I did see one case where singing in a wedding worked. Both the bride and groom were in singing groups in college and the groom was physically disabled, so instead of a first dance they sang a duet backed by his a capella buddies. It ended up being really cute and unique.
@birdgirlie998 ай бұрын
I really appreciate how you have a narrator instead of AI.
@TheSumOfAnIdeod6 ай бұрын
It sound so much nicer
@ArcanineEspeon4 ай бұрын
Only undercut by the sometimes monkey brain AI subtitles.
@Athlynne8 ай бұрын
The under-the-overpass one is brilliant, I like that OP.
@ChokoMurasaki8 ай бұрын
I chose to eat ice cream during this video when he said “looking at all of us at once with ease” I lost it. 😂 almost died before I had the chance to get married lol
@spikeoramathon7 ай бұрын
just listening to it now and, yes, it is epic.
@Midorikonokami8 ай бұрын
The bride. With the cross-eyed officiant. OMG HELP I CAN'T BREATHE I'M LAUGHING SO HARD OMG 🤣🤣🤣 SEND HELP I'M DYING
@KHTimeProtecter8 ай бұрын
I listen to this stories at work. Had to pause the video until after my shift to finish that part because I was holding my laughter so hard and was crying while my cubicle mate was on a Zoom call with a client.
@shiorywalker79788 ай бұрын
True, I had imagine everything 😂 My respect for the bride, she endure long enough to laugh until the end
@ScoobyDoo20088 ай бұрын
it is very funny, and the medical term for crossed eyed is called lazy eye. I know this because i myself am crossed eyed, but if you get the right glasses perscription it corrects it. until you take them off lol.
@a12jay68 ай бұрын
It was when she said "pulled his eyes together long enough" that I had to pause the video because I was laughing too hard 😂
@The_NonDescript7 ай бұрын
Definitely my favorite one.
@YahavehsSoldier8 ай бұрын
I'll add my own wedding. The pastor was so sure he didn't need to do a rehearsal the day before... during the wedding realizes he doesn't actually know my husband's name outside of his nickname... I did my best to hide the annoyed look I felt creeping onto my face.
@haukenot33458 ай бұрын
The name thing is a fauxpas, I'll give you that. I've never heard of a pastor attending a wedding rehearsal though. Is that really a reasonable expectation where you live? Obviously, you meet with the pastor to plan the ceremony, but unless your wedding venue is very extraordinary and requires changes of procedure, I don't think it is necessary to meet on site.
@shiorywalker79788 ай бұрын
@@haukenot3345 In my city for Catholics church, it's obligatory to attend one rehearsal, if you don't, they change the date for your wedding 😅(that's what my brother told me) I don't know if they keep doing this after COVID because a lot of rules had change... But what I known before the ceremony they write in a note the names of the Groom and Bride
@haukenot33458 ай бұрын
@@shiorywalker7978 I would hope they don't just write that down in a note. Usually, a pastor needs to see some form of identification before officiating a wedding, and properly document it. After all, they need to make sure that you're not already married.
@YahavehsSoldier8 ай бұрын
@haukenot3345 it is especially when trying to figure out the walking order and stuff like that. I was really annoyed because the pastor (who was a family friend at the time) had just been at my home for a holiday dinner days prior and signed our marriage certificate that same day. Lol, I was just so dumbfounded, but later down the road it helped me to see that he really never was invested in our lives as much as we helped with the church.
@shiorywalker79788 ай бұрын
@@haukenot3345 I didn't know, maybe they did that in the rehearsal, but we were waiting to open the doors and a lady came by to write the names of the Groom and Bride. if I remember correctly, he went to the church to get his certificate days after everything was over Just remembered they didn't let him inside (I was mad for that, it was before the pandemic and it was really hot outside 120°F/49°)
@unagi39398 ай бұрын
NO MORE PORTRAIT MODE 🎉🎊
@Til_I_Collapse8 ай бұрын
No more capslock.
@_lei_c_81388 ай бұрын
Yassss
@Fade_NB8 ай бұрын
WOOOO
@kyototomokui66768 ай бұрын
🥳
@S_amuru8 ай бұрын
YEAHH
@idoyoutube20198 ай бұрын
YESS ITS NOT IN THE SHORTS FORMAT ANYMORE 😍
@baliyae8 ай бұрын
I never really understood the smashing cake into each other’s faces thing. It’s childish and stupid, in my opinion.
@misfit_raven43678 ай бұрын
Imo it can be cute and people can do what they want as they are both okay with it.
@Eevee_1338 ай бұрын
I’m with you on that one. My wife and I both agreed to not do it at our wedding. We got some snide remarks about it from the older people at our wedding for “going against tradition,” but screw them. It’s a dumb tradition
@BloodNote8 ай бұрын
Yeah I don't get it either. I would be pissed off if my man did that after I told him not to.
@melissacooper87248 ай бұрын
My ex-husband and I didn't do that because we thought it was silly and childish! No one seemed to mind!
@liciewhiteley73768 ай бұрын
Once a wedding planner told me that if someone smashes cake and the other person didn't want to it inevitably ends in divorce. She said it was a 100% bad idea. We concluded it's basic respect and trust is not there.
@ENTMusic-cj7wt8 ай бұрын
This is the best undersparked has ever been - Landscape, very long format, interesting story and the narrator I personally prefer (though I don‘t really mind the other, this one just really… Is undersparked to me). This is exactly what I‘m here for and I can‘t wait for the next vid!
@ArcanineEspeon4 ай бұрын
If you're good with the sometimes too dumb to believe AI subtitles and the major editing f-ups at 7:55, 13:30, and 58:54 ...more power to you, I guess.
@carmina-solis8 ай бұрын
i am not kidding when i say i will annul any wedding in which cake is smeared on my face. complete and total dealbreaker.
@SewardWriter8 ай бұрын
As is right and proper.
@atashgallagher51398 ай бұрын
I'd love to rent out a couple of tesla coils and those faraday cage suits and the swords and have a lightning battle at the reception of my wedding with my future wife. Is this practical? No. Will this ever happen most likely? Absolutely not. But it would sure be cool.
@iamastrangeloop92047 ай бұрын
A boring wife you will be.
@NoodleDergsGoBrrr7 ай бұрын
@@iamastrangeloop9204Somehow we lost the ability to understand basic consent, like you just shown
@iamastrangeloop92047 ай бұрын
@@NoodleDergsGoBrrr I think people have become overreactive and sensitive. It’s not an assault. It’s cake. Relax.
@fantasystaplesuwu15548 ай бұрын
This narrator and video style are why I subscribed!
@servantbee.8 ай бұрын
exactly!!
@lenax97988 ай бұрын
"I love you more than bacon" thats how you know its true love❤😂
@alexandraluster2848 ай бұрын
I would honestly marry a guy who said that and meant it.
@DianneMaisonet8 ай бұрын
Me but pasta
@TimeLady87 ай бұрын
That one made me laugh so much. Love at its most basic.
@countrygirl74028 ай бұрын
The caking thing... that happened to my best friend. She didn't cry. She kneed him in the balls. Refused to sign the marriage license to be files and told the preacher who officiated the wedding that it never happened. She proceeded to rip the license in half and walked out. We went on a girls trip instead of "their honeymoon" and had a good time. She's never been married. That was 30 years ago. She refuses to even consider it. And she now despises cake. The sob actually smashed into her face so bad it was in her eyes and nose. He's on his 4th marriage. I can't understand why he can't hold on to partner. He's an ass. The cross-eyed officiant... the only thing close is the priest with the speech impediment from The Princess Bride. Oh. My. God. BWAHAHAHAHAHA 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@TheOmegaXicor7 ай бұрын
See, I get the appeal of it and I could probably forgive a misunderstanding where one thought you were doing it and one didn't, but if one SPECIFICALLY says no and you do it anyway... Yea, getting hit in the balls and dumped is getting off lightly...
@countrygirl74026 ай бұрын
@TheOmegaXicor She specifically said don't do it. She was just wearing a simple dress but she had her makeup and hair done professionally. She was a tomboy. Track an fielder. She was a beast with shot put and discus throwing. She felt girly for her wedding and he ruined it. She was so hurt. She cried later. He tried to rug sweep it. Said she must "be having her time of the month or something. 😉 haha" He was a dick. I'm so glad she didn't marry him. The only thing he had going for him was looks. I'll give him that. He was handsome. As the great Ron White once said "You can't fix stupid."
@somethingforsenro4 ай бұрын
given the choice between the cross-eyed officiant and the pastor from the end of spaceballs, i pick the spaceballs character every day personally
@ArcanineEspeon4 ай бұрын
mawwiage...and wuv, twoo wuv...
@ArcanineEspeon4 ай бұрын
@@somethingforsenrooh crap. I've seen Spaceballs and I don't remember the pastor.
@lightdreamer_8 ай бұрын
Excuse me but "I love you more than bacon" is very powerful. Like, I wish someone loved me more than bacon
@SewardWriter8 ай бұрын
My cat loves me more than bacon.
@HexisVonSpade8 ай бұрын
@@SewardWriter guarantee though, that they love you even more WITH bacon!
@alexandraluster2848 ай бұрын
Right? Like, if I ever tell i guy "I love you more than bacon, ranch, and gravy combined", you KNOW i'm serious!
@lijuanzhou69715 ай бұрын
Depends on who says it. Imagine a vegetarian muslim saying that, as a big declaration of love.
@denkisupremacy4 ай бұрын
@@lijuanzhou6971 lol as a Muslim, I love you all more than bacon! (which ofc means nothing, sorry guys...)
@toriamansfield29998 ай бұрын
The overpass wedding needs to be a movie! XD
@nexoid54968 ай бұрын
The groomsmen skit feels like a blue’s clues episode 😂
@msmcfly8 ай бұрын
I was thinking Pirates of Penzance.
@kittikats5 ай бұрын
Dora the Explorer!
@kedobarukun92868 ай бұрын
Little did narrator know that Grandma Bethany has recently changed her name to Bethany Organa, and came dressed in a particularly well-known skimpy outfit from Jabba's lair... it was very awkward for everyone but Grandma Bethany had a great time.
@kathyhorstman79098 ай бұрын
Seriously. Star Wars has been a thing since Grandma was a girl.
@waterflows25698 ай бұрын
To be honest, the Star Wars themed wedding sounds great, and I would have loved to attended with my lightsaber lol
@bethanyhutter54334 ай бұрын
Yep. Pretty much.
@Memories188 ай бұрын
WOOHOO, LANDSCAPE MODE!
@929yiyi38 ай бұрын
My second cousin and her husband were meant to have a small cute wedding, but right as the day was set, they both got covid. They set another date, they had food poisoning. Both decided to just sign the papers and have a small intermediate family party afterwards. Both are happily married
@maxxard79923 ай бұрын
Finally a good story
@ianriddle61048 ай бұрын
My wife and I were married in a small town courthouse and a cat was an unofficial witness. She sat with my wife while we waited on the judge. She was never really around cats much and I think she may have become a cat person that day
@crazycatlady27446 ай бұрын
Priest under the bridge: "If anyone knows of any reason why these two should not be wed, speak now or forever hold your piece." Random car: *BEEEEEP!*
@zenfriend32608 ай бұрын
Stop. No way a bride sang down the aisle like a Disney musical. 🤣🤣🤣
@JasmineAnahera8 ай бұрын
I’ve seen a video of someone singing down the aisle, though I think it was an actual Disney song..
@Booklover32Ай бұрын
@zenfriend3260, I was almost crying at my own awkwardness and nervousness, thinking I would really ruin my wedding, but I feel so much better now knowing that a bride sang badly down the aisle like a Disney musical. I have confidence now in knowing that no matter how bad I get, I won't get THAT bad.
@TheOriginalMeanGirl7 ай бұрын
My brother in law was on his 3th wedding. There were only 8 people on the grooms side. 50plus on hers. The procession was over 50 people. I nodded off and people were still walking in. The bride was so happy and kept saying this is her first and last marriage. Marriage lasted 6 months and he currently getting divorced from wife number 5.
@anabelroutledge8 ай бұрын
Oh man do I have a story too! I'll keep it as short as possible: I'm friends with twins and the girl was getting married. As it was a queer wedding they opted to have her twin brother instead of a preacher. He added random things into the reading, trying to be funny and nostalgic. Think stories and comments that should be saved for the reception. Things like: "I wish -OTHER BRIDE- would have had more kids before you transitioned so -THEIR 3YR- would have a sibling relationship like you and me." Whatever kind of wholesome in a weird way but not the time. Also, she doesn't want to be reminded that she's trans and had held off their wedding so they could have a biological child before her to then transition. The rest of the wedding was okay and he realized he fcked up and was able to fix their relationship. We kind of laugh about it now 2yrs later but take this as a lesson to not get siblings or close friends to do the reading because even normal people can do stupid things lol
@IDONTGIVEAF-ew6bw8 ай бұрын
Is trans but gets offended somebody says she’s trans.. 💀
@A_Floofy_Fox8 ай бұрын
Honestly the Star wars wedding sounds like it would be pretty fun and I'm not even that big of a fan of Star wars although I would certainly let guests know beforehand if I was going to do an extreme themed wedding
@melissacooper87248 ай бұрын
It's a shame they couldn't get Mark Hamill to officiate like he did for Sheldon and Amy's wedding in The Big Bang Theroy!
@Diane_6667 ай бұрын
Yeah that's what I thought, it was only cringe because they decided to make it a surprise for everyone.
@shitneyb55628 ай бұрын
Georgie's story is hysterical
@KatzuBlood8 ай бұрын
I loved my wedding but know it wasn't of the traditional style. I wore a red Japanese Lolita dress, and the wedding colors were red, gold, and black. The dress was picked because I was actually just wanting a party dress cause we weren't going to have a full ceremony. Just a party in the grandparents' backyard. It grew way to big and turned into an actual wedding and it was great. The song we walked up the aisle to was from Chrono Trigger, and we danced to -I can't stop loving you. We had cupcakes instead of a whole cake and the venue didn't allow alcohol but we had sparkling martinellis for drinks to toast with. One of my husband's friends didn't want to wear a suit and asked if he could wear his Boba fett costume he made. It looks amazing and you can see Boba Fett in the background of so many pictures. Some might say it was cringe or awkward but me and my husband have been happily married 7 years.
@Aubsy5 ай бұрын
Aw that sounds so awesome!! Glad you and your partner have been going strong for so long!
@BrightBlueInk8 ай бұрын
Man, i feel like i dodged a billion bullets at my wedding. The food was cooked by my husband's family but it was actually pretty good! My husband did all the flowers himself, but he worked at the floral department of a grocery store and it's actually really good at creating floral displays, so it was lovely, she it was also really sweet knowing that my bouquet (and everything else) was made for me as essentially a gift from my husband. The music really was just a playlist off my phone that my aunt had control over, but it went great, i labeled all the playlists really carefully so it went just how i wanted. I walked down the aisle to the theme song of my favorite anime... But the anime is ballet themed so it's actually just a very gentle piano piece, i don't think anyone that wasn't a total nerd knew. We didn't have any dancing at the wedding because i knew i would freak me out (turns out i had undiagnosed generalized anxiety disorder haha), but that meant that i was genuinely fairly relaxed at the wedding and didn't panic or freakout once. It was really nice, and I've been told by a lot of people that it was one of the prettiest weddings they've been to. (Aided a lot by the fact that we were able to rent out a really pretty park nearby my parents home that my husband and i spent a good amount of time in while we were dating... Nature did a lot of the decorating.) Also I didn't sing. That seems to be a pretty important part, not singing.
@Carnibee8 ай бұрын
That underpass story is one for the history books omg 😂
@jgtf8 ай бұрын
ITA BACKKK YASS ALSO LOVE THE LONGER VIDEO FORMAT 😻😻😻
@meredithjohnson28438 ай бұрын
Was a bridesmaid- they had us take wedding photos outside in April- in upstate NY- I was like 90 pounds soaking wet so not well insulation in a strapless dress. We were out there for a better part of an hour- came back inside to a hot hotel lobby and my whole world went black. I’m guessing my blood vessels dilated too quickly from the temperature change. The worst part was everyone thought I was just sloppy drunk- my fiancé had to carry me up to the suite. It was awful. Also didn’t get to sit with my immediate family at my only brothers wedding reception because my pushy aunt insisted on being a part of the action.
@SewardWriter8 ай бұрын
Your aunt sucks. :(
@stadot14277 ай бұрын
Similar climate for my wedding, so the bridesmaids dresses were REQUIRED to be floor-length and NOT strapless. I even urged them to consider wearing thermal pants and bringing shrugs or sweaters. In retrospect, maybe I should have provided shawls, but since their dresses were mismatched it might have been tricky and we lucked out with the only sunny Saturday the whole month.
@meredithjohnson28437 ай бұрын
@@stadot1427 that’s smart thinking- at least you thought of your friends.
@TheKorfish8 ай бұрын
😂 Australia themed for a British couple is diabolical if it wasn't little kids planning it I would've thought this was done in malice.
@lavinialadlass94325 ай бұрын
You can’t tell me all of those kids were innocent. There had to be at least one who did this intentionally knowing that their parents wouldn’t be able to back out and there was nothing they could do about it.
@servantbee.8 ай бұрын
ITS BACK
@brandyholder37558 ай бұрын
I could have absolutely contributed to this subreddit! I got married at an auto parts store..
@Musical_Pigeon8 ай бұрын
I remember for my aunt's wedding when I was 14 all her nieces and nephews had some sort of roll... except for me. Her 2 grandkids were maid and man of honor, my other aunt's daughter and three sons were the ring bearers (with dad to help and baby in the wagon), my little sister was the flower girl, and my brother was playing the guitar and singing. She was so happy she found a way to include ALL her nieces and nephews, even the ones that were grand nieces and nephews (her youngest daughter wasn't included because she was disowned after my aunt divorced her ex, and my oldest cousin couldn't come because she lived in Texas and couldn't get to the off work for the travel and everything.) My brother was the only one who noticed that I was the only nibling left out and talked my aunt into letting me sing with him the night before the wedding.
@stadot14277 ай бұрын
I have fewer than 10 niblings and I sometimes lose count. Is there any chance it was just that kind of whoopsie?
@Musical_Pigeon7 ай бұрын
@@stadot1427 Sadly no. I'm the one that at that time was impossible to forget about because I was always gracing my parents'Facebook feed with whatever my mom decided to post. Now I'm the most forgettable because I don't do anything on social media where my family can see. And it's a common thing at family events where I show up and I may as well have not come
@2verysnowyyy6 ай бұрын
Story 7 sounds like a skit you’d see at the closing campfire at a scout camp 😭😭😭
@ckee84378 ай бұрын
Went to a wedding, bride was 18 groom 19 and the officiant spent the entire ceremony trying to talk them out of the marriage. He should NOT have agreed to perform the ceremony if he was against it, was it doomed, of course, did it end within a year, yes. Was the pastor an asshole, epically. I'm glad he accidentally set his robe on fire over the unity candle. 😅
@nationalinstituteofcheese30128 ай бұрын
Story 21: OP should’ve called the police for giving children alcohol
@genericwoman37137 ай бұрын
Story 29... you are the most captivating writer and incredible personality!!! I *never* laugh out loud and I am a crumpled mess hysterically howling at your humor! In all seriousness though I hope you find someone to love and cherish that beautiful soul of yours and you have the wedding you deserve (if you want that) and you live happily ever after
@mushroomleg31518 ай бұрын
THANK YOU FOR CHANGING THE FORMAT. IT'S SO MUCH BETTER IN LANDSCAPE.
@talelane6 ай бұрын
The groom smashed cake in the bride's face despite her clear wish not to. She was furious, yelled, and stormed off. The reception was ruined as bridesmaids comforted her. They divorced two years later. Disrespecting your spouse's wishes like that is a huge red flag for marriage.
@fdracnc4 ай бұрын
oh the poor underpass bride
@Holychickendinner5 ай бұрын
It's pretty pathetic if you feel like you have to have alcohol in order to enjoy a wedding or any party. I've never been to a wedding with alcohol, and I'm glad. Why would anyone want people at their wedding whose ability to make good choices has been purposely compromised?
@tanyaredfield8 ай бұрын
Not at a wedding, but the singing down the aisle thing made me remember a couple we used to know. She loved to sing, but wasn't great. Husband always made a fuss over her singing voice and told everyone they ever met what a great singer she was. Sweet that he supports what she loves in such a great way, but it sucked for everyone else because they never passed up an opportunity to share her "gift" with everyone. We spent too much time listening to her sing and watching her hubby swoon about her "beautiful voice". Tbf, she wasn't the worst ever, but was regularly off tune and it was just hard to get on board....
@natashafeuchuk30548 ай бұрын
The dollar dance thing is a cultural way of helping pay for the wedding...
@Da_bear-ij9gm8 ай бұрын
If we’re going with the cultural relativism excuse, why can’t the man get the stripper treatment
@DestinyObake8 ай бұрын
My wedding had a blue and white theme because we loved Dr. Who at the time. We didn’t go crazy, no one who didnt know the significance of that particular blue even knew it was nerdy. It was just kind of an inside joke. I could never do a full blown franchise themed wedding.
@stadot14277 ай бұрын
Same. My husband had a tie with the schematics of the Millenium Falcon printed on it and I think his processional might have been from Star Wars (idr, he picked it). My bridesmaids went down to "Old Friends" from Lord of the Rings and my dress was dubbed the "Galadriel dress" by one of my bridesmaids. Ironically, I'm the one big into Star Wars and my husband's the LotR fan. I guess we're well matched!
@Dallass8 ай бұрын
ME AND MY HOMIES HATE SHORTS MODE! 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@widevader4 ай бұрын
Pilav is so god darn easy to make.
@lisetravis2 ай бұрын
True!
@ezrakornfeld84368 ай бұрын
32:12 that’s the best vow I’ve ever heard
@gnomeconspiracy95 ай бұрын
Hands down, the Harry Potter themed wedding of my high school friend and her long time boyfriend. They went all out on the theme to the point that the guests had to dress in the color of their Hogwarts house. The bride wore a Gryffindor scarf with her wedding dress and even the vows incorporated the theme. I specifically remember the groom promising to "Wait for their Hogwarts letters together forever." They're a very sweet couple and they're still together, but the whole thing was just a little over the top and a lot of the older folk were very confused, so an air of awkwardness hung over the whole thing. They both seemed very happy though, so that's what counts.
@lunchbox1848 ай бұрын
That was really good with character narration and extra commentary
@kyototomokui66768 ай бұрын
Not gonna lie I fw landscape mode way more than portrait mode
@mantaxiaofaye448 ай бұрын
That wedding under the overpass was the best thing I've heard in a long time 🤣👍 23:45 - 28:45
@marlenesamuels8818 ай бұрын
My aunt and uncle had a medieval themed wedding. Aunt wore a gorgeous dress and uncle a suit of chainmail armor.
@tesuniekataren468 ай бұрын
Story 52: Might be showing my age here... but the best compromise to the Star Wars and Western themes... Galaxy Ranger theme! Would have been perfect. Man. I want to rewatch that show from my youth.
@Da_bear-ij9gm8 ай бұрын
Honestly I think Star Wars + western together could have been really funny. Storm troopers in cowboy hats and boots and such
@hellokittyangel2118 ай бұрын
21:51 I don’t know if this was the case for the couple in this story, but the Dollar/Money Dance is a very common long standing tradition in some parts of the African Diaspora, Eastern Europe, and Latin America as a way of wishing good financial fortune on the couple and/or helping them to start their marriage on a good financial footing.
@Highminded125 ай бұрын
I assume pinning the bills to the dress right? And not stuffing her bra like a stripper.
@blankahegyi55613 ай бұрын
21:31 In my country something similar to the dollar dance is actualy a thing but they don't pin it on the brides dress just put it in a hat or something and it's a way of helping the couple pay for the wedding.
@virgilremus11848 ай бұрын
YESSS LANDSCAPE MODE MY BELOVED 💜💜💜
@erikeriks7 ай бұрын
Bro put his heart into that bride impression
@DeathMetalDerf5 ай бұрын
If he or she says no to the cake-smushing thing then you absolutely must uphold that. My ex-wife was very clear that I was not even to contemplate doing that, and I didn't. My current wife said she didn't want to go through with it either, so you know what? I didn't do it to her either. If everyone thinks it's funny and everyone is agreeing to be part of it then fine. Far be it from me to tell anyone else what to do or what not to do. I can offer my opinion if asked, but beyond that it's your wedding and your wife. Just keep in mind that, "happy wife - happy life," is not just a funny saying, and consent matters in all cases, even cake smooshing at a wedding.
@genericwoman37137 ай бұрын
Narrator who raised you!?!?!? Cause they did a freaking *sterling* job!!! I've watched SO many of your videos and you are always so kind, cautious and diplomatic- with a really admirable tendency to call out indecency and injustice ALL the time. The comment you made about the 'first time' on wedding nights, and the 'myth' of the hymen breaking- will actually REALLY help so many people. And the way you follow up with how people still deserve marriage even if they're not virgins- that was perfection. Thank you and thank your parents or guardians! I'm so glad you're in the World
@impmillie94706 ай бұрын
I felt it was wrong to say it was a myth as it does happen, I bled a lot my first time and I can see how it could make someone who does have it happen feel as though something is wrong with them. I literally did a double take mid cleaning to go make a comment on it.
@genericwoman37136 ай бұрын
@impmillie9470 something happening occasionally doesn't mean it happens to everyone. Girls have been killed for 'adultery' or sex out of wedlock because of this myth- which is what it is- and if more people knew that everyone would be safer
@Starlight16808 ай бұрын
So, when my aunt got married a while ago, the groom sang to her. He was a decent singer at least and even if he wasn’t it was an extremely touching moment that my aunt clearly hadn’t expected. So it’s not always a cringeworthy thing to do but when it’s an obvious ploy to tug at the heartstrings of everyone in the room that’s when the cringe happens. It worked at my aunt’s wedding because it was very clear that the gesture was for her and her alone and the rest of us just happened to be witness to it.
@stadot14277 ай бұрын
Exactly! It's from the heart, not for show. And when it's from the heart, who even cares if it is cringey?
@HeidiSholl8 ай бұрын
Ok, but Marrying Mum and Dad was occasionally a really sweet show. On one episode, the kids wanted to arrange a wedding for their mum's, and they went with a Doctor Who theme because of Madame Vastra and Jenny. And yes, dressing up as a lizard person from the dawn of time and her Victorian maid wife is cringe, but it was really really adorable, and everyone knew what they were getting their selves into asking a couple of 8-10 year olds arrange a wedding. The kids also didn't organise everything, the show did, they just did things like pick the dress, cake and decorate.
@melissacooper87248 ай бұрын
On that show were the parents already married? Or were they divorced and was planning to remarry?
@HeidiSholl8 ай бұрын
@@melissacooper8724 Usually parents who were never already married, and didn't have time after having children. So there were a lot of blended families and families from less wealthy backgrounds.
@equestrianrosie8 ай бұрын
Story 29 was absolutely fantastic. I want to meet this woman.
@bethanyhanna94644 ай бұрын
My brother was a groomsman in a wedding originally planned for a Minnesota winter date, but got postponed until mid July. The tuxes were wool. 6 of the 9 men in the wedding party literally passed out as it was 101°.
@bdg777 ай бұрын
Every wedding I have seen was awkward. It's only a question of now or later.
@jennashago385 ай бұрын
The New Jersey weddings sound on par for that State 🤣🤣😁
@PinkNinjanerd7 ай бұрын
I've only ever been to like, two, as far as I can remember. This "wedding" I went to, wasn't official, it was just a couple of our friends doing a ceremony as if it were, and then our whole friend group were the attendees. The mentioned dead relatives/loved ones was what made it awkward for me. The ceremony was over and we were making a few speeches, but then one of my friends (not one of the couple getting "married") stepped up and made a speech about someone else in the friend group who'd died recently. The sentimental intention was there, but it made it awkward for those few people (me included) who didn't know said friend that well. The same person who brought up this speech had also, earlier on, proposed to their SO just after the the grooms (the couple were two bisexual guys) had finished their initial ceremony
@katieb.11847 ай бұрын
My kids would plan a cat, moose, car, and tornado themed wedding. I honestly would love it because i would expect an utter train wreck
@charmann96008 ай бұрын
my family is a musical family and singing down the ile is some of the most beautiful things to sing. singing at a wedding is a great idea, if you repare properly for it.
@colleens11076 ай бұрын
I don’t believe for a second the overpass wedding happened but thanks for the belly laugh I got reading that
@dianecheney41417 ай бұрын
I went to a Jehovahs Witness wedding. I've been to a lot of different weddings but this one was a trip. I was there as the friend of the sister of the bride. Ten minutes in I'm given a box of corsages and told I know what everyone looks like that needs a corsage go give them out. So I'm out giving the grandmothers and the sister in law their corsages and the grand fathers and the father of the bride. Mother of the bride had brought the corsages so she had her. I hand them all out when a stranger walks up to ask for hers. I had no flowers left and had no idea who she was, so I asked if she was family, no she just wanted a corsage. They have to invite the entire congregation and it was a came as you are thing. One guy walks in during the vows in oil covered coveralls, he's just fixed a car. Fun. But wait there's more. The realized just before the service started that there was a turn the bride needed to make to start her procession and someone would have to chase her to turn her train so it would fan out behind her for the full effect. I must have raised my hand. The reception was a covered dish dinner(fancy way of saying potluck). So many crockpots of beanieweinies. So I'm put at the sign in table and am asked to watch gifts while there. After everyone has trickled in, it was off to record who had brought which gift and then helped with the cake and putting out all those crock pots of beanweinies, did I mention no booze. Then it's pulling empty dishes and washing them and putting them out so people could pick them up on the way out. Now the mother of the bride comes and asks me to keep an eye on the centerpieces they want them to go to certain people. I had set aside a piece of cake and when I finally sat down to eat it. My friend came over and asked for it before I could take a bite because she hadn't been able to enjoy her first two pieces. So after sweeping up and cleaning up the kitchen I could finally go home and get something to eat. When my friend decided to get married she asked me to help, sure why not. I arranged child care and her fiancé was supposed to pick me up. Seven hours of waiting later I have to go pick up my kid fiance shoes up lots of apologies and could I go now, nope kid is in bed I paid a sitter for nothing, gave him my gift and said have fun
@cmsxcb8 ай бұрын
Last wedding I went to: the wedding photographer banned anybody else from taking any photographs during any part of the wedding, reception and after-party. She informed the entire congregation that, if they wanted a photograph, they had to purchase it from her and gave a full price list - up to, and including, pictures of the bride and groom in a £500 (plus VAT) gold frame. She then proceeded to stop the wedding mid-flow every time she wanted to get a specific shot. Afterwards tried to get the 200+ guests to become a kind of rent-a-crowd and ordered them around for over an hour while she maneuvered us around like soldiers on parade, all the while taking group shots from the top of ladders, framed in the light from windows, looking upwards from ankle height (?) and trying to get a group of 200+ tired and pissed-off people to 'smile'. While this was going on, nobody was allowed to sit down on the very few chairs provided - not even the elderly or physically handicapped. This went on for so long that the food was served late, cold and rushed. The foolishness only stopped when the groom's uncle finally reached the end of his tether and declared that "This will be the last photograph taken and do you want me 'tits in or tits out?' Your choice". We left early and went for a curry. Oh... and we have no photographs of the event.
@Whitefang12_328 ай бұрын
THE FIRST PART
@mztweety13746 ай бұрын
For some reason we were giggling during the entire ceremony. my husband's frat brothers spilled a pot of barbecue sauce on my baby cousin's outfit. The minister who did our ceremony ended up being brought up on charges of sexual harassment... And it was February in Michigan and our frat brothers were outside barbecuing.. we threw that wedding together in 2 weeks 2:23 at my house while I was supposed to be on bed rest... My youngest child showed up about 3 months later😂 her godfather walk me down the aisle. "Venus de Milo" by Prince and the Revolution was my wedding march
@MaidenOfAir8 ай бұрын
Story 58 is amazing. They knew it was going to be cringey and that was the point. They didn’t want that type of wedding, so why should they even care?
@rawilliams58818 ай бұрын
Back when I was playing guitar professionally someone booked me for a small home wedding gig. No rehearsal, just the standard marches and a few songs after for the reception. Turns out it was a surprise wedding. Who was being surprised? The bride. I thought for sure I was going to die because I can't run very fast with a guitar. It turned out OK and everyone lived: both families and the minister were in on it. But I was sweating bullets.
@colleens11076 ай бұрын
I’m kinda sad that none of the weddings I’ve been to included someone singing
@kianabrown28658 ай бұрын
With my wedding coming up next Saturday, these stories are making me hope the wedding won’t be super cringy!
@melissacooper87248 ай бұрын
Don't worry. I'm sure your wedding will go without a hitch!
@Lili_Chan_20118 ай бұрын
How did it go?
@kianabrown28658 ай бұрын
@@Lili_Chan_2011 It was absolutely amazing! The night could not have gone any better.
@projectjupiter55237 ай бұрын
@@kianabrown2865that's so lovely, congratulations to you and your new spouse 🥳 may your marriage be long, happy, and full of success in every goal you have!
@roselover4118 ай бұрын
I don't think singing at your wedding is necessarily terrible all the time. My aunt sang her way up the aisle at her wedding and she sounded very lovely and chose a sweet song to sing to the groom. I thought it was a nice addition that suited her Leo/Virgo sensibilities.
@darkstarr9846 ай бұрын
I just can’t stand the idea of having a wedding without food, drinking, and dancing, even if it’s just a few relatives from each side and you have a picnic together. It’s just not for me. In the weird off chance I actually want to get married, I want good friends and (tolerably tolerant) relatives there having a great time.
@DaniellaTousson8 ай бұрын
I'm surprised that first couple lasted the night, honestly
@cmsxcb8 ай бұрын
A "Midnight in Paris" theme? What? Everything's shut and you risk getting mugged?
@leileyaravencroft8 ай бұрын
21:48 - Most of you are probably too young to remember or may have missed seeing this movie but the “dollar dance” at a wedding, was used in the ‘95 film Soul Food and is actually a real tradition. If memory serves, yes, people who want to dance with the bride pin dollars to her dress but it’s also supposed to be a “good luck” charm of sorts as well as to help the new couple with any finances. The money is removed at the end of the dance and put away for the bride and groom to use later. If memory serves me, this tradition (that I haven’t seen since Soul Food) was more common in the South and I believe it was mostly seen at black weddings.
@jopiekkola5278 ай бұрын
Dollar dances are fairly common in my part of the country. A groomsman will hold the dollars (or higher denomination) to dance with the bride and a bridesmaid will hold the money to dance with the groom. It's seen as a way to wish the couple well and give them a little money to help with expenses. It's not a weird or off-color thing at all. A younger nephew gets to dance with his aunt, or cousin or family friend, etc.
@stadot14277 ай бұрын
I first saw it when a white woman married a latino fellow in the south. It's worth noting that the money is freely given and it can be $100 or $1 and no one is judged for giving what they can. There was also a hilarious moment at the bride's sister's wedding when a middle-aged, quite straight but goofy male guest with kids almost as old as the bride and groom paid his money...and then danced with the groom!
@amagos18Ай бұрын
I have seen three weddings and only one had cake smashed into face. The couple discussed it and agreed, she even laughed when he playfully dodged then let her smash the cake into his face. The best surprise ive seen at a wedding was the bride arranging their favorite song to be played for their dance. He cried happy tears and we all clapped
@TheMidnightstar25 ай бұрын
Okay i just wanted to say something real fast. Dollar dances are actually common in mexican weddings, at least in my experience. I have a billion cousins so i have seen it plenty of times. In the ones ive been to, the bride and groom are available to dance. Ive also seen it at quinceaneras.
@tomboyangel786 ай бұрын
Story 29 Oh. My goodness. This sounds like a B plot to a sitcom, and I had to pause the video just to get my own laughs out 😂 (Had a crap day too, so it was very much needed)
@ArcanineEspeon4 ай бұрын
Dude, get a different editor. First the awful captions that extend short words into random things, then whatever happened at 7:57, and now the abrupt stop at 13:30. 58:54 Great job, geniuses. You cut out the first rule.
@danniellesloane8 ай бұрын
A wedding i was invited to as a plus one. A few hours away, so was invited to stay with my date at the same motel as the groomsmen. Not until the end of the ceremony, did i realise that the bride was my exes cousin, and i had been to their engagement party years earlier at the grandparents house. My ex wasnt there, but we had been together about 4 years, so i had met most of his extended family, and his parents, aunts, uncles and cousins were all there. Noone recognised me because noone had expected me to be there, on the grooms guest side, and it had been a few years since id seen any of them During the reception, one person recognised me. One of the bridesmaids. The one other family member i really ever got along with. She didnt say a word til id left, but she thought it was as holarious as i did 😂
@IsYitzach8 ай бұрын
Story 33: There's a reason the Bible says to not missionary date. This is the second of two reasons right here. The couple are not on the same page and should, as the narrator notes, get divorced.
@dannythekingofchaosandkitt48926 ай бұрын
Holy mother of deepest hell, that story 29 was SOMETHING. I haven't laughed so much in a while, literary crying from laughter. 🤣🤣🤣
@saagabragi69388 ай бұрын
16:40 How do you actually spell that? I hate auto-subtitles
@gemcorker39828 ай бұрын
Apparently "stukje" is correct. Google / Wiktionary tells me it's Afrikaans, derived from Dutch & "stuk" means piece (as in a piece of apple) and the diminutive form is "stukje" can refer to skits, sketches and small plays the same way English & American might call them "bits" - as in, "the best man's speech was so bad we thought it was a bit / he was doing a bit"
@brittanyotto84638 ай бұрын
My cousin's wedding took place in her parent's backyard. It was massively cold as they decided to marry at night at a time when we were just getting out of winter. The catering was food that guests had made and brought with them and they went instantly cold as soon as they were brought outside. The "wedding" cake was just a Doctor Who Birthday Cake with "Congratulations Bride and Groom!" In sloppy handwriting. When it was time for them to say their vows they decided to play a specific song and just let the whole song play out. Neither of them were singing (thank god) but it was still bad that everyone was just silently listening to this cheesy song. No dancing from anyone either just awkward standing from the bride and groom while every guest was shivering in their seats. As soon as they kiss everyone moves out of their seats to get to anywhere warm before they could freeze to death. The rest of the event went uncringe. The food was okay but the cake tasted just as cheap as it looked. Their marriage didn't even last a whole year. The bride found out that her new husband was a deadbeat and an abusive alcoholic.
@ellaqyk8 ай бұрын
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL HORIZONTAL SUNSET 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@HexisVonSpade8 ай бұрын
LMFAO xD
@pshaw84068 ай бұрын
I want to see a movie based on "Under the Overpass."
@elizabethdarroch30007 ай бұрын
Theres only one exception to the dont sing at your wedding for me (unless they really can sing) is tom fletchers wedding speech (one of the members of mcfly) i watch it sometimes when i need to smile lol
@johntumahab3238 ай бұрын
Hey..."Golden Corral, golden marriage"! :D
@DolleteAngel8 ай бұрын
I love listening to your videos while at work
@J0XIN_YT8 ай бұрын
If you need more then take my older brothers. He got married to a person that watched him grow up from the age of 4 and gave birth to our cousins. She isn't blood related but she still just comes across as a sick sob. To make matters worse, she refused to get a job and made my brother pay for everything. She wants a NEW washer, she wants all tgese streaming services, she NEEDS to go out to eat EVERY DAY. She's a huge red flag and he's only just now seeing it.
@extremchiller4108 ай бұрын
my parents ad a beverage shop with party service. you could buy /rent all you need for a party from us( except food). drinks, limo, tents fridges ect. i was on my way to a Harrd rock/metal fan reunion where i was ordered to "gring all the stuff thats needed". as i and the fans arive at the lockation it turned out they had double booked the place with a wedding. after both partys agreed to use that space together and make arangements except for 5 people the entire family side of the bride left. (almost all well educated white people with i am better than the rest syndrome.) after an awkward first hour that wedding got from classic white themed to fancy rock themed really quick and everyone had agood time. there where scenes like: One big bearded rocker guy as flowergirl ( the other one had left with her family) and the original shy 5 yo girl . grandma trying to grill a half of a pig over open fire and was cheared on by a lot of long haired men in lether atire and fine gentzlemen in formal atire (the pig was almost her sice) the wedding ceremony itself was outcourced to a nice lake nearby because the huge musik stage had blocked the spot for the photograpic scene that was planned. both partys helped setup the transportinging and setting up the szene. the big flower buckets for example where strapped to 2 atvs for transport. it looked like 2 piles of pants with 4 n wheels and a hed in the middle.