understanding the VENUS IN 12TH HOUSE synastry overlay 🙈 || december astro challenge: day 26 ❤️

the house person can be shocked by the venus person’s reaction in the VENUS IN THE 12TH HOUSE synastry overlay when they have their first fight. mostly, the house person was innocent in their actions and never meant harm, but still, the venus person holds the house person accountable to the highest degree, requiring the house person to have to go into total submission in order to get the venus person back into their lives. the venus person desperately wants the house person, however, they’ll hold out for as long as they need to in order to get the house person to confess their true, raw, and unfiltered feelings.
the venus person in this overlay is notorious for ghosting the house person here. the house person though usually actually really needs this push to communicate their feelings, and so I stand in saying that they need to be the one to resolve or at least open of the line of communication again after the first fight between these two - even though the venus person makes a bigger deal out of it than necessary. but once this happens, it’s equally as important that the venus person reveals ALL that annoyed them. this overlay requires total transparency from both parties. miss one detail and the cycle goes back round and round, and you guys end up connecting and then breaking up for years and years, OR you never manage to reconnect after that first fight because it’s so huge and heated and the issue stays unresolved for the rest of this lifetime, until the next..
i mentioned that this can be a secret relationship and other reasons for that, other than what’s mentioned in the video is, there’s a fear of sharing you with others as if that somehow translates to a greater possibility of losing you to someone else if they see how much you’re worth as well or there’s a fear of claiming the relationship, in case it’s not actually what you think it is, and then it’s just embarrassing and ruins a good relationship for nothing. the venus person is so in love with the 12th house person, they’re initially willing to accept the house person however they can get them, but of course, their true desire is for a relationship. the venus person however needs undeniable proof that the house person also sees the venus person’s worth, and that only comes from direct communication. but the house person always tries to play it so cool, that it’s not until the break up that they realize they have potentially lost the best thing that’s ever happened to them.
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[@Ycnanko]

I’m the house and I confessed my feelings to the Venus & they rejected me. Years passed by and the Venus person confessed their feelings for me multiple times but I don’t peruse I’m scared they’ll change their mind again

[@MsSpecialK29]

THIS

[@Bridgetz90]

When you said the Venus person thinks the house person should just know 😂😂 my husband is the Venus person and I’m the house person and SO MANY TIMES it was exactly that 🙄😂

[@theimaniamanda]

☠️😂😂😂

[@OnyxxRose]

This overlay is sooo lost in translation vibes

[@theimaniamanda]

YESS seriously! 😩

[@najabellaa3151]

I had this synastry I was the Venus person he was the house person. He lied about being married but our connection felt like soulmates. Too bad the lie ruined it. “ guess I’ll see you next lifetime” 😂

[@theimaniamanda]

not even a small lie at that 😭😭 why they do this 😪

[@OnyxxRose]

I have this double whammy with someone. It’s definitely a feeling that creeped up on me. I think the feeling is mutual but it’s very much unsaid and under the surface. It’s a sweet vibe, we fall asleep so easily with one another as well. Starting my to feel clingy lol

[@theimaniamanda]

i honestly love the clingyness that comes with this placement haha sending good vibes to this connection! 🤗

[@MsSpecialK29]

Dying with this! :) He is so extra with his pet peeves & definitely thinks I should "just know." His Moon, Venus & Pluto in Virgo all in my 12th house. Ay yi yi! Past life connection indeed. I fell in love with him the first day we met & he always said I seemed so familiar. I have always been the super open one & he loves to play it cool but he STILL doesn't trust me at times. I don't know if anybody else has this happen but I actually get almost amnesia of certain things and parts of conversations that happen with the 12th only to have them surface a bit later. I think they go into your subconscious and get lost there for a while! It really annoys the planetary person who has full recall of the situation and they feel you are blowing them off which is not true! I attract this overlay so much it's crazy! (prolly 'cause ruler of my 7th is Pisces.) My dad actually had this same overlay with my Mom (his Venus in her 12th) they were together over 65 years. I love him so much tho, it's been a crazzzy roller coaster! I am usually the one to relent and get things back on track but it alternates. Sometimes I wonder if we will ever get it together? Feels like a let go and let god situation but 12th house feelings haunt like a ghost!

[@zeezee990]

Wow… this is amazing… This describes my exact situation with the Venus person… he is mad at me.. but I feel his anger is ‘over the top’ for the situation… and yes I did reach out to him first… but he’s still mad 😒

[@theimaniamanda]

just gotta let them run out of energy to hold that temper tantrum 😭😭

[@prettyladdiee2261]

Honestly watching your videos is one thing but if I could actually talk with you would be so amazing. I genuinely want more people around who I can just have beautiful astrological conversations with 😭

[@theimaniamanda]

connect with me on socials! i can talk about this all dayyyy haha

[@joyabomomnoah]

Sooo facts me and my ex bestie had this we couldn’t be away from eachother we got along so well cuz of other aspects but we would fight soo bad then be friends again

[@Cuntiecherry]

You described this perfect to the T!!!!!!! OMGG GIRL! I felt like you was talking to me about my situation!

[@theimaniamanda]

not me in your business 😂😂💖

[@LovexSasorixItachi]

That’s so so true !!! we went into a relationship and we broke up. The first time in order to get into a relationship took six months . We broke up after year together officially as I was the one who broke up with him because we became toxic + I’m the house person After the break up three months I was the one who reached out and was accepted but it takes time once again to regain his trusts as he claims he has deep feelings but is scared to trust me once again. He feels deeply moved by me and I am the initiator for a second try for a relationship. Also we have Venus. Conjunct Mars in Scorpio as I am the Mars person so I naturally take the lead and I’m fine with it plus I’m more open and not awkward in expressing my feelings as I am Pisces Venus he’s Scorpio Venus The first time he expressed his feelings was after long period of time. At first he didn’t understand his own feelings he has Pisces moon and now it’s the same. He claims he wants ti be with me and can’t get away from me but is scared that things might get toxic. As a Pisces Venus and the house person I love him unconditionally no matter what and even if he chooses not to be with me I know one day he will find his person even if it’s not me ❤ wishing the best in every situation. ❤

[@theimaniamanda]

omg 🥹💖 wishing them happiness is all you can do ❤️❤️

[@kilosweet]

you are… incredible. This was sooooo spot on

[@theimaniamanda]

thank youuuuu omg i'm glad it resonated ❤❤❤

[@trish3108]

Thank you for this ❤

[@MamaBulgaria]

This is so accurate - I just recently experienced it

[@lalaland2024]

Wow, this is explained perfectly.

[@angelcoyote9802]

Very valuable coaching for this aspect. Thank you !!

[@xoMissTaylorDivine]

Wow this was uploaded on my birthday! So accurate. I know most astrologers use WSH but in placidus I have a 12H Venus. I shared heavy 12H synastry with a Capricorn sun Sagittarius rising man. Which are both of my placements as well and we're both first decan Capricorns. My Venus & was in his 12H and his Pluto was in my 12h. Worst experience of my life. The actual trauma. The drama. The mess. A true nightmare. 12H being the house of Hidden Enemies? You betcha! His hate was disguised as "love". One thing I experienced with him were way too many dreams. And psychic/foreshadowing dreams too. He was scared because I knew things before they happened and knew about stuff he never told me about. Intuition is crazy here. But being gaslit and thinking I'm crazy when I was right all along, another negative. Toxic af. Lesson learned and I never want venus in 12H with a partner again.

[@theimaniamanda]

omgggg this sounds intense, I’m so sorry you had such a horrible experience with this synastry overlay 😭😭😭❤️ we want healthy relationships only 💗

[@pmlover1810]

Wow., just wow ! Great video. Nailed it !

[@lems_moya]

His Venus, mercury and sun is in my 12th house 🫠 from the moment we locked eyes I recognised that he’s a past life connection

[@joyabomomnoah]

Speaking soo much facts

[@Diaco3]

Omg both the Venus and the Mars video in the 12th house ARE SO ACCURATE. Word by word am going through this. He has his sun, venus, and mars in my 12th house in Pisces. I have my venus in Pisces in the 12th house too. 😭

[@theimaniamanda]

stoppp not me knowing your life 😂❤

[@prettyladdiee2261]

Heavy on the long journey of trust back to where it was. It’s scary , not knowing it I’ll happen

[@theimaniamanda]

listennnn it's the way I've been waiting 10 years and counting for the trust to go back to where it was 🥹 imma keep waiting tho lol 🤞🏿

[@lisac6139]

Wow. That was spot on. I studied western and vedic astrology for a long time, but I never ran into this information about 12 house venus synastry.

[@theimaniamanda]

ayyee I’m glad it resonated 🩷🩷

[@hermemory5297]

I love how you make the subtitles. It's really helpful^^

[@theimaniamanda]

yayyyy i'm glad! 🤗✨

[@aaronanderson3728]

Yup! Just ended a relationship with someone I met at the gym. I find the person having narcissistic tendencies. If I didn’t give them attention they’d feel some type of way. Yet I would not get anything reciprocated back to me. In the beginning it was chill but I noticed things started to build up idk if it’s sexual tension only or actual strong feelings. I’m afraid of running into them I still have a connection with them but I also don’t want to repeat old patterns of prioritizing someone else before my needs. That’s why I blocked them on the only social media I’ve had them on.

[@theimaniamanda]

kudos to you for setting that boundary! gotta protect your peace above all ❤️

[@avacoulter4382]

I have never heard a more accurate video on this aspect 😂. He’s Venus and he WOULD NOT confess his feelings which caused the big fight and for us to stop speaking. Best seggs I’ve ever had. My moon is also in his 12th., haven’t spoken for a year and we recently reconnected … chemistry is as intense as before still but both of us are playing it cool pretending we don’t care 😂 😅. We are both madly in love with eachother. And yes, we are/were sneaky links for no real good reason I just feel the need to keep it private it’s weird. We are both artists (very similar vibes) and met on a collaboration and we have mutual friends in his city. Different cities. Couldn’t keep it professional within hours of meeting . Most intense connection to this date but both terrified of our connection. The distance is a big factor. He’s now considering moving to my city and I KNOW it’s cause he wants a second chance with me now even tho he ran/rejected me last year. He 100 percent over reacted and acted like I committed a crime being frustrated with his lack of confession after he pursued me so hard FIRST. Yeesh.

[@lunajsu]

i had this ovrlay whr i was the house person b4 and some stuffs u said were like so on point 😭 bck then, i def was the problem 💀 watching this vid got me wanting 2 go txt them sorry ajshsjsjs anyways the problem is with my current crush, my venus falls in their 12th 😭 oh and my mars in their 11th as well 😭 i dont wanna keep staying in the ''friendzone' with this dude 4evr like ive a crush on him man. i rly hope things develop romantically betn us in the future 🕳️🚶🏻‍♀️'

[@theimaniamanda]

hahaha i be wanting to text sorry too but i might be blocked 😂🥲 have you tried, confessing your feelings? lol

[@The_Eleventh_Sign]

I'm literally in this same predicament! My venus in their 12th and mars in their 11th! Does that mean they only see us as friends??? I'm going insaneeeeee

[@lunajsu]

@@The_Eleventh_Sign ohmygod im not alone haha. really wanna know how he feels 😭

[@beth16440]

@@The_Eleventh_SignAs the house person in this scenario, we are definitely obsessed too. But we’re literally wondering the same thing… does the Venus person just see me as a friend? Or a friend at all? Am I invisible to the Venus person? The house person needs CLARITY on Venus persons feelings and intentions. Specific and straight forward. Don’t be confusing and make the house person guess and they will most likely reciprocate.

[@AmanSingh-se7mc]

Great Insights Ma’am. How about someone’s Venus in your 12th and your Venus in their 7th. How can that equation be inferred ? Thank you 🙂🙏🏻

[@doubleuny]

The alarm in the back is a sign

[@ulovnae]

Imagine you BOTH having each other Venus in each others the 12th house and then one person had their moon sitting with the Venus in their partner 12th house

[@Nayaniify]

Mars Venus and mercury on 12. We’ve been close now distant. We worked together. So much pain. Seems like I’m the one suffering. Im the house, I’m the one who lashed out. Then he went to max and became mean

[@theimaniamanda]

😭 sending heart hugs 💞💞

[@bearsbeetsbattlestargalact3484]

Wow you are amazing. I have this with someone, their venus, plus also their Mercury & sun in my 12th. I am obsessed with them lol but they don’t know. Can I ask, is it the house or planet person that is more obsessed?

[@theimaniamanda]

appreciate you!! 💖 i'd have to say it's the house person that's more obsessed lol but it's so close. it's like the house person gravitates towards the venus and can't control it. the venus person feels the same but can control it. but barelyyyy. they have to use all their strength, which, that energetic tug and the resistance is exhausting so, subconsciously, the venus stays away to just avoid dealing with that underneath everything else going in the connection haha

[@jessicahandelman1993]

@@theimaniamanda holy christ that is so true. i have really intense house synastry with a crush from a local pub/bar/tavern---we had one moment of insane kissing and then more stuff, but nothing beyond that. we never speak except in person if i happen to go there. but i really plan not to ever again b/c seeing him just brings up all the frustration, intrigue, annoyance,erotic pulls and all that. i'm venus and he doesn't know what to do with me and based on whats happening so far, never will. letting go of the fantasy is v. difficult but really the most practical thing to do in these cases. i wish everyone the very best and sending compassion to the person no matter what is truly helpful with this stuff that really, sometimes is never meant to be on the 3-D.

[@milica374]

I'm a house person but I can't be the one who reaches out first because she's the one who's taken, so she should reach out if she wants something from me, right? 😪 thank you for this video ❤️

[@rener381]

her venus in my 12 house in Capricorn and Conjunction my mars…idk what to do with her💀

[@theimaniamanda]

lmaoo not stubborn capricorn, i know she tests your patience 🤣

[@michelles2644]

I don’t know if your still active on this channel but I have a question. I have my sun, Venus and Jupiter in their 12th house and they have their nn in my 12th house. They have 12th house moon natal so I feel like I understand them. Do you have any advice or suggestions on what I should do and not do to have the best results because I have sun, Venus and Jupiter in their 12th house.

[@user-rw2zm3fe2v]

his venus and sun falls both in my 12th house conjunct ascendant within 5deg orb, and his mars also conjunct my asc within 3deg orb in the 1st house, should I open up to him? He's like an authorative figure to me in my career I'm afraid I'm being delusional that he's into me 😂

[@fi6594]

0:44 nothing too special first impression 1:12 venus see best friend potential 1:15 hanging out more and romantic feelings develop 1:45 times spent becomes more intentional 2:35 venus leaves the moment something happens on the house end 3:04 the second encounter 3:23 reincarnation aspect when the venus hits 12th house 4:09 moon knows theres something special 4:30 until it ends and it revamps then Venus understands fated union 5:21 house person to reveal their feelings because house person messed up 5:46 venus feels betrayed and needs time to trust them 6:15 venus will start to realise after all the hardships, the house person actually gain hindsight what the house person done with them 6:47 there is a theme of secrecy 8:11 venus don’t communicate and don’t want to be made a fool 8:49 if house knows venus has feeling and its mutual but the house is playing it cool

[@asialevystone5287]

Are you sill doing the house overlay series? What about Ssturn overlays?

[@theimaniamanda]

I am! Been caught up with a few readings lately 🙇🏾‍♀️ but for sure we got Saturn overlays in the queue! 🦋💃🏿

[@CamilaAraujo-ry8zm]

I'm from Brazil and thank you for your videos. TI have Venus conjunct Mars falling in his 12th house and he has Venus and Mercury in my 12th house. Apart from his moon that goes in my 8th house. At the same time, I feel such great love for him. I have Venus conjoining Mars falling in his 12th house and he has Venus and Mercury in my 12th house. explain, because I feel like I'm in a whirlwind of feelings but at the same time, I feel such great love for him.

[@theimaniamanda]

🤍. this is how 12th house synastry is! a whirlwind and a feeling of unconditional love. this type of connection takes you both on a deep, inner soul journey to find what you’re willing to suffer for and what you’re willing to sacrifice.

[@scott2296]

I'm the 12th house person, she has Venus right in the middle of Scorpio at 14 degrees. I have no Fing idea what I did, it's like she hates me now because my favorite color is pink instead of purple.

[@theimaniamanda]

oh no 😭 it can be so annoying I know because the venus person can seem really immature at times. at the end of it, if it's meant to be, you'll find your way back to each other 🥹

[@scott2296]

@@theimaniamanda Thanks for the kind words Imani🥲

[@jay-eh4fj]

Her Venus is in my 12th house, the thing is, her Venus also conjunct my Mars at exactly at 29 degrees Aries. The attraction is overwhelming, but we're both taken......feels like torture.

[@theimaniamanda]

woww omg 😭 I can only imagine 😮‍💨

[@sandrarodrigues5420]

I am his Venus house, my moon is in his 8th house. I feel very affected and sad about this. I need to move away because I've been kissing and hugging him and he doesn't want a more serious commitment like dating, which is what I want. He has Saturn in the 12th house, my Saturn is in his 12th house, his Mars is in my 4th house, these planets affecting the water house I think it makes a difference. My north node is square to his Saturn, my Venus is conjunct his North Node, his Pluto is square to my Mars and my Mars is in opposition to his Saturn, what do you think of these aspects? Thank you in advance!

[@xendra1743]

I am the house person and he has Venus in Aries when met kind of accidentally through a mutual friend and really clicked immediately I saw him as a guide and just someone compassionate and all but he secretly was attached to me then suddenly one day we got into a fight and never talk to eachother for 3 years then on a random Wednesday he reached out and he confessed his feelings I played it cool but refusing to take things further even in friendship and blocked him then after 2 days I reached out to him and we had another fight he blocked me and now I am searching about just what tf is happening between us 🗿🗿🗿

[@erikarosa5728]

I’m from Brazil and I really like your videos. I have a question: I’m Venus person and I don’t know if 12house feels the same. Sometimes, I have certais that he likes but sometimes didn’t because he plays cool as I’m afraid to loose his friendship. How can I help 12house open emotional line about relationship? Ps: his venus is in 7th House

[@theimaniamanda]

thank youuuu 💖 this is a hard one but there's nothing you can do to help the house person open up to you emotionally about the relationship. they have to come to that decision on their own. that's part of their lesson in the 12th house synastry dynamic. my only advice is to stay true to yourself. don't wait on them to get it together. ❤️

[@Shini869]

❤❤

[@thedopesoapmaker]

🎯

[@user-pz6fn3ye7s]

I have her cancer venus in my 12th house I'm not sure if my scorpio venus falls in her 1st house but my venus conjuncts her north node and Pluto 🦂 any advice or suggestion?

[@theimaniamanda]

don’t let anything slide. call out each other’s bs the moment you hear it.

[@jackpattinson5983]

6:32 The fact that I literally put a spell on him 💀

[@theimaniamanda]

💀💀

[@Mooxieart]

Felt

[@firebee8293]

I'm learning nursing, its super hard, i gives UP love and thé stars and i feel happier now.

[@joyabomomnoah]

It was the opposite the house person is the one being betrayed

[@Bellgreene2]

I know it’s hard to say, but have you got any scenarios for how it might play out if the same Venus person also has their sun and Mars in the 12th house?

[@Bellgreene2]

Oh and their moon is in the house person’s 1st house!

[@theimaniamanda]

a lot would depend on the planet that rules the sign of the 12th house; where that planet falls in the house person’s chart

[@dennisgrumple7754]

What about if my Mars is in his 12th house, and his Venus is in my 12th house?

[@theimaniamanda]

with mars present in his 12th house, the focus is more on the passion than the venusian betrayal aspect. there may be still a separation period from the venus in 12th influence but it’s less likely to have either party holding a grudge. bonus points on passion heavy if mars is falling in a scorpio or aries ruled 12th house.

[@dennisgrumple7754]

@@theimaniamanda wow this is so interesting bc my Mars is in Scorpio. Very passionate but there was a third party involved. I’m holding a grudge but he isn’t but that might be bc I’m a Scorpio moon😜

[@dennisgrumple7754]

@@theimaniamanda thank you!!

[@theimaniamanda]

loll i love that you know it's that scorpio moon too cause absolutely 😂

[@8754249064ja]

I have this with someone....we broke up 3 times and starting again....😀

[@theimaniamanda]

😩😩😩 damn third time is the charm maybe ?? 🥹💖🤞🏿