How to Deal with Difficult People----Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan

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@aqsamalik8925
@aqsamalik8925 Жыл бұрын
The childhood trauma never end ...its a vicious cycle and is so tiring. may Allah give us some relief and have mercy on us. Ameen
@nafeezabolia9724
@nafeezabolia9724 Жыл бұрын
Aameen. With the help of Allah you can forget it.May Allah bless you in your deen,dunya and arkhirah.Aameen.
@Aye8659
@Aye8659 Жыл бұрын
🤲
@alikhansahab8356
@alikhansahab8356 Жыл бұрын
Summa Ameen
@henrytuedor2650
@henrytuedor2650 Жыл бұрын
Allah i sa bastare he took my parents i an ill from 2 years my narcisst sister nearly killed i begged mercy on name of allah but she hit me with rods of steel and cups i forgave him thrice she spread lies about ke my reputation is ruined incannot sleep at night medicines dont work my sister daily abuse me allah is having fuk of my misery and suffering i cry for hours dailt some times i dont eat anything all day still that bastard allah does nothing my sister stole my money he constantly abuses me daily i have depression , medicines dont work i have chronic pain to hell is that allah he is a mosnter why he not kills me i am not alive i am dead already incan not bear more abuse womens are always given a victim card islam protects womens more than chickens my mother was abused by my sister too my father is gone whom i cry to i have no one please pray to your allah to kill me and burn me if he wishes but please ask her to kill me i can not bear more i am done i dont need anything i am.exhausted i always forgav people allah is a cruel mosnter he took all my dreamx my love my morher everythinf i have no reason to be living why i am not dead why he wants me to suffer more why i an alive why i am not killed i hate him he does all suffering on us , Inwant him to burn me ir he wants bur i dont want to be alive call your allah and ask him to kill me eat my bones
@EternalBliss74
@EternalBliss74 Жыл бұрын
Prophet صلي الله عليه وسلم said meaning of hadith whenever your sorrows make you sad think about my calamities n sorrows !
@Noone-st
@Noone-st 11 ай бұрын
I came here to see how to deal with difficult people but what I learnt was something for myself that I'm always too emotional and sensitive about the smallest of things. Recently I was thinking that I should get over this and start taking things lightly. I felt this was for me I have taken my feelings superior to everything.May Allah guide my heart further as Allah is the greatest, everything else falls secondary and of no meaning. This lesson just came at the right time.
@AmmaraSHAH773377
@AmmaraSHAH773377 10 ай бұрын
Subhanallah right evenly what i needed too. I literally diagnosed mother with narcissism but then i switched to empathising with her she cannot apologise that's an issue she has but that is not necessary for me as an adult and mum myself i cannot be still starched to her in the codependant way i have been and need to just be there for her as a daughter and not expect much from her. She did a bad job though i do dua for her and live with her it is stragglers but i cannot change her. Now i realised she has ADHD it romaine more of what she goes through daily and why she does certain things and i cannot blame her i can only help her with tips and remind her when she needs help and learn to help myself learn to just calm myself down when she does trigger my traumas again.
@AmmaraSHAH773377
@AmmaraSHAH773377 10 ай бұрын
Subhanallah right evenly what i needed too. I literally diagnosed mother with narcissism but then i switched to empathising with her she cannot apologise that's an issue she has but that is not necessary for me as an adult and mum myself i cannot be still starched to her in the codependant way i have been and need to just be there for her as a daughter and not expect much from her. She did a bad job though i do dua for her and live with her it is stragglers but i cannot change her. Now i realised she has ADHD it romaine more of what she goes through daily and why she does certain things and i cannot blame her i can only help her with tips and remind her when she needs help and learn to help myself learn to just calm myself down when she does trigger my traumas again.
@Sks-un6xg
@Sks-un6xg 10 ай бұрын
Amazing response ! May Allah SWT bless you always .
@humaira_youtube
@humaira_youtube 10 ай бұрын
How to feel less
@The_yogi_therapist
@The_yogi_therapist 10 ай бұрын
Masha’Allah
@saeharb4963
@saeharb4963 Жыл бұрын
Please pray for my autistic kids. I pray that Allah swt answer all your prayers
@rcampbell31
@rcampbell31 Жыл бұрын
Prayers sent your way 🙏
@Luqqi007
@Luqqi007 Жыл бұрын
Insallah they will become better than yesterday
@honeybee-iu1jh
@honeybee-iu1jh Жыл бұрын
May Allah grant him/her shifa e kamila ameen
@my_sabr
@my_sabr Жыл бұрын
May Allah bless him and give him a better health ❤
@equityjustice2695
@equityjustice2695 Жыл бұрын
Look into "the g.a.p.s diet" it was designed for autistic children. May Allah swt grant them shifaa Ameen 🤲🏼
@BeSelfless1
@BeSelfless1 Жыл бұрын
And you just proved that Quran and Islam came for all times! How beautifully you applied deen with todays societal issues. Amazing! SubhanAllah
@nazinafeer1446
@nazinafeer1446 9 ай бұрын
I was actually distancing myself with people whoever make me overwhelm and make me uncomfortable in public. Passing down comment or twisting tales made me turn away from lots of people. All these days I was thinking I am trying to heal from what caused me pain but in truth its other way round. Allah guided me to this vdo and he wanted me to change my perspective of how I view people. They need forgiveness too and I need to put my invisible arrogance down be humble and kind towards people who did mistakes to me. I was so much invested on isolating myself and called them toxic instead try to understand what society has been doing to my so called mental health.. I believe that everyone who uses social media needs to hear this to cleanse their mind and heart!! We are too much consumed by pop culture’s mental health terms, that we have started labeling people to make our selves feel better!! In the end, we all are sinners who are repeatedly repenting and asking for forgiveness from Almighty ♥️ May allah forgive our sins and make our heart forgivable for others.. Ameen
@rjpoetry3319
@rjpoetry3319 8 ай бұрын
Don't accept abuse.
@MoonlitAna
@MoonlitAna 8 ай бұрын
Forgive. Understand that others make mistakes from their weakest selves. But don't be naive. Don't allow the abuse to continue. Be wise. Keep a respectful distance. Your family has rights upon you. Don't cut ties. Make Du'a for you and for them.
@sakura142
@sakura142 6 ай бұрын
@Erica.N24
@Erica.N24 8 ай бұрын
Allah sent me this now exactly when i sat after writing a sad poem as i get hurt from the behavior of my younger brother....i learned that i must not change my care and attachment with him and i have to modify my behavior. Crying is ok and i can still pray for his hadayah. I will pray as i care about my brother. Crying is my feeling and it's ok.
@MahadiaAbdulkadir
@MahadiaAbdulkadir 7 ай бұрын
I’m in the same situation but I told myself after been drained worrying and stressing about him that I need to focus taking care of myself so I can take care of my kids. I will continue to make dua for him and pray for him but I need to focus on my mental health.
@hanaflores9400
@hanaflores9400 Жыл бұрын
Dealing with difficult inlaw is one of a kind. the people who hurt you, still doesn't change, so you just having new wounds, the old ones even haven't healed yet. I can only pray that Allah guide me and give me strength.
@hamidamahmud53
@hamidamahmud53 11 ай бұрын
In laws are not family. It’s a relationship of mutual respect. You can cut them off for mental health and only see them during eid or when they are sick but make sure the spouse and grandchildren visit them regularly.
@omarhussein2523
@omarhussein2523 11 ай бұрын
I know exactly what you’re going through. May ALLAH ease your pain and give you sabar jamil.
@_notsaf
@_notsaf 11 ай бұрын
@@hamidamahmud53 ❣
@secretboi2684
@secretboi2684 10 ай бұрын
I have same question how to deal with toxic inlaws who always try to destroy your imagie,charter and many year has passed .my husband listens them and always ask me sabar,Sabar,and everytime told me its your mistake go and say sorry.....I always do but now Im tired what to do😢
@shavezaliali11
@shavezaliali11 10 ай бұрын
@@secretboi2684your husband dsnt respect you sister 😢 may Allah bless you with more sabar
@72afam
@72afam Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah we have a scholar like Ustadh Nouman. His insight and ability to explain to others are remarkable, MashaAllah.
@MohamedHassan-jg9jp
@MohamedHassan-jg9jp Жыл бұрын
May Alah bless him....i love ❤❤this bro for the sake of Allah
@TheMirzaghalib
@TheMirzaghalib Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah He is light He is hope May Allah bless him so so much Aameen Aameen I love him for Allah
@Butterflybloom4
@Butterflybloom4 Жыл бұрын
ALLAHUAKBAR.
@sittieebrahim33
@sittieebrahim33 Жыл бұрын
Tabarakallah
@aaqibbashir8360
@aaqibbashir8360 Жыл бұрын
Surah Rahman - The ultimate remedy All those suffering from any physical,mental,spiritual or black magic should listen Surah "Al-REHMAN" a recitation by Qari Abdul Basit(Without translation) 3 times morning, afternoon,evening , a day for 7 consecutive days with closed eyes.Every time after listening take half a glass of water, close eyes and say "ALLAH, ALLAH, ALLAH " in heart and drink the water fully in 3 sips . kzbin.info/www/bejne/p5KXdaudpbiqbdEsi=sPGelv5V3lBNdswb
@Meemo44
@Meemo44 11 ай бұрын
Subhan’Allah… it’s extremely difficult. When you have been emotionally abused and someone knew they were damaging you psychologically, but just kept going and didn’t care…that’s traumatic. I’m guilty of throwing the word ‘Narcissist’ around, but the individual I dealt with became unhinged and tyrannical, it wasn’t an easy experience to cope with, it almost pushed me into another depressive state. Psychological violence is real and it destroys families and devastates the lives of children who deal with such a parent. I do agree, we cannot diagnose, but as humans, we do need to be able to validate and understand such abuse. I stayed married to them for 22 years until I was thrown away for another. My entire marriage was a lie and even after our divorce, I’m still picking up the pieces they shattered. May Allah protect us from those who lack empathy and accountability and may HE prevent us from becoming such individuals ourselves…Ameen
@katyflame3668
@katyflame3668 9 ай бұрын
I truly understand. May Allah swt heal you and your family. Ameen.
@FundaKartal-m8c
@FundaKartal-m8c 8 ай бұрын
i hear you may allah guide you and heal you never please never give up youre heart and belief for the people who couldnt understand what iman really is you did came alone you will leave alone this word ❤
@lindivliet8280
@lindivliet8280 8 ай бұрын
Same here. 30 years of narcism ... it's destroying your soul. Get out don't stay. Run 🏃 with your children asap. The hurt is to much !!!
@MoonlitAna
@MoonlitAna 8 ай бұрын
May Allah bring ease to your heart, dear one. ❤
@Meemo44
@Meemo44 8 ай бұрын
@@MoonlitAna Ameen Jazak’Allah khair sister…Eid Mubarak ♥️
@joharahbintyunas5270
@joharahbintyunas5270 Жыл бұрын
The narcissistic behaviour needs to change his or her ego. We can't see what's in people's hearts, but their actions say a lot. Hurting people is not part of Islam like he mentioned about Yusuf As brothers, and they were examples of narcissistism so we can avoid.
@ourtwobabiesable
@ourtwobabiesable Жыл бұрын
Exactly! He should definitely make that clear and not make ppl feel like tjeu are wrong for setting boundaries
@MoonlitAna
@MoonlitAna 8 ай бұрын
"I'm supposed to go through some of these difficult experiences to truly experience guidance." ❤
@rc21078
@rc21078 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it’s better for them too to love a narcissistic person from distance and pray for them while you heal yourself. After many years of marriage and constant disrespect, you just don’t think about yourself anymore but only for your children’s future.
@veronicasavoie9695
@veronicasavoie9695 11 ай бұрын
Mash'Allah 🤲🏼 every situation is different. But this video is eye opening
@saraqudsiyaa4
@saraqudsiyaa4 10 ай бұрын
Same 😢
@ayoh2156
@ayoh2156 Жыл бұрын
May Allah forgive me my parents and all the Muslim sisters and brothers Ameen
@THEWITCHSTICK
@THEWITCHSTICK 7 ай бұрын
Ameen
@nuskarismy2981
@nuskarismy2981 Жыл бұрын
I love him so much for the sake of Allah ❤
@abdulrazaqrahmat777
@abdulrazaqrahmat777 Жыл бұрын
I love this perspective , we are so quick to judge people and label people as though we don’t have any flaws. I love Me Nouman Ali’s khan perspective as usual so positive and encompassing. May Allah reward you and your family Nouman Ali khan, you are truly a life saviour.
@hatunshayat9329
@hatunshayat9329 Ай бұрын
This is such an important reminder ...Islam always comes in our times of confusion with answers that brings us back to reality again
@Febrisf62
@Febrisf62 Жыл бұрын
As a person who has background in psychology, I see that ustadh says something different from the others. This is great. Right, modern psychology makes us judge people easily. Which brings no good either for us and for somebody else.
@Xtine72
@Xtine72 Жыл бұрын
I need help understanding this. As a western woman learning about Islam, I’m struggling to let go of past teachings. It’s never been about JUDGING peoples actions but about trying to UNDERSTAND peoples actions and showing compassion. Through compassion comes understanding and through understanding comes forgiveness. I don’t understand why this is bad.
@EkaterinaGolubeva-pr9ih
@EkaterinaGolubeva-pr9ih Жыл бұрын
What if my family member was diagnosed as a narcissist by a professional psychiatrist, does this advice still apply? It's not just a feeling it's also that the person who is hurting you is disturbed psychologically. Help me understand please.
@normalperson8494
@normalperson8494 8 ай бұрын
@@Xtine72 it's not bad, one must understand the other from their perspective which allows them to show compassion and forgiveness
@aidhee
@aidhee Жыл бұрын
Beautiful message to all of us who think the conflict is outside of us, when reality its a test of our faith! Much love for you all and thank you for what you do. 😊
@arunachalams2538
@arunachalams2538 Жыл бұрын
What an explanation of such a difficult topic, but needs to be paused and listened, Allahu Akbar
@maryamabdullah9979
@maryamabdullah9979 8 ай бұрын
May Allah bless you, strengthen you, oh ustad! [04.04.24]
@kimballbeard691
@kimballbeard691 Жыл бұрын
I am so impressed with this Scholar. .
@MehndibySania__05
@MehndibySania__05 4 ай бұрын
You are the best gift Allah send down after prophet Muhammad pbuh to me Nouman Ali Khan sir ❤❤❤❤❤
@marypoppins6973
@marypoppins6973 Жыл бұрын
Amazing lecture mashaAllah. However narcissts can be very dangerous so it's important to identify it and find a safe escape.
@fathima1639
@fathima1639 Жыл бұрын
i think you totally missed his point. Most of the time, its a close family member that people cant really run away from, such as a parent! We have to take breaks from them if needed but eventually return and deal with them. May Allah make it easy for all those who have unhealthy family members to bear an Islamic attitude when dealing with them
@marypoppins6973
@marypoppins6973 Жыл бұрын
@fathima1639 I was thinking about spouses and friends. Of course with family one will be stuck and God help people.
@fathima1639
@fathima1639 Жыл бұрын
@@marypoppins6973 in the case of spouses or Muslim friends too, not every arrogant individual is narcissistic like instagram psychology tells us. but of course, we shouldn't allow ourselves to be treated very poorly by anyone and seek help in extreme or harmful situations
@Jamila91100
@Jamila91100 Жыл бұрын
some people are sexually absused by their parents then what? Have faith and turn the page? I totally got his point but I just disagree overall good message but it's not that simple
@Moonlit_Melodies86
@Moonlit_Melodies86 9 ай бұрын
*A special thank you to the team behind this channel. Your uplifting messages have been a source of strength and comfort during difficult times. May Allah bless you abundantly for your kindness*
@qaenglish
@qaenglish Жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this speech. It's so helpful. Thank you! May Allah (SWT) help and protect us all!
@Kuadilateral678
@Kuadilateral678 Жыл бұрын
Ya Allah, I came across this video; Just like it’s made for me. Ohh all believers here, please for me - dealing with a narcissistic spouse; not able to come out of this for many reasons. Please pray for me..
@ArshiyaBegum-br3ql
@ArshiyaBegum-br3ql 8 ай бұрын
Ameen
@almaomerovic3
@almaomerovic3 Жыл бұрын
Allahu ekber... selam alejkum from Bosnia and Herzegovina im Europa...❤
@cemaliyemustafa3249
@cemaliyemustafa3249 Жыл бұрын
Only Allah almighty knows the truth within everyone I agree with you no one should start labeling another just focus on your own self, others doings and your own doing is judged only by Allah himself. May Allah S.W.T forgive us and guide us with his Mervy.
@elhadjtall3627
@elhadjtall3627 5 ай бұрын
Allah is guiding my father's heart.....in that yusuke cave ameen
@Shaheeda-fn2pr
@Shaheeda-fn2pr Жыл бұрын
I am surrounded by toxic people...this is at work. It has been relentless, their continuous verbal abuse which is totally uncalled for, makes me think that there is Sihr involved as well. I do my qiyamul leyl and adhkar together with the short version of ruqiya sharia every morning...it has been an unrelenting 3 1/2 years of this attack. There are times when I feel a momentary sadness...but in my heart of hearts I feel ALLAH( swt)'s love and mercy...ya Sheikh how do I figure out what ALLAH(swt) wants of me?
@aishamatovu3726
@aishamatovu3726 Жыл бұрын
Allahu Akbar SubuhanaAllah Walhamdullillah Wallaillaha Illallah Allahu , iam going through the same fitna from work day in day out , but iam very strong in the tawakal I found out they are narcissists who are abused from their homes and carries them to others after they cries victims SubuhanaAllah.
@lady3219
@lady3219 Жыл бұрын
I know you’ve already thought about it, but I will say it anyway, if u have a slightest option to find another job please try to quit it, I’ve gone through the same and left the people and that toxic workplace to them. It was affecting me mentally
@EternalBliss74
@EternalBliss74 Жыл бұрын
Your sanity n iman comes first plz look for another job , ALLAH SUBHANAHU TA’ALA is the Raaziq dont feel hopeless rise above your self esteem n see ALLAH ALMIGHTY is with you
@zbk343
@zbk343 Жыл бұрын
With your burden ..happening to you.. Is sign Allah testing you.. Every single human will be test to prove the faith
@VGAMERS365
@VGAMERS365 Жыл бұрын
Alhumdulillah this video is eye opener for all of us today as every family goes thru these stages of conflicts. I have been searching the reason for conflicts and its caused by shayateen and emotional ego. The solution being replacing emotions with good vibes and thats what emotional intelligence is.
@nellamollt82
@nellamollt82 Жыл бұрын
Dear Ustadz , from what I know of, some people are feelers, some are thinkers. It will be easy for thinker type people to manage their feelings because they are more logical. For feelers, they are not tune to use logical/rationality because their emotions are their main function.
@coolash706
@coolash706 2 ай бұрын
One of his best speeches. Jazakallahekhair 🙏🙏
@enynurainirez8557
@enynurainirez8557 Жыл бұрын
Allah allow us to meet with difficult people for a reason...and surely HE will always watch ....thank you brother, may Allah protect you...aamiin...
@Khadijaunique
@Khadijaunique Жыл бұрын
OMG SUBHANALLAH this was soo needed. My sister began being kind as she left because i gave her my pass she needed but then I only thought about myself how its so easy for them to flip after my hard days none of them ever recognises their doings to me hence nor apologise but i will not worship my emotions SubhanAllah this was just eye opening man. Wow Allah is Allatif, The all subtle as he recommended this video to me knowing I will watch it, I love Him lots
@sbegum1260
@sbegum1260 11 ай бұрын
This is true, jazak allah khair. Please make dua for us all, may Allah help us to overcome our problems and reward us with better understanding and make us closer to our deen.
@ErumEhmad20
@ErumEhmad20 8 ай бұрын
I have been waiting for this video. Jzkak Sheikh for providing us with this knowledge. I tried pop psychology and my heart wasn't at peace. Islam is encompassing and universal, it gives people room to change.
@AmbassadorForIslam
@AmbassadorForIslam 10 ай бұрын
❤ Allah knows best
@labulabuland
@labulabuland 10 ай бұрын
🔹 1:00 Nothing struck anyone ever except that Allah allowed thapt to happened. 🔹2:00 Difficult experience to experience guidance. 🔹"Iman is the greatest asset a human can have" 2:18 🔹 to face it, to deal with it with fait, & not let it change you 2:58 🔹 3:04 Prophets is "victim of traumas', surrounded by toxic people, victim of family abuse, had their boundaries crossed. 🔹 5:58 Deal with conversation. 🔹 9:20 Too absorbed with urself, the only thing that u want is to serve is ur own wishes. 🔹Seal in their ears, can't have a reason with them 10:47 🔹 12:21 People can't judge another person's heart, not Judging their actions but Judging the state of their heart
@alimog9347
@alimog9347 8 ай бұрын
10:42 You cannot reason with people who live by emotions The feeling is the God True treasures True treasures True treasures Thanks for modern awakening
@iddrisuibrahim7600
@iddrisuibrahim7600 Жыл бұрын
Maa Shaa Allah. May Allah SWT bless this scholar, which includes going to Jannatul-Firdaus. And all of us too. Aameen.
@mahachami5291
@mahachami5291 5 ай бұрын
What a beautiful explanation. Thank-you for this beneficial lesson
@khalidhabib1552
@khalidhabib1552 5 ай бұрын
Great lecture. May Allah ease our journey in this life and grant us paradise in the hereafter.
@niloferkabir72
@niloferkabir72 Жыл бұрын
Extremely beautiful, knowledgeable lecture to guide difficult people
@chelseasparis6369
@chelseasparis6369 Жыл бұрын
Ustaz NAK brilliance is unmatched MASHALLAH May Allah reward him
@safiyyahzaman2334
@safiyyahzaman2334 Жыл бұрын
Subhanallah this short talk put a lot of things in perspective. I have been analysing at a personal level on the psychological effects of childhood trauma in our lives and how it shapes our current relationships( or in other words bits and pieces of modern psychology taken from various books and online articles). In the process,I actually ended up mentally labelling people and judging them( which I know in an islamic sense is wrong to judge intentions). But how brother nouman puts things in perspective through teachings from Qur'an is amazing. I would say learning about psychology both from secular and islamic sense is important to throw some light into this subject.
@outlinebpo
@outlinebpo Жыл бұрын
wow. what a realistic khutba . love it .
@moshayyadahjavaid8246
@moshayyadahjavaid8246 6 ай бұрын
Ameen, suma ameen 🤗 The best thing I have read today.
@MoonlitAna
@MoonlitAna 8 ай бұрын
I feel so much relief here, so much calm. Oh Allah, thank you for bringing me here. 🤍
@fayazdeen8016
@fayazdeen8016 10 ай бұрын
Its so interesting how Ustadh puts complex lessons in a humorous manner(Video Timeline-7:30 to 7:50) to make us understand easily. Alhamdhulilah
@yasmeenshoaib154
@yasmeenshoaib154 Жыл бұрын
تقبل الله منا ومنكم
@karenwright8491
@karenwright8491 9 ай бұрын
Ramadan Mubarak. This is so beautiful Mash’Allah and so useful for the people who understand. Islam has an answer for all of mankind Alhamdulillah ❤
@atharcaptain6457
@atharcaptain6457 Жыл бұрын
❤amazing... Very thought pondering nasihat which I needed so badly.... Shukran
@actua7cs
@actua7cs 9 ай бұрын
Excellent talk, ustadh. May Allah bless you and grant us all the hikma to comprehend your speech ameen
@busybee5397
@busybee5397 Жыл бұрын
Wow JazakAllah this is what I needed to hear today So positive, spot on! May Allah guide us all to the right path
@aaliyahsaleem9676
@aaliyahsaleem9676 Жыл бұрын
JazaakAllaah o khair! You guided us well!
@halimaharuna507
@halimaharuna507 Жыл бұрын
Yaa Allah this msg is for me Alhamdullilah I have those pple around me mother and siblings
@sheerinshemiran580
@sheerinshemiran580 9 ай бұрын
Ya Allah help us and guide us and guide our hearts to not be emotional and to heal!!
@D4Doctor228
@D4Doctor228 6 ай бұрын
What a timing...I was feeling so down dt sme toxic ppl n this video just popped in my feed 😭
@ammarazareen5583
@ammarazareen5583 9 ай бұрын
I was experiencing this issue with a family member and this video showed up on my home page. Subhan Allah. I feel I should listen this again and again.
@nataliasalam7870
@nataliasalam7870 8 ай бұрын
For sure listening this again and again helps you to understand, but some time its becomes verry difficult to let go emotional bagage while staying with same person. But professional help make this easy for you. You may connect with me i am clinical psychologist and transformation coach i help people to transform there life and mind towards betterment
@aaliyahsaleem9676
@aaliyahsaleem9676 Жыл бұрын
JazaakAllaah o khair ….several times! Aameen!
@beebastead
@beebastead Жыл бұрын
I have learned something profound from this khutbah. Really reorganised my perspective on stuff. May Allah reward you abundantly. And thank you for your advise to Andrew Tate, I recently watched that video and you know, it reminded me of what the Quran says about using the best of speech in addressing ppl. You examplify "the best of speech". Jazhakumullahu Khairan!
@lalala-ux3yo
@lalala-ux3yo Жыл бұрын
I am glad I didn't get psychology as my main subject otherwise I would also fall in this trap of making emotions their God. Alhumdulillah Alhumdulillah ✨ Indeed, Allah chooses The Best for everyone.
@lalala-ux3yo
@lalala-ux3yo Жыл бұрын
I know not everyone is like this.... But I am talking about how I could have turned into someone like that....
@Umah.75
@Umah.75 10 ай бұрын
❤❤ الحمد لله على نعمة الإسلام
@alimog9347
@alimog9347 8 ай бұрын
4:51 You are really really touching some aspects that are modern and talking about them. Thanks Thanks
@Dr.NoorMoussawi
@Dr.NoorMoussawi Жыл бұрын
Best lecture ever, Baraka Allahu feeka!
@nawwelarebbih7116
@nawwelarebbih7116 11 ай бұрын
I love the style of lectures that brother Nouman gives on every topic, i love the examples and the personality and humor he uses to explain the examples related to the topic. jazakallah never boring !!
@SR-kh2cp
@SR-kh2cp 8 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot, this is an eye opening
@nigaralinayak2644
@nigaralinayak2644 Жыл бұрын
Ameen.. Please keep us in your duas.. Much needed.. Awesome👍👍👍 words... Stay blessed🙏🙏🙏
@Petunia-
@Petunia- 10 ай бұрын
Au nom d’Allah, je m’en remets à Allah, et il n’y a de force ni de puissance qu’en Allah le Très haut 🤲🏽 amine
@rukhsananaz6838
@rukhsananaz6838 7 ай бұрын
Jazak Allah khair
@misbahch4925
@misbahch4925 11 ай бұрын
Allah hu Akbar 😭 very very beautiful lesson. Jazak Allah Khairan kaseera
@Sks-un6xg
@Sks-un6xg 10 ай бұрын
Being a teacher of psychology I can confirm that he is absolutely correct. The victim mentality will cripple you. When you hear with triggers and see with triggers your life becomes an entire trigger itself.
@foodiesworldUSA
@foodiesworldUSA Жыл бұрын
Finally.. I actually tried to talk to Ustad Nauman about dealing with a difficult person who disguised herself as a friend but she was very manipulative and very rude. All the things he said in the start of video I felt the same way.
@arfahaider8968
@arfahaider8968 8 ай бұрын
Aslamalykeum actually I'm facing the similar kind of situatiion.Do u mind telling me how u handle the situation
@mahidmahid242
@mahidmahid242 Жыл бұрын
SubhanALLAH ...JazakALLAH...
@geetatripathi2454
@geetatripathi2454 Жыл бұрын
Its so true thank you Brother Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan. This has touched me to the core. May God Bless You !!
@myfavourites5765
@myfavourites5765 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ustad Nouman for explaining this topic so beautifully. We are truly blessed to have you among us to open our eyes, ears and hearts. May Allah reward you innumerable times ❤
@momilshakoor2715
@momilshakoor2715 10 ай бұрын
One of the best lessons ...so much needed Alhmdulillah....we need to get rid of the dominance emotions have on our reasoning faculty.... Alhmdulillah May Allah SWT bless Shaikh and us all....Amen
@asmaqadir322
@asmaqadir322 Жыл бұрын
Aameen. Jazakallah khair
@ludhi77
@ludhi77 9 ай бұрын
May the Almighty Lord guide us through the difficult time in life with strong IMAN ..........Ameen summa ameen
@saleemhussain7799
@saleemhussain7799 10 ай бұрын
Jazakallah khair ya Shaikh
@minakalikadien6916
@minakalikadien6916 11 ай бұрын
I like how Nouman brother explains everything.🤲
@sallybalram7701
@sallybalram7701 10 ай бұрын
There comes a time when one has to protect themselves from abuse and inappropriate disrespectful behaviours. Make difficult people accountable for their recurring actions.
@halimadaoudi6015
@halimadaoudi6015 6 ай бұрын
The Miracle is your intention in worshiping Allah doing what Allah is asking from you having completely Trust in Allah having Sabr knowing for sure Allah is your protector always
@zakiyyahfikrah
@zakiyyahfikrah 8 ай бұрын
جزاك الله خيرا
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@_.-._.-._.-_.-._.-._.-_.-._.- Жыл бұрын
ا تسبب النجاح لا اله الا الله 💦💐 الله اكبر ☝️
@sehamkhan1693
@sehamkhan1693 5 ай бұрын
Stay blessed brother..
@asmabibi2226
@asmabibi2226 Жыл бұрын
A very needed lecture that gave me another direction to think
@anujarahim8533
@anujarahim8533 Жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah khairan ustad
@Nomanmehsood
@Nomanmehsood Жыл бұрын
Subhan ALLAH 💚ALLAH hu Akbar 💕. Alhamdulillah 💚. JAZAk ALLAH 💖.
@Pakeezaebay
@Pakeezaebay 10 ай бұрын
subhanAllah Alhamdulillah
@jarintasnim347
@jarintasnim347 9 ай бұрын
Quran and Islam is solution for everything!
@salwa8141
@salwa8141 Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulilah excellent beneficial talk MashaAllah
@uniqueordinarylife
@uniqueordinarylife Жыл бұрын
JazakAllah Khair. Thanks for such an important subject. When you are in a state of mind and you see the lecture you exactly need is just amazing. ❤
@tahirasiddiqui279
@tahirasiddiqui279 Жыл бұрын
Jazakallah jazakallah jazakallah, feeling so refreshed, so light, unable to find words to express my feelings and gratitude.
@muhammadyunusgunawan9114
@muhammadyunusgunawan9114 9 ай бұрын
Iman is the greatest asset a human being can have because on judgment day the only thing that matters Illa man atallaha bi qalbin salim Nothing Will be of any benefit except people who come before Allah and they have a good heart
@nedmilburn
@nedmilburn 9 ай бұрын
Brilliant! Subhan Allah!
@ayeshacalligraphy1928
@ayeshacalligraphy1928 Жыл бұрын
Subhan Allah. May Allah increase us in knowledge 🙏
@RehaamAli
@RehaamAli 9 ай бұрын
A big reality check for me .
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