Losing my wife to cancer, surrogacy & single parenting w/ Taylor Odlozil | Ep. 87

[@leahmanning7580]

Eleven minutes in and I had to stop. I’ll have to take this one in very small pieces. My husband is 26 and he has stage 4 Esophageal cancer. He was diagnosed on August 2 of this year and given 2 years to live. We’re hoping and praying for a better outcome. Cancer truly sucks. If any of you who read this pray, please do so for my husband’s healing.

[@FK.981]

I pray for you and your husband today that God gives you both the strength to go through this season. I pray for God's healing hands on him. God's got you both🤍

[@bkessinger94]

I have a close friend who has been diagnosed with stage 2 almost 3 colon cancer who had surgery last week and this hit me hard too. I have split it up into 3 or 4 sections

[@koriwainwright2414]

Praying for you and your family

[@michellemiles1351]

I am praying for miracles over your family and your husband in the name of Jesus Christ. May God bless your family and comfort you in this time of the unknown. I pray that God’s healing touch would be on your husband and that He would empower each medical provider that your husband sees. That he would be with all the doctors and nurses that see him. I pray that your family will get to fully embrace the joys and gift of life even during such a hard diagnosis. I pray that God would bring you comfort and strength as you are there for not only your husband but also your family. You are strong! God bless🩷

[@madelinealvarez5438]

Praying for you and your husband and that God may cover the both of you with his grace and strength and his hands are over your husbands health.

[@MatthewBurnett-zi2to]

I’m a fully grown man and I’m not ashamed to say I’m literally crying my eyes out for someone I never ever knew

[@janijan2444]

You are human and have a sweet and caring heart.

[@MatthewBurnett-zi2to]

@@janijan2444 thank you appreciate the kind words

[@hunterorloff4654]

same brother

[@CharleneFredericksen]

Having compassion and empathy says a lot about your character and the person your are. Your heart feels their pain. It's ok to show your emotions. Life is precious and you value it and are blessed. Thank you for openly sharing.

[@carlaamanda86]

This is a tough story. You are a human with a heart and that’s nothing to be ashamed of!! ❤❤

[@toco6270]

This guy is what a real man is. I have all the respect in the world for him.

[@pamelaabettis7225]

Truth

[@love2playtv777]

Abby is sobbing, Matt crying, im sobbing and he was able to get through the entire conversation without sobbing. I know that strength comes from so much pain lived already. Wow!

[@Miss.SarahRobyn]

Huh? At what time does Matt cry during this podcast?

[@taylorskelton1356]

@@Cloemaee "without sobbing" and does it matter?

[@Yourfav315]

I was sobbing so much

[@catherinemccarthy1791]

Watching this as my dad passed from ALS in 2017. I was 15. Although it all went on before me and my siblings eyes, it only made me feel so much more for my mom. Such a powerful story. Love is powerful and I’ve now found a new meaning for it

[@Cloemaee]

@@taylorskelton1356 I was saying that he did cry, the comment gave off that they were saying he didn’t cry, it was jsut a comment it clearly matters to you as you are commenting back to me

[@tootsieblueeyez]

This man deserves the WORLD. He is an amazing human and he's raising an equally amazing man.

[@VickyMunro]

I Agree 🙏🤞🙏

[@kathyschreiber6088]

Beautiful testimony to his beautiful wife and son. What a dear man. God bless him and their families until they meet again one day. 🙏❤🙏

[@marilynhayles6812]

Incredible , God Has Helped Her To Fight Until Her Last Breath.She Was Brave .Thank Your Sir For Your Touching Story. Great Husband And Dad.

[@chelciewentzel8191]

i agree!

[@mariahsutton8638]

As a fellow cryer, I whole heartedly appreciate that Abby feels comfortable to show her raw emotions in this way. I always was made fun of for being a cryer. Makes me feel so good to see I’m not alone in wearing my emotions on my sleeve

[@xoxoAL1]

I'm the same, it was something I was really embarrassed about in my teens and I would try to hide it. Now in my 30’s I fully embrace my emotions, I allow myself to cry with other and cry on my daighter’s first day of kindergarten.

[@Joys_in_life71]

It has taken me all day to try and watch this video. I have cried so much and just want to remember this anytime I get sad about my current situation and realize it doesn’t matter I just need to love and enjoy while I can.

[@winweswright]

And with this beautiful love story, how can you not cry.

[@Enlahuerta82]

⁠@@jasminec403 with all due respect but the lol is not necessary… you are listening to someone’s life not a fictional story.

[@nicolekolsky9576]

I cry all the time

[@shainakinabrew7370]

And this my friends is what a REAL MAN is and does.

[@liveyourbestlife143]

Exactly.

[@carlaamanda86]

💯💯💯💯

[@pjw661]

That is so true. I'm a retired R.N and the real men stayed by their side and the boys just left. Heartbreaking.

[@mgsinnyc]

Absolutely. If I could be a fraction of the man he is, I would take it. This guy is truly a hero. Can you imagine a better father!

[@denisseabreu0112]

As a cancer survivor this story broke my heart. I was in a relationship with a man who was the love of my life. I explained to him that I was diagnosed with breast cancer. The cancer had spread. Within a week he decided to part ways. He could not handle the pain. I understand. I am still alive and survived. It's beautiful to have this man stand by his wife. Thank you for sharing this story is beautiful and sad at the at the same time 🙏🏽🥺

[@meagandavitt1510]

I know this is a private question, but has he or you reached out to each other since surviving?

[@denisseabreu0112]

@@meagandavitt1510 I have! And I got No answer. It was hard for me but I respect This person and their decision.

[@zarahshabir3492]

I’m sorry that you have had to deal with so much :( You are amazing!! And hopefully you take joy in knowing that the people who truly care are the ones around you currently. You deserve much better

[@denisseabreu0112]

@@zarahshabir3492 thank you! I am blessed to be alive and that makes my heart full! Life is good! ❤️🙏🏽

[@ruthdunn1525]

💜🙏

[@aliciaoisen2552]

The way you gave Taylor the floor and just listened, as he honored his sweet wife, says a lot about your character! And yes, if anyone is counting- I went through 8 tissues

[@Luke-zv6bb]

Heartbreaking, but grief and pain is already there if u feel it, you’ve already experienced it, and if ur gonna bring it up to bring that wound healing and love safety and care DO IT. I always felt embarrassed of saying grief out loud because no one else did, I saw so many stories because of it. All the grief I held in I could feel it even though I was too young to remember

[@kytruth1027]

So sad, but the last thing Matt has is a good character...

[@A83-A83]

​@@kytruth1027he tries to play it like he's such a great guy though huh.

[@goldencrownsyt9102]

I’m on like my 20th tissue, I can’t stop SOBBING. I thought my husband deploying for 6-11 months at a time and leaving me and our babyboy behind was the worst pain; but this. I can’t even imagine having to say goodbye for good. This has TRULY impacted my life😭 (please ignore my MIDDLE SCHOOL YT ACC☹️)

[@karenprints-baker9788]

Only 8?? 💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭

[@tlizbennett8073]

As hard as this was to watch…. By far my favorite episode. I’ve never commented until today. And this video deserves that, also on Matt and Abby’s side the way you carried this episode made me have such a greater respect for you both.

[@MicheleWalkerWebb]

I'm a silent viewer also. 😊

[@Soulsuitcase]

I agree this was the best episode.

[@camiocain5075]

agreed!

[@kytruth1027]

You do realize they choose these people carefully just to profit off their misery, right?

[@CountryTownSounds]

Agreed

[@DillonFarley-s2g]

Here we are a 25 year old male crying himself to sleep on Thursday night… all the respect in the world to this man & I hope and pray he and Westyn live a generous and healthy life.

[@thewoodsofheaven]

I'm a young mom with young kids battling later stage breast cancer. I was diagnosed April 2023, right after my youngest turned 1. Finding Taylor & Haley's story has helped me proxy my biggest fear of leaving my babies behind. I'm so grateful for your bravery Taylor sharing your family with the world because as hard as it is it's helped me face my fear by being able to see it & face it knowing I'm not alone. It is so isolating being young with cancer. I'm 33. Every night when my cancer meds wake me up feeling ill I've gone from fearing for my life to praying for Weston when he misses his mom until I feel well enough to try to sleep again. I wish I could take that pain away. It hurts my momma heart. Sending love to your whole family. Thank you for telling your story.

[@A83-A83]

I hope you have family to leave your kiddo(s) to? Or a plan for them for when the inevitable happens. I'm so sorry you have to go through that. Make journals so they can remember you. ❤. Write them loving notes and all when you can't sleep.

[@Bryn_G_Mama_of_3]

@arianazigzaghooray7345 thank you for sharing. I cannot even fathom what you’re going through right now. The fear, anxiety, uncertainty of everything. You are incredibly strong! I truly hate this for you, especially from one mama to another!! It’s literally our worst fear. Do you have a support system? Friends to talk with? You are going to beat this, Mama!! I truly believe it with all my being. I am praying for you (I mean it whenever I say this), and if there’s anything I can ever do, can be there for you as you fight this fight *and win* - whatever and however you need. I know that we’re strangers, but I am here for you and your family. 💜

[@olyrollie]

Love you my friend. Only Jesus.... Only Jesus😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@sabinawughanga3611]

Be strong for yourself and for your family...yes it's tough I can imagine,but you are stronger than it

[@lindapowers8592]

🙏🏽

[@Jennthegreen]

I lost my husband to cancer 6 months ago. I was his care taker and it was the hardest thing I've ever done. The blue bag comment was extremely touching. I miss my husband everyday. He was only 40 and we spent everyday together for 20 years. I feel for this man and his family.

[@georgialoubou]

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. Sending you my prayers ❤

[@mrsshotsberger]

Wow, sending so much love to you. 20 years...beautiful. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@claireashley427]

So sorry for your loss! Praying for you! 🙏❤

[@carissam8260]

So sorry for your loss😢 I hope you are doing ok. Losing a loved one is so hard!

[@jodil1209]

I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine.

[@youcancallmesteph]

I’m 35 years old, dying of a rare neurodegenerative disease. Watching this was so incredibly hard, but seeing how Haley’s life has impacted so many, inspires me to keep going. I remember watching your channel as Haley was dying - I had to stop the closer she got to death (it was way too hard). Ya’ll were so blessed to have each other.. I always wanted to be a mom and wife, but never got the chance.. people have no idea how hard this life is - it’s beyond words. While people usually focus on the person dying, they don’t realize how hard it is on the people that love them. You are brave; continually telling this story so that people can learn how to live their lives fully. So much love to you Taylor 💜

[@kathyschreiber6088]

Praying and lifting you up this minute...may God bless you. 🙏❤️🙏

[@arfriedman4577]

Sending prayers and love to you.

[@joblackstone5999]

@@youcancallmesteph keeping you in my heart and prayers ♥️🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️

[@beverlylargent5580]

Love, hugs and prayers.

[@xxanabananaxx]

Prayers 🙏

[@nitsuhmulugeta3900]

This…. This is the type of love every woman deserves!!!! She was so loved …. This man is incredible… She had a love that 90% of the people don’t experience even if they lived to a 100… may she rest peacefully

[@West-rn-showvn-ist-chick]

Well not EVERY woman deserves this kind of guy, but every good woman or women like Haley sure do! This is a real man, an amazing human being!

[@courtney1562]

The fact that he still does not refer to Haley in the past tense shows the love he had/has for her. A beautiful soul, their whole family. 💔🥺🙏🕊️❤️‍🩹💙🩵🥹

[@tashaax1993xanimalloverx]

Yes but many of us do this it's had to adjust ur language

[@chartmann43]

Wow.. you’re right! I didn’t even notice that.. 💔

[@CordeliaMartin-o5z]

Agree

[@CordeliaMartin-o5z]

That a men everyone would love to marry does that are single or does that there bf dont want to get married

[@veni.natavi.vici.]

as a girl who lost her mum to cancer at 3, this was heartbreaking to watch as a 16 year old, yet I send so much love to taylor.

[@stephanieann622]

I’m so sorry about the loss of your mother. It doesn’t matter how old you are…a girl always needs her mama. I hope you are doing well and still following your dreams. I think your mom would be incredibly proud of the young lady you’re becoming ❤

[@kristina7901]

She’s your guardian angel. Include her in all your endeavors ❤

[@katetomlinson1638]

Your mama would be so proud, and so in love with you it’s unimaginable girly, but you get the opportunity to have a child too, and when you are ready, if it’s in your will, you will feel the connection to your mommy so deeply, the reason I say that is because I’m adopted I had no feelings of mom, my mom, ya know. But when I had my son, I understood so much and it all made sense I knew my little guy saved my life and filled my heart and maybe even if was a short time but I know you brought eternal joy in those short three years with your momma, you gave her enough joy to last a lifetime, you loved her endlessly and fiercely at 1,2,3 years old, she got to spend the most precious moments with you, and I pray you find peace again girl, you are worthy, you are loved by many and I’ll let you know a secret from a mother to a daughter, my love will never die, my love will forever scream it out, I love may not be present but it never ends. And I want you to know your mom isn’t here, but her love hasn’t stopped for you, her love will run through your spirit, make her proud hun💛

[@tracianderson9823]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you comfort and Prayers ❤

[@jenbingham0914]

It is so unfair to be robbed of your mom at only 3 years old. That must have been devastating, I truly hope you have some memories of her.

[@peeweecoco]

I don't mean this in any way but the most respectful. He is a beautiful storyteller and the deep love he has for his family is told in this story. No one else could have told her story this way. Thank you for letting him speak. Thank him for sharing her soul. This is your best and most beautiful podcast. You were so gracious to let your guest speak without interruption. His love for his family held my attention fully and for the whole podcast. He has so much love to share with the world and I hope he can find a way to continue to talk to the masses. For a man to have an understanding of how hard the surrogate had it to be able to walk away. To realize his wife's needs unselfishly. To realize what his son needs. This is a precious man. His parents did an amazing job raising this man. I just hope the family on both sides wrap their arms around him and hold him up when he needs something.

[@Mandim0325]

Beautifully said!

[@matthew8marli5]

I am a 54 yo widow. My husband passed away May 30, 2019 from Stage 4 Small Cell Lung Cancer. He lived 8 months from diagnosis to passing. Our children at the time were , our son, almost 16, and a daughter almost 13. I came home today in tears still missing and grieving my husband. God sent your testimony to many tonight, and I am so very blessed to have heard it. I am praying for you and your son. ❤

[@CordeliaMartin-o5z]

I am so sorry for your loss he always with you in your heart untle Jesus come and get you someday you be together again neve rforget that you got this one day at a time He love you and he will be waiting for you up their heavenly home that are home its not here its a passing true bigs hugs xo

[@jenniferwashburn135]

My husband died Deceber 6th 2019 of the small cell lung cancer. We found out in aug 2019. But he had been sick for quite sometime, but didnt understand what was going on until he had tumors coming to the surface. So hard.

[@kathyschreiber6088]

Sending you much love, prayers and understanding in your grief...know you are being lifted up in Christ Jesus.🙏❤️🙏

[@leximuehlbauer4123]

Taylor is thr definition of a loyal and loving man. Anyone who is around him is so blessed. What an emotionally intelligent man, strong as well. Weston is so lucky.

[@tashaax1993xanimalloverx]

What a thing ti say about a little 5 year old who's lost his mum and had to watch her die..I get what ur saying but it's not the wording I'd have used tbh because he's far from it isn't he really...😖

[@ashlee3156]

​@tashaax1993xanimalloverx people don't have to doom him bc his momma has passed on. Weston is a very blessed boy in a very unfortunate circumstance to have had to learn about grief and death so early and not having his momma.. but he had her the time he had her... and she seems like an amazing soul. He has something to be so proud of & he can move forward with such an amazingly emotionally intelligent father... he uplifts that boy in every way. I know we can't help but focus and be sad that Hayley is gone. It is sad... but they are both so blessed to have had her and the good Lord has an amazing life planned for them despite what has happened. ❤

[@tashaax1993xanimalloverx]

@@ashlee3156 no but to call him lucky is below the belt u dont think a different word could have been used ?

[@ashlee3156]

@tashaax1993xanimalloverx I don't believe in luck personally. He's a very blessed boy in a very unfortunate circumstance who's got an amazing man guiding him and what appears to be a huge support system. Yes... a diff term could have been used bc "luck" had no play here at all... ❤️ it's the most unlucky circumstance there is.

[@tashaax1993xanimalloverx]

@ashlee3156 exactly 💯 that's all I was trying to say. Calling him lucky is the worst word that could have been used. Saying he's got an amazing dad luckily to help get him through or something like that but the way it was Said. Weston is so lucky.. blank statement ...pretty wrong..

[@becca87981]

The way you completely served Hailey until the end is just awe inspiring.

[@ninaappelt9001]

He still is

[@emilyfarnham1736]

It is so evident that Taylor honors her in every way that she deserves to be. I am in awe of the way he speaks of her. They say “everything happens for a reason”, and after listening to everything he shared, it is so abundantly clear that Taylor’s ultimate purpose in life is to instill gratitude in others and always remind people that they have things to be thankful for. This podcast is truly transformative for me.

[@sarahko1014]

Yes though that quote has some nuances to it, everything happens the way it’s going to happen. We accept it as it comes. You would not be given certain challenges if you weren’t strong enough to face them! Lovely message.

[@jennysantana1687]

How he speaks in the present tense is what crumpled my heart. I'm glad he's at peace knowing he was such a great husband and man of God.

[@MszEveryShot]

Had to mentally prepare to see this bc just looking at him makes my heart hurt. As I am watching my husband comes and kisses me, leaving for work. I made sure to tell him thank you for everything he does, and how much I love and respect him. As his truck disappeared I prayed that God watch over that beautiful man. Very humbling video. Makes me think twice.

[@troup1993]

Taylor, thank you. I am early in the same journey. My wife passed 8 weeks ago after a terrible 4 year battle with stage 4c cancer. I am now left to take care of our disabled daughter by myself. I dont have the family or community support you have, but we will make it through somehow. The Hospice journey was terrible for me, but being with my Mary for her final days was so important for her and me. Her last wish was for me to be there, holding her hand as she passed. I am so grateful that I was there, and granted that wish. Seeing your story, I know that no-one is coming to save us, but we will move forward. I live for my daughter now.

[@katchristensen4211]

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beloved wife. You stated that the hospice journey was terrible for you. Do you mind me asking how hospice was terrible? In what way? If you can't or don't want to, I completely understand.

[@maryross1875]

I pray you find a church to Bless you in everyway

[@tammyhaunert6226]

I lost my son in Iraq in 2008. People think by not talking about him it makes me better. It does not. I have 6 sons and to act like he is not part of our lives is so hurtful.

[@JG-lb6ld]

I know almost everyone has it completely backwards!!!

[@thegiftingfairy]

I lost my 30 yr old son in 2008 also. Prayers of comfort for you. I know exactly what you mean.

[@A83-A83]

It's probably that they don't want to hurt you by bringing him up. It's not an easy subject, especially what you've gone through losing him like that. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you find some kind of comfort and peace. ❤.

[@lavernerobinson7305]

Talk about your son. Memories of him are a healing process. My daughter died almost 8 years ago. I still talk about her. Some people are not sympathetic because they will not understand a loss of a child. They do when it happens to them hopefully Praying for you.😊

[@marys2382]

Those of us who lost someone much too soon know that we WANT to talk about them.

[@lucygarrett9785]

I found Taylor’s channel before Hayley passed He is truly an incredible man, Weston is an incredibly blessed child because of the father he has. Taylor, may God bless you

[@alicecain4851]

A very dear friend recently passed from having after her breast cancer came back. She lived through it, lost a breast, was even able to get pregnant with her 3rd son. 7 years after she had Donovan, her cancer came back and it was aggressive. She fought so hard for 3 years. Donovan is 10, Will is 16, and Mike is 18. Geoff is so heartbroken. We will miss Desi forever. She was ready to go by the end. My daughters have brought food for them and been checking in. We all need to continue to check on them. Listening to Taylor talk about the stress. We will do better with checking on Geoff and the boys. We'll drop off some pumpkins as Desi loved the holidays. We needed this reminder.

[@alicecain4851]

There's a difference between situational depression and clinical depression. I'm not a Dr, but I'd be very careful about stopping any medication a Dr has put you on. Just used caution in any circumstance when making a change in your prescription medication or natural long term compounds. Stay safe.❤

[@kristinaedgar8265]

"you gotta be present where your feet are planted" I hope I never forget this, I needed you guys, not because I'm sick or anyone I know is, but because I'm ungrateful for the beautiful life I've been given, and I stressed about all the wrong things! ❤ I love you guys thank you!!

[@13musicisme]

I don’t think I have ever cried so much in my life, other than my grandma’s funeral. The amount of heart break, perseverance, and tender mercies. What an incredible man. Thank you for your example and sharing your message.

[@FearBean0519]

This is the most emotional episode, yet. Hold your loved ones close. You never know when life will take an unexpected turn. Taylor & Westin you don't know how strong you are ❤ sending love 🫶🏼

[@tashaax1993xanimalloverx]

Nope you're right ....my brother died unexpectedly this year at 34 😢

[@FearBean0519]

@tashaax1993xanimalloverx I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, I know that feeling all too well. My brother was murdered in 2016 at the age of 27.

[@beccaroo1990]

Im so sorry 🥺​@@tashaax1993xanimalloverx

[@beccaroo1990]

​@FearBean0519 I'm so sorry🥺

[@FearBean0519]

@@beccaroo1990 ❤️‍🩹❤️

[@korynhicks9082]

I saw a clip on TikTok and I just felt like i needed to watch this. When he was discussing about the Hispanic woman that watched Haley grow up, with me already being teary eyed he said my Abuelitas name Elvira, who passed from cancer in March. It felt like God brought me to this story.

[@kristensaenz6421]

Taylor tells Hayley's story so sweetly. Their love has made such an impact on many people's lives.

[@hetieenbasson5403]

Now, this is how a man should speak about his wife❤

[@g.bi05]

I lost my sweet mum at 7yo to ovarian cancer. I'm 27 now, I just graduated from med school, life has been good to me. And this is because I have an amazing father, just like you are and will be Taylor, an inspiring, dedicated, loving father to Weston. Nothing will replace his mum, and he's gonna miss her every day, just like I miss my mum and I always think about her... but there's hope, and Weston is very lucky to have you. I wish you guys all the best, from the bottom of my heart.

[@emmavandruten2893]

Your mom is so proud of you❤️

[@g.bi05]

@@emmavandruten2893 ❤️

[@samantaramnarine5796]

What a beautiful comment! As a new mom I am so scared of something happening and leaving my baby....wishing you all the best life has to offer!

[@frenchysfallout]

The grace of which he spoke about his wife and the dedication to serve the love of his life in such a way speaks volumes to his character. I’m a 28 year old man and I balled my eyes out watching this, you truly are a genuine hero and the definition of what we should all strive to be and even if we can only be half the man you are the world will be better off, because of the man you are… thank you my friend, you’re a true hero.

[@Armybrat4life35]

12:27 "You're stuck with me, girl!!!!!" She was an INCREDIBLE woman!!!!! She loved you so much, Taylor!!!!!!

[@adriannasolon5503]

My mama was just diagnosed with stage four lung cancer. It has spread to her brain and her bones. I followed taylor from the moment I saw him and Haley’s videos when she was fighting. Your words have given me strength to get through this, and be there for her in the present instead of focusing on her diagnosis. He is the representation of a loving, godly man. His little man is so very lucky to have such an amazing daddy.

[@A83-A83]

I can relate. My dads in end stage copd, with only 27% lung capacity, and he keeps pushing himself without using his oxygen. Hard to accept, but inevitable unfortunately.

[@eugeniabrown1912]

Abby has been crying the entire interview and I’m right there with her. Taylor is amazing. He truly stood up to the word “husband” I pray he finds the peace and strength for him and his son Weston. Hailey was a blessed woman to have this man as her husband and vice versa❤❤

[@jamiebrannan3639]

I love that Taylor still respects her privacy even after she’s gone ❤️ you can truly see the love that he has for his beautiful wife.

[@leximuehlbauer4123]

I agree, a loyal man.

[@arieanadeluna]

Who else was crying through the whole thing 😔😔 Rest in peace momma you deserved to live life with your baby boy and husband 💐💕 I hate cancer.

[@TrennaPeterson]

I was 11 years old when my mom passed away from stage 4 cancer and watching this episode made me feel like I am not alone and that people go through this so thank you for this episode

[@yasminedujon4686]

I'm ONLY 17 minutes in and I'm already crying. I'm so thankful for my family. When you think you have it bad, there are ppl that are 100 times worse.

[@jennalewis4672]

So true

[@TheONLYgoinnutz]

This is one of the best podcasts y'all have ever done. To hear Abby sniffing and holding back sobs is as heart wrenching as the entire story. Thank you for sharing Haley and Weston with us.

[@newcreation1221]

I can't remember the first video of Haley I saw, but one that sticks out is of her giving gifts to all of her loved ones to have to remember her by. Each one was personalized for them and their memories together. It just showed that she had a heart for others and what an amazing person she was.

[@yikesgina]

Taylor did it after she passed away. He gave her sister a blanket of her and Hailey together on their wedding day and her cry was absolutely heart shattering.

[@samanthaaustin3037]

Following his and Hailey’s story has been a long hard journey. Watching this was no easier. I love that Abby let him know what so many of us think, that he did a phenomenal job serving her through this unimaginable journey.

[@malenadye3987]

Hearing Abby sob the entire time makes me cry even harder.

[@debidehm9129]

I followed this family’s journey. It’s a journey of heartache and love. The love Hailey had around her was amazing. Being sick and still being a wife and mother and raising such a wonderful child is awe inspiring! Much love to Dad and son.

[@dennisbrady6273]

How long did she survive after marrying him? He says they used a surrogate so how old was Weston when she died. She must have lives longer than 6 months right?

[@debidehm9129]

@ Weston was 5-6 years old when she died. She was diagnosed originally right before she and her husband got married. The surrogate had their baby while she was getting treatment. She was able to have several years with her son before she passed.

[@hayleykeana7306]

Abby I felt for you so much in this interview as a crier myself. His story is so powerful - I’ve heard him tell it probably 10 times and I’m still sitting here sobbing and I could see you trying to hold it together but there’s just no way! His love for his wife is so so beautiful and gut wrenching at the same time

[@MK-285]

Abby wiping away her tears throughout, & doing her best to hold them back throughout, is *all* of us 🥹😭

[@mhdexile1]

Don’t ever apologize for crying Abby This is a heartbreaking story and to have it told across the room from you by the person who lived it- so moving I cannot believe you were able to sit there But you and Matt allowed Taylor to tell his story and Haley’s story and clearly it has made such an impact on the world We are all going to go through this at some point and to see such an amazing example of selfless love is awe inspiring Thank you all for sharing😢

[@JennaLeffers]

Sobbing like Abby the whole way through! These videos captured my heart and attention last year on his TikTok and I just wept in sorrow for Taylor and Hayley! Loosing my Mom when I was only 28, to vaginal cancer and being her caregiver, changed my life as well! You can wallow in the grief, depression, and pity for so long before you need to find the beautiful in the ashes and grow! it's tough, but I SO admire Taylors strength in his grief and the man God made him to be!

[@chuggon7595]

I'm a 25 year old grown ass man and here I am crying right aside Abby. Watching my father die from cancer and the hole its left in my mother is heart breaking.

[@lifewithecaa]

Thank you for sharing your story. I am an ovarian cancer survivor, it was stage 3A and I was diagnosed at 22 years old as well so this story really hit hard. You’re a great husband and father! Thank you for giving her that unconditional love and support that she needed. Rest in peace, my teal sister 🤍🩵🎗️

[@lesliediaz2967]

I’ve been following Taylor’s journey with Haley since before her passing! He is such an inspiration on all levels and the best dad to Winston❤

[@Jesussaveslives413]

Wow. This was such an emotional episode. Seeing how vulnerable Taylor was and hearing Haley’s story makes me sob every time. As a person who has lost loved ones to cancer, this hit home for me. I truly do appreciate Taylor and his openness to continue sharing Haley’s legacy and continue to share his and Weston’s life even after all that they have been through. Talk about pulling at the heartstrings with this one 😢

[@meganschwyn9733]

I cried my eyes out watching this. What a demonstration of sacrificial love. God bless this man and his son.

[@drewhutchison631]

I love the raw emotion coming from Abby. It just shows how big a heart she has

[@ananasparachute]

So unbelievably heartbreaking, touching, and beautiful all at once. My heart goes out to Taylor and Weston. Words fail to express my sorrow for them. He gives such an amazing example of unconditional love.

[@GraceHiniker]

When he said her last words were "I love you too Weston" I BROKE. I'm 4 weeks post partum today and the thought of having to leave him early breaks me

[@A83-A83]

Watch out for postpartum depression. And trust me, you're going to feel that way your whole life! Mine just turned 17, and i still feel this way! Especially having all kinds of health issues now.

[@lifebamboozeled]

Abby- I cried WITH you. Thank you for being real and vulnerable during this podcast. THESE are the people and stories that I am so thankful have gone viral- not the nonsense of influencers and bologna.

[@aubs47]

I am someone who has been on depression and anxiety meds for 30 years and I’ll tell you, I am so happy you have found that alternative. I think that is amazing. I have watched your story. I checked on Hailey through the last month of her life and it has impacted me so much. I love that you have been experiencing this transition.

[@khauhelomotaung8682]

15 minutes into watching, I can tell how difficult it is for Abby to sit in. We appreciate you Abby!!! Thank you guys for a wonderful and inspiring episode! ❤

[@elizabeththorson5184]

Oh my. Thank you for choosing to have Taylor on your podcast. He is such a remarkably, strong, kind, compassionate, wonderful man. I have watched his videos over the past year or so and am so in awe of Haley, Taylor and Weston and their journey. What a generous man to share their very personal, painful, sad experience in the hopes it will help others. Haley was an incredible woman. Hearing him share even more about how rugged her fight with cancer was and the impacts it had and continues to have on him was very powerful. Weston and Taylor’s family and friends are so blessed to know and love him. Taylor has millions of us respecting, admiring and cheering him on every day!

[@jennrocchi6385]

I started my nursing career caring for patients with cancer. Being a part of someone's life, then their death, is such an incredible experience. But one that my heart simply could not handle over and over. This brought me right back to those days. What an exceptional man, who lost an exceptional woman. My heart hurts, the tears are flowing. Thank you for the reminder to live life in the present, where your feet are (i loved that!). I will definitely be holding my loved ones tighter tonight. I hope he & Weston have a life full of happiness & reminders of Hailey's love surrounding them ❤❤

[@aoi6]

As a former gestational surrogate, I didn't necessairly feel attachment to the baby, it was more a protective feeling knowing you had to reunite this baby with their parents. What a heartbreaking story, thank you for sharing.

[@wanderluster3905]

This absolutely destroyed me. My dad passed from cancer a few years ago and he passed in the exact same way. This story really impacted me. Nobody should ever go through this. Thank God there is a Heaven.

[@Whispers-to-Heaven]

I wish more people understood that when we’re grieving we just need you to let us talk and agree with us. I lost my son during labor in 2008 and almost died myself and I had no support, my now ex husband told me I gave up on the family, my mom told me the day he died that if I didn’t baptize him I was going to hell and he was going to children’s limbo. That was in 2008 and I still really struggle. I haven’t really had anyone be there and it’s so hard. It was awesome watching your journey and seeing what a real family should look like in times of struggle ❤

[@Princess90547]

I'm so sorry for your loss and that you've been going through so much pain ❤❤ Have you thought about connecting with a support group? Grief Share is one of them.

[@heathachic]

Cancer is horrific. It takes so much from everyone involved. I watched my dad die in our living room. I watched him suffer for so long, I can’t even describe the pain of watching your own father suffer and cry in agony. 18 years later, I still cry for him at least once I week. I miss him so damn much it physically hurts my heart. My heart goes out to Taylor and especially Weston. He’s in good hands though.

[@Miss.SarahRobyn]

It’s devastating. I still cry for my Dad too. Our medical system tortures some of the most beautiful people this world has with the various “treatments” of cancer. I can still hear his cries in my mind sometimes, it hurt my so deeply, there are no words to describe.

[@heathachic]

@@Miss.SarahRobyn same! I can still hear the whimpers, it’s seriously so heartbreaking to remember. To see a once big, burly motorcycle loving man whittle away into nothing makes me sick. It’s just not fair. It’s nice to hear someone else talk about what their dad went through too, as terrible as the circumstance is.

[@mackenziemartyn]

I’m glad you chose to stay for the podcast Abbey. You getting emotional and connecting to Taylor’s story helped me do the same. So thank you. What a beautiful story. I have no words. Wishing you, Taylor and everyone who watches this the best

[@heidimulcahey]

As a cancer survivor myself who recently lost my Mom to metastatic cancer, I completely agree with Taylor’s advice for how to be supportive. I always say that I just need someone to “sit in the suck” with me. This episode though…so gut wrenching and life changing all at the same time. ❤

[@liser9846]

Westin had the best life example of his parents showing him: love, commitment, honesty, raw emotions, comforting etc…all the vows made to God & family & friends…this is what we lack in our society today…thank you for sharing…keep Hailey alive by celebrating her & all she taught you & your son…show Westin superhero’s are right here with us & not in comic books! I lost my sons father, to cancer…my dad & sister to ALS…my mom is 92 & recently had a stroke…and doing amazing…she only has short term memory loss & it’s been hard for her to come to grips on her life changing…the hardest thing is to see is loved ones literally wilt away & you can’t do anything to help them.

[@donnita4610able]

I follow his, Weston & Haley journey and this segment hit me the hardest…..I’m still sending prayers of comfort to him & Weston til this day💙💙

[@Jenny-Rubi]

I was diagnosed with dry eye disease (essentially chronic illness) and it has been life altering. It started w/ eye pain and was missed by so many doctors. I had to take medical leave and can’t even function (going shopping, driving, going out in general). The ER doesn’t even have an understanding of it. There is no cure for this but I keep praying. Life can change in a blink of an eye and like he mentioned you can have goals in place but once your health is impacted…all you want is YOUR HEALTH.

[@armeadors]

If feels odd to say that I have “enjoyed” watching Haley’s story, but for a lack of better words, I have whole heartedly enjoyed getting to know Haley and the wonderful person she was and still is. The way Taylor has continued to honor Haley is truly beautiful. I, too, married my high school sweetheart and maybe I am biased, but there is no other kind of deep love, than that of your first and true love. My heart aches for you, Taylor, but you are right. You did your duty as her husband and did it well. Abby, I am an empath and I can tell you are as well. Watching you cry and feel such deep pain for someone else was heartbreakingly beautiful and so refreshing to see. Never be ashamed of it!

[@sherylmccollum895]

This...beautiful comment

[@christinapursley1294]

God can turn the darkest of things into the most beautiful testimonies. Gods glory was and is seen in this journey with Haley and now just with Taylor & Weston.

[@elenaclaire910]

I was on the verge of tears the whole episode leading up to the point of the video where Taylor was talking about the 3 days before Haley passed, and I saw Abby sobbing, I lost it. I had cancer when I was 7 years old. And that was a very traumatic time in my life. Listening to the full story, I truly do have survivor's guilt for this family. Like, wow. If I were Taylor, I just know I wouldn't be the nicest person to be around. He is incredible for being so strong for his son and even himself to push through so much grief. This whole story about their life before the cancer, during it and having their son and after the life Haley left, This family is so so incredibly strong. Genuinely, wow.

[@kathrynvolpacchio9291]

I lost my best friend to cancer almost ten years ago. He was so full of life and was just easy to love. About 8 months after diagnosis he was gone. I had become both so grateful and so alone and buried under grief that until this time last year I was given scary news about my baby’s health and ongoing medical struggles. Between that, his very scary and complicated birth, and watching this now I realized I have been taking life for granted. Thank you Taylor.

[@michaelaleigh2001]

Why does this have to happen to such good people? Absolutely heartbreaking & gut wrenching. Abbey couldn’t keep it together and I don’t think anyone can blame her. God bless you Taylor you are so inspiring.

[@ablair33556]

It wasn’t necessarily something that happened to good people, the doctors did not listen to Haley.. She told them time and time again for years and they would not listen to her.

[@SalomejaSaulyte]

It has to happen to good people so that their goodness is triggered to go out and be revealed at its full force.

[@MeditationsbyNancy]

I watched Hayley’s story as I was losing my mom. I don’t wish it on anyone, and at the same time, what I have been taught has changed me in ways I needed to be changed. It’s the only way I can describe it. And I carry this in my day to day.

[@MillyAmtana]

Battling cervical cancer and this is soo emotional I hope my ex could have stayed by my side like this great man. Much respect for him.

[@x_mxv_x]

I really wish that you'll succeed, fighting cancer is extremely tough and you are so strong. I'm so sorry that your ex wasn't able to stay (no matter for what reason). I hope you have support from your friends and family and even if not, please know that you're not alone 🙏 ❤️ sending you lot's of love and the best wishes. Feel hugged ❤️‍🩹🫂

[@MillyAmtana]

@@x_mxv_x thank you so soo much my children has been my strength they give me hope not to give up, and I started a small support group for cancer patients and survivors and that's where we do get strength from.

[@johanna2690]

Many men leave when their partner gets sick. It's so shitty. Stay strong girl 🤍

[@TheComeBackk]

By far my favorite episode. Taylor is so strong and Haley was a beautiful soul. I lost my husband two weeks after Haley died last year & gave birth four weeks after that & I’ve been watching Taylor’s journey since and he has really helped me. Watching him with Weston & in my own grief & listening to his wise words I just cannot thank him enough.. ❤❤❤ we love you Haley

[@FK.981]

So so sorry for your loss. I wish you so much love and peace.

[@katherinehernandez8743]

So sorry for your loss! Praying for you! A lot of peace❤

[@Princess90547]

Very sorry for your loss. Love peace and strength to you. Blessings to you, your baby and family ❤

[@tleej81]

From 53:00 on....gave me the worst chills and I lost it. The details of the finality absolutely broke my heart for him and his family. I can't even imagine going through this and having to recall it all. Thank you so much for sharing your story and family with all of us. Sending you all the love and strength as you continue on in life ❤️🙏

[@jennysantana1687]

1:12:22 My mom passed away from liver and breast cancer almost 4years now. I remember that I stayed with her overnight at the hospital for a month straight. I would work full time from 3pm to 12am 5 days a week then at the hospital till 9 am sleep and repeat every day. The hardest thing was all the time I had when she passed I didn't know what to do because I was supposed to be caring for my mom not rolling on my bed lost and crying my eyes out.

[@Whartooth]

The part where he talks about his son saying "I love you" and she snaps to reality one last time really hit home, I had basically the same experience with my grandmother the day before she passed. The sudden state of consciousness to say "I love you" back

[@mariyaa111]

The calmness that this man exudes after all he has been through, is profound. If anyone ever doubts the power and existence of love, this is it. I hope he and Weston have a life full of happiness and love. ❤❤

[@sharlahalteman4152]

Thankyou, Taylor, for allowing yourself to relive your pain again, and Matt & Abby for walking with him and sharing the story with the rest of us. And you are so right Taylor. Acknowledging the pain your friend or loved one is experiencing is one of the biggest gifts you can give somone that is hurting. The God of all comfort bless and keep you, Taylor & Weston, while you wait for your glorious reunion with Haley. 🤍

[@war5561]

I’m really glad he explained to Weston that it wasn’t his fault because he’s so right, children do blame themselves.

[@carlaamanda86]

1:03 crying already. I’ve followed them for a long time and I’m so heartbroken for him and their child and HER that she’s gone. Omg it’s soooo heartbreaking. My heart goes out to him. I can’t imagine losing the love of your life. He’s so so strong and SUCH an amazing man. ❤❤❤

[@RejoiceTweufiilwa]

How long died she fight?

[@katetomlinson1638]

This poor sweet man has touched so many hearts and tells her and his story so well it’s a visceral reaction to watch

[@charmainegilbert4440]

I was fortunate and stumbled across that very first video that Taylor posted and I've been following their journey ever since. As absolutely heartbreaking as their situation was, it was also one of the most beautiful love stories I've ever seen. Just pure love and admiration. It's unreal how far reaching their story is still to this day. Also, Matt and Abby, this was such a wonderfully done podcast. Such a difficult and heartbreaking story but so beautifully told through this interview. I was crying along with Abby the entire episode. Xo

[@Paco.Sinbad]

I’ve never clicked a video so fast, I followed Haylee’s journey for a long time and grieved her loss even though I didn’t know her, I felt for her. Our boys were the same age and the thought of me leaving him behind just crushed me and I would cry in bed watching her videos. And now watching Taylor and Weston just warms my heart. I pray for them all the time ❤

[@FruitOfTheSpirit-YHWH]

I lost my mom to bladder cancer. This brought back the hospice memories almost the exact same things at the end of my mom’s life. What a journey you and Haley went through and it was extremely difficult from the start but I’m so glad you stayed with her through this. What a beautiful love story and it is still going on. God bless you and keep you and make his face to shine upon you and give you his peace. Shalom.

[@Rodneisha]

His story reminds me of the movie "A Walk To Remember". I send healing energy to you, your son and family❤😢

[@eviesabo4871]

I watched Taylor and Haley’s story for a large part of her journey and have watched Matt and Abby as well and this collaboration was pure love all the way around. Thank you both! Taylor for having the heart to continue to share Haley with us and your heartbreaking journey as well, and Matt and Abby for braving this hard topic. It’s not easy to sit in someone’s pain and hear those deep intimate details. Much love to you all!

[@tashaax1993xanimalloverx]

This story devastated me ...I feel I was following Taylor for a reason because months after he lost hayley my 34 yr old brother passed suddenly grief is horrendous my heart goes out to him n weston💔 im right there with Abby this story has me in tears each time taylor speaks the love he had for hayley is unimaginable a real true love ❤️ first video i came across of taylors was when hayley was telling weston she will always b in his heart and she goes where am i and he replies "in my heart" 😭😭 that broke me 43:24 aww taylor mentions it here 😢

[@juliabroide8302]

This is the first podcast of theirs that I’ve ever watched full through. This man has such an incredible story and I am so thankful I was able to hear it. Really gives you a whole different outlook on life

[@cactusflavour7513]

As he spoke about 6:08, crazy wind started blowing outside and I paused this… came back to see the time is 6:08 now. I think this is a message I needed to hear. Thank you.

[@EstherMunyasya-b2i]

I have never comented before but i had to today, watching this has me in tears.. I lost my mum at 10 years from brain cancer barely a year after the diagnosis. I want to let Taylor know that Weston will always remember how much his mom loved him, my bro was only 6 when mom died and he always carries all the memories in his heart

[@ourlittleclaytonia4608]

What an exceptional husband, to continue to tell her story and honor her the way he did is just amazing! Weston will grow up to know how amazing his mother was and how much he meant to her. ❤️