TSL Reveals Their Relationship Red Flags

We sat down in this new year to rate some common dating & relationship red flag scenarios. How many of these can you relate to? 🚩🚩🚩
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[@TheSmartLocal]

If your partner does not like your friends, is it a red flag?! Comment down below!

[@HiImZech]

yes! otherwise they cannot trust each other and therefore putting me in a spot whenever one side is inquiring the other about me 😵😵

[@cookiemnxstr57]

But what if the friends of your partner is like using him/her? In a way they’re only there when they need you but when you need them, non of them will be there?

[@nikktedd1070]

Total yessss!

[@pinkblob1523]

yes.

[@emiliahon4010]

first i ask why my partner no like my friends then if he give excuses or cannot give reason then red flag alr. but if he give rlly gd reason like my friends using me then i also think that way sometimes then bye friend

[@epiphadipity]

Brenda and Fauzi in their own world so cute 🤣

[@sherlyn4429]

"your partner often goes out of the way to send a colleague or friend home who is single" SHOTS FIRED AT RYANXGO FROM NOC 👀👀👀

[@freedomisbest9029]

LMAOO

[@zendenng5333]

LOL TRUE

[@adoroselatte]

BURRRNNNNNN

[@Peggy0355]

LMAOAOAOAO

[@dawnho7744]

I thoroughly enjoy this episode. Especially Sangeeta and Leah's logical explanations. Very true.

[@lyla2222]

SANGEE WAS LITERALLY GLOWING THIS ENTIRE VIDEO SHE IS SO PRETTY AAAAHHHHH

[@jojihye]

AGREEDDDDDD i alw look at her and think, omg shes damn pretty xD

[@ireneg9297]

Sending/ fetching a colleague/ friend on a routine basis crosses the line of being helpful. Prolly sending wrong signal to the other recipient who takes your free rides as well. Focus on your priority and don’t make that special one feels like an option.

[@sakaedon]

Haha this was surprisingly entertaining. All pairs had really good chemistry together too!

[@MsDarkEra100]

Leah: I pay for you la I'll be your sugar mummy Just call me mummy okay! *realisation hits*. Sorry mami Sorry mummy Sorry mummy 😂😂😂

[@sohsaraaa]

Hahahaha this episode was so fun to watch cos they’re really joying it and you can tell hahaha I love it

[@pearlynlo8095]

That 1st pt is SUPER RED FLAG . Doesn’t matter what crap excuses either party gives.

[@TheSmartLocal]

👀👀👀

[@LittleStrawbirdy]

sangee and leah had more indepth thoughts! even though their first instinct was "it's ok" later they delve into it more

[@zazazazaza1999]

Brenda and Fauzi are the definition of platonic soulmate

[@choonkeonglim6178]

A wild auntie Leah and Sangee appeared 13:20 🤣🤣🤣

[@VitaSippo]

more relationship topics, please 😁

[@CrazyPaperSun]

Is Sangee referring to the classic Schmosby 😂

[@Maxinedesiree]

I have a question and am open to hear you guys' thoughts. Fauzi did mention, if the person is not financial savvy, he wouldn't date that person (which i'd do the same too) but what if the person is "there for you emotionally" all the time. Is it still wise to say you value emotions > finance? asking cause that's what a friend of mine said/did. 🤪

[@mikaylamerna62]

Not really because financial problems will affect one's emotion especially in the long run. I think the person needs to be at least financially stable to be "there for you emotionally", unless you're rich or financially stable yourself.

[@babie_mochi_7908]

1st qn reminded me of the ryan Sylvia incident.

[@goglowboy4855]

What abt when your date expresses that your best friend(s) is/are “hot” or attractive?

[@TheSmartLocal]

👀👀👀🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻

[@jun-ws9lw]

omg i need p2

[@Jinnlongg]

Can y’all do more red flag videos?

[@tianasplace8956]

“When they dont have common sense”😭😭😭

[@felisong]

Relationships are never easy especially if you add different cultures and practices into the relationship 😂!

[@justinzy5]

Mine last relationship I had meet mine gf 2-3 times a week or more. Is possible both want to.

[@juicypotatoes5138]

I have a guy that I liked six years ago. I only recently saw him again after six years and I started liking him again:/ Childhood crush yk... But it's kinda complicated because my 'friend' also knows him and they're somewhat close. But that 'friend' that I thought was my friend turned out to be a b so I'm not friends with her anymore. Right after that 'fight' we had, the guy I liked unfriended me on this game (valorant) and idk it's kinda sus. Do you think my 'friend' told the guy that I liked some shit about me? And what's worse is that she knew that I liked him and I used to tell a lot about how I felt to her...AHHH SO DIFFICULT I CANNOT

[@TheSmartLocal]

Can be made into drama sia.....D:

[@rosyxue1785]

This guy don't worth your time!

[@mainesobari]

i mean if that childhood friend of idk six years cant even last compared to whatever brainwash that b of a fren said to him, then it isnt worth it.

[@rosyxue1785]

@@mainesobari did he ever clarify with you what the b told him about you if she really did?

[@seanistrying]

f2f > texting 😌

[@TheSmartLocal]

But so troublesome to meet everyday leh.......

[@seanistrying]

@@TheSmartLocal its more of me getting slight anxiety from messages 🥲 mentally draining aspect than having to communicate every day. small talks are just a no no imo

[@michaelwong4425]

Idk I feel I would enjoy my gf's company in person, even if it's us doing our own individual work over continuous texting over the phone for hours.

[@wrongamount]

honestly same, i hate texting

[@yanbin4548]

can u guys do friendship red flag??

[@Jx0592]

I've always hated when ppl say first but now the fact that I am "early" I low-key wanna say that so... FIRSTT

[@maesy6161]

had war time flash backs @ the P.E.E.L lol

[@zazazazaza1999]

Didn't expect wonho namedrop, yess

[@hotspurfan278]

Fauzi, where is your shirt from?!

[@mynameisfauzi]

Arcade Men!

[@freedomisbest9029]

This is an interesting video haha

[@clairewong25]

To Sew: I currently do have a friend (who recently rejected me after dating for awhile but we’re still best friends) who really isn’t a conversationalist. Like really is not. Can’t really hold one convo well either. Talking to him sometimes really makes me wanna vomit blood. sometimes I would ask him to give a topic to talk, then he would say nothing to talk about/don’t know what to talk about. Then sometimes I would feel quite pekcek already, then I’d tell him that I feel that he doesn’t want to even talk to me. Then he would say that it is just how he is, and that is his character, which is not a conversationalist. LIKE THAT HOW??? CAN EVERYBODY HELP UR GAL OUT HERE OMGGGG!?!?!!

[@zendenng5333]

that one ah I tell u he not interested, no point liao

[@prudenceow5283]

Move on girl, stop wasting your time and effort on him

[@jacelynteo2005]

If he rlly likes you, he would try ngl. he would if he wanted to and he wouldn't stop trying until he can hold a full on conversation with u. He would try his best to communicate with u to the best of his ability, if he can't even try, he aint worth it.

[@blackblack1030]

Been in this situation before. He is not interested for sure. Yup move on. It hurts initially but you will get used to it. Good luck !

[@f.p1758]

Well... Didn't he reject you? What's the problem?

[@nele3055]

Scenario 1 - Ryan take note~

[@chloe9714]

is it just me or Sew is getting more and more prettier?

[@Timholle]

Why is almost everything a 5 for me 😂

[@tanjunwei-ms6kc]

Charmaine is 1st person with 10 red flags

[@joelyipjr.522]

cant relate...broke up

[@farrhanng]

So.. Sew doesn't shower? 😂

[@jeanongjx]

tsl mbti pls

[@snorlaxDjoker]

Mummy leah 😁😁😁

[@shalyntaynorthlandss6556]

what does shag meannnnnnn?

[@daishukiy4870]

a bit like " wah tired" that kind xD

[@shalyntaynorthlandss6556]

@@daishukiy4870 okii thank youuu!!!

[@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS]

😲😲😲

[@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS]

😲😲

[@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS]

😲

[@BmanBudiman14]

Pay lah. LOL sugar mummy