People who've ghosted their previous life, what is your life like now?

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10 ай бұрын

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@EN-mh6sr
@EN-mh6sr 9 ай бұрын
1st story...maybe the won't talk because the truth came out and the old life people are ashamed of themselves.
@klamerino
@klamerino 9 ай бұрын
Wich makes them even worse
@dragonkingsports
@dragonkingsports 9 ай бұрын
Or maybe it’s because she actually did try and seduce the boyfriend which makes way more sense. Who asks someone to fix a snowblower in summer? Also if you live in an apartment, you don’t need a snowblower, that’s the apartment owner’s responsibility to remove snow
@klamerino
@klamerino 9 ай бұрын
@@dragonkingsports Have you even heard the story? That's the point, she just moved in and wouldn't use the snowblower, so she was going to sell, for such, she had to fix it first
@alphabetagamma4142
@alphabetagamma4142 9 ай бұрын
I think she's BSing... People are not stupid. If the entire town vehemently believes something to be true, it probably is. Maybe a couple people can have a misunderstanding. But the whole town? Including her 2 best friends? Think about it, if your best friend who you've known since childhood is accused of adultery? Would you just believe it without diving deeper? Would you just take someones word at face value and cut all ties with your lifelong best friend? You wouldn't... Unless you are absolutely convinced that your friend did it. And being that convinced takes more than just an accusation.
@ayo__ayo
@ayo__ayo 9 ай бұрын
​@@alphabetagamma4142Bandwagon fallacy. I don't think that person tried to seduce the dude.
@Lillireify
@Lillireify 10 ай бұрын
I have a story of my own :) I went on NYE trip, met a guy. After 1,5 months of LTR I've decided to screw it, and moved in with him - I wasn't overly attached to the life I had where I was, and he lived on the other side of the country. After a couple of months I've decided to also switch careers as well, since the old one made me miserable. I've kept LC with my family, and I've kept only 2 friends from "the old times". I'm now married to that guy, pregnant, work in a job that makes me happy and made new friends. I'm never ever going back.
@mercedessettle7824
@mercedessettle7824 9 ай бұрын
Wonderful!
@kylesimone6140
@kylesimone6140 9 ай бұрын
im so happy for you :)
@katiteee
@katiteee 9 ай бұрын
That is such a cool story! Thank you for sharing :)
@noneya3427
@noneya3427 8 ай бұрын
I was in foster care and was adopted when I was 16. They were POS and I haven’t talked to them since I moved out with the exception of one other time to pick up winter clothes my first semester of college. Now, I talk to two of my sisters and we all live in the same state but with distance. I now make a decent wage and life is pretty ok.
@Me-wk3ix
@Me-wk3ix 9 ай бұрын
Just wanted to give props to OP that fought addiction. That takes impressive strength!
@SSFighter1701
@SSFighter1701 9 ай бұрын
Story 9: What?! Dropped out of high school then just went home…. and never left? That is absolutely insane to me - not working or doing SOMETHING to make some money would drive me insane.
@do3807
@do3807 9 ай бұрын
There's a huge line, where you get comfortable with it. I was in a situation like that, but having 0 personal income terrified me, literal anxiety. I'm glad I didn't get comfortable being in that situation, because once time passes, it doesn't stop. Soon enough 13 years have gone by
@jaswik2023
@jaswik2023 7 ай бұрын
well I'm in a similar situation, don't know what to do or how to think
@yaguking
@yaguking 8 ай бұрын
Im actually in this kind of mindset myself. Ive already spoken to a friend that lives out in colorado and she agreed to let me live with her. It also helps that she herself needs help in the form of a second income. Im counting down the days until i leave. There's more going on behind the scenes, but ultimately I just want to start over in a new area where nobody knows me.
@jaswik2023
@jaswik2023 7 ай бұрын
what's the update? Did you get to do it, do you have a job/financially stable
@yaguking
@yaguking 7 ай бұрын
​@@jaswik2023not yet. I bought the plane ticket last month to leave in December so I could work enough to set aside enough money so that money wouldn't be a problem.
@danielqmul
@danielqmul 8 ай бұрын
I see an ex girlfriend who's ghosted her previous life to such an extent she denied ever knowing people that she grew up with.
@BriannaEntrepreneur
@BriannaEntrepreneur 9 ай бұрын
My friend making a pass at my partner wouldn’t send me into a tailspin. My partner I stupidly got pregnant by and have been abused by making a pass at my friend would.
@irinaparent9066
@irinaparent9066 8 ай бұрын
I work 20 hours per week and make more than 3k for it per month. my job is no stress and can afford everything and save. also living in another country, I get away from my toxic members and their expectations for how my life should be
@akina7578
@akina7578 10 ай бұрын
It’s crazy you have so little subs for your vid quality
@jbgra2566
@jbgra2566 9 ай бұрын
1st story: I mean, I kind of agree that it's weird that you asked him to repair your lawnmower (or whatever it was). If I don't have a good opinion on someone I would try to avoid them like the plague
@vannah1233
@vannah1233 9 ай бұрын
you dont know what its like living in a small town apparently, you get what you get and you dont throw a fit. Theres hardly anyone around you are bound to need a favor from someone you dont like eventually. ESPECIALLY if they are your friends spouse. It really sucks but thats small town life, ask me how I know! I lived in a town of a population around 240-260. and Ive definitely asked favors / help fixing things by people I didnt really like, but it was necessary because otherwise I couldnt get it done / fixed ect.
@Veneziamore
@Veneziamore 9 ай бұрын
Or people would just like to get their equipment fixed?? If anything who would believe his story just because OPs repair argument was ''weird'', especially if she was open and honest about inviting him over. If OP was out to seduce him wouldn't she have tried to do that in secret? Some people just want to get things done regardless of the season smh
@fredericksaxton9782
@fredericksaxton9782 8 ай бұрын
To sell it. You assuming things, not listening, and making mountains of molehills is *EXACTLY* how inoccent people get outcast over rumours.
@catherinep2034
@catherinep2034 2 ай бұрын
Why didn't she invite her over too? Or take the snowblower to their place?
@Lampe2020
@Lampe2020 13 күн бұрын
In a way I have a similar story, although (maaaaaybe?) not as dramatic. I was born and raised in Germany by German parents. Northern Germany to be more exact. When I got to Gymnasium (the German equivalent of High School, going from fifth to 12th grade) I was completely overwhelmed by the learning speed they had there. Also, I didn't have the best teachers. Nice people, but their way of teaching was mostly incompatible with my way of learning. So I was basically 24/7 in "try-to-get-school-work-done" mode, which is mentally extremely straining, to put it lightly. Then Co**na rolled around and screwed even more with my life. That dang mask holds a tiny but significant volume of air right infront of both breathing holes (nose and mouth), so there's no breathing past it and on every breath you first such the used-up air back in. It went so far they made us wear FFP2 masks _freaking outside_ , even though they had been proven to not do much except disturb the stream of air from breathing out so it went to the sides and up instead of forwards. I was less and less happy with my life, more and more burnt out and more and more frustrated with that freaking pandemic every single day. It never went far enough for myself to even consider taking my life (luckily!), but in hindsight it probably was pretty close to mentally breaking me. I'm autistic by the way, so mental overwhelming is even harder for me to process than for "normal" people. Well, about two years ago (December '21) my parents (who since longer than I live have played with the thought of moving abroad, for example to France or Britain) decided to look for a house in Sweden. We hadn't thought much about scandinavia until that point, which is clearly visible on my semi-abstract painting of the earth where Scandianvia has completely wrong proportions. Well, the first house they looked at ended up being the one we bought some time later. I now live here since pretty much exactly two years (since the beginning of the summer holidays '22) and the metaphorical mental black clouds that had been piling up the last years in Germany have finally been broken by a metaphorical mental ray of sunlight last year's September, pretty much when we tried to watch an anime for a nice afternoon with the class but the USB they tried to play the film off of was too slow so after they canceled it I downloaded it from the internet. Now I listen to that anime's soundtrack almost every day. Also I have decided to never ever go back to Germany for more than visits to family. So I haven't completely cut off contact with my old life but my new life here in Småland is _muuuch_ better than my life in Germany. I live alone in a house out in the forest, with about a half hour cycle ride to the nearest village with a super market and super good pizzeria. I want to become an official Minecraft dev at some point, so I'm already in the right country XD
@karal_the_crazy
@karal_the_crazy 6 ай бұрын
These stories further prove my theory about how destructive compliance is
@unionunicorn6776
@unionunicorn6776 8 ай бұрын
The first story is tragic. I didn't have this big of a huge blowup but I left a life I didn't see a future life there. I had childhood trauma from growing up in an abusive home, no friends growing up and I tried to move out but the economy in the Bay Area was so bad we couldn't afford an apartment even with two college degrees. We moved out of state. These stories remind me of my own.
@Npc1488-wc1kf
@Npc1488-wc1kf 8 ай бұрын
Ive suddenly left everything behind and moved a dozen times at least
@actually_a_catt
@actually_a_catt 9 ай бұрын
Im vibing with the call of duty content in the back
@Nicholenickinicscott
@Nicholenickinicscott 9 ай бұрын
i removed my old friends from my facebook and deactivated my account (for some reason you cant delete your profile) cause i started detaching (i hope that i spelled that right) mentally from that group cause two of my close friends were being bad friends to me, like one wouldnt answer my texts or phone calls till it came down to fighting with a former friend and the other one moved away only to not talk to me anymore despite being facebook friends and friends outside of that, so those two situations made me distance myself from people that i was close to. now looking back at it sometimes i shouldve just stuck around my real best friend but part of me was feeling like i should start over. fast forward to now, im friends with a older past on and off friend and we have been best friends since 2015, even if i left people that did nothing wrong to me behind, who i am now is healthier than who i use to be
@J05TI
@J05TI 2 ай бұрын
You absolutely can delete your Facebook profile
@omegazeroknight
@omegazeroknight 8 ай бұрын
Story 9 anon needs to get his lfie and life choices checked immidiatly, thier parents love must be strong to support them for so long, but they aren't forever, if anon keeps that track in life, they gonna find nothing but actual missery at the end of the road and depression is going to be the least of their worries, i really do hope they don't idle on it anymore for their actual sake, and their parents sake.
@jmac5951
@jmac5951 9 ай бұрын
Story 5. This man needs help. I hope he gets it.
@do3807
@do3807 9 ай бұрын
Always think about the people who ghosted, and then... Died.
@teresaravenshaw5477
@teresaravenshaw5477 9 ай бұрын
9 definitely sounds like depression to me, and I used to work in mental health.
@bluevillsplash
@bluevillsplash 9 ай бұрын
I doubt its depression. I would say he's not interested in doing anything. Like nothing excites him. He'll either find things or won't. Depression may happen eventually or at times, but i think he's just LOST.
@casuallym3
@casuallym3 9 ай бұрын
@@bluevillsplashliterally sounds like depression
@viswaschaudhary2983
@viswaschaudhary2983 9 ай бұрын
When I was in high school, i had prety playboy kind of life and i also got rob, bitten to death on tinder which i left behind to pursue medical college to become doctor now i don't even look at girls 😂😂😂i have this trauma about tinder now
@princessmarlena1359
@princessmarlena1359 9 ай бұрын
📱 “Hello, I need a new dust filter for my ‘HooverMax Pressure-Pro, Model 60’, for pickup. Running ‘red hot’!”
@TheUneducatedTeacher
@TheUneducatedTeacher 9 ай бұрын
Off to New Hamsphire
@paperkay
@paperkay 9 ай бұрын
10.000 times better. But we all have to kiss some frogs.
@dude6046
@dude6046 7 ай бұрын
ok i get that these are mostly sad as you are abandoning your life but why the guy in background playing so bad ?
@ImFangzBro
@ImFangzBro 9 ай бұрын
Tbh, if she's gonna believe a shithead like that over her best friend of 20 years, maybe it would've been better if her attempt succeeded.
@TheNexusDragoon
@TheNexusDragoon 10 ай бұрын
depression is an over used word if your life is shit its not depression its a normal reaction
@bottleflipbabysandbananas
@bottleflipbabysandbananas 10 ай бұрын
Depression can be caused by a crappy life or whatever. Don't judge the word depression because everyone has a different reason/incidents for depression.
@bottleflipbabysandbananas
@bottleflipbabysandbananas 10 ай бұрын
Also depression can just happen, without a "reason" it's just a thing that happens.
@peeonthe3rdrail414
@peeonthe3rdrail414 10 ай бұрын
@@bottleflipbabysandbananas His point is that like the word "narcissist" it is way over used.
@TheNexusDragoon
@TheNexusDragoon 10 ай бұрын
@@bottleflipbabysandbananas it always happens without a reason. if it has one its a normal reaction eg being sad or unhappy thats just life. look up the term before you use it or else you are just making it up and expecting it to be true. depression has you trying to kill yourself on the best day of your life, when people use the word for when they have a bad day they take away its meaning and depressed people get asked dumb question like why are you depressed when by its nature that question cant be answered all becouse people are trying to make a bad day sound 10X worse. this is why doctor think your full of it when you claim depression.
@TheNexusDragoon
@TheNexusDragoon 10 ай бұрын
@@bottleflipbabysandbananas basically if you've ever looked at somebody and said why did they kill themselves they had so much to live for they were rich why people love them. then you have absolutely no concept of what depression is and this is the weird disconnect that happens because people over use the word to sound dramatic depression means that I am feeling all the emotion of being upset over something but I have nothing to be upset over it is a chemical reaction causing me to feel those emotions without a cause. But every time somebody stands up and goes yes I understand I had a bad day the other day and I was depressed as you are just minimising somebody with a disability you're mocking a person and saying you know what I know what it is to be paralysed for example because quite often I don't feel like getting up off my ass. There two completely different things we're as somebody that's having a bad day has the ability to solve that problem they may not be able to do it but can be done if somehow somebody could fix the problem but with depression fixing the problem wouldn't do any good because there is no problem and just so you understand I'm not pissed off I'm just letting you know because most people don't know the difference as though said it is the most overused word
@nghiepdo6151
@nghiepdo6151 9 ай бұрын
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