggy84288 ай бұрын
i didn't get this song until my brother died, then my step-son died. now it makes me cry like a baby.
@SassysSpliff7 ай бұрын
God bless yaz.❤
@SerenityQueen668 ай бұрын
This song came out around the time my mother died and soon after my nephew died as well. I never hear this song without thinking of them even after 32 years. Brings me to tears every time. This video shows music is a universal language! Love your videos and your channel!
@evilpandakillabzonattkoccu48798 ай бұрын
Wow! It was so heartwarming and heartbreaking to hear one of the gentlemen express the same thoughts about losing his daughter before he even heard the song! At first, I thought "wow! That was an intuitive guess and was spot on!" .... it wasn't until a few moments later that it struck me: "of course he knows, intuitively, how this feels. He has suffered the same thing, many times. He has had those horrible thoughts and feelings... and probably a million more feelings and ideas that, so far, I'm blessed enough to be ignorant about. I haven't lost a child, so I can't know what feelings that experience would bring and what thoughts I'd have. Amazing to see! I am a musician and these videos inspire me to create music more than nearly anything else! Thank you all for your work!
@StarwaterCWS7 ай бұрын
My wife and I were blessed to know the answer to his pain. Our son died at the age of 2 years and 3 months from leukemia. Two nights after he passed away, we were sleepless and in pain, very late at night we were in bed and both heard music coming from the living room. We both got up and on top of a cabinet was a book of his, the kind of book that played music only when it was opened. The book was closed. We both felt our son’s presence at that moment and we knew he was telling us he was fine and not to be sad. We took that book and placed it in his coffin along with our family picture. That was in 1985. We knew then, just as we know now, that whatever struggles we go through in this life, we will all be reunited in heaven.
@kvbstudios3168 ай бұрын
Side note: I would contribute to sending the whole team to live concerts. The thought of them getting to experience some of these musicians live just makes me smile.
@DanTesta588 ай бұрын
Very nice insight gentleman. Love how you drill down deep on these classic songs and provide much food for thought. Outstanding.
@julien22318 ай бұрын
I have a almost 5 year old daughter now and this song still makes me cry and maybe even more now since it makes me think of her and what i would be without her...
@tommygreist95608 ай бұрын
I'm loosing my wife of a sickness😢 She doesn't want me to know but I do. She keeps away and doesn't conversate cause she knows I will be in such sorrow. I am so sorry this happen to you my love.
@SassysSpliff7 ай бұрын
Stay strong my brother..
@qwazse48 ай бұрын
Last night, my friend sang a song that he wrote in honor of his nephew who died tragically. He and his brother have been working through a lot of grief.
@shueevon8 ай бұрын
Music is truly the universal language. These gentlemen understood completely.
@juliadoherty837 ай бұрын
I remember that and now, as then, I wouldn't have traded places with Sue Lawley. I don't know how she remained so stoic. I lost my sister the same year (1991) and I was barely able to function so to be able to write and sing about he and his families loss is, to me, astonishing. I (still) send him my sincere condolences. It's a pain that never leaves, you simply have to find your way forward.
@JJMewett8 ай бұрын
I was SO hoping you would do Eric Clapton. His music is so beautiful and timeless, and changes so much- you must do his early music in the yardbirds, John Mayalls bluesbreakers, cream and layla too!
@KieronWray7 ай бұрын
love abdul aziz' attitude and compassion and understanding. great reactions ,thankyou for this
@rondaanderson75648 ай бұрын
I just love seeing how alike we all are we have way more things that are the same when you get deep down we are all just people peace and love all❤
@TheRokjok5 ай бұрын
Thank you for taking your time to make these videos. The tribal leaders express much wisdom. Thank you for sharing.
@onewiththefreaks36647 ай бұрын
So I already watched a couple of these gems. What really strikes me beyond believe is the amount of empathy these people have and are abel to share. As someone who has experienved his own empathy mroe as a burdon most of the times, this is an eye opener to me. Maybe, just maybe I'm just born into the wrong society. Which at least gives me some hope, that there are other communities, where there are wonderful people like these and this is the normal. Maybe one day I will belong.
@Wolfy395658 ай бұрын
this shows we are all human no matter what culture your from. deep down, we have feelings who desurve love❤
@BrianBogiaBricky8 ай бұрын
Crying is understandable from listening to this song. It is so good!!
@poempadgett46648 ай бұрын
I always get choked up watching that clip of EC, but did especially today listening to these gentlemen’s very empathetic and introspective responses.🥺
@alisonsomerville55658 ай бұрын
This channel is the best,it shows we are the same at heart wherever we live.The gentlemen are always spot on and give me hope for humanity.
@jeremy37708 ай бұрын
It never ceases to amaze me how perceptive chacha is.
@bartfrench62588 ай бұрын
Somehow, pain and Joy are universal. Maybe that is a part of our common fate
@StenyGaming7 ай бұрын
I think the people reviewing this have it right. The confusion of him not having a band is justified. It's his own grief. The grief is him not being able to save his son. He feels alone.
@jennifer57127 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. It shows that we may be different, but we all share the same feelings.
@sorryfortheinconvenience7 ай бұрын
I admire the humanity of these men. They are on the other part of the world yet we are all bound by the fragility and beauty that makes us all human. God bless them.
@rob39428 ай бұрын
You are all very beautiful people. Blessings and Love to you all
@Axiomatic758 ай бұрын
These videos with these beautiful people bring me joy, thank you for that! Greetings from Thailand.
@tessasnow8 ай бұрын
I lost my 17 year old son in 2002…it never gets easier. Peace to you brother 🖖🏻🇨🇦
@blacknosugarnocream8 ай бұрын
Emotional intelligence - these men have it. Wish more of us human beings did.
@Kane-ez7 ай бұрын
I lost 2 childre in a fire in 1997 you never are the same i now have a miracle 🙏 baby who is now 8 not a day goes by that goes by where i let him know how loved wanted and need ♥️
@TenCapQuesada8 ай бұрын
I am so pleased that the man introducing this had the sense not to use the "Rush" video. It would have totally spoilt it for them - and actually I hate it when reactors play it. To me, it is disrespectful of both Eric and Connor. That's just my opinion, of course, but there are so many other scenarios they could have used instead. I much prefer this one. Thanks to all these wonderful men.
@suedyett29887 ай бұрын
Bless him for sharing his pain. Music can be a bridge between cultures and healing.
@ColeenFogle2 ай бұрын
Abdul is so insightful. I appreciate his interpretation of words and how it relates to life experiences. I would like to take this opportunity to say I would like to have seen him in his younger years. He's a handsome man and dresses elegantly. All these men dress very well. Anyway these videos are great to see. Thanks!
@DawnHempel7 ай бұрын
Cry every time I hear this song. My grand daughter was 17 months and I chose this song for her funeral over 20 years ago. Cuts are deep and leave scar's
@Emily-gy2ef8 ай бұрын
I remember when this happened and the media publishing pictures of his son’s body! Such disrespect and once seen cannot be unseen! Makes me choke up hearing this song and think of a father’s grief.
@normahensley12757 ай бұрын
I live in Southern part of USA South Carolina where music called the Blues is loved❤ and the VIPs of the Blues(older people) say one cannot properly sing Blues until they have greatly suffered in a personal way. Eric Clapton, the man in video, was able to really sing Blues style after going through the loss of his son.
@vadersfather12488 ай бұрын
I’m a father of four and I cannot imagine the pain or grief and I don’t want to but his song always brings tears
@sageandcandle8 ай бұрын
The poor boy fell from a window the maid was cleaning. He couldn't perform the song for many years because it was too painful. I sang this at my uncles funeral. I cry every time. It is heartbreaking. ❤
@ChrisLovesThisGame8 ай бұрын
The set looks incredible! A wonderful job as always!
@qswitch22936 ай бұрын
I have 2 boys…23 and 21 and I love them dearly…I’m here for Abdul Aziz…what a wise man…I don’t know him but I already love him….he just has a gentle nature about him…like my own grandfather (1929-2007)…miss you Papaw.
@JemyEddine7 ай бұрын
You know what's special about Sir Abdul Aziz? It's his voice and the way he talks. When you hear him for the first time, his voice seems like that of an old Southern American man speaking. I don't know if anyone else has noticed this!!
@michaelwray10347 ай бұрын
I like this channel and these people very much.
@BabsisHere7 ай бұрын
The sixth anniversary of my daughter’s death was last week…I needed another good cry and this sure let it flow. (She was 27 when she passed…)
@Sarahminks758 ай бұрын
Americans cherish Clapton as much as The English and love this Song too. We hear the language you sounds very different to English,& and your beautiful clothes look very different to ours. However, the translation in the subtitles proves 100% we think about the world in much the same way. [It is only the extremists who do not] ❤❤❤❤ to see it. We love this beautiful song 😢
@TheCrazyNette8 ай бұрын
I am the seventh of eight children and in 1982, my youngest older brother died in a car accident. We keep him in our hearts and minds, by talking about him and reliving old memories. The pain of losing him will never leave, but it has softened into a lonesome longing.
@rowlinstoned37157 ай бұрын
I love seeing other cultures from around the world
@loriehabel4777 ай бұрын
I love these guys. They so get it😉
@realPromotememedia8 ай бұрын
We have more in common than separates us ❤😢🤝
@ErlCamat5 ай бұрын
This song by Eric Clapton still breaks my heart to this day. This was my father's favourite song, and he would try to practice singing and playing this song on his guitar. My father died almost 20 years ago, and every time I hear "Tears In Heaven," I think about him. And it makes it sadder to know that he is in heaven now and no longer with his family. But I know that he will know my name when I meet him in heaven someday.
@teresacartwright54067 ай бұрын
This song touches the heart of anyone who has lost someone dear to them - it's a beautiful song to arise from such a tragedy.
@medeology466025 күн бұрын
Abdul Aziz is such an incredibly discerning and wise person. The way he reads people, situations and music is fascinating.
@Morimegami8 ай бұрын
all these messers are so wonderful ❤ huge amount of love from Italy
@Snakewild967 ай бұрын
Once again I appreciate you listening ..experiencing …the pain n love in this song always touched me . .. sad when you bury your child..🙏🏻 if you can not feel this in your heart then you need to find your heart . .Thank you gentlemen 🙏🏻 peace be unto you..
@VolodyaVolodenka19818 ай бұрын
just two videos in, I love these guys
@ianraymondback8 ай бұрын
I remember when it happened it was so sad and he was such a beautiful little boy
@lipgloss202Ай бұрын
This is such a beautiful song and I am happy they got to share it and experience it.
@JenniferSteil287 ай бұрын
My husband lost his daughter at 21 days old…it took him over a decade to even speak her name again. My heart goes out to any parent who has suffered such a loss 😢
@slb7978 ай бұрын
I have been subscribed but I admit I haven’t really watched a video in a few months. Not even 20 seconds in and loving the increase in production quality though!
@TRYBALS8 ай бұрын
Welcome back!
@Linda-n5b2 күн бұрын
Thank ou for sharing what the beautiful man that explained everything . He does it so smart and kind and easy to understand . . He is a very good person . To show so much kindness .
@graysonhoward1562Ай бұрын
Good example of how we can take a song for granted. When it comes up on shuffle I usually press skip because I’ve heard it a million times. But watching this is a good reminder of how great a gift this song is.
@NB-oi4uc7 ай бұрын
deeply moved , about the wonderful beautiful and oh so sad song of the Great Eric Clapton and at the same time of the incredible wise, sensitive and openminded comments of the Tribal Gentlemen. it changes my view of life and people yet again , Thank You ! Thank You !! N.B./ V.
@67oldcoach8 ай бұрын
I love your show. Such wise and wonderful guests you have and I love the way you put it all together. ❤Australia
@unnaturalselection83308 ай бұрын
Life is one long succession of losses punctuating an existence of joy and perseverance. Without the beauty of the ocean, the mountains and the sunsets and sunrises... Without the love and acceptance of those we love... ...Life would be unbearable. And without the pain of defeat and loss, we wouldn't know how finite our time is and how much we should cherish it, as well as the people around us. Both give us the strength and inspiration to be the people we should be if we listen to our hearts and have a little faith
@TRYBALS8 ай бұрын
Really beautifully said ❤️🌹
@samanthacampbell3757 ай бұрын
This shows the power music has. It touches the heart no matter the language. This was beautiful Thank you for creating it and sharing.
@adilnadeemhussain9977Ай бұрын
This is one of my favourite song in my list of songs, glad you did this unimaginable reaction, meeting east to west.
@sinisabosanac8 ай бұрын
Dragi ljudi. S velikim veseljem gledam ove vaše videe. Tako ste puni humanosti i pokazujete da pjesme bez obzira na kojem se jeziku pjevale mogu doći do vaših srca.
@CrimsonDeathBed8 ай бұрын
This is one of those things that transcends culture and language and everything. Everyone here knows what grief is.
@darkangel_19787 ай бұрын
I remember when this song came out, I cried when I heard it. I still get a little emotional over it.
@dereklonewolf90117 ай бұрын
Tears are words the heart cannot speak. Thank you sirs 74+ 🍁hunter Yorkshire expat
@HeatherEvans-p1i4 ай бұрын
I’ve noticed some people think that showing emotion is inappropriate or it makes a person appear weak..I don’t believe that. Emotions are felt fora reason. It’s a cleanse. It strengthens you. And I see anyone cry I hurt and want to comfort
@shelleyeberhart24662 ай бұрын
Very insightful, sensitive comments from you gentlemen, as usual. Thanks for your sensitivity and wise comments, which we need more of in this troubled world.
@j1derli7 ай бұрын
These wise men hit the nail right on the head, great interview truly great!
@terryjestersr.67695 ай бұрын
My son is the same age as Connor would have been- same month and year, it always makes me sad when I hear this song, but grateful my son is still with me, ( he just became a father again yesterday, another daughter, his first daughter, lost her mother when she was 6-- she'll be 11 next month) love the family you have- enjoy every minute you can
@janicekrieger19223 ай бұрын
I still shed a tear when I hear this song, so tragic.