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3 ай бұрын

Turned Down My Childhood Crush Who's Now a Single Mom Because She Rejected Me When I Was Unattractive - Her Friends Blew Up My Phone Demanding I Give Her a Chance.
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@DarkEinherjar
@DarkEinherjar 3 ай бұрын
In the end, it all boils down to three simple words: NO MEANS NO. OP was able to understand that two years before and move on, so suck it up, lady.
@VoiceOfTheEmperor
@VoiceOfTheEmperor 3 ай бұрын
You forgot the two additional words: "Bill Cosby!"
@abrown6214
@abrown6214 3 ай бұрын
Pill Cosby​@@VoiceOfTheEmperor
@Astari777
@Astari777 3 ай бұрын
​@@VoiceOfTheEmperorwhat does it mean? Im 12 and i am still an idiot
@bakedandbeaded
@bakedandbeaded 3 ай бұрын
@@Astari777 It's a joke that you're much too young to get but not because you're an idiot, just because of age. Bill Cosby drugged women and didn't take no to mean no. Bad guy.
@VoiceOfTheEmperor
@VoiceOfTheEmperor 3 ай бұрын
@@Astari777 ask your parents. I'm NOT telling you here.
@danteerskine7678
@danteerskine7678 3 ай бұрын
Men insisting on pursuing women: creep Women obsession on pursuing men: men should give them a shot. Hypocritical double standards and why dating is on the decline these days
@bamaboo8398
@bamaboo8398 3 ай бұрын
Nah that's creepy in both ways And even when guys hit too hard on women, their friend encourage them too sometimes
@TheoriginalBacchuscleric
@TheoriginalBacchuscleric 2 ай бұрын
​@@bamaboo8398Zoomer detected. Society is now pushing as hard as ever against our most basic instincts. The reason for the chase was to learn who each other were and to see if it's worth pursuing. Then feminism happened. And then it mutated. Now pursuing a mate is "creepy."
@bamaboo8398
@bamaboo8398 2 ай бұрын
@@TheoriginalBacchuscleric Don't ever go near a woman please 💀
@legiontepes3474
@legiontepes3474 3 ай бұрын
If they don't want you on their prime, don't take them in their decline.
@DavidGarcia-mr5lu
@DavidGarcia-mr5lu 3 ай бұрын
Love this comment
@ZombieLogic101
@ZombieLogic101 3 ай бұрын
Amen
@serbrawl7981
@serbrawl7981 3 ай бұрын
he wasnt in his prime the first time, dont be an incel
@Dahaka-rd6tw
@Dahaka-rd6tw 3 ай бұрын
@@serbrawl7981 "Sigh" _Is SHe doesn't want you on her prime, don't take her in her decline._ did that make it easier to you to get?
@azereairre9991
@azereairre9991 3 ай бұрын
PREACH!
@amontescott4094
@amontescott4094 3 ай бұрын
Bro if she didn't give you a chance the first time don't give her the time of day when she comes crawling back
@Queen-Blue
@Queen-Blue 3 ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@kamuibluefire8468
@kamuibluefire8468 3 ай бұрын
This is true but attraction isn't really a choice. The real problem is her saying she wasn't dating at the time which was a lie. Also I'd argue she didn't come crawling back. Chances are if he didn't come back home they never would have spoken again. Being attracted to someone later in life after they have changed is very normal.
@gregoryk.9815
@gregoryk.9815 3 ай бұрын
​@@kamuibluefire8468 oh you mean after she's been around the block and has a kid and is now looking for someone to support her and her kid. Know if you're a guy and you're making more than $70,000 a year never date a woman with a kid because you will do something called improving the child's life and then they can charge you child support.
@arthaiser
@arthaiser 3 ай бұрын
@@gregoryk.9815 i would say that in general, even if you make less, dont date women with kids. note how i said "in general", is not an absolute.
@sandraal2585
@sandraal2585 3 ай бұрын
​@@gregoryk.9815 you dont pay child support if its not your child hahaha stop the lies hahahaha especially if you didnt marry her hahaha
@user-qf1bb7nm8s
@user-qf1bb7nm8s 3 ай бұрын
Got to love when they are so out of options that they crawl back and you get to return the “no”.
@jakebrandon7632
@jakebrandon7632 3 ай бұрын
They must think that the guy should be lucky they’re even getting a chance when really she has nothing to offer anymore.
@user-qf1bb7nm8s
@user-qf1bb7nm8s 3 ай бұрын
During COVID. A friends crush reached out to him because she wanted him to subscribe to her OnlyFans, because she was broke and a single mother. The way she phrased it was like she was somehow doing him a favor by him paying her to get naked. Some people are just delusional.
@jakebrandon7632
@jakebrandon7632 3 ай бұрын
This happened to me as well, in high school I was overweight and I got rejected and mocked for the first three years. During my senior year I had enough of it and lost 40lbs and I noticed the same girls would start to give me attention. I ignored all of them and twelve years later I’m married to a beautiful woman while most of them are overweight and/or single moms. Seeing as they all have the same personality they did in high school I think I dodged many bullets.
@SvarogAristaeusAllen
@SvarogAristaeusAllen 3 ай бұрын
They started giving you attention because you were finally worth the attention. The fact you felt the need to note that they are overweight now means you know being overweight is seen as unattractive yet you act insulted that they rejected you when you were overweight. They just did what you did.
@Dustin81
@Dustin81 3 ай бұрын
@@SvarogAristaeusAllenYou just did the same saying just because he was slimmer he was worth the attention. It’s also not a dig to point out the irony.
@vishnujallim3760
@vishnujallim3760 3 ай бұрын
​@@SvarogAristaeusAllenits karma i think...good for him and fuck them
@TheGenericAssasin
@TheGenericAssasin 3 ай бұрын
I don't really get this logic. Are you saying they should have dated you when they found you unattractive? Is it wrong to have once found someone unattractive but later find then attractive after they've worked on themself?
@TileBitan
@TileBitan 2 ай бұрын
​@@SvarogAristaeusAllenin this case, being the first matters a lot. Guy is completely in the right for mocking the irony of them being overweight, as he got bullied over it by the same people
@low-keydrama1260
@low-keydrama1260 3 ай бұрын
Regardless of what gender, age, or sexuality you are: *NO MEANS NO* i don’t buy Natalie’s explanation at all. Her initial reaction to being rejected, finding OP to confront him said more than what she ever tried to explain. She for sure sent her friends after him. Maybe I’m being too cynical because of Reddit but it feels like she’s being nice and understanding now to lure OP back to her
@josephskelatin3943
@josephskelatin3943 3 ай бұрын
I thought the same, and I too think it may be these countless reddit stories making us cynical. I do want to hold out hope to the possibility of just poor behavior for a moment, rather than a thoroughly orchestrated malicious plan. The problem is, people in this day and age don't give us much to work with, and in situations like this it's almost safer to assume the worst. I hope we're wrong, but I wouldn’t be surprised if we're not.
@justinekho4751
@justinekho4751 2 ай бұрын
OP is too naive to believe her lol
@Chipiliro613
@Chipiliro613 3 ай бұрын
It's difficult to give someone a second chance when they never gave you a first...
@Chipiliro613
@Chipiliro613 3 ай бұрын
She has no problem with rejection but hates being rejected.
@ZuriSmooth
@ZuriSmooth 3 ай бұрын
Fr
@Wanboy
@Wanboy 2 ай бұрын
Woman logic 😂
@jackchop1576
@jackchop1576 3 ай бұрын
I would have lost the crush the moment she laughed in my face after I asked her out. And she's lying about not sicking her friends on OP and then thought guilt tripping him over guys being nasty to her was shady.
@jenniekham5838
@jenniekham5838 3 ай бұрын
Yeah she could have stopped her friends beford don't tell me u didn't know cause u did She couldn't take no and she made excuses Like it could have been true and all that the guy was pos about it but its not an excuse Ghe only reason it ended civil is cause op is so mature like if he responded in kind than the end wouldn't have been so peaceful
@arthaiser
@arthaiser 3 ай бұрын
look, she said no 2 years ago, laughted and lied. and lets also it, she has a kid, why the fuck does a man in his prime have to deal with the responsibilities of a kid that is not his when he can choose women that dont have that baggage? the guy is not even 30.
@f687sNFM
@f687sNFM 3 ай бұрын
its sad that op is considering dating her, she peaked in high school
@user-mp8qg5tb5e
@user-mp8qg5tb5e 3 ай бұрын
Yeah she is should probably date another single parent because at this point he is above her
@nicknitro86
@nicknitro86 3 ай бұрын
Ah yes. Because good relationships always start with browbeating and shaming. "They aren't bad people" uh.. if they're shaming you because they're mad that no actually means no, then yes they ARE bad people.
@juanhaines7295
@juanhaines7295 3 ай бұрын
So she rejected him and laughed at him and only when she's out of options does she come back and when he returns the favor she unleashed her flying monkeys. Op just needs to block her and everyone connected to her.
@raphaeld4313
@raphaeld4313 3 ай бұрын
"Let's call them Tony and Steve" I understood that reference
@legiontepes3474
@legiontepes3474 3 ай бұрын
And Natalie? Clearly op is Thanos XD
@raphaeld4313
@raphaeld4313 3 ай бұрын
​@@legiontepes3474All that for a rejection?
@legiontepes3474
@legiontepes3474 3 ай бұрын
​@@raphaeld4313idk what you mean. It was a joke in line with the avenger ref. The guy is pretty tame tbh.
@raphaeld4313
@raphaeld4313 3 ай бұрын
@legiontepes3474 Yeah, mine was too. Yknow, what Thanos says when fighting Tony
@JoaoBatista-bk6si
@JoaoBatista-bk6si 3 ай бұрын
Man, I just got this now 😅 And they're a gay couple lol
@Xargas
@Xargas 3 ай бұрын
Can we play the roles reversed game for a bit? If a woman was suddenly asked out by a man that laughed at her advances in the past, she would be a girlboss for rejecting him and he'd be branded an entitled creepy psycho for making such an outburst response. His friends harassing her into giving him a chance would not be a good look either. It would be EXTREMELY generous of her to then meet up with him alone to clear the air, and leave open the possibility to maybe get together again one day should the stars align.
@bamaboo8398
@bamaboo8398 3 ай бұрын
This doesnt need any context or story. No means no, no one should be forced to love
@thienthao4326
@thienthao4326 3 ай бұрын
Opp seems like a genuine nice guy, i wouldve been much more direct with NO IS NO and blocking people and such stuff 💀
@BleachDemon69
@BleachDemon69 3 ай бұрын
she saw you as a backup option and was hoping youd be waiting for her when her life choices backfire. i cant wait for my day come turn down the females who turned me down in the past.
@loicmenard9006
@loicmenard9006 3 ай бұрын
Yeah, that's not how life works, but good for you if it ever happens.
@NC-dw1ir
@NC-dw1ir 3 ай бұрын
Or maybe, like OP, you can accept that no means no and no one owes you anything and move on. Live your best life and don't worry about what everyone else is doing. I've been turned down too, it's not the end of the world.
@sanjuanfromsomewhere
@sanjuanfromsomewhere 3 ай бұрын
If you keep calling them "females" that day might never come
@Jujudajojo
@Jujudajojo 3 ай бұрын
That's kinda sad bro😭 Move tf on and focus on bettering yourself, for yourself. Not for some petty revenge
@iaintnoone
@iaintnoone 3 ай бұрын
You sound bitter, childish, and alone, with nothing good going for you in life.
@ianconness11
@ianconness11 3 ай бұрын
It’s especially the way she handled the initial rejection that would seal it. Her reaction says a lot.
@briann3970
@briann3970 3 ай бұрын
She's looking for a meal ticket. Run away
@NC-dw1ir
@NC-dw1ir 3 ай бұрын
no she wasn't. Op said she was doing well for herself financially.
@crimsonstorm34
@crimsonstorm34 3 ай бұрын
@@NC-dw1ir Sure she wasn't. 🤣 Somebody doesn't understand the mind-set of single moms.
@christophernoble76
@christophernoble76 3 ай бұрын
he said she's doing well for herself, so that's just not true. i would still say that he should not give her a chance.
@Jujudajojo
@Jujudajojo 3 ай бұрын
@@crimsonstorm34not all single mothers are looking to be a leech my guy. If your own loved one, whether it be your mother, grandmother, or friend, would you be spouting the dumb sht?
@ejoltz4915
@ejoltz4915 3 ай бұрын
Just say "im gay" problem solved
@mashiyahmartin6070
@mashiyahmartin6070 3 ай бұрын
If they didn’t want you at your worse then don’t let them have you at your best 🙄
@emily.letsendbslintheuk554
@emily.letsendbslintheuk554 3 ай бұрын
Tell her exaxtly what she told you, your not dating atm, then carry on dating others. She brushed you off cos she was shallow and clearly only went for looks so why should you now lower yoirself to her level just coa you have now worked on your body
@m4x927
@m4x927 3 ай бұрын
If story 2 ain't fake, that's gotta be one of the dumbest things to do. She really threw away what she had for some dude on the other side of the world that she barely knows personally.
@calico_queen8976
@calico_queen8976 3 ай бұрын
HARASSING PEOPLE BECAUSE OF A FRIEND ISN'T A SIGN THAT THEY'RE GOOD PEOPLE. I love my friends but harassing someone for rejecting your friend is grade A toxic behavior. Nat may not be an obvious red flag but her friends are MASSIVE ones.
@Calamity_Chaos666
@Calamity_Chaos666 3 ай бұрын
If she didn't want you in your decline, dont accept her as your prime
@steen275
@steen275 3 ай бұрын
🎶🎵Now you a single mom🎶🎵
@WritingInMyFreeTime
@WritingInMyFreeTime 14 күн бұрын
Had to scroll for a bit but I was amused that I wasn't the only one noticing that the first story was missing Clint, Bruce, and Thor
@user-hy2wq5ri1o
@user-hy2wq5ri1o 2 ай бұрын
Is op really still considering dating after she rejected him and laughed at him before! That's sad
@TileBitan
@TileBitan 2 ай бұрын
He will probably buckle. People can be very patient and persuasive, and this bish Nat has all the time in the world for that. Just from his writing you can tell he is very naive.
@Business458
@Business458 2 ай бұрын
Bro is still a SIMP in some ways, how she feels shouldn't be his problem and that guy was right in treating her the way that she deserves to be treated She may have beem surprised when you proposed the relationship but she definately had an idea you liked her especially after being around her for yours. She then laughed at you, it wasnt an accident women just dont care about the feelings of men that they are not attracted to (ignore whatever excuse she made to avoid accountability, its what they do when they come back). Its why you should never feel bad about rejecting any woman or hurting her feelings because somewhere in the world there is a man who she disrespected in the same way as she did to you when all you did was tell her that you loved her (yes they are all the same)
@jamarr27
@jamarr27 3 ай бұрын
SHE LET HIM HIT IT RAW, SHE DIDNT HAVE SECOND THOUGHTS, NOW SHE'S A SINGLE MOM, NOW SHE'S A SINGLE MOM. She does not deserve a second chance. She straight up lied right to his face while she knew she was dating and now that she wants someone to be there for her, NOOOOW She wants to apply pressure for him to make a move on her.
@KingBongsly
@KingBongsly 3 ай бұрын
Tony and Steve the gay best friends you never knew you needed
@ThePawerStation
@ThePawerStation 3 ай бұрын
Story 1: I mean, I understand Nat feelings but the friends... WTF?! Somebody tell them Stay in their life and advocate for her unless it is requested by the other person. I'm %100 with the comments, this people clearly haven't left High School mentally yet which is a huge red flag.
@NightCourt1984
@NightCourt1984 2 ай бұрын
Even if he doesn't see her as a bad person she is still a shallow person. And the fact she got her frienda to help blast him showed that she's also manipulative. Also when she said she never expected to hear you asking her out is not always an innocent saying. And the obvious lie that she wasn't dating at the time.
@beastywolf360
@beastywolf360 2 ай бұрын
Just imagine if the shoe was on the other foot bro, you'd have a restraining order and your face blasted on social media. You don't owe her anything bro
@jmppodcast
@jmppodcast Ай бұрын
Dude needs to quit being soft and feeling guilty. She just wants someone to take care of her kid
@NightCourt1984
@NightCourt1984 2 ай бұрын
Also if she knew how socially awkward you were then she wouldn't try to flirt with you and even if she has loyal friends if she told them not to do what they did they probably would have listened.
@NightCourt1984
@NightCourt1984 2 ай бұрын
And in the second story the woman definitely learned a new skill alright. I also wonder if she learned any morals or values or lessons in the process.
@chadwickvandarious1446
@chadwickvandarious1446 2 ай бұрын
Am I the only person who sees having a kid as a plus? I got a girlfriend at 22 who had a kid and I was so excited to meet them. Never did meet the kiddo. The mom wisely didn't want to introduce me into the kids life, I think she knew it was going to be a short fling
@Mr.Paticles
@Mr.Paticles 3 ай бұрын
No Offense to the Comment Section but the guy is too kind for his own good.
@blackmagician7645
@blackmagician7645 2 ай бұрын
Chick turns you down until she has some other guy's kid. Yeah. Don't think she has a handle on how to make the man interested in her feel appreciated.
@shayanshafiee7987
@shayanshafiee7987 3 ай бұрын
what's with this channel reuploading all the stories with a few different details lately?
@sharkeatinpizza
@sharkeatinpizza 3 ай бұрын
Channel owner do be lazy half the time (or has the memory of a goldfish)
@unknownuser68691
@unknownuser68691 3 ай бұрын
​@@sharkeatinpizza😂😂
@RoundShades
@RoundShades 2 ай бұрын
Nobody talking about story 2 being absolutely nuclear lol?
@Mrrobot1979
@Mrrobot1979 3 ай бұрын
When men get rejected we get bit sad but we move on quickly But when women get rejected they act like it's a big thing and it lingers in they head they'll remember a guy who rejected them over good memory
@ChaplainRaziel01
@ChaplainRaziel01 3 ай бұрын
A week ago I heard story one on another channel and the everything is almost the same except for some reason OP gave Nat $30k for her kid(s).
@Jujudajojo
@Jujudajojo 3 ай бұрын
Actual brain rot. Even if it was about her rejecting him or her being a single mom, that's not what matters. What matters is his choice, just as her choice had mattered when she rejected him. If rolls were reversed mfs would claim the dude is dangerous or a creep
@user-qf1bb7nm8s
@user-qf1bb7nm8s 3 ай бұрын
5:26 that is one of the dumbest philosophies to have. Yes, incompetence can be mistaken for malice. But malice is praying that you take it as incompetence so it can do whatever it did to you again and you’ll just brush it off as incompetence.
@user-qh9ni3ip6r
@user-qh9ni3ip6r 3 ай бұрын
Her looking at YOU BEING HER BABY DADDY FOR THE NEXT 18 YEARS or so for a KID THAT ISN’T YOURS IS THE REAL CRIMINAL ACT ! OH WAY SHOULD YOU LOOK AFTER HER ONE NIGHT STAND OR THE PERSON SHE WAS HUMPING WHILE SHE LAUGHED AT YOU MOSTLY BELITTLED YOU TO ?. I think this term comes to mind Sorry No I was told NO and I am not one for Slappers NORE do I want to be a Daddy to Her Mistake The Ship has Sailed and I am not or No longer instead in HER OR YOUR FRIENDS ?.
@AMOREM.
@AMOREM. 2 ай бұрын
don't attribute to malice what can be attributed to incompetence.
@pkroninverse7307
@pkroninverse7307 3 ай бұрын
Ok First of all Who you gives chance is non of someone dam business
@LuxxxyTube
@LuxxxyTube 3 ай бұрын
Relationship Reddit is TOO entertaining ! You will ♥ the stories I have to tell 😻
@Baronstone
@Baronstone 2 ай бұрын
Translation, she is still sleeping around with her kids father
@Riri_734
@Riri_734 3 ай бұрын
That's the thing about the dating world. Men initiate and do the courting. Women mainly just accept or reject the suitors. The average guy has to deal with a lot of rejections, probably even experience more rejections than success and have to learn to deal with it, cope with it. Its pretty normal that women can't accept rejection and be dramatic about it cos for most women they don't experience it. This is the reality. All you can do is just move along, she has to find her own healthy way to cope with rejection. The first few times are always hard, that's what all guys have to go through. Welcome to the mandem experience.
@nelsonchereta816
@nelsonchereta816 3 ай бұрын
Women have a saying they love that covers this, though I'll need to paraphrase, 'If she doesn't want you at your worst, she doesn't deserve you at your best.'
@lovelyloner
@lovelyloner 3 ай бұрын
You can tell who watched the video and who didn’t. 😂There was a lot of miscommunication and I’m glad they talked it out. Everyone can date who they want to, neither of them owes the other anything past, present or future. The poster of this seems to be so emotionally intelligent and aware and I wish nothing but the best for him. 😊
@TileBitan
@TileBitan 2 ай бұрын
Everyone did, you are just as naive as the guy
@MoonmanJamo
@MoonmanJamo 2 ай бұрын
Tony and Steve a couple? Brings out notepad: Are gay dudes solid wingman?
@SpencerMckenithWilliams
@SpencerMckenithWilliams 3 ай бұрын
Disparagment? Yeah he's going to get cheated on eventually. Disparagment. What a joke. He likely isn't going to vet his future spouse, only because the women in his life didn't turd on him. Don't say nothing to OP. Let him learn the hard way simping isn't pimping. And I hope it comes with extra trauma and SPTSD.
@edmarty46
@edmarty46 3 ай бұрын
You can tell the first one was real cause they handled it like adults and not some AI incel wet dream where she ends up in jail and he dates her sister
@TheWiggl3ztube
@TheWiggl3ztube 3 ай бұрын
If it was the other way around him asking her again to see if they can go out then he will look like a creep. He said no. So it’s a no and that is it.
@CBTenthusiast-lc6sn
@CBTenthusiast-lc6sn 3 ай бұрын
anyone else thinking of the "where have all the good men gone" meme?
@LEMONNNNNNNNNNNNNN
@LEMONNNNNNNNNNNNNN 3 ай бұрын
"Max steals caseoh's girlfriend," I SAW THAT IN THE BEGINNING 💀💀
@marinamolina7520
@marinamolina7520 3 ай бұрын
Aunque fuera por que es madre soltera, tu tienes derecho a salir obvio con el consentimiento de la otra parte de salir con quien se te pegue la gana no escuches a tarados que se ponen a exigirte que salgas con ella
@FlipflopB
@FlipflopB 3 ай бұрын
These stories sound very real today. Nice
@Strigon008
@Strigon008 3 ай бұрын
Nat: -Rejects OP for jock- OP: -Moves on- Nat: -Remembers that OP was interested- I'm ready to settle with you now; I always liked you. OP: No. Nat:😢
@Reaper419Darkangel
@Reaper419Darkangel 3 ай бұрын
She wants someone to pay for everything, not a romantic partner
@mathu1990
@mathu1990 Ай бұрын
OP was trying hard to justify the girl and her friends, that's wild
@ivanzaca235
@ivanzaca235 3 ай бұрын
This happen to me when I was in high school I was almost 280 but I ask out my crush she rejected me saying I’m crush her in her sleep while laughing with her friends so I was pretty crush so I lost 90 pounds and had a little grow spurt , years later I saw her in market buying baby food with her kids, we spoke saying I was hot now and we should meet with coffee and even telling her daughter “ look it’s ur new daddy soon “ I was instantly creep out and told her , don’t do that , I left , she found my Facebook and message me saying usual things , “ I always thought u we’re cute or u got hotter “ I told her nicely I wasn’t interested and block her
@TileBitan
@TileBitan 2 ай бұрын
Good for you man. Karma is a bitch
@jessicathompson236
@jessicathompson236 3 ай бұрын
Nope. You don't feel the same way about her anymore. You don't owe her any do overs. She said no before. You respected her wishes.
@theoneandonly9775
@theoneandonly9775 Ай бұрын
Story 1 So the problem was she that she took bad experiences from other guys into this and made it his problem. Plus her friends s*ck I dont like the term but this guy is a doormat. Most of rhe time he spends excusing their behaviour. They are grown up people, she asked him out, he rejected her and even gave a reason as to why (no interesst). That should be it, but neither her nor her friends could let it go. Imagine a group of guys harassing a girl to get together with a guy she rejected. He did nothing wrong yet plays devils advocate and tries to shoulder part of the blame. Doormat
@dzas_cave
@dzas_cave 3 ай бұрын
He's dealing with the avengers
@lexhearn79
@lexhearn79 3 ай бұрын
People change, we are moulded by our experiences. Two years is a long time in terms of development.
@tatersalad76
@tatersalad76 3 ай бұрын
OP: says it's the "Last post" Me: **sees that we're only 5 minutes into a 20 minute video** oh boy Edit: it actually was the last post, and surprisingly wholesome ending there
@lodunost
@lodunost 3 ай бұрын
OP, buying into NAT'S explanation is just comical. I don't believe a word of it. Look at her behavior vs what she is saying. Past and present and just do a little behavioral research and that should paint pretty good picture of her. It doesn't take a physicist do crunch the numbers and come up with what she is doing here. She lied to you in the past. Regardless of the reasoning behind it. You know that she is a liar now. So how can you trust her. You literally were not some stranger or creep. You were someone within her community and asked her a question in which she gave you a BS response and laughed in your face. But no, it's ok she was nervous. NO! OP is ignorant if he thinks this and needs to educate himself. The friends went out of their way to message you? It wasn't their business. She said they did it of their own accord? I dunno, what did she say to them to cause such a reaction. Do they even know the full story. I doubt it highly and it's telling about her character. WHICH MEANS any issue you have will be SPOON FED to these people and you will have to contend with that down the road. You will have no privacy. You can never trust her and she isn't worth having as a friend. There are so many other issues here best to just walk away and not even be friends.
@NC-dw1ir
@NC-dw1ir 3 ай бұрын
No one is saying that OP should date Nat, but she apologized for the hurt feelings and on her friend's behalf. She did not sick her friends on OP nor did she try to use him bc she thought he was rich. It is sexist to assume she is a gold digger. She is dating again as she is no longer with the man she had a baby with so she asked the guy who was interested that she knew from their town. That makes sense. She wasn't assuming he'd be waiting single for her. I hope that clears things up. For some reason men seem to get all angry and up in arms whenever a woman doesn't seem interested. Op doesn't owe her a date but she doesn't deserve to be called names when she made things right with OP and now the two are back to being friends.
@lovelyloner
@lovelyloner 3 ай бұрын
Did they even watch the videom? My goodness they are rabid in these comments😅.
@rieanne09
@rieanne09 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for pointing those out. There are single parents out there who also deserve to date and, hopefully, find another chance to be happy and have a complete family. My goodness! Some people are really rabid with the idea of the possibility of single parents having a healthy relationship. I do appreciate OP in clearing that if the timing is right, Nat and OP might give dating a chance.
@ChaseBranson
@ChaseBranson 3 ай бұрын
The first one is petty
@arhael3594
@arhael3594 3 ай бұрын
Should have laughed at her, when she asked the question.
@petermartin9494
@petermartin9494 2 ай бұрын
Stay the hell away from single moms.
@jemase7931
@jemase7931 3 ай бұрын
A chance for what? You have grown and changed. So have your preferences.
@BleachDemon69
@BleachDemon69 3 ай бұрын
dude talks like he was raised by a single mom
@Maxer-ri2em
@Maxer-ri2em 3 ай бұрын
What really brothers me is that she doesn't say why they are not compatible with the father of her son I have a feeling like it is mostly her fault.
@raven75257
@raven75257 3 ай бұрын
Both of them are not entitled to a relationship. Simple as
@MorpheusASmith
@MorpheusASmith 2 ай бұрын
Nat can go take a hike.
@gabrielarechiga1033
@gabrielarechiga1033 2 ай бұрын
Who actually calls someone “damaged goods” The story is a bit suspect
@timmy1tap678
@timmy1tap678 2 ай бұрын
Geez, this guy sounds like a budding white knight, neon blue pill. Guys today are so freaking terrified to just be direct and say what they need to say. So terrified that something they say could hurt someone's feeeeelings. Newsflash, women dgaf about hurting your feelings so just be HONEST and don't apologize for it. And why would a young guy with options purposely choose a single mom and fix someone else's mistake?? Take on all that extra responsibility without the authority and respect that comes with being a father??
@Cheese_steak_
@Cheese_steak_ 2 ай бұрын
I mean even if it was because she's a single mom you rejected her she was allowed to reject you when you were "unattractive" what's the difference between rejecting somebody from being a single mother and rejecting somebody who is unattractive
@Iranium_69420
@Iranium_69420 3 ай бұрын
Bruh who the fuck laughs when something unexpected happens?
@aaron75fy
@aaron75fy 3 ай бұрын
she may have laughed "because she's nervous" huh? I don't buy it, also saying she may have lied because she can't use the truth
@SenseiRaisen
@SenseiRaisen 3 ай бұрын
"because she's nervous" Everytime someone use that as an excuse after doing it, when is a full mock laugh, is show they are on the last bit of an excuse. They don't had any sympathy from me at all.
@drkinferno72
@drkinferno72 2 ай бұрын
Run from nat 😂
@KevinMartinez-ct3wx
@KevinMartinez-ct3wx 2 ай бұрын
So op got pressured into going on a date with someone who he didn’t want to date. Is that you know what let me not go trre
@billclinton4913
@billclinton4913 Ай бұрын
what happened to no means no
@katherinenelson7221
@katherinenelson7221 3 ай бұрын
You seem to be doing great in your your life you don't need to go back there. Live your life and be happy. But its red flags all over.
@bonecrushermace
@bonecrushermace 3 ай бұрын
AI truly went all out
@CeasiusC
@CeasiusC 3 ай бұрын
Yeah the whole story is just 2 people over reacting and realizing it afterwards. No need for anger or any other overly negative reaction.
@yamairad1
@yamairad1 2 ай бұрын
Only 1 person overreacted.
@CeasiusC
@CeasiusC 2 ай бұрын
​@@yamairad1 you don't think OP's social awkwardness and overthinking made the situation worse than it needed to be?
@yamairad1
@yamairad1 2 ай бұрын
@CeasiusC No, he said no, and everybody jumped on him as if he did something wrong. The situation escalated, and he managed to politely end it. The fact that he never mentioned to her that he didn't want to be with a single mother is commendable and shows he's the only sane one there. He did everything right. Everybody else was crazy. Seriously, that baby can't even be 2 years old she shouldn't be dating anybody right now.
@Orchid_official
@Orchid_official 2 ай бұрын
TONY AND STEVE 🥰🤩 I LOVE DA GAE BOIS
@amukelanimkasi3550
@amukelanimkasi3550 3 ай бұрын
Did this start as grooming? 😂
@ScruffyisbigG
@ScruffyisbigG 3 ай бұрын
Ok
@Avggrannysniffer
@Avggrannysniffer 3 ай бұрын
Reddit stories be like
@user-qf1bb7nm8s
@user-qf1bb7nm8s 3 ай бұрын
The first story is boring.
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