Understanding The Wisdom Of Psychopaths - Dr Kevin Dutton

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Chris Williamson

Chris Williamson

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@ChrisWillx
@ChrisWillx 2 жыл бұрын
Hello you beauties. Access all episodes 10 hours earlier than KZbin by Subscribing on Spotify - spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - apple.co/2MNqIgw. Here’s the timestamps: 00:00 Intro 03:13 Why Does Psychopathy Exist? 10:05 Psychology of Penalty Shootouts 18:01 The Human Ability to Categorise 28:13 Lessons on Narrow Focus from Hoarders 38:55 Kevin’s Studies of Conmen 47:30 The Evolution of Super-Categories 55:49 Why a Different Accent Evokes Prejudice 1:02:13 How Brains Conflate Simplicity with Truth 1:11:33 Where to Find Dr Dutton
@siegeupon5894
@siegeupon5894 2 жыл бұрын
Get you
@_N0_0ne
@_N0_0ne 6 ай бұрын
Thank you kindly
@dwaleberryflavor4047
@dwaleberryflavor4047 2 жыл бұрын
The quality of an interview is dependent on many factors, with the quality of questions by the interviewer being one of the most important. The quality of your questions is top-notch and not only shows a great deal of preparation and insight, but also a respect for the topic discussed and the person being interviewed. 10/10 points. One of the most worthwhile KZbin channels I've come across so far.
@notricky1680
@notricky1680 2 жыл бұрын
He actually says he only prepares the first question and lets the rest flow naturally from the convo/his own curiosity
@AmeliaBodilia
@AmeliaBodilia 2 жыл бұрын
Never heard of Dr. Kevin Dutton before this episode, what a hidden gem. Love watching people think out loud
@pagedarney2268
@pagedarney2268 2 жыл бұрын
“We don’t think like scientists; we think like lawyers” - loved this line about social media. Would like to hear more about what he has studied in this area.
@adultdeleted
@adultdeleted 2 жыл бұрын
reminds me of socrates vs the sophists. the republic is still a good read to this day, especially in this day.
@zzzaaayyynnn
@zzzaaayyynnn 2 жыл бұрын
According to Dutton, these are the 10 jobs that have the highest concentration of psychopaths: CEO, Lawyer, Media (TV/Radio), Salesperson, Surgeon, Journalist, Police Officer, Clergyperson, Chef, Civil Servant. And these are the professions with the least psychopaths: Care Aide, Nurse, Therapist, Craftsperson, Beautician/Stylist, Charity Worker, Teacher, Creative Artist, Doctor, Accountant
@ryancraigt
@ryancraigt 2 жыл бұрын
I am very glad to see accountants and doctors at the bottom of that list.
@rejectionisprotection4448
@rejectionisprotection4448 2 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised to see Clergy in the psychopaths list. I saw them as having more humility.
@ryancraigt
@ryancraigt 2 жыл бұрын
@@rejectionisprotection4448 you need to be a special kind of person to believe it's your job to be the one to communicates God's will. On top of the sheer amount of responsibility that job requires most normal individuals would have a very hard time. Anybody who "believes" in God should know they have no right to speak for him.
@wyleecoyotee4252
@wyleecoyotee4252 2 жыл бұрын
The psychopaths are predominantly male occupations, and the least psychopathic are predominantly female occupations
@iconoclasting
@iconoclasting 2 жыл бұрын
I think he missed politician. AKA ass clown
@darkerisbetter8699
@darkerisbetter8699 2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Dutton says "mate" every six words. I love it.
@weesmokeythe2strokey352
@weesmokeythe2strokey352 2 жыл бұрын
To make him seem more like your mate so you like him, making him more persuasive
@nexovec
@nexovec 2 жыл бұрын
@@weesmokeythe2strokey352 except it almost hurts every time he says it :D
@syntropy3020
@syntropy3020 2 жыл бұрын
@@weesmokeythe2strokey352 its just the way Australians talk mate.
@rejectionisprotection4448
@rejectionisprotection4448 2 жыл бұрын
@@syntropy3020 He's British, not Australian.
@laurenceT141
@laurenceT141 2 жыл бұрын
I was expecting him to break-out into Chim-chimery-cheroo at any moment 😂
@towhee7472
@towhee7472 2 жыл бұрын
Dude, 3 minutes into this podcast until I realize that this is KEVIN DUTTON! Man I loved your book, amazing person, amazing work!
@luxorca
@luxorca Жыл бұрын
So glad to see Dr.Dutton on more excellent pods recently! His books are excellent. "Persuasion is giving people a reason to do what they already want to." *The Red Carpet*. "People are as nice as you make them." ..so many great, perspective shifting concepts.
@jean-mariebazibuhe587
@jean-mariebazibuhe587 2 жыл бұрын
I love the way Kevin Dutton always focus on the positive side of psychopaths, however according to my experience working in corrections both as officer and later as a Research and Behavior Analyst, with a Master's degree in Psychology, working with low functioning psychopaths; living and working with high functioning psychopaths; Psychopathy has tremendous advantages but please never forget that the negative side always outweigh the positive side soon or later no matter what according to the Statistics! For example: A. Imagine waking up in a world without anxiety, ptsd, fear and having high self confidence... B. Imagine a world where you woke up and can't feel bond, love for your parents, kids, wife; very low level of the feelings of reward, (low motivation), no affective empathy for anyone even yourself sometimes! living in constant and infinite boredom, not having a strong sense of self! Imagine going in the bedroom and looking at your sleeping baby with empty eyes, staring at the child or seeing your children as useful objects with same role like your car! Dr. Kevin Dutton Dad was just an outlier psychopath!( No rule without exception) mild psychopath with high consciousness ( which is very rare or very low within psychopaths). Punchline: The majority of psychopaths are extremely controlling ( Dutton knows it well and will be curious if he also can sometimes focus on the consequences of being micro manager, especially in kids who are under 7 years old. It creates an identity disturbances because of the total ignorance and challenges of the emotions of your kids. My experience working in mental health area as a psychologist in the USA( mid-west)I am not always surprised to see the kids of psychopaths to be diagnosed with BPD, NPD, OCD or even ASPD because of the extreme controlling behavior or total emotional neglect and the confusions psychopaths create. Dutton in his book mentioned that the relationship with a psychopath always end with tears. I always feel confident i. the ideas of suggesting psychopaths to do not having kids. It can be expensive to get therapy and most their kids go through a lot of emotional pain that they didn't choose. Some do come out normal but most of the time very good with manipulations! Just join the special forces or just go drink, have sex, and have fun as much you can! Talking to the real psychopaths, the real masterminds, the real gangsters , the majority of them are really not happy! I interviewed an offender in Jail in 2017 who voiced: "Living without emotions or not feeling them is worthless bro"! It's just like a smart brick. Imagine working without feeling or enjoying the recompense? No LOVE feeling just the cognitive love. Dr Kevin Dutton just focus on the positive side of psychopathy which is really good but can confuse many people especially women looking for the Alpha male or people trying to escape their trauma to fall into the trap! I will love to have a scientific talk with Mr. Dutton if he gives me the chance to do so. Some psychopaths can feel happiness, other can have depression, most of the depression type in psychopathy is the worst thing you wish to your enemies: anhedonia. It's really hard to generalize based on a fewer emotions...Living without feeling several emotions regularly and at a socially acceptable frequency may not be as good as you think! If there's a way to try it out even for 2 months, I can bet you'll either commit suicide out boredom,( psychopaths are used to it) or you will beg to go back to the Neurotypical state, unless you have an extreme BPD but still...
@aliacampbell7227
@aliacampbell7227 Жыл бұрын
This is a brilliant text.
@patrickloftus_
@patrickloftus_ 2 жыл бұрын
I genuinely loved this guy from start to finish. Awesome episode man, just got better and better as it went along.
@marksimmonds8394
@marksimmonds8394 Жыл бұрын
some absolute gold in here! loved it too.
@dylanking8294
@dylanking8294 2 жыл бұрын
This was a very great guest. I hope he returns
@catherinewatt4035
@catherinewatt4035 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant podcast BTW, Chris your intelligence shines through and you give so much room for speakers. Love it
@anitaaustralia
@anitaaustralia 11 ай бұрын
This got more and more interesting as it developed. Strayed a lot from psychopathy, but the tangents were welcome. Very very interesting. Thank you!
@allenmontrasio8962
@allenmontrasio8962 Жыл бұрын
I can personally testify to the accent bias. I am Italian with an English mother, so I am fully bilingual and it's always been a professional benefit to me, when dealing with Brits, that they would immediately overcome their prejudice as soon as they realised that I spoke like them.
@carolinewalker3106
@carolinewalker3106 2 жыл бұрын
This has been so so interesting and thought provoking , thank you .
@ET_LWO
@ET_LWO 2 жыл бұрын
Loved the bit about cognitive complexity/closure ❤
@SuperPassionflower
@SuperPassionflower Жыл бұрын
wow, happy to have found this podcast! last night in my country the PM was guest in a controversial but highest rating talkshow (2 days prior to elections) and another guest (criminal lawyer) mentioned the possibility of the PM being psychopath, referring to studies that made me immediately think of the wisdom of psychopaths by dr Dutton... I just had to go and see what still can be found here on YT on dr. Dutton.. so, this one, for instance! Many greets from Netherlands!
@OneSidedEquilibria
@OneSidedEquilibria 2 жыл бұрын
6 minutes in and this guy seems funny as hell. I love how smart but working class he is.
@GuerillaUnderground
@GuerillaUnderground 2 жыл бұрын
I respect Kevin Dutton’s open-minded enthusiasm for his topic, but extreme scenarios such as Viking invasions doesn’t really help any of us understand how to integrate low-empathic personality variations into modern society. Factor 2 psychopathy also needs to be differentiated as a dissociative disorder that can be clustered with any number of other psychological disorders; and the psychopathic mindset is actually very vulnerable to suggestion and exploitation because of the associated lack of fear/caution and inclination towards thrill-seeking/excitement. We also have to take responsibility for the environment that we all contribute to creating and maintaining; psychopaths have to mimic normal behaviour in order to blend in and the more that narcissism and apathy becomes the norm, the more negative behaviour traits a low-empathic person will learn to imitate. It takes a village to raise a child, but if the village abuses the psychopath, the psychopath will raze the village... As someone with some degree of Factor 2 psychopathy (among other dissociative reactions to stress), I would encourage Kevin Dutton or someone else with a similar understanding of the topic to co-write a book with a number of people diagnosed with low-empathic resonance (psychopathy) from a variety of different life experiences; other than that of an SAS commando who fits the Viking stereotype. In terms of persuasion, it would be much easier to enlist someone with empathy/patriotism to face the horrors of war than the highly intelligent salesperson with very little empathy who would probably get themselves a job far behind the frontlines of a pointless conflict over nationalist or religious differences. You would also find that neurotypical/empathic types would defend their village from an invasive force with more passion than that of someone who has an inability to care about their immediate family/community; which is understood very well by the nationalist governments who make effective use of propaganda to fight their wars of terror against a neighbouring tribe/community/cultural group. There wasn’t actually a lot of content about psychopaths in this podcast; and despite the excellent content that was discussed, much more information needs to be made available in order to integrate the better aspects of psychopathy and reduce the damage done by the negative aspects.
@jasonlebrun5474
@jasonlebrun5474 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the amazing content Chris. Good fortune and health to you sir. Kind Regards Jason
@iamtheroadwanderer
@iamtheroadwanderer Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Chris. And a big thank you to Keven, his books are in my must-read stack and have been for years. 👍👍
@Rajinbin
@Rajinbin 2 жыл бұрын
This was great. You need to have him back on, I love the insights he has. Looking up his books now.
@wolfsamuels2357
@wolfsamuels2357 2 жыл бұрын
Cheers Chris Mate
@U.F.O_0908
@U.F.O_0908 Жыл бұрын
Get the coffee ready. First saw Dr. Ken on a podcast with legendary singer Bruce Dickinson from Iron Maiden! Amazing guest in all respects.
@SirBoden
@SirBoden 2 жыл бұрын
Listening to him describe neurotypical perception is fascinating.
@emanuelgomez1623
@emanuelgomez1623 2 жыл бұрын
This is gonna be good!
@juneelle370
@juneelle370 2 жыл бұрын
Great interview! I hope you have him back! Linguistics is so interesting-including the link of accent and written language. Other studies have shown that font that’s a little harder to read is *remembered* better than simple font. Also, when I was 18, I worked in a hostel that had people from all over the world--and my accent went all over the place that summer 😂 and it just happened naturally. I’m musical and so my voice naturally is musical too… I wonder if musicality adds to the likelihood of picking up accents! Since I know it happens naturally to me when I’m around other accents, I’ve always felt like the celebs who pick up British accents are way too picked on! 🤣 it may not be the fakery/affect that many suggest! Also, regarding psychopaths… have you read the recently discovered statistics that in Canada, USA that male surgeons kill/harm 32% more females than men??? This statistic differential is NOT found with female surgeons. They have higher recovery statistics for both women AND men. What’s disturbing is that there is NO EXPLANATION for how male surgeons are causing 32% more death and disability to their female patients vs male. Can you please bring on some people to really dig down into this mystery? It’s very important! Seeing as how there are more psychopathic surgeons than other fields, seeing as how Nazi Germany’s FIRST solution were murders in hospitals executed by nurses and doctors who volunteered for the position of murder for the benefit of the elitists in Germany who didn’t want the trouble of caring for the old or disabled, seeing as how our own regulatory agencies are funded by the corporations they’re supposed to regulate (the very definition of fascism), seeing as how hospitals make decisions based on profit over human health as well as our politicians who are funded by them… this is an important issue to try to get to the bottom of! It’s been crazy to see those studies come and go with no mention in msm. 32% affects MILLIONS of women in USA! Please consider and thank you, Chris!
@siegeupon5894
@siegeupon5894 2 жыл бұрын
No
@Eleonoor
@Eleonoor 2 жыл бұрын
I very easily start sounding like the people I am talking to, and I'm about as musical as a pebble, so I think it might not be that...
@juneelle370
@juneelle370 2 жыл бұрын
Yes or maybe that’s just your musical ear… saw a documentary once about how ancient humans started off singing to each other and there are still tribes today that do this. Having been in the military where all emotions (besides anger/aggression) are discouraged and so therefore monotone speaking is true norm. I think speaking monotone actually tones down emotions in general and I had to recover my more natural emotive speaking voice after my military experience to recover my full range of emotions. After that experience, I’ve become really interested in linguistics and how the act of speaking and how we do it affects us. You know how they have silent retreats? I think people would be better served with all SINGING retreats. When I listen to even non-professional people SING, there’s something so much deeper than singing that is revealed. I was in an acting class and they had everyone on the last day sing a short song… watching everyone sing, I started to cry (silently)… something beautiful and so much deeper is revealed in song. After that, not only do I still love listening to music live and recording, but I love to go to karaoke where the non-professionals sing too. When it’s less polished, it can be so incredibly moving and human 🎼❤️🎶
@pricklycatsss
@pricklycatsss 5 ай бұрын
1:01:45 A lot of people who have autism are strangely good at impressions because one common symptom of ASD is a thing called “echolalia” which makes them easily able to take on different voices. I have autism and as a kid I would freak people out because I would repeat people’s sentences with the exact same voice they used. It’s a mostly involuntary compulsive behaviour. It actually gets really stressful sometimes because I can’t stop repeating weird little routines and mantras in my mind that had no actual meaning or use they were just there. It can get you into trouble because people think you’re mocking them lol.
@chissstardestroyer
@chissstardestroyer 2 жыл бұрын
There's *absolutely* the reality that picking up the "master society's" language is desirable, there's writing in Berlin basements from WW2 that translates from German of the time "Learn Russian Fast!", they knew they were about to be annexed, and in that case, it would be a matter of survival. The detail of picking up the other tribe's language and culture being a survival capacity if annexed is fully confirmed, even as late as 1945 AD for clarity.
@greg_nicholls
@greg_nicholls 2 жыл бұрын
Is Kevin's father Brick Top from Snatch?
@andreahelm7981
@andreahelm7981 2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Dutton's accent gets a bit more colloquial when he's telling stories about his old man!
@rejectionisprotection4448
@rejectionisprotection4448 2 жыл бұрын
"My Old Man said 'follow the van' and don't dilly dally on the way".
@Andy-zr9gi
@Andy-zr9gi 2 жыл бұрын
good stuff, very interesting ...
@boldandthebeautifulgimbal2881
@boldandthebeautifulgimbal2881 2 жыл бұрын
56:02 Chris, what you have just said, is what’s causing almost all of our current societal issues. It isn’t race that divides America, it’s all the cultural ‘accents’ that are the point of friction. “If we sound similar, we play together. If we sound different, we judge, instead of playing.”
@marywimmer5018
@marywimmer5018 2 жыл бұрын
27:00:00 when he talks about some cultures in the world not seeing the difference between blue and green. I’m Vietnamese (Canadian), and in our language we do not distinguish between blue and green - they have the same word. We call both “xanh” (“sen”), and only differentiate if we need to by adding “leaf” or “sky” after it, if need be… it’s not that we don’t see it, it’s just that to reference it doesn’t really matter. And if there’s no immediate utility in differentiating them, then they are just called the same thing, and even thought of as the same thing. Unless there’s a reason to do so, it’s just categorized as the same colour.
@Squirrel-zq6oe
@Squirrel-zq6oe 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Chris, 🙏 can you please put time stamps in your videos like Lex Friedman does? That way, when we come back to the video, we can find the subject that we were listening to earlier. I love your videos too so thank you! 🤘 This was a cool episode!
@CHGLongStone
@CHGLongStone 2 жыл бұрын
Precision vs Abstraction is a better boundary distinction than precision vs practicality. CAP theorem may be constrained to DB architecture but the same contention model extends pretty much everywhere. Usually shows up as cheap - quick - well done, rank order and hope your model/approach optimizes 2 factors because you'll never optimize all 3.
@rufusreloaded1043
@rufusreloaded1043 2 жыл бұрын
Fish.
@kevinoduor-noah1231
@kevinoduor-noah1231 2 жыл бұрын
Nice. We need a second interview with more on the psychopathy.
@DharmendraRaiMindMap
@DharmendraRaiMindMap 4 ай бұрын
Kevin looks so domesticated now He looked like a propah psychopath before
@dougcummings6000
@dougcummings6000 2 жыл бұрын
Great stories!
@CHGLongStone
@CHGLongStone 2 жыл бұрын
His description of hoarding sounds ajacent to autism, systematizing vs empathizing (Baron-Cohen) consistent with Temple Grandin's church metaphor.
@ElanMorin
@ElanMorin Жыл бұрын
first thing I learned from this video as an American: Australians think 8.30 is 'bright and early.' 😄
@NoNameneeded1984
@NoNameneeded1984 2 жыл бұрын
After listening to this I can see how Gurus could be seen as psychopaths, telling people want to hear but not explaining the personal cost. Many used humor (e.g. Osho, Krishnamurti). All have charismatic speaking voices and are fantastic readers of people's emotions , needs and wants.
@yootd3m
@yootd3m Жыл бұрын
"The people are retarded" - Osho
@alisonpotter1311
@alisonpotter1311 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent podcast! Please do the study on accents/impersonations. I'm good at accents and languages and would love a diagnosis :D
@elisabeth4342
@elisabeth4342 2 жыл бұрын
When it comes to so-called prejudices or biases, if the posters on social media platforms tune out the "pack of wolves" black and white thinking, and switch to lone individual mode, they will come to their own individual conclusions on any topic. They'll be less likely to follow the herd by engaging in groupthink, and they'll be better able to FOCUS and ANALYZE on a more intimate level (avoiding surface- level gossip and rigid black-and-white conclusions).
@yootd3m
@yootd3m Жыл бұрын
Objective reasoning isn't a trait that a psychopath would find valuable in other people. It makes people difficult to use for the good ol fashioned devide and conquer psychology of control.
@aaronkorger6058
@aaronkorger6058 Жыл бұрын
I can't believe this is what it is like to be a psychopath.
@Me_549
@Me_549 Жыл бұрын
Well now you know
@chissstardestroyer
@chissstardestroyer 2 жыл бұрын
Our psychology is really very simple: we really do tend to believe that we're in a state of constant warfare against the rest of the world; that's what antisocial personality disorder really is at its core... we really do tend to frankly have a mix of not caring what anybody's emotions are on any state, certainly not our own- it simply is not important at all. This's not callousness, it is a sorting of data. For a lens from "Star Trek" classic, think "Romulan" for a lens on the psychology; this's going to certainly clarify a lot.
@Bookthoughts92
@Bookthoughts92 2 жыл бұрын
But doesn’t this also describe paranoid personality disorder, narcissism, and narcissistic abuse syndrome, in addition to psychopathy, sociopathy and antisocial personality disorder? I’m just trying to understand because it seems that there is so much misinformation and we need more experts dispensing information that is not for profit. Edit: I forgot to mention PTSD and cPTSD
@chissstardestroyer
@chissstardestroyer 2 жыл бұрын
@@Bookthoughts92 They often do go hand-in-hand; very rarely do they come single and alone.
@MXF11
@MXF11 Жыл бұрын
Hey Chris, why are your podcasts only a little over an hour long?
@joedavis4150
@joedavis4150 2 жыл бұрын
What about the initiation of force on many, many peaceful people in the War on Drugs?
@vivicath
@vivicath 2 жыл бұрын
Not sure I'll get clarification, but I don't understand the use of the word 'need' when talking about cognitive complexity. Surely some people 'see' more cognitive complexity than others? Being able to see more cognitive complexity would then be either an advantage or a disadvantage, depending on the situation, but 'need' seems inaccurate to me...
@siegeupon5894
@siegeupon5894 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant!
@joedavis4150
@joedavis4150 2 жыл бұрын
Concerning the very damaging initiation of force, when the gun enters, morality leaves.
@md1trk
@md1trk 2 жыл бұрын
With regards categorisation: words and concepts are certainly reductive, but that doesn't mean they are inaccurate or arbitrary. Calling the sun 'hot' is something of a simplification, but it's not untrue.
@mungo75
@mungo75 2 жыл бұрын
I'm genuinely curious Chris, why do you always position yourself kind of side on to the camera?
@radicalgreek99
@radicalgreek99 2 жыл бұрын
He's probably standing up
@ChrisWillx
@ChrisWillx 2 жыл бұрын
Correctamundo. I’m at a standing desk with one foot on a little stool underneath. It’s from the book Deskbound, if you use a standing desk - definitely try it
@siegeupon5894
@siegeupon5894 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChrisWillx and not disguising his broken nose...
@mungo75
@mungo75 2 жыл бұрын
Ahhhh cool. Thanks Chris, and everyone else! 👍
@popart7722
@popart7722 Жыл бұрын
Hey man. I have 4 of the top 10 psychopath careers. I think I need to reexamine myself 😂.
@syourke3
@syourke3 2 жыл бұрын
There is something basically wrong about this analysis of psychopaths. First, the defining character trait of a psychopath is the utter lack of any moral sense. There may other secondary traits associated with psychopathy but the lack of a moral sense is the definition I can and ease risks characteristic. Psychopaths lie, cheat, steal, and kill others without sense of remorse or guilt at all. They utterly lack empathy and are incapable of any normal human relationships. All those other traits like fearlessness, risk taking, etc. are strictly secondary to the lack of cons e ice. That being the case, the question posed is: why do a certain small fraction of the human population lack any moral sense at all? Humans are social creatures by nature and depend on the social group for survival therefore, a moral sense is basically necessary for survival in a social setting in which cooperation among the members of the group is necessary for the survival of all members. So we can easily understand how a moral sense is selected for by evolution. But how can the lack of moral sense be favored? How can a predisposition to criminality be favored? Sure, psychopaths lack empathy and this can make good soldiers - they’re able to kill without guilt. They can be fearless and ruthless. But even soldiers in war have to rely on other soldiers for their survival and no psychopath is going to risk his life to save a comrade in arms. But even if we grant that psychopaths make effective warriors, how does that help them to survive and reproduce in peacetime? And psychopaths are notoriously dishonest. How can that be helpful in the evolutionary struggle for survival?
@siheath3648
@siheath3648 2 жыл бұрын
I agree, I was a soldier for 8 years, we had a few guys over the years that proclaimed to be psychopaths, they didn't make good soldiers at all, they were reckless, impulsive and didn't work well in the structured hierarchy of command, none of them lasted when their needs were not met, or they were discharged because of their behaviour. They behaved like guys with severe personality disorders, which psychopathy is. It is not conducive to combat situations, and from a personal experience, I wouldn't want a psychopath anywhere near my team in combat.
@TheFragilityOfIdeas
@TheFragilityOfIdeas 2 жыл бұрын
F**k me! For a moment there I thought you’d brought on the Wealdstone Raider!
@garydaly
@garydaly 2 жыл бұрын
I sometimes wish I was a psychopath. When I was in the army I think I met psychopaths because everything Dr. Dutton mentioned seemed to resonate. These blokes, all of them were brilliant soldiers. Tough and high performers. However, a number of them were cruel and had no problem punching and assaulting soldiers they would openly say were 'pussies' or weak. Then when I went to Iraq the misery that disturbed me appeared to have zero effect on those type of men. They could perform their duty without any concern for ethical or moral standards. Yet, again I would have preferred to be one of them because they were outstanding and some of them were inspirational leaders and did provide a sense of group cohesion in the madness going on around us. When we got home their attitudes didn't change and watching how they enjoyed violence when we were at the battalion boozer was exhausting. I used humour to stay out of their way, though I punched out a couple of times over my four years of army service. I did notice that if I stood my ground, knowing full well that I was in no way going to 'win' the fight they were less violent. So I simply decided that when the psychopaths turned their crazy gaze upon you it was better to simply pretend confidence (when in fact I was a coward shaking like a leaf inside) and take the punches as their madness tended to be exacerbated by openly cowardly behaviour.
@anitaaustralia
@anitaaustralia 11 ай бұрын
I spent 10 years in the Navy. The higher the rank, the more of these "types" became. I was low ranking, and thus, no threat, but their wily ways didn't elude me. Highly strategic manipulators were common
@boldandthebeautifulgimbal2881
@boldandthebeautifulgimbal2881 2 жыл бұрын
54:25 Well that just sunk my battleship, blarrrrrrr.
@boldandthebeautifulgimbal2881
@boldandthebeautifulgimbal2881 2 жыл бұрын
Wait, does speaking fluent shit talk count? Because I am very fluent in speaking absolute bullshit.
@onemanslifemission
@onemanslifemission 2 жыл бұрын
He's NOT Australian. That accent is British
@CHGLongStone
@CHGLongStone 2 жыл бұрын
Bit disappointing he constrains limbic response to to "fight/flight" when freeze and faun have more impact on the social dimension
@chrisb8046
@chrisb8046 2 жыл бұрын
Forget studying psychopaths. Let's find out what percentage of psychologists study human behavior for understanding, versus the percentage that study human behavior for influence/leverage. While the number of true psychopaths is around 1%, I'd bet the number of activist psychologists (in western nations) is through the roof.
@fullgrimzombie5961
@fullgrimzombie5961 Жыл бұрын
The berserkers I thought also went psyco from eating a ton of shrooms before they battled.
@thegr-hood4872
@thegr-hood4872 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine world where psychopaths, sociopaths and narcissists are most of all people on earth
@donniedewitt9878
@donniedewitt9878 2 жыл бұрын
Great vid. Great advice for a psychopath looking to learn to persuade people
@trinacorbett4827
@trinacorbett4827 2 жыл бұрын
Finally!
@zzzaaayyynnn
@zzzaaayyynnn 2 жыл бұрын
very interesting bloke, had a little trouble understanding his accent...what is it?
@syntropy3020
@syntropy3020 2 жыл бұрын
Australian
@rejectionisprotection4448
@rejectionisprotection4448 2 жыл бұрын
East London.
@liverbirdxoxo1984
@liverbirdxoxo1984 2 жыл бұрын
Londoner
@greg_nicholls
@greg_nicholls 2 жыл бұрын
I can tell you, with almost 100% certainty, that this guy is from East London somewhere between Bethnal Green and Stratford, it's that distinctive and obvious.
@zzzaaayyynnn
@zzzaaayyynnn 2 жыл бұрын
@@greg_nicholls thanks, good ear!
@Jsanon00
@Jsanon00 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao this guy's great
@chrisb8046
@chrisb8046 2 жыл бұрын
"Everything is gray"? I think the world/universe is probably black-and-white. If it seems gray you have just run into something you don't completely understand or, more likely, a situation where others have found purposeful obfuscation to be advantageous.
@WentworthStill
@WentworthStill 2 жыл бұрын
There's way more you could have gone into about psychopaths (given the title) but this was interesting nonetheless.
@georgebush8038
@georgebush8038 2 жыл бұрын
casinos use chips instead of real money
@commonwunder
@commonwunder 2 жыл бұрын
I cannot imagine someone more likely to do well 'down under' that this guy. He's is ninety-nine percent Australian... just with a weird British accent.
@allenmontrasio8962
@allenmontrasio8962 Жыл бұрын
Insofar as they don't let emotions rule their lives, psychopaths are arguably superior humans. And yet they are considered sick.
@ChimpingBulldog
@ChimpingBulldog 11 ай бұрын
I liked Kev on Triggernometry but here he seems a bit obsequious and ingratiating.
@DarrkMane
@DarrkMane 2 жыл бұрын
Michael Bisping's older geeky brother, mate.
@siegeupon5894
@siegeupon5894 2 жыл бұрын
There's old pilots, there's bold pilots but there's no old, bold pilots!
@christian55572
@christian55572 5 ай бұрын
Victor Borge was Danish
@liverbirdxoxo1984
@liverbirdxoxo1984 2 жыл бұрын
"The Viking's many years ago" probs a few more than many 😂
@vinceraineing
@vinceraineing Жыл бұрын
Very annoying acknowledging frequency
@siegeupon5894
@siegeupon5894 2 жыл бұрын
hard to imagine yet...
@MrAchile13
@MrAchile13 2 жыл бұрын
So a person living in the most affluent period of man kind, prosperous enough to buy a plane ticket and fly through the air, something our ancestors would only dream of, got offended because the perfumes were categorized by gender? Are you kidding me!?
@keaganvandemerwe878
@keaganvandemerwe878 2 жыл бұрын
Comment for the algo
@siegeupon5894
@siegeupon5894 2 жыл бұрын
I'm Scottish. Moved to England as a young boy. Speak perfect English, think in Scottish!
@juneelle370
@juneelle370 2 жыл бұрын
You think I’m Scottish accent internally? Fascinating!!!
@siegeupon5894
@siegeupon5894 2 жыл бұрын
Too bloody right big man!
@siegeupon5894
@siegeupon5894 2 жыл бұрын
@@juneelle370 it's how I woo the ladies.
@rufusreloaded1043
@rufusreloaded1043 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if he considers himself to be a psychopath?
@joedavis4150
@joedavis4150 2 жыл бұрын
.. to what degree should we glorify vandalism?
@maam-yj8ph
@maam-yj8ph 2 жыл бұрын
To the degree that it furthers our technological advances apparently.
@joshuajames2425
@joshuajames2425 2 жыл бұрын
He's super hard to understand for me
@Robin-ub7yd
@Robin-ub7yd 2 жыл бұрын
Why are you’re views so low? I dont understand.
@GlynTaylor
@GlynTaylor 2 жыл бұрын
I just have to say this for you, sorry... I'm not your mate. I know I'm a bad person.
@imsanjivdhami
@imsanjivdhami 2 жыл бұрын
first ?
@mreagentj608
@mreagentj608 2 жыл бұрын
Hee mate
@mreagentj608
@mreagentj608 2 жыл бұрын
Greet to the lads out UK
@syourke3
@syourke3 2 жыл бұрын
I think psychopathy may be caused by a rare recessive gene. When two psychopaths mate, they often have psychopathic children. But when only a single partner is psychopathic, the offspring are usually normal.
@juneelle370
@juneelle370 2 жыл бұрын
There’s definitely a nurture element as well because they’ve found war-torn regions have higher levels of psychopaths…
@syourke3
@syourke3 2 жыл бұрын
@@Stierenkloot Not so. Children put up gif adoption as infants by psychopathic parents grow up to be psychopaths even if they are raised by loving normal adoptive parents. Nurture has nothing to do with it at all. Psychopaths, unlike sociopaths, are born and not made.
@syourke3
@syourke3 2 жыл бұрын
@@Stierenkloot I don’t pretend to understand the genetics involved. I only know that it is genetically determined. I suggested a possibility. That’s all. But it’s inherited, it runs in families.
@loadmaster1520
@loadmaster1520 5 ай бұрын
It's not clear why some people have anti-social personality disorder (the clinical definition) or psychopathy. Some things that play a part are the BRAIN. Studies show that people with ASPD may have differences in the brain circuitry that controls behavior and that certain parts of the brains of people who have this disorder are smaller. This includes areas that control empathy, moral decision-making, guilt and embarassment. GENETICS You're likely to get this disorder if someone in your family, such as a parent has it. GENDER It is 3X more common in men than women. However, most of the research has focused on men and so may be underdiagnosed in women. UPBRINGING Neglect , abuse, or an unstable family life during childhood all increase the risk for ASPD.
@mouwersor
@mouwersor 2 жыл бұрын
ngl, this one was kinda boring. The dude doesn't have a lot of original thoughts and tries a bit too hard to project a 'friendly down-to-earth Aussie' persona (while being British..)
@greg_nicholls
@greg_nicholls 2 жыл бұрын
Don't think he's trying I'm from Bow and he sounds to me like a smarter version of every bloke I've ever met in an east london pub.
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