True Crime | Fear Thy In-Laws | Brittney Vaughn

[@bec7080]

For those women (and men) that are thinking about moving in with a significant other or getting married one of the most important things you can do is to talk about things like how you each handle finances. You also need to discuss how you expect family boundaries to work.

[@metalkissez3257]

Waaaayyy before you get married. And let me add get to know your spouse and how they interact with their parents.

[@nickj12]

@@metalkissez3257 I’m not close with my parents, but I’d make a good partner, so I hope my future husband would be okay with not seeing my side of the family. I do think it’s important to discuss family dynamics though. I need to know if he’s a momma’s boy, how much meddling he’d allow his parents to do, etc. Things like this, finances, religious beliefs, and all things related to children needs to be discussed before engagement.

[@levimichael1136]

I don't know but my advice would be to just skip the whole marriage thing.

[@__gemoftheeast]

Get that talk out the wah before you even start being serious. And trust, if they lie, you'll see it eventually. Being financially responsible/irresponsible aren't things you can easily hide from a person serious about keeping their finances in check. I dealt w/ 1 in my younger years. The last straw was when he casually asked if I could cover his rent since i could 😂. Yup, never again.

[@RightToFreedomGirl]

@Bec : r u crazy Sister? D I V E S T means LIFE. Relationship means děath

[@crystalandgray]

Calling them ghetto for that crown royal bag is HILARIOUS!!! 😂😂😂

[@museemtarot4121]

No bc why do I say the same thing when I see someone is with one 😂🤣😂🤣

[@dapurpl1]

I literally said the same thing! Not Ghetto bahahahahaha

[@GuarDeannAngel]

I'm not sure if Joe knew what his parents (or mom) were going to do, but I don't think he would have tried to stop them. I think Joe was a very passive person with no ambition, happy to work for and live off of his parents and be controlled by them. I don't think he personally cared about his son, either. Poor Alexandra ... if it seems to good to be true, it usually is. :( RIP Alexandra!

[@BrittneyVaughn]

I don’t think he would’ve tried to stop her either. Sad.

[@509wildflower]

Even his marriage to Alexandra seemed to be something he just went along with because it was his mom’s idea

[@blaquespan5316]

She should have followed her first mind and not married Joe!!!

[@Antisocial_Butterfly75]

I don’t understand how a mother can be so up in her kids business. As a mom I just want my kids to find someone to make them happy and share their lives with.

[@__gemoftheeast]

I am a mom now myself and I totally feel this way. I've seen it though with my mom. How spiteful some parents can be. She chose to stick by my dad who's helped her endure a miserable life from cheating, creating outside kids & treating her like a second class citizen. She'd try to get in my business to see where im headed in life in hopes i'd be like her. She's bitter & stays in her marriage due to pride & the "atleast i have a husband" mentality. She has hated seeing me thrive & Its disturbing. How are you mad that your child chooses to thrive in life so they won't be like you? She has enabled my old sibling to be dependent on her & controls his life, bank account included. Hes 35 but you wouldnt know it with how hes accepted being emasculated bu my mom. Some ppl are just miserable. I stay clear of both my parents.

[@Antisocial_Butterfly75]

@@__gemoftheeast That's sad for you and too bad for your mom. She is missing out on so much. My children are all adults and as long as my kids are happy then Im happy. As a mom I just want them to find someone to love them unconditionally and build a great life with. I also get to spend time with them and their SOs which means my family is growing and I love it. I also dont have to worry about them as much and I get to focus more on myself and my husband and our marriage. I'm sorry that's happened to you. Your mom's loss. I'm glad to hear youre breaking the cycle.

[@michellemueller7288]

I agree! I'm not all up in my kids business now and they're teenagers, I'm only in their business if they're doing something wrong. But my kids are responsible. ❤

[@katelynthomas5177]

I'm all up in my mamas business . Since I became an adult I expect her to calle every day and talk to me 🤣🤣🤣

[@mariahceline]

This story was crazy and super sad. I hope that lady never gets out, 25 years ain’t enough😢

[@MJ-onlyonejones]

That tea was probably vodka, why are we assuming the truth from that evil witch 😂

[@visnjica30]

No, I would say it was poppy. That's what they used to give to babies so they sleep while parents work at the fields.

[@SpiritBox01]

I believe Mama's Boy Joe definitely had to have known something. Especially considering how he reacted when the cops told him Alex had passed. On a side note: Bella is getting so big!! She's such a beautiful little girl

[@meagenantonucci7189]

Just crawled into bed after a rough day and queen Brittany comes through! Blessed.🥰

[@tiffplease3498]

The way I freaking hollered when you added the “very ghetto” when describing the gun being in the Crown Royal bag. 😂😂😂

[@WELCOMETOTHETEEPARTY]

I felt so attacked when you said it was very ghetto to have your gun in a crown royal bag. That’s exactly how I go to the gun range 😂😂😂

[@Cesiliejordan]

😂

[@WELCOMETOTHETEEPARTY]

@@Cesiliejordangirl you wouldn’t even believe me if I said I’ve searched Amazon for a case for it, but I’m too attached to my crown royal bag til this day 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@darianastockman8901]

There desperately needs to be a change in the laws about stalking. I’m so sick of coming across cases where people know they’re being stalked and go to the police and the police basically tell them well until this person hurts you we can’t do anything. Like imagine just having to wait until this person decides to physically do something to you possibly even kill you to then have the police help it’s maddening and it needs to change. Anyways thank you Brittney for another great video I’m a recent sub and I have been binging your channel for months now I enjoy your content so much!!

[@briaweea02]

I say this all of the time! The fact that someone won't be helped UNTIL they are harmed rather than preventing it will always enrage me. Someone close to me almost lost their life because of a stalker in the 90s and here we are now with the same lack of assistance. It's horrific

[@509wildflower]

This feels very true with domestic violence cases as well!

[@sabias3932]

so police didn't run the license plate of her stalker until after she was killed? sounds about right!

[@Alexandra2pointo]

That about makes me sick to my stomach 😢

[@taylornakia4795]

The family should’ve sued the police department for negligence.

[@michellemueller7288]

Yup. Don't you know she was making it all up. 🤦‍♀️ That shit pisses me off.

[@Crafty_Susie]

That was pure guilt to not try to keep his son, and for that baby to grow up learning that his own grandmother took his mother's life.

[@kokuhakuqiun4215]

This case sounded familiar to me for a reason

[@monikaalee9083]

“ now she’s gotta write child support into his budget” lmfao 😂

[@d_raymags5561]

Joe definitely knew, I had horrible in-laws too, very controlling and they thought they could "share" everything, so my father in law sa me, when he was taken to court the whole family knew what he had done, but openly denied it and tried to blacken my name. He ended up pleading guilty. God rest that poor girl and I hope Brandon has a brilliant life despite what his father's family did to him ❤

[@Boing2699]

I’m so sorry that happened you hon )): I am *very* glad that he plead guilty- I imagine that saved you so much stress and heartache. And hopefully gave his whole family a wake up call, although I imagine at least his wife probably didn’t care. I hope you’re in a much safer and better place now.

[@d_raymags5561]

@@Boing2699 thank you, that means alot 🥰 I've found more kindness from strangers since ❤

[@skreemqueen7520]

Excellent work , Brittney , as always. I wonder why the police had not followed up on the license plate BEFORE the murder. Sad to think this could have been prevented. My sympathy to Alexandria ‘s loved ones. May she rest in peace.

[@RightToFreedomGirl]

Skreem : even if cop ran lic plate unless he has a warrant or has committed a crime, POLICE HANDS r tied

[@CaitlynMonei]

“In a crown royal bag, so ghetto” -my exact thoughts 😂 Joe def knew, his mom was that involved in his life and all of a sudden she stops telling him stuff?? Nah. And Alexandra’s mom shoulda sued the police department too for not helping

[@sherrygloeckner8718]

Girl I literally finished watching ALL your videos this afternoon and was so damn sad that I was out of Brittney! 😭 And here you are again to make my day 🎉 I love your videos, like legit love them! All of itttt 💓

[@BrittneyVaughn]

I appreciate you!!🥰

[@crazysaturdays9724]

Same 😄

[@laurendanielle8720]

It happens to all of us lol

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

I be getting them Brittney withdrawals too😂 I’m glad she’s gotten he head right and is now Mother B is feeding us good!?

[@rmas1088]

This one is trippy, with how close Joe was with his mom, I do believe that there was a hint of what his mom would do but he would never stand against her - her way or the highway type of thing; and as far as Alexandra she knew something was wrong but nothing could be done at that time.....Just screwed up; thank you for sharing this Brittney - much love to you.

[@shyrashealey2907]

I had to pause the video and risk dropping my phone in this shower!! Brittany I’ve been watching you since like 2019/2020 and I am so proud of you! I am watching this video and I’m actively seeing the views increase and I’m soo happy for you! Keep going girl ❤

[@renee1961]

That witch was the Definition of Nightmare In-laws!! I feel so bad for Alexandra, and her Child, and Family.💔🥀💔🥀💔🥀🕊️🙏🕊️🙏🕊️🙏

[@stephanieloves3647]

That mama was Crazzzzzyyyy. She deserves every day behind bars

[@vanaa412]

Honestly we need more people like the friend&roommate; there’s wayyy to many people not speaking up or helping officers with things like this because of various reasons; love that they immediately gave the goods bc if more people were open with police we’d have a lot more solved cases, but that also goes along with the fact that police have not made themselves the most trustworthy and approachable people; i wish there was a better connection with police and civilians but the bad police will never let that happen for society

[@karenwatkinsart]

The Bad Police., excuse me,,,,without them it’s martial law--I support our fine police officers in my community.

[@LL-zb3dl]

This is so sad, Alexandra seems like such a brave woman to go through with a divorce so young. What a dreadful family.

[@foxymama9203]

Girl, I am watching this at 2am, I also NEED to know what that tea is! I have been married 28 years and I had to draw a hard boundary with my MIL early on. I was lucky enough to have the full support of my husband. Family boundaries and expectations are very important to establish before you get married because they do affect relationships!

[@renee1961]

I'm familiar with this Case! I'm glad you're covering it! It's a Heartbreaking , and Frightening Case! 🥀🥀💔💔🙏🙏🕊️🕊️🥀💔🙏🕊️💐💐💐

[@sweetness2480]

Thank you hun for blessing us with your presence on this good Tuesday! I hope you start feeling better soon, may need another cayenne shot 🫣👀

[@BrittneyVaughn]

🥴 it actually wasn’t that bad mixed with the elderberry syrup and honey

[@joythehomemaker904]

He may have had a little guilt for her death but I personally don’t think it has anything to do with him not seeking Custody of his son. Like you said I don’t think he wanted full custody anyway or even cared about the outcome of the divorce it was all his mother

[@AliciaIsSweet]

It’s something going around Houston! We all over here sick 🤒 love that you fought it to bring us something help us through the tough times ❤️

[@TheImpressiveMix]

“Very ghetto” about the Crown Royal bag had me CRYING

[@Glammazonsyn]

Hey Miss Vaughn. Thank you for another case & all of your hard work. Your plants are looking really good my girl. I see you posting them on IG.

[@BrittneyVaughn]

Thank you girrrrl 🤗

[@treectrice9180]

You did great telling this one. I couldn't even tell you were sick. Made my night and i loved that eyeshadow

[@tiarawheeler256]

Excellent as always and hope you feel better soon. I feel that he definitely knew what his mother was up to. I am sure this is not the first time she has done this to someone he's been involved with. The guilt of not standing up for her when she was his wife and thereafter ate him alive and the best thing, he could have done for his son was to leave him right where he was.

[@sianclark1632]

Yayyyyy 🎉 hope you feel better soon. Beyoncé the pug and I send you healing vibes!

[@BrittneyVaughn]

Thanks yall 🫶🏽

[@teresac1239]

My love!! You are one of the best editors I've ever seen and your story telling is elegant and engaging! Thank you for being you 💛

[@thetransparentjerseygirl]

Hey sis! Just what i needed!!! Im under the weather too...hope youre feeling better! 🫶🏽

[@BrittneyVaughn]

A little, I hope you’re feeling better soon!♥️

[@dirtyworldYIKES]

Girl I have been sick with some sinus something that had me out here like Sneezy from Snow White. Mouth breathing and the whole bit. Today I woke up able to breathe out of one nostril and knew it was going to be okay. Then you uploaded and it got even better! Hope you get back to 💯 real soon, thanks for all your hard work mamas

[@BAW47]

Always happy to see your beautiful face! I could listen to you tell stories for hours. Your locs look gorgeous 🥰

[@BrittneyVaughn]

Thank you💞

[@latisaclewis342]

Thanks so much for covering this story. It was crazy. For anyone wondering, there is a movie that was made based on this story. It's a 1997 movie called "The Perfect Mother", starring Tyne Daly and Ione Sky. There are some minor differences in the movie, but enough similarities to know that it's definitely based on this actual story. It's also here on KZbin. GREAT movie❤️

[@rosemarys-mommy]

love your content, been here since the start!! ❤

[@BrittneyVaughn]

Awww, thank you!!❤❤ I appreciate the support!

[@jackie.m.p.1990]

“In a crown royal bag, very ghetto” lmao i spit my coffee 😂

[@melindashepheard9851]

I just want you to know how much I love your videos. The bloopers and the pugs are an awesome addition and you are right. Anyone who doesn’t like your videos does not have good taste. I hope you feel better soon. I was diagnosed with rectal cancer in august so I have been going back and watching your earlier videos too. If you ever have a really bad sore throat that feels like it’s on fire mid a tsp of liquid children’s Benadryl and a tsp of liquid mylanta and gargle with it and spit it out it puts the fire out instantly.

[@staceehenderson1878]

Baby stay true to yourself queen Your voice is so original and captivating. I understand why you might have the need to change your dialect but don’t do too much ❤️ You have an amazing voice .

[@rajakbejok5983]

This would make a great movie 🎬. Effed up as it is.

[@latisaclewis342]

There is a movie about this case. It's here on KZbin, and it's called "The Perfect Mother" starring Tyne Daly and Ione Sky.

[@renee1961]

Good evening, Brittney! I🙋👑💐🌺🪻 I'm sorry you're sick, but really Appreciate you posting! Get well soon!🤗🫠☺️🙏🙏🌷🌸🍄🍀

[@sos-pl8pf]

I see your uploads and i know making my dinner is going to be better! Love to see you friend ❤❤❤

[@sumboredchic]

Love when you post thank you so much for this video ❤

[@BrittneyVaughn]

You are so welcome!

[@Itsnotthatserious2023]

That green eyeshadow is beautiful! LOVE

[@kerriarickards8508]

GREAT TO SEE YOU BACK BEAUTIFUL!!! Sorry to hear that you’ve not been well & still a little “under the weather!” Hope you’re feeling your usual vibrant healthy self soon!❤❤❤ THANKS FOR ANOTHER GREAT VID HONEY! You truly are the best, in my eyes at storytelling! I wish I had that skill, I can’t even remember a joke, let alone a whole crime story! ❤😂

[@jaeplansxo7976]

Hey girl hey! Thank you for the video and get to feeling better

[@AcaMaca1984]

Thank you for this video and the pronunciation of the names ❤ the only “Yugoslavian” tea I know of is oleander… but that’s for a much deeper sleep 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Tigeabee]

Awww. Her mother is a great person.

[@All.Natural.]

Love the locs!!! ❤

[@JulieN01-01]

Brittney the beautiful queen of KZbin is in the house! Love your channel.

[@BrittneyVaughn]

Thank you ❤

[@slim3611]

They look amazing locs❤

[@lafaye76]

Who else looks forward to bloopers as much as the story 😂❤

[@mirgrant]

Love ur uploads!! aww it really means a lot to me! watching u bloom and grow!! love all the viewers too we really are a family!!

[@brittanyohsoclassy]

Walked in to get my nails done and saw this notification! Got to happy 😆

[@RightToFreedomGirl]

. . . the bloopers at the end are super cute 😂. Please dont ever stop sharing. Shows yo hard work. Much appreciated

[@ReallyMimi]

Your hair looks so healthy-I love it❣️I also love your wigs, you could wear anything and look beautiful❣️ Love the green eyeshadow today. I hope you feel better soon.

[@BrittneyVaughn]

Thank you 💞

[@mabiddle03]

I saw you and your family in Htown at Don Litas!! Y’all are such a beautiful family. That nephew of yours is gonna be a heartbreaker!

[@juliestrickland7754]

Just got my granddaughters fed and in the bath. Perfect timing!

[@jenniferromano5152]

Stay away from anyone who doesn’t set healthy boundaries and stick to them with their family. Period.

[@erikaismyname]

Get better soon Brittany! I got back from errands READY for you! Thank you for doing it even though you aren't feeling good. You look beautiful as always ❤

[@Blaq.kageee]

Here doing a 12hr shift at DHS site and this video is gonna save me. Also the locs are locing my love 💕💕✨

[@BrittneyVaughn]

Thank you 😊

[@beastly.warner]

Where's my little menace, Bella?! 😂 Love your videos, Britt!!!

[@candacedailey9147]

I finally caught one of your videos that were just posted. I have been binge watching your videos for the past month. I even watch while I’m driving, I know it’s dangerous but I put it on my car radio. Love you and Blu and Bella. Where did you get them? I actually heard this story somewhere else I just can’t remember where but I believe Joe knew his mom was going to do this and I believe that the reason he never sought custody of his son was because he felt guilty and he couldn’t look his son in his eyes every day knowing that he knew that his mom was going to kill his ex wife.

[@BackyardButcher]

Thanks for the upload ❤ I came by your channel a while back and subbed immediately after your cockroach story 😂😂... 👑🐾❤️

[@BrittneyVaughn]

😮‍💨

[@BackyardButcher]

​@@BrittneyVaughn🥰

[@nicolehosein284]

Perfect way to wind down and relax in bed before I sleep 😊❤

[@ninachkah13]

As long as it's not with that Yugoslavian tea!

[@D.I.V.A.Journey3758]

The LOCS are back BOOM BOOM! The LOCS are back BOOM BOOM ( in my Muhammad Ali voice)!!! I love them sis!!!❤❤❤

[@BrittneyVaughn]

😂😂😂 Thank you!!

[@shantiltaylor105]

Your locs are really reaching!!!! 🤍 The ponytail is giving LIFE!!!! 🐛🦋 They can resuscitate if need be… Okay, I see you!!! 👀

[@bigkel1901]

As always a great video! Get well soon!!! ✌️❤️

[@BrittneyVaughn]

Thank you!!

[@naimawilliams7358]

im backkkk after a lil break but im backkk 🥰 first vid i clicked!!

[@Outof_thebleu]

I love that green eyeshadow.

[@shay4415]

Omg i love your makeup! You look stunning!! You always do but you look EXTRA stunning ❤ Edit to add: I LOVE your locks!!!!

[@Interesting.Factor]

The hair is looking absolutely beautiful!!!!

[@angelahenderson4611]

Yaaass...just got home from work. Now I have something to listen to while I cook ✌

[@queenpjimmyreview401]

Hope you feel better sis. Thanks you for sharing this story with us.

[@almetajackson8977]

I love your journey. You inspire me to stay positive with all the negative. They def don’t have good taste if they ain’t with what you serving Miss Mamas!!!! ❤❤❤

[@carlapina-v7f]

I love your channel, I love your life story’s at the beginning.I love it all keep doing what u do love I’ll keep supporting

[@Platinum907]

Brittany your videos are always blowing up, your YT fans adore you…because we have great taste, duh!

[@nickj12]

The hair is looking great, girl!

[@User-dc4tm]

Just in time as always 💙 love you

[@monique9354]

Excellent storytelling, per usual! Get well soon!

[@jeniseholding6425]

Had to click that notification 🫶🏽

[@uhohlilbit09]

Watching this as I’ve just finished 2 twelve hour shifts running a phone store alone. I’m exhausted but feel better watching this

[@poetryzzoniac]

it's crazy that kennedy just posted a video yesterday about cindy's case and now I was recommended this case a month after it was uploaded. I'm shooketh

[@buneta10]

That green looks so elegant on you 😍

[@ashleighcatchem9559]

I think joe just had a lot of guilt. But this is the 2nd time I heard this case, before you get married or anything please check out the parents. Rip to Alex…

[@GrandmaDawn118]

The title 😮 (just moved in with the in-laws) lol anyway so glad for a notification from your pretty self! Thank you ma’am! Again ❤

[@katymcgee4254]

Maybe don’t unpack👀👀👀

[@GrandmaDawn118]

@@katymcgee4254 lol right

[@lebakamorolong9229]

Much Needed Fresh Bake, thanks B

[@HaterzGoneHate]

Definitely happy to see you and the dreads boo and our sweet baby Bella! 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗

[@MissMelissy]

Oooooh your locs look amazing!!! They are coming along so beautifully!! Gorgeous 😍

[@MargaretFlack]

Ayyyye I have heard this one before and it is wildddd

[@VibrantLight709]

There she is!!!! ❤🎉

[@hotfishfromsharktale]

I screamed at the messy roommate giving over the shooters hair 😂 GOOD

[@renee1961]

That book about Cindy James is So Scary! And I wouldn't want to receive it, especially highlighted!

[@ThePeachySiren]

omfg girl your LOCSSSSSSSSSSS I LOVE THEM!!!!!!!

[@BrittneyVaughn]

Thank you!!🥹

[@alternativehoodrat]

ur locs coming out sooo nicely baby!!!

[@iveylomax3330]

You have no clue how i neeeeeeded this ❤you thanknyou so much missmamagirl 💋