Unedited Life Update!

[@caycollie8284]

What a wonderful blessing ❣️ I managed my home until our daughter was 12 years old. The last 4 years of that I got my college degree & started working full time. I feel so privileged to have done life like I did. I worked for 30 years & retired when the needs of my family became a full time job. Our daughter was ill , & passed away in early 2019. We took on the priceless opportunity of caring for our grandsons full time, the youngest had just turned 12. We are not millionaires!!! But we are comfortable & content. I am almost 70 now and we have been able to get our oldest grandson through college & the younger one is in a private Christian school making straight A’s. God is faithful in His promises. May He bless you with fullness of life with many blessings ❤

[@rachelsouthall3420]

Praying for you and your family. May God bless you. God will bless you.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you so much for sharing your story with me - I am so sorry to hear of your daughter's passing, that grief must be so hard. But what a blessing you are to your grandsons! God bless you and your family as you care for them!!

[@chereesorensen4248]

Good for you!!!! You are so blessed to have Josh. My husband said those words to me 30 yrs ago. I've been home raising 4 kids ever since. Finances have always been tight. But we made it. I understand losing that career iddentity. It took me years to get through it. But that choice shaped us in the very best ways! Hold onto your faith . It will get you through.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for sharing, Cheree! I shared with Josh - he really is a blessing and I'm glad to have him on my/our team! Thank you for your encouragement!!

[@idellawhite7143]

Thank you for trusting us enough to tell us your very real story. I have faith that the Lord will provide you with the wisdom to make the most of this transition. I will pray for you and your family and just know I completely believe in your choice to become a stay at home mom. I know I yearned for it myself for over 18 years. I see the consequences of my life in my children's eyes. They are adults now and have found their way but I know it would have made a positive impact if I could have been at home with them.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Wow thank you so much for sharing, Idella - your message is really important for me to hear and I appreciate the time you took to respond! Thank you for your encouragement and prayers!

[@StephPlansInTheOC]

Thank you for sharing. I’m 48 and have seriously been considering resigning from my full-time job in healthcare as an Occupational Therapy Assistant in a Skilled Nursing Facility. I am EXHAUSTED and BURNT OUT. The lack of appreciation expressed by those in higher positions in my facility is pathetically low, which goes against everything the company stands for. They don’t practice what they preach. I too feel like every day is Groundhog Day! What keeps me going is the commitment and sense of duty I feel toward the Patients I treat. This job was a career change that I made 12 years ago after spending 13 years in corporate management feeling personally unfulfilled, despite how good I was in that field. However I know I won’t be able to continue with the physical demands of the job forever. Patient demographics are becoming older, heavier, more frail, and cognitively impaired, yet the resources and equipment available in Skilled Nursing Rehab have not kept up with these changing demographics. I’m so happy that you are putting yourself first and that Josh is supportive. I believe that God provides us all with skills that are adaptable, sometimes we just need to see that. Sending prayers for you and your family - you will do this!!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for taking the time to respond! Burn out is SO SO real for me in Higher Ed as well. And yes - when you add on a lack of respect from those in authority, the grind gets even more...grindier! But when you feel like there's a purpose for your presence, it makes it worth it. Or as I say, the 'golden handcuffs'. I hope your purpose continues to be a driving force for you through those groundhog days!! And when the time is right for you to move on, that you'll be able to identify it and have the courage to step forward!

[@alysiarich7620]

Congratulations! I am you, 5 years down the road😜. I taught elementary school for 18 years, then had our last baby right before I turned 40. I finished out the school year and then left to be home full time. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. My identity was very much caught up in being a teacher. But, now, I could not be any happier! I truly believe God will sustain your family as He has ours. He is so good and faithful to meet us where we are and reward our obedience. I now homeschool and run a consulting business I created…things I would NEVER have imagined when I left the classroom. Can’t wait to see what God has in store for you❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for the encouragement Alysia!!!

[@melaniepederson-scholz2364]

I am so happy for you! You will NEVER regret the time spent with Esther. You are in my prayers that peace and blessings are coming your way. I was a stay at home mom for the first several years of my daughter's life and a work from home mom with an outside paycheck and a flexible schedule for the next 22 years. It worked well for my family.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for the encouragement, Melanie!! I am hopeful!

[@christinedundas3469]

Congratulations!!! I know from experience that this is a hard decision to make. I did the same thing a few years ago - quit my 20 year job to start my own business. My kids are grown, not little like your daughter, but we went from a 2 income family to a 1 income plus all of the expenses of a brand new business. But taking that leap and having faith that God will help to guide you is such a rewarding experience. The day I put in my resignation I cried, I was a little scared, but then over the 6 weeks notice I gave I got more and more excited. My final day at the office I couldn't wait to get out of there and start the next chapter of my life. It has been a tough road but oh so rewarding! Cheers to you and your family - you got this girl 🎉

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Ahhh! Thank you for sharing Christine! I love hearing how you took a leap to start your own business. So encouraging!!

[@annettefertitta6868]

I feel you, The constant pressure of how we spend time!

[@brendanesslar7676]

So excited for you! God is faithful and you will flourish! I had a kind of identity crisis when I quit my job in my 40’s. I found I was identifying who I was with my job and I had to relearn who I was in Christ and outside of a work identity. It was a good step for me.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you friend! That is precisely one of the reasons why I'm walking away. I need to rely on God more in every area of my life, including in my identity! Do you have any tips for me in navigating that transition??

[@sharonhoneycutt5402]

Congratulations! Taking the plunge to be a stay-at-home was one of the best decisions I made for my kids, my family and me! I heartily applaud your courage and pray God will bless your family and give you wisdom in the journey. ❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Ahh! Thank you for that encouragement Sharon ❤

[@terrimandigo2874]

Congratulations taking that leap. I have also just been “existing” day to day. I have told my boss that I want to leave the end of this year. So we are putting together plans and processes to make that happen. I believe our finances will be ok as I will have more time to devote to my plant based wellness business which is really what brings me joy. Again, congratulations ❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Oh my goodness so exciting!! Blessings to you on this next step as well!!

[@Asim5506]

Elizabeth, I know God will bless you and your family. It’s a bold step. I’m a new empty nester who raised a family while working full time and your story warms my heart. Stay at home Moms make a difference in people’s lives and your platform gives you a ministry outside your home. Ive been watching your videos since you were on the Happy Planner squad. Best wishes to you and God bless.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you so much for chiming in, Ashley! I shared your word with Josh about my platform as ministry and it was really important for us to hear and see that! And it makes us so much more excited for what God has for us with this big change!

[@lkreinmiller-author]

I applaud you for making this hard but amazing decision. I was a stay-at-home mom once we had our first child. We never had a lot of money, but we had enough. We always had food, shelter, clothing, and each other. We worked hard in our pre-child years so we could do that (we waited almost 10 years to have him). I was so blessed. My husband was happier and less stressed. I pray for your peace of heart AND the big adjustment this will be for you.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for the encouragement! You're right where I think we'll be -- having enough, and all of us being happier and less stressed (yes Josh included)! Thank you for your prayers and support!

[@lkreinmiller-author]

@@thejoyfulsojourn , always. You got this. When you make decisions together based on what is best for the family and with the Lord’s guidance, He honors those decisions. Hugs.

[@kathyboston7231]

Wow!!!! So happy for you!!!! Being able to stay home was never in the cards for me when my kids were at home. I will say that sometimes God sweeps us off our feet so we will hit our knees. Continue your use this platform to His glory and you will be blessed!!!!! ❤❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Kathy!!!! SO SO SO true - God sweeping us off our feet so we hit our knees - I am so seeing that in my life right now! So thankful to have met you through this online world!!

[@colettesmith7316]

Woohoo! I was so hoping you’d do this! Looking forward to watching how this new adventure unfolds.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Aww Thank you Colette!!

[@katierollswithit]

Praying for you my beautiful friend! Such a wonderful leap of faith and I’m so looking forward to all God has for you and Josh and Esther as He walks this road with you!!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Katie!! ❤

[@nancynoble9060]

Congratulations and good for you! 🎉 I was fortunate enough to be able to stay home with my 3 children (all grown now) and I don't regret a single minute of it. I look forward to seeing where this change takes you.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Nancy!!!

[@devonnabullock1221]

Thank you for sharing. I love your channel and the inspiration and encouragement that you have brought to my life. I went part time at the end of last year to have more time with my daughter, for myself and to help build our business. It was so worth it and I have to agree having the time to spend more time with God in his word and I. Prayer has been a game changer for me. Trusting him that he will provide when we need and leaning on him is so amazing. Having a heavenly father who loves and cares for us so much to provide us what we need just at the moment we need it is so amazing. You have an amazing community here. I can't wait to see what is in the next chapter. Give that baby girl of yours a hug.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Aw thank you for the encouragement you've brought to mine Devonna, and I certainly will!

[@shakirarouse7125]

Elizabeth, I am so happy that you got to live out this tremendous goal in your life! I totally understood what you meant about your identity being so deeply steeped in your job because a lot of us professional women do. We have invested a lot of our time and ourselves in establishing our careers so feel free to take time to mourn your old life. The phrase “having a baby changes everything” is no joke! I can see the difference in you already and I wish you all the best as you continue to grow in your faith walk and evolve in your sojourn. Lean into God! He’s got you! 🙏🏾

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Aw thank you Shakira, I appreciate your encouragement and affirmation! It is SO true!!!

[@TheJlee89]

So excited to see what this new chapter and season of your life brings! Heres to a journey of love, light, and TIME to explore your family, yourself, and just life in general!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!! ❤

[@craftymom3794]

Congratulations 🎉. I was about 30 when I had my first child. Together my husband and I decided I would stay home to raise our kids. We were both brought up that way and wanted to do the same for our family. At the time it was a bit of a financial burden as I was the bread winner. Now I have three amazing kids. Two still in college and one on her own. It’s something you will not regret. 🙏🏻

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Aw thank you for this encouragement!!

[@victoriious_plans]

I’m so happy for you! Such a proof of faith for you! God is ALWAYS good, and He ALWAYS provides for His children! Thank you for always sharing your faith!🩷

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you and AMEN! ❤

[@bharterpraise]

Congratulations!! I love that you took this leap of faith on Leap Day! You and your family will be in my prayers as you transition. 💕💕

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Isn't that funny?! I did NOT plan for it to be on Leap Day, that was a happy accident, or perhaps, a little God moment to give me a chuckle for years to come. Thank you for your prayers and encouragement! ❤

[@dmcour4geous]

I'm new to your channel Dae your go wild pick with Heather Kell, 🎉 this is the 1st video I've watched. Glad you've made life changes! ❤️ may God bless your family's journey!🙏🏽🙌🏽💜

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Hi! I'm so glad you found me! Thank you so much!!!

[@CuteBudda]

I support your decision 100% You're awesome and I know you and your family will be fine. Your faith is the key to success and happiness. Blessings to you!!!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!! Appreciate you and the encouragement!!

[@dsthunniplans]

I am proud of you for doing what is best for you and your mental health and your family. You deserve to be happy. Sending prayers and hugs.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!! Find me for a hug at Go Wild!!!

[@dsthunniplans]

@@thejoyfulsojourn you know I will

[@arlitalee7301]

I am so happy you made this decision for your family. I know you have expressed this many times since birthing precious Esther!! God will provide and continue to bless your family in more ways than you can imagine. Trust him and I know you do!! Hugs and blessings ❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Arlita!!!

[@arbrisbin12]

Thank you for sharing. I too (years ago) quit my great paying job as a clothing buyer for a regional chain store. I was seeing my kids grow and missing so many moments. So I quit and became a stay at home mom. 4 kids and I did what!! But Jack and I cut corners and prayed. Our minister said to me every Sunday. “You need to drive school bus” I would laugh and say ahhh no way. Well money was tight and during the day when kids are in school maybe I should get a job. I went from a clothing buyer to a school bus driver !!! Friends thought I lost it! But you know it’s what I needed and didn’t even realize it. How intwined my job was with school and my own children. My kids lives were there for me to watch them grow, struggle and achieve in school settings. I was part time paraprofessional during the off hours of bus driving. And it fulfilled me completely. And well I’ve been driving school bus for 32 year and no plans to of leaving anytime soon. So if something unexpected pops up down the road…God works in mysterious ways. Praying for you and yours

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Oh my gosh I love this story, thank you for sharing! It's so true that we just don't know what God has for us!!! And how people can speak into our lives in ways we least expect them!

[@annettefertitta6868]

We have 3 children, now 25, 27 & 30 and believe me, any time that you can spend with your children is never wasted. As an SLP, I totally understand having your identity wrapped up in your profession! I have struggled since basically being shoved out , probably because I was at the top of the pay scale… after being set up to fail by a new administrator- that’s another story - Any time that I spent with my children was worth it as they have become responsible successful individuals! Yet I wish I’d have been able to spend more time with them and with my being comfortable in my own skin. You can never get back that time that you will be spending with her. I am here to demonstrate that yes, you can go back to work, it may take time… I have found two fantastic part time jobs that make me feel alive again but still have some much needed time to work on me mentally, spiritually, and to discover what gives me peace and happiness. No regrets, blessings and prayers for this next journey! BTW - I LOVE your You tube name!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Annette!!! ❤

[@thestickertherapist]

How absolutely fantastic!!! I’m over the moon excited with you. I certainly will be praying for you as you and your family prepare and embark on this wonder-filled journey. There is no doubt that God has surprises in store for you. Thank you ever so much for sharing this testimony. Blessings!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for your encouragement!!!!

[@mholland8835]

Go girl! I’m so happy for you. Here to support you all the way on your new journey. You and your family will be in my prayers.💞🙏🏼

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!!! Always an encourager you are, I appreciate you ❤

[@amoriventer2728]

Love this, thank you ❤ Much love and support ❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!!

[@nicolemullicane51]

So excited and happy for you. I know this was not an easy decision to make but what an exciting time for you and your family. I’ll definitely keep y’all in my prayers. ❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Nicole!!❤

[@dutchdilemma]

Go girl! So valuable for Esther to have mom around. And this will give you so much freedom to get creative and learn from your Journey or sojourn as it is 😉

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Haha yes! Thank youuu!

[@LifewithLisaAnn]

Congratulations on the leap of faith! He is faithful, and you’re entering probably the most amazing time of your life. ❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!! ❤

[@dorothytaylor3245]

I did the same thing when my children were young. The budget was tight, but I have never regretted the decision. I will say that the transition was weird, but it was a good choice. You can always get another job, but Esther is one of a kind, so you are right to invest in her. God bless!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for your insight and encouragement!! ❤

[@elainerothenberger8764]

Congratulations, you will not the regret the time you will have time to spend with your little girl. Prayers and hugs

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for the encouragement Elaine!!

[@aliciaweisenbach893]

I hope that everything works for you and your family. Much luck and happiness.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!! ❤

[@Stacy_Scraps_Plans_Creates]

I am soooo happy for you! It will be the best decision you ever made aside from deciding to bring a little blessing into this world. The gift you’re giving to your sweet child and your husband cannot put a price on. He will provide, you will be in His grace, it will have its own ups and downs but it is so rewarding! I’ve been there and never thought I’d give up my independence and salary but once I held my first baby, I couldn’t go back and I cherished every moment, I’m thankful for the opportunity I had then to be home with her. I am praying for your family, I will always support your channel, YOU and counting the days till I can give you a big hug!!! ❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Giiiiirl! Thank you!!! I really am believing that it will be the best decision, and totally trusting in His provision! Thank you for always being such an encouragement to me - BIG HUG COMING AT GO WILD! Make sure you find me!!!!!

[@susanpilchard5417]

God bless you! I’m 55 years young and when my first was born we made the hard decision for me to quit the hr corporate world. Then my second baby came along who will be 22 on Monday! Wow! But it was the best decision I made. I did go back to work though and I ended up working for the school district part time when they started elementary and that has worked out great. Still going strong! God will be with you all along this journey! Enjoy every minute! It goes by way too fast!!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Susan! Thank you for sharing your story, it's so encouraging to hear!!

[@rhondapeyton8078]

Im so happy for you and proud of you making sacrifices for the health of you, your daughter and your family. My husband and i were both high school teachers when i got pregnant with our first kid. So i left teaching and he entered into administration. We were not the financially secure type to afford me staying home, but my kids did not lack for need. We struggled most of their young childhood to keep up with others, but it was worth it and i would do it again. I loved teaching and missed my job dearly, but now looking back on my stay at home life, i miss that time even more. I will be praying for you and I am excited to see how God shows up and shows off. Cant wait to hear you share some of those blessings with us. Take care of you and your family. God bless you.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you so much for sharing, Rhonda!! I so relate to what you're saying and the encouragement is a blessing!

[@butterflies015]

I encouraged my sister to finally retire. She has been a single mom and grandma since her teens. Always taking care of someone else. I'm happy to say she did. She recently moved closer to my niece and to there church. She is so much more happier. And she finally gets to live her life for herself. Without having anyone to take care of for the first in decades but herself. I've wanted that for her. And I think we can actually be able to see each other more now. She is in distance further. But in a lot of ways way closer. I hope this next stage in your life brings you the same peace and quality of life too. Know in your heart you are doing what is best for you. And don't let anyone step on that. Live your life in the best way you can to please God, you, and make you the best complete person for you, him, and your family. Make yourself happy spiritually, emotionally, psychologically, mentally, and physically the best you can. And be content in being that person. So your happiness never waivers. That's what counts and matters above all else. I wish you all that in in life. God bless and forge on in strength.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you so much for encouraging me!!

[@vrwood11]

Good for you! Praying for you that God provides all you need and many blessings along the way!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!! ❤

[@sandyK808]

Good for you! Life is short and flitting and babies grown up so fast. Go for it!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Sandy!!!!

[@maxinehowe7336]

I made that same decision years ago. It was so hard to give up my income as a computer programmer. My kids were not babies when I quit my job. Other moms quit their jobs when they had babies, then went back to work when the kids were in school. I did the opposite. And I also, at the time, decided to homeschool them. I never regretted a thing. One word of advice I have for you is to allow yourself some grace and time. In the homeschool world, there is a philosophy that you should give your kid(s) one month per year that they were in public school to decompress. For that time, do fun things, read to them or let them read as much as they want, play, whatever is needed to make the adjustment. I would suggest you do the same for yourself. Don't make any major decisions for awhile. Don't think you should constantly be working now that you have time to do things (like organizing, cleaning, expanding your channel, starting a business, etc). Take time for you. Take time to just have fun with your family. You can always add work a little at a time. Blessings to you as you enter this new chapter of life.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for sharing, Maxine! I read your comment to Josh, and he really appreciated your tips on the beginning stages and making room to decompress. That is SO helpful, and we'll be adding it to our tool belt come June!!

[@candacegordon2091]

I pray you walk the path God has written for you. And you do not go astray. Be strong in your journey. Enjoy your family.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!!

[@debra9024]

I applaud your courage and taking a leap of faith.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Debra!

[@blakeley-shea]

One other thing…my oldest sister (I’m one of 15 😁) has been trying to get me to close my business and start homeschooling my son. I hear her, but I’m so scared given everything that happened with my husband almost 2 yrs ago leaving him unemployed (that’s a whole other story in itself). I’m just nervous but the mom guilt is so REAL because I’m 100% not where i need to be with my faith, mental health, family, and especially my son. It’s something I continue to pray about and seeing this video is just another sign that God is hearing my prayers and showing me that I’m not alone. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing this! Xo Blakeley Shea

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Loss of employment of my spouse - or fear of loss of employment - was one thing that prevented me from quitting when Esther was first born. It's only now at the 16 month mark afterwards, where I've been able to let that go and just trust God with our livelihood! I think that's really a testimony to trusting God in the TIMING of your life and drawing closer to Him so that you can hear what He has for you. You are absolutely NOT alone girl!!! Keep praying for peace and direction, and don't let anyone convince you of actions you should or shouldn't take. If you draw nearer to Him, He will eclipse your fear with hope ❤ and that hope will give you courage!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

PS - 1 of 15?! My goodness!

[@blakeley-shea]

@@thejoyfulsojourn thank you so much for your response and kind words! I appreciate you so much for taking the time to respond and for the wonderful insight as well! And yes girl lol I’m #11 out of 15, we all get along so well it’s kinda crazy lol but I guess that’s why I only have one 😄 times are so different from when I was growing up, I don’t know how my parents did it! But blessed none the less! Xo

[@delilahshappylife]

As a fellow Higher Ed employee, GOOD FOR YOU!!! I know that you didn't make that decision lightly and you did what was best to protect you peace! It's a hard job and you did it for a long time. Enjoy time with your girl and doing the things you want to do!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

THANK YOU DELILAH!!!! ❤❤

[@jessicaloyer8090]

I love everything about this! ❤ You are amazing and such an inspiration.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Aw Jessica thank you ❤

[@stephanieplansandreads]

I'm so happy for you Elizabeth! You sound happy and at peace with your decision which tells me that your plan is in line with God's plan for you. Also, any decision you make can always be revisited. If you decide in a year that you want to go back to work, you can. Nothing is set in stone :)

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Stephanie! I really am, and that does affirm that I'm in alignment with God's plan for us!!

[@norajohnson7103]

I will pray for you,for sure.Thx for sharing.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Nora!

[@bubblepuffs]

Sounds like a very wise decision that you will all benefit from 😊❤ What an exciting new chapter of your life! 😄

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!!! Exciting indeed!!

[@margaretsaldana289]

I’m always late to the party! lol. Thank you for your video and I think you said it all. God has given all of us, time, treasures and talents. We are only accountable, in the end, to Him. God bless you and your family on your new journey. I hope to tune in more often to get inspired by you! Thanks for all you do. Have a great day!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Aw thank you for the encouragement Margaret, I appreciate you!

[@JuliaPaige.]

We took that leap of faith and the first few months were hard but God always made a way! We had enough and things are getting better! I’ll pray for you guys because this is going to be great for you and your family ❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you so much for sharing Julia! So helpful to hear that others have/are doing this, and are doing ok!

[@amygraham5970]

Beautiful testimony!!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Amy ❤

[@michellewood9646]

I believe everyone needs to go with what they feel sometimes, it may not be totally logical or practice on paper but if it feel right for what ever reasons you need to go for it. Remember as one chapter closes it provides opportunities for big brighter and other opportunities to be received. I say go for it. As well it will be so much easier as you have Josh to support you and Esta not only financially but emotionally and lovingly. Just remember “Team work makes the DREAM work “. I really wish you all the best and every success, as they say you need money to make the world go round but there is more important things In life that money cant buy. I applaud you for taking this leap of faith an I say go for it xx

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Michelle!!

[@almaflores4410]

I think this is great!! I will definitely keep you in my prayers as I'm so sure He will be with you every step of the way because of your sincere heart to honor God with all that He has gifted you: your family, time, skills and talents. I pray a double portion of blessings for your husband for being so supportive and understanding of your needs in this season of your lives.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Alma, thank you so much! I read your message to Josh and he said 'thank you!' as well!

[@almaflores4410]

@@thejoyfulsojourn Your welcome. My prayer is heartfelt because I have a loved one about your age who has sadly not received that type of support from their spouse so it is encouraging to me to see what a godly young couple looks like.

[@brynmarkovich497]

Good for you Elizabeth! I think this is a beautiful decision - one that God will honor. Don’t allow the devil to feed you doubts and steal your joy!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Amen to that! Thank you!!!

[@kimcameron7123]

Oh Elizabeth, I am so excited and happy for you. Remember to always do you and don’t pay attention to the naysayers sayers. You are such an amazingly strong beautiful woman. I am so glad I found your channel. I wish I lived in your geographical area. Hugs!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Aw thank you Kim!! I appreciate your encouragement, always! Such a blessing ❤

[@kimfields1000]

Elizabeth, I’m so proud of you! Taking a leap of faith can be hard, but equally rewarding. I was lucky enough to build a business before my son was born and work from home part-time before it was a thing! It was wonderful being able to be my son’s primary caregiver and also run a business. Having a supportive husband made all the difference. Prayers for you and yours as you enter this new phase of your life 💛

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Ah I love hearing this! It's my dream to be able to be with Esther AND have my own little business - hearing of others doing that is such an encouragement! And YES, Josh is incredibly supportive and we're both excited for all God has in store for us!

[@matthewdsilva84]

Thank you for sharing this Elizabeth. This took a lot for you to tell us and I certainly appreciate the courage this took. It was obviously a decision you and Josh discussed and you’ve prayed on. I was lucky enough to have my Mom home for a few years after her job became redundant. Now I realize this is different because you chose resignation but it was hard for her to decide to stay home. She’s always contributed to our family and her work, like yours was part of her identity for 25 years. My Mom had me 11 years after my two brothers and she lost her job right before they were to start university. Thank goodness when have our faith and God provided. As someone that benefited from my Mom being at home, I cherished that she could pick me up from school; that she could go in school trips; that she could make our lunches sometimes; that she would greet me when I got home from school. It was so special. It will take time for you to love it and trust me, as a “stay at home Mom” you are so much more. God bless you in this new chapter in your life.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience from the other side - it's encouraging to see the fruit of a child who really cherished the additional time with mom. I'm looking forward to providing that to Esther!!!

[@back2basicswithemily784]

👏👏👏👏proud of you! I did the samething not too long ago. BEST DECISION I EVER MADE!!!! I wish you the best❤❤❤❤❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Ahh! I need to hear that, thank you for the encouragement!!!!

[@back2basicswithemily784]

Of course friend! Right now, it seems scary. The unknown will play with your mind. Don't let the demons in! Stay strong and trust in the Lord! And you'll come out on top.

[@susannek4546]

this is a great decision for you! I can tell you as a full time stay-at-home mom with two teens that time spent with them has decreased since they are both in high school and spending more and more time with friends in their extra curricular activities. I had both late in life and I now feel that I have said no to so much before in the realm of self-care that I am trying to figure out what I now want to say yes to in nearly every area of my life.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for sharing, Susanne! As a new mom at 40, it's important for me to hear others experiences so I can learn as I go!

[@blakeley-shea]

Awww, love seeing that beautiful face that matches that happy voice! CONGRATULATIONS on your “retirement” (so to speak) with your academic leave…it’s sad that there will be one less AMAZING TEACHER out there, but so happy that you’re doing what makes YOU happy! Wishing you the BEST with all your future endeavors in whatever path you choose! Just hope to still see you here on KZbin for selfish reasons bc you always put a smile on my face! Here’s to NEW BEGINNINGS 🎉🥂

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Aw thank you Blakeley! Haha - yes, my 'retirement' - love it!!

[@theresamealler6583]

Elizabeth, this is wonderful. So happy for you and your family. Prayers continue for you and your family. Our God is such loving God...

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Amen! Thank you Theresa!!❤

[@gabbielovestoplan]

My momma heart is soo happy for you! I think you won’t regret it. Money comes and goes but there is a special joy in seeing your little one grow and being able to be there through all of it. I wish you and your family all the best’ sending good vibes! 💜💜

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Aww thank you Gabbie!!! Agreed, wholeheartedly!

[@rubybrown-herring4397]

Congratulations! I was a student affairs professional for 10 years and had my twin girls during the last 5 years of my career at age 30. It was hard! I left the field in 2007 and went to work in continuing education and later state government. I left my gub'ment job in February 2021 to work full-time for myself at the ripe age of 49. My husband and I had a similar conversation to the one you and Josh had. It was just time. God has provided and it was the best decision I could have ever made. Wishing you nothing but the best as you get to spend more QT with your family and you get to focus on YOU!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Oh my goodness LOOK AT YOU! What a tremendous career, TWINS, and now the adventure of working full-time for YOU! This is exactly the encouragement I needed to hear, thank you so much! And many blessings to you and your family with your venture too!

[@patlarson5986]

Good for you guys. I’m really happy for you all.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Pat!

[@angiepayne6104]

Good for you Elizabeth! I get the whole identity thing. When my kids were little, I stayed home with them until my youngest went to kindergarten. That was my dream, and we made it happen! Then later I worked at an elementary school as a paraeducator for special needs children. This was the best job I ever had. Like you, I was very good at my job, and I loved it! However, in 2018, there were some circumstances in my life that have required me to be at home again. I missed my job, identity, all my teacher friends/family so badly. It took years to get over it. I would suggest keeping in touch with a handful of your friends from work and nurturing those friendships with coffee dates, and lunch dates once in a while. It will be good for your transition to keep some of that life/identity still there with you for a while. I think you are making an excellent choice!!! Even before Ester was born, you have been beyond the moon in love with her. I think God is working through your husband to put the finishing touches on this to make this work or your family. God bless you all! I am really happy for you Elizabeth! 💕

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for the encouragement and tips, I appreciate them so much! And you are SO RIGHT re: God working through Josh. It blew me away that he brought it up again out of nowhere and after several months of not talking about it! His peace really led our family in this!

[@LeoGirl80]

I’m so proud of you for finally taking a step for the betterment of you as an individual and not in a career sense. I pray that you find all that you’re seeking and that you find yourself becoming closer to yourself in all of the best ways. As moms sometimes, we forget that we have to keep our cups full in order to be the best parents we can to our children. I pray you find more of Elizabeth while on this journey. 🖤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you so much for the encouragement!!

[@LeoGirl80]

@@thejoyfulsojourn My pleasure! As a 43 year old mom and newish grandmother (she’ll be 2 in September 🥰), I totally get how at this age especially we need to be reminded that we are entire human beings outside of the roles that we play. I’m always happy to give another lady in these adult diagnosed ADHD streets. I was diagnosed at 40 also, so I’m right there on this road with you. You’re far from alone, and we all can’t wait to see you bloom!

[@kimp6399]

I love this! Best of luck to you

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!! ❤

[@sweetpea2421]

Praise God! Thank you for sharing your story and life with us! As a fellow one income family I can assure you that you will not lack. You are stepping out on faith and trusting God to fulfill his promises. Psalm 23 my friend! Money comes and goes but your spiritual life is eternal. I will pray for you and stand in agreement and intercession with you. God loves you and God will keep you. Keep your eyes on him and continue to be transparent with him. Watch how much you will feel his presence on you and your family! God bless you my sister in Christ! ❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Ahhh! Such a wonderful message of encouragement, THANK YOU for chiming in and for keeping us in your prayers!

[@KendraWithAPlan]

God bless you and your family! Having faith in God will take care of everything else. Thanks for sharing your truth 🫶🏾

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you boo!! Big squeeze coming in one month ❤

[@planwithkellye2926]

Hiiii ❤ great update and wishing you the best

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Hiiiii! Thank you!! ❤

[@cherylcoomer8970]

May God bless you! 🙏❤️

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Cheryl!!!!

[@marshablount353]

You are 100% doing the right thing in my opinion. God is good and always provides. 😊

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Marsha for that encouragement and reminder ❤

[@leolaparke3222]

May God richly bless you and your family in this next season of life

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you friend ❤

[@anursewithplans-andrea6974]

I love this for you and your family!!!!!!! ❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you Andrea!! ❤

[@johnandkathykeener7720]

Good for you. You shouldn’t need to explain anything. Being a mom is the most incredible job.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you ❤❤

[@Claudia29again1]

WHAT A BLESSING that you can stay at home with Esther! They grow up in a blink of an eye and you can’t get that time back so for you to be able to do this is amazing! I worked as a teacher and realized my 1st daughter was spending more time at daycare than with me and her daddy, so we made some financial arrangements and sacrifices and I stayed home with her and my other 2 kids when they were born! My middle daughter Rebecca had a baby (18 months old now named Elizabeth) and she realized she needed to work and get out of the house and be more than just mommy so Mimi (me), her sister, her best friend and her SIL all help her watch Elizabeth while she works. We get to spend time with her, she (El) gets to know her family members and Rebecca gets to work in the field she always wanted and is blessed to have family and not strangers care for her baby! Neither role is good or bad, it’s whatever is best for each person and you get to do what is best for you and your precious family! It will be different and at times difficult- I always thought being a SAHM and home manager was harder than working as a teacher but in the end, it was worth it! Just remember to take time for yourself in no other role than just being Elizabeth and what she loves to do! Blessings! 😊

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for sharing, Claudia! Your granddaughter Elizabeth is near in age to my Esther - how special it is that you can be a part of her childhood as well (my mom is here as well, and she gets lots of time with her too)! It'll be interesting to see how my first few months/ year go, and I have open hands for whatever is in store!

[@pollyolsen5835]

Enjoy your time with her, mama. She'll be five before you know it. ♥

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Ahh! That's the truth! Thank you!! ❤

[@blakeley-shea]

Would love to see some of these video ideas!!! Bible Study, Crafting, Hobbies, Cleaning, Mom Life Hacks, Wardrobe, DIY’s, Books you’re reading! Omg I’m in the process of finally doing something with my KZbin channel after many years of having it and that’s to share my love for books, stationary, me lol and a realistic look on everyday life without the IG home aesthetic lol if you catch my drift. Just a regular mom who lives in a nice home that is an average blue collar income family…if that lol

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for all the video ideas!!!!!!! Writing down...

[@blakeley-shea]

@@thejoyfulsojourn you’re so welcome! If I can think of anything else I’ll comment them here so they’ll be in one place lol 🫶🏼

[@pamburris170]

I stayed home with my kids for 9 years and often struggled with my identity and that was back in the 90’s.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

It seems to be a struggle for many of us! But there's so much value in the home ❤

[@rachelbarker0517]

I love that you're relying on your faith to pursue your happiness! God is a provider. He will provide ❤

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you for that encouragement, Rachel! ❤

[@Cordelia0704p]

Oh how wonderful!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

❤❤❤

[@julieallenby6086]

Good for you in making this decision ! Sometimes you have to trade money for time. The Holy Spirit led the way for you to have the courage to make this choice. You will find new peace in this new direction of your life.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you so much for sharing that wisdom - it's so true!

[@cathy2142]

Stay at home mom wife of 21 years❤❤❤. Congrats. How old is your daughter😊

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Thank you!! ❤ Esther is 16 months old, she'll be 19 months when I'm officially done with the job

[@patlarson5986]

Oh my goodness I thought you were going to say you were pregnant. Lol I have missed seeing your videos.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Haha definitely not pregnant, but hey I do believe in miracles - Esther is proof of that! We'll see if God has another one for us *shrug*

[@KristiLyons-ib3jx]

This really resonates with me!! I sent you an email!!

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Hi Kristi, I got your email and will reply this week! (But I'll briefly say it was such a blessing, thank you for taking the time to send that, I appreciate it!)

[@LizzaLee]

You mean you resigned from ONE of your roles. Being a mom is a 24/7 thing. You have a side gig here. You need to nurture your relationship with your husband. I don't know how you have been holding on since Esther was born.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Ha! This is absolutely true!! And you hit the nail on the head - nurturing my relationship with Josh, and, *barely hanging on since Esther was born! The time needed to be right, and I'm so thankful it's NOW! (well, June!)

[@nbmcla2]

You will be a domestic engineer. It’s a big job and I’m sure you will knock it out of the park.

[@thejoyfulsojourn]

Love this, thank you!!!❤❤❤