u need "ruin your lipstick" by Emma Viivaca

[@justrenthx]

took me an embarrassingly long time to figure out that being anxious around men is not the same thing as being attracted to them

[@middledog466]

honestly phenomenal point

[@emmaviivaca]

oh my GOD same 😭

[@madelinevhart]

my brain has this problem where i don't have crushes, but rather i have a crush on the thought of having a crush

[@Maarkiwi]

Literally me omg

[@prachetaraghuvanshi8234]

Same, I'm aroace and I literally convinced myself into thinking I had a crush.

[@Oceanview-d7h]

Men in general I was told to like men obey men and fallow men Although me and my older sister are vary different we can agree on one thing we don’t need to obey men we can listen to them and take there words into consideration but we shouldn’t get bossed around Anywho love the makeup ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@VyaWanja]

❤️❤️

[@ConfusedLemons]

Happy for you two!

[@seaturtle555]

Me, as an Ace person fr:

[@JoanWilson-gt9wm]

This was a mix of and intrusive thoughts for me Crippling combo i can safely say

[@elenas3571]

Growing up just about every girl had a crush on this guy named Grant. I was at a sleepover and everyone started talking about their crushes. When I said I didn’t really have a crush on anyone they all accused me of lying. Eventually they wore me down so I said “ I guess Grant looks ok if you squint.” Of course the next day a rumor went around my school saying I _looooved_ Grant. 🙄

[@emmaviivaca]

"if you squint" is crazy omg hahahaha

[@elenas3571]

@@emmaviivaca I was a little mean as a kid!

[@impagain]

This .... like actually describes my asexual experience pretty closely. Logicking out why I should have a crush on someone makes me think "oh yeah this is a crush" when it's really me thinking they might hypothetically be a good partner. 😅

[@froggy9308]

The eyeshadow goes so well with your hair 💜💚💜

[@emmaviivaca]

THANK YOU I was tryna coordinate them!! 💚🩵

[@fallenleaf666]

Me genuinely trying to figure out if this said man was my boyfriend who went to Christian camp, that plays guitar, is pretty, and I also use the fake name Jonus to refer to him 😅

[@lucyisaravenclaw3710]

THIS IS INSANE OMG!?

[@emmaviivaca]

WHAT that's crazy he did go for someone else entirely so maybe it was

[@aggressivelawnclippings3895]

This video made me realize that some years ago a read a fanfiction based off fifty shades of grey… explains a lot. I dont even remember if i got through it- and if i did i got no clue how

[@pomudachu]

yes it was compulsory heterosexuality i just wanted to feel like a normal girl

[@santsi7306]

My whole elementary school experience 😂 used to write in my diary "i love tim" cause i was convinced i was supposed to have a crush and wanted to be cool like other girls. Even in my diary. 😂

[@ConfusedAndCaffinated]

OH MY GOD so one time in elementary school we were lined up to go somewhere and there was a door decorated like an iPod,and it brought up the topic of Justin beiber and the kids in my class were like “omg! Justin Bieber is so hot!” And because I wanted to fit in I said “yeah he’s like my number one crush” the next day I found out he went to jail and said “well I shouldn’t have a crush on someone who’s going to JAIL”

[@emmaviivaca]

HAHAHAHAH the universe really was like here you go here's your out

[@ConfusedAndCaffinated]

@@emmaviivaca I screamed when I read this (just now actually)

[@Kishanrao-r3c]

ANKSHUS? 😭😭

[@emmaviivaca]

@@Kishanrao-r3c SOME OF THE ALGORITHMS CENSOR IT WHEN I LEAVE IT AS ANXIOUS OKAY 😭😭

[@shanmurphy8086]

I thought you looked like one of my sons favourite lego you tubers emmasaurus and then I looked and your name was also emma😂

[@emmaviivaca]

@@shanmurphy8086 emmasaurus is such a good name

[@peachytay12-g2v]

You spelled anxious wrong.

[@ZoeThomson00]

I'm sorry but I have never felt this, my feelings are my own I guess lmao