Understanding Human Behavior

[@GiselleSali]

i can never get enough of Robert Greene's content, whether its books, youtube, tiktoks, short videos, interviews, podcasts.. im 24 years old and this man has changed my life completely, i have been abused by narcissits all around me all my life, because of your books i finally know how to get myself out of situations at work, with family, and other relationships.. a big huge thank you Robert, you truly are my idol.

[@Sl33zytheclown]

I'm 30 and he has changed my life. I also can't get enough of his content. Everything he puts out just makes sense. I hope his wisdom will guide me. You have a great journey ahead and you're ahead of your peers. Good luck with all your endeavors.

[@GiselleSali]

@@Sl33zytheclown thank you so much for that, I wish you the best on your journey too!

[@Adhil_parammel]

Ask chat gpt you will get satisfied

[@montanasky2253]

He is amazingly insightful

[@tannerengemann8471]

Stg

[@zenbumblebee]

Remember that it's not always narcissism behind a fake smile, sometimes people are going through stuff and are putting on a brave face.

[@littlelily4]

That's true You're right I've noticed this too

[@kap1526]

Is this the only thing you got from the video? This "remember.." can be said about anything

[@fatmabahri1315]

It boils down to context in my opinion. A fake narcissistic a smile Is different from a smile that conceals pain. You can tell.

[@yb9812]

Also people with autism have numb facial expressions and their eyes may look dead but this are the most honest people.

[@pinotwinelover]

Great point that's a very great point. That's my girlfriend right there capable of darkness but when she smiles, it's to cover the pain.

[@melodieboshi7754]

Energy doesn’t lie, always trust what you feel !

[@SkylarSparkles-p9h]

Yessssssss 500000000%

[@Itsyourboyvio]

I wish my gut ain't right but his energy towards me shows it all

[@YesakBigG]

Instinct 😭😭

[@thenewtowncryer]

really...you've never had an experience where what you felt so strongly about and was certain of was wrong?

[@jlopez0027]

Intuition

[@histiming144]

Sometimes a fake smile, wanting to leave a meeting early, being self focused, etc, are defensive mechanisms displayed by people suffering from severe anxiety. People with anxiety disorders like OCD are not narcissistic, they are stuck in a horribly tormenting cycle of severe anxiety and hyper self focus. Just something to consider as an alternative possibility.

[@Vargolis]

Unfortunately it’s a byproduct of living in an unauthentic society which disregards painful emotion (anxiety, fear, low mood etc) as wrong. Until society accepts these things as part of the human experience it will be difficult not to wear masks occasionally which get in the way of genuine encounters with the people you meet

[@histiming144]

@@Vargolis I agree

[@kevinbaconwasntinfootloose1742]

It also could mean they don't like you but don't want to be rude.

[@mistymenou6709]

LITERALLY!!!! People think commonly ppl are just evil but ppl just a product of their environments, childhoods, families, experiences past, present, potential future. It’s no excuse every single time, sometimes people just literally disconnected in a certain way that it will effect them in different ways

[@charlesh817]

I find as of late people are becoming more and more self absorbed, selfish and fake. I think there are about maybe 15% of humanity that are still genuine (diminishing) and the rest are in a 'businessship' not a 'friendship' as I call it. It's really sad for the genuine ones. That's why alot of them disconnect as it's too painful and disheartening to keep getting trampled on and become socially awkward, anxiety, phobias etc etc

[@andredelacerdasantos4439]

Getting a fingertip feel for social interactions is absolutely essential for seeing through people's verbal deceptions and that's only possible by getting yourself out there and interacting with other humans. You can read books about non verbal cues and they definitely help, but only practice and trial and error over time will give you the actual power of accurately reading people.

[@EmbraceTheStruggle24]

Well yes, especially considering a lot of people throughout history probably had to do the same to accomplish all sorts of things.

[@erinhappy-go-lucky5040]

I am often quiet and observe people, to see how I can connect with them, and get a feel for who they are. I work in Special Education and it is part of my job. Without building relationships, it’s makes working with kids a bit more challenging. I have fallen into the trap of thinking that I could read people’s non-verbal cues and have made many mistakes along the way. It’s difficult sometimes to fully discern what is exactly going through another’s mind without asking them. Sometimes our own projections cloud our interpretations.

[@4lugan]

This guy inspires me, he became succesful after the 48 laws of power. He wrote it when he was in his late 30’s. I am 37 years old and starting new businesses, it had a slow start but now it is going well. Hopefully it will take off soon, seems it will be. His books are amazing.

[@SiriNoloc1012]

Yes hes amazing, I consider him my greatest mentor. First read his work at 17, now I’m 36 & working on some creative projects that are truly purpose driven. And I have a sticky note on my calendar that says “ Robert Greene did it at your age!” Lol. It’s literally the most inspirational thing to me.

[@OldSchoolBaller]

Listen, it doesn't matter what age you are. You can achieve early success and be bored with life at 30. You can struggle financially and something might click when you're 60 and become millionaire. As long as you have that drive, you will be fine and the Universe will eventually reward you. It's all about belief...

[@ashleygresham171]

Good luck with your business!

[@BengisuAyse]

all the best to you and your endeavors!! go you!!!

[@orls9068]

That's great. Best wishes with your business, what is it? I am 33 and it was so good to hear about him at 38, was like oh I can become successful it's not too late, he's great

[@cherylejenkins2390]

I wish I had discovered Robert Greene years ago. I am consciously trying to read this second language in people now, and it would have saved me a lot of heartbreak years ago, when I found out my friend was really not my friend. Thank you Robert for your books and videos!

[@azhivago2296]

Just remember many people never learn this stuff, so you're still ahead of the curve and can learn from past mistakes!

[@greatestever7623]

most people are fake

[@marymotherofgod4861]

Same there r sick dangerous ppl out here 🙏🙏

[@EmbraceTheStruggle24]

Better late than never. I didn't discover Robert Greene right away either.

[@catatafish22]

dw, these things are only learned through experience. I always profiled people through the second language, but my folly was having too much compassion. Most toxic people are manipulative because they suffered trauma and were raised in poor environments. I used to always give pass because I understood why they were toxic. Even if you knew about this concept, it's likely you still would've fallen prey to the toxic ones because knowing is only half the battle. Learning how to deal with toxic people can only come through experience.

[@karmenrichardson7289]

I had a situation with people recently. And I am not hurt by them but it made me think, how important it is to have a good relationship with yourself, with all its flaws and good things. That that’s the first place you come home to. Always be warm and settled with yourself. Than you can travel the world save!❤️

[@duttonmorgan33]

Hey Karmen 👋 What's up Can I ask you a question..?

[@EmbraceTheStruggle24]

Yes this is definitely an amazing sentiment ^_^

[@smc1942]

I'm 56. I've spent the past decade reading books about Human Behavior. Talking with professionals, etc. In all my research to better understand people, I've learned it's impossible! In spite of what the books say, the pros say, etc. People are beyond understanding. Beyond reason! The only way I found to reduce stress is isolate myself as much as possible. I haven't found anyone worth the stress they give. As George Washington said, _"It is better to be alone than to be in bad company."_

[@ChrisSainw]

*Oh_Thankyou.* _____________ *🆙🆙.📥.⤴️:❤.*

[@spicy-peach]

People are meant to be experienced, not understood. 🦋

[@deeetherton445]

I have found very few people that I can say I tolerate well.

[@evedelgado2345]

😆😆 Bless your soul. These words ring true.

[@juliecostello42]

I had a shared lunch shift with my coworker, I was definitely early every time because I would never cut into someone else's lunch time. You should always try to offer things to people because graciousness is kind and proves love. Life is difficult, get your coworker the tea they like or try to do something nice. Even the ones who are angry have a backstory that you don't understand. Help is too under rated

[@freeagent_girl23]

Robert, I cannot thank you enough for the EXAMPLES you gave us. Thank you. Everyone says this, says that, gives quotes from books, but never examples.

[@blondspike74]

This is key to life! You can be the best carpenter; but if behind the facade there’s trouble, then someone who can read you will not employ you.

[@Andygb78]

Then that is their problem for being shallow. You should be judged by what you do, not how you appear, as people can fake geniality & charm.

[@quintineluke2008]

Im really a big fan of Robert Greene,his work has changed my life ,personally I faced alot trauma when I lost my Dad which made me Isolate myself from people and kept viewing the world as a bitter place and this took a toll on my social relationships with people,I would try and get new friends but I would suddenly break the relationship not because something bad happened but I would always have an illusion someone would abandon me(as my Dads death) so i would abandon them first before they abandoned me so my social relationships wasn't great .Ever since I read the laws of human nature ive started understanding what motivates people's actions and stopped bieng personal and self absorbed with people , i also noticed I'm very empathetic and im able to read peoples emotions which makes me avoid saying things that can hurt people and this has taken a whole dynamic in my relationships.THANKS ROBERT GREENE

[@jendai79]

People watching and observing human behaviour has been one of the most valuable skills I’ve learned in my life.

[@ChrisSainw]

*Oh_Thankyou.* _____________ *🆙🆙.📥.⤴️:❤.*

[@jasonchapman3094]

You have changed my life Robert. Not matter what books I buy , I’ll immediately finish it and always return to your books Thank you for your intellect good sir

[@kleonikitzovara]

This person, he could be talking about anything and I'd still listen to him patiently. Such a good speaker. Calm, gets the message through with just enough words, his videos are masterclasses not only for the ideas he is sharing, but the way he talks about them.

[@Thisonedoesnothaveahandle]

Wish this great man could give the world his analysis on everyday's news. We really need more content from him. History cannot forget this man's masterpieces. May whatever the power is out there protect and bless him

[@SN-wz5ls]

I love Robert’s contents so far.. he hasn’t disappointed me so far with is intelligence, respect, selflessness, wisdom..

[@Fonch117]

Vanessa Van Edwards knows and teaches this stuff well. Once you get good at spotting microexpressions and understand their meanings then it really helps to reveal what they are thinking and feeling at the moment despite how charming their words may sound.

[@Lord_Winston]

Correct her book is bestseller by now

[@AmazianLinsation82]

I also know an Edward Van Venessa, fantastic bullsh*tter

[@ew2b]

procrastinating work could also be due to anxiety, when people are introduced to something new or when they're asked to do something they don't like.

[@Fonch117]

George Will lololol Robert Greene pulled no punches on this guy. He straight up called him out. Respect.

[@leelovesgod]

This guy gets it in spades... A gift to humanity... Thank you!

[@Jack-lg2ih]

I could almost listen to Robert all day everyday. So wise!

[@GSR-oh3ng]

Goodstuff! He has a very relaxing and calm voice which makes it easy for me to listen to it’s kind of like psychology and asmr at the same time!

[@Manny123-y3j]

You're a living legend, Mr. Greene. Always appreciate and love hearing your thoughts and can't wait for you next book. Thank you.

[@ibraheemmonks8866]

After reading some of the comments about some signs don't necessarily show something about someone's character like narcissism due to other hidden factors such as social anxiety, going through a tough time etc for example a fake smile, I guess the solution to this is you have to analyse someone's gestures and body language over a certain period of time to get a holistic understanding of them and to create a more certain understanding of their character and personality. If someone shows patterns over time and repeats the same things thats the jack pot, if they do things randomly or periodically that is unusual to them then you can dismiss it as being caused by something outside of their usual personality. I have lived with a Narcissist for the past 18 months and only now have I realised for certain they are one after essentially analysing their actions over the past year and a half. I wasn't certain before and didn't want to make any unfair assumptions, however now due to seeing repeated patterns I am 100% certain they are. Be careful not to jump to conclusions too soon without making a proper judgement and analysis of someone over a reasonably long period of time. Humans are complex, and although we may show signs you could occasionally get things wrong or read into something the wrong way. Just a piece of advice.

[@bfisherful]

This info is a confirmation to my study and findings watching narcissist and dysfunctional/toxic individuals/families. It's spot on. I've found myself not being liked because of the ability to read behavior (not get stuck on words). Toxic people hate when they can't manipulate you.

[@EmbraceTheStruggle24]

This is incredibly accurate on so many levels.

[@privatepo5876]

It’s kinda nice because they become avoidant when you are around. However sucks that they just focus their negativity to drain someone not self aware

[@catatafish22]

Spot on. When you have the ability to read between the lines of a manipulator you instantly become radioactive to them. They see you as a threat which must be eliminated. My friend had a manipulative partner, and right off the bat she recognised I was the type who saw past her phony attempts to come off as friendly and compassionate. I felt from her a mixture of disdain and fear. _Distain_ because I refused to put up with the toxicity, and _fear_ because this was a threat to her. I copped a barrage of subversive tactics to try and chip away at my confidence (the same way she would chip away at the confidence of everyone around her). In the end, she drove away a large portion of her friends, including her partner - my best friend... because they finally got sick of the toxicity. God it was a relief to finally get my friend back after it all finally finished. The key to dealing with toxic people is to have faith in your judgement, always re-assess your judgement because accuracy is very important. Especially if you're dealing with a smart manipulator. Always respond with body language which indicates you're not buying into the facade, and _don't get stuck on words_ - language is the only weapon of a manipulator. If you call them out with language, they'll find a way to twist your words and turn you in to the bad guy (you can't fight fire with fire). Silence is their achillies heel.

[@saragoldberg1863]

"Radioactive"...hahaha

[@catatafish22]

@@saragoldberg1863 hehehe it’s true! We’re their kryptonite haha

[@festuseguavoen5678]

Robert always nails it. He is full of wisdom.

[@fox_trot]

Wow, thanks a lot Robert Greene. You can never have the full picture on how you changed my life, for the best ofcourse. And I think I speak for all your fans when I say we are loving these shorts, that you started making on a specific topic not long ago on KZbin. Please do keep them coming and let the whole world understand each other better. Like a lot lot better. Thanks infinity and hope your live with Ryan Holiday is going to be uploaded for those of us who don't have the chance to see both of you but are very very interested in you both. Again thanks infininity. God Bless You.

[@SiriNoloc1012]

Yes love the shorts! They’re excellent!

[@stuartmarsden4142]

This guy is so clued up about human behaviour it’s scary, loved this so much

[@ChrisSainw]

*Oh_Thankyou.* _____________ *🆙🆙.📥.⤴️:❤.*

[@thenewtowncryer]

nah

[@julianterris]

The 48 Laws of Power is one of THE great books. #ThankYou 🏆

[@thenewtowncryer]

what did you get out of it? I can't wait to hear what I anticipate to be weak sauce...go ahead...explain what you got out of it that so powerful...I'm waiting....

[@philippawallace-dunlop5582]

I Love every word you say, and am noticing recently how tired you’re look at times. Please stay safe in your own boundaries holding to self kindness and protection first knowing we are all eternally enriched by your gift to humanity. I pray you stay well, rested, happy & loved, giving only when your cup runneth over so you’re not giving us even a breath of your much needed life blood in any times of greater personal need. Bless you kind soul & may God/life/love keep you safe always. X

[@SamStone1964]

Robert had a stroke in 2018. A bee sting caused a blood clot. He has talked about it in a number of interviews shown on KZbin.

[@MC-pg2ko]

To quote Mark Twain : “Action speaks louder than words but not nearly as often.”. I always believed everything you need to know about a person is in their behaviour but that hasn’t stopped me from feeling bad or questioning how my own behaviour may have contributed to someone behaving badly towards me. As an overly sensitive person, I go to extreme lengths not to tread on peoples toes. And even when I know I did nothing wrong, it doesn’t stop me doubting and questioning myself. This is the first time I am here listening to Robert Greene and feeling I have found the missing pieces to the puzzle. I can’t wait to read his books and to listen to more of his content. Thank you!

[@Euphoric-tracks]

Robert Greene doesn’t get the respect he deserves. His books changed my life

[@SiriNoloc1012]

Same! He should be a global household name! He’s just brilliant.

[@karentaylorsmells]

I believe he does, look at all the love he gets on this platform as one example

[@4chanUser403]

How

[@thenewtowncryer]

@thenewtowncryer 0 seconds ago what did you get out of it? I can't wait to hear what I anticipate to be weak sauce...go ahead...explain what you got out of it that so powerful...I'm waiting....

[@nobodynowhere21]

I think kids who had alcoholic or unstable parents have a knack for this communication -- an apparently preternatural ability to sense the subtle nonverbal communication layer. It's not supernatural and it's not mind reading, it's a survival skill born from an early age. Unfortunately these same kids grow up often having unresolved trauma but if that can be overcome they will have a sort of "gift" -- born from pain.

[@orls9068]

I agree, I went to a therapist and she explained to me that the dysfunctional experience with my mam, put me in the fight or flight response a lot, hearing certain noises, the way she opened the door. Anticipation... Looking to see her mood before her words, looking for indicators for how the interaction would proceed.

[@cosimavonliebenau8317]

@@orls9068 I know this so well. The hyper vigilance around my alcoholic mother

[@claudiamanta1943]

It makes sense. Nonetheless the abuse continues when they become adults and have all sorts of labels from those around them, such as ‘too sensitive, lacking awareness, you’re damaged goods’ etc. These labels really help.

[@be3rryy]

💯💯

[@cindytram471]

You’ve learned these skills as child from observing people. Kid needs to be out more and social more. Drama movies helps too. Kids need to connect to dots by themselves. This generation is terrible with TikTok and social media.

[@iamfrankcaceres]

Robert Greene is a great example of hope

[@NaturalEarthTones]

It took a lot of pain to get here Mr. Greene grateful for you every day. Thank you for your suffering as it helps ease my pain.

[@ChrisSainw]

*Oh_Thankyou.* _____________ *🆙☝️🆙.📥.⤴️❤.*

[@ramashakaroun2863]

I was just reading the book, Robert Greene is awesome. Much respect and appreciation ❤️

[@RickyWiild]

Is this from The Laws of Human Nature?

[@ramashakaroun2863]

@@RickyWiild Yes

[@haroldi.6450]

This made me aware of my own flaws, thank you Robert

[@SecretEyeSpot]

I love Robert Greene's ideas and way of making arguments in his books. I wish that we could get him some pre production eqp so we can hear him as clear as possible

[@susza89]

How is Mr Robert not a bigger celebrity? You see the likes of Andrew Tate... in the media but not people that bring value to the world. So greatefull for all these books. Literally life changing. Wish you all the best Mr Robert 🙏

[@Sl33zytheclown]

Andrew Tate says the same things as Robert Greene. Except his version is palatable for Generation Z. Tate is also all over tik tok. As Mr. Greene stated in the laws of power. One must get with the times.

[@susza89]

@@Sl33zytheclown Im not a big Tate follower but hes 50/50 from what Ive seen. 50% introspective and correct but the other 50% is crap like women are property and so on... (I imagine its controversy to boost views) More famous =/= better. Especially nowadays when society is so degenerated.

[@jayden7951]

@@Sl33zytheclown He's also a master at courting attention

[@mat7083]

There was a commenter that didn’t like Andrew Tate and commented on her dislike. Naturally, others replied and pushed back. One of them asked her if she was “fatherless”. Of course, she felt entitled to her opinion and pushed back on every commenter that replied. Yet, she found one commenter smoking a 🚬. The commenter asked what does he mean when he does this, to which he replied he was merely smoking. She scoffed at the commenter smoking, telling him to “BrEaThE AiR!”, but the smoker was unmoved and told her she was upset. She obviously was anxious to hear the smoker’s opinion, but gave the illusion that she was in a good mood. So, the commenter decided to test the smoker and asked him why she indeed was upset. Several minutes later, the commenter apologized to the smoker upon hearing his explanation and said he was right, but the smoker felt no need for an apology, but advised her not to let petty comments disturb her peace of mind. Both commenters left in good terms.

[@inaciasilva2024]

I also don't get why people like Andrew so much. He seems like a narcissist

[@msdsamo]

I really enjoyed this conversation, Robert. I just found out about you on NYE. I’m a bit late in discovering you and I just bought all of your books. My goal for 2023 is to learn a lot from you because I just like the way you present your thoughts. So clear, concise, and thoughtful-not a lot of word salad. I spent a lot of time trying to understand Jordan Peterson. While I do think he’s an intelligent man, I have to say that I get confused by the points he’s trying to get across that his big vocabs have lost their meaning to me. You are my cup of tea. Wishing you a wonderful, 2023, Robert. Looking forward to learning more from you. 🙏

[@myflippinlife181]

I watched this video twice and will prob watch it again. One of the best videos on youtube and prob the entire internet. I can't even begin to describe how valuable Mr. Greene's content is...how valuable he is and can be to everyone.

[@ChrisSainw]

*Oh_Thankyou.* _____________ *🆙🆙.📥.⤴️:❤.*

[@AnnO-qk8ep]

Don't confuse with ppl who suffer from social anxiety and other conditions

[@reallygreatchannel]

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[@carolesposito9049]

Mr. Greene is soooo on point. His info is so interesting...He communicates cell easily, yet specifically. I've learned so much and it makes sense. He's got a great voice I just expressions say so much. Great communicator.!!!!💯

[@unerhaben8548]

I just wanted to thank you for your work and for sharing this kind of stuff. You and your great work changed my life to the better and I can't really tell how much I want to thank you. Keep doing what you are doing.

[@danaandthewolf]

So good. Please more of these

[@SindyySinn]

When you talk I went through past relationship and I'm thinking how I was so blind. Totally true about narcissistic behaviour - words, expressions, always late (30mins is still okay, he owns the time). Thank you for your videos and books! Very appreciate your job 🙏🏼

[@ChrisSainw]

*Oh_Thankyou.* _____________ *🆙☝️🆙.📥.⤴️…*

[@mrhaltyme]

Thank you ❤Robert Greene. You changed my life for the better by yours books and videos. They opened my eyes and pulled me of my naiveté about things around me

[@whatsnew.agency]

Robert i love these talks. Please keep doing them, i’m a big fan. Sending you love, health & appreciation from Romania. 🫶

[@cellularrestorationinc3442]

Robert Greene to me is a wake up call, thank you so much, God Bless you!

[@ChrisSainw]

*Oh_Thankyou.* _____________ *🆙☝️🆙.📥.⤴️…*

[@fergon609]

More and so much more of this Please!! I got all your books! I'm Always blown away by your generosity of spirit and kindness of deeds! And no I'm not a big narcissist 😅🙏🏽

[@eleonorakavaliauskiene3888]

I think you are brilliant person Robert, wisdom and peace radiate from you ❤

[@patrickturk8957]

Human behavior is something to discover

[@thenewtowncryer]

yeah, but it's not that complicated

[@firstmillionmotivation]

Everything ROBERT GREENE. That's all I can say. I have been digesting him and him only for the past 5 days by audio here in Saigon Vietnam. This video has changed everything for me. And he's sooooo right! Thank you SIR!!!

[@alaskaface7147]

Many people have to fake emotions and interactions just to survive in the world. If you’d learned through experience that more than half of the people you interact with are likely to turn and behave like monsters at the drop of a hat, would you be happy to interact with other people, particularly strangers in positions of authority over you? I don’t think so. Unfortunately I’ve learned the hard way to view people from a lens like this guy does for most of my life and let me tell you it does not lend one to a positive outlook on life. I go out of my way to put as much space between me and all others as possible, particularly when it comes to my living space. People are not safe.

[@GgTothemaxx]

This Robert dude has so much to give us. I'm so thankful that he's got these videos put. Amazing tips

[@catatafish22]

Really good info. This is something which I always pay attention to in the people around me. What frustrates me is many don’t learn how to connect on this level, and you end up with a situation where someone views another as this one dimensional judgement based off of their own projection as you said. Some of my friends lack this type of perception… I don’t fault them for it because it takes a certain degree of emotional intelligence and also self awareness which not everyone learns naturally. I think this style of thinking comes more naturally to someone who leans toward intuitive thinking, also those who are higher in neuroticism (which is essentially empathy) - it’s hard to develop this perception for someone who doesn’t naturally possess these traits. The reason it frustrates me is because when it comes to interactions with people who don’t read these cues, it becomes very hard to see eye with them. I know that they’re not viewing me or the people around them as they truly are. They’re just seeing a reflection of their own unrealistic judgement. It also hurts me when I see the people close to me get messed around by narcissists and toxic people who are clearly untrustworthy. I try to warn them not to trust people who I identify as being untrustworthy, but it’s hard to make a case when it’s based off an a priori judgement. The only way for someone to understand is by observing the behaviour themselves. It’s like trying to explain what a tree looks like to someone who has been blind their whole life. Thanks for the video, maybe if I can show this concept to my friends, they’ll learn to recognise these cues themselves.I think if more people learned to think like this it would solve a lot of unnecessary tension and disputes among people. I like that you used 'power' as the carrot too, because this will definitely appeal to the type of person who lacks high level empathy haha. One thing I’d like to tack on - you mention a lack of sensitivity to time tends to indicate a level of selfishness. I’m guilty of this, however the reason is usually because I get stuck day dreaming a lot and I lose track of time because I have A.D.D. and depression/anxiety. I also experience insomnia and I have a really messed up circadian rhythm. So often I'll show up late and miss deadlines because I’m feeling anxious or depressed (especially first thing when I wake up... every day I wake up feeling stressed with a sick feeling in my stomache. I just lie there feeling exhausted while my mind races moving from one negative thought to another). When I show up late, I understand it comes of as being disrespectful but I just can’t help it sometimes. I feel terribly guilty because I know I’m letting people down, which often causes me to procrastinate even more due to the added anxiety it causes. When I arrive late due to lack of sleep or anxiety/depression, my friends will call me out on it. I try to explain to them I mean no disrespect and it’s due to my experience with mental issues… the judgement tends to be “that’s still no excuse” and I’m not working hard enough to overcome my personal issues. I understand that this is a projection of their own ideals and they're not being completely uncompassionate because they still tollerate my erratic nature. If I could find a way to overcome this issue I would have done it by now. I’m in my early 30s - old enough to have the awareness that this will only cause problems. There is nothing to gain from wasting mine and other's time. It’s caused so many problems for me and the people around me. I've lost many jobs due to this reason alone, and I can only work freelance remote jobs where I can finish the work in my own time (thank God for remote work and the always expanding IT industry). I'm by no means lazy, I just tend to be at my most productive during odd random hours. A lot of my work gets done at 4am on a weeknight because I can't sleep and surges of motivation come at completely random times of day or night. If I knew how to solve my issues, I definitely would have done it by now. Living like this is hell and I'd do anything to just have a consistent circadian rhythm and not be burdened so often by anxiety which makes me sick to my stomach…I feel misunderstood in a lot of ways, even by the people who are closest to me... just as others would for many other reasons. Anyway… I think the common/conventional judgements on character and behaviour aren’t always what they seem - for instance there’s always a fine line between shyness and rudeness. So I always suspend my judgement when analysing people’s behaviour. We should also be broadening our scope of judgement beacuse things are not always what they seem. Social dynamics are very complicated and I think it’s essential to keep an open mind when profiling people in this way. All things considered, we should all do our best to try and understand the people around us on a deeper level, because being misunderstood hurts and everyone is inevitably misunderstood on some level. Human existence would be must less painful if we all took these ideas onboard; the benefit of learning this kind of analysis isn't just 'power' alone :)

[@davidtriplett8105]

It's not about others it's always about you.

[@catatafish22]

@@davidtriplett8105I was explaining how I resonated with his message. Why would it not be about me?

[@davidtriplett8105]

@@catatafish22 yeah buddy you sound like the problem lol..... What other people know or don't know shouldn't bother you 🤡🤣

[@jcong000]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings

[@MissPriss919]

I have RBF and have been misjudged many, many times despite my overall pleasant demeanor. I am now mindful to wear a slight smile when interacting with others, particularly on Zoom calls. It’s sometimes fake but done with good intentions.

[@ChrisSainw]

*Oh_Thankyou.* _____________ *🆙🆙.📥.⤴️:❤.*

[@trudibarraclough478]

It depends how tired I am. I'm an introvert and neuro divergent

[@upaway8184]

This is so true. I'm totally this way, and I can sense people's truth.

[@ErnestGreen-t4h]

Robert Greene SERIOUSLY keeps it real I admire him about that and sharing his powerful imperative content

[@cyberblackbears]

Thanks for sharing this valuable insight with similar examples we experience. Also, thanks for publishing the Daily Laws, it’s been apart of my morning routine and great way to reflect on the day.

[@silviuandreiiacoban3962]

Any changes in your life by applying the laws?

[@cyberblackbears]

@@silviuandreiiacoban3962 Of course, granting myself to reflect, refocus, and redefine the journey instead of being lost in ocean information overload. Two days that connected them me was "know what you're drawn to and immerse yourself in it; and Embrace your weirdness"

[@GenGenie9118]

I can’t enough of you Robert Greene😊❤️Thank You for Your Masterful Contributions

[@marieobeid]

I like the connection with time, big indicator. Especially in relationships

[@KEITHNICKLOWICZ]

wish Robert knew how much his writing means to people ….. a great writer , mentor , inspiration

[@isaiahexile]

I'm so socially uncalibrated I nearly feel bad even being around people because I just cannot express myself naturally in many of the ways Robert Greene describes. I feel like I have "dead eyes" and fake smiles for absolutely everything, not that I'm a narcissist as I'm extremely empathetic, but I guess I've spent so much time isolated I can't relate to peoples positive emotions outwardly in terms of body language and tone of voice. I've completely agreed with what people have said and they wonder if I'm being sarcastic or not, they can't tell what I'm thinking or feeling, many people assuming I'm mad or irritated when I never am. But I don't have any idea how to fix this either. I feel things so deeply but express feelings so awkwardly.

[@isabellachance3104]

Awe that’s okay! I really like this comment. I used to be the same way until my mom forced my into acting to help, which it did help.

[@avertingapathy3052]

Relatable. Do you notice being treated differently after being alone for a while vs when not? I think lonely people cast some non-verbals like their gait or posture that signals that to others.

[@isaiahexile]

@@avertingapathy3052 It's hard to say, what seems most noticeable is how I feel which I can control usually through my mindset. When I have love and harmony for everyone in my mind people seem more happy to talk to me and seem friendlier. While if I'm a little sad or feeling unwell it's exactly the opposite and people seem to reflect it back at me.

[@jesperhyoty5209]

Man your comment hits hard, I can relate so much. I also feel things very deeply but can't express myself nearly the way I want, it feels like there's a block or something when Im trying to be more expressive and animated. Have you made any progress or found the way to deal with this?

[@isaiahexile]

@@jesperhyoty5209 I've recently started Keto/Carnivore diet and most notably have gave up all sugar and carbohydrates. And working on getting Alcohol and Cannabis removed and reduced respectfully. And I think this is the path in the right direction. Is it the answer I don't know, but I think it's part of it. The amount of health improvements kinda speak for themselves, my mental health is still recovering and I'm still struggling with it, but physically my health IS better than it has ever been in my entire life at 24.

[@stevehoran6132]

100 % agree with this if their is one thing that doesn't lie its body language, and genuine displays of emotions. I also think you need to take into consideration the context that surrounds such because body language can be deceiving in the form of the nuance to the interaction. Context is king socially, and the rules that follows can be interpretation of another person's state. Toxic in one situation is justified in another. Kind and genuine can be a rouse to get power.

[@lashondaward2924]

Amen

[@aaronwimberleymbamsf5776]

Great meditation to start the day=] I love Woody Allen's statement that 90% of life is showing up. I would call this art of non-verbal communication as the remainder of that 10%. I love Robert Greene's body of work, and many people buy books from ex-intelligence officers so that they become fluent in this "language of the body."

[@aileenpippapower5447]

You are a gently spoken genius. Love your videos and thank you so much for sharing your wise, wise thoughts.

[@mannet1994]

this guy is a genius, he is a master of analyzing human behavior. 👏

[@shivamjhaa]

This is one of the most informing videos I've ever watched.

[@ca5958]

i feel like ur entire life is structured on understanding everything in a fundamental level and even though understanding a lot of things can definitely benefit you as a person its inportant to understand the flaws of being too dependent on having a personal hierarchy of understanding can bring you out of alignment with your instincts and natural seemingly pointless tendencies that benefit u in a way that we are not yet developed enough as a culture to understand how and why it benefits us. yet u have been a great contribution to my life. iust felt like pointing this out. have a nice day robert 😄

[@iTz_Plewtoe]

Hey Robert, your book The Laws of Human Nature had and has a huge impact on my life and how I deal and observe people. Thanks so much

[@ChrisSainw]

*Oh_Thankyou.* _____________ *🆙🆙.📥.⤴️:❤.*

[@karentaylorsmells]

Love this kind of content - loads of 'protein' 🧠 and fresh perspectives on the whole 'body language' topic - thank you Robert

[@vikkimae1223]

Phenomenal content!! I appreciate you sharing your work!!!

[@duttonmorgan33]

Hey Vikki 👋 What's up Can I ask you a question..?

[@thenewtowncryer]

what did you get out of it that was phenomenal?

[@mariabarton7647]

Robert Greene I absolutely love your books,your work changed my life in an amazing way. Thank you so much for your wisdom.

[@baturalp1064]

Robert please consider using a good-quality microphone. Great video as always.

[@adityapatnaik7078]

good bye is the best indicator

[@ChrisSainw]

*Oh_Thankyou.* _____________ *🆙🆙.📥.⤴️:.*

[@ericdavenport7120]

I notice a lot of these negative traits in myself and wish to change for the better. I've always wanted to connect with people on a deeper level but my upbringing didn't really gear me towards that path. I've had to discover this news at 31 sadly

[@megansullivan8073]

Dear Mr Greene , thank you for your work, Sir! You are an inspiration! I love your whole vibe and genuine way you express your wisdom. It shows that you embarked on this journey with true intentions to educate and help others. Thank you for your great efforts and valuable contributions to humanity. We are grateful! 😊

[@Userforeverneverever]

I love this man

[@handlemeifyoucan144]

This is why I love Robert Greene and the books

[@Blizzhobbs]

Don't assume someone is a narcissist just because they have dead eyes. Sometimes someone is just depressed or they had a really bad day. It's hard to feign interest and excitement when you are miserable. You need many different cues to determine what a person is like. Of course the other things he said are important as well, collectively. Be careful making judgement and assumptions about who a person "is". They can often times be completely wrong.

[@clairejohnson6522]

Was just thinking the same. Everything this man has said is spot on about a Narcissists demeanour.However,as you say,facial expressions can also be the result of something internal,such as an illness.I have M.E and a chronic pain condition and when lucky enough to be able to get out of the house i can barely raise a smile and have to keep interaction with people to a minimum.Depending on the severity of my condition my facial expressions reveal the torture I'm going through internally,not how my character actually is.Hope you are well.🕊

[@jacklan4103]

Perhaps, but it's always better to assume the worst case scenario and not be taken advantage of than to assume that their just having a bad day.

[@amirreza8574]

Thank you Robert Greene, your ideas and interpretations are mind opening.🌹

[@s_b123]

Amazing video! You're among my favourite authors to read and hear. Thank you so much for sharing so much knowledge 🙏🏻

[@ShaniOnSinai]

I appreciate these talks. I always will.

[@moosa4104]

I am trying to figure out your mood as I watch this video. You're calm, you don't talk about yourself but you talk to the viewer, you use word "you" alot. You not in a hurry(confident) and you smile a little at the end.

[@maykr-]

was doing the same but with MBTI, cognitive functions lol Analytical feeler .. Or later learned/developed FE? Alot of TE & intuition to explain such abstract concepts with such description.. No over explanation, quick, easily understood & very to the point XNTJ???

[@boudicca7181]

Thank you Robert--you are so intuitive into human behaviour. You have helped me very much.

[@roukfalgerie]

The best youtube channel

[@thenewtowncryer]

nah

[@emerwatchorn6971]

Body language and intuition are key. And sense moods and emotions, yes!

[@littlebird3495]

I’m a female with Asperger’s syndrome, I mask my symptoms fairly well (I think) but more often than not, too much eye contact and prolonged goodbyes are very difficult for me. I can love the people I’m with, but feel completely overwhelmed by them too. It might look like I don’t care, but I do.

[@houstonbred]

prolonged goodbyes are very hard for me as well. completely understand.

[@HLB512]

Yes. Since we don’t use the same expressions or body language as other people we are often misjudged.

[@catatafish22]

I'm on the spectrum too, it sucks because our behaviour aways comes off as rude and aloof. There's a fine line between shyness and rudeness. We'll always be misunderstood as being cold and emotionless, but we're really not. We just show our compassion in different ways. Also, look on the bright side - we're neurodivergent, so we see the world in a unique way. Did you know a large portion of people who work in STEM are aspies? Unique thinkers have a great impact on the world. I think many creative geniuses are on the spectrum as well because neurodivergence = creative thinking. Be proud of your uniqueness and don't be afraid to be the eccentric one who stands out from the crowd. Most normies wish they were born with the ability to deviate from conventional thinking/behaviour... everyone want's to be special and aspies are special by nature. Embrace it :)

[@alaskaface7147]

Me too. Most normies seem predisposed to misjudge me because I often have to manually control my facial expressions and tone of voice in social interactions. To get around this, I simply try to spend more time with others like me who don’t mind that I don’t give the “right” cues, who just understand my intentions naturally because they’re the same way inside. It makes for much easier, deeper, and more meaningful relationships 🥰

[@jeandesisnards5097]

So relatable! Thanks Robert! I started going through a dark time and what you said in the above video validified a thought process I have wondered about.

[@tiffanycuevas1660]

Some people are very good at giving the facial expressions that make you think they care or happy for you but they really have other motives. You have to really pay attention to those ones for a well . Sometimes people use that to draw personal things out of you to jab you later with .

[@postmalone62]

Robert has been the greatest thing that's happened in my life thank you for being such a hard worker he truly is the general of the people

[@thenewtowncryer]

what have you gotten from him that's so great/important?

[@Rahul-jp7nu]

It is always the Intuitions, the very guy feeling that u get by talking to people... I learnt it the hard way but honestly... Believe your gut feeling... Believe that intuition which you get about people... Most of the times it's correct actually!!!!... Those non verbal gestures, those actions, those text messages, those little details actually says a lott.. lottt about people....

[@WillieBrooks-g6g]

Excellent Class. ! You learn me something ! You make me better! Many Thanks. Doctor Greene!🎈🎈🎈🎈

[@bridgetbarnett6423]

Omg! This is so true. In order words, we're dealing with alot of fake people. I got rid of that negative energy last year. Great message, Robert. 🤗

[@duttonmorgan33]

Hey Bridget 👋 What's up Can I ask you a question..?

[@wesleypae]

Thank you for positing this video! It Is making me self-reflect , especially about how I say my goodbyes . I never really perceived it’s importance in this way you explained it .

[@tyremanguitars]

I'm just finishing mastery, and have learnt a lot, cheers.