Turn Offs in a Relationship for Japanese

[@mijailov1c]

Turned off by not eating as much as someone else is crazy, let the guy rest he can't eat more he's full😭😭

[@Ryuuuu11231]

It is all about manner. Don't order something you know you can't eat

[@animegangluis]

@@Ryuuuu11231I’m glad I’m someone that can out eat someone

[@havefuntazarasu5367]

I feel like this channel will be big later, she is clearly being respectful and showing a lot of things people really curious about❤

[@animegangluis]

First off the last guys interview talking about his class was Soo relatable and I love how he expressed his opinion and hope he finds good and comfort with wether friends family or a loved one, as for the the other girls that was interviewed most of the opinions were mostly the same, Don’t eat nor chew loudly and make noises with ur mouth open dress properly have good manners think and watch about what u do cuz ur performance will determine the outcome of wether the person gets turned ON or OFF PS: Performance is IMPORTANT!✅ ( パフォーマンスは重要です! )

[@jeremyw.5729]

I like how you fully accept people's answers even if you don't agree with them. Very classy.

[@psyduckTV]

i like this format better just a quick thought and on to the next one

[@Atmsphrmistykal]

"i don't like being called kimi or omae" me in Japan: TEMEE !! 😂 jk aside she's really cute. nice interview!

[@itcouldbewill]

I feel like the first girl didn't express herself correctly -- maybe her impression of "second-hand clothing" is clothing that looks super out of date & doesn't fit well on you. A lot of places in Tokyo actually encourage & love the vintage look, especially Koenji.

[@alxrchn]

He was probably wearing real vintage. Tattered shit

[@paranoidkev1776]

Waiting for a girl to say the Kirkland brand is a turn on

[@wolfganghumboldt4830]

Nah girls like her are real in big cities in Japan. I tried to date one. I wore second hand clothes and she later told me she ghosted me for “looking homeless.” Like any big city in the world, people can be really shallow.

[@Jonymago]

Japanese people are really serious about fashion and style, to the point it's almost all they care about, sure there's plenty of more moderate people but from my experience living here, there's definitely a lot that only care about how you dress.

[@wolfganghumboldt4830]

@@Jonymago I will back you up on that. Especially in the big city. It feels like people will put on a whole ass gucci fit just to check the mail.

[@Murph_.]

All these interviews should end this way, with the interviewer giving her answers.

[@benh5774]

Agree with the last guy, suggesting efficiency improvements can get you into trouble. Happens all the time with my wife!

[@bawad01]

I like Sayuri's energy.

[@ShintiYu_]

Completely getting turned off by clothes is insane 😂 nice interview!

[@jagason7494]

Clothes kinda reflect who you are though in a way so it makes sense and it is part of your appearance

[@animegangluis]

@@jagason7494honestly to me clothes don’t really define who I really am as a human being. I’m just a guy who just wants to wear normal clothes, To me I could care less about style etc as long as I dress good properly and take care of myself and how I look. People will come to you

[@jagason7494]

@@animegangluis wat u said kinda defined how u kinda are. Obviously clothing doesn’t say everything but it does say the type of person you are.

[@rrsc870]

アメリカ人なんですが、僕の彼女（日本人）も食べ残しが苦手だと言われて直しました！ これも文化の違いなんですが、上手くいってほしいから彼女のことを見習って食べ残せずに心がけています笑

[@Xanthios73]

Very relatable being turned off by poor manners! I think for me, biggest turn off is wearing overly expensive designer clothes/accessories. Anyone would want their partner to look nice, but spending hundreds or thousands of dollars on something purely because of the logo shows poor taste and priorities in my opinion.

[@vanshtanwar3465]

Love your content❤. Support from India.❤

[@trumanjason4258]

interesting video !

[@michaelaskew6025]

Thanks, Sayuri.🥰💚🌱 Yes, noisy eaters and those who chew with their mouths open=😬🤢As for second-hand clothes? I don't know if I would be able to tell if someone were wearing them or not. Wouldn't worry me, though.

[@airgaborpara3824]

In ramen shop all people eat very loud!!! Women and men too! :D

[@qrsx66]

I don't care about the little things (clothes...) but I don't like liars.

[@hungerxhunger]

4:22 shes really cute

[@Adi_leo98]

The girl in the red top seems fun . Beautiful smile ❤

[@bluasterisk]

6:12 I feel like a good amount of Japanese girls want a guy to "lead" and decide everything. I kind of find that unattractive because it feels like I'd have to do everything all the time, it kind of tells me they're irresponsible to an extent. Sure maybe that's acceptable if the girl is on the younger side, but when they're nearing 30+ it kinda looks childish.

[@ShannonDerie]

2 girls at 5:30 don’t like it when their dates don’t finish their meal.WOW are they hard done by

[@airgaborpara3824]

If feeling is more important than efficency than Japan is before collapse.

[@Fredderey]

Apart from the norms of politeness, it is all very subjective, especially clothing.

[@garrieWalker]

Hi Sayuri, brilliant Vlog and subject too........... I thought relationships are about compromise, understanding, respect and changes together, not not judging us on materail thing like clothes or have I got that wrong............. Have a brilliant week??? Garrie Chan

[@jmoney1688]

Appearance and presentation is a judge of character that normally gives off a certain aura of who you are as a person. It's kinda like a job interview. Especially if you want those to take you seriously

[@Ziggy9000]

As long as the clothing doesn't look second hand it shouldn't matter, right?

[@AZ-ph4fs]

She probably doesnt like that vintage aesthetic

[@naturalmedicinewriting5208]

楽しかった　食っちゃらって新しい言葉を学んだww

[@manaoharsam4211]

I would like to see videos where you interview Japanese , and ask them how Japanese economy is doing. I am getting an impression that Japan is still showing stagnant growth. Maybe I am comparing to India. In India standard of living is going up rapidly. China appears to have become wealthy. I heard in one of youtube videos you can live in Japan for 46000 US dollars. That is real cheap. USA on other hand is atleast three times expensive. I live in USA. In fact India is almost as expensive as Japan. So I am requesting some video. Is Japan becoming poorer or is there still deflation even with a weak Yen. Yes I have have been watching videos regarding dating etc. I believe I am past that point but would like to visit Japan. It would be also useful to know what I would pay to visit Japan short term. Their healthcare system for foreign visitors etc.

[@airgaborpara3824]

Demanding, too independent , cold , city lover , fashion mad girls are a big turn off.

[@misfittoytower]

Wow, the first girl is super petty! "Gross! You saved money on your shirt! Let's break up!" Stay away from pathetic girls like that.

[@MICHAEL_I97]

Yeah I'm cooked, my bloodline ends with me

[@Robert-j7g2t]

Sayuri sans wears a nice outfit!

[@SinoUsagi夏篠兎]

ちょっと気になるのは、何で君とお前で呼ぶのがいけないの、見た日本アニメや、ドラムにこの呼ぶ方よく使うじゃ、もしかして夢と現実の違いそういうこと🤣

[@elmalanmalan2175]

Japanese care so much for little details

[@NoComplience]

I agree, makes my head explode, so many rules and expectations, and then u got reading the air 😂

[@nicjansen230]

If kimi, omae and anta aren't good ways to refer to a cute girl, what do you call them if you don't know their name? Would anata or ojou-san be alright or is it better to ask for their name?

[@locksmith1887]

Japanese is a little bit different than English. You dont need to put subject on every sentence, oftentime using implication or relying on context is i enough. So, you can just say “O namae wa nan desuka” to ask name. (O before the namae used to make the sentence more polite because you’re speaking to stranger)

[@nicjansen230]

@@locksmith1887 I know, that doesn't really answer my question... What if I want to say something before asking their name? Do I just have to omit/dodge saying "you" or is there a word they don't hate?

[@msdqa]

​@@nicjansen230 if you dont have their attention yet OR need to adress one specific girl out of a few (who already have your attention for listening), they're using onee-san (big sister). "like hey oneesan you dropped your wallet", or when talking to three random girls that have your attention: "the oneesan in the middle, whats the name?". this video for example: XdphQVWK19k , that channel is nice for general listening and hes using that alot all the time. they use other words for if its a guy (bro) or older men/women (uncle/aunty i think -offensive if they dont feel that old iirc) etc, google it, i dont have it in my head right now. but yeah you always dodge saying "you" in these cases, you can gently motion your palm-up hand (no pointing) towards the person as you ask something and its all clear who you're adressing/refering

[@loick9376]

Next time, ask Japanese women what they really think about Black men please

[@cutiemarshall6502]

0:57 Bet her Furla Bag is second-hand lol

[@Wilson12857]

The interview background was already a turn off. Didn’t stay for the whole video.

[@15751Chris]

Pick me pick me!