This is my second year alone and here’s my plan

[@ethereal_333]

Yea, I relate. Both my girls are grown. One doesn’t speak to me. Other has her own family. I’ve been alone for two years now. I just had to put my cat down last week. She’d been with me 17 years. Yea, I kind of don’t want to be here right now. This is so depressing. It’s the hardest time in my entire life. I remember the big family get togethers. I remember when my girls were little. There just really doesn’t seem to be a purpose for me here anymore. Sorry for being all down, but this really got to me. 😢

[@janeshipley6993]

hi, ethereal. no need to say sorry - we’re all in this together. the loss of your cat is a lot to deal with, especially in december. i totally understand feeling depressed, with everything whirling around in your head and heart, as i’m in a similar boat, being alone. the way through it is hard, but not insurmountable. if you’re of a certain age, we women were taught that our only purpose in life was to take care of our family, and men their jobs. when that stops, for whatever reason, we feel bereft and lost. it’s devastating. this may now seem too simplistic, but please try, when you can, to find another purpose - it can actually gradually set you free from much of this sadness - whether it’s getting/changing a job or volunteering in politics or with the local park service or periodically taking in cats and dogs from the animal shelter or knitting afghans for the lonely elderly in nursing homes or whatever. all things like that can help fill at least part of your lonely heart. i wasn’t able to get out when my hardest time began, but i did knit. i didn’t even like knitting much, but i could do it. there’s something that you can do that would add to your life and make it just a bit easier and happier. i do wish you well this holiday season. you can do this.

[@hopefriday1]

@ethereal_333 please consider adopting another cat if you are financially able. So many in the shelter looking for a loving home.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I think the biggest lesson I've learned about estrangement from family is that after a while, those involved don't know how to reach out anymore, even if it is in good faith and with pure intentions. It's really tough. I haven't seen much of my maternal family in close to 20 years. I've had to make peace with too much water going under that bridge in order to move ahead on my own. Finding purpose while in the grief process is the most difficult order of the day; you have my understanding. But it will pass--of that I'm sure. I know it's hard to not get caught in good memories from decades past, "the good old days," as they're sometimes called, but, I hate to say, that's likely only making your present feel much worse. Please go seek community or just ground yourself with a walk in a park. Feeling "lonely" instead of "alone" is not a good place, especially when you're (seemingly) unfulfilled. You are whole and complete, safe and protected, and never actually alone just as you are right now. I don't know a lot of stuff, but I do know that much.

[@DanielleComesBack]

What a nice sentiment! Thanks for the contribution!

[@unclefester6033]

You aint alone kid! Sorry for the pet loss! Ive been alone over 20 yrs now as my hearing loss got worse & now legally deaf, those who once were have been long gone as I have a hard time hearing anything. I stay to myself neighbors only bother me when they need something! Like today a lady wanted me to help unload her large gas grill for cookout. But not invided me🤔

[@agl5132]

This is my 6th Christmas alone. Last week I had to put my 17 year old dog to sleep. I will spend Christmas day in my PJ's, eating and watching movies, reading books and being thankful I have a safe, warm home . I will remember that many are much less fortunate.

[@pinkpanda5696]

My condolences on the loss of your sweet dog. I had to put my doggy boy to sleep at 16 last year, so I know how it feels. Your Christmas plans sound cozy and wonderful.

[@hsoderberg6505]

Sorry to hear of your loss.

[@christineduffy3113]

Sorry to hear about the loss of your dog, perhaps in time you might get a rescue dog, early days I know, have a good day.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Aw, that's so awful about your dog. Sounds like he/she had a nice long life with you, which is so important! I, too, will be comfortable, and thankful for a warm place to live. So many do not have what I have and I'm aware.

[@isay207]

Merry Christmas

[@annabluhm8214]

I know someone who was going to be alone at Christmas after a sad divorce, a few years ago. This person told me they decided to to be proactive and not sit at home alone, so my friend volunteered at a local shelter and helped cook and serve a turkey dinner. My friend said it was a touching and wonderful day!

[@DanielleComesBack]

That's a nice thing to do. Glad it was beneficial to them!

[@deedeebrecca8645]

Merry Christmas everyone. I have been spending the holidays alone for 6 years. I would rather be alone than to get caught up in family drama. Life is too short for that type of misery.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Yes, there is something to be said for taking things at your own pace and in your own way so that you have the most peaceful experience. I think most of us have problematic family members who we feel somewhat obligated to see, which is brutal, because there is no real value in that if you're just tolerating an obnoxious uncle because he's your dad's brother or something, you know? Life is too short!

[@SarahMarie-j2n]

I've spent many years alone on Christmas, you get better at it. I suggest indulging in a few gifts for yourself. Obviously try to work within your budget, but wrap them in really pretty paper and that way if you need a little upliftment on Christmas morning you can open them. Buy a gingerbread house to decorate, find some vintage Christmas music from the 20s or 30s, watch your favorite childhood movies or cartoons. Buy yourself flowers, Just ideas, good luck 🎄🔔🎅🤶🎁

[@DanielleComesBack]

I plan to make gingerbread cookies! I have some records that I like to listen to as well, which I love on a day like Christmas. Carpenters records are the best on Christmas.

[@KristineW-r5s]

God bless everyone that is alone this Christmas.✝️🙏💕

[@pattydixon6510]

I am on year three alone after loss. The first I didn't do anything, too depressed. The second a little Charlie Brown tree which I loved. This year, full out Christmas! Just felt like I deserved a big Christmas even just with me. Sending loving and support to all! 🎄

[@DanielleComesBack]

That makes sense. It's a sign of good health, I'd say, that you eased back into things, rather than forcing yourself to do the traditions that you may have before. It's really good that you're back to the "full out Christmas" stage! Thanks for the love!

[@pattydixon6510]

@@DanielleComesBack You got it, thanks for bringing us all together in your great channel, Danielle!

[@annemarie3636]

My best friend died 9 days ago. I celebrated Christmas with him for the last 17 years. So this time, I am going to be on my own. I ordered new walking boots today, and I am going to drive to the Malvern Hills (UK) on Christmas morning to do a short 2-hour hike (I have to get into it). I am actually really looking forward to it. It is a 1.5 hours drive to get there and I'll get to see the Christmas lights in the Cotswolds. I am used to being alone, but as you said, Christmas is weird. Wishing you a good day!

[@hsoderberg6505]

It sounds like a great plan, a day of kindness.

[@christineduffy3113]

Sorry to hear about your friend, you will miss him.Your plans for your day sound wonderful, out in the fresh air with lovely scenery, sounds great.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I'm sorry for your loss! It sounds like you have a good, solid plan in place, though. I'd love to see England in the winter. I've only ever stopped in London Heathrow to switch planes. One day I'll get there for a proper visit.

[@juliehoot3916]

@@annemarie3636 So sorry!

[@annemarie3636]

@@DanielleComesBack England is beautiful! I am from the Netherlands but don't ever want to leave. I am blessed that I have a good job here. We're looking forward to having you for a proper visit! ☺

[@Platinum907]

I’d rather have crumbs with bums than steaks with snakes..I have had the best seat at the wrong table for too long. Being solo is not lonely at all (for me). I’m so grateful.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I hear ya! Sounds familiar to my own story, too.

[@LCR32426]

@@Platinum907 wow! You nailed it poetically! I'm stealing that line for sure!

[@c.b.201]

@@Platinum907 Yep. Same here. I don't regret it at all

[@silverhorder1969]

Sometimes being lonely is better than the alternative of being miserable.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Yes. Although I don’t feel “lonely.” “Alone” is probably more accurate.

[@ufobigfoot4002]

Absolutely.

[@northernillinoissasquatchr6260]

Just found your channel. Christmas is challenging for those who are alone. I was widowed at age 44. No children. My family has dwindled, no more big family dinners. I make cookies for a few special neighbors and friends, watch Christmas movies, decorate a bit. Church is special at Christmas.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Wow; that's early to lose your spouse. Sorry to hear that. My family is starting to pass away now too. I've got plans for foods like cookies and cakes so that I can share a bit here and there. Nice to meet you!

[@larkc7677]

It’s OK to simply ignore Christmas and spend the day doing whatever you enjoy. So much of the unhappiness around Christmas is due to unrealistic expectations. Tune out the noise.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Happy to do that! The world is rather loud!

[@JessicaMillerNashville]

Your never alone with God. I pray that he will fulfill you this Christmas and make it the best day ever for you! Hugs and Merry Christmas

[@DanielleComesBack]

You’re right! Thanks. 😊

[@PamRosenquist]

I get it. I’m also alone but there are people all as round. I’m in an assisted living. No family. I just try to concentrate on why we have Christmas. It’s the day we celebrate the earthly birth of Jesus. He is the best gift. Being alone is no fun. I get through it by praying and praising God. It works for me.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I hope you have friends in your facility that you can spend some time with. I remember that was a big aspect of the holiday when I would spend time with my Great Grama when she was in assisted living. So many residents had nobody and they got through it with each other and with me, when I was there. It made a big difference!

[@kay-pu7hr]

The best Christmas alone i had was volunteering at a Salvation Army to serve Christmas lunch. There were other volunteers that day in the kitchen. It was like the volunteers were a family. Some volunteers brought their children to help serve too. It was the best Christmas. God bless you on Christmas Day and every day. The day is special because it came about because of love. A live stream would be fun. There are others like us.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks! Yes, this live stream idea has grown legs, apparently! Nice to meet you.

[@K-no7yf]

That's what I'M doing this Christmas Day!! 🎉❤

[@katie7748]

Those are some of the only good people involved with SA....the ones who come in to serve meals. What goes on behind the scenes is repugnant. Some of it is so bad Satan himself would recoil in horror. I speak from experience.

[@CreateSparklesStudio]

Hey! Thanks for the shout out again. My name is Lisa, by the way. I use to have it in my channel title but I changed the name and I forget to introduce myself in the videos. This is such a heartfelt video, it was brave of you to make it. So that's the wooden tree you mentioned! I love rose gold things, so that would be so pretty. 💖💖

[@DanielleComesBack]

Hahaha I get the “forgetting to introduce yourself” thing. I’m going to try the tree very soon. I’m running out of time! 😅 I’m glad you got to see this one. None of us is truly ever alone.

[@AngelaGrace2]

🤗New sub here. I've spent Christmases alone, and once you get over the first one, it's comfortable. Walking at the park, eating a good meal and reading great literature with some candlelight is heaven to me. Movie theaters are great too on Christmas day--so many happy folks are getting a break from family. Lol. I'd watch your Christmas day livestream.🤗

[@DanielleComesBack]

Yes--Christmas day is especially quiet outside because everyone is inside! It makes a solitary walk very pleasant. And the choice to read whatever book you want, and for however long you want--that's the best aspect of living alone, I find. I look forward to making more great foods and enjoying the quiet. It's a luxury that most don't have! Thanks for the subscription! I think I'll do a little livestream...I guess I should make a community post about it to let everyone know....

[@CarinaKarlsson-i9b]

I am so stressad out about christmas! When you tell me about yourself and preparing cokies. It sounds so relaxed. I wish you a wonderful quiet litle christmas🤶🧑‍🎄🎅🎄🎁

[@DanielleComesBack]

Oh no! Don't stress! Just do what you can and don't bow down to the pressure, that's what I say. Thanks for the well wishes! I hope you get some enjoyment as well.

[@ovehlu]

My mom passed away this summer and I'm choosing to spend Christmas alone, as i did Thanksgiving, by choice. Family members are nearby, dinners are offered, but my grief is too fresh. Settling for a few decorations, Netflix, whatever meal sounds enticing. Whatever you all do, or not do, many blessings, 🙏🏼.

[@DanielleComesBack]

That all sounds totally reasonable to me. Take your time with things. Thanks for the comment!

[@ovehlu]

@@DanielleComesBack 🫶🏻❤️

[@KathyM-in6ut]

Been there, I feel for you. After my first year alone missing out on every holiday, I made it a point to go out to the local diners and small local bar to meet other people. Not to drink alcohol but to get a soda and some food. There I got to know people and make friends. From there on we got together on a regular basis and I even met a guy who has become a wonderful companion.

[@DanielleComesBack]

That sounds great! I'm so glad you made a good friend who you can spend time with all year round, too. That's the best. I'd probably feel weird if I went to a bar or pub and didn't have a drink, as it's somewhat expected in such an establishment. But the idea is a good one!

[@lizb4156]

​@@DanielleComesBackIt's not, you don't have to drink alcohol.

[@catz2505]

This is my third Christmas alone. Just me, my dog Lacey and four cats. Past years I put up a tree and decorated, put some fake gifts under it. This year just not feeling it. So nothing. It's hard sometimes. All the memories from past and now I have noone. All friends have family. It's hard not to get down. So I try to stay busy, walk daily, and idk survive I guess. Hardest time of the whole year for everyone. I remember the family and memories, . such good memories. I will survive and so will you. But the feelings are hard. I hope your day goes well.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I know it will! I hope yours goes as well as you want it to. I’m glad you’re able to take daily walks! That’s a good way to stay healthy.

[@lizjoyce5]

Condolences

[@johenderson3742]

Surely one of your friends could invite you to their family gathering?

[@JoelUldrych-kh2sc]

So many of us around the planet spend Christmas and often other holidays alone. Many ages, many various reasons.

[@lizb4156]

And we couldn't care less it's just a normal day to me I don't give it a thought, all this fuss for what? You get up and 3 hrs later it's dark, finished.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Yup! No lie!

[@DanielleComesBack]

I know--I hear about my dad's crazy Christmases and shudder. When I think of the setting up and cleaning the entire house after only a few hours of "fun" it does not seem appealing at all!

[@LucitaBrown]

I see being alone for holidays in my future. My son moved 3000 miles away, my dog died, then my cat died, then my only little brother died, and my 92 year old alcoholic mother lives 1-1/2 hours away and I don’t drive through San Francisco anymore so luckily I don’t see her too often. Unfortunately I’m very healthy so I may live many more years. 🤷‍♀️. Appreciate your video - first time viewer.

[@BicyclesConfusion]

How are you doing today, Lucita.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Wow! Sounds like a lot of tricky changes to navigate. I’m sure a quiet season will be a nice change for you. Thankfully you’re able to set and keep boundaries and live as well as you can. Sounds like you’re in California. I’m in BC, Canada. 🙂

[@KathleenMcNe]

Sounds like the makings of a country western song.

[@MYKEYCARD]

@@KathleenMcNe Yes Country And Western And Blues Song Real Life🙏

[@LucitaBrown]

@@BicyclesConfusion Had a good day today, thanks for asking.

[@stepankapodlesakova2622]

Thanks for sharing. It is my 4th or so this way. Yeah, it can feel weird and lonesome, but on the other hand, it is the best option for now. So many times back then Christmas has not been exactly what I needed anyway, usually very painful. I don’t want that again. Better to be alone than with people and to still feel lonely. We can make it nice by ourselfs. :)

[@DanielleComesBack]

I agree. Feeling alone in a crowd of people you're supposed to feel close to is much worse than being truly alone. And, as I've said and others as well, you're never really "alone."

[@lorianncostello531]

M not a big fan of Christmas. Growing up was..crazy..and Christmas has this huge expectation of sleigh rides, snow, joy, family gatherings..ugh. It cant help but fail with that many expectations. Some years, I lived across the country from family and didn’t go home. I hung out with my pets, read, ate something special. This will be the second year without my dad, and I just want it over. Id just rather skip it.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I mean, you could just skip it. You know, just treat it like another day. That's basically what I'm doing. I know how it is to have family at a distance. It makes things different for us. Sorry about the loss of your dad. Did he have a connection to the holiday which is making you really not want to celebrate?

[@nicolewillis945]

New subscriber here! I don’t know how you got to my feed, but I’m so glad you did! I am excited to start following you and see what kind of journeys you take us on. I would have loved to see you do a live stream, but I’ll be working. However, I do hope that you consider doing one in the future though ❤

[@DanielleComesBack]

I would like to on Christmas Day! Hopefully you don’t have to work then. ❤️

[@nicolewillis945]

I do, which is perfectly fine. Hopefully though I will be able to make the live stream once you decide on a time.

[@4597-1]

Thanks for this video. Being an introvert helps me manage better. First Christmas without either of my parents.😢

[@DanielleComesBack]

That’s always tricky-the first one after a loved one departs. I’ll be live for a while that day, if that might help! ❤️‍🩹

[@nadinenc3097]

I spent some Christmas's alone and I was miserable. I thought about all the families celebrating together, including mine and no one even called. I felt incredibly forgotten.

[@hemlo7494]

Call them up, all of them, to wish them a merry Christmas, even to be sarcastic, as a reminder that you're still around.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Something I've noticed as a person from an estranged-sometimes-not-estranged, fractured family, is that the holidays or birthdays go by and people don't know how to reach out, even if they want to. It feels like we're being ignored, but many times, it's a struggle for them to reach out because it's been a long time, or they just don't know what to say. Though that doesn't minimize your feelings, that is a big factor in families not talking for decades. I hope that helps. You're welcome here.

[@johenderson3742]

​@@DanielleComesBackThey could easily post a card...

[@andrewuk4813]

Thank you for sharing. My second Christmas too. It hurts. Making new memories is a good idea. 😃

[@DanielleComesBack]

Yeah, it's not easy. But it's definitely easier than last year!!

[@vickieyoung7122]

This will be my first xmas alone as my husband died this year and all my family is dead as well...my tree is up and my mantle decorated and I am enjoying the lights with my 2 kitties... Very strange to be alone...will probably spend the day reading

[@DanielleComesBack]

I'm sorry for your loss. That's got to be difficult. Glad you got some decorating in and you're relaxing with your cats. I'd love to have cats for that reason as well, but I'm not allowed in this apartment building.

[@hettyyoungjoubert8069]

Sorry for your loss.🫂❤️

[@heidrunvogelbacher4657]

My husband also died in March this year after 57 years of marriage. It's so hard. On Christmas I watch TV with my cat Ramon on my lap and thinking of all the lonely people 😘😘😘

[@sallyclay1974]

I'm retired, on a fixed income, in Danbury, CT. Ive spent many yrs alone, and of course, have adjusted to it. Ive gad alot of deaths, in the family,in the past 15 yrs. My sister. was retired in Ridgefield, CT. She passed away , from Lewy Body Dementia, after 7 yrs. I have a suster, jn Austin,TX, brother, in Brinnon, Wash., and a daughter, in LA. My ex husband, had a fatal heart attack, in Astoria, Queens, my elderly mother, natural causes , in Midtown Manhattan, and a close male friend, a heart attack, in Cali. We adjust to life

[@DanielleComesBack]

That's a lot of loss! Sorry about that. There is no other option but to adjust, as you say.

[@Adventuretravelat70]

Hi from another West Coaster. Many of us are alone for Christmas, for various reasons. It is hard when we're missing those who have moved on or we have lost. My bit of family is far enough away to make it impractical to visit. You're right, there's so much pressure around it too. I debate over getting my Christmas decorations out or not, I haven't for a couple of years. It's just another day, like you say. My plans are simple, sleep in, have something I like to eat, go for a walk, and maybe watch some favourite movies like Lord of the Rings. Wishing you all the best 🤗🤗🤗

[@DanielleComesBack]

Your plan sounds like several other plans I've read so far! I get it. I think my day is going to be very similar. Christmas is a great time to watch those big epic film series.

[@Adventuretravelat70]

@@DanielleComesBack I've been saving Season Two of 'Rings of Power' for just this purpose 😀😀

[@A13JMC]

Be able to carry on, make your own fun, fulfill your life with pleasant activities even if someone else is not around to share the time with you. Reward yourself having gone through a whole year of responsibilities, and challenges, plus get some things on the calendar for the new year to get things cranked up to look forward to. Ponder a course or two. A local church or community center has a yoga class on a certain night, drop on by. Learn some new strategies for playing chess maybe. Drop by a lights on the lake type event if that exists on your area around Christmas time. Start reading some books lying around your residence or starting to learn a new language. Begin researching your family lineage. Plan a budget or meals for the next week, or plan something for New Years eve that might be the start of a new family tradition. For winter, try putting a puzzle or two together. Glad you're reaching out and you can enjoy the holidays on your own without someone being around all the time.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks for all the suggestions! I'm normally pretty good at entertaining myself, but I admit my ideas tend to be solitary ones, which can feel isolating after a while. Thanks for the note and it's nice to meet you.

[@cynthia216]

My Mother passed away in October this year and I was there at Christmas every year.But I will be alone this year and every year from here on our.I live alone and have for years,I have a hard time during winter but I do workouts 3 days a week at the Y.I came across this video.Listening now..🇨🇦🙋‍♀️🎄🏋️

[@DanielleComesBack]

Sounds like you're keeping good care of your health, which is important! Living alone during the winter can be a bit isolating, just because of the cold. At least, it is for me. Nice to meet you!

[@jfox9126]

It is a brave thing to talk about being alone. I am sending you best wishes for this holiday - maybe sometime soon you will not spend it alone.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thank you! I plan to show off some short break cookies or something, so I’m not also eating alone. 🙂

[@beaulieuc8910]

It will be my 3rd xmas by myself. I am looking forward to it. I plan to make waterrcolour postcards.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Sounds great! Go for it!

[@Kwood10]

I’m alone every year . People will invite me over but I enjoy spending time with my pets & not being annoyed by their holiday shows or superficial conversations. You seem really like a nice person & I enjoyed your video 🥰Have a beautiful Christmas 🎄 no matter what.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Ah, the conversations! With the jokes you've heard a billllllllion times and are just not funny. I totally understand why you'd prefer the company of your pets! Thanks for the comment! Nice to meet you!

[@Kwood10]

@@DanielleComesBacknice to meet you 😊 I hope you will keep doing your videos . Allot of people can benefit & relate to you & what people go through trying to navigate life alone .

[@tonysmith8379]

A very earnest,warm and interesting .The wooden tree looks fun. I just subbed.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Awesome! Nice to meet you! I'm working on the tree right now, so I'm hoping it's ready by the Christmas Day live!

[@nagipannu2317]

Even being on my own....I decorate my whole flat--over decorate is the correct word. Makes me happy when I walk into the house.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Oh yes, I love having happiness shown to me when I come home. That can be represented by a nice smell from my cooking or leaving my little Christmas lights on in the corner so I don't walk into a totally dark room.

[@barbarablink5951]

Take a nice bath, drinks some wine, eat something delightful. Life is about change. Be happy you don’t have to spend spend spend, cook and wrap and decorate. It is just another day. Celebrate you and what the possibilities can be for the future. I remember going to the movies one Christmas and the theater was full of people. Stop pining for the past and start embracing the future.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I am glad I don't have to do crazy excessive spending, that's for sure. And I'm just cooking for me, which is cool. I get to make whatever I want!

[@thecregs4665]

I hope you find some joy while making your cookies or listening to holiday music this year. It sounds boring, but honestly, reading the bible and having some quite time with the Lord will give you strength and understanding. He even says to ask Him for wisdom if you don't have it on something..believe me I do all the time ❤️

[@DanielleComesBack]

I love Carpenters Christmas albums! Highly recommend those! And I do enjoy quiet meditation and connecting with source.

[@cheryl1338]

I've been there. I was just reminiscing with a good friend about the first Christmas I was alone after a 25 year marriage. I went to the Christmas Eve service at my church, then I went to her house and she and her husband and I drank wine and told stories about disastrous Christmases past and laughed and laughed. It's been 15 years since then and it still makes me smile to think of it. Then, there was 2020 and I was alone for you know what reason. That actually was okay, it was peaceful and I cooked for myself and texted and video chatted with everyone. Then, 2021 we had a horrible ice storm here in New England and Christmas was cancelled for safety reasons. I was okay with that, too (can you tell I'm an introvert and don't mind solitude? LOL). Finally, I hope you do foil the tree! After my divorce, I had bins and bins of craft supplies that I did not have the heart to look at - but in recent years I have been pulling them out and using things from decades ago. It's fun to "shop my stash" and finally finish projects that I started with such hope back when I was married. Now I just enjoy the process and have fun with it.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I’m the same way with solitude. It doesn’t really bug me, but it does get riled up with the season. I’ve enjoyed going through old stuff from married life. I have a huge box of unfinished quilt tops. I think there’s around 20 in there. Bed sized! I’ve given myself permission to finish them appropriately and with my own esthetic in mind. I plan on doing the tree tomorrow. I’ve always wanted to see New England. It looks lovely!

[@gabrielletanner5339]

Ignore the advertising, the perfect people who seem to have everything.......life is not perfect, love yourself and treat yourself..

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks! I will.

[@TravisDoingLife]

I’m on my 4th or 5th Christmas alone. It used to be such a special time, now I use it for personal development and photography adventure. Thanks for sharing this!

[@DanielleComesBack]

Hey, Travis! I'm finding it is becoming a time of quiet as well. I think it's an age thing, if I'm being honest. I just unpacked a box and found the original Nikon camera I learned to take photos with--and developed my own film! If only I were better at photography.

[@hummingbird4934]

You seem to be a lovely lady. I hope this season that you’re in will pass, I’m sure it will. I’m also alone and isolated so have decided to spend Christmas this year with my parents. Am actually enjoying their company more than I was expecting!

[@DanielleComesBack]

That's a good idea! They won't be here forever, so it's important to get that time together. Thanks for the comment!

[@maureen8745]

My parents divorced when I was three which left me tossed back and forth every holiday and summers and as a teen was diagnosed with cancer two times a week before Christmas and one time a week before Easter. Those occurences jaded me from seeing the gifts I'd been given... Those that prayed for me the wonderful friendships I had while I endured those hardships the man I'd marry and would pass away 13 yrs later. Hardships are gifts helping you build what you're going to be when you let go and choose to be in the present as a gift for someone else.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Adversity is definitely a fact of life, isn't it? I'm sympathetic to the divorced parents aspect to your story--my parents didn't divorce until I was in my mid 20s, but they really should have much earlier. They were so unhappy but they always tried (when me and my sister were living at home) to make Christmas special. All these years later I wonder how "bad" it would have been to have had two Christmases if my parents had split up in a more timely fashion. They were always desperately trying to make things look perfect, but they never felt perfect by a long shot. Anyways, thanks for the comment! I hope I'll see you around!

[@michellek50]

You are not alone. Remember that there is Zoom, meaning you are never alone. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@DanielleComesBack]

Of course. I'm sure there'll be some phone calling.

[@dojocho1894]

after a divorce from a 17 yr marriage and almost homeless this will be my last christmas alone I have been sharing a place with someone....but I have accumulated enough wealth to get my own place its been 5 yrs......Im very excited at this older age to begin again I have no family and no real friends anymore...but The Lord is with me...Merry Christmas.

[@belindarhodes4323]

Wishing you all the best

[@DanielleComesBack]

Fabulous! I was married for 17 years, too. I'm glad to hear you're moving forward onto better things. I want the same for myself!

[@ThePeerCounsellor]

I've been suggesting to clients for years, rather than being alone, alone, at Christmas, consider doing video calls with people, and not necessarily friends. Where I live, just outside Toronto, a lot of organisations are helping put people in contact with other people, so it clearly works. 😊

[@DanielleComesBack]

That’s a nice thought. Glad it’s helpful!!

[@lplp1546]

My wife of 33 years left me on December 26, 2017. Two weeks later I received divorce papers. It took me another 2 years in the courts to finalize. I’ve spent every Christmas since that date alone. I understand exactly what you are Talking about its indescribable. Loneliness is torture.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I don't know how divorce law works where you are, but that's awfully fast to be given papers! Anyway, all I can suggest is that there's never a good time to leave married life, especially after decades together. It doesn't feel good on the part of the party who is leaving, either. I know that for a fact. It was two weeks after my exhusband's birthday when I had to move out to secure my apartment. It felt awful, but I knew I had to take the chance on myself. I'll be going live on Christmas day, if that helps.

[@torolabie5608]

You’re a lovely woman with a beautiful spirit. Sharing a Christmas with you would be wonderful. May you receive the love and connection your heart desires. 🙏💒❤️

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks! Nice to meet you. I'll make a post about going live.

[@SophieBaby0527]

I will also be alone for Christmas this year and have had many...you are not alone ❤ peace be with you

[@DanielleComesBack]

I’ll be going live that day, if you’re looking for company. 🙂

[@SophieBaby0527]

@DanielleComesBack Thank you 🙂‍↕️ Merry Christmas 🎄 Missing my kids...it's been a long time ❤️‍🩹

[@angelaw4914]

Thank you for sharing this, very helpful for me. I always struggle with xmas for family reasons

[@DanielleComesBack]

I'm glad it was useful to you. I will be going live on Christmas, if you're interested. It's the perfect thing for us introverts--you can come, you can not, you can stay, you can leave, all at the click of your mouse. So if you're having a bad time, I'll be around, but I hope your day goes great!

[@laurie-jeannelister1029]

The trick is indeed in creating new traditions. The first year after a huge life change is vicious - each season and holiday is filled with much happier memories.So, the sooner you create new happy memories, the more joyful life can be - even when you are alone. For me, I thought outside the box and as a result, I look forward to times like Christmas, Thanksgiving, and the like. I also live far from my family (over a thousand miles). But I look forward to Christmas now as much as I did in the past. It takes effort, but it is well worth it!

[@DanielleComesBack]

It's closer to the way I felt as a young child in my case now. It used to be such fun when I was really little. Without the constraints of obligation, I have the mental space to return to something simpler that the younger me would appreciate.

[@PennyMain-dm4ci]

I know how hard it is I am going through a divorce now after 34 years of marriage just found your channel and subscribe so sorry we all have to go through hard times praying for you 😢

[@DanielleComesBack]

It's hard after a long term marriage ends. My parents were together for 30, and that was hard to witness as it unraveled, even though I was already an adult. I was with my husband for 20 years, and there are still tough memories surrounding the holiday. We've got this! Thanks for watching!

[@jefferee2002]

Divorced and alone here too. I have a son too but he spends Christmas with my ex because, basically, she has family. I do, too, but for some reason I've never been invited over for Christmas. Easter, yes, Thanksgiving, yes. But not Christmas for some reason. Rather lonely.

[@DanielleComesBack]

It’s hard with divorce and kids. What I’m doing is what I want-I’m taking things as they come and finding the luxury in solitude. I can relate to your experience, too, though. 🙂 I hope you’ll have a good holiday anyway.

[@2002WS6]

I am alone as well my second as well. It’s ok to be alone. I would rather be with someone but I believe it will come if I need it too. So good luck with it this year

[@DanielleComesBack]

It’s okay to be alone, for sure. But it might be nice to hang out a little online. 😊

[@2002WS6]

That would be fine

[@sabinascarpelli199]

Il natale è uno stato d'animo. Si può essere soli anche ad una tavolata di 20 parenti che vedi solo 1 volta l'anno e che non ti conoscono. Prendiamoci questi giorni per capire quanto siamo fortunati (un tetto sulla testa, figli in salute, cibo in tavola etc)...tutto il resto è un contorno Apprezzo molto che tu ne stia parlando, come vedi dai commenti siamo in tanti ad essere soli a natale....comunque Buon Natale cara, a tutti noi!

[@trina415]

Absolutely agree

[@DanielleComesBack]

For some reason this isn't translating to English for me, but luckily my rudimentary reading skill in Italian is kicking in. Nonna would be happy about that. Thanks for the well wishes to me and to everyone else! It does sound like many of us are alone this year and that's okay. It is a state of mind to feel "lonely" rather than "alone."

[@patriciamoore3318]

Grazie

[@buenavista312]

You and I are not the only ones… all of my family has passed onto God’s glory… cousins are out of town and my only living Son lives around the world BUT Jesus is with me and I am celebrating Christmas in the most beautiful way … attend Mass… prepare myself a delicious turkey dinner and be glad to be alive and healthy… I have bought myself my gifts…I have the most perfect Christmas memories… which I cherish… I have gifted my neighbors and a few church friends a gift…. Joy and gratitude will be at my home this Christmas… I wish you Christmas blessings… 🙏🏻🎄🎄🎄

[@DanielleComesBack]

It's an absolute must in my life to have great food to eat (that I made myself) and to enjoy the process of living. If not, depression will definitely hit hard. I like your approach. Thanks for sharing!

[@Valencenliberty]

@@DanielleComesBack

[@innergoof19]

This is my (M43) first Christmas post-divorce. Married 8 years, together 11 years. It's a new normal, but it's weird to me. Thank you for sharing your story; it makes me feel less alone.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I hear you. I was with my husband for 20 years, married 17. It’s not easy, that’s for sure. Anyways, you are absolutely NOT alone whatsoever. If it helps, I will be going live on the 25th, so if you want company (even if it’s just noise in the background) I’ll be around. ❤️🎁❤️‍🩹

[@temmietaft2552]

Thanks for sharing this. I truly enjoyed it

[@DanielleComesBack]

Excellent! I'm glad it found you.

[@LCR32426]

You have some really good ideas for getting through the holidays and details like the smell of different wood burning. if you do a live stream I would enjoy that. ❤

[@DanielleComesBack]

I'm glad you liked my thoughts! I am definitely going to go live, even if only for a short time, just to say hello to everyone and see if you're doing okay.

[@daisyheart2814]

Well, it’s a day off… so I say do something that you would like to do on a regular day off that you find fun. Stream fun movies and have fun snackies. Wear your comfiest pajamas and spray on perfume before you burrow under some covers. Have fun decorating your wooden tree, you’ll be fine. 💞💞much love! Daisy

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks! I think I'll be burning incense for that nice smell in my place, along with the food.

[@MsLouisVee]

How about rescuing a homeless cat or dog and giving them a nice home? only if you love animals that is.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I would love that. I adore cats and taking care of them, but I'm not allowed pets where I live currently. Otherwise I'd have at least two cats!

[@marklola12]

I am 42 and spend it with my family, parents, 2 sisters and brother inlaws and nieces and nephews...but i get depressed more at Christmas. Sometimes its not enough because I've been single since 2012. Guys do not seem interested in me. While some will say... but you have family so should be grateful...iam but its different because i want a partner and been single so long. Both sisters gave partners. So sometimes i am in a full room....but still feel alone. Wvery year without fail i try to tet in the Christmas mood but as soon as say 20th December hits....i start feeling down and just can not help it. I can not even be bothered to watch Christmas movies anymore or listen to Christmas music and i do my best to pretend im ok or having a nice time on Christmas day.

[@DanielleComesBack]

You could just allow the sorrow, if that would feel more natural. I know that might sound like "bad advice," but if you're really in that much pain, trying to hide those feelings isn't good. I also know first hand that being in a relationship isn't all it's cracked up to be either. I recommend enjoying the space you have to do what you wish. Once the feeling of peace washes over, that's when we're magnetic for love. No need to seek it; it shall find us.

[@patsmith8035]

So true, you can be lonelier with people than on your own. It is about feeling whether or not you belong with is as important as who you with. I grew up with six siblings, I was the middle and have never really had a sense of belonging, I do my best.Also hold on to the fact that media makes you believe everything is great and everyone has a brilliant time.The reality is different.Do things for you be kind to yourself and give yourself one little thing to look forward to every day. It may be a slow process but hopefully it will help.Love yourself

[@tracymorgan5386]

Maybe you should let yourself have a good cry, it actually could make you feel better.

[@trina415]

Aww I loved this video one thing you do is be kind to yourself life isn't perfect we aren't perfect but it's worth living a very happy Christmas to you whatever you do

[@DanielleComesBack]

Yes, kindness to the self is just as critical as kindness to others. Nice to meet you!

[@juliehoot3916]

Going to the park with my doggie on Christmas. 💕 🐾🐾

[@DanielleComesBack]

Nice. What kind of dog?

[@juliehoot3916]

@DanielleComesBack miniature poodle mix, rescue. Adopted her from the pound in June. She will be 2 in January. She has rescued me! 💖

[@christineduffy3113]

Lovely giving a rescue animal a home, you and your dog have a lovely day.

[@TedBates-b8u]

That is really hard. I just moved away from where I know some people, friends. When I was a child we would drive up every year and spend it with our relatives. About 35 years ago I lived in remote area of the mountains and I was alone. I have a relationship with God through Jesus, and I will try to spend time remembering that Christmas is Jesus's birthday. He came in a very humble way as a baby born in a stable because there was no room in the inns. The first visitors were impoverished shepherds outside all night in the cold. Because of how God Himself chose to enter into the world in such a humble way, I know He has a heart for the poor the outsiders the lonely. So I will listen to some Christmas hymns and I will talk with God, just me with Him and He with me. Sometimes it has been when I've been in really difficult positions that God has shown up in some special way. So I encourage you to spend time with the Lord and to be kind to yourself. God loves all of you and for us who are alone for Christmas, we really are not alone. God is love and He loves you. He cares about you. So have a blessed Christmas and happy Jesus's birthday..

[@sabrinamawlong5840]

Merry Christmas to you frm ahillong,India.❤

[@DanielleComesBack]

You're right: we are never alone in truth. Thanks for the kind words!

[@DanielleComesBack]

You too!

[@marikalathem813]

Holidays are the worst… so many false narratives about people being happy, with families, etc… if we can recognize this it helps. Wise counsel, creating new traditions for oneself, whatever that may look like, is not only a distraction… but helps get through the days.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I made a cheesecake yesterday. That’s one of my “traditions” now. 🤣

[@marikalathem813]

@ good for you… take gentle care.

[@jennifermorales6557]

My son died on Christmas 2 years ago. Nobody comes around now. It gets easier every year

[@DanielleComesBack]

That's really tough. I'm glad you're seeing the fullness of time, though. I am sorry for your loss.

[@nancypatch6228]

So sorry 😢❤

[@rodeleon2875]

don't overthink it. christmas is not about the decorations. if circumstances are such that you are alone during the christmas season and this bothers you, then plan a day outdoors. go out in the woods and enjoy nature. challenge yourself to do some physical task that requires real effort. hike, run, something. and treat christmas as thanksgiving and count your blessings, not your troubles. and get something good to eat for dinner.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Sounds like a good plan.

[@darlenegreen4035]

I just found you and sorry for your story. BUT I can SEE your STRENGTH. Its like "a death"....to get over. Time heals and you are on your way. Remember the reason for the season. But please know that i can see your strength. Reach out to activities to meet new people. You got this girl!.🙏"we' are your friends...

[@Valencenliberty]

Baseless statement we hear all the time

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks! Glad to meet you!

[@Elvira-k3r]

​@@Valencenlibertyit's a beautiful statement that shows us people are here to support us through rough times, because things can ALWAYS get better. Sometimes the kindness and positivity of strangers can turn your whole mood around. But go ahead, be the kind of stranger to bring everyone else down. The rest of us trying to get through sh*t and make it out the other side, to thrive in a new and brighter life...we welcome the support from one another 😊❤.

[@jacquelineglitter4328]

I went no contact with my mentally abusive family. I still do the same things without them. I have my 33 year old son who has Progressive MS and has many health problems with me. I enjoy the time with him and our cats. I enjoy the peace and quiet. Some of my family members want to come for Christmas Eve but I think they want me to cook. I've got used to the peace and quiet. I really wish they wouldn't visit. Make new traditions. We buy our cats presents, eat a big turkey dinner, and have desserts. Get some pets. They're everything. You'll never feel alone with them. Many families aren't close like they used to be.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I have some family like that--it's just best to allow them to have their lives and for me to have mine. Sounds like you're in the same boat. The boundaries are easily blurred with the holidays, which is probably why there's an expectation to visit, even if it's not really in anyone's best interest. Those health concerns sound really hard to deal with during regular times, and the added pressure of the season, I can imagine, does not make that any easier. You have my thoughts. I'm unfortunately not allowed pets where I live. Otherwise I'd have at least two cats! I love them!

[@tinavestal2154]

As long as you have life and breath, you can bring love /joy/hope to those who are in worse circumstances; it will bring love/joy and hope into your life. Just try not to stay camped out on your losses, and move forward ❤

[@Valencenliberty]

Such a broad basic comment when u have nothing else to say😮

[@DanielleComesBack]

That sounds like we're on the same page.

[@tinavestal2154]

@Valencenliberty I'm only suggesting the the things that have helped me, sorry that you don't have any positive input 🤙

[@cynthia216]

So can you do a live show?I would love that.🇨🇦🙋‍♀️🎄

[@DanielleComesBack]

Yes! I have that planned. I just need to figure out what time I should go live.

[@c.b.201]

Never settle ladies!

[@DanielleComesBack]

Nope! It's truly the worst idea.

[@c.b.201]

@DanielleComesBack Well when you're enjoying Christmas alone be thankful for that! 😀

[@Brock-le-Hurst]

Sending all of you who are alone a big hug and I wish all of you to find companionship and contentment. Love, peace and healing 😇🙏🕊️🌈🏘️🕊️💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks!

[@clarencethomas8906]

Christmas Alone,welcome to the Club...😊

[@DanielleComesBack]

I feel like I should do the Macaulay Culkin face slap thing. It really does feel like Home Alone at this time of year for me--in the nicest way.

[@Mandrake591]

I appreciate you. I Subscribed. To the livestream idea, I say that would be something I’d like.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Cool! That's great news! I'm glad you're here.

[@ReginaPhalangee]

I take a nice, long hike. Getting out in nature helps with mental health. Then I make myself a special meal and binge watch movies all cuddled up. Remember, its just a day❤

[@DanielleComesBack]

I plan to do as much relaxing as possible! Sounds like you're doing the same.

[@ReginaPhalangee]

@DanielleComesBack I am! This will be year 5 for me. It gets easier. Now I have traditions just for myself. 😊

[@UnfilteredDiana]

Just found your channel, well no, your channel found me! I too am alone for 2nd year after divorce and embracing this Christmas though I feel I am somewhat forcing myself to decorate...I do not have MUCH yet, I bought a 3 foot tree after Christmas, last year...and somehow I had some ornaments, yet I downsized through what I had...and now everything I do now, is JUST FOR ME! That has never happened before, epic stuff...the lord lead you to me, you and others here...thankful! I plan to go live way more, esp on Christmas day, how bout you? What will you do this Christmas day everyone? I think I will go to the beach, that I live 5 miles from Palm beach Florida....never been there yet, been here well almost 2 years now...been in hiding here...isolating is not good right? Next year I will plan better financially too...January I get to use some of my SSA & SSI to buy $20-30 or something for Christmas for next year, keeping in heart, who's Birthday it is to celebrate...Last year I gave everyone a puzzle...might do the same this year, they seemed to love me personally choosing a puzzle for each person, & I told them to tuck it away with the emergency supplies, for when the lights are out, puzzle times!

[@DanielleComesBack]

I did make the suggestion that I do a live stream on the 25th! I put it out as an idea because I wanted to see if anyone else was interested. It's funny that you're only 5 miles from the beach but you've never been. I get it. There's tons of stuff I didn't see in certain places I lived for ages! I'm getting a few things together for my child's gifts--I don't usually give anyone else stuff. But he gets things because it makes sense. I'm glad you're here and thanks so much for watching!

[@Entert_AI_nment_Media]

Do a Livestream on Christmas. Invite others in the same situation to relate something positive they have experienced in the past year.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Yep! I will be live that day and everyone's allowed to come on and share.

[@ykook7000]

I never spent xmas totally alone but im here for it Im not an xmas person The one thing about living in the southern hemisphere at least its summer at xmas and you can go walking in the sun or down the beach get fresh air There are always people out and about to say hello to if thats what you want to do

[@DanielleComesBack]

Ah, yes, I imagine it's a very different experience to have Christmas in the southern hemisphere! I don't live in a particularly harsh climate in my part of the province. Even though it's winter, there's no snow on the ground anymore and it's not as bitter cold as it used to be. I still think I'll be mostly hanging out right here, though, with my warm candles and socks and mugs of tea.

[@rogergarman1330]

I have been solo about 10 years if not more. Probably will be no different this year

[@DanielleComesBack]

Sounds like you’re in good company here, then! Nice to see you! 🙂

[@tina8796]

Count yourself lucky ! I try to avoid Thanksgiving and Christmas. Been there, done that. Too much food, gossip, drama, gift-giving, etc.

[@DanielleComesBack]

I do feel lucky! 🍀 I had a great day with a bunch of new friends from all over the world. It was amazing! ❤️

[@debbiesittard7653]

Seek the LORD this Christmas. Let Him comfort you and be with you. He will. Just invite Him in. Read the Christmas story in the Book of Luke. The LORD forgives my dear.. let Him restore you. I have spent the last 12 Christmases alone after my divorce. It is difficult I understand. Make your own memories. Bake cookies watch Christmas movies. You are a beautiful lady with a bright future. Let GOD lead and you will be amazed at where He leads you. Volunteering is a great thing to do doing the holidays. When we focus on helping others it will get your mind off of your ( temporary) troubles. Remember Christmas is in our hearts. So whether we are alone or with others don't let that make a difference. You will get through this and get to the other side. Merry Christmas! ⛄️

[@RayStraiter]

The same guy that keeps letting kids get killed in schools is probably NOT someone you should be relying on. Just saying.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thank you so much!

[@unclefester6033]

The thing about " holidays" is there is so much emphasis on spending time with " family" or friends. When Thanksgiving, Christmas & New Yrs are all jammed together. You dont even get enough time to miss them. You have to know the difference between a " relative" & " family" most relatives you only see @ funerals with fake goodbyes. Family is a bit closer🤔

[@DanielleComesBack]

I think of the people I see from day to day, like coworkers and even store clerks who I interact with often as "family" in a way that I don't with my "real family" because I don't see my family often at all. I see coworkers basically every day, you know? I like your username, btw. I loved the Addams Family!

[@BrianHornak]

Flying solo this Christmas as a HORRIBLE...ABUSIVE Christmas last year... MIXED Emotions. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤..May this Christmas be More Enjoyable for you and may 25 be a great year for you

[@DanielleComesBack]

And you as well! Quiet Christmas is totally okay with me.

[@VS-on1ku]

❤❤❤. You got this!

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks! As do you!

[@vivienneaxon3529]

A live stream sounds fun!

[@DanielleComesBack]

That’s good to know!! I wasn’t sure if people were “too busy” or not.

[@BicyclesConfusion]

How are you doing Vivienne.

[@Teaally1913]

Another idea for yourself a new tradition….. could be to volunteer somewhere. Hospitals, homeless shelters, nursing homes…. There will be many people there volunteering just like yourself.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks! Lots of people seem to be suggesting this.

[@bonniejackson7393]

You sound like a strong and resourceful person. I hope this Christmas goes better for you and you make some good memories. Your lights look nice😊.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks! Yes, I think it is going better this time around. Nice to meet you. 🙂

[@Jia-dp9cu]

Merry Christmas 😇🎄🎄

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks so much! To you and yours as well!

[@bibibuu6646]

I haven't celebrated Christmas for 11 years in a row now. My mum died and. My brothers dont care. I have no family or friends to celebrate with.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Perhaps hanging out with me for a little while that day might be nice? Just a thought. That's why I'm planning to go live--so that anyone who is a little down might be uplifted, if only a little.

[@paulamartin6049]

@@DanielleComesBack what a brillant idea to go live on the 25th looking forward to it px

[@eugenehill3566]

I am sorry you have spent the last two x- mas alone. I hope that's not the case from now on. I hope you have a better New Year. You are welcome to chat with me when I can talk back with you. Take Care!!❤❤😊😊

[@DanielleComesBack]

I didn’t feel lonely, because I had tons of friends hanging out all day with me. 🥳 But thank you for the well wishes! I hope to catch up with you around the channel. ❤️

[@Jesse-0008]

Hi there, I’m Jesse. You came up in suggested channels. All the way up in Canada, huh? I’m in Wisconsin. I think a live stream would be a cool idea. Have a great day at work! 😊

[@DanielleComesBack]

Hello Jesse. Yes, I'm out here in the Canadian west. I'm planning on doing the live, so come along if you can.

[@lorianncostello531]

I wish you a peaceful holiday with no drama or sadness. 😊. Off topic, you remind me of Bree Larsen.

[@DanielleComesBack]

Thanks! I'm pretty sure things will go just fine. I have heard of Brie Larson, but I'm not familiar with anything she was in. I'm pretty unplugged from pop culture, it seems!

[@donaldduncan7095]

I've been single many years, the key to being single is seeing yourself as two mind sets, Yin & Yang (right brain child & , left brain adult)☯ This way you are NOT alone, but WITH yourself always. Be good company to yourself (I can see that you are). Have a Merry Christmas, with others or just WITH yourself.😉🎄☯☮

[@DanielleComesBack]

For sure! It’s one of the “blessings” of having been depressed for over a decade: realising there is no such thing as “loneliness.” We’re just told to feel incomplete all the time, so we think we can’t or shouldn’t be alone. Sounds like you know that, though! 🙂

[@ThePrincessnady1]

There’s no such thing

[@donnasheppard7371]

Vacation Christmas sounds perfect

[@DanielleComesBack]

I had a stay-cation, if that counts!

[@faithmatthews830]

Strengthen those things that remain!

[@DanielleComesBack]

Sounds like a good plan. Nice to meet you!