Unexpected Chemo Side Effects + An Unexpected Giveaway

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[@itsgrace]

FREE TOYS OR GIFT CARDS FOR TOYS! Everyone who signs up to my giveaway with Bellesa wins something! Ohhhh la la! 🙃 www.bboutique.co/vibe/gracehelbig-yt

[@Jovixgal]

Hey so it's a discount off your order up to $250, not a giveaway for anything free. Idk what they told you it was but this is kind of like false advertising.

[@scouts92]

LOL thank you omg. I never win anything!

[@Jovixgal]

@@ralmilk It is a good discount, but it's also not a giveaway. In my country calling it a competition and a giveaway when it's a discount coupon, is false advertising and highly illegal. Now the company has my email which I have no doubt will be sold on, which, also, not cool.

[@melrox8809]

I need one of those 😉🤨

[@piercemybb]

I love you! I have watched you since the early days of Daily Grace and seeing you on Tech TV/Attack of the Show..... I really love you!

[@CosmicEngimas]

The “canyouseeittttt!?” Was such a throw back that I didn’t know I needed. I will now be stimming this for weeks haha thanks Helbig! ❤

[@Onyx_wolf]

Ahhh!! I got so giddy to hear it!! Made my heart soo happy!!

[@coheed33633]

It was EVERYTHING!

[@erininabox]

I loved every repetition of it! Such a simple joke, but so funny to me, every single time! 😂

[@karidouglas7443]

I have missed this so much. I actually say this to myself ALL OF THE TIME! Thank you G! I am so happy for this video and hearing you say “breast cancer survivor “ ❤❤❤❤❤

[@MiztuhJ]

I frequent the "canyouseeit???!" when asking about an object I am holding while placing it in front of my other hand as to catch the person's focus as if they are a camera even tho they are not and there is no need, but I feel like there is, for the bit to be complete in my soul lol

[@DavidDavis-fishing]

I swear the earth stopped rotating for a second when Grace graced us with "CAN YOU SEEEE IT!" Great to see you doing so well and kicking cancer in da nutzs (or in you case your left boob)

[@juliesue9895]

I cracked up so hard when you said “ It’s like a little horny Polly pocket” that was just the best!

[@juliesue9895]

And thanks for such a sweet deal Ms Grace!! I placed my order already! 🎉

[@itsgrace]

@@juliesue9895 🙌🏻

[@kenbrown2927]

You had me at "horny Polly Pocket" and "silent... for when you're at the movies!" ---- Proud of you, Grace ♡♡

[@foggyfrogg]

Me too 😂❤

[@kyliesparks1435]

"Popsockets could never. And they shouldn't! That's not what they're made for" Lmaoooooooo

[@neele3817]

To hear you say the words “can ya see it” was great but nothing beats the words “breast cancer survivor” ❤ that little quiver in your voice when you said it 🥹 yes, you freaking did it, girl 💪🏻❤️

[@yayitsyenny]

I saw a tiktok of someone doing a haul and they did the CAN YOU SEE IT bit, and it was so fun seeing a Grace viewer in the wild.

[@itsgrace]

love that!

[@michaelcox9016]

Glad to see you havent lost that spark. Seems like the whole situation hasnt broken your spirit. You go girl.

[@daphneblake420]

Ok immediately in love with that cardigan

[@tessgonzalez]

I'm so happy Mamrie convinced you this was a sponsor you could work with! This is the most fun adult toy presentation I've seen & I have several friends who were Pure Romance shills for a very long time.

[@CuriousCorduroy]

I appreciate the throwback to the “CAN YA SEE IT?!” I missed it.

[@yeahitslachlan]

Having Grace smooshing a vibrator at the camera and saying 'CAN YOU SEE IT?!' has warmed my millennial heart. I encourage these changes

[@drdanny11]

I've been a fan since the "what's up f*ers" days, but you are now officially my hero. I wanna be just like you when I grow up, but since I'm over 70 and still haven't grown up,..... You're incredibly brave to share this, and I suspect you're helping more than just your 2.6M subs. All the best, DrD

[@steffiee2783]

Lupron straight up sent me to a place of emotion that should be documented on the discovery channel. Bless my loved ones who had to handle me 😂 Grace, thank you for being vulnerable and open. As a long time quiet viewer seeing this era of Grace is such a time. Wishing you health, happiness and so much joy for 2024 and beyond ❤️

[@itsgrace]

hahaha i feel that!

[@nicolecurren4764]

Lupron is the worst! And probably the best, if it does what it’s supposed to… but damn! So much about cancer treatment sucks. I was not prepared for any of it. You ladies are amazing!! Keep up the positivity Grace ❤❤ It makes a really shitty situation more tolerable.

[@alanruppelt1019]

I helped my wife through 19 chemo infusions and I have now had 6 of them. Accordingly, I have achieved "veteran" status at my local chemo infusion clinic. I can definitely relate to your comments and I much appreciate the positive spin you put on the very stressful situation. Thanks for sharing and thanks for the laugh therapy!

[@damned4lifevamp]

I had my ovaries removed and I’m doing chemo now. The early menopause and chemo together are pretty shit, so this video is really hitting home. Sexual health has been a big concern of mine because i needed a total hysterectomy and it seems like it’s the last thing that medical professionals want to discuss. I’m doing a cold cap program cause I heard about it from you. Thank you soooooo much for sharing your journey.

[@itsgrace]

I'm sorry you have to go through all of this, but you can do it!

[@stephanierussell9355]

I just finished radiation a few weeks ago and want to say get several tubs of aquaphor! My radiation oncologist said to use it at least twice a day but my surgeons said I should use it 4-6 times a day especially as you get closer to the end of the treatment course. It’s super annoying but really slather that stuff on… it’ll help a lot. Best of luck ♥️

[@itsgrace]

thanks for this rec!!

[@TiffSpiffy]

Oh yeah, and be prepared to ditch supportive undergarments. My onc nurse told me she didn't WANT me to wear a bra - I couldn't thank her enough for saying so.

[@stephanierussell9355]

@@TiffSpiffyabsolutely! Loose, soft shirts are the way to go with nothing on underneath

[@ana__who]

So happy you're much better now Grace 🥰 I'm a cancer specialist and it's really interesting hearing these reports from patients and I feel it improves my practice with my patients too, so thank you for sharing! I've never commented before, but It's also very strange to realise my favourite people on the internet like you and hank and even jake from Vsauce 3 have battled with cancer, specially when I started watching you all since before I went to Uni. Wishing you ALL the best ♥

[@lisastefani169]

A forever friend of mine will pause in conversation... then blink her eyes back into alert mode and simply say 'chemo brain'. I'm just happy she's still here to joke about it. 🤗

[@jennifer_who]

"Pop Sockets could never. And they shouldn't. That's not what they're made for" 😂

[@rickyzee3154]

grace screaming canyouseeittt?? at the camera whilst thrusting (pardon the pun) the object into the camera lens is something that has been greatly missed. much nostalgia

[@Tiphany_01]

Coming on the internet and talking about all the uncomfortable things so even one singular person going through something similar can not feel alone is peak Helbig. Good on ya Grace ❤

[@huntergoblin]

Thank you for sharing all of this Grace!! You are SO awesome always!!

[@lininacrowne1941]

This is really educational. I'm so glad you're through some of these difficult times.

[@amywolff444]

“CAN YOU SEE IT?!”😆🥰That was like a strangely aggressive hug that I desperately needed today.

[@skasmark]

Obsessed with the cosmic sweater!

[@itsgrace]

zara!

[@TheRinnieBobinnie]

I’m a 9 year cancer survivor (diagnosed at 28 :( ) and had estrogen positive, stage 2 breast cancer. I was treated with FEC-D chemo, surgery, radiation, then more surgery as I found out I’m a BRCA1 mutation carrier. My most unexpected side effects have been, unfortunately, chronic/long-lasting - cancer related fatigue and permanent hair loss. Both have been so hard to come to terms with as my “new normal” isn’t even what I was expecting my “new normal” to look like and I’ve had difficulty finding others who have experienced these long term side effects too. Thank you for sharing your experience, Grace!

[@itsgrace]

I'm sorry you've been going through that, that SUCKS. But congrats on 9 years, and pushing through something so overwhelming at such a young age! 💖

[@TheRinnieBobinnie]

@@itsgrace thank you ❤️

[@ninadaggett]

I suffer with chronic fatigue and permanent hair loss after cancer, I’m sorry you experienced this too coz most peoples hair grows back and people try to tell me hair grows back and I’m like no. Not for me, and after many years i still cant quite accept it. Hope you are doing ok. The “new normal” is definately not what i expected either

[@MariaMaria-jm2ko]

Love you! Been sharing my cancerjourney with yours, thank you for have being such a light in the cancerdarkness!

[@RoryeOConnor]

Grace, amazing sweater. Love it! Y’all, the air vibe. It is magical.

[@ajoy__]

Proud of you for being so vulnerable. Your cardigan is incredible!

[@felicityisshitty]

the most "grace" video ever and i could not be enjoying it more! i love this woman.

[@pammsedwards279]

Thanks you so much for your brutal honesty and humor throughout. A friend was just diagnosed and I was happy to be able to share your KZbin page with her to ease and inform her process. You're helping more people than you realize.

[@beverlym5465]

This video touched my feelings like no other. You are so precious, the courage and dignity you show us is so pure. The memories of my own breast cancer sojourn (2 times) popped into my head, and how I counseled many a fearful woman. I stand in awe of your gracefulness, Grace. Stay sweet and take care ♎️☮️ I ordered a toy for myself straight away! Thank you!

[@CarolinaTorres-fg7so]

It feels good seeing you getting back into the grove! Get it girl!

[@petalpassion3636]

You truly are an amazing person! You make me smile when all I wanna do is sleep the day away. Thank you for sharing your journey, yourself with us! ❤

[@matthewcary6784]

This vid coming from the person that created Not Too Deep shows your growth and was wonderful to see. You're a cool human. Also, big OG Grace vibes.

[@chaz12582]

Thank you for sharing! You are a light on the internet! ❤️

[@tobd98556]

i never knew that i missed CAN YOU SEE IT until now. for the 1486th time you made my day

[@beuimTV]

Proud of your efforts to feel good, do what you like and incredibly continue updating here on YT bc I mean these topics are not broadly spoken the side effects of the treatment in this detailed way Keep pushing grl on being cancer free!!! ❤❤❤

[@takeadeepbreathin]

Sending you all of my love and best wishes! You are helping so many people and it’s so awesome. You are an amazing human being.

[@mountup716]

Grace I've been watching you for literally forever so say I am elated is an understatement of how happy I am for you. Hope happy I am for you to close this chapter how hopeful I am for you for the future I absolutely adore your strength humor and light you shine baby girl you SHINE BIG HUGE HUGS LOVE YOU ❤️

[@laurenchalmers405]

LOVE the 'can you see it?' throw back, put me in such a good mood hearing you feeling a bit like your old self and giving us long time fans a bit of nostalgia! Love ya Grace!

[@kineokami]

Time for my first toy and Grace is vibing. Thank you Grace! I am super excited! And your brows are looking beautiful! And you just mentioned them! I am proud of them too. O diarrhea guidelines.. back to the video! Thanks again girl~

[@marinagerezvalenzuela5740]

great to see you're doing better!!! 🤩

[@camillastacey4674]

I'm currently perimenopausal and so much of what you were saying resonated with me- I feel like my brain has totally fallen out my head, and I'm even clumsier than normal! Was so good to hear 'can ya see it!?' again and to see how positive you seem right now. Now to see if I can get a vibrator sent to me in the UK, although menopause has put a pause on feeling frisky.

[@nicolecurren4764]

As a fellow breast cancer warrior, I just want to say, you are doing awesome!! And being 7 years post chemo, on hormone suppression treatments, forced menopause is no joke. It sucks and I’m still dealing with the loss of libido. Ugh, cancer, the gift that keeps on giving. Thank you for this sponsorship! Amazing product and fantastic discount. Seriously life changing. 😂😂

[@Maleblade]

Glad you are getting better Grace.

[@shantelrae1]

I love this video ❤ Relatable and timely for me lol so thank you G!

[@Starinthesky826]

OMG when the "The Pebble" was bobbled 😂😂 I fell off my chair Mamrie style, cackling!!! 😂 And I want that cosmic sweater!! 😍🌠🌌

[@juliagregory4540]

Thank you for your vulnerability❤️ and I love your sweater😄

[@christyfigg3548]

The "Can You See It" throwback made me sob...

[@bluejay9515]

CAN YOU SEE IT??? so nostalgic...brings me back to middle school!!! im 25 now! sending so much love. thanks for keeping active on here

[@tijmentammyhaaze9692]

The burst of joy I felt hearing you say CAN YA SEE IT. I had no idea I missed it that much. ❤

[@thetinycauldron2028]

The "canyaseeit" warmed my little DailyGrace heart.

[@allentowngal4769]

How great of you to give such a candid and HILARIOUS insight so others can have a heads up should they also be diagnosed. Gotta say... I'm an old fart and boy! Toys have come a looooonnnng way!😮😂😂😂😂

[@jpjjr1961]

I'm almost weeping with joy for the return of "Canja see it? Didja see it?."

[@sloth0jr]

Helbig "Can you see it?" Nice callback from olden days. Appreciated!

[@jasonhunter2819]

At the movies lol SO happy for your eyebrows!! Hank better watch his back, Helbig is coming for his science brand!

[@loes3000]

Damn you and Mamrie just randomly crossed my mind at 6:48 AM so I started lurking yalls pages and never thought Id see this. Im only 31 seconds in rn but hoping you’re feeling well and taking it easy. Thanks for all the laughs you gave teenage me😂😂😂looking forward to 40 more years!

[@MarkThePage]

I love that top. It's like Ms. Frizzle with a reasonable amount of chill.

[@itsgrace]

🙏🏻

[@virlinehonore9767]

2:20-2:23 ngl that was a jump scare, but it was welcomed and gave me so much nostalgia 😂😂

[@ashleychall]

Grace, I've been watching you since day one and was recently diagnosed with hormone negative HER2 positive breast cancer. Your channel was the first place I came to. Thank you.

[@user-jw8cx8uc1h]

Living for these chaotic vibes (pun intended) and hope you're doing well!

[@caustic1611]

I've owned the pebble for a few months now, and imo it's an excellent budget-friendly way to figure out if suction is for you (and if the answer is no, it still vibrates 😄)

[@patti3437]

Grace, I've been a long time subscriber and follower, and I'm just in awe of how you just keep being authentically you, even with the shit cancer diagnosis and chemo. So glad you're better. ❤

[@Jaredudes]

Thank you for sharing not only your experience, but yourself! My mother passed away from breast cancer in ‘89. I was only 3 at the time. You’ve allowed me to get closer to her in a way that’s inexplicable. I never wanted to hear anything about it…. I have to give you your flowers! You’ve always been awesome; But this is on another level. Thanks for sharing Grace. 💚

[@itsgrace]

💖💪🏻

[@michaeljacksin9367]

you seemed to handle it really well. laughter and chemicals in the bloodstream are the best medicine

[@PfreshLim]

I SEE IT AND GIMMMIT!! THANK YOU!! We are having fun!

[@justmeish1997]

Best "AD" I've ever watched... Period! 😆🙈

[@Schmoopie56]

As a woman of a certain age who is going through menopause "naturally," my heart goes out to you, having to experience that hellstorm in the midst of everything else. Thank you for talking about it. ❤

[@bekahpollard7825]

So proud of you Grace!! Thank you for sharing, as always!! Also so proud you did the sex toy brand deal!!!!

[@Fry_Plantain]

Another hurdle you've overcome........... We're all proud of you Grace!

[@ilfaitsoleil13]

Grace! If you’re still experiencing hot flashes, I found that a prescription for gabapentin helped a ton…with hot flashes and with sleeping as well. So glad you’re past the chemo part. Since your radiation is on tap, consider getting Manuka honey lotion/ointment and applying religiously after each treatment. It will reduce the sunburn and skin damage. Best of luck!

[@lilly6766]

You are pure gold!

[@caitlindemara2308]

Okay that sweater thooo!!!

[@AmandaRomig-ij5wb]

GRACEEEE the "canyaseeitttttt" made me so nostalgic. Love you so much girl

[@amyspeers8012]

I’m on immunotherapy treatment for melanoma and I totally get the reality tv thing. I live in France and bought a subscription to a streaming service so I could see a lot of the shows and just veg. I am so glad you are talking about all of this. Thanks! Much love from Gensac, France.

[@itsgrace]

💖

[@ttub_waffles]

this is very/scary - life/changing. beautiful of you to share. thank you, and thank yourself!

[@xcluelessbeautyx]

You look really happy Grace. 🥺 I said, out loud to my dog, “look at us growing up and talking about sex drive and menopause symptoms let’s goooo”

[@besroh]

I didn't know my soul needed a did you see it moment. You have completed me. Love ya grace

[@desiregonzales6246]

Yippee!!! "Can you see it," guest appearance!

[@mkn309]

I feel like a lot of symptoms really remind me of pregnancy (probably because of the hormonal similarities), where I experienced lots of symptoms that I didn’t think would happen (like the smelling thing, sexual changes, severe fatigue, etc). But at the end of it my stuff resolved and I got the baby I wanted in return for it. You are a trooper Grace for going through all this, I’m so glad to hear you’re doing better and better!

[@kelsowheels]

Anyone else got real stoked to hear the canyaseeit revival! 😂❤️

[@collectingscars]

Hi Grace, this is such amazing information! I'm always so grateful to hear about another young breast cancer survivor's experience. I was diagnosed when I was 33 and it's been 9 years since my diagnosis, which feels crazy but also amazing. My lesser-known side effect was how achy my legs would get. They hurt SO MUCH all the time. I also had the brain fog/spacey side effects. Truthfully that never really went away - I still forget what I'm saying mid-sentence and my recall for names of people and things is pretty low. But I've learned to be gentle with myself and have a good sense of humor about it. Just a couple clarifications from your video that I wanted to make: HER2+ and Triple Positive are not exactly the same thing. You need to be HER2+ to have Triple Positive Breast Cancer, but there are other types of breast cancer that are HER2+. I had HER2+ Ductal Carcinoma. I did have the exact same combo of chemo drugs as you, though. Also, it's the chemo itself that will make you go into menopause and Lupron is available to preserve your fertility. I chose not to do Lupron because my insurance wouldn't cover it and I wasn't planning on having children, but I still went through menopause. Those hot flashes are fun, huh? :) Wishing you the best of everything! The effects of cancer don't just go away, but with time (and maybe some therapy) things really do get better and better. 💕

[@jlongino51823]

Thank you for talking about the hoodies and clothing that is perfect for infusions. I have Multiple Sclerosis and have infusions. So easy! I’m so happy for you! ❤

[@itsgrace]

yes they are awesome!

[@mmacg]

Hey grace, you rule. Your vulnerability is so helpful for folks. that sweater is fucking dope as hell, too.

[@itsgrace]

💪🏻

[@am4728]

YES YOU GET THAT BAG HELBIG! ps the canyouseeit- i died

[@TheAdzyPadzy]

quite a ride but i loved this video, thank you grace!

[@pugs4sue]

I love that sweater!

[@nat-qe7mx]

the menopausal state and the chemo rash yes!! i have them too and they did concern me for quite some time 😌

[@lfstaib91]

"waterproof, for when you're out in the rain".

[@anaproduce8159]

CANYASEEETT????? YAAAAS IT'S BACK!

[@WhimsicalTori]

The not being done after chemo was the hardest part to work through. I had been counting down infusions and then when I got to zero nothing changed

[@creese.tee.nah21]

i love that sweater!!!!!!! AHHHHH I WANT IT

[@anthonynelson6671]

Congrats, you almost made me spit out my coffee from giggles.

[@jillmitchell-holmes4835]

For my breast cancer, I did AC-T (Adriamycin, Cyclophosphamide, Taxol), and I wouldn't say I had too many unexpected side effects, but one thing that happened that was fun was that my farts started sounding like a balloon that's been part-way blown up and let loose ripping through the air. It's the butthole hair falling out. 100/10, brought me lots of much needed joy.

[@shanedean7332]

Oh my god, you have no idea how hard I just laughed at this! What an amazing mental image!

[@itsgrace]

hahahaha

[@CassidyQuinn]

Ahhhh ok so i cannot relate to the cancer + chemo, but what you said about getting sucked into reality TV made SO much sense to me and I can so relate. Since we lost my mom (in a traumatic way) 2.5 years ago, I've started to mostly only want to watch reality TV... i do not want to watch violence or doomsday type things. I hadnt really connected it to my grief/trauma until watching this video. So GRAAAACE you are helping not only fellow cancer people but the rest of us too 💜 THANK YOU CAN YOU SEE ITTTTT ("it" being the gratitude and love!!)

[@itsgrace]

Cassidy! I hate that you're going through that, but happy you're finding more understanding. 💪🏻💖

[@leonardsusskindswar7258]

I can completely understand and relate to having a hard time trusting your body after you've gone through something so difficult. It's almost like it's betrayed you, and you have to learn to both trust it again, and find your new normal. And if you happen to have a weird body that likes to throw you weird curveballs, you have to find peace and acceptance.

[@itsgrace]

exactly that!

[@susanmcmillan6130]

QUEEN, we love you.