UNDERSTANDING FEMALE ATTRACTION: THE REAL REASONS WOMEN CHOOSE MEN

[@PspTomisi]

Great video, This past few months has been an eye opener for me, the one I love, the one i cherish still Left me, I lost alot of friends because of her, she often said they were bad influence on me, and she still left me, i still love her and that is what hurts the most. Love sometimes is unexplainable and cruel

[@elladonaldson-lh6nc]

I feel your pain,Believe me I do, i was in a similar position, he left me, but i couldnt just let him go because i knew i was the cause of it, i chose my work over him and the kids, I didnt want to loose him, so i contacted a spiritual counsellor for advice on how to get him back and to my greatest surprise it worked out, she brought him back to me, and its been over a year and half, i have never been this happy.

[@PspTomisi]

Thank you for this, I know i wasnt alone on this i often sit and think what i will become without her because i have no one else, I think i might just give this a try,how did you get in touch with him/her, if you do not mind me asking.

[@elladonaldson-lh6nc]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@PspTomisi]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@christopherpalmer4243]

Rough but that's life's little knocks. Don't marry a woman unless she's madly in love with you, divorce is inevitable

[@hiddengem12-o9s]

There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

[@tharsismadeira8836]

Ok, bot.

[@bentleypagayonan]

OKAY BOT

[@Vision_Voyagers]

Stop reading these books.

[@jasonfitzpatrick414]

I'm going to get a sweet, smart, plain woman in a small town. I'm just tired of the games. Social media is killing America's women. Their friends are not helping either.

[@LoveFaithLive]

😂Will you be good enough for this type of woman??? Are you what a smart woman wants even if she's plain & in a small town.🫣🤔 Hehe heh Good luck💝

[@franjodelac4103]

just recently met one of those. they're so far and few in between, that i can't even believe i was lucky enough to meet and earn her genuine interest. i will do my best to never ever screw up with this one, because it's such a rare find. such women are worth sooooo much more then your 10/10 swedish models.

[@lovehealth-je6co]

Be careful.

[@lovehealth-je6co]

Small town ? Wtf? Woman is a woman. Psyche is the same. Listen to Sadia. Just play the game. Don’t risk ur heart man

[@DevidSword]

Got me one of them. Best woman ever. Never going back

[@sherwinedwin7694]

She is correct and on point in everything, she has plenty of Knowledge

[@Footballcornerworld]

She is looking through a buissness mind to everything, American bull shit. Every sentence is calculated mind in relationship. She is knowing nothing. She is a sick buissness women

[@blaze4464]

No she is not. I watched meny videos with her and she is super tilted to the women side ... she usualy blame man even whan it's obvius that women are more responsible.

[@FindingNemo38]

Lies ​@@blaze4464

[@johnvillamil3138]

So true. Pick a woman who’s moral compass is pointing in the right direction.

[@Аноним-щ3н]

They think "money = right direction of the moral compass.

[@user-vv2wd9vm4l]

That direction is NOT America 😂

[@Аноним-щ3н]

@@user-vv2wd9vm4l doesn't depend on a country

[@andresmattos7541]

good luck finding one LOL

[@Powerhaus88]

Ha, good one

[@DPMusicStudio]

Every Sadia video is pure gold

[@adrianboyddodd8007]

Sadia is my number one go to for relationship advice. Even though I watch a lot of red pill content. Actually she says quite a lot of stuff that red pill content creators would agree with. She is just more balanced than they are.

[@bartholetbayana9198]

Cool video. My relationship of 8 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@paulinebricks3441]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

[@bartholetbayana9198]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@paulinebricks3441]

Her name is shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@bartholetbayana9198]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@Unfiltered1000]

​@@paulinebricks3441Lol.. fake comments. No one should fall for this scam advertisement.

[@jaycarl1562]

I was on unemployment when I met my wife, 25 years ago

[@Otsutsukis]

These women are not manufactured now 😅.. It was a sattire, also men have changed a lot in behaviour but not mindset (for the male simps)

[@hastensavoir7782]

@@Otsutsukiswhy do people hate simps?

[@Otsutsukis]

@@hastensavoir7782 you should

[@mrfloydp]

So, why is it ok to blame male victims, but not female ones. The reason why I’ve given up is because women have mistreated me, and society doesn’t care.

[@carloferretti8956]

Cry a river bro, you think woman want a man that cry like this? Can’t blame the girl G

[@chubbytroll5321]

Society doesn't care because that is how the dynamic works. Losers whine about their best. Winners go home and fuck the prom queen. Actually: bitching, whining, complaining, and blaming just isn't all that attractive to have in one's personality. And while men are more likely to put up with complaining and blaming, for women, it tends to be an instant turn-off. Imagine if a world leader or President bitched and blamed and threw a tantrum, hoping for a pity party? Never mind running a business or a country, but most women want a man that has a plan that can protect and provide for her and the household. Don't know what you hope to accomplish for blame to be cast, but it sounds like a more difficult life strategy than just improving your overall self as a person so that females will be naturally and uncontrollably attracted to you. And it's not just women that will mistreat you. The government, your boss, strangers, animal, mother nature, and life in general will mistreat you and constantly test you to see if you're for real. If you get real, and get nature, and people's nature, you can flow with it and let it work for you. If you're willing to work for it.

[@rodplays2936]

You need to be accountable to yourself because your selection process sucks. That's what she's trying to say.

[@mrblue777]

There definitely is which is why you shouldn’t even bother and focus on what you can control. Easier said than done

[@TobiasTheTraveler]

@@rodplays2936Weak men are allergic to accountability.

[@surajitpaul1825]

Sadia is Zen Z mind reader. She knows what is going on to the society in terms of relationships. I am just speechless. Whatever she told exactly happening in Metro semi metro or semi unban cities / villages in any country

[@WakeelAdam]

Flashing money when meeting a woman and trying to impress her with money is root of all problems(happend to me) ...pay attention to red flags and set boundaries... I'm single now for a year focusing on myself.. I spoke to a couple of woman this time set boundaries and was simple learnt so much... I just observe and was supprised kicked a few to the curb... But man this really exposes everything...

[@EG-hh6zz]

we need this woman right by our side to guide us through life your so smart you are god sent many women have been hurt over the years by not being educated on these matters

[@MamaBulgaria]

This is exactly true, my last relationship was so sad - he was constantly away, I wanted more quality. Good guy, CFO but who care since he was literally non existent.

[@OfficialPattStakks]

Personally, I’ve done well with attractive woman when I was broker than I wanted to be. I met woman of great quality during my worst times 🤷🏾‍♂️ that treated me the best I’ve been treated.

[@user-sx6tm6qu1t]

The problem is that now there is only one pool of women

[@warriormonx]

She has incredible insights that are almost self evident but that haven’t quite occurred to you yet. Amazing stuff

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

This exposed one of my problems. I reject too many women. But at least it’s much better than the other way around because I’m gaining power

[@abel4776]

Humans either have a demonic spirit or the Holy Spirit. Jezebels choose men with demonic spirits to gain legion and spiritual contracts, and since Satan gave up wisdom for beauty, he is the expert in vanity and looks. Good-looking men if not restrained falls into this trap, contracts spiritual evil in lust and adultery and the goal for the demon is to spread that evil to as many women as possible, infect as many virgins as possible. A good woman does NOT choose a Chad, only bad women do.

[@panpunkt5185]

Przecież ona zachęca do odrzucania toksycznych kobiet.

[@Otsutsukis]

No one is gaining power bro.. There is more to life than women.. God???

[@marioleclerc4566]

You can be rejected by any women - 2 out of 10 or 9 out of 10. So go for it men. You get used to it so we can say it is a number game. And remember even if she's into you it does not mean she would be a good match or any match for you. Also, the such 4 out of 10 or 7 out of 10 is relative - there is no concensus on that topic. Be youself enjoy the journey!

[@Penguinracer]

This is predicated upon the woman not having as successful career as the male...which is quite old-fashioned. Often successful & busy men & women meet each other through their work - so there's equality of income, career prestige and prospects right there.

[@shivrajsinhrajput7773]

Now this the thing i'm looking for this is the type of mentality a men should be having, this is the vision of how a high value men should see the world.

[@saijinkai]

Finally someone who says what’s been in my mind about the red pill garbage.

[@1tavell]

She so true n real honest

[@byronryan4216]

So she is saying all females are prostitutes .. 😂

[@unknown-xy3dk]

That’s the formula 🫡

[@muazj26]

She's correct and i am afraid

[@DionLYA]

This is tough. Almost every woman I met have red flags. And the ones that don't are already in a relationship. I haven't come across a woman who asked to spend quality time together (except my aunt and my mom, but they are family). They only come and talk to you whenever they need your help, but when you want their time, they ignore you. You're right when you said that if we lead with money or that lifestyle, then we are going to attract those type of women who only cares about money. But where are we going to find the ones that don't? Especially when these types don't socialize or mix around with others.

[@racalu1993]

All women care about money and about lifestyle… not doing so would be detrimental to their wellbeing. You need to find a woman that won’t care about money after you start a relationship, not before. Focus on being a desired person and you won’t lack women to choose from.

[@mohdfaizansiddiqui1171]

​@@racalu1993 Good point mate

[@SlawcioD]

in redpill movement woman is not a enemy. idk what content she speaks about...

[@leedlbagginshield8492]

have you ever seen a red pill comment section? Full of men who resent women and see them as the enemy

[@viralresearcheducatorsdige503]

Where did she acquired that wisdom.... she is always on point.

[@Otsutsukis]

The thing is westerners spoke so much shit over a millennia where these thoughts seem repulsive.. Which is inherent in all humans

[@josedianas548]

You can’t beat genuine attraction. Her treatment towards you truly is night and day compared to the woman you attracted with money, If she’s with you for your money another man can buy her off you

[@Vishnu-pj8om]

This is just the beginning. Read the forbidden book Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.

[@AlextsarDiary]

Share some of those secrets

[@Michael-rm1bx]

Share some wisdom

[@anilyorulmaz4398]

Nice advertasing for ebook

[@deletevil]

"the secrets they're keeping from us" hahahahahahahah xD

[@p9a9r21]

She raises excellent points, but not the whole story. Very financially or professionally successful men can still be incredibly naive and ignorant about the true nature of women and attraction. Very successful men tend to lead into a relationship almost exclusively on their clout and money. Doing this blinds them to the fact women are emotional and if a man leads with it that's what she is going to emotionally connect to. From direct experience I can say most professional athletes (NBA /NFL) and financially successful men are well goofs when it comes to social skills and women. If it looks "good" and it's made "available" they buy it hook line and sinker. One notable exception is Kelsey Graham who broke up with a black girl who thought she was going to get his cash. Well she wasted four years and got replaced by.....Taylor Swift a white girl whose clout and fame exceeded Kelsey's. Superficial predatory women being attracted to wealth is like flies being attracted to $hit. And the very successful wealthy men like Kelsey do the EXACT OPPOSITE they CONSERVE not SPLURGE when it comes to women and finance. The blood sucker and the beautiful women who show up quickly lose interest because their intended victim or mark is cheap.

[@SE-hi3my]

Probably the best talk I’ve seen on this channel.

[@allthingsmundane.11]

newsflash: SHE IS NOT A PSYCHOLOGIST. Psychologist is a protected title across the board, not just those who are in clinical practice. Her Masters is not even in Psychology, it's in Education which means she is not even eligible to do a PhD program in Psychology thus making her ineligible to acquire a license as well. SHE IS MISREPRESENTING HERSELF IN A HUGE WAY. Don't get me wrong, I can see that some of the things she's saying might make sense but please be aware that it's not a clinical judgement but rather just a mere opinion. She can talk all she wants but she needs to be honest about her qualifications and respect those who are legitimately in the practice.

[@hotwings9684]

Wow. This is remarkably insightful, and explains so much that I've observed as I've become more successful as an entrepreneur. Thank you for the profound insight.

[@rainman-y8q]

She's absolutely correct and interesting talk.

[@callejon24]

She’s one million percent wrong on everything

[@Tamar-sz8ox]

I’m female , a wife , 💍 mother and professional Who would want to take someone’s credit card and just spend someone else’s money ? It makes no sense to me . Life is about earnership That’s disgusting

[@treybie1]

I want to thank you. You brought it all together for me. Thank you so much! That's a life changer!

[@anujsaxena2861]

First off, this lady is so charming. Her voice has a soothing tone to it. I would love to listen to her talk. That apart, i really wonder if those type of women who value quality time and attention and affection from ONE man, truly exist. From what i know, they value wealth above all. And if they dont get it from their wealthy partner, they are likely to look for affection and attention from some other man, WHILE holding onto the wealthy man. Most woman today want love, affection and sexual gratification, but want wealth, status and comfort even more. A woman today, as i see her, will never choose an affectionate but not so rich man, over a fabulously wealthy man whos also a cold blooded reptile. In summary, what Ms Khan is talking about women wanting to be with men who give them time and attention, even if they are not very wealthy, sounds good in theory, but is never seen in reality. Women love to bemoan that their man doesnt give them time or attention, while sitting in a large mansion!

[@Christobar777]

Youve been with this one and that one what happens when the right one comes along

[@jankurcek3717]

A friend of mine is just doing the red flag program right now....cannot stop it

[@bobbyjames4300]

Woman today have far to many red flags and the gamble to settle down with one is very high risk. You just can’t take that chance. She loves you now but what about tomorrow ? Don’t listen to their nonsense. Carry on gentleman.

[@SirBrucie]

Damn, but what if she is loving and caring?

[@Son-of-Krypton]

Nailed it 👍🏼

[@bobbyjames4300]

@@SirBrucie it’s like that before you put the ring on their finger , it truly changes over time. They love that control and are in a winning position after you say “ I do “ . Listen to older men , they will tell you the same story. Peace bro. 😎

[@Otsutsukis]

​@@SirBrucie men are often blinded by their own lust.. Just that goes and everything appears clear

[@ShawnLofty]

So on point Sadia just good stuff

[@thetruther954]

You and Dr. Besler. She would not picture with me riding in a Corvette waving at the people walking on the street. And she insisted I always call her “doctor”. In my family, beauty was an answer. The successful socialite would give the life a hard working steel worker could never. It’s a woman thing, I don’t claim to understand it. But just a single friend or single doctor. If I was not beautiful myself, at least I knew someone who is. It provided comfort. Like filling in the missing piece so I could go on living. “Beauty, yeah I got that. No problem over here.”

[@meme-zv7kw]

Wow she is making good points

[@markb4595]

Ok, I've confronted my weak past, spent years changing my life, now im healthy with good boundaries, good life, friends, active etc. I recognize red flags and say no. In all of that, I'm having trouble meeting healthy women to share a healthy loving and meaningful relationship.....What am i missing?

[@kamilmusalat]

Probably meeting and interacting with lots of them....

[@josephpasquarella2123]

Money does not generate sexual desire or attraction, and the only real relationship a man will be fulfilled in is with a woman who has sexual attraction and desire for him. end of debate. Idk how many more men need to get this through their skull.

[@adamasimolowo8285]

It’s not a hard concept to understand.

[@paulmcnamara9272]

She is so wonderful and always right.

[@marcin_peta-F-W-Z]

She said wrong about RED PILL !!! Women is not your enemy! It says only a rules of this game!

[@Brother_hood35]

Understanding Male attraction: Pulse. ✅️

[@caryg4638]

I absolutely love this woman’s honesty and wisdom. Never seen a woman so spot on.

[@alphapimp0073]

She is not spot on

[@umarlatif4251]

Honestly not honesty 😂

[@ImaginaryShadows1]

The things I learn over the years. Having lots money isn’t a bad thing. You can tell which women are red flags and green flags.

[@kylegreaves1308]

I need to see her debate Myrone

[@TheMississauga333]

i know right

[@enochdedifyer01]

Or Tate

[@HerveMendell]

A perfect example of this is the video by Madonna called "Express Yourself" or "Express Himself," something like that. It came out in the late 80's and it was shown in a cultural studies class at University. It was hailed as an example of female empowerment under the "patriarchy." Now that I have been red-pilled I see it in a whole new light. In the video Madonna is just lounging around in the lap of luxury wearing a skimpy little dress. She does nothing, but is a kept woman. But she's bored because her husband doesn't "express himself" whatever thst means. (Maybe because he's working 80 hours a week running his business) So Madonna cheats with him with a hot young stud who is working in the factory. This was presented as an act of empowerment in the class (UCSC) because it was just so unfair that the older man who was funding her lifestyle didn't "express himself."

[@danyaanbostic1778]

She has women logic great to see your mind alot of times don't override your nature

[@SunnyFrosty-h8j]

I love Ms.Khan she is the best, although at the end she was talking about black pill not red pill.

[@agrover5]

Assuming the statement that beautiful women and rich men are cheated the most. Can we similarly classify who cheats the most, is it the same category or different (rich women and handsome men)?

[@steventheartist7667]

Money.....doesn't keep people together, cars,....house.....its always back...to the basic......respect and love and holy spirit......read the book of GENESIS....

[@mattvalor9640]

So accurate. Van Sadia just be wrong in my eyes for one minute?

[@alexs983]

She is right my wife hates men who work to much and wants my attention looks get you access

[@shubhamjain248]

Great video! Thanks.

[@elasticharmony]

I am hundred percent one of those kind of men, who value beauty and sex . I have no problem with a woman i can find those traits in but otherwise set alone working. Other guys might question me because I do not have a girl friend but they dont know who ive been with. I am what you might call devoted and it has worked out for me, but ive realized nothing but that is the best. My bros would say why dont you have a girl friend and i say , i am saving my self for Victorias secret.

[@dardaissangya6958]

Keeping a woman who dont like you is hard than getting her.

[@Imhotep397]

This is why paying for it makes sense. Get your needs met and leave, until you’re ready to slow down.

[@wgw808]

I think she’s talking about black pill or she’s lumping all mens groups together like incel, mgtow, red pill, etc,,,, From what I’ve seen of red pill content they suggest better yourself like get into shape, grooming, dating strategies, etc… Not trying to get the 9 and 10 but even average or above average women.

[@tailsnightmare003]

Careful with the words you speak, not all black and white, it takes discernment, both ways.

[@Ausnapify]

Women will choose anything. End of story & discussion.

[@Cee_Eff]

So long as the hot chemistry is there...and most likely trumps/overrides red flags

[@Blondiee777]

No not true. There is a saying about choosing the fireplace instead of the fire. My husband was and is the fireplace. Warm and stable.

[@LoveFaithLive]

​@@Blondiee777Ahhh so lovely to hear🤗 God bless your marriage 🙏

[@CenationTroop]

Choose anything? Please explain

[@baisinbu98]

NOT TRUE. 😂

[@khaledabed4441]

Sorry but alot of what she says , Red pill also confirms ! Yes i disagree with some of his ideas, however, red pill DOES blame the men for their short comings and not always women!🤷‍♂️

[@PeterMasalski93]

Sadie Khan is unmarried, childless, and does nothing of the things she preaches. She was a 304 in Dubai, and has no formal training and never studied at the university level as a psychologist.

[@Devastator123]

All may be true but I have given up on dating! My experience as of late is a lot of bad moral women!

[@olaxajayi]

I love the choice of words, “as of late”

[@amandag2115]

It is unfortunate that there is alot of immortality out there, but there are good ones, watch their conduct, speech and way of dressing 🙏 tells you a lot about a lady

[@brianprice5152]

Love is the cure, sex is a disease, wanna be healed, or ill Prevention is the best remedy ❤

[@raywhitehead730]

My job, my car, my apartment my money. Yea, I got it.

[@TigburtJones]

The reason women pick men: money

[@vkt5576]

Jesus Christ I needed this she's great

[@cryptosquall3535]

This is what's been spoken in the manosphere forever but since there's a woman regurgitating that same info more people pay attention.

[@callyeboah4933]

Oh God, grant me this wish... Kevin Samuels and this Lady on one podcast show

[@nolang4495]

I disagree on making men weaker on red pill

[@kc270352]

all they do whine and complain

[@meme-zv7kw]

She made good points but her she sounds red pill her advice is red pill so red pill doesn't make men weak

[@ethosterros9430]

​@@kc270352there's a lot to whine about

[@adivasigane2023]

The fact that nobody talks about the book Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance.

[@zukzworld]

So true!

[@dawudabdul-malik4417]

I disagree with her especially in the modern world women are choosing the guys with money so respectfully she's being disingenuous and dishonest in general women desire security

[@TheMississauga333]

but remember its never her fault lol

[@carloferretti8956]

Na bro those men are getting cheated she’s right, they will cheat on you for a more phenotypical man. Stay in your lane

[@KDart-ev3cg]

Money is more important.Everything is valueless infront of money 😁😁😁

[@NeilPinto-b2x]

It is not easy

[@subhramchakraborty6017]

I want to ask her , what are the materialistic/ non materialistic qualities an woman searches for in a man before falling for him?

[@marketer-yy]

1:45 lady: you might be trying but men in poverty are not getting “women they can’t get without money”

[@ΣτέφανοςΛυγούρας]

When money 💰 talks, women listen.

[@intellectualtalks2332]

Mam youe smile is ❤and your knowledge is awesome

[@kennethmark6088]

This woman kicked against Red Pill teachings and still went ahead to reiterate and enforce it - have boundaries and don't be a weak man, isn't that some of the teachings of Andrew Tate?

[@mikeymystic3030]

Sadia,,,, I love you,, come soon to see me in Jamaica,,,

[@miteshmakwana1619]

Hello Sadia, I enjoyed watching you video. I would love to have a coffee and a conversation with you one day. 😀

[@RaulGuzman-jo3nr]

Let me tell u something I can be perfect n some women just are never happy so it's k letting a women go was the best for me

[@Christobar777]

Wanting normalcy no games whatsoever just Love not dilusional Love

[@seankay8137]

It does not matter if you are rich or poor, a woman will still cheat if that's her personality and has low moral values. Sadia thinks she's an expert but in reality, she really hasn't got a clue what she's talking about.

[@akihiro88]

That dude is one of those dudes she’s talking about for sure. 😂

[@cryptosquall3535]

That sucks, I wonder if it crossed his mind.

[@dko_binging]

Sheeeesh.....Facts !

[@brettbodie9191]

Amarapali

[@gurugamer8632]

But they are all after money 😂

[@eriksacra9789]

They‘re after the most valuable thing.

[@lancemarchetti8673]

Brilliant

[@pratik6342]

What happened to Tom? He used to be healthy looking and muscular...🤔

[@joshuawatson3855]

I don't agree on "red pill, creates weak men" she clearly hasn't heard of or watched: ask an older man channel; Paul is a Man who has been married and divorced twice and he is in his 60s *I'm saying this part for the gents because no disrespect to this lady in the video but women advising on men's behaviour and the outcomes are not similar or can be compared to what Paul talks about in his videos, simply put he is a man talking about manly stuff that women don't see or understand what we go through as men. I'd rather take serious notes from an older man who has lived experience in the field of life than a psychologist/therapist who is paid to tell you half truths imo

[@TaiChiRehab]

Not true. If he likes beauty and loves her he won’t stray.

[@kellygreenii]

Nope. Beautiful women get cheated on for the same reason rich men get cheated on. You are selection for mates where the competition is fierce. …and the path of least resistance (simply getting another partner when you get frustrated) is rather easy to access. It’s why people say, “If you marry for money you will eventually earn every penny” about rich men… …and they say, “Nines and tens are public property” about beautiful women. Each wields a level of power that is corrupting and few have the character to resist that influence. Namely to sleep with lots of women if you’re a rich guy…and exchange that beauty for wealth if you are a beautiful woman.

[@Bigdave123]

More Work = No quality Time for the Women,😆 Corporate sector destroyed marriage lifes of Men, by over burdening work.

[@JosephTmiceli]

I think you should make ASMR videos.