Ugly Kid Joe - Cats In The Cradle (Official Music Video)

[@Kacper__M]

Back when it was released, it was just a cool rock song. Now, as a dad, I can't listen to it without crying, oh man...

[@dramspringfeald]

yeah, this song hits a little different now

[@michaeldevine1068]

So true! I ball every time

[@flaviobraga8792]

Feel the same mate

[@Blueluise]

as Jay z relaeased 99 Problems it was great, too. did anybody notice the marrying jewish couple + the not so amber background..🎈

[@michaelpeisler7523]

I think you don't know this is a Cover XD

[@jonniep]

I heard this song when I was a very young and impressionable young man and I swore to myself that I would always be there for my kids. I am now 50 and took a job working from home so I could wake my kids up in the morning and put them to sleep at night (had kids later in life). Best decision I have ever made in my life...

[@marcouiterwijk3968]

I am a 44 year old man and listened this song when i was young , always busy with my own business but had to quit my job because of a disease and i am now a more happy man and feel so lucky that i can see my 2 sons grow up and be with them most of the day , never thought that this all would be so beautiful , now i realize the dutch proverb work to live and not live to work

[@ELLE_3773]

As the son of a father who had the luck to find and keep a work from home since I was born, I can confirm the benefit goes both ways. Sure sometimes you might feel like stepping on each other's shoes, especially once they grow up and start feeling like they want more independence or autonomy, and to be honest it also depends on the personalities and how they link or clash together (personally this was the only real reason why I ended up moving out, but I sure took my damn time lol). But I assure you that this way the father gets to express all of his love up to the very small things, the ones that they'll have to grow up to realize what they were worth, meanwhile the kids get to have his support and a father figure present basically all day everyday. Again it depends, in my case I have issues because of some ways my father was hurt that in turn made him hurt me, the 'usual' parental cycles sadly, and this is also something that is a bit amplified in small ways when having him always there, but i never stopped noticing how much he loves me and cares for my well-being, even the part of me that hates him, in reality, still wants to give him back the love it deserves. And all of this is helped immensely by him having lived and worked all under the same reliable roof. Quite the long comment but I hope it helps you and others with some insight from the son's perspective. Anyway I love this song too, maybe a bit more the original than this version but I see and feel the lyrics very clearly.

[@wjatube]

Sold my company and retired young. Was lost. Had two kids. Still unfillfilled. Then this song popped up in my feed. I remembered it as a cutesy kids song. But now I realize the incredible meaning and grateful I still have my kids young in age. I have purpose. Amazing the legacy of music can have on countless generations.

[@jonniep]

@@wjatube I remember the first time I heard it and immediately thought of my childhood. My dad was there but he was a steelworker and usually wore out so time with him was valuable to me. As I got older I have made it a point to spend as much quality time with my kids as possible and I believe it makes both me and my babies better for it.

[@Blueluise]

LIL w h o?!

[@jessbrown307]

The message is time eternal. My Dad was killed in an auto wreck when I was a 9 year old 4th grader. Now 52 years later I can still shed a tear when I think of things done and time spent with him, and this song in particular can make those tears flow. For most of my entire life Chapin's tune has served as a reminder. When I was a high school freshman, we had a stereo in our Advanced English class so we could listen to commercial-free FM radio while writing. That was a big deal at the time especially for the relatively small town community where I went to school. I remember one afternoon after Cats in the Cradle aired, hard-nosed Irish disciplinarian Mr. Hollahan shut off the stereo receiver and asked the entire class to chime in and talk about what we all had just listened to, the ballad sung, and how one should aspire to live. I don't remember all of my classmates' individual responses, but I was glad I was not called upon. Hearing Cats in the Cradle that day had not brought me to tears, but the lump in my throat would have made it tough to talk and express my own experience and feelings. It had not been that many years prior to that early September 1969 morning I was really looking forward to because I was going to get to ride my bike to school, but not long after awakening knowing I had overslept and that something was wrong when I heard our family friend Shirley McArthur's voice downstairs only to soon learn my Dad had been killed on the Pit 1 Grade the night before driving home. Now, I am a husband and father with a 14 year old son and an 18 year old princess. I endeavor to provide for my bride and family, I work hard, travel too damn much for work, but with the exception of a rare day when I only get to speak with my bride when I am on the road, I make absolutely sure my children hear me say "I love you" each and everyday. Yes, Chapin's song has had a nearly life long impact on me and maybe they don't realize it, but my own children too. Subsequently, fathers young and old, remember to major in the majors. Only we can be our bride's husband, provider, protector, lover, and confidant, and only we can be our childrens' guide, protector, and father. No job, career, profession, or business can ever match what a good man of steel and velvet and a rock solid father can accomplish.

[@robinhut5359]

Okay okay okay, just don't shit your pants.

[@stevep3692]

@@robinhut5359Seriously if this post hasn't touched your heart you must be completely lacking in empathy and compassion as you sit behind a keyboard in your mother's basement trolling with heartless posts like this 👎

[@chscelebrity8325]

It’s a cover.

[@itdoesntmatter9361]

Your comment was like a novel. Almost eternal. But still. Respect.

[@robinhut5359]

@@stevep3692 What's the matter? Your father also was squeezed to death by a truck or what?

[@keithhauser2312]

Hearing this at 13 and now at 44 hits home. Life goes fast so make the most of it....

[@jamief.8406]

Well said

[@BuildItTuneItEV]

RIght here with you man.

[@MarkoMakela-kk7qf]

I was thinking just the same... good grief...

[@benjamindavis4130]

Dam…

[@lukasakesson2024]

and im 13 now and hearing for the first time🙂

[@thisorthat7746]

I love the choice of words in this line "When are you coming home son I don't know when", because without punctuation, this exchange can be read in two different ways that reflect the stages in the song and the parallel between father and son over the years. The first two times are from the son's perspective, growing up, repeatedly asking his dad when he's coming home so they can spend time together, the line then reads - "When are you coming home?" - "Son, I don't know when." Then when the son is all grown up, in college, at his own house with wife and kids, and doesn't have time to spend with the dad anymore, the line then reads from the dad's perspective as he misses his son - "When are you coming home, son?" - "I don't know when."

[@yoshidababies4222]

Oof that hit hard.

[@santanacruz]

mindblowing...

[@Bluetick-nu1hw]

Wrong choices

[@DennisMcAuliff-j6m]

Hits alot harder at 46yrs old then it does at 18 yrs old Love you Dad

[@JoellenFields]

Yes I do agree 💯%. It stinks when men put their work first and kids on the back burner.

[@coolisimox]

To all the fathers in the world, and those from heaven continue to care for their children Happy Father's Day 2020 !!!

[@longbow6416]

At 40 my dads still alive, Marine, Vietnam vet, truck driver, policeman. At this age, the most i remember about my childhood is not the things he bought me, its the time we spent together. We talk regularly and know that one day I may pick up the phone he may not be there. Enjoy all the time you get with your parents people.

[@WedittsPlaythings]

My father was military, Vietnam vet, gone a lot, but I treasure those times when we were together. He's gone now. Only during the last five years of his life did he ever mention obliquely some of his war and service experiences - he spoke a language from a country "we were never in" and spoke of someone named "Muammar" with whom he had to share flightline in Libya in the 60's (only time I ever heard my father use foul language was in reference to this *gentleman.*) I am so glad you are talking regularly to your father, and more than a little envious, too.

[@FilipeCzech1986]

Mate, your father IS the hero. I wish you good luck. So understand your words. My grandpa was in Africa in 2.WW. God bless them.. I know, war, but top lads!

[@longbow6416]

@@FilipeCzech1986 I look at black and white photos of my grandfather when he was in the Army in WW2 pictured in his dress uniform and think: 'they don't build men like that anymore'. He was tough as a $2 steak and wise as an owl.

[@erichdgoth8451]

My dad only talks to me when he wants to scold or belittle me. I'm 43 now, same old shit. 😁😁😁 I promised to myself that I'll be better than he is.

[@bluedeval03]

@@erichdgoth8451 feel ya there man. I’m 50, never been good enough for my dad, or my daughter, damn shame he doesn’t know her. Do to me what you will, but I be damned you do it to my daughter

[@BaronNate]

I've given EVERY second I could to my son as he was growing up, he just got married at 26 now and I couldn't be prouder of him. Lately is the only time I've felt like this song spoke to me cause I feel his hand pulling away and now he's working the same job I did and is busy all the time. Sigh, NO amount of time is ever enough, and especially when you enjoyed every second you had and now its stopped. But I raised an amazing son. I fought hard in the Army to make sure he had an America to grow up to.

[@ignorant1126]

You're making me tear up now, man. I hope my dad's proud of who I am and what I've accomplished. He ended up with a kid just like him, personality and looks, only without the trauma he experienced as he grew up. He raised my brother and I so we'd never feel like he did. So many sarcrifices

[@BaronNate]

@@ignorant1126 just be yourself and be strong when times feel tough. I'm sure he is already proud of ya man. Rock on with all you got! Thanks for the comment, he sounds like an amazing guy I could be friends with.

[@RepublicConstitution]

Watching this as a 42 year old dad vs watching it when I was 16 or so is heart-rending. Tears flowing.

[@erinmsomers]

Exactly..where did the years go?? They passed way too fast...

[@crabbyyup8560]

True that time just flew by .when we were in school we wanted time to fly by now in are 40s we want time to slow down .

[@We.dont.snitch.X]

Agreed dude I now make sure I have time to do stuff with my two boys, I know one day they won't ask me to hang out with them. Dreading that day really

[@heloisasantosoliveira5017]

I Love classic .

[@deweykirkland7475]

The world is a wonderful place ,depends the heart

[@marcdc6809]

What makes this song extra hard is that there's no bad intent, it's just the way it is.

[@Tammylee143.]

2020

[@duncan3998]

Since 1993 🔥🔥🔥

[@Pedecola-IRB-DF]

@@upshiftgo you're wrong. Unfortunatelly not everyone has the same opportunities. I know having good times with your kids not always rely on having money, but having to run after it to try to have conditions in the old age takes a lot from that

[@JennaBomb]

You completely missed the entire point of the song if you think that's just the way things are.

[@ScottJB]

That's the way they think it is until it's too late to change it. And then suddenly it's clear how they could have moved everything around and prioritized each other and they'll never get to now.

[@sethrider6625]

My dad passed in 2001 when I was 19, never really was sure how he felt about me or if he really genuinely cared about me. Now I'm almost 39 with a 14 year old daughter and a seven year old son, and though I still wonder how my dad felt about me I know my children will never have to wonder the same thing.

[@Toffi1510]

I‘m sure u will let your children know how much u love them, great dad:)

[@gillianfaith920]

My dads alive and im currently wondering that

[@BUDDIgaming]

❤️

[@benluke7697]

Im same my dads still alive when my mother passed on my 4th birthday i went to live with my aunt dad's sister and saw him occasionally he had a new woman and she had kids now ive got my own i know they stay with me forever no matter what and for that I cannot forgive my father

[@143tomaso143]

:)

[@paulcmillerfilms]

My father and I always joked about this song. There was no animosity, just an understanding that that's life. There were times when he wasn't around, and there were times he was. He's gone now and I miss him everyday. Though he wasn't the best father at times, I wouldn't trade him for the world.

[@jane5147]

Im 51 . My dad is 87 and on palliative care, I've been so blessed . He was so amazing . He always appreciated being a dad

[@EduardoFerrazNelore]

Best comment

[@imastered9021]

Im 25 and my dad is 62. I moved in with him 5 months ago because his health was declining. 2 weeks ago was his last hospital visit before speaking with palliative care and deciding on hospice care. Still with hospice…I’m here 7 days a week taking FMLA and my dad screams for me when they try do give him a bath. I get no breaks. On top of that, Palliative care said he would die of kidney failure when we were in the hospital but he has been passing urine on his own. They said kidney failure is a good way to die - painless. But now I think he may be dying of his cancer and not his kidney. I don’t know what to do. I feel so helpless. Is he dying or do I need to bring him to a hospital and save his life? So many questions. Palliative care messed this one up.

[@imastered9021]

@@TheFirstAmendment he passed on Easter sadly. Thanks for being a canvas for my rant

[@Navanod66]

​@@imastered9021condolences for your loss young friend. I randomly decided to come listen to this song and it reminded me of how I lost my Dad at 15 when he was 60. And that's when I came across your comment from just 2hrs ago. 😢 Hope you're managing well.

[@donnastrause1030]

Aa ​@@imastered9021

[@marlamorris3721]

One of the greatest covers around. People still never learn this life lesson.

[@annaritaranalli1791]

Ditto

[@awt1989]

a lot of our moms chose shitty guys; or chose good guys, who turned into bums..

[@GreatestCornholio]

It’s one of the rare cases when the cover is better than the original!

[@annaritaranalli1791]

I like original a lot but this one of those covers beautiful as the originals in my opinion

[@apeshitclothing]

@@awt1989 or the moms were crazy and dad had to leave

[@detroitpolak9904]

I was 17 at work and told an older customer how much I was working with school and Baseball. He said “Remember…no dying man ever said I wish I spent more time at the office”. Probably the greatest advice I’ve gotten in my entire life. I’m 48 now and still remember that.

[@edpearson8973]

And still in an office.

[@detroitpolak9904]

@@edpearson8973 Let me tell you, I’m 48, work at a Ford auto parts warehouse in Orlando FL, without AC for 8+ hours. I’ll gladly spent more time in an office, especially in July/August LOL!

[@derkohgil7262]

I even remember when i had to put on my own diapers. So this song reminds of me off not ending up like my "dad"

[@martharoark4059]

It's all about a clear conscious.

[@chrisloewen2994]

@@detroitpolak9904 are you dying? I guess you’ll just have to wait till then to find out. But for me I’ll gladly take a Friday off to spend at the lake. Oh wait I don’t work fridays am thankful. Long weekend at tge lake every weekend.

[@Skateforlifelad]

growing up is understanding all factors and events that occurred. We must honor our parents regardless of circumstances as they gave us life.

[@tobib2649]

Lyrics: My child arrived just the other day He came to the world in the usual way But there were planes to catch, and bills to pay He learned to walk while I was away And he was talking 'fore I knew it, and as he grew He'd say "I'm gonna be like you, dad" "You know I'm gonna be like you" And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when" But we'll get together then You know we'll have a good time then My son turned ten just the other day He said, thanks for the ball, dad, come on let's play Can you teach me to throw, I said-a, not today I got a lot to do, he said, that's okay And he, he walked away, but his smile never dimmed It said, I'm gonna be like him, yeah You know I'm gonna be like him And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when" But we'll get together then You know we'll have a good time then Well, he came from college just the other day So much like a man I just had to say Son, I'm proud of you, can you sit for a while? He shook his head, and they said with a smile What I'd really like, dad, is to borrow the car keys See you later, can I have them please? And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when" But we'll get together then, dad You know we'll have a good time then I've long since retired, my son's moved away I called him up just the other day I said, I'd like to see you if you don't mind He said, I'd love to, dad, if I can find the time You see, my new job's a hassle, and the kids have the flu But it's sure nice talking to you, dad It's been sure nice talking to you And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me He'd grown up just like me My boy was just like me And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when" But we'll get together then, dad We're gonna have a good time then

[@かずみん-z9p]

lyrics thanks😊my favorite

[@tobib2649]

@@かずみん-z9p no problem.

[@jokerisaac41]

Thanks

[@oscaribarra7241]

Thanks :)

[@lambertotamorada2550]

Thanks..

[@jiggleykrowzer8768]

I fucking love Ugly Kid Joe. They kicked so much ass back in the early 90s, when I was just a boy... I call it the "Wayne's World" era.

[@XXmrxxInsulter]

I fucking hate ugly kid joe.They sucked so much ass back in the 90s.I called it the "idiot era". p.s. the original cays in the cradle is better!

[@Mrnono1313]

+Jon Kline that's it, chewwwwwwwwiiiiinnngggggg!!!!

[@Mrnono1313]

+Jon Kline Where's alice cooper???

[@martincasao]

+Jon Kline EXCELLENT!! THE BEST F***N ERA!

[@GhostriderPL23]

+Jon Kline No one could better explain that :D :) The good old days......

[@Cybergad1978]

I was 14 when this came out in 92, to me then it was a great song. As I got older and understood the lyrics I apricated my dad a lot more for all he gave us. Now I'm a dad myself, this song reminds me to try, try to spend some time with the kids, no matter how knackered I am, before the cycle goes round again.

[@aaronaachen4010]

never too late tom i'm 56 now and my daughter is 21 and last xmas she makes me a special present a laser ingraved holo block saying "best dad ever" it makes me cry but on the other hand it shows me everything did right

[@terrypetersen2970]

I'm 59 and use to listen to the original in 1974. This song described my father to a tee. Though I never had any children I am a favorite uncle few my sister's and others the kids just seem to adopt me. My nephew was about six and his mom ( my sister) and his dad we're always busy. One night I invited the whole family over for dinner. I happen to play this song and my sister looked at me and I said "remember dad?". My nephew is now a dad twice over and pays attention to those two constantly. Just like his mom and dad did.

[@dmbtmk1964]

Oooo it came out long before that sweety... It was in the 70s

[@jeannieab5218]

@@dmbtmk1964 Nobody can do it like Harry. 👍

[@PHlophe]

@@dmbtmk1964 you are hilarious *oooo*

[@byod]

This song fucks me up every time

[@ernestschwink6742]

I Agree, he found ways as it turns out not to be home with his kids. That's not me, not a Chance.

[@VideoSaySo]

I could never listen to this song without tearing up when my dad was alive because he always worked so hard, we rarely saw him. He died almost one year ago (September 26, 2019) and for some reason, I made it through without shedding a tear listening to this version now. He was the best daddy me and my sister could have asked for. She remarked one time how fortunate we were that we won the daddy lotto with him...I miss you more than words can say, daddy...Donald Ray Tibbitts - April 21, 1939 - September 26, 2019) A good man and the BEST daddy that ever lived!

[@eddielongoria2038]

This song reminds me of my son Trevor I'm 2 times divorced a son and a daughter. I'm a recoving alcoholic. I always loved my children n always will . My son is back in my life and my daughter sends pics . My higher power saved me from myself. Thanks God for my sobriety 1 day at a time I love u Trevor boy n Erin love Dad

[@VideoSaySo]

@Paul C Lalchungnunga Thank you

[@silverbanks1986]

Love 💟 wins. All you ever need is love 💝.

[@weeksey49]

your story is so like mine and probably 100000 others we were the lucky ones who had dads that strove to give us better lives than they had and paid the price of not having the lives they wanted with us

[@johnstandford4607]

Rip

[@larryhicks9076]

This song should serve as a warning to those who spend all their time at work. You'll miss your children growing up.

[@sarahbarnes1041]

True

[@toddjohnson7572]

Well, they're just by-products.

[@sraaju]

As if we have a choice ...

[@larryhicks9076]

@Altschauerberger Opferkult-Spiritist Find the right balance. Your children are only children once. Plus nobody on their death bead says "I wish I spent more time at the office."

[@ME-od8id]

For a lot of men that is a life chosen.

[@ed345]

One of the best songs ever written and the band does a great remake of it. I listened to this song as a kid and it always brought up mixed feelings. Still does. So glad I spent time with my son - he has grown up to be an awesome man and a great friend. All the time practicing baseball and shooting hoops with him was a joy for me. I wouldn't trade it for all the money in the world.

[@Blueluise]

Boston Tea Party, heard of, h is to r y...great...

[@paulwinski7215]

Except they screwed up the words. They say "When you comin' home SON i don't know when", in each verse. It's supposed to be DAD in each verse except the last.

[@dkbsoulman]

I'm blown away. Awesome version of this song. Great job Ugly Joe Kid. Having raised three sons, this hit home. I'm so glad I took time to stop and play with them when they were little guys. It all passed by so fast. They're all grown and we're very close. Life comes fast. Take time to enjoy it.

[@NobbyL-o1z]

It's a song from my youth. And I've always liked this song and the lyrics are 100%. Si, Yes, I have now found the original. Best regards form Germany

[@dkbsoulman]

​@@NobbyL-o1zthank you so much. My wife and I are planning a trip to Germany in June of 2024. Our son's partner is from Munich and has invited us for a visit. Small world. Can't wait to go. Peace and love ❤.

[@TheFivepoint1994]

I saw these guys live in Houston around the time they were hitting the rotation on MTV. They were the headliners but I was into the local opening band. I remember telling my friends that I wasn't really looking forward to the "I hate everything about you" guys. To say that I was blown away by their live performance would be a gross understatement. These guys absolutely brought it. Years later I honestly can't remember the opening band name but I'll never forget Ugly Kid Joe.

[@Eric-zz5rj]

Cat stevens

[@thomasalb.310]

Three Days Grace?

[@russeli1941]

Sometimes there are lyrics put together in such a way that they become timeless any always meaningful.

[@KabukeeJo]

This is one of those rare songs that hits home, and it it's home hard. Happy Fathers Day to all the dads out there working hard to support their families. May your hard work not cost you your kids as it did to the father in this video.

[@angelinebelarmino6000]

such a strong message about a son and a father relationship

[@mandychew9611]

Don't forget about daughter & father too. My mum & dad were married, lived in the same house & it was like it was a single parent household (never saw my dad much which was a good thing). To all men, if you want your kids in your life, be in theirs when they're growing up.

[@koffinkat666]

Makes me cry because my Dad died a Pill addict and Alcoholic who couldn't get over the Divorce.....I never realized until listening to this song now how truly our children are a reflection of us.......I have been sober a year but I was a Heroin addict and alcoholic barley made it out alive....My dad has this album he passed on and left me his collection Listened to this song and got really sad......Just now I never understood it till now. I am crying......

[@lucybohnet3678]

My heart goes out to you. So much brokenness in our world-a frequent subject in my prayers. I pray somehow out Heavenly Father will continue to bring you healing.

[@enzobert5286]

man.. i'm sorry :c

[@lucybohnet3678]

I'm Larry's sister by the way and yes we were blessed to have the parents we had.

[@enzobert5286]

i'm just a brazillian boy, honestly my english is terrible and i don't know how to express my sadness for you guys, i'm really sorry hope you enjoy your parents as i

[@wandaburgess9400]

Koffinkat666... *SENDING YOU HUGS FROM CANADA*

[@TheTubD]

Listened to this song hundreds of times and only today have I realised how much I miss my late father and the life we didn’t have.

[@End_Times_Dreams]

I know exactly how you feel

[@Principessa180]

@@End_Times_Dreams Yes it is so relatable and i thank UKJ for bringing this song to the forefront.

[@robertmaddox2170]

Man this really hits home. My old man worked his life away and now at 37. I'm doing the same.

[@ionelaciortan4504]

They all do...

[@metalsadman]

you still have time man, living is not all about working hard, be content with what you have and spend as much time with your kids.

[@ReiAyanami1712]

This is the fate we need to face as men

[@vukknezevic4258]

Every passing moment is another chance to turn it all around..

[@goodisnipr]

Many jobs have personal days available to employees. Take advantage of them at sporadic and random times during the year. I don't get to have dinner with family at any regular holidays, but the days I take makes it so I see them more days a year than just holidays allows.

[@Seba16Bits]

One of the best covers 🎸

[@lostthedog]

As a father now.. I can't listen to this without crying. This was/is basically the relationship I have with my father.

[@shanebriggs1039]

Same as you, i know exactly how you feel

[@honeyboo7549]

Man, I'm a kid from the early 80's and I grew up with all kinds of music, since my family is so versatile. And in my humble opinion: this song will never ever die! 👏👏👏

[@irisheyes4416]

This is one of those moments I am thankful for my dad. Work came 9th place at all times. He told me "You can make money every day, you can't make your childhood again."

[@nikolaynemigenchev4670]

Irish Eyes Wise man, your Dad

[@jadejaguarcuontheotherside7551]

I wish I had a dad ... and one like that!!!

[@awarne2]

what a testament to your pop...cheers, Irish Eyes

[@jeremypeele8010]

Irish Eyes you got lucky. Most dads are gone

[@poisonmyrrh6497]

Your dad is awesome.

[@JeffreyCogswell]

People can say whatever they want about Ugly Kid Joe, but THIS SHOWS what amazing MUSICIANS they are!!

[@Metalgearhead93]

I was born in 93 I feel like Ive missed a lot of good music. I wish the radio was more diverse than just the usual rock hits.

[@lindataurua7329]

Adam Hopkins you have. So much great bloody music in in the 80' & 90's

[@amylebron1966]

yes u did !!!!!!!

[@thegteam4349]

Sometimes before I wake my son for school, I will look at him sleeping. And as I do, I imagine myself as an old old man, and he now grown and raising a family of his own somewhere. And I ask myself, what would that old man pay, what would the old me give to be standing here in this quiet moment? The answer is he would pay any amount, he’d give anything to be able to stand there and watch his little boy sleeping. That simple mental exercise grounds me, reminds me these moments are golden and they should be savored for the gifts they truly are!

[@g0dsphantom]

This comment made me tear up and you are truly a good person and if he is being raised by you I know he is gonna be a man one day have a amazing evening. God loves u

[@MrDeano-eu9rg]

Who wouldnt pay the world for the ability to time travel...

[@benjamindavis4130]

What a gem IM glad I came across this comment

[@KristinKali]

When this cover first came out.. I loved it bc it sounded just like a lullaby.. Now that I understand the world, it is a beautiful warning in ways you can interpret. I never knew my father, but many men shaped my life. My children have a good man as a father; this is my life's blessing.

[@BillCaddell-m7p]

A beautiful song about life and the wrong priorities most people have. The most unforgiving thing in life is lime, because once it's gone you can never get it back.

[@shadsunderland2586]

Watching my dad fade away and my boys fading in..... this song holds much more meaning than when I first heard it when I was little... thank you

[@PHlophe]

aw Shad this is so sad . But did Papa get the chance to meet one of your boys.

[@jaddy11mash]

Your welcome ❤

[@Mickey_Silver]

I can’t listen to this without crying.. me and my dad had a huge falling out a few years back, I sent him old man by Neal young out of the blue and he replied with this, I tear up anytime I hear either one, I’m glad we worked everything out… I love you dad..

[@joecarter4105]

Happy to hear that bud. I had a similar experience/relationship with my pops. I'm constantly told nowadays I'm just like him from everybody. I take it as a sideways compliment lol

[@micnorton9487]

Well you two guys are lucky,, my old man was a prick and the one time I was dealing with him and this song came on,, the guy just laughs and turns it off.. needless to say,, turning my back on the prick was twenty-some years too late but not a day too early... A couple of years ago one of my own sons played this tune for me kind of out of the blue, and I don't mind saying that, yeah I cried, who wouldn't? I wasn't working too much to be away from my kids but they are kind of spread out so,, I'd be with them when I could but anyways just refreshing to see other stories of guys who got along with their dads...

[@simonesantos-tn7oz]

Fico feliz por vocês dois. Um forte abraço 🇧🇷

[@donnieblevins]

I am glad you and your dad are working on things and never stop trying as long as it isn't detrimental to your mental health. I blamed my dad for everything that happened with my mom. By the time I realized I was wrong, it was to late and he was gone. Never stop trying to fix it.

[@TheRokkis]

Nice to hear you did! Time shouldn't be taken for granted. Mine died to cancer before we did, at least I was there on his last moments.

[@markeverman9404]

This was one of my dad's favorite songs. He'd sing this song often in the car when he'd pick me up. He wasn't in my life as much as most Dads traditionally, but he'd call me often. We'd talk, laugh, and relate with each other. The older I got, the more I realized he was JUST like me! Unfortunately, the last time we spoke on the phone was two weeks before he died suddenly. Talk to your loved ones; you NEVER know when the last conversation with them will be. Enjoy paradise, Dad. ❤

[@PemaWangchuk12]

My dad was with me every step of my childhood. He was always home for the family. I wasn't all there with him in his final days. Now with my son just walking and learning to talk, my work has me away for most of the week. And this song that I've always loved playing but never identified with my father and myself, seems like it's telling me that it wasn't ever about my father. It was me all along.

[@jamescaloren4877]

He flies with angels, as does mine.

[@Donna-vv5wn]

Awh bless❤

[@Bluetick-nu1hw]

Want to bad but thresholds boundaries

[@tamimislami]

Hey, I've noticed something about Western societies. They don't treat their elderly parents very well. It's sad to see them in old age homes. It's like when you were a baby and your parents left you with strangers and only checked on you occasionally. In contrast, in Middle Eastern countries, children take care of their parents until they pass away. Our religion teaches us to worship God alone and to be dutiful to our parents. I hope you don't take offense to what I said. It's just my observation. By the way, that song is really great!

[@animatorFan74]

One of the rare remakes that's just as good, if not better, than the original. This song still rocks in 2024 :)

[@rodolforodriguez6230]

Is better than original to me, l have no doubt, this cover is beautiful 👏

[@acciokatherine]

I think what i love most about this song is how many people could relate to it. It isn't specific. The father's not abusive, negligent, cruel, mean, or absent. This actually happens in almost every family where there is a father, or even mother, that's too busy to get to know their child, and before they know it, they're retired, their kid is married with their own kids, and now THEY dont have time for THEM. It's honestly the circle of life as we know it.

[@echinio9]

Thanks Kat B for the reminder. I will go home tonight and give my sons a huge meaningful hug each... they won't understand it now but it doesn't matter... Cheers

[@aryoctaviyanti856]

that suck....thats because capitalism, all of us should work until we exceed our limit and the nwe dont have a time for our families....

[@iwantit162]

Definitely but being one of those forgotten kids I learnt from it!the biggest lesson I learnt before my dad died was to never abandon your family!work is not your life your family is your life and that's where I place my heart and soul :)

[@davidcarwile8697]

Kat B This song completely relates to me. I have stories that would blow your mind

[@ericlamotte6581]

iwantit162 really hope it works out for you. Really do. That the rest of life's pressures never force you to choose between. In all honesty best of luck and may your spouse appreciate your heart/values.

[@VirginiaTombstoneRevival]

41 years old and this song makes me cry every single time I hear it. Every single time I’ve been too busy to play or cuddle with my son hits me like a brick.

[@MattSealy-uj8dx]

This song fills me with all kinds of emotions. My dad just passed this past November. He was one of my best friends, and we were a lot alike.

[@hectormurga3509]

That’s something special

[@Dad_of_War]

I'm not crying, you're crying!

[@cmorrow132]

Music during this era just had something magical. It made you feel a certain way, can't explain it. There will never be another time like the 90s.

[@gromme-450]

Matt M true

[@barbara-annperry5941]

I totally agree, maybe that's why the 90's just feel like 10yrs ago lol

[@jorgg.5961]

World seemed okay in the 90s : Warsaw Pact had disappeared and Central Europe seemed to have a lot of chances...and we were young and always at techno-parties and in love. Now there are more problems than chances...

[@dagonming1319]

it is a 1974 folk rock song written and sung by Harry Chapin

[@lydiagalantmotherf]

@@dagonming1319 But this cover came out in the 90s, that's what they meant

[@TheLanthia]

Incredible song with very important message ...

[@bodhi8297]

Miss my three sons. One of them in particular, if only we could get together for a basketball game. I hope you boys know you’re apart of me and will always be. Until the end

[@jeffashley5512]

I'm 56 and my children are in there 30's. I made sure i was there for them and did my best to show them what dad means to a family. I've lived a long life and the best accomplishment is being a dad to three amazing children that have given me grandchildren to carry our legacy.

[@priscillamills2370]

This song hurts so much. My husband died when my kids were very little. I think I have missed every important thing that they did because I had to support them. I did good job supporting them. I have never had a chance to just be a mother.

[@jayakrishnan26]

You're an amazing person ❤️

[@bernardohenze5700]

Mierda!

[@SheyD78]

You do what you can, and when they're old enough to understand, they'll appreciate it. We can't be perfect, we just do the best we can with the hand we're dealt.

[@gtbike8142]

I spent a lot of time with my kids, now I’m 55 and they are all grown up, my oldest reminds me of me, don’t know when he is dropping in and never said a word when he moved out, now he is at in age of when I had him. Always reflect those special memories, time does not wait for no one take advantage of the time you have.

[@NotRogers]

I’m touched by what you’ve said. You should give your oldest a call or at least leave a message. I’m sure he’d be happy to hear that you’re thinking of him during these trying times.

[@kieferonline]

Great song. It's lyrics are so haunting to me even from my teenage years. It captures the tensions of modern career responsibilities and family life. No that I'm in my middle career and have a young boy, I've always tried my best to spend quality time with him even when I'm exhausted from work. The lyrics of this song always pop into my head as a warning to avoid regret. During the pandemic I played catch with my son almost everyday. Today he's a star pitcher in his little league. I'm so proud of how he's turning out, an excellent young man. Funny how this song has encouraged me to become a better parent. It's a gift! Life and family are gifts too.

[@laketufu]

Congrat bro... now is my time to do!!

[@landonglover346]

It's 2024 years later still a great song.

[@rodolforodriguez6230]

Always bro.

[@Jerry-zz2eu]

It's an old song, but I don't think it came out in 0 AD.

[@katepotts2846]

For everybody who grew up without a father. beautiful 90s

[@thomasroo783]

Just to my dad, I'm sorry I became a cocaine addict after your passing. And not being the man You raised me to be. But your boy has beat his demons and 4 years sober and back from deaths door. Living, not just existing, It's not goodbye dad... it's only till next time. Thank you

[@maxobino2753]

Be proud of yourself for having overcome that. I'm sure your father is.

[@DastardSilvergun]

I'm proud of you dude, and I know your dad would be as well

[@bk2active]

I know personally how hard it can be to recover from something like that, he would be so proud, just know that

[@ianal1429]

Our dads will be proud whatever 🤞 Peace and love

[@artist1303]

Sounds boring!

[@kenbaker42088]

Still rocking in October 2019. Some songs sound as good today as they did when they came out and this is one of them...

[@l8tr597]

Original was better, not a surprise though

[@levipeterken4020]

Agreed. Such a good song. Way better than the original.

[@voodoo-fx5jl]

Goddam it me to

[@thedarkknightman6150]

To me, this smoke the original.

[@sin1st3r1]

I love the subtle transition from “im going to be like you dad” to “im going to be like him”. Kinda heartbreaking. This is my life. Love this song.

[@NostalgiaMan]

Old School MTV take it away. Also my Grandfather raised me since my dad never was around. That is why I learned things the proper way.

[@ObsidianCrocodile]

I know what u mean, I was a daddy's girl

[@leogallagher2230]

I've seen you comment on so many amazing songs

[@wyattpride5092]

Cheers mate

[@ATLDimePc]

MTV is how I learned about this song. I was 12/13 yo in 1991/92 and I liked the music to this song, but didn’t really understand the lyrics until my brother, 12 yrs my senior, explained this was a remake and broke down the lyrics for me. I like the original but this version will always be my favorite bc it’s the first version I heard.

[@adhe_channel-Office1980]

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[@andymcdonald2620]

Back in the 1990s, this was used for a PSA in Northern Ireland, aimed at breaking generational cycles of violence (basically "don't let your kids make the same mistakes your generation did"). Powerful stuff.

[@worawatli8952]

In my country, it is used for "Stop Smoking" campaign, and it is pretty effective, whenever this song came up, my mind is like. "oh, it's no smoking song," Some people called this "dad is dead song." rofl

[@AI.industry]

idgaf

[@danielbrown8661]

I plan to make the next generation to grow up perfect not to no of the evil sins this earth have

[@gemagod]

@@AI.industry Would you care to elaborate? You seem like an eloquent person...

[@BatHunterofDevon]

Not this specific version-I'm pretty sure they used the original by Harry Chapin.

[@rayannchristmann-wolf8546]

As my dad got sick, I played this for him. This was totally our song. When he left this world for a pain free one... this became our song

[@purpledreamer9654]

Sorry for your loss 😞 Sending some gentle virtual hugs 🫶🫂🫶

[@Impaled_Onion-thatsmine]

My dad left me for job relocating and to help secure the cats then i went psychotic they don't help - the cats - and just made everything worse He wants me to be retarded not genuine and creative. Want me to cover it cover it?

[@stevepouillon3562]

Living it myself except the show off shit that's never been us just the work part missed some thing's that can't be recaught not a ton but it matters far far more than money you're always going to make money working you not always going to be there. Love and peace y'all ❤

[@Lafter12]

I'm sorry for your loss man. 😢he died happy

[@donnalangley8000]

Im 47 years old i remember when i listened to this i was crying ,now im listening to it now and i am crying again

[@nygelmiller5293]

To Donna Crying? That's because you have good taste!

[@marvenenolan2508]

I have totally forgotten how incredibly beautiful Whitfield is, or was, I haven't seen current photos of him. I do know that this video brought about one of my most precious memories of My Mom Donna. She died when I was 24, and though I would love to share my memory w/ the world, I think it is something that you had to be there to really appreciate. I miss these days more than words can express, but I am extremely grateful for the ability to have my Mom as close as when she was alive just by watching this video. She was the most beautiful person who touched so many people, and I am forever grateful for ' UGLY KID JOE ' & this overplayed video that I gave me such a hilarious and beautiful reminder that I was so freaking blessed to have such a wonderful person as my Mom, the very best friend anyone can ask for, and the one who loved unconditionally to a fault!! THANK YOU DONNA LEE, MY BEAUTIFUL MOM FOR GIVING ME SO MUCH TO MISS!!! I LOVE YOU LADY JANE!!

[@andreaduncan3845]

There were planes to catch,and bills to pay..there is more to life than jobs or FREAKING money..i love you dad always.

[@gasmmusic]

If you don't have jobs, you don't have money. If you don't have money you cannot PROVIDE for your children.

[@ritaalexacruzzatrain6504]

Translation: Treat your kids in the way that you'd want your kids to treat your grandkids. Who in 2020? Ive lost my hero when i was 13. now im 32, i still miss you dad more then ever...

[@hessejames6250]

please go on. Do your part. I´m with you

[@ladygxo26]

♥️

[@ptstrong3]

I lost my dad 4 years to suicide. This song really gets to me now that I have a son. RIP Dad SFC US ARMY retired. The best man I ever knew.

[@ladygxo26]

@@ptstrong3 Sorry for your loss😢❤️

[@ptstrong3]

Gena Hutchinson thank you so much.

[@jagdeeprandhawa4361]

Back as a kid, I just loved the melody on this song and used to hear it again and again. Now 25 years later and with 2 kids, when I truly 'listened' to this one again, I just cant stop wondering with teary eyes about what I'd want my kids to grow up to. Thank you Harry Chapin for this masterpiece and Ugly Kid Joe for the amazing rock cover!!!

[@genehasenbuhler2594]

My dad left when I was five, I see my son in this song! We still get together but as time goes by those times become fewer and farther apart! 😞

[@mrade5321]

22 years later, 44 year old me started talking to my Dad again. He's 83. My advice people, fly the nest by all means, but never cut the apron strings. Time is something you can never get back. Don't waste it. Family is everything and everything else is nothing.

[@michelengo32]

Family is everything, and everything else is nothing. Wow, nice words

[@tonylonsdale6049]

Not to everyone

[@EveTheRaviolo]

My dad was the one to cut the strings...didnt care enough i guess

[@jguticon]

Tony Lonsdale yeah, unfortunately..

[@saifulzainal3176]

peace b upon em

[@Krimpf]

I turn this music on and 40 seconds in im crying like a child. I haven't cried in the last 6 months...

[@dziobanes]

+Krimpf You simply have the soul :) i have the same

[@varshapatel5543]

It's good to cry

[@TheOfficialButthead]

BABY

[@jeremystandfill8936]

i always cry in this song

[@LexingtonDeville984]

Always gets me slightly misty-eyed. There's a sense of melancholy that always hits you.

[@BojanDoroslovac]

My father was "just like him" and I didn't repeat it with my boys. I'm there for them, every day, as long as they need me...

[@headsupdisplay2189]

My father always had time for us...I'm over 60 now...he's been gone since 2003...I miss him every day. In the middle of a large storage room, no one else in the room, I caught myself saying - out loud - I wish I could call my Dad and talk to him...

[@joshfuller4108]

[@BA-ev4cq]

I'm a single father of two boys . I know I'm not even close to perfect. I've loved women but no woman will ever be loved the way I love my boys.. I would give everything in my world to be able to go back and hold your little hands again 👨‍👦‍👦💜

[@MaloneysDigest]

Good on you mate. I feel for you. Going through the same shit. It’s a hard time. This song reminds me of my dad and my son. Get to balance as best we can. God bless you and your family.

[@BasedInBrazil]

Then do your your boys a favor Red Pill them.

[@Birb567]

I havent had contact with my dad since the day i was 18 i ran then im now 50 people say girls look for men like their farthers well i choice 2 men who turned out to be like him im on my own raising sons and a daughter i treated them how i should have been treated so if raising sons please remember these young men will be farthers to our young generation so teach them well

[@assacoon]

@@Birb567 No disrespect, but a little grammar would be good. Really wanted to read your comment but couldn't understand it.

[@Birb567]

@@assacoon no disrespect taken i have a 11 yr old disabled son so my concentration wasnt the best he had been like he is now . Basically my dad and mum werent very nice people so i ranaway when i was 18 yrs old and got involed in 2 bad relationships so hopefully teaching my sons to be good in relationships

[@robnovellinauthor]

This song is my life… I work from 5am till 6pm Monday through Friday and by the time I’m home I have maybe 2-3 hours with my daughter before it’s time for her to go to bed. She’s always asking her mom “where’s daddy?” Shit depresses me. My dad used to work from sun up to sun down too and I remember I barely saw him besides weekends

[@DAS-Videos]

Make more time. Before you know it you will be retired and she will be married with kids living in the state she went to college at :-)

[@richardhertz9011]

You're a step ahead of the game. You've recognised where the pattern is. That is a big step funnily enough. It gives you the perspective to choose whether you want to continue on this path.

[@CivilisedCats]

Being aware of it is a precursor to change so hang in there. Say a few loving words as you go to work or phone home at lunch.

[@elfikwzbozu4556]

If you're not there for you kid when he/she needs you, don't be supprised that he/she doesn't want to hang out with you when you need to later on....

[@itsTheGshow]

You’re a legend bro. She’ll appreciate it when she’s older, that you worked so hard for her to have a good life.

[@christophedel2642]

Incredible song

[@sandrahudson9679]

This song hits home im 58. My 2 girls are great young women i was so busy when they were going up now my girls have left home love those girls with everything i have they take good care of there momma.love you girls..

[@gloriaborger6775]

what a nice comment hope you have a nice day

[@Erika-we6ky]

I lost my father this Friday and this made me cry. Love you, dad ❤️

[@nicholasadam7410]

You are loved, missed and appreciated.

[@wendyhickshocking9086]

My heart is going to you my friend! Sad to hear that you have lost your dad😢

[@benmenzies5205]

all the best stranger from australia

[@devillesh6593]

Mine was 20 years ago and I still cry.

[@crapaudivre1517]

My best thoughts to you man. Hang on. No more pain for your father now. Best wishes and regards.

[@darrylwillett8359]

One of the best ever covers of any song. Well done guys.

[@uku82]

True,very emotional

[@DavidTucker-x5y]

I love hearing hard rocking bands play soft music, gives a new sound!❤

[@mihajlodimovski6821]

Ive lost my hero when i was 13. now im 32, i still miss you dad more then ever...

[@EzRida04]

I love this song. And my Dad.

[@MrMrjones333]

sadly my father i never knew. be lucky you even knew yours. mine died after nam. then my step dad took over. good man served in nam as well. im 44 now and have a son. spend as much time as i can with him. even call in sick and don't give a shit. got to have priorities. and he is # 1

[@far_away_rhys]

+MrMrjones333 Good man.

[@valkor73]

+MrMrjones333 true american

[@penguin6710]

+valkor73 true man

[@fenriz218]

+MrMrjones333 Must be tough to have two dads who shot at some peasents in vietnam who just wanted to protect their country. Well, consider yourself lucky if the grandsons don't go out to gun down some bedouins in Afghanistan or Iraq or any other place where gun-totting americans are just not welcome.

[@valkor73]

dont what you got tell its gone

[@hairinair4725]

This song hits hard especially in times like these

[@ivsta665]

im with you bro

[@amitgeambashu2592]

Corona time

[@johnbettencourt8387]

Haven't seen my dad in 39 years because of my moms poor choices....

[@jimbehr2291]

honestly, what are you?

[@DaltonRiley25]

Yeah I haven't been able to see my dad in 2 months because of the virus but as of today I'm finally able to go back

[@MKEditsxx]

This got to be one of the saddest yet wholesome songs ever 😢❤

[@benerval7]

I was a us soldier from 1987 to 2011. My son was born in 1994. I was there i as often as the job would allow. I dont know if i was really though since there was repairs to everything all the time, 24 hour duty shifts and a wide range of stuff. I retired as he entered adulthood. He died in 2014. This song had a whole new meaning after that.

[@Jae-b1s]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm sorry for your loss. I know that was hard for you to share. It's a heartbreaking experience and I'm sorry you had to go through this. This makes me think of my niece who also was born in 1994. I didn't get to spend time with her as she grew up. I made excuses when she wanted me to spend time and there were times when I did but now 9 years old has turned into 29 and she's busy with her life she barely calls at all. So, yeah, this song hits home.

[@benerval7]

@@Jae-b1s thank you.

[@brandonjackson5865]

I’d forgotten Ugly Kid Joe covered this until I watched the video of them at MTV spring break with Primus . It’s one of those songs that I think can hit a person differently at any stage of life. It’s always relevant, deep, and emotional. I remember hearing it when I was young and hearing from the perspective of the little boy, then as I got out on my own as a young adult the perspective of the child who didn’t have time to spend with his father, and now finally as a father of teenage boys myself hoping that they will make time for me, but understands that they have to live their own life and make their own way in the world. I lost my dad almost 14 years ago, he was a month shy of 46. I always thought one day he and I were going to get together and really spend some quality time together. I had this check list of things that we were going to do, as soon as we got the time. We’re not guaranteed the next breath, and I try to let everyone important in my life know how much I love them and what they mean to me. This is an extremely well written song in my opinion. Good songs tell a story. Great songs tell a story that most people can relate to. Legendary songs grow with you throughout your life to be interpreted through different stages of your life. I can’t think of many songs that could move a boy, young adult, middle aged man, and an elderly man towards the end of his life, causing young and old alike to tear up. Seriously there’s probably people who don’t care for the song, but who couldn’t relate to the message in it ?

[@edpearson8973]

Don't go on, mate.

[@lahjahpdh]

Absolutely

[@kalinageorgieva4940]

My mom heard me listing to this song the other day. She told me that she used to play this song in the car all the time when I was younger, no wonder why it sounded so familiar.

[@amypagekaviani5661]

The original is by Harry Chapin. In 1976 I saw him in a small concert hall and he was excellent and full of blue humor. I was saddened by his passing.

[@matt75hooper]

When I heard this song first on the radio in 1974 I walked 2 miles to Woolworth's & bought the 45. Walked home the other 2 miles & played it on my little record player. My Dad was long gone & I thought this song would make things easier on my poor little heart. When I had my own little boy it was my mission to be the best father that ever lived. You see- we get a second chance at a Father- Son relationship & bonding. I wasnt about to mess that second chance up. My son & I were inseparable until he went off to college then got married. We are still super close & I treat his bride as if she were my own daughter.

[@michaelpage7691]

This song is an exact story of me and my son. I know he loves me but is always working or coming up with excuses not to come and visit. I cry every time I here it. The lyrics are so poignant. Incredible song. 😢

[@MrCurlybobs]

Did he grow up to be just like you?

[@michaelpage7691]

@@MrCurlybobs Slightly less family orientated first.

[@physcoticweirdo]

Spam his phone

[@michaelpage7691]

@@physcoticweirdo There are reasons he’s like he is…. I’m not going to annoy him.

[@jamesgoins8792]

my dad use to play this song for me growing up and now that hes gone i keep it close to my heart this is great song R.I.P dad i love and miss you

[@LukeKhaing]

Always a fan of this song. It's how my relationship was with my dad when I was younger. But I do have the time for my dad I'm single no kids and we are co owners of a house. He didn't spend much time with me in my younger years he was working all the time but he did teach me the value of hard work.

[@michaeldrake2020]

Relateable.

[@stacypacker3829]

I saw them at the Roxy in Atlanta. They were awesome. They reacted with us fans alit more than other bands so. The guitarist even staged dived into the audience. One of the best and most memorable concerts I been too

[@MrArchie800]

Powerful stuff! I come back again to this song every so often when I'm feeling blue.

[@TheMimiSard]

I remember when this song was released - this is a cover version, but I like it more than the original version, maybe because it hit right in my teen years.

[@devvaughn8817]

Yup Cat Steven's made the original, hes got another amazing song called father and son I'm pretty, sure you should check it out, Cat Steven's was a good folk artist...

[@Mr.Yarserrot]

The song "Cats in the Cradle" strikes a chord with me as I see myself repeating the same mistakes as my father did. My dad lost his life when I was just 12 due to his job, and I wished things would have been different. I have been fortunate enough not to have gone through what my dad did, but I have repeated his mistake of not being present in my kids' lives. As a parent, I now understand the importance of balancing work and family time. However, due to the divorce and the distance between us, I have not been able to see my sons as much as I would have liked to. Time flies so quickly, and I always thought that I would soon have the time to be with them more often, but it has not happened. Life has come full circle now as I see my sons doing what my dad did and what I did. They are busy with their lives, just like I was. But now, I am regretting not having spent more time with them, just like my dad regretted it in his final moments. Now that my sons are adults, I am always thinking about the mistake I made for not being there for them enough. I understand the impact that my absence has had on their lives, and I am making a conscious effort to be present in their lives now through social media platforms. Although I cannot turn back time, I hope to make up for the lost time and create new memories that we can all cherish. My experience is a reminder to all of us to prioritize spending quality time with our families, despite the challenges that life throws at us. Please don't let work or other distractions get in the way of creating lasting memories with your loved ones..

[@manjpoul]

so true

[@kreighdizzle]

But Reinaldo. Your boys turned out like you. They saw u provide for them and work hard...which is ok That's what I take from this song too The dad was busy providing for the son and family The boy turned out doing the same thing

[@charlessmith5966]

I understand what you mean. It hurts not being able to be with them , I have one son and his mom took him away from me when he was young. Now he is 19 years old and he treats me like a stranger because he tells me that he doesn't know who I am and it's too late too act like I am his dad .

[@alyahamzah1952]

I'm reading this as I'm nursing my 15mo son. His dad is a busy surgeon with very little time for the family. I have tried reasoning with him, cautioning him but I don't think he gets it. I sincerely hope he will not have regrets when his son is all grown up. I don't intend to bad mouth him but my son will see what he sees.

[@Renderfume]

I’ve listened to this song on numerous occasions, but it wasn’t until this time the message finally occurred and I genuinely shed a tear.

[@tomsimmonds534]

The best song ever, about fatherhood, I'm glad I made up with my boy, before it got too late 🤗

[@mkop3182]

Reading through these comments breaks the heart. 😪 Make family first again.

[@CatyeBia]

This song makes me cry everytime.

[@joolzprovost2057]

Right there with ya. I'm sorry.

[@loydconner1485]

Ditto

[@jimthomas777]

You should listen to the original writer and singer of this song Harry Chapin

[@scotthall1231]

Me too

[@loydconner1485]

I WAS THERE 13 OR 14 IT MADE ME CRY WAY BACK THEN. THAT WAS MY DOOR WAY INTO ROCK.

[@bobmartin4021]

I say without apology, this is one of the best cover songs of Generation X.

[@rodolforodriguez6230]

Absolutely bro.