If People Hurt You| If You Feel Pain Because of Other's Behaviors---Nouman Ali Khan

[@VSMLMD]

I suddenly saw the title and it attracted me immediately , l think people who get hurt thats because they give love! The most embarrasing situation is when you get humiliated from people whom you treated whith respect and they turn against you and hurt with bad words and behaviour with no reason ! People todays are filled with jealosy , hate, disrespect and all they want is money! I pray and hope that lslam will spread as much as possible in order to save humanity otherwise this world is over!

[@knowy2180]

Your words spoke my story

[@devichan6838]

❤❤

[@fajrsahar157]

Very true!

[@tabomlaye3935]

Thank you...!!

[@Sara_1998_0]

May you experience love, happiness and comfort in dunyah before akhira and may you forget your problems insha allah, ameeeen

[@mariyamahmud2250]

I am still bearing the humiliations in my life caused by someone else long time ago......oh Allah!It’s so hard to get out of the pain and fear....May Allah give me and everyone mental strength....

[@fanizaispahani9074]

Aameen ❤️

[@Sara_1998_0]

May you experience love, happiness and comfort in dunyah before akhira and may you forget your problems insha allah , ameeen

[@fajrsahar157]

Me2.

[@Incandescence555]

I am with you my sister in faith - you may not know me but you have my support and I wish you all the blessings in this life and the next

[@illyrian3057]

Ameen. Btw same

[@khadijafatima9240]

Ya Allah give me patience when I feel most anxious, Ya Allah give me the strength to bear these trails, Ya Allah give me the stronger shoulders to carry the pain of this world, Ya Allah give me the strength to smile when I feel is crying, Ya Allah have mercy on my heart. Ya Allah, please guide my children and all children. They are surrounded by so much temptation and Haram (forbidden things). Protect them my Lord from all of the evil influences that are around them. Give them friends who will strengthen their faith and help them stay on the Straight Path. May Allah guide us to the straight path which leads us to jannah✨

[@rabia9959]

The way I'm coming across such videos when I'm dealing with all of these for real now. Ya Allah have mercy on me.

[@Infinix-q4s]

I've had 2 men in my life i was supposed to marry. They both before marriage not only humiliated me but also showed me why my marriage was being delayed. It was Allah who was saving me every time in getting into bad marriages. I couldn't be more thankful to Allah. Till date they speak bad about me and my character . But I pray and am connected to Allah and when I look at them , they just don't even feel like praying or showing kindness to people. So yes I was , is and will be humiliated by such people but the love Allah has shown me is magical ❤

[@Michelle-cn9zp]

I’m a Christian. This came on my feed. No matter what religion you are this wisdom applies. At the end of the day we are all believing in a higher power and wisdom has no error.🙏🏾

[@imtiazsm7111]

True brother...may Allah SWT guide u to the ultimate truth.

[@MuslimShortsMedia]

Yes may the most powerful guide you We believe in one higher power

[@fizzahaziz7583]

So true. This is what I realised as I grew older. That EVERYTHING prohibited is for our benefit, peace and protection. Alhamdulillah for this beautiful deen and to Allah for forgiving us and not leaving us to our own devices in this world.

[@sofiyarini]

OMG 😭 I cried as I watch this.. now I understand what the story of Maryam really means to women these days.. the context is so beautiful only Allah can give it 2 u.. thx u for enlightened us Ustad.. hope Allah will help me dealing with the people who talks down on me

[@AJS-2023]

ALLAH SWT guide you ,and don't forget to them for lessons but forgive let's be for Allah SWT he take care rest all this people.

[@narcissistlovepolygamy6221]

Hadith on Satan: Devil runs through people like blood Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan flows through the human being like the flowing of blood.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2174 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim Shaytaan lives inside humans! All humans have shaytaan living inside their bodies! May Allah protect us from the accursed shaytaan and guide us to the right path ameen (WE MUST SAY! please say this because the shaytaan cant harm us)

[@theseeker-yv6fi]

Asok dear sister, gentle reminder to please add 'ra' or 'as' to her name to send blessings and peace. Jazakallahu khairan

[@humanity1411]

I have faced humiliation from a person whom i used to love alot. I used to always support him when he used to be in depression. But he has left me with harsh nd rude words as if i was nothing to him. He made me cry alot n disrespected me. Now he has a lot of ego because he is getting successful. I am in a lot of pain because of his rudeness nd his disrespect towards me. Please pray for me

[@MonaAdil13]

May Allah heal you. Allah azzawajal is watching everything.

[@Fathima-ic1qv]

I am going through same situation by my husband..he Left me from 7 months..he never came to see me..nor took responsibility for my provision

[@thehaffytaffy]

Sister may Allah grant you ease, stay hopeful things will change for the better. Inshallah ❤

[@Fathima-ic1qv]

@@thehaffytaffy aameen..sumameen..

[@Oceaninside245]

Respect yourself...because you have no right to humiliated by others...

[@globalwordfilmstv8532]

What is done intentionally and repeatedly is not a mistake. -Iciey Ivey

[@nafeezabolia9724]

True

[@maliktoumi8152]

I agréé with you Some people behave liké children without responsibilities

[@SadulloKhadjibayev]

No, that's actually wrong,what is done intentionally and repeatedly is a mistake,cuz you didn't learn from the first mistake,the whole point is actually that we are not meant to be flawless,it isn't in our nature to not make any mistake but it's a commandment from God to learn from mistakes,if you don't sin anymore God will remove you and replace others who sin and repent.

[@reshmashaikh1056]

Absolutely right

[@misriashf9935]

"All those things are Haram for us that are harmful for us " Subhaanallaahil ažeem .

[@Hify732]

This man he is wise. Very wise. I never hurd anything like this before

[@First77722]

God bless him eternally, he speaks the truth of Islam so perfectly....his speeches guided my life path alot. Alhamdulillah

[@rose5179]

Alhamdulillah . JazakAllahu Khair @Noum and BarkAllahu Feek 😪💔

[@ultrapowerlevel]

Alhamdullilah

[@Starlightndust]

I have bern attacked all my life. Mother, sisters, aunts, cousins n friends, co-workers. I can't even work because of the variety of abuse hurled at me. All the chronic stress caused me getting Cancer n PTSD. I never felt safe even in childhood. I couldn't marry, have kids, work etc. All I have been kind, hard working, loyal n trustworthy. Cared for both elderly parents. I didn't understand why so much cruelty 😢 in my life. This video came in time, only 5 minutes ago, i was thinking about my hard life. Allah knows best. Allhamdulilah Rabal Allahmin. 🤲

[@user-li1gp2jw8k]

Make dua and salah sister and trust allahs plan

[@Starlightndust]

@@user-li1gp2jw8k Allah bless you, brother. Jazakhallahu khayren.

[@almar6160]

We all feel the same,we are all hurt.Inteligent and happy people sufer more,we who are merciful but Allah will be merciful to us,so just pray and continue still to do good,becous if u stop u will become one of them and u will become unhappy like them.

[@Starlightndust]

@almar6160 yes, thank you for your kind words. Allah bless you. Allhumdulillah Rab'al Alameen.

[@husnashane8600]

So sorry to hear this starlight May Allah swt grant you jannah for your sabr ! And also Allah elevates you ❤ Take you time inshallah to heal but May Allah grant you shifa and grant you a lot of happiness that you forget the bad things inshallah Keep making istigfar read Surah Al Baqarah and also Tahajjjud ❤ that’s my advice it’s not your fault it’s just your test but May Allah bless you and grant you ease from here 🎉😊

[@sabakhattak4744]

May Allah bless this person above everyone. Everytime his words are so generously kind when one’s even not able to counsel oneself. May Allah make us the best ones of our deen aaameeeen.

[@fatimahadetutu]

This is exactly what am facing and you just nail it all, I mean the thought that runs through my mind are what you mentioned.. I pray Allah suh- hanna Watalah keep guiding me and the muslims that are also been accused wrongly ameen....

[@Brendatalks963]

Extremely beautiful. It is our responses to their words that hurt us. Not what they say.

[@susanmckenzie363]

This man is so inspirational

[@trustinallah2430]

Indeed

[@shazbros]

Even if you never hurt anyone, people somehow looks for reasons to humiliate you.

[@saharsahi4098]

لا اله الا الله محمد رسول الله.‌ I am happy I am a Muslim.

[@syedarizvi7290]

Jazak Allah Jazak Allah Jazak Allah thank you so much.

[@uurr54]

Just felt pain due to their behaviour and this video came in my suggestions Subhanallah

[@nia1o1]

May allah make it easy for everyone, (ameen), even when the meanest of friends and fakest of people bring you down you need to remember that surely Allah is with those who are true honest and good to themselves and others he will shield and protect us from the world if he has to, just to keep us safe, if he is surely testing us then it is for our best and for our future ❤ just gotta keep trusting him 💕

[@shailashahidullah4812]

I want to forgive ppl easily and also want to forgive myself n be at peace. Please, pray for me.

[@odebodeomotanwaaminat8783]

Alliamdulilah.. Have been humiliated severally and am grateful i have was patient all through it

[@ibtizaamahmed]

Masha Allah you are our motivitor and our schooler may Allah bless you 🙏😍

[@trustinallah2430]

Ameen

[@ultrapowerlevel]

Ameen

[@muflihaananridita5705]

Why i love this person soo much??? You will be my father in JANNAH!! ❤️❤️you ABBA!!

[@weatherman6436]

He is just a little reflection of the greatness and the beauty that will wait for you if allah accepts you! May Allah give him highest Jannah!

[@ultrapowerlevel]

Ameen

[@semsamatanovic5454]

ALLAHU AKBAR...ALLAHU AKBAR...ALLAHU AKBAR...ALLAHU AKBAR...ESHEDU EN LA IL LAHE IL ALLAHU WE ESHEDU ENE MUHAMMEDEN ABDUHU VERESULLUHU!!!

[@RuhiMulla-rx6cs]

I always get humiliated by my own relatives.but I keep patience. Ameen

[@0_psh]

💯

[@IzzatLamborghini-cj9cf]

Alhamdulillah, Allah only my superhero 😍

[@EB-gt1pq]

I try so hard to make friends with other women, but they always have some kind of issue. I’m so kind to them, but in the end, they just seem annoyed with me and wind up leaving the friendship. As a result, I have no friends.

[@sleeping_beauty8558]

I understand I feel the same it’s hard and soooooooo very lonely especially for a person that loves socialising and helping others..

[@EB-gt1pq]

@@sleeping_beauty8558 😘

[@sit5imaryamjameelahal-faisal]

Wow me 2

[@maliktoumi8152]

I have no Friends AT first it was strange but I have so much to do that i do not Care about it. At l'East no problème caused by people😂😂

[@saimadijoo8619]

It’s better to b alone than to be with people who don’t value you. May be Allah is saving you from the worst.

[@laminbah682]

I love you too for the sake of Allah i can't single sometimes those that i don't meantion are the most deserving praises.

[@evelynvalentina-y9k]

Now people's don't like me anymore i am very sad..But i have hear the words of Allah..Now i am okay with that Thanks you very you ♥♥

[@0_psh]

Don't let their words sudden you (Quran) ✨

[@NurulDysson]

So many people hate me & want me & my family dead SubhanaAllah 😢may Allah help me & all of us that have suffered injustice.The pain is very distressing

[@naziyakhan4096]

Ustadh's word are justtt ❤

[@ltt846]

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته. Assalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatu. سبحان الله. SUBHAN'ALLAH. الحمد الله. ALHAMDULILLAH. جراك الله خير. Jazakallah Ul Khairan Ya Shaykh. برك الله فيك. Barakallahul Fiqh. May ALLAH AR RAHMAN WA AR RAHIM WA AL BARR WA AL MUHAYMIN By His Rahma grants you Shaykh Nouman Barakah, Goodness, Nur, Guidance, Protection, RIZQUN KARIIM, and Janaatul Firdus among the MUQUARRABUN and all of us Wa Ajmarin and all those who wants Haqq. Allahumma Ameen.

[@ahmadizzatshahmieralhamdul4926]

Alhamdulillah always 😃

[@hyma00]

I'm just tired of having fights with friends one after another...sometimes they always act without understandings, assuming things, never really acknowledge what we mean or what we do when we're trying very hard to understand them but they just dismissed our efforts...and when one thing happens it's all our fault, not them. I'm just very tired of these people...on one side i am afraid there were't any friends left...on the other hand i just don't like how they made me the bad guy made me having trust issues

[@arfahaider8968]

O my Allah same thing happened to me recently ......

[@nurhakimey8179]

"Peoples words don't take away your honor. Peoples comments cannot take away who you are to Allah." I needed this.

[@henrytuedor2650]

If your aallah exists ask him to kill me i get qbused daily by my sister narcisst he ruined my life she abused me physcially i have trauma depression sleep problems no health chronic diseases respiration problem is this a life or am i being cursed what is my fault i did nothing bad to anyone i always forgave please i want to die peacefully know i have no one that loves me i know allah wants to burm me in hell i am exhausted please

[@Lucky781_]

MashaAllah i also needed this JazakAllah

[@anjumahmed523]

I've landed here for some motivation in dealing with such situations. SubhanaAllah! I feel at peace after listening to this but deep down it effects in a way that I've starting looking at myselves to be worthless. It's harming my innerself in losing confidence and makes me feel inferior. May Allah grant hidayath to those who have such impact on other's personality. 😢 Ameen❤

[@dieticianclinic4103]

Jazakallah khair

[@jasminali7244]

JazakAllahkhair

[@Hajaar587]

Alhamdullilah y’a rabbi

[@coolcatschitah6394]

SUBHAN ALLAH ❤

[@janifakaniz2269]

Jazak Allahu khairan...

[@RUSHDACP]

great speech...

[@sumaiyaabdullah2392]

Subhan Allah...

[@sheebamarri4144]

I get humiliated by people so often... Nd I do Saber so I often... Nd I can't even hurt anyone at all

[@gauharmir5840]

True.....

[@urvaajmal7646]

Beautifully explqined

[@apretty0911]

Very beneficial knowledge.

[@NurayaHijab]

This is gold!

[@farhadniaz732]

This was a very informative video!👍 Thank you Ustad Nouman Ali Khan

[@davincisocrates]

❤ Abu Malik Al-Ash`ari narrated that the Messenger of Allah said: “Al-Wudu is half of faith, and All praise is due to Allah (Al-Ḥamdulillāh) fills the Scale, and Glory is to Allah and all praise is to Allah (Subḥān Allāh wal-Ḥamdulillāh)’ fill” - or - “fills what is between the heavens and the earth, and Salat is light and charity is an evidence, and patience is an illumination, and the Quran is a proof for you or against you. And all people shall come to the morning selling their souls, either setting it free or destroying it.”❤

[@-AnonymousUser]

LEARNING THE HARD WAY. 😮

[@SadulloKhadjibayev]

Moral of the story:"Don't react to any humiliation,be virtous,take a back seat and end up poor".

[@MuhammadWaseem-n1m]

You can reply with diginity. No one is saying you should become a saint or muted guy.

[@sherq7872]

so true 💯 he is right

[@LoneWombat2126]

What about when almost everything said to you by your peers when you are young, easily influenced, and haven’t fully formed your identity, is always hurtful put downs, that even now as an adult it’s hard to overcome because it has been drilled so deeply into you? What if you still can’t figure out how to build self-esteem after your chance was already stolen before you even knew it?

[@The.Essential.Coaching]

I had the exact same thoughts ! When you are a child and grow up in a chaotic environment, full of violence and insults and toxic people, your brain will not develop correctly and you’ll end up with serious mental health issues that Sometimes people are not even aware of ! They end up having bad coping mechanisms not because they want to destroy themselves or do bad deeds but because they don’t know what is going on and how to deal with it properly…

[@ultrapowerlevel]

I've been a victim of the same. Fight it. Rise above it all. This is coming from a 35 year old. If someone middle aged like me can find the will and trust in Allah to start working hard and trying to pull my own weight, you can too. May Allah make it very very very simple and easy for you. Ameen

[@shailashahidullah4812]

True! May allah make it easy for us.

[@saeedabdullah7659]

Keep the good work Br

[@dreamy_world_786]

Disbelievers say on the day of judgement, " Ya Allah, please send me back " Ya Allah, please forgive our sins, not because we deserve it, but because you are most forgiving and most merciful, so please forgive us. Ya Allah, we have wronged ourselves and if you do not forgive us and have mercy upon us, we will surely be among the losers. Ya Allah, protect us from the punishment of the grave. Ya Allah, protect us from the torment of the hellfire on the day of judgement. Ya Allah, please grant us Jannatul Firdaus through your mercy. My dear brothers and sisters, say this with me... I am pleased with Allah as my Lord. I am pleased with Islam as my Religion. I am pleased with Muhammad (saw) as my Prophet. Allahu Akbar Alhamdulillah Subhanallah La ilaha illallah Muhammad ur Rasoolallah (saw)

[@maimoonanaz6654]

I moved to uk two months ago and living with my in laws and I am pregnant too and they are treating me like I am no one cause my husband is weak financially and my husband sister in laws treat me so badly and my mother in law and father in law they support her they even don't listen to there son also they say all fault is ours now I started thinking that this marriage was big mistake of my life pray for me my life is in danger

[@docprep.0]

stay with your husband if he is loyal.. everything else will be fine InshaAllah

[@aq1985]

Wow I'm so sorry, I hope since this was posted things got better, and that you have a healthy child.

[@sumayyajamsheer9612]

Same thing happened with me.. Somehow by selling my jewellery we were managed to get a house for lease . and now they were saying to people that we are bad because we separated from them. Ya rab i ask you help day and night to fix all my problems. I had small daughter i am afraid for her future we have nothing except the hope that allah is with us.. Please make dua for me please..

[@zamzam1rhamatullahnuursesay]

Alhamdulillah☝🏾“the GREATEST honor comes from Allah…People’s words does not take you away from Allah. So don’t let the words/comments of others take you away from yourself”❤️‍🩹🌱🏝

[@Fathima-ic1qv]

Thanks bro..I am going through severe hardship..everyone saying..it's my sin which are leading to hardship..I am very sensitive..it hurts a lot..thanks for comment

[@Lucky781_]

Peace and safety and honor will come upon those who follow Allah's guidance. May Allah guide us. May Allah give us ease. May Allah make guidance easy for us. May Allah forgive us. May Allah protect us from going astray. May Allah allow us to follow sirat al mustaqeem till our last breath. May Allah allow us to die with our hearts full of imaan. May Allah give us death when He(swt) is pleased with us. Ameen

[@aqsakhan-zs9uj]

Today I fell worse in my life 🥺 some one really hurts me alot but I really love him may Allah help me change his heart for me

[@ultrapowerlevel]

Ameen and may it become very very very easy and simple. Ameen

[@aqsakhan-zs9uj]

@user-pl1ki3ok6g I know what you fell may Allah help you or blessed with you rightous spouse thanks for suggesting me but bro iam in love not so easy forget him or egnore him 😢 I always prayed to Allah give me him or his love caring I want him very badly in my life or before all in this he came to me asking me my no or intrested on me 🥺 suddenly changed his behaviour iam so warried but still in hope may me he facing some problem in his life may Allah make it easy for us or bring me in my life my love every because I am still in hope my Allah change everything or dua can change this situation in a blink ameen

[@aqsakhan-zs9uj]

@@ultrapowerlevel jazakallah

[@shavezaliali11]

Ppl dsnt change may Allah give you someone better

[@ahmednoman8277]

Please write A Capital of Allah SBT in the Subtitles. Thank you.

[@online-brand-shopping]

Plz recite Drood Pak ❣️❣️

[@AJS-2023]

Assalamu Alaykum wa rahmatuhe wa barakatuh yes it's we not forget because we take lessons we not go agien thre,left for Allah SWT, who huts us whatwere...doing to me.Not losses Allah SWT is powr full we don't puts thre our briand. ALLAH SWT take care like no body else's. MY Allah SWT bless and guide to us.🤲Allah SWT bless you .

[@Adam-se8xp]

Mashallah very Good Video👍

[@yumnasgarali5336]

Alahumdullilah

[@_aGirlFromKashmir]

BEAUTIFUL ☺️💯

[@RuhaydaLucman]

Is it okay if I forgive someone however I don't want to be involved with them again?

[@Ayeshasiddiqua-v9c]

❤❤

[@blaquelinktriforce4234]

We can’t grow without having pain.

[@sarahgarrett1850]

As-Salaam Alaikum

[@_aGirlFromKashmir]

May ALLAH AZWAJAL forgive and bless you, me and all of us ! ♥️

[@nurhasanahto70]

It really happened to me. I met a man a year ago we were planning to get married but there were many things that put our plans to get married on hold we are LDR. I try the best to ask Allah to make easy for Us to meet and marry. But Recently I noticed something I didn't expect in him, he started accusing me of cheating he stars to say i whore, prostitusi, taking drugs, and doing zina. In my entire life I have never heard anyone insult me ​​except him. And now I understand why Allah.didn't answer my prayer. Now i try leave and forget May Allah forgive me and always give me patience

[@SeaShellsSeaShells89]

Brother that intro sounds like a horror movie.

[@dotter997]

Salam alikom, then i have a question. When i was 18 yrs old, walking in the country side, alone. Looking att the Beauty of the nature infront of me, and i am amazed. Then Suddenly i get hit in the back of my right side of the head..... i put my hand on it, get annoyed and i want to hit back whoever it was...NO ONE IS THERE. I get confused, what was That?? I continue walking, after some steps there is a powerful strong MAN'S voice telling me, - All this Beauty you see, GOD has created it! I look around, there is NO ONE, who was that?? This happend 38 yrs ago. I remember it like yesterday. 3 yrs after this.. when i was 21 yrs, i took shahada! Do anyone know, what i experienced? Any idea?

[@0_psh]

Walaikum Aasalam, Could be an angel tho.

[@0_psh]

May Allah shower His blessings upon you and your loved ones Aameen

[@SadulloKhadjibayev]

The angel of death might have punched you on the backside of your head,Who knows?

[@SadulloKhadjibayev]

😂Funny af.

[@BeiBe42780]

I forgive them Meaning it was for my training

[@zoraizkhan6230]

Use capital "A" for Allah

[@AkramBaig2689]

In the UK hurting is just nothing to them. It's normal

[@Sa_m-sam]

Abuse,r@pe, murder, SA children, should not be forgiven

[@Littlevillager2004]

What do u mean SA children

[@Ay-mc8kz]

​@@Littlevillager2004 sexual assault ob children

[@aaishaaa76]

​@@Littlevillager2004It means sexual abuse

[@SadulloKhadjibayev]

You shouldn't be forgiven as well 🙏.

[@Sa_m-sam]

@@SadulloKhadjibayev well I didn’t r@pe or killed anyone… why are you commenting on my comment and not about the video, incel?

[@Sa-od9ke]

Can Muslim brothers take their sisters Maher?

[@ameliam950]

No

[@0_psh]

is this some sort of a joke?

[@ameliam950]

@@0_psh question asked. So I answered. Sometimes people don't know. That is why they ask.

[@164Emperor]

what if i am hurt someone because my action,even tho i didnt mean to hurt them? am i sin to them?

[@shailashahidullah4812]

4:33

[@ForMe832]

I don't pray and i dont fast. I am terrified by the quran so it paralize me and i dont read but i talk to him and do good thing when i can for him There a chance god listen and love me depsite that ?

[@AS-ee2fw]

Allah says don’t fear them but fear him - right now you are obeying the shaytan by keeping away from the Quran and salah which you will be questioned about you were literally created to pray to allah swt - Push through the deception the shaytan has you right where he wants you this is what he promised allah swt he would do Come to allah swt before it’s too late and allah swt never wrongs anyone but they wrong themselves

[@hanyarthur676]

Assalamu'alaikum, If anyone will help me please. What surah and ayah He refers to ?

[@Fathima-ic1qv]

Walaikum assalam..it's surah maryam..

[@bouutiquems3578]

20:47 Surahtul Ta-Ha Verse 47

[@SoyBoricuan]

I'm gonna make Dua against all people.

[@pradelelien3267]

May I have to go live in cave 🙏 😇

[@semsamatanovic5454]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@leilaali2760]

😄🤲🙏

[@debraemmons2529]

100

[@fehmidamahmood88]

What are you meant to do, when your family don't forgive you ever? And you tell them Allah doesn't show mercy to those who don't forgive creation, yet they still are stubborn and full of pride and dont forgive?

[@gulsumulac7121]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZyrqGx7nrGUY9k Sister, this is a very beautiful khutbah of Nouman Ali Khan about holding grudges, asking for forgiveness and forgiving. Towards the end he answers your question. I recommend you watch it. However, i would also advise you to objectively look at your situation and ask yourself the question, "did i really do something wrong". Because a lot of times family (especially parents) think they own you and you should obey them like you are their slave (especially if you are a woman) and they use Islam to manipulate you and make you obey them. This is plain oppression. You are not anyone's slave but Allah cc's, even if they are close family, Islam tells us that no one has the right to control you (not even your parents!) and you are your own free person, free to live your life as you wish (ofcourse while keeping it Halal) and make your own choices. Don't let them manipulate you into thinking you are the bad person and should feel guilty, whereas they are the real bad ones. If you are in such a case, stand your ground, dont even apologise, don't ever feel guilty and live your life however you want. If you truly did something wrong (to them), then ofcourse apologise and follow the path Nouman Ali Khan describes in this khutbah. I wish you well. P.S. Also keep in mind that sometimes family uses "not forgiving" as a tool to punish you, for example for not letting them control you, it's just manipulation and an ego-trip or power-game to show you who's really the boss. Don't fall into that trap. If you can't talk sense into them, just walk away. Know your worth, you are Allah cc's best creation, don't forget that. Don't beat yourself up for people who don't deserve you. Sometimes you will even see that when you do that and stand up for yourself, (after a while) they are "suddenly" willing to forgive you, in a suspiciously miraculous way ;)

[@abdiikadirsalat3026]

Just try to be better to them dispute of what they do because that’s what Islam teaches

[@fehmidamahmood88]

Then they say you using islam to manipulate me, no I'm.not, I'm following my religion and encouraging you too also

[@sofiyarini]

Just go.. dont force urself to deal with them on daily basis.. the most important thing is Allah not them..

[@amallashari3635]

I must say forgiveness comes from Allah SWT in the heart of those whom you hurt... just be genuinely apologetic and pray for softening their heart in the matter you hurt them once. I can not forgive some people who hurt me and my life at some point yet I pray to Allah SWT to soften my heart.

[@allahsservent3580]

Sterio types can never sit next to the pure boys

[@NahimaTerrahi]

Sory but somtimes is so hard when it's comes how u created been by allah and people don't like it how allah created u its hard and u became of thiis like another persone but hmdl I hope allah understand 😢😢

[@wagmigme]

Talks about riba but doesn't talk about islamic finance, why?

[@wagmigme]

@Danielle Ciribassi you're mistaken, there is cost plus finance product called mourabaha.

[@SadulloKhadjibayev]

But we can't see nor talk with God,the prophets who lived at that time could have a conversation with God,example: Isaiah ibn Maryam like mentioned above.

[@ammarafarooq9534]

We are blessed with the Holy Quran. Allah swt talks to us through the verses of Quran.

[@usmanehsan5943]

my ex girlfriend hurt me 2001 L meet alice union i go on buss with me l love her but her left me her make fun at me l enjoyed my life at school maths sometimes i think about when it end when l walk 😮

[@0_psh]

Having girlfriend is Haram brother.

[@Saa42808]

Rich people don’t get hurt so make money.

[@Momofkristine]

Islam will look better if they don't let the flirt teaches about religion.

[@mohammedwaheeduddinafsar9482]

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