Typical Irish Wedding | Guest Etiquette

Here is a run through of a Typical Irish Wedding day and guest etiquette. I get asked a lot about Wedding Etiquette in Ireland so I hope this helps. The wedding timeline - from the wedding invites and the ceremony to the Irish wedding sing song at the end of the night! I used to be a wedding videographer and all weddings are different so I had to generalise but here is an example of an average typical Irish wedding.
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[@briandonnachie6734]

Thanks!

[@WolfeMomma]

Oh my gosh, thank you so much! 💗

[@mariewatson4001]

You just saved my time. My bf and I have known each other since I was 13. I’m 36 now. His family is Irish and I’m Croatian. I’m laughing because Croatian customs are similar. Thank you!

[@andreaharthorn4327]

I wish I could have seen this video a few weeks ago! I just got home from a wedding in Donegal where we were all Americans, including the couple. There were so many things that we all thought were issues that you mentioned here as being normal. For example, the groom was upset the sliced cake wasn't brought out until midnight snacks because in the US, we typically eat it right after dinner. We also thought it was unprofessional of the DJ to not be ready as dinner ended. Turns out he was just following the typical Irish wedding schedule!

[@WolfeMomma]

Oh no! Hope the couple weren't too upset 🙈🙈😅

[@gardenjoy5223]

Seems a lot of fun was lost in being upset about 'nothing'. Such a shame to have that cast a shadow on such a special and expensive occasion. Here one sees the importance of speaking things through beforehand and of explaining the order of the day to the guests.

[@TheMVCoho]

Wow, thats a long day and sooooo much drinking. Can't imagine people setting aside so much time and money for a wedding. Thanks for sharing.

[@exbianyika9912]

Thank you so much. This was helpful as I am invited to the and never been . It is very different from what I am used to .😊

[@cathyz.7201]

That's fun and beautiful! makes sense that ppl invest into this special day of their life, or life of their friends😀🎉

[@gardenjoy5223]

Very informative, as always. You are my number one to go to, to know what to expect in Ireland and also to know what is expected of me. Love it, that you write the important parts down and show pictures of it. Thanks!

[@DragonsLairTJ]

I have to say I love your videos. They remind me of when I was a child and my Grandmother wanted to teach me Gaelic and I wanted to go and play. No watching your videos I wish I would have learned it. Thanks

[@heiditheis387]

I wore the traditional Irish bride dress color- BLUE!!

[@paoramirez9252]

Hi there, I am new in Ireland I come to learn English in a scholl, I am going to star listening to all videos to learn how to acquire the Irish accent❣❣❣❣💯

[@stevenrussell9034]

I’m noticing a pattern with the drinks. 😂

[@biancalawrence3178]

A non traditional wedding in South Africa is very similar (it just finishes a little earlier). A traditional wedding (a Zulu or Xhosa wedding can go on for days but has a very different format). Some couples have both. In our circle it's usually just the wedding as you have described. I have a "thing" about wedding gifts. I never give money or vouchers and always give a gift but this is not a toaster or kettle etc, it would be something that would be cherished like a crystal vase or personalised item. 35 years later these are the gifts that are special to us when the money, although appreciated, is long gone. Love your channel!

[@davidheenan7432]

qualifying for the boston marathon would be easier than getting through an irish wedding!!

[@eimearinez]

No not all it’s a brilliant day we love a good wedding your their for the day we make the most of it people work so hard it’s great to have a day to relax see friends n family have good food a drink and a dance

[@cathyz.7201]

I just came across Your wedding vid.just the other day, and it's gorgeous!!! Was cute to see the beginning of such a sweet beautiful family you've guys created! Best wishes& and thank you for your great videos!!😀🙌💍 💍💖

[@WolfeMomma]

Thank you so much! 💗

[@cathyz.7201]

@@WolfeMomma 😁🙌❤

[@memmi524]

Super useful content, thanks

[@marksmithisonyoutub936]

Yes, “Social Etiquette” is certainly a very interesting thing and a very important (yet commonly-neglected) element of many people’s lives (especially at Weddings, I’d assume)…Unfortunately, lots of people who are on the [Autism] Spectrum (such as myself, as I’m Autistic) struggle to grasp “Social Etiquette” and I’m by no means an exception to these universally-experienced deficits experienced by many people within the Autism Community…It’s interesting how so many cultures have their own set of “Social Etiquette”…I’ve encountered my own share of different forms of Etiquette…One Example: Etiquette For Communicating With Deaf Persons…My friends are 100% deaf and because I’m Hearing (I can Hear & Understand Speech without any difficulties) but I also don’t know any Sign Language, so I either need to Text or E-Mail my friends back-and-forth to communicate with them or I need to speak to them through an (ASL: American Sign Language) Interpreter…However, there’s a very particular Law of Etiquette I have a tendency to disregard quite often…The d/Deaf & Hard-Of-Hearing Community regards it as impolite to keep looking at their [Sign Language] Interpreter as you speak to them, as they regard it as politer for people to look at the deaf person(s) they’re speaking to, so it appears to them that they’re the ones being spoken to (as opposed to the Interpreter)…Nonetheless, I’m in the really bad habit of always tending to look at my friends’ [Sign Language] Interpreter instead of them…My friends will likely never get to hear the sound of your Voice (and, therefore, never got to learn what your Voice sounds like), let alone ever notice your Accent; nonetheless, they enjoy “Reading”/Watching your Videos just the same…My friends find it interesting whenever you try to describe what the Irish Accent sounds like, as they can then use their imaginations… . Future Video Idea: Have you ever considered posting a Video about the differences between Irish & Scottish Culture, Accents, etc.? I think that would make for a very lovely Future Video idea…Just Saying…Keep the good Videos coming…Fun Fact: There’s a very rare Brain Disorder known as “Foreign Language Syndrome” where a person who had either sustained a Brain Injury or endured Emotional Trauma suddenly experience an abrupt change in Accent, with the most common newly-acquired Accent being the Irish Accent…For Example: I’ve watched (here on KZbin) some Australian News Reports of women who had all their lives spoken with the Australian Accent and then suddenly woke up one day and began sounding as though they’re from Ireland…And I’m meanwhile from the Boston, Massachusetts area, which is a well-known for being home to lots of Irish people; although, I myself am not Irish but, rather, am ½ Jewish (by my mother’s family)…If you ever heard me speak, you’d likely perceive me to have a very noticeable American Accent and you’d also likely notice my really, really Annoying, Whiny, Highly-Hypernasal (meaning really Nasally) Voice…Unfortunately, I don’t have that pleasant, easy-to-listen-to Voice that you have…People typically dislike listening to me speak, as they frequently tell me that they find my Voice to be really “Grating”…In Fact: People often love to tease me that the reason why so many of my friends are either d/Deaf or Hard-Of-Hearing is that they don’t have to listen to my really Irritating, Whiny, Nasally Voice…

[@joymckenziewendt4013]

Wow…nice to know!

[@sayyidkazim8814]

Thank u I enjoyed it ❤ very educational

[@WolfeMomma]

Thank you! 💗

[@TeeBoyd88]

Wow that's a long day. Sounds like fun but also a lot of work, lol.

[@kiras.2715]

I just set the date for my wedding so this came in perfect time :)

[@WolfeMomma]

Aw congratulations! Happy planning!💗

[@sheadeighanphotography]

Great video. :-)

[@jacksonebendick9592]

Love your hair, nails and top (including the hand in sleeves haha). Where is your top from?

[@WolfeMomma]

Thanks! Not sure where the top is from but it's very comfy😊

[@jacksonebendick9592]

@@WolfeMomma do you know who makes the best videos? You do.

[@WolfeMomma]

@@jacksonebendick9592 Aw thanks! 💗

[@ruebennomura9143]

Hey I subscribe your and respect your vlog

[@WolfeMomma]

Thank you! 💗

[@shirleysecond9528]

Hi there. Thank you so much for this video. 2 quick questions pls. The invitation doesn't say anything about the dress code. 1. Can I wear a black dress for an Irish wedding in winter? 2. Can I wear a short dress above the knee from velvet material for a 1pm wedding? Help! Thanks a million.

[@WolfeMomma]

Yep, black dress is fine for an Irish wedding. And above the knee dress is also fine 😊

[@karensansom8579]

Good Day, I'm from Alberta Canada and I've been invited to a wedding in Waterton Castle on March 17 St Paddy's Day. Not sure the Etiquette.

[@eaglemexhicoault1677]

Físeán iontach bean álainn👍😍👍 beannachtaí ó Mheicsiceo🇲🇽💓🇮🇪👏🌹👏🌹👏

[@WolfeMomma]

Thank you so much! 💗

[@franciscopontesvelasco4315]

I went to a wedding in Waterford and didn't drink any alcohol whatsoever, I think I was the only one 😪

[@WolfeMomma]

My husband doesn't drink either, and he's usually the only one too 😅

[@susanwahl6322]

It’s not like that in the US. The bridesmaids have to pay for their own dresses and all of that.

[@WolfeMomma]

Yeah, that's a huge difference. The bridal parties seem to be so much bigger in the US too, probably because it's not as expensive to have so many bridesmaids! ☺

[@MissaLifeStyle]

Depending - I purchased the dresses for my 3 bridesmaids. I think I even paid for the suit rentals. However, I didn’t come from money so my family didn’t pay for anything, my husband did.

[@midris32]

hi, you could not disclose during pregnancy the baby or baby boy .the symptoms happened in babay or baba ,are you intending to extend family for more.

[@hx1487]

That sounds exhausting

[@sherihagerty6349]

Thank goodness I was married in the states there would be no way I could have afford getting married in Ireland

[@stevenrussell9034]

You make an Irish wedding sound like torture.

[@Dilydaydream1]

Its an endurance test not torture unless you hate your extended family