Understanding Intimacy Capacity and Why You Are Fighting for Connection

[@fishstickbio594]

UNWILLING , not capable , …. These are KEY words . Avoid potential for sure because you won’t get the full package you deserve .

[@luckylifer5174]

Just left a toxic dating experience, this explains so much. Thank you for easing my broken heart.

[@RelationShots]

Glad you found some value in it! 👏🏼

[@RelationShots]

I’m likely going to offer my 4 week Dating Detox zoom class in middle to late January so might be worth checking out. Follow @altaredmarriage on Instagram and you’ll know when we announce it

[@ejalltheway2339]

yes! makes a lot of sense and explains the struggles as well--thank you!

[@RelationShots]

Glad it resonated with you! 👏🏼

[@evasccl7846]

Hi Eric!!! So nice to watch one more of your videos! When I started listening to you, I was wondering how can anyone believe such thing??? We are all different and have different upbringing, etc... so it is common sense to expect that difference there, the key to me, like you have already stressed, is to look for someone that has in common the desire and capacity for intimacy, and mind you... dating is the best time to find out all this beforehand, so nobody wastes their time and life away! Thank you!!!

[@RelationShots]

I talk with couples all the time who don’t understand their different needs and capacities for intimacy. Nothin more frustrating than fighting the other person to get something out of them they don’t desire or can’t give.

[@ameenahm.8949]

Does this relate to attachment styles potentially? E.g anxious people need more closeness and avoidant people need more distance?

[@RelationShots]

Absolutely! Those with secure styles often have different needs and capacities as well but for sure with anxious and avoidant

[@jesusmervilus5181]

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