UMC1 - A little chat...

[@diannemarshall6787]

Mandy, you're not John, you're you, and we love the simplicity of your videos. It's just you doing it your way, and you should be proud of yourself. Keep doing what you do, stay honest, and just enjoy it because when you do it shows in the videos, and that's what's amazing 👏 ❤️😊🌞

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Dianne ❤️❤️

[@runawayrowells]

Hey Mandy, as others have said, we watch you because of who you are and what you contribute whether that be on your own channel or with John.

[@ally5757]

Just to echo these other comments already made; we’re here for YOU. Not just the van build! Thank you for sharing. I think that takes a lot of courage & the people who align with your values will wait! I’m just a happy subscriber glad you are keeping well in spite of January/life challenges! Keep going! 😁

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Ally ❤️

[@isobelchapman9548]

Lassie, just be you, do what you want and when you feel like it. I’m a January born person and I can honestly say I hate the month with a vengeance!! Thank you for continuing to share with us and I know there must be times that’s not easy, but regardless we are always here, just for you. Take good care, God bless xx

[@ZerHour]

Same for me January seems to completely break me , not being one for the bitter cold weather and the damp air ,the days are getting longer now which is great ,I think we've gained an hour of daylight since Dec 👍

[@unadventurousmandy]

January is a popular birth month in my family too and I still don’t think they like it either ❤️ it’s strange sharing the low details but when I have a comment section like this it’s ridiculously uplifting.. you lovely lot ❤️

[@dianegriffen2756]

Mandy. I'm here on this channel FOR YOU. As a single woman, who wants to build out a van, I am SO INSPIRED by watching YOU. I LOVE what you are achieving. I've never had kidney stones... but as someone who struggles with gallstones, I think i can probably empathise with you when they are 'on the move'. Glad you took the time out for what sounds like a full MOT at the hospital. I LOVE the material on your bed - it reminds me of my childhood (Holly Hobbie fan). I LOVE the idea of that day bed being covered in cushions - I can absolutely see it, and it's so right for the little i know about you. You are so humble and GENUINE Mandy - that's what i LOVE about you. Spring, and all the gorgeous colours of the wild flowers are just around the corner, along with the warmer weather. It's actually warm and sunny here on the South Devon coast today - my neighbour was out cutting his grass this morning! Can't wait for the videos, and new adventures. Thank you for being YOU! xx

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah thanks Diane ❤️ glad to hear it’s grass cutting weather somewhere in the uk 😁🙌🏻 I can’t wait to get my bed finished

[@Ellie-we5rq]

I really like watching just you, Mandy. Do things for you.

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Ellie ❤️

[@raysouthuk]

Hi Mandy, oh you wonderful lovely person, I so look forward to seeing your videos , keep your chin up and keep on talking to us we all love you so much , the winter is on its way out soon and then your be wanting to travel and see friends again, I think 2023 will be so good for you and defiantly for s if you are in our lives, look forward to more build stuff and a day in the I’ve of the wonderful Mandy. Hey girl I know I’m only a man and don’t understand some of your issues but , hey I can see the pain sometimes in your face my love , keep doing what your doing we love it, take care , love and hugs Ray South Uk

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Ray

[@tinam7979]

Mandy it’s lovely to listen to you xxxx Look forward to seeing your van videos when you’re good and ready x Always good to see you if only for a chat , that’s more than good enough x Sending love x

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Tine lovely ❤️❤️ hope you’re well x

[@oddears1659]

Don't be too hard on yourself! One day at a time......and don't forget to smell the roses on the way! You little chats are straight from the heart!

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Elaine ❤️

[@louisewilson6768]

I love your videos and the chats because I can relate so much to what yo say. You Mandy, are an inspiration. I think it’s very easy to be too hard on yourself but many of us do it. The days are getting longer and the weather is improving is my focus for this and next month. Keep chatting 😊

[@markwhitehead64]

Hi Mandy really great catch up video don’t worry about when you get the videos out you will get them out all in good time and I’ll still be watching as big fan and your doing a great job on this channel looking forward to seeing your next video keep safe 😷👍🏻

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Mark

[@MotorhomeMums]

Loved this video. I am blown away by you cracking on with your own van build. It’s something I would love to have the skills to try so you should feel very proud. Imposter syndrome is common for us ladies so understand how you feel. Also menopause on top. OMG. How do we survive. 😂 keep going as loving your content and watching you navigate through the build and travels.

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thank you 😁 we do get a right lot to deal with.. especially when it’s the time in our lives where we get to chill a bit 🙈

[@heatherlaye9948]

Thank you for your honest video and for being you. I have followed you both for a long time and love watching both of you together and independently. You guys inspired me to sell my home, buy a camper van and go off travelling with my then husband, however Covid hit and we had to dash back from Portugal. That was almost 3 years ago and I now live happily alone with my dog in my caravan. Unfortunately back in the rat race, however my ultimate dream is to own a campervan again and travel. It will happen, I just don't know when. Just know, you're an inspiration and brave to make the decision to travel independently as well as with John. It clearly works. Spring is on it's way and I'm sure we will all feel much better. Just be you and stay true. Big hugs x

[@tinahart1712]

We love you Mandy! This is one of your best videos, we don’t need the van build videos unless you want to do them , I would say 90% people are on this channel because of you (the person). Any van build is hugely time consuming, expensive and stressful and I am pretty sure most people following you will know that. Have you seen Mel’s big van small world on KZbin video? He does a waffle on the Wednesday where he just talks about things that people have asked him he films it all in one go I think and its absolutely fascinating. If you didn’t want to do the videos of van builds I’m sure you could do something similar and people will be just very happy to sit and watch you chatting away. I would not be surprised if a lot of your followers like me are all in our middle aged lives with all our middle age health problems but sometimes it’s just nice listening to someone who has similar issues as you have. It is not always about the van or the gadgets or the fit out or the interior, sometimes it is about the person living within it and how they feel. You have got a great channel and you should be proud of yourself for everything you have achieved thus far and I’m sending you lots of love from Hertfordshire. ❤ 🐝 Bee kind to yourself ❤

[@unadventurousmandy]

That’s a lovely comment ❤️❤️ thank you

[@kateharvey4378]

I echo what everyone else here says. We come here to watch YOU. You do you Mandy. 💛

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks lovely ❤️

[@quincysnow4381]

Oh Mandy! I LOVE your videos. And John is lovely…but it was you I wanted to see when a new video was released. I’m 51. I hope to one day also have my own van adventures. And YOU are my inspiration. ❤❤

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah I hope you get your adventures one day too ❤️❤️

[@patriciabradley2286]

Mandy we are tuning in to see youNOT JOHN. YOU ARE SO LOVELY. I love listening to you. Your down to earth a real person. I I really love you. I hope some day you will come and visit us in Ireland. Love you. Keep going. Your worth it. ❤️☘️💕☘️

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Patricia.. John and I have pencilled in Ireland for when the vans are finished so hopefully it’ll be very soon ❤️❤️

[@Happyinmyautotrail]

Mandy definitely here for you. Just remember there are lots of women the same age as you (me included) feeling very similar! I was never an anxious person when I was younger. Now peri menopause and BAM second guessing everything I do, paranoid, fed up and dissatisfied, lack of sleep. HRT patches have really helped me. Just remember when you put these videos out that are just about you people are here for you, not necessarily just to see you cutting a hole in your van roof. Yes the van build is interesting but you are more interesting and relatable.

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah it’s so rubbish isn’t it? Like dealing with hormones once a month wasn’t bad enough 🤷🏼‍♀️ I do forget that a lot and it’s lovely to see the response from my first chatty vid on my own channel. If I need reminding I can just look here ❤️❤️

[@Happyinmyautotrail]

@@unadventurousmandy I feel this time in our lives when the kids have grown up and work is becoming overwhelming stressful (for me anyway) and hormones are raging it can make you feel quite alone. We aren’t alone though and you aren’t alone. What you are feeling is normal and natural and it hopefully will get better. Your little video that you thought no one would be interested in because it’s not about John doing something magical with electrics IS interesting and IS real and IS relatable. We do enjoy hearing about what’s going on the good and bad. Summer hopefully will be here soon too. I’m dying to get the Cadac out and feel the sun on me again. I’m sure you feel the same.

[@fionacarey6627]

Chin up Mandy. Lots of love ❤️

[@Gillby47]

Mandy I LOVE your cooking segments and have learnt som handy things from you,the wet kitchen paper closed in the sandwich toaster and even my omelette maker is so handy.Can't wait for more.

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah thank you Wendy, shouldn’t be long till we’re off and about and cooking properly again

[@fionafew]

We've bought our first van!!! Cannot wait to pick it up, then it's a question of where do we go for our first trip away ..? We're also gonna move house... Don't do things by half, but watching you and John build your vans is so enjoyable. Hope we meet on some great park up. Take it easy and give yourself a break. No-one is nagging you! 😘

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah how exciting..!!! 😁❤️ sometime you just have to get all the big changes done in one fell swoop.. hope we do meet somewhere on the road

[@PawsomeAdventuring]

I enjoy both yours and John’s videos.. joint or singularly. Loving the idea you’ve used with the pull out bed too. Day before for lounging sounds perfect See you soon. When you’re ready. 😍

[@unadventurousmandy]

❤️❤️❤️

[@StephenandSusan6557]

Hi Mandy, thank you for the update and being so honest about how you are going. Very relatable for me.

[@pamfreeman5197]

Just keep being Our Mandy. Bu...r all, you're what matters so take your time... Take many deep breaths and hey, at the end of it shout "Oh Futtocks!" and I promise all will be well. Stick to one thing at a time and if that's the videoing and editing, then rhubarb, they can wait their turn. Your sanity is what matters. We're not going anywhere... We're not leaving you... Please, just be Our Mandy. The rest will follow. Take care, please. Much love, Pam xx

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Pam, I always look forward to your comments 😊❤️🥰

[@pamfreeman5197]

@@unadventurousmandy Xx

[@BellasBigAdventures]

We love you Mandy and every time you discuss what youre going through i get a tear in my eye because you hit the nail on the head and make us menopausal women feel less alone. We’re here for you honey what ever kind of video you put out. Keep on being you your fabulous.

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah thank you lovely ❤️❤️❤️

[@maggiebeahan4995]

Mandy, love you for your honesty, you are an inspiration for us all, please don't ever change x

[@Shaddzzuk]

Great video Mandy! I watch both yours and johns channel and the John and Mandy channel. You both have your own way of doing things in videos and both as entertaining as each other separately and together. Your videos are great and have had chance to try a few recipes and me and my daughter love them. Keep up the great work and keep being you!😊

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah that’s fab..! Thank you ❤️

[@junerobinson8169]

Hi Mandy, just watched your lovely video. I watch your videos because it is you and not because it is you and John. You guys have been through thick and thin, and you are both coming out the other side so I don’t worry about you two. All you have to do is to be yourself, people love you because your you. You tell it how it is, and believe it or not you will be helping others that are going through the menopause, so be very proud of what you are doing, and who you are. Keep doing your videos, so what does it matter if your behind you will soon catch up when you’re ready. If it helps I have a shelf in the kitchen and it needs sorting, I know it wants doing, it knows it wants sorting but one day I will do it.😂😂😂 So keep going being you. Take care

[@sueunderwood8988]

I enjoy watching all you videos. Do not put yourself down. You are a super Mandy.

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Sue ❤️❤️

[@RetroBytesUK]

I always enjoy watching your videos Mandy, and that's because it's you being you.

[@loz1317]

I watch your channel Mandy because I enjoy your chats, and watching you build out your van. Your a funny interesting person in your own right. I know when you've always been a worrier it's not easy to second guess yourself. My sister bless her is just like you, I can have a conversation with her on the phone, she decides to do something we ring off, I count to about 10 and she rings me back because she's changed her mind, she then talks herself into doing what she first decided to do! that's just her, I wouldn't change her for the world. With what you've achieved, give yourself a pat on the back you've earned it. 👍

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thank you Loz, that’s lovely ❤️❤️

[@DA11NOON]

Hi mandy that was a great talk it is good to talk you are doing a great job and can't wait to see you van vlogs to Be safe 👍 🙏

[@JCJCJCJCJCJCJCJC]

We’re here for you Mandy never not think that. Keep being u. Love ur videos 💛

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thank you ❤️

[@traceymcguire4225]

Your doing grand kid we all just love your down to earth approach to life and menopause, it’s a little bugger, keep up the good fight your winning xxx❤️Tracey xxx

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Tracey

[@waggytailedwanderers]

Late to the party because we’ve been going through our own “thing”, glad to say that’s mostly over now. But wanted to let you know that we ❤ the cooking videos. In fact, that’s our favourite bits. Cooking in a small van can be a challenge, not just the cooking but also buying and storing food. So, please keep it coming and know that unless John is there as chief taster, we’re there for you and you only!

[@unadventurousmandy]

I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having a tough time but glad it’s almost over ❤️ Ah thank you ❤️ I’ll post some more soon, I have a few waiting but I’ll be including more bits about buying, storing and cooking in my new tiny van in regular videos too. John does make a great chief taster 😁

[@gillianspedding4910]

Oh Mandy, I’m with you, I hate January. I’m a Brit living in Southern California and even our weather has been yucky. Spring is round the corner thank goodness. Love your channel, love you. Hugs

[@Sheppards-Travels]

Great vlog Mandy, love your little chats

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thank you ❤️❤️

[@nickm5849]

Mandy, great job! It takes a great deal of courage to do what you are doing so don’t be so hard on yourself … remember the joyful times spent travelling the land and having experiences of a life time which many cannot have due to their own circumstances. Life is good, family is good, van life is good, you and john are good, stay positive and don’t let the tough stuff distract you from who you are. Best wishes

[@The_Breeze1]

Nice one Mand, look forward to bumping into you at some time during the year.

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Ben, I’m sure we will

[@bloodynorahvan2203]

You've got such a great vibe, frequency, pace etc it's great. And you're 100% real. So keep doing what comes to hand easily on the videos for now. I'm sure I'm like everyone else - I could easily listen to you no matter what the topic - you've got great Northern storytelling and warmth - it's a real gift xx

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah thank you ❤️❤️

[@loreenpreece1662]

O Mandy I am pleased to see you, I am house bound and don’t see that many people . When I see your face on the tv -- KZbin I know what to expect you, real life problems and love and laughter . Please keep your videos coming , you are like an old friend I cannot wait to see . Thanks love from Loreen

[@unadventurousmandy]

Oh that’s so lovely, thanks Loreen - sorry to hear you’re housebound at the mo and glad my videos cheer you up some ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@gypsydal]

Awww missis I love your honesty and your chats on here. ❤ Every Jan/ Feb is an emotional and mental struggle for me. I HATE it. This year has been my worst in years , I think menopause is partly responsible for that. So I understand the overwhelming feelings. I live full time in my motorhome and every little problem I get in winter I seem to blow totally out of proportion and the anxiety that come with it…omg. Like I need sleepless nights on top of everything else. But you are right….as soon as the days start getting longer it’s like a light being turned on, and everything is normal and good again. Urgh I hate winter in the uk. C’mon Spring 😂

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Sarah ❤️❤️ it really is horrible isn’t it? Like you say, spring is around the corner and we’ll all be feeling lighter again

[@Deb-wo4ut]

As a woman 3yrs post menopause I can say that a lot of your feelings, (anxiety,self doubt, rage, sadness etc) aches and painful joints are unfortunately part of our declining hormones. We don’t realise how much oestrogen does for us until it stops. Have you read the book by Devina? I’m reading it now and it is good to know what is happening and why, she also covers what help is out there if required. Speaking freely about how you feel is so important and will help and empower other women to do the same, so keep on, building your van, and Vlogging, and helping others as you help yourself. 👍🥰

[@unadventurousmandy]

I haven’t read it but it has been recommended a few times. Hormones are little buggers no matter how old you are, I know people on their 20’s with PCOS who describe a lot of their symptoms the exact same ❤️

[@lyndamiller2623]

Great chat video Mandy…and you’re right, January is just a month we all have to just get through, I hate it. And the cold is wearing everyone down, roll on Spring and Summer…and you’ll be out there in your van…take care ❤️

[@unadventurousmandy]

I am so fed up of the cold..!!! Which I’m sure we all are.. absolutely roll on spring then summer - I can’t wait ❤️❤️❤️

[@tonytaynton8559]

Nice little chat Mandy, you will be happy with you van and your personal effort you put into it, just think you been saying wood gluing stuff, putting out videos dealing with life stuff, your a champ. Cheers Tony Brisbane Australia. Ps 33c here

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Tony.. 33c that sounds so perfect, I can literally feel it warming my bones ❤️

[@Marta-sh3ou]

Mandy, I definately watch your videos for YOU, I am always amazed and inspired by how you get on with everything and keep going. And btw, we all get overwhelmed by the simplest situations …

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Marta.. ❤️

[@gillian4033]

Mandy... you are enough, we love watching you just as you are. I have paused at 9:17 to say the menopause thing is a real thing, but sometimes, like other health issues, wait a bit before trying to 'fix' it...I had hand joint pain with small heberden's nodes (diagnosed as early onset osteoporosis I was told), hot flashes all sorts..... I did nothing beyond trying to chill a bit and push through - now I am NOT saying this is right for you... not at all!! but your comment about taking less pills and seeing how it goes is, I think, a good thing to try. The body does help you, if you have patience to let it (basically give anything 3 months... unless of course it's something truly serious!).. my hand joint pain is no worse 10 years later, and I did panic about that at the time, and the other stuff is ok (i.e., I didn't kill my husband😉!). Everyone is different...best of luck! G xx Edited to add... kidney stones are a tough road, huge sympathy on that one! Gxx

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Gillian, I’ve always been a “sleep it off” headache sufferer rather than popping pills so it’s going back to my basics a little. I think I was so intent on fixing everything that I overdid too many changes at the same time. With my support desk background I should know better 🤦🏼‍♀️ try one thing at a time so you know what fixed it. I do believe the other things helped but maybe not all together

[@deborahjaneapperley1004]

Mandy stop putting yourself down you’re a gem 💎

[@cclose8007]

I only watch for you! You’re totally relatable and I appreciate your honesty and transparency and authenticity. Hearing your very valid feelings x I see you and I hear you x

[@Wheres_wanda_wandering]

Mandy it was lovely listen to your little chat. I, like many others, watch your channel because we enjoy your content. I like the variety from journeys to van build to cooking. I cooked our Saturday meal in Madge following your Sausage and pasta dish recipe. I can confirm it was delicious. I’ve got gnocchi in the fridge ready to fry up and try with a veggie burger. Take care Gill

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah fantastic..! Glad you enjoyed the sausage pasta and you know how much I love gnocchi ❤️

[@jillcurtis8910]

You are not alone Mandy, I am 64 in a couple of weeks and I still worry for britain. I always think if you think negatively you wont be let down but my husband gets on to me. I dont know you personally but I have been following you since you sold your house and have learnt if anyone can do something its you. You are amazing with what you have done, both with coping with your menopause and your van build. Dont be hard on yourself and make sure you keep some time just for you. 😀

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah thank you Jill ❤️ I think I need to keep a little to one side..

[@valeriesawczyn7370]

Nice to see you back. Be confident your doing amazing. looking forward to your next videos xx

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Valerie

[@cindyalexander9782]

Some of my favorite videos are ones just like this. I like to sit down after work with a cuppa to watch a video or two, and this feels like you’re sitting across from me with yours.

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Cindy, I love watching these types of videos too but the nagging thought that I have nothing interesting to say stops me - I guess this comments section has proved me wrong in the very best way ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@kazreddy]

I absolutely love your videos, l love your honesty. You are an inspiration to me and other menopausal mamas. Shine bright like the diamond you are chick ❤️

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thank you ❤️❤️

[@carolineellis3713]

We all have times when we feel overwhelmed and second guess ourselves. You are doing amazing and we look forward to YOUR vlogs. Keep your chin up and be proud ❤

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Caroline ❤️

[@evelynwilson587]

Just catching up. I've missed your honesty. Life is bloody hard whether its in a house or a van. Interesting you mention taking collagen. I've messaged you before about taking saffron and I've found a massive difference in my whole attitude to life and I thank you for introducing me to saffron but whats Interesting is the one I chose to take is from naked pharmacy and its saffron and marine collagen together. I take it and magnesium and a multi vitamin and I don't bother with anything else now. Being doing this for months now. Im almost 48 so waiting for all these things to happen but so far feeling good. 10 months ago emotions were all over the place. Looking forward to seeing you travel again in your new van. Absolutely loving your personal journey. Do what pleases you, not what you think pleases others. Life is too short for that crap xxx

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah that’s interesting they do a combined tablet - I’ll have to take a look there, magnesium is awesome stuff too. Fingers crossed it’s all helping ❤️ I simply cannot wait to finish the van and be travelling again. It seems like an age since we last did

[@shirleylambden1561]

We watch you both whatever you are up to because we like you!! Do what you want, just look after yourselves....roll on the spring xxx

[@Brummelisa_thevan]

We’re here to watch you. It’s your channel. I was so happy to see a new update but don’t stress over it. Do your thing. I’m just like you and right now I believe I can’t do anything at all, but then someday it changes and I get a bunch of things done. Take care.

[@mikepowell9326]

Love you Mandy your a great person all your things in life will get better spring is on its way

[@unadventurousmandy]

It really is isn’t it? Thanks Mike

[@NigelJohnTuckert900]

Mandy you are just an ordinary lovely woman, doing extra-ordinary things. We all get anxious, some more than others, can I just say, stop fretting about the build, and the videos you produce, or don't. I for one am grateful for all you do, and I would say most everybody else following you, feels the same. This time of year is a bummer. So, craic on in your own sweet way, in your own time. Your not taking a test, you're sharing your life with us candidly. That takes some courage to do. Big cwtch n love from me in Wales lovely. 🫂❤️🫂👍👌👍😁🥰

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Nigel ❤️❤️

[@patriciadrysdale731]

Mandy I watch your video's to see how you are doing both health wise and in your van build I really enjoy both keep going girl stay safe xxPat

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Patricia

[@penleevanadventures]

You’re the best! You’re doing great 🥰 2:17

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thank you lovely ❤️❤️❤️

[@wesworld6375]

I love your vids sis ! Please keep them coming. I also suffer with no momentum in January ( all winter actually) . Just give yourself a break and a big pat on the back 😊✌🏼❤️

[@geoffcampbell7846]

Hi, lovely chat Mandy, just nice to sit back, stop the world for 20 minutes and listen to your news. I love that you're not vloging every other day, I would feel as if I was imposing upon you. We really don't like January either, it seems never-ending and drags you down, you just have to press on until a sunny day breaks through and raises your spirits. Until then, just crack on with your list, and remember that what you think and what you have to say is always important and be yourself, that's why we tune in. ❤️

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Geoff ❤️

[@suejones7883]

I love you videos, I watch you because you are you ! Keep them coming when you get time ,I’ll be here waiting watching rooting for you 😊

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thank you Sue ❤️

[@lindajames7083]

Mandy you are doing great. Saw a product the other day for the loo, it’s called SolBio and looks pretty good ❤❤

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah yes, we use that already! It’s amazing! Gets rid of all the smells and you can use it down drains and for other cleaning too - never seen such a sparkly clean toilet cassette after using it.

[@suziemc5291]

Mandy I can relate to a lot you spoke about in this vlog. hope your feeling better and yes bring on those shows and meet ups, oh and the sun 🤞🤞🤞

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Suzie

[@CaraVanOlogywithBecky]

I’m here to watch you my lovely, you do you, at the speed that suits you, that’s what we’re here for :) Here’s to the back of January! Take care of yourself x

[@lesleyhill7562]

I’m here for you , your build, food and travels. Xx

[@Jo_J_]

I really enjoy your videos, and can relate to a lot of things you talk about. Take care 🙂

[@unadventurousmandy]

That’s lovely to know, thank you

[@patriciagorn6645]

Totally understand I have been the anxious type too. I try not bee too hard on myself much love Mandy lovely to see you again xx

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Patricia ❤️❤️❤️

[@sandraedwards1164]

I really enjoy your videos. Love your guts and determination. Keep doing more cooking videos please

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Sandra, I’ll post some soon ❤️

[@michellechapman6961]

Right Mandy I for one just love watching you. I don’t care about how many videos you put out what the content is I just love watching you petal. I started my menopause when I was 39 and boy was it a bad one. I don’t know how my marriage survived because I really put my husband through it😳. I am 61 now, come through it but last year I discovered by chance that I am a highly sensitive person. All my life I was told not to be so sensitive, harden up when actually I couldn’t. By chance I came across a web site called highly sensitive refuge and everything just fell into place. I still have anxiety but far less these days. So girl keep doing what you are are doing, take time and care for yourself. Simply put out videos when you feel able because I would be sad not to see Mandy anymore because you burned out. Oh and don’t forget just breathe 🤗

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah I’m so glad you found that out and that it’s helping you ❤️ I think understanding why we are the way we are allows us to work with these nuances and quirks rather than fighting to rid them all ❤️

[@mandikimberley6985]

Oh bless you, you have got a lot on your plate. Just be kind to yourself. All these things will still be here. Your right to put job snd customers first it's your livelihood ❤️. The rest will be done eventually. We love seeing how far you've come. Stay safe look after yourself. Love the patchwork by the way 👍👏👏❤️❤️

[@LITTLEMANADVENTURSES]

Sending you hugs the January blues have gotten me pretty good too it really sucks 😫 Roll on February and hopefully it will be a better month 😊👍

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah Will.. sending massive hugs right back to you too ❤️❤️❤️❤️ let’s all hope it’ll be much better

[@SaraMc66]

Hi Mandy, absolutely love watching your videos, and I’m certainly watching to see you 😊. Have you considered auricular acupuncture for hot flushes and night sweats? It worked for me and is well known to work, you would probably only need a few sessions, please consider it as it’s very relaxing too. You’re doing an amazing job juggling everything, take care 🥰

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah thank you, I’ll look into that! I’ve had acupuncture a few times before but mostly for shoulder and back pain but it definitely works ❤️

[@julie011267]

Fantastic Mandy I've been thinking yesterday and today if u were ok and keeping well looking forward to your videos,when u can tho so no hurry as long as you are ok x

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Julie, that’s so lovely ❤️❤️

[@daytripdebbie2006]

You are far too hard on yourself. It’s very hard getting through our winters and you probably want to hibernate! When your van is ready you could head south and get some sun. You are a lovely person and I enjoy listening to you. So chin up xx

[@user-zt2sg8kd3w]

Keep doing what you do, your videos are far more entertaining and watchable, I watch them to the end which is more than I can say about others...🙂

[@unadventurousmandy]

Yay..!! I’ll take that compliment for sure ❤️ thank you

[@teresaherbert9122]

I love your vlogs Mandy you take care be kind to yourself love yourself as much as others love you x

[@unadventurousmandy]

❤️❤️ thanks Theresa ❤️❤️

[@Lorrowen1]

Your doing a grand job Mandy😊

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thank you ❤️

[@kathleenwragg8]

I think you're doing really well Mandy, I wish I had had the courage to do what you're doing when I was younger. I love watching John's videos but I watch yours because I want to see you.

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Kathleen ❤️❤️

[@GTiRGurlie]

Here for you. Not just van or cooking or meno tips. Just you,however you are at that time of the video. Yes, tips are great & welcome, but that's not all it's about. And yes, can relate to the meno, anxiety, Imposter stuff totally. My husband has begun to see some meno anger appear & ijust haven't the ability to keep it buried down any more, like I have for what feels like forever. "Overwhelm" is a good word that I'm gonna bank. Curling up In a ball ignoring the to-do list does sound like the greatest idea I have ever heard right now though. Mind yourself ❤️

[@unadventurousmandy]

It’s bloody horrible isn’t it? I’ve had to watch who I spend time with as my ability to accept bullshit and not respond or people please has just disappeared 🤦🏼‍♀️ hope you feel better soon

[@hazelmorgan4854]

Hi Mandy. Great chat you are so honest.x

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thank you 😊

[@vivien408]

Don't worry Mandy we are here to watch you on your channel life is life things happen, I for instance have just been scammed had to go to the bank to sort it out , it as take me all morning but thankfully it's all sorted now I hope I'm also going through the menopause and I have put my back out too over a month ago some days are easier than others 👍

[@unadventurousmandy]

Oh no..!! That’s not good at all ❤️ glad you managed to sort it though.. menopause is ridiculous and so are bad backs - hope you feel much better soon

[@HeidiPriest]

Here she is, we all here for you. January is nearly over and its cold in spain. 🥰 love watching you

[@unadventurousmandy]

But it’s supposed to be warm there.! Did I see snow on the news the other day?

[@HeidiPriest]

@@unadventurousmandy we having North winds, few more weeks should see night temps go up again I hope we 30 minutes south of Alicante

[@krbiker71]

Mandy you remind me so much of me. I'm also a menopause warrior and struggle with Chronic pain but in denial that I can't do what I used to. Convinced someone steals words out of my head when I need them most lol. I've just bought a camper and live local to you. Give me a shout if you can find the word lol

[@unadventurousmandy]

Why do they do that? We need those words.. whatever they were 😂❤️

[@krbiker71]

@@unadventurousmandy Blinking hormones have a lot to answer for. 🙄🥶😆

[@MartinAhlman]

Unadventurous is the way to go! I watch your videos because they make feel relaxed. Can't do much with my van (too much snow and ice in Sweden), so I'm watching you instead :-)

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah that’s lovely to read ❤️ I can’t do anything about the Swedish snow (which I didn’t get to see) but hopefully now the days are getting lighter you’ll find some Van time too

[@yaminthegrey]

Hari OM Nice update, Mandy - as I wrote on my blog couple of weeks back "it's my space and I'll write what I want to" (or something similar!)... it doesn't have to be all slick and 'look at me'. Those of us following here are here for YOU! January I don't mind so much... but Fearbruary.... 😵... the longest short month is the biggest drag for me. Anyway - do it your way! YAM xx

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Yam, that’s very true too and exactly how it should be - that way you’re sure to find the right people ❤️❤️ hope February flies by for you

[@ZerHour]

Can relate to the January issues same for me struggle a lot , and I got the CVd very bad after Xmas which made life in the van ..well a nightmare to be honest , take care days getting longer faster now .👍

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah I bet that wasn’t good at all.. hope you’re feeling much better ❤️

[@ZerHour]

@@unadventurousmandy it was incredibly bad Mandy on my own with 40 deg fever and the worst strange pains in head still not right ,any way hope your better ,crack on with the van build and longer light days await 👍

[@ZerHour]

@@unadventurousmandy it was incredibly bad Mandy on my own with 40 deg fever and the worst strange pains in head still not right ,any way hope your better ,crack on with the van build and longer light days await 👍

[@lizstone747]

Your doing great and I absolutely love watching your videos. We all feel a bit a bit like that at some time in our lives I'm sure, I'm of a similar age to you so can sympathize with you, it's definitely a crazy time, but you've got this! Look after you xx

[@miriamhakansson8884]

Thank you for being you and talking about these things we women go through. It's important! Maybe we women are ashamed of talking about it, I don't know, but it helps to hear that others go through those tuff days to. So... thank you! Take care!🥰👍🫡

[@unadventurousmandy]

We shouldn’t be though..! It shouldn’t be strange of awful that we feel better because we’re NOT the only ones suffering - it should make this more acceptable and easier to talk about. I really wish meno wasn’t a thing that anyone had to deal with but I’m also glad I’m not going through it alone ❤️❤️❤️

[@linz_in_NZ]

I love watching what you are up to, trying new things and just being you. Here's a few things I've found that have helped. Magnesium cream is good if you find the tablets a bit funny. I use one called Good Health Magnesium Sleep Cream - also has lavender in it - the Gel ones leave a sticky residue on your skin, this one is really nice to use. Great if you get calf cramps or restless legs - also quite good for those annoying muscle achey bits. The best thing I've found for achey finger knuckles etc is Rhuemon Gel - also works well on my back when I get the horrid spasms. I've taken the view that I'll take medication for the things that I really need, and use other things to help cope with the other random things I get. I got the night sweats back after I had Covid.....had almost got rid of them after I managed to lose some weight by eating better and then getting more active, I've started swimming again and just got myself and e-bike and am loving it.

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah thanks Linz ❤️ I’ll take a look at those, magnesium tablets make me feel a little queasy so a cream sounds much better.. Good on you with your swimming, hope you find your stride again

[@paulpowell1259]

I love to learn more about simple cooking in a van. Cooking in a house can be far more complex but when your away you want quick simple and tasty and you have some great recommendations. keep doing what your doing and push on. Cant wait to see some fish vlogs soon :)

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah thank you Paul, that’s lovely to hear ❤️ I hope there’s more fishing soon too

[@276tracey]

Wish more you tubers were as honest and open as you... Keep doing it your way xxx

[@unadventurousmandy]

Thanks Tracey ❤️❤️

[@CARROL-62]

Really enjoy your vlogs. Just be you x

[@sarahburgess-hamlett212]

Mandy, if I’m just watching your channel to see John, I am watching the wrong channel, anxiety is such a pain, continue to keep living your best life, on this vid for you baby 😂❤

[@unadventurousmandy]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lindahiggins7744]

Really enjoy your updates, I never took anything when I went through menopause and made it through. Hope your doing ok ? ❤️❤️❤️

[@unadventurousmandy]

There are so many different ways that women have handled meno and all of them are right ❤️

[@gailh3048]

Thank you for the update Mandy. I watch your vlogs for YOU and YOUR content, which as a woman is more relevant for me. Don’t worry about bells and whistles in your editing, you’re doing fine and those skills will grow when you have more time. (I follow one vlogger with 35k+ subscribers and she just films on her iPhone with no issues). Keep well!

[@unadventurousmandy]

Ah that’s good to know too, this video was a one camera vid too ❤️

[@PappysTravels]

January blues Mandy, sure everything will drop into place. Go easy on yourself 👍👍

[@unadventurousmandy]

I’m trying, one thing at a time eh?