Unscripted E35: Reflecting On How We Handle Conflict In Our Marriage

[@mirembehellen5387]

Banange those preparing for marriage you need not miss this segment. Mrs & Mrs Kitaka thanks for putting things into perspective. Much appreciated 🙏🙏

[@thekitakas]

Thanks for watching 🙏. We are always blessed to share from our experience and journey. -RK

[@ssegujjadenis9697]

How i wish i had,had a change to watch this episode some time earlier before my marriage,i would have been a ready made king to my Queen 3linda❤ but thank God i came across the KITAKA's incredible life changing Exprience and am another beneficially. Be blessed Mr& Mrs Kitaka

[@MsLakeri]

Honesty on both ends is extremely commendable. Also praiseworthy is the fact that Mr. Kitaka fears the Lord so much so that he always enquires from Him of every situation he encounters. One thing I have come to learn is that life is spiritual and ought to be dealt with that way. Your podcast is such a blessing and even though I am not married yet, I know the Lord impressed on me such a strong conviction to listen in to all your episodes. Truly, my pride and culturally celebrated norms of a feminist woman are being destroyed. Am I ever so thankful that you decided to share these insights! Thank you the Kitakas😊

[@nkundwashanice574]

Thank you Kitakas for sharing your life with us;As a married young person this is like downloading wisdom. Thank you and also for being this raw coz how can we learn unless we are given real life situations. Thank you

[@mwebazechristy5063]

The root and spirit of words.. ❤..wowww

[@bazimbyeevans7420]

Conflict resolution in marriage is very fundamental. Many have failed because of issues that would rather have been resolved if handled well or appropriately... Extending Grace and Kindness come along way to making lasting relationships and marriage. Thank you The Kitakas...

[@ChisesRachael]

My beautiful Rukh shana, patience pays,you waited and God gave you A soul that can be hardly found,FK is a man full of wisdom,

[@deesky3000]

Thank you for sharing your life with us. We have been married 15 years but each time I watch your podcast am blessed, encouraged and I learn a lot but you guys describe me many times. Thanks and may God continue to bless you and your marriage

[@imacayebazibwe]

The podcast ended while I was still enjoying. You didn't prepare my mind for the ending. Anyways, thanks for sharing your struggles. Ministry is not a church, God has called you to help marriages. Actually, I now believe that you are not married for your own sake, but for the Kingdom of God. From today, I'll call your marriage kingdom marriage

[@KansiimeChristine-Aassdd]

My father always say be patient with people when they are on their journey

[@thekitakas]

Your father is a wise man! It takes a lot to be patient and gracious with others. -RK

[@ninsiimajosephine5881]

Separating the person from the conflict or their weakness is really difficult. I pray for more grace in this area. Regards

[@thekitakas]

His Grace is sufficient for you! It starts with yourself. Are you able to separate/ see yourself separate from your weakness or do you think it’s one with you? -RK

[@ninsiimajosephine5881]

@thekitakas I actually see them as one with me. This is definitely a good start.

[@thekitakas]

How do you reconcile seeing your weakness as one with you in light of who God says you are 🤔? -RK

[@ninsiimajosephine5881]

@thekitakas I would call it a journey to deliverance. Like all other things we struggle with when the Holy spirit reveals them, eventually the time of deliverance comes. Awareness is the first step to victory.

[@nabawanukagorreth2981]

I love how real this talk is....

[@judithakite3164]

It's always exciting to camp here. So much wisdom and knowledge of the Word of God. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. God Bless you 🙏

[@thekitakas]

Thanks for watching!-RK

[@rwothomiajane7527]

every husband needs the patience and calmness of Mr kitaka to be able to handle and manage the changing and unpredictable needs of a woman, wow Mrs Rukhshana u are blessed, don't take it for granted.

[@thekitakas]

True story! -RK

[@karamagiaugustine8593]

I would like to say also that Mr.Kitaka is equally blessed to have woman like Mrs.Rukhshana

[@thekitakas]

Mwami Kitaka and I both agree 😃.

[@babrahtugume2827]

Thank you for sharing. The authenticity in this conversation is top notch.

[@thekitakas]

🙏 thank you too for joining us! -RK

[@SweettoothMarie77]

So deep! So raw!!! Damn, I love this conversation!!!❤

[@phillipmoggie2035]

Thanks for opening up your life fails and achievements to us all the time, continue staying strong, compassionate ,respectful and loving all the time. God above all. The blessed @The Kitakaz.

[@nkundwashanice574]

Protecting your wife's image in your mind..WOW!That's deep

[@charlesisabirye9128]

Thanks for sharing...am learning alot...Your marriage is a big blessing

[@thekitakas]

Glad to hear that and glory to God! -RK

[@phillipawavah]

Deep and authentic conversation. May God continue to use you to minister to many.

[@nisiimababra7732]

God am glad to be here again.

[@thekitakas]

Bless you. You are consistent! -RK

[@estherphiri764]

This is Deep, Thank you 🙏.

[@thekitakas]

Thanks for plugging in. -RK

[@janerukundo8840]

It's Shan's deep breath for me😁. But thank you Mr&Mrs Kitaka for always opening up. I'm learning. I've been like Shan before in my relationship but God has worked on me

[@victoriabyoona4445]

Indeed you were destined to be together.God ,bless your chn in their marriage journey. Lots of lessons. .

[@thekitakas]

Amen 🙏! -RK

[@EngineerJohnpaulg]

Thank you so much for sharing with us

[@thekitakas]

You are welcome🙏. -RK

[@caresc307]

Thank you for the podcast

[@mukamarihoamon1377]

Seeing Ruk Shana the celebrity speaking from the point of her weakness Damn,it's so authentic and real. Am sure it touches many souls. Hope u had stayed anchoring the news on weekend. The ka English 😅😅

[@sumayamya357]

Naye mwaami Kitaka is soo wise....

[@edlynemercy802]

Thank you. I needed to be reminded of so many things

[@thekitakas]

You are so welcome 🙏. -RK

[@apostleelishawako]

These episodes are transforming lives . . . keep on walking #TheKitakas #Mutambuze

[@Olivia-Forex-001]

True, they are preparing me for marriage 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@sandran1291]

There's safety in the way of God. "Because u dnt want them to feel unloved" woow, now this is true love. Thanks Rk thanks Fk for all ministering to our souls mukama akibabaliremu okuba omukisa gyemuli🙏

[@thekitakas]

Amiina! -RK

[@PrimaAinembabazi-ll4my]

Thanks to God that He created us differently. I imagine if we were all the same. I love the reality in what you say. May God continue to use you.

[@thekitakas]

🙏 Amen! -RK

[@ahimbisibwealexander4129]

48:10 What a podcast worth watching!!

[@ronlillie]

Cant wait to dive into the word❤

[@jollynansubuga7796]

For sure lack of self control can break up marriage, holy spirit help us

[@joanitanabulya9162]

Wow very inspiring very encouraging

[@kigg_welds]

Naye mwe these people are deep.

[@AllenNdoli]

Okitegela????I am not even married but the things they have taught me🫡We are lucky ya'll got married❤❤

[@worshiplyrics344]

I always look forward to listening to your episodes, as a single lady I am learning a lot. Thank you for this.

[@thekitakas]

So glad to be a part of your journey of learning. -RK

[@nayetegyerezajonan2066]

My first podcast to watch but I feel like "calmness" also rubs on others. Not sure whether Ruhk has always sounded this calm.

[@thekitakas]

Nope, I did not always sound like this. -RK

[@dalson1706]

We bless the lord for your marriage , your helping many couples out there , My self I went through some incidences ,am grateful to God that our marriage is good now

[@kyasiimirewinfred2566]

This story it's same to mine ehhhh God have mercy on me

[@margaretnamulondo7053]

This is amazing. need more of these. Mrs Kitaka. How do i reach you for a mentorship session

[@thekitakas]

Hi Margaret, please DM me through X @rukhshana and we can take it on from there.

[@winfred4life]

​@@thekitakasme too

[@Debaye494]

Thanks for sharing🙌

[@thekitakas]

It’s always a pleasure and thank you for the giving of your time to watch. We hope you are as blessed as we are! -RK

[@lonahsabiiti8468]

So impactfull

[@joankyalisiima8242]

maizing podcast

[@thekitakas]

Thank you 🙏! -RK

[@RichardKusiima]

Rather than spend time abd effort on resolving conflict, simply ask why there is conflict in the first place cause, if you think about it carefully, what people call conflict in these relationships is not even conflict! People just never think carefully about these things and so they have to walk a path where they have defined things that are not as if they were, creating battles out of thin air - magicians of you will!

[@nakittohellen3934]

Thank you sharing this blessed me may God perfect that which concerns you Psalms 138:8

[@thekitakas]

Amen and thank you! -RK

[@kabonjepkorir]

The wounded.pride in.me.too Gal God help

[@lutaayam]

Bambi sounds like Mr Kitaka endured quite a bit

[@winfred4life]

Am scared😂😂😂😂😅❤

[@thekitakas]

Why are you afraid? What are you afraid of?

[@winfred4life]

@@thekitakas of getting married.

[@nisiimababra7732]

Thank you for sharing your experiences with us i feel this was timely for me. I will forever be grateful to God for Kitakas.

[@thekitakas]

We bless the Lord for He is always just on/in time. -RK

[@migaddecharles1194]

Woooo....

[@angellasenfuma1674]

Marriage is lovely and it will humble you😅

[@winfred4life]

The word humble must be in capital letters please..😂

[@karibunisafari9827]

💜❤️💚🤎💛💙

[@KemigishaShiela]

People let us subscribe to these people ❤

[@AnnetteInspirations]

Ohhhhh wowest. 1. Self-control self-control self-control. Let's train our children to be self-controlled from an early age. Otherwise emotional stagnation/ immaturity follows us into our adult lives & it can be very costly. 2. Reaction vs response, so help me God.

[@kabonjepkorir]

Someone who.just walks away is just profound..a pattern that i need to work on as well..felex...u need.to help.me.here..

[@paulinemutumba9157]

There is safety in the way of God

[@thekitakas]

Indeed we can surely do all things through Christ Who gives us strength. -RK

[@esthernalweyiso9805]

I completely understand were Rukh-shana is coming from as alpha female it takes a great guy with character to let your guard down and walk in your feminity. The kind who is consistent with their love inspite of , is my prayer. Shana we need more practical things you have done to change into your now but love changes us ladies truely

[@DaphineNakyanja]

❤

[@karibunisafari9827]

💗💞💕💓

[@nakittohellen3934]

Thank you sharing this blessed me may God perfect that which concerns you Psalms 138:8

[@thekitakas]

🙏 Amen & You are so welcome! -RK