Truth About Toxic Masculinity | EPIC Masjid | Shaykh Dr Yasir Qadhi

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[@ceaserYazan]

This lecture requires a follow up lecture about toxic femininity

[@aasiyapowell875]

As salam alaikum, the Sheikh is addressing the root of honor killings.

[@ceaserYazan]

@@aasiyapowell875 No, that was not mentioned

[@deedeee6271]

Why not reflect on what is said and now worry about women? If our first reaction is to ask, "what about the women" or "what about men", we have not let these reminders penetrate our heads and hearts. Fight to check our egos at the door.

[@ibtisaamaahmed9096]

@@ceaserYazan the sheikh had long addressed the toxicity of feminism. But I didn’t see your comment at that time that he needed to do one on toxic masculinity. I think the lecture didn’t settle in your hearts. Always concerned about the opposite gender.

[@ceaserYazan]

The prophet taught tough men to be soft on vulnerable women and to show mercy through islamic values. In that time, it was much needed, however in our time that we a have culture against manhood and women are not vulnerable, think the focus should be on how to make men stronger and show women what islamic values are for the family dynamic.

[@neelamawan6524]

Brothers are having their kids taken away by bitter ex wives and have the police called on them with false accusations and we barely ever hear of it Alhamdulilah brother Haqiqatjoi is highlighting this

[@purplelove3666]

It's easy for them to take away your kids when you say a woman's job is to be the one to raise kids, while you don't know their value until they have to be taken away from you, whose fault is that?

[@waqasn1]

It is the fault of the one making false accusations against the other, be it the husband or the wife

[@Afthab19]

Liberals and conservatives dont like sheikh yasir qadhi but i love him , he is a real man doing scuba diving, giving intellectual library chats, powerful politically incorrect speeches in protests This guy is a national treasure, his wife is so lucky to have such a humble intellectual scholar

[@alib7489]

This is a scholarly view that we needed. Not the podcasts from some 20 - something know it all bros who have very little in the way of marriage/ life experience.

[@Arsdentrepair]

Yasir Qadhi is not scholar either.

[@meenoomeenoo4578]

wisdom may be given by Allah to even a 10 yold take knowledge when u r given it, let go critiquing who gives it to u.

[@peace6326]

Don't b jealous. God has given some young men great knowledge.

[@JP-nz4em]

i always wonder how Dr. Yasir always thought of topics no other Shayk addressed but so relevant and needed. Everything was on point

[@suryaniahmadsarji5808]

Agree !!

[@user-wf1dg8nw1t]

@@JP-nz4em because Allah gave him the knowledge of critical thinking which he probably got at Yale.

[@abdulmuminabdulai3825]

@@user-wf1dg8nw1t please don’t bring Yale here but I think he is an asset for the ummah and must be protected inshaallah

[@rosegjonde1193]

I wish this talk can be in load speakers at the house of each abusive husbands

[@purplelove3666]

Women need to leave these abusive husbands, don't ever wait for someone to speak to an abuser,do you think they don't know that what they are doing is wrong?, stop waiting and LEAVE

[@fmanjhat73]

This is what i say to my sons. All that working out in the gym does not make you into a real man. Sure work out for good health but work out your spiritual health as well. May Allah preserve the shaykh for teaching us these gems of true success. Ameen

[@aasiyapowell875]

Alhamdulilah the Sheikh attacks a handful of problems with a fell swoop

[@Jehan99100]

May Allah bless and preserve Shaykh Dr Yasir Qadhi. I have been fortunate to be a student of his for the last 20 years and have learned so much from him and his words have by Allah's permission increased my Iman and Islam in so many ways. I also had the opportunity to meet him in person last Ramadan in my trip to Dallas.

[@aisham1057]

Alhamdulillah! جزاك الله خير يا أستاذ Excellent Topic! These issues needed to be addressed. Way overdue. May الله allow us all to benefit from/understand what was said here today to make our lives easier/better moving forward by HIS mercy! الله آمين🧔🏽‍♂️🤲🏽🧕

[@superwoman8785]

Muslim men need to listen this over and over they think masculinity is not cooking and taking care of their families

[@purplelove3666]

How useless can you make yourself

[@khhamilton4981]

I wish my Muslim husband who serves in a leadership capacity would take the time to listen and understand this video. May Allah (SWT) reward you for your efforts.

[@sharifally28]

May Allah open his heart and fills with gentleness and love

[@jaffarsamoon6711]

"BE STRONG BUT NOT UNJUST" jazakallahu khair n kaseera va alaikum Salaam wa Rahmatullah wa barakaatuho ❤️✅🤲🕊️

[@Guitarm4n99]

Incredibly thoughtful lecture, Sheikh Qadhi literally encounters hundreds of couples stories and bases his points on the sunnah

[@tigeroo264]

Allahu Akbar. These are great advices. Jazhakallah Khayr.

[@MuslimBro7865]

Such great words of wisdom. Jazakallah khairan ❤

[@imawake4532]

Beautiful, Jazack Allah kheer

[@hasanolaad6572]

Jazakalahu ❣️ Khaira

[@aminajamal593]

So good to know this for all of us muslims

[@user-us3xl1fu2p]

Beautiful lecture like always.💕

[@naeem6722]

Good lecture. May Allah SWT increase Shaykh YQ.

[@knisayusuf]

terima kasih😊😊 ramai orang yg triggered dlm komen ni. I agree with you in this as a female, what I usually see in my community is some men bullied their wives(to gain financial benefit -provide min 50% nafkah), manipulating some hadiths to do so, want to be leader but lack essential core values(ethics,integrity and really practise Islam as Islam not as their/community version of it) and skills(low education level but talk big) and-only stand there(cowards) when seeing other people been bullied and stingy(or tit for tat),force other people to do sinful things(in term of working) when become leaders thank you for this reminder-I was just listened to a lecture on Debt and Loans in Islam(i.e 2 women + 1 man as witness),this put a different perspective.

[@Meccabestplace]

Allah❤

[@sangokipozi4611]

May Allah bless you sheikh Kadhi for bringing this to light. Iam blessed with three sons who are maried, and I pray to Allah Azza wa Jalla to help them be real men. They should listen to this lecture realy, since ma shaa Allah you are so good at what you do, sheikh. May Allah reward you for this. Allahumma Ameen.

[@IslamILM]

Post it to each of them. Insha Allah Allah guide us all

[@user-zy7fs4ho7e]

Podcast bros Listen carefully

[@purplelove3666]

If men have a high emotional tolerance than women,then how come they are the ones to kill the most,isnt killing driven by emotions? How come its common to hear a man kill a woman because they got rejected ? Isnt that a response out of emotion? How is that logical? Dont men abuse women the most? How is that logic?, men and women are both logical beings, some choose to use it and some choose not to,both men and women are emotional beings, some overstep their boundaries and some dont ,but we know who does though

[@MrSalah-Brit]

Please also have a session on toxic feminists

[@ibtisaamaahmed9096]

he has had sessions of feminism. And how majority of that is toxic. You can find his very old videos.

[@purplelove3666]

Focus on the toxicity among your brothers

[@MrSalah-Brit]

@@purplelove3666 and whose gonna focus on the toxicity among your sisters? You do know toxic masculinity was a reactionary creation to toxic femininity, not the other way around. Until you deal with the root cause, you can't fully cure the symptom

[@Bismillah..]

Alhamdulillah

[@rashi916]

جزاك الله خير

[@Imraz__Khan]

❤

[@shirin7992]

MashAllah such a relevant Khutba mashAllah! JazakuAllah Khairun!!

[@anudeep6884]

Please make videos on 1) Hassan radhiyallahu anhu 2) Berke khan 3) mehmed fatih 4) jalaluddin khwarizim

[@Sal-imm]

The excellent lecture ❤ may Allah help us, ameen

[@Hema1400]

Al salaam alaykum.

[@Hema1400]

In all aspects of.

[@isatousarr7044]

In today's world, with the emergence of various gender identities, it is significant to reiterate the Islamic perspective on altering one's natural state.

[@bcoctagon]

🎉🎉

[@ademvelic3580]

Assalam alayk sheikh. I love you for the sake Allah s.w. andi benefited a lot from you. Can you do similar lecture pertaining our sisters.😊

[@alimujahid6595]

Allahumma Ameen 🙏🙏🙏

[@cornflakes1494]

This is so much important topic to talk about! And should be more often dealing with all different societal problems beyond this

[@suryaniahmadsarji5808]

Protein shakes !! Sheikh is so funny 😂

[@abdulbasithashraf5480]

Very timely khatira

[@F35-do7rk]

Another example of toxic masculinity: man can’t reflect choice in his face. But ALLAH’s apostle (S) face reflected what he like and he disliked (e.g., some ‘baduin’ came to prophet (s) with open sword and beg for foods, then his (s) face became black; when Omer reading pages of ‘tawrat’ ALLAH’s apostle face became red (Ref. Muttafakunali). Moreover, if ALLAH’s apostle didn’t like something, he turned away his face. In addition, mother Aiisa said, ALLAH’s apostle was more shy than a virgin female.

[@DrnajeebAhsan]

AlhumdulilAllah someone is there to point out and explain the Masculinity ? Coming to Gym for playing developing stamina and leaving during Adhan that’s hypocritical May Allah SWT Guide us and Protect us Ameen

[@deedeee6271]

Only issue I have is the part about "acting feminine". I'm a woman. I don't think that everything I do is to compete with a man. My theory is that men do, and that they perceive what women do as a threat, when it isn't, at least from her perspective.

[@humayrahhassan-tx5pr]

Jazakallahulkhayr... Unfortunately there are daees some have PhD who actually portrait those characters... Always talks dirt about women as if no man will enter in jahannam and no woman will go to Janna... Sometimes as a woman you feel all daees have failed this gender and sometimes you because of what those daees potrait you hate the fact of being born a woman Barakallahu fiik brother at least some brothers will actually know how to be real men not always pic up a fight with women in every chance they get

[@user-wf1dg8nw1t]

There is no doubt that Adam was created before Hawa. That is why Allah made a Man so that he being stronger will take care of all humanity. Women’s Lib was projected 1400 yrs ago by our dear Prophet not in the 19th Century by few women in America. Alhumdullilah I am a proud Muslim Woman who is aware of her responsibilities to family and community.

[@usmanahmed4447]

I think it's Airforce for The Doc

[@bobtaleb9029]

What if the wife is toxic load,vile with her language and unsporting of her husband and puts her maiden family before her marriage family does the husband still has to respect her?

[@OnePathNet]

Sadakta

[@imjamesiam]

Protein Shaykh time

[@NayeemSiddiq-fm6gv]

😂

[@kalactose348]

Giga Chads Unite 🙌🏾

[@sameerrana7058]

This lecture is paradoxical. Pure academic reasoning can never bring about a change in the toxic masculinity which most Muslim men can be blamed for. The fabric of society needs to be relooked and generational reformation in teachings to be in tune with present times alone can change this attitude. Nice lecture but will prove ineffective

[@abdulkarim-sw4eb]

he came running ? that means we men need to jog and run INSHALLAH

[@girlncarpower147]

For all the men shouting what about the women? What about feminism- I’d like them to suggest the major problems in the ummah that have been caused by women. On the flip side, I can point to many women’s shelters where Muslim women AND children are sitting and have experienced and are experiencing a lot of pain. We all know of at least one home where abuse is happening against a woman and many a time we keep quiet. ‘Feminism’ is not a real problem in the Muslim community. Sure there are bad apples everywhere and gender is no category of exception but the problems of male toxicity in Muslim communities is overwhelming and sometimes even leads to unaliving women- unfortunate news that we have all heard of even in recent times even in Muslim communities in North America. Women wanting to drive in middle eastern countries or wanting to pursue careers does not cause actual harm to anyone. In fact, ‘feminism’ in Muslim communities is more like women asking for the rights that Allah has already bestowed on them in the Quran but that have been taken away from them over time. Inheritance rights, divorce rights, rights for widows, sisters, daughters- now that women are standing up and asking for their God-given rights, they are labeled ‘feminists’ because they have been used to keeping their mouths shut and just taking it for such a long time in Muslim families and communities. All is takes sometimes is for men to ask your mothers, sisters, wives how they are feeling from time to time and genuinely listen and try to sort out their problems. When we start seeing such a simple act as not a burden, maybe we will start to see actual improvement in the ummah. Until then, if you still have no clue how much of an issue male toxicity is in our ummah, please take the time to visit a local shelter and see for yourself the condition of Muslim women and children there.

[@iamshahin]

Should have invited Mohamed Hoblos

[@socdfx]

Shiekh. Umar RA was a great great man if we were to conduct our lives accordingly towards our spouses and daughters, would we fall under the definition of Toxic Masculinity? Or is the feminist agenda so strong that we have no meaningful authority over our women? Is there such a thing as geyrah or we should let our women mingle in the work place, shake hands with men, let them become workplace friends with non muslim men. The competition begins when they want to lead and that is naturally the man's role. Please make sure we address what is really going on with social media destroying the minds of women as to what is the hierarchy. No man wants to constantly have his authority over his house challenged. And then how does he exit a toxic relationship? 50%-50% split? A lot has to be covered here so I hope you don't stop short to please the progressives.

[@Jummahcollector]

Seriously toxic ferminity is real. But trust me He won't talk about it. Anyways, I will choose this message a 100 times over Andrew tate

[@MK-uq4xw]

Simp nation is uniting in the comments section. Lmaooo

[@pasttax2734]

I dare a shaykh to make a video called toxic feminism, just youtube men's rights and all the videos that come up are basically how to bow down to women.

[@ibtisaamaahmed9096]

@pasttax2734 You are not being sincere. All we have heard as women growing up is the rights of men and how to serve men. Especially those of us who did not grow up in the west. Because of that some men abuse these rights. So the need for sheikhs to start talking about the toxicity. Give me one sheikh aside this that has talked about toxic masculinity. It's just one sheikh and all of a sudden, there is comparison to the other gender. Another reason why you are not sincere, this sheikh has in the past talked about the dangers of feminism and why we muslim women shouldn't subscribe to that idea because we take how muslims should act from the Quran and Sunnah. That was years ago. You didn't dare him then to do videos about masculinity. Yet, he did and you still condemn the sheikhs. AS HE SAID, THIS IS NOT ABOUT GENDER WARS. STOP ESCALATING THE ISSUE. Learn from lectures about men, women will learn about female and we will complement each other in shaa Allah.

[@aasiyapowell875]

There is a huge problem recently with honor killings. The Sheikh is attacking the root of the problem.

[@Mai_cooks]

I didn't hear him mentioning that. He's clearly talking about toxic masculinity​@@aasiyapowell875

[@SE-hw6yx]

I think you missed the point Exactly the point in the lecture - know yourself first, then worry about feminism. If both genders concerned and worked to optimise their responsibility and accountability, we would have conformity from the partnership

[@deedeee6271]

Why not reflect on what is said and now worry about women? If our first reaction is to ask, "what about the women" or "what about men", we have not let these reminders penetrate our heads and hearts. Fight to check our egos at the door.

[@user-wf1dg8nw1t]

There is no doubt that Adam was created before Hawa. That is why Allah made a Man so that he being stronger will take care of all humanity. Women’s Lib was projected 1400 yrs ago by our dear Prophet not in the 19th Century by few women in America. Alhumdullilah I am a proud Muslim Woman who is aware of her responsibilities to family and community. She Stoops to Conquer- Bernard Shaw.

[@SRS541]

36:22 Pakistani drama 😂💀

[@asif_3303]

Unfortunately ,there are no men (al rijaal ) in your conference !!!!!

[@nahinisrat1182]

Quran recitation at the end of the video is amazing MashaAllah …. Anyone kindly share the link of the recitation. Jazak Allah

[@MuhannadDarwish]

Now do feminism shiekh or are you fearful abt your reputation with the radical feminist sisters and liberal Muslim orgs

[@syayayayaya]

He is just human we have to balance what we consume regarding our deen. We can learn gentleness and forbearance from YQ And bravery and stoicism from M. Hijab and Muslim Skeptic Channel the Umar RA as well as the Uthman RA if that makes sense

[@MuhannadDarwish]

@@syayayayaya well said, YQ is a good scholar I’m especially a fan of his Seerah and sahaba series but he’s lacks conviction. He tries to modernize certain aspects of Islam to fit into liberal values that corrupt society

[@deedeee6271]

This is a cheap shot and it's clear you are not concerned about solving the crisis we are facing as a ummah on many fronts.

[@IhsaanHusain-np2dc]

These word games created and adjective to masculinity Like self hating Jews etc are similar example , Yasir fallen into it.

[@cornflakez5350]

Respectfully sheikh, you missed the mark with this one

[@redwoodsam]

how so?

[@purplelove3666]

You missed the mark,

[@aimancheikhali1707]

Not one verse about jihad. This guy is scared to talk about it. Where's the masculinity?

[@kungfufreak360]

Are you FBI? Lol

[@iqbalmusaji9365]

Please listen if necessary listen twice before criticizing a scholar in a public forum. JIHAD, is struggling; The leader the sheikh spoke from Yaseen spoke up that’s jihad. The Sheikh gave several other examples from Quran , like fighting against you nafs to leave business and go for prayers when it times(SURAH Noor).

[@deedeee6271]

@@iqbalmusaji9365 Clearly many people here have no idea what they are talking about.

[@PiewPiew306]

He has lost the plot

[@Saad-ul6py]

I don't know whether YQ has noticed that his words nowadays have barely any impact on the listening ears. His words stir no feelings at all. Empty. May Allah help us.

[@wallendegen1]

Jazakhallah khair please speak for yourself alone

[@isalutefamille]

If his words stir none of your feelings, then you should probably check the state of your heart. I listen to YQ and share this kind of talk with my young adult children. His topics are quite often our dinner table subjects as well.

[@apap745]

I think you are empty

[@kafumbakenneh4853]

May be for you.

[@LightninNarwhal101]

​@@isalutefamilleTalking about toxic masculinity at the dinner table...may Allah save this Ummah

[@mohammed96011]

No such thing as toxic masculinity. Nonsense

[@nonetype3097]

Wdym? It is toxic behaviors that men do that are pushed into them by other men/ women in society. There are behaviors that some men do that are not healthy and can hurt others but are normalized by certain groups. I don't get what you mean by this.

[@kungfufreak360]

Watch the lecture before running your mouth

[@mohammed96011]

@@kungfufreak360 no such thing as toxic masculinity.

[@mohammed96011]

@@nonetype3097 likewise women. Likewise any other person. You can't blame masculinity for that

[@mohammed96011]

@@nonetype3097 don't blame masculinity for that. That's a social construction made by salty women

[@IhsaanHusain-np2dc]

I subs this channel for duas , but I am unsubscribing due to sheikh yasir's lack of debate ability and voluntary falling into spider webs made by people who play word games and play lie games

[@GhostRider-yh7sh]

Yasir al Fadi Biggest enemy of the Salaf in our time May allah guide him

[@ACADEMICREHAB]

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