understanding the MARS IN 12TH HOUSE synastry overlay✨ || december astro challenge: day fourteen❤️‍🔥

with the MARS IN THE 12TH HOUSE synastry overlay, it could be that you both immediately form some kind of relationship upon meeting each other, or that only one of you notices the other and you don’t actually connect until later in life. maybe y’all meeting now is from a missed opportunity in a past life as well. but either way, once you have that first solid in person interaction, it’s full steam ahead, no turning back.
the next bump in the road is more for the house person. they’re unconsciously triggered by some action the mars person is taking, and they either start to hate on them for seemingly no reason, or choose the route of keep my friends close and enemies closer. ultimately, the house person needs to process and heal the emotions that come up and understand that for the most part, the mars person has nothing to do with those triggers. if the house person can overcome this process, this can grow into a deeply spiritual connection.
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[@The_Eleventh_Sign]

I had this in a double whammy. Our ending was weird and sudden. Neither one of us understood it tbh.

[@theimaniamanda]

it really do be like that sometimes 😭😭

[@sashaoleksandrafedorenko1335]

What happened?

[@trillatarot6081]

Makes me cry, because i know we are not meant but i've been crying about this person for years since they left my life, he started a family and it crushed me. I don't understand why i cant let this person go.

[@sscorpio777bg8]

Are u mars person

[@reducetheatoms]

She is definitely the mars person ❤️

[@OnyxxRose]

Girl it felt euphoric like you said everywhere was touched 🤭 I’m mars

[@Mjcatsnco]

Literally… was not expecting it. Was supposed to be one and done but now I’m ruined lmao down bad and pissed about it 😩

[@Bellgreene2]

His sun, venus and Mars in my 12th, his moon in my 1st house, my sun in his 8th, Mars in 7th, Venus in 9th and moon in 11th. We met in a dark loud small crowded club, he (the Mars) saw me and just had to come over and wouldn’t leave (not in a creepy way haha) I felt it creep up on me with the intensity, I sort of didn’t really realise how much I felt but was curious whereas he was really on it but downplayed it. And I looked this video up because I’ve been crying all day after asking for some space due to us not living in the same place, just to figure stuff out, and I keep thinking about past lives. I can’t remember what it is but my body does. I’ve been crying and crying and crying. Spooky

[@theimaniamanda]

omg I got the chills reading this. sending love 💕

[@prettyladdiee2261]

12H dominate here… experiencing my first mars/12h synastry. (My first love had Venus in my 12th and I’m very familiar with moon in 12th synastry). Literally met at a house party with nice dim lighting. Took a long time before we could hit the ground running. I’m starting to feel the jealousy - it came up today and honestly I’m surprised at myself… I’m scared with this to be honest but I know I need to keep myself grounded. She said she knew when we first met we had some type of past life connection or that it was gonna be great. Tbh- I didn’t exactly feel that way but as time goes on… I can feel in the back of my mind that regardless of how long or short this will be… I don’t forget her. I have more to say but I don’t wanna word vomit lol. I’m just glad I study astro to help me navigate… I’m definitely afraid of the other shoe dropping😭Enjoyed the video!!!💜

[@theimaniamanda]

omg don't worry about word vomit over here, we love talking about this haha, but yess emphasis on glad i'm studying astro to help navigate cause I feel like i'd be losing it if these things were happening in a connection with someone and I didn't have any reason as to why it was happening 😭 the 12th house overlays are so complex but I can't stay away from them either lolol so glad you enjoyed 💖💖💖

[@Miloddsoi]

i resonate so much with your content! i recently meet someone whose mars perfectly conjunct on my 12th house venus. it was so familiar at first sight, then quickly developed into lust and resentment for my side. yet we still in each other's life, we still observe each other from a distance.

[@gracetshaka6252]

my new favorite channel thank you ❤

[@theimaniamanda]

omggg thank you for being here!! 🥰💞

[@danielledewitt]

I loveeee your videos

[@theimaniamanda]

appreciate you 🥹💖

[@lunarlass5033]

My Mars, Venus and Jupiter all in his 12th house. We've known each other since Kindergarten and I always harbored a HUGE crush on him, but was terrified of him at the same time. We reconnected via social media 4 years ago, and 37 years later ( yes, you read that right ..) and it was unlike ANY real time, 3D relationship I've ever known. I'm completely obsessed and madly in love and yet after all this time, still have no idea how he feels about me. I even tried distancing myself for 6 months ( I was also going through some health issues...) and less than 24 hrs after I reactivated my account, he was back..and it was just like we never stopping talking. Yes...all this time, 120 miles apart, and we have never met up in person. It's the most intellectual, wild, insane senseless, beautifully deep, and physically sensual connection of my life ..phew! 🔥❤️

[@mary-anneb2614]

You nailed it ! The most accurate description of this placement Ive ever heard.

[@theimaniamanda]

🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿💖 appreciate that!

[@gkirakkxx]

I’m the house person… and also a venus/mercury 12th houser.. this is the most confusing and emotionally draining, psychologically triggering synastry I’ve had with anyone. It’s the worst. Everything happened the exact same way u said it would and … we still keep watching each other in silence. I cannot cut them off and neither can they. 🫠

[@XOXLovely9]

I love your intelligence 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@theimaniamanda]

thank you 😭❤️

[@4n820]

I love your description of 12h dark house parties, music bumping “ hella “ crowded. You must be from the bay lol

[@theimaniamanda]

Lolol I am not from the bay but I’ll take this as a compliment 😂😂

[@XOXLovely9]

His mars is in my 12th 👀

[@gracetshaka6252]

also please do mars in the 5th house next 🙏

[@theimaniamanda]

i gotchu!! 🥳✨

[@zoerose444]

My partner has his Mars in my 12H in Virgo

[@4n820]

I met my mars person in a dark warehouse first day it was only me and her in the room and I was already talking to her asking her if she liked working here.

[@theimaniamanda]

dark warehouse is very 12th house haha

[@wonderalicez]

I have scorpio mars in my 12th met someone for first time who also had a scorpio but stellium in 12th. I was dating a sun scorpio at the time lol. we all happened to be in the same room once so weird

[@gabriellaphillip7095]

okay so question: when's someone's planet falls into one of your houses, would the house person or the planet person be more affected? I assumed the house person but not sure! (in this case my mars in in her 12th house, we both have venus in 5th synastry and sun in 4th synastry/ her mars in in my 3rd) i feel so drawn to her its crazy, but in a good way. It feels so reciprocated. Also I absolutely love your channel and am learning so much from taking notes on your videos!! :)

[@theimaniamanda]

overall, it varies each time whether the house person or planet person is more affected by an overlay but it’s determined by what’s going on in each individual’s chart and also whatever that relationship is meant to teach you at that time. most times, I find that it’s more a matter of perception as to whether you think one party is feeling it more than the other. two individuals def can handle the same energy in different ways but still be feeling the same level of intensity from it. more times than not, both parties are feeling the same level of intensity from an overlay. your synastry sounds like a dream tbh haha love it, and also I’m glad you’re learning!! thanks for being here 🥹💖

[@MjayBaby]

My aunts mars is in my 12th she suddenly became a serious hater , later showed signs of jealousy/envy and now I’m feeling resentment towards her because I’ve called her out before and so have others but she WILL NOT take accountability for shit it’s pissed me off to the point of cutting her off. Always tryna knock me and you can see the saltiness on her face when someone is giving me attention.

[@theimaniamanda]

not the saltiness on her face *scream*. this exactly how this overlay can be tho 😭😭

[@energeticremedies]

So funny 12th house in Leo, hubby is a Leo, and I knew when I met him at camp I was going to marry him,as a kid I felt like I knew him before.

[@theimaniamanda]

that past life connection is so special 🥺💞

[@energeticremedies]

@@theimaniamanda forgot to mention I have stellum in 12th house too 😎

[@rjake0143]

her mars in my 12th house but her mars(cap)also conjuncts my asc(29 degree cap). Would there be more of an attraction with that and would this conjunction still be as strong as a mars conjunct asc in the first house? I couldn’t really find any info on that

[@jaquelinegarduza4468]

What happens if it conjuncts the ascendant (mars conjunct ascendant in the 12th)? Could you explain it please 🙏

[@SherpaxWoman]

Is the house person really feeling it? I am the mars person and with a Pluto conjunct sun dynasty (me Pluto) I really wonder. He is fascinated with another woman who seems to not be so into him as he is into her. So, I wonder.

[@arisoffer9222]

What if both of ourselves mars are in each other's 12th house plus a venus and mercury from each side also in the 12th. Lol what will happen then?

[@minikfare5970]

Does it make any difference if his Mars Conjunct his moon is in my 12th house and trine my Ac, Venus and sun in 1 house?

[@iamjasminedanielle6770]

Double whammy with mars in 12 🤔🤔

[@theimaniamanda]

a little bit yeah 😩

[@alibee7609]

Same 😥🥲

[@Meeshee57]

We have 12th house synastry. My sun is in his, and his Mars is in mine. Our charts have a mostly loving and positive aspects. This is the challenge. We’ve been making it through with good results, just verrrrrryyyyyy slowly. 😂

[@sashaoleksandrafedorenko1335]

Sooo…. This is weird. But I met my crush at a wedding. They asked for my number, I rejected them. They kept on perusing me. We are seeing each other. The intimacy is the best I ever had. Now I started feeling very insecure about our future, even tho all is going well. Feels like I need to do some healing. I am obsessed over them

[@lisakaye3919]

Are you the mars or 12th house person?

[@sashaoleksandrafedorenko1335]

@@lisakaye3919I am the 12th house person. They broke up with me a few days ago. I am heartbroken because I have never met someone like this in my life 😭 I am completely depressed. They are relocating for work for a year and say that long distance will be hurtful. If there is a will there is a way. They are my ideal match, I don’t want to move on without them

[@sashaoleksandrafedorenko1335]

I am the 12h house 😭😭

[@LilBoSkeetE85]

I have this with a girl I'm just now dating after years of hanging out in same friend group. We both have witnessed each other date multiple people. I'm mars she turned me down at first, she was dope so I keep it cool with her. Then I started noticing her mimicking my dance moves, using my lingo. And then randomly after a party she texted telling me she made it home safely "weird". After that random daily text's started. Then I made my mom here we are. Definitely feel like this is connection thaf must be handled with care.

[@leciaro101]

How about meeting at a homeless 😆 I'm the Mars..I believe my Mars in Gemini is conjuncting their ascendant from the 12H by less than 3 degrees.

[@theimaniamanda]

not homeless 😩 but yes that counts!

[@Npisces]

His mars in my 12th house but I have Jupiter there, does it make a difference?

[@theimaniamanda]

it does!! especially if his mars is conjunct your jupiter. it’s much less likely that there’ll be hidden feelings of resentment. if there is some jealousy, it would be more outwardly expressed and joked about, and would dissipate quickly as opposed to lingering underneath.

[@turkeegObble]

What if his Venus & mars is conjunct my moon in the 12th house (in cancer)

[@theimaniamanda]

this feels like an intensely high sex drive/desire in this relationship. can have an on and off factor, but you can both find it hard to separate emotionally. there can be high emotional codependency here where your whole mood for the week will be ruined if the other is upset, especially when it's directed at you.

[@lunajsu]

is this applicable 4 sidereal ovrlays as well ? bc in sidereal, my venus n mars falls in his 12th 🕳️🚶🏻‍♀️ so im wondering if i can watch this as well

[@theimaniamanda]

hmm good question. I haven't done much study with the sidereal zodiac, so I'll go ahead and say no 😶 there's something slightly different with sidereal charts, even tho some are mostly the same when looking at the house overlays. but definitely would have to get a sidereal astrologer to watch these and determine that.

[@cloudycloud4171]

One question I read somewhere that the house person is not sexually attracted to the mars person

[@theimaniamanda]

ooh I have not found that to be true at alll with this overlay. there is def usually heavy sexual attraction on both ends. lack of it would be due to fear of the connection or due to another placement in the synastry.

[@asmrfoodieuk7965]

No, I an the house person and I am very attracted to the mars person.

[@FreezingGoldyLocks]

So… this connection isn’t meant to last? 👀

[@theimaniamanda]

it can last but there will be a low point where the relationship will have to be completely reinvented into something new. most do not survive the transformation, which isn’t necessarily a negative thing. but there are always other things happening in the chart that can balance or support positive and healthy growth with this overlay.

[@Rahelaxm]

Do you think having positive Saturn contacts (moon and Mars trine Saturn, Venus opposite Saturn) is an indicator that this relationship can last?

[@sashaoleksandrafedorenko1335]

@@theimaniamandacan you help advice how this connection can be reinvented ? 😣😭trying to reunite. I am the 12th house he is Mars. I fell so much for them, I never felt this pain before 🥹

[@anamacklis2355]

no thank. you, i prefer mars. in. the 1st lol

[@theimaniamanda]

fair enough 😂

[@anamacklis2355]

@@theimaniamanda lmao

[@Rwany-369]

Gurl, I’m shocked 😢, I’m the Mars person , my Mars is Scorpio ♏️, I met him in a nightclub and I could swear that he’s my husband. I don’t know why and how, but I feel I’ve known him for decades not just a month!! Anyway, there’s a lot of shit happening between us. Now I do hate him and love him so much, I decided to put him on a spell just to make him love me and want me more. This is the first time I have wanted to do that to a person!!!🫠

[@Rwany-369]

I never been that obsessed about someone, PLEASE SOS anyone, I need help 😭😭😭

[@michellem737]

Sometimes people are just meant to come into our lives for a specific amount of time to help up grow/learn. I bet that spell will work once you’ve healed and found you don’t have a need for him.