Unexpectedly Inherited $3M From My StepDad But Now My Estranged Husband Showedup To Demand His Share

[@lavnlas]

Inheritances are not community property... And not a shared asset... Spouses have no right to any of the money

[@tracyperez1755]

He was gone from her life for 6 years, how can he even call himself a husband to make a claim, when he actually LIVES with another woman? No court was going give him anything, and he hadn't made any house payments for at least 6 years? How can he keep a straight face when saying "his house"? What a loser. She wasn't good enough for him? For what? An adulterous bum?

[@girl1213]

@@tracyperez1755He wanted his ego stroked and she wasn't doing it for him.

[@benny2125]

That's why the stories make no sense sometimes.

[@fieldsofsummer]

I agree, but I wonder if that is true outside of the US. I’m not sure it is as easy to claim compensation from the cheating partner in the States as these stories seem to indicate.

[@maryguokas8018]

in most states in the US. there are exceptions.

[@sherrimunsey]

Yay, OP!!! I'm so proud of u! You are a beautiful person inside and out, and deserve the very best that life has to offer. Get out there and enjoy it!!!

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Nta. He flaked out for over half a decade. I would still be laughing on the floor at his ignorance.

[@fredvelasco9187]

Happy for your outcome. Go live your best life!!

[@krissielongknife1479]

Mr. Reddito its obvious you have never been an overweight female. Omg!! I've had guys moo at me. I've had girls laugh at me in gym, and teachers treat me badly, all because i was 10 to 20 pounds over what they considered ideal weight. I was lucky to find a wonderful man who always told me i was beautiful, even when i was 75lbs overweight. I've struggled my whole life, but the worst pain was when my kids got bullied because i was fat.

[@kellibrenneke2253]

Yes!!!

[@nancymcclain2533]

You go girl. Body image is other peoples problem. It's about THEIR likes. You were abandoned by x and have no worries to loose to him... CHERRY on top would be if he has to pay punitive damages and alimony

[@Zurround]

This story did not really make much sense to me. Its not like she was thin when they first met then only put weight on later. She was over weight from the start with him so if that was not the kind of person he wanted to share his life with why marry her in the first place? It just makes no sense?

[@Zurround]

@@tthettai I wonder how many people with severe eating disorders like anorexia or bullemia had PARENTS like that jerk???

[@pamelahoracek]

Good for OP and winning her case. All I have to say, since she is still in the legal sense of being married to James, she needs to write a will and list a beneficiary to her estate. If she does not, and she unexpectedly passes away without any beneficiary, I believe her husband will inherit her estate. If her mother is still alive, it would be divided between the two of them. I do not know if this is right and maybe her mother can bring up the Legal case her daughter won and proved she would not want her husband to have any of her estate.

[@SherryClemens-po3ur]

He wants everything start sending his share of the back bill 😂

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

You did the right thing 👍🥰🤠😍😃😅

[@dionne4091]

Dam I'd sell the house and move away

[@genevastrayhorn9640]

She didn't robbed him.She deserved everything.

[@vanessacallahan3515]

People don’t realize that making fun of overweight people are pushing them into eating more and moving around less. In fact it sends them into a depression and they go for their addiction to cope. My husband was overweight. We didn’t worry about how he looked but his health because he was disabled. He was the best person ever. Everyone loved him once they got to know him.

[@johnhazlett3711]

The important thing is also check to see if there's an underlying medical condition, such as low thyroid hormones. My wife had weight problems too. It took more than too years, she's made so much progress, and had to buy clothes often because of how much she's lost. But just in case, see a doctor for a thorough check up.

[@maggielucy9824]

How can you value a man or woman who degrade you for being yourself? Even with a loving heart, it still makes no sense.

[@Khrysalis01]

Some people love being a victim.

[@ilanathellama1255]

​@@Khrysalis01okay James

[@NPRYRS]

Mr. Reddito 😭😅😅🤣 your hoochie mama outfits are hilarious 💯❗‼️

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

He got what he deserves

[@susanfalconedaquino3623]

The husband couldn't get any of the inheritance as it is not considered community property.

[@kellibrenneke2253]

In the US, yes but there are many other countries in the world other than the US!

[@alex83637]

Op toxic x husband is your doing the right thing. Believe in yourself and love yourself. I'm a 59 years young man. I have to believe in myself and love myself for who I am. Not taking anything from your situation. Be strong

[@tracyrieonhall7434]

The money was inherited so he can't take nothing from you plus since he's a cheater he gets nothing

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

She's great

[@laurabenevelli6783]

I would make sure I got cameras for my doors and around my property. Him and his girlfriend are not trustworthy.

[@AngelOfChaos56]

While I personally don't care nor judge other people's weight, if OP is worried about her health, she should do some research on insulin resistance. Have your A1C *and* fasting insulin tested. My husband is currently battling that, and he can't lose any weight either. He isn't super overweight, only slightly. I have lost 40 pounds so far this year on the diet we started together to help him fight this disease, and I feel way better than I have in a long time

[@saran.4001]

Good for you, losing 40lbs is a real accomplishment. I hope you have continued with your weight loss or maintenance.

[@AngelOfChaos56]

@@saran.4001 Down almost 50 lb now, kept it off. Hubby's A1C has gone from 11.4 to 6.2 currently. Back to pre-diabetic! So yeah. Diet is low carb (for me less than 20 carbs/day), no sugar, high protein (and YES, lots of red meat! especially bacon!) high fat. We also avoid almost all artificial sweeteners. Things like Maltodextrin and dextrose are worse for you than sugar! Dr Eric Berg, Dr Ken Berry, Dr Sten Eckstein(sp?) are the youtube drs we follow. Three approaches to the same problem. Also, check out the American Diabetic SOCIETY, *NOT* ASSOCIATION!

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

Funny and glad for you 👍

[@sheilaclemett4353]

OP should have filed for divorce immediately after he walked out on her and then should have kept forwarding all the nasty texts to him. This could have avoided the major lawsuit that happened six years later. Inheritances are not community property in the USA unless the heir(ess) makes the mistake of putting it into a joint bank account or one in the partner's name only. Many people don't know this. A former friend of mine saw this happen in her own family. One of her brothers was a very controlling husband whose wife inherited $1.5MM from a relative. She was involved in a road accident a few months later and although it was the other driver's fault he convinced her that she would file a lawsuit against her for big bucks. She put the money into their joint account and he transferred it into his sole account. She ended up with only a strict trust fund when he died.

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

So funny and happy for you 👍🤭🤠😃😄😅

[@jennilynne1977]

Thank you for the new story Mr. Reddito! You and everyone else involved in making these videos keep up the great work! I hope everyone is having a great day/afternoon/night! Peace ☮️, hugs 🤗 and love 😘!

[@amberleeannalee1999]

I think a lot of us pack on the pounds and can’t lose it when we are unhappy. I always drop 30lbs after I leave my ex’s and surround myself with good and unconditionally loving partners

[@allenjohnson4462]

You always do that? How many bad relationships have you gotten in ??? How you worded it was as if it was the same as I went up the street to get some groceries. Like you do it every month or something

[@janetdoten4489]

Anyone who doesn't support you in good and bad aren't worth spit! Especially when that person is putting you down because of fat and depression. Get rid of them.

[@tazerknight1]

You should of divorced him 6 years ago.

[@-randychasechase2660]

Just prove he abandoned you ! He won't get a dime and makes sure you . Prove it.

[@millerlucerojames]

My reaction .. " Piss off leach

[@elainebyrd8865]

I HIGHLY AGREE!! GOLD DIGGER!!

[@johnhazlett3711]

One last note. Because of how the body is so complex, often times a person feels hungry when they're actually slightly dehydrated. Which is weird, but by the time a person feels thirsty; they're already a little low on fluids. So, have a large drink of water.

[@johnhazlett3711]

Also, if the diet doesn't have enough fiber, it can't remove wastes efficiently. Hence the vegetables and salads. The waste products do occasionally affect the body if not eliminated quickly.

[@SherryClemens-po3ur]

You should have gotten rid of the bum years ago

[@SherryClemens-po3ur]

Good for you girl🎉🎉

[@theplaintech]

Not impressed. Husband knew what he was getting when he married OP.

[@debbybrigham7095]

I love the way you tell these stories. I love all the plants in the background. They actually gave me an idea for my own home.

[@aprilkerchner972]

I'm so tired of people putting down plus size women when they don't even know why their plus size!!

[@Andrew-ju4be]

You should have gotten a new new lawyer it's called unilateral divorce they disappear for a year and prove it and judge will automatically sign off for disillusion of the marriage you do not need him to sign. Every state has a thing like this of clause when another partner parent disappears. More'n likely the lawyer knew this existed.

[@gerble36]

You're assuming this happened in a certain Country... Assumptions make arses, remember that. Is a good piece of life advice!

[@amberleeannalee1999]

Op could have hired a PI and found his address.

[@star3catcherSEQUEL]

This man really threatened to divorce a woman who was divorcing him anyway.

[@onepieceisking5493]

Yeah, not surprised that the mistress blamed op and texted only to insult plus curse op out because she didn't get the house and money like she wanted. If anyone is pathetic it's her specially to be with a married man plus to curse op again for not responding to her insults. That tells me that she expected to get a rise out of op only to get more pissed that she didn't. No surprise that the ex husband blamed op for everything to and to show up in person to do that, talk about pathetic. He just doesn't want to accept responsibility of his actions. By trying to curse op before leaving, i bet he was trying to get the last word to feel a bit better about himself, talk about pathetic.

[@trudifruty6078]

Why didn’t you get a divorce after he left you

[@deborahkizer4664]

Congratulations🎉😂❤🙏👍💪🦋✌️💛

[@awesomesause]

Nope, if you're fat and proud, then someone calling you fat is not an insult, because you're proud. If you're not proud, then how is it different from calling out a friend for being an alcoholic or a smoker?

[@awesomesause]

Not justifying the d-bag at all. That's all him, but it's not like OP was working out and applying a healthy diet, aka, trying to be healthy, so she doesn't get to use her fatness like someone forced it on her. She's no victim there. Nobody forced her to eat a lot and never exercise, over the course of years.

[@PurpleSunset82]

@@awesomesause So when a girl has good looks and is inteligent and her parents or bf tells her over years she is just her looks and will never amount to anything and that makes her see herself as less as. Then that girl can't claim beeing a victim of abusement? OP told herself she did diet and did sport, but she just couldn't get to the (impossible) "target" her husband set for her ?!

[@fuchsiasecret120]

This... this is Exactly what I tell my sisters, that is they are Actually happy with how they look, that if they are Actually proud of their body and what it is today, than they wouldn't feel as if they are being insulted by their dr even when he mentions they have to loose weight in order to have a healthy pregnancy!!! My one sister was So confused because she Knew that being pregnant you usually are told to gain between 30 and 40 lbs... well... when you are over weight you increase the various risks in pregnancy, and after for both the mother and/or baby (in many cases by 50% or more, this includes things like Down Syndrome, Diabetes, physical defects, miscarriages and so on)... my sister almost had a mental break down as her dr told her that she has to loose weight... "You say that every year, now in pregnant, how could I Possibly need to loose weight??? Everyone knows you Gain weight!!!" Me: "You have over 100 lbs on me and I was Never told that I had to loose weight when I got pregnant, OF COURSE you have to loose weight at over 250 lbs to be healthy when pregnant because you're not healthy Now!!!

[@elski5067]

You can leave your wife if she is too fat for your liking. You can leave a relationship anytime you want no laws forcing you to stay.

[@angelicakaufman7183]

It drove me nuts that one of the first things she said was acting like there was no spectrum between fat and Vogue magazine. Come on that's not why you can't get a partner

[@joanns7007]

Call the police!

[@outstretchedwings]

Bet you anything he's deep in debt

[@angelicakaufman7183]

There is a huge Spectrum in between overweight and Vogue magazine.

[@amberleeannalee1999]

Husband isn’t good enough for OP. I’d laugh so hard and fall over counting my money. Sorry buddy I can pay for my make over now

[@karlabenedict3658]

My ex said no one would want me either. How horrible. I feel her pain.

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Nta. Have them served with a restraining order. Sue them for harassment. James is a sore loser

[@maryhenry8115]

Restraining order to make him stay away have him arrested he is only entitled idiot by law half the house value is his but nothing else. You need to move forward stay safe and keep your head high.

[@antoinettebates244]

Inheritance is not community property..OP you can share if you wanted to...But HE can't DEMAND A DAMN THING!! Why the HELL..Still married to this jerk!! Why did you tell him how much money you got?

[@francesbousks3229]

I do not judge people by their sign. I look for the beauty on in the inside also. God loves us all. You a beautiful lady. Her husband was the ugly one.

[@janetdeloach8522]

Never tell any ex partner when you inherit a big sum of money. He cant take your inheritance as a marital asset. James deserves to suffer Big time. Stand your ground, He should have treated you better. He is a great narcissistic personality. .. ..Do Not Ever Trust him or his greedy Girlfriend...

[@28cotton32]

This story is confusing is someone left you has been gone for six years you don't need them to get a divorce and why would you tell somebody that you got money that has been gone for six years people do crazy stuff for money this man could have did anything to her

[@johnhazlett3711]

Many states in the US allow for divorce due to abandonment and/or separation. It varies from state to state. I don't know about other countries, but I'm sure they have something similar. OP's later was probably making sure all his ducks are in a row, sometimes in the legal profession, it's better to err on the side of caution. It helps prevent rude surprises, because the ex husband in this case filed suit, and they needed to make sure they were ready for every contingency. However, she should have started the divorce process after a year of separation/abandonment, not six.

[@johnhazlett3711]

OP's laywer. Sorry.

[@scarletspie]

He didn't want her but he wanted that fat bank account. Karma is a mutha now aint it. Lol 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 good for op

[@andreachristensen5383]

LOVE LOVE LOVE with all his heart, not LEAVE. LEARN TO FREAKING READ REDDITO

[@amberleeannalee1999]

Ops step dad and bio dad leaving and her mom staying with him is why Ops self esteem is so low and why she eats her feelings

[@TehAnshiTunes]

Never be ashamed of your size. The hottest guy Ive ever met flat-out turned me down bc I wasnt big enough for him. At that age (older teen) I was a young, buxom, hourglass figure wild girl. Not many turned me down if I asked. He said I wasnt attractive bc he preferred "big girls" (we're talking 300lbs big) His buddy confirmed it. TBF, I didnt see him hit on anyone during the party. So its either true, or he was in the closet. I do have a weird knack for being drawn to gay men. :sigh: 🙄

[@JamesBaker-xx2jd]

Hey mr.Reddito don’t forget:KARMA doesn’t have an expiration date

[@McBruce999]

There are several information that don't add up and make no sense or logic. 1. Husband MIA for Six years, after he left her for other women. That in itself is a dealbreaker for the court and lawyer to easily get you divorce, but procedures have to be followed. 2. No matter who, Inheritance is not a marital or communal property, spouse has no authority of rights or say in this matter. 3. I am not sure if this is anywhere in western countries. Also majority of the people in western countries are well aware about the laws relating to inheritance and communal properties.

[@nehpets216]

Everyone should work out, If you are healthy and eating healthy don't worry about a diet or anything silly like that. Working out at first sucks but it gets easier and you just have to stick with it, and if you are having a hard time finding a balance or a good workout routine you should find a personal trainer. The rest of it she seems to have done the right thing although "Robbing him" is wrong when the assets were hers anyway which is why she won.

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

That's so funny 😅😄😃🤠🤭👍🤩😀🥰🥱😍😂

[@hvymax]

James deserves half for putting up with somebody dumb enough to confirm there was any money

[@sandyoohhh]

😂😂😂 ..,agreed!

[@benny2125]

3 milly and won't lose weight? Wild mindset

[@ilanathellama1255]

Not as dumb as threatening to sue somebody you abused for years (and leaving a fuckton of evidence behind)

[@carolbridges6484]

Look up the definition of contemptuous. I think it's misused in this story.

[@chadfortman8098]

Now she rich and have watch who she lets in her life

[@tazerknight1]

You have a medical condition. lot people have. Even I mite have it. I was 145 pounds at one time. Then I did not work for one year. Because I lived in A city. Where it was to unsafe for me to work. And gained 20 pounds. Could never lose it. Then i for security. As flag guard. Put on 165 in 4 years. I can real shape. I would xsersize like 3 mont. Get in good shape and work out for a hour a day. After 1 months would not sweat that much. I would be in real good shape. The weight would not come of. And I was not eating that. I moved patrol in golf cart. No 2 dinners a day.

[@Andrew-ju4be]

I really want to know why did you stay married 6 years you should just divorced. I understand the self-esteem but the way he talked to you I've been married a long time and nothing like that has ever crossed my lips and how we talk to you I would never talk to my spouse like that if you love them.

[@WiseWordsbyWiki]

And people are defending the husband and the fat phobic bullies. I'm trying to muster the ability to be surprised that anyone is at all or that even the KZbinr liked one of the comments making fun of her but I think I lost my faith in humanity about 10 years ago. Well whatever another youtuber to block

[@amberleeannalee1999]

Does op have a thyroid issue or maybe PCOS? That can make it difficult. Don’t cry or beg a loser to come back to you

[@SherryClemens-po3ur]

O get reall

[@saludahead]

I would suggest that you purchase a fine firearm, and familiarize yourself with it's use and service as well as target practice! Let him know nothing about the purchase! II will go no further, but you get it!

[@saran.4001]

OP was overweight when James married her, so it makes no sense he later rejected her. 75% of Americans are overweight/obese so there is no stigma. There should be as it is unhealthy, and OP is wrong to think she is. But I hope she divorces James and uses the money to lose the weight as it will cause medical issues down the line.

[@delorescannon455]

3 million is good but it want last a life time so spend carefully do some investment....m.

[@fatima8200]

FFS 🤔

[@johnhazlett3711]

The hard part about losing weight. 1) It didn't happen overnight. It's cruel to push a person hard to lose weight. In order to lose weight to avoid serious health issues, 1 or 2 lbs a month at the most, or there is the risk of rebound also. 2) when losing weight, the body metabolism slows down, this is a biological defense mechanism. Exercise does help, but it's an uphill battle,,,,,, on a good day. 3) Even "Healthy" diets in the West have way too many carbohydrates. This includes whole grains. I'm not saying to cut them out, but the amount of carbs should be evaluated, because this is one of the main culprits, because the body converts extra carbs into fat for storage fairly easily. 4) Have a large glass of water before lunch and dinner. Then eat a large salad, with a low calorie dressing. Eat slowly, there is what's called the satiation setting, it takes between 10 and 15 minutes to notify the person they've had enough. Then, concentrate on eating the main course, make sure there is enough for what the body needs. For instance, the amount of protein thats needed is not much in the meal. A bit more than a chicken leg. A single slice of bread, some more veggies. 5) If you get hungry before the next meal, a small piece of fruit, or nuts, or a glass of milk. Part of the problem, if you try to wait before the next meal, the blood sugar tends to drop, and it's harder to avoid eating too much. YOU DON'T HAVE TO FEEL HUNGRY TO LOSE WEIGHT! The body uses energy to digest food. So if you gave a small low calorie snack, you're taking care of your body, and using more calories, and the net affect is, you don't feel hungry and still lose weight. 6) You're not alone in this, there are numerous people struggling with this as well. Put an add in the paper to find a friend if you have to. Reach out, there's a power in solidarity, that can give you the boost and encouragement instead of trying to do it alone.

[@johnhazlett3711]

Granted, breakfast is different, but the same thing applies. But it's a bit harder since so many traditional American breakfasts have too many calories too. And sometimes the low blood sugar can be a real challenge to overcome. So, maybe something like a small piece of fruit, and a small glass of milk, or it's equivalent before your actual breakfast.

[@johnhazlett3711]

Actually Don try to lose more than 1 or 2 lbs a week. Sorry.

[@fabianbiere5653]

What do you mean the "man card" that's the "abusive criminal card" i understand that she is hurt but f'ed up for us the majority

[@deborahkizer4664]

That's not your problem that's your money your stepdad had nothing to do with him inheritance not get shared. And I'm saying how are you still involved around these people yeah you got money now you can keep them from being around your door change your number

[@erikamccall6741]

Why did you confirm it?!!!!! You could have nailed him with the divorce!!! Duh, so stupid!

[@stephenstevens6573]

Fantastic!! Now you will have the ability to have enough money to continue to stuff your face for the rest of your life!! Congratulations!!

[@tommybell4850]

Bingo

[@susandevlin5981]

Keep your money, people are crap

[@tommybell4850]

Op you literally didn't call the cops??

[@rinconusmc]

Nobody expects you to look like a model. Your weight is indeed a reflection on you as it quite literally is you. That and if you don't care about yourself why should anyone else.