Turn Them Into the BEST Version of Themselves

[@ShellyBullard]

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[@flyawaybutterflyhealingchannel]

In a healthy relationship 1 year after an abusive one. I have done the work...hard work on myself. Ready for the real thing!

[@Paulina-yv7go]

Is it with the same person? Tell us more...

[@flyawaybutterflyhealingchannel]

@@Paulina-yv7go no...the narcissist is gone...I am healing, this is a new man...A kind one

[@Michelle-q9q]

Lots of men become abusive, especially when there are financial difficulties are the men are not doing a very good job, it depends where you live as well because some cities have better or worse economies than others, there was a lot of domestic violence during the pandemic when people were off work and staying at home together

[@meowmeow1stgen668]

4:07 thank you for being real about relationships. It’s not often that you see people in the community talk about the human aspects about manifesting relationships.

[@jasminecovey7046]

Appreciate this video! I have been following your work for years and have been in a relationship with my dream man for 2 and a half years now. I desire to have the most amazing relationship AND I'm human and certain things can get on my nerves, annoy, or scare me. It was a great reminder to reflect on what stories do I tell myself and what stories do I want to tell myself. Thank you!! 💛

[@dezia1403]

The way I look at this is that we aren't changing who they are, we are changing how they treat us. It all comes back to us.

[@SalvatoreFerrell]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@SalvatoreFerrell]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?

[@SalvatoreFerrell]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

[@ShellyBullard]

Sending love ❤

[@amylever1997]

This is amazing. Im manifesting my SP back. I manifested contact after 4 months. Hes not showing up how i want atmo so i am just going back internally to how well he used to treat me.

[@ShellyBullard]

GREAT!!!

[@zahraA-eq3pk]

I was in a relationship with a man for 3.5 years. He was so loving and caring in first year. Then he hot less caring and started to tease me sometimes. But he still loved me and always wanted to be with me. From 4 months ago he suddenly changed a lot and he is treating like a narcissist. He really ignores me and hurts me. I does not care about me at all. I feel devastated and cannot leave him since I am so attached to him and I am afraid of abondonment. It's now 1 month that I am trying to manifest him back as a loving and nice version. I m doing affirmations and visualizing but he is getting more aggressive and ignorant towards me. I feel to give up. It hurts a lot

[@ShellyBullard]

I am sorry to read this. Watch this, I think you will like it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nKPUmpmha9d0oZI

[@mosuutjuh]

Thank you Shelly! I noticed this too. Even when i was 5 years old.and it really is very true. Always thought about this concept. Even before the Law Of Assumption. ❤

[@OccultSubliminals]

Best part of the video: "if the person is all bad, why would you want to be with that person in the first place". 😂❤

[@ShellyBullard]

Exactly!

[@marciabravo7483]

Great video, Shelly!🎉

[@PatternBreakerTarot]

Thank you so much for creating a teaching about this! This has been a big sticking point for me.❤❤❤

[@ShellyBullard]

I am so happy to read this! GREAT!! You are welcome!

[@PatternBreakerTarot]

@@ShellyBullard In my situation it is an immature adult family member. It is hard to not “fix” the situation. But the way you explained it helped me so much. Do you have teachings about family dynamics? That would be awesome! Thanks again! 😘❤️❤️

[@belindavanvelzen5257]

Thanks for sharing your powerful wisdom

[@ShellyBullard]

You are welcome ❤

[@Trick22x]

Appreciate you❤

[@roboct6]

Metaphysical facts!

[@GloriaMGK]

Interesting. What if I dont know the person, I can create a belief about them? For example, I know my future boss will be generous..

[@muazdemmi7623]

Yes you can!!!

[@ShellyBullard]

yes!

[@7Meme6997]

Is there a “you are” version of any of your affirmations? ❤ amazing videos love these ❤️

[@tnijoo5109]

Hi Shelly, I’m kind of new to this but I have watched a bunch of your videos and I love your channel and the way you explain things. I’m not sure if this is too advanced or requires too much complexity, but I wonder about relationships with a painful history. I have PTSD and had to cut ties with my family because they’re toxic and abusive but I always remember loving things and beautiful times and our bonds and miss them. But then there are memories that pop into my head, especially of my mom, that really mess me up, days later even. It makes me feel like it’s impossible to ever have a relationship again. I know so many people are from families like this that wish they could have normal relationships again. I wonder if you might make any videos or courses for something like that, or even on how to be okay in the world again after PTSD, if it’s possible. Thank you ❤🙏

[@georgannkingsland767]

I'm sure he's a great person just

[@kristenmoonrise]

This is fun to play around with, honestly! 😅😉

[@ShellyBullard]

Right!

[@georgannkingsland767]

Shelly it's not negative it's real he doesn't want to commit.

[@ShellyBullard]

Have you check out this video? kzbin.info/www/bejne/enXNYap3qqygaLs 😍

[@brooklynh.1827]

Shelly I have a lot of resistance towards changing others because I start to feel like if I “slip up” or “mess up” that I won’t be loved or I will get betrayed and everything will fall apart and it will be my fault because I’m not perfect. I was in a relationship and it started off rough bc he lied to me when we first met about having relationship experience. So I did not subconsciously trust him and began to develop insecurity abt his past relationship. I broke up with him a couple months ago bc he betrayed me. Im scared that I lost my person because it was my fault. I would get upset at him for lying or manipulating me and he would in return call me emotional and start yelling and breaking things in fights. Thinking I can “change” someone when they are abusive, manipulative and that it’s my responsibility and fault is really discouraging… the relationship was really painful and traumatizing and to think that it was all because of me makes me feel really sad and hopeless. To me, leaving the relationship was stepping more towards self love than staying and trying to love myself when my partner was abusive :/

[@DemosChristofides]

EXACTLY! CONTINUE TO HELP PEOPLE IN NEED AS A MASTER MANIFESTOR THAT YOU ARE . BRAVO, I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST! TO CHANGE OUR SELF CONCEPT FIRST AND THEN THE REST. THANK YOU! 👍EXCELLENT!

[@irenapoljanec7671]

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[@tinalifestyle888]

"imagine others lovingly" -Neville Goddard