Unspoken Rules of Dating & Relationships!

[@josiahkatomd6141]

How Does Lorna Keep Getting Hotter EVERY SINGLE YEAR.

[@reginakungu9914]

Jules energy is such a vibe!

[@gillianemaritim9852]

Fr fr

[@Nickienysa]

A shot for every time "yeaaaaah" is said. I've blacked out. Lol

[@bintimrembo]

Hahaha

[@sandrarose2468]

This channel has never been boring ❤️

[@Wanjiru333]

The personality shaming is the deal breaker for me too. Loved this episode 💛😊

[@kendih362]

I saw this tweet where a guy was telling men not to open up to their mamas coz that vulnerable moment will be brought up in an argument and it will hurt a thousand times more....felt so sad

[@zaquerr]

This is true

[@kristenmukami3185]

Woiyee...but why would a mama do that?

[@kendih362]

@@kristenmukami3185 mama as in girl lol not their mother

[@kristenmukami3185]

@@kendih362 lol,yes I know mama is a girl. I am just wondering why a girl would use a man's vulnerable moment during an argument??...It just sounds so unkind 😥😥😥

[@kendih362]

Right?😭😭😭

[@music4thesoul491]

In my proud opinion, don't be that insecure about your partner looking at a guy or a girl. Eye candy is everywhere.

[@wanguigrace2957]

its not insecurity... its just looks disrespectful sometimes.. esp when they look for too long

[@Ichbinthee_dali]

Charming Queen very true! It’s all about respect. Do it if you have to, but not in my presence!

[@kijana2030]

Shiks is shocked that she might initiate and the guy does not want it. Wow, Mr. Shiv I see you. 😎 My man.👊

[@TheJuliejewlz]

I didn't hear a word you guys were saying coz the whole time I was highly distracted by Lornzie 😍😍😍

[@tessnjokie4847]

I thought I was the only one!!🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@evelynmumbi3885]

Lol, me too she gorgeous 😍

[@alindipat]

Samee

[@kimmadeit4351]

Me too😭😍😍

[@renatoawuor331]

I totally relate with Lornzie. When I was younger I had a sort of fairy tale view of love and relationships, but experience kinda just changed me. I struggle with the "we" thing too! I think and kinda operate as an individual and I think my partner struggles with it. Please pass these lessons Jules. Love this episode!!!

[@kijana2030]

I was surprised about this as Lorna grew up as one half of a set of twins. 🤔

[@mamajay4219]

Renato Awuor me too! Am married and it’s a real struggle! I don’t even consider his money as mine! It’s that bad for me

[@rachelwangu6262]

kijana 192030 actually triplets...

[@petronillahpyt1511]

Me and jules are just the same person am here like. Same! Same!😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@alicegathuku2122]

hey ladies, here is a video suggestion... 'How babes can/should initiate Lungula" subtle hints

[@wanguigrace2957]

oh yeah💖🤗🤗

[@bettykyalo7258]

Can we please! I agree 100%

[@Eva-bb5ef]

Totally agree

[@kijana2030]

It's the 21st century already. Be bold. Subtle gets you nowhere.

[@kenmwendwa1882]

is it so hard to just be direct about it

[@estherwambui3437]

Lornzie you look really cute

[@kijana2030]

Jules you are saying no one is perfect in a relationship. Okay, I concede that point but from where I'm sitting, today Lorna is looking perfectly fine to me. 😉

[@overtwentyfive7805]

We concur

[@emmamalmqvist285]

That clip about how to look secretly! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ken4722]

Another thing is: don't use something your partner told you about his/her past breakup to get at him/her during an argument... Like "now I even understand why your ex John used to abuse you" or "that thing you told me your ex complained a lot about, now I get it" ....... It cuts so deep to have something so hurtful you told someone in a moment of vulnerability used against you. It amounts to hitting below the belt

[@Ichbinthee_dali]

Ken preeeeeeeeach! 🙌🏽

[@sandrasimiyu1655]

Julia 🤣🤣🤣🤣 i just love her! Your personality is everythang 👏🏽

[@neens8109]

Loved this sesh. Jules I felt that personality shaming things. Homeboy came for my out outspokenness, short hair, chill, and stuff. Some people can't handle you to be honest.

[@bellahqueen1966]

Personality shaming is real! People feeling the need to tell you "you're noisy! You're too loud, you're too assertive!" nkt! Get out of here! I feel you Julia...

[@BienOfficial]

Hahahahaha to finish off in the bathroom. Quarantine binge 🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾

[@wanguigrace2957]

yes please it would be amazing to have a professional tell us the problems men have that they cant speak of to us..good idea Jules❤️ and i love you girls💖💖

[@citysk]

It would truly be nice. My ex suffered from ED and he truly struggled.

[@naxiz_kenya2805]

i can want ti volunteer on this hahaha

[@jononie]

Jules ...You are a gorgeous, vibrant, intelligent woman who would get so much appreciation from a guy who's ready. As a mature woman who's traveled widely, I meet really good guys who think your kind of look is everything...so, what I'm trying to say is, maybe the Nairobi pool is too limited...spread your wings, date internationally...you never know where your person could be located. Good luck!

[@lmuchemi14]

I totally agree!

[@estheratera]

👌🏾💯

[@daphinenamagembe2125]

@@lmuchemi14 love ur style

[@lynnshiro6984]

true,totally agree

[@mabutingugi206]

Ako Julez... I feel you on that personality shaming... And mine is that one of being loud too... It really makes my pants catch on fire... Yaaaaani Then addin insult to injury, pple always assume they know you because of such traits...

[@kenwambua9884]

Damn!!! I did not know Derrick is your brother? What a small world. He's a pal of mine from Bapo. I love dating and relationships advice it very relatable.

[@AnimalWorldFarmNairobi]

Now I understand why you guys are loved n my friends are obsessed with you. From today henceforth you got one new subscriber.

[@9144iggy]

I need those warm smiles every time that the daylight saving prolongs this horrible winter chills. One love ❤️!

[@sheebahal2559]

Me na Jules pamoja...if he is HOT FIRE,me i will just pretend like my mind is in jupiter hata sionangi...yaani i CANNOT,where will i get the strength,no please

[@kijana2030]

Allow me to changia hapo pa in-laws. It is your responsibility and NO ONE else's to protect your partner from your family members. PERIOD. Prayers wachia Pastor Ng'ang'a.

[@itsjuliam]

Amen 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@bryanopiyo3653]

16:29 Hillarious 😂😂😂😂. Julia could play Goofy anytime with what she did with her eyes

[@brianmurray6861]

Jules and I same wozzap; look in the direction the person is walking that way you can eat up all the gorgeousness 🤣

[@simonsays7883]

You see, my girlfriend tells me when I look, "umependezwa na hiyo matako? Ifuate." And I am like, I am a man of science and I am impressed by brains not vitimba." Now naitangwa man of science. We make fun out of it.

[@dianamichael2130]

😂😂Man of science

[@theoneandonly4718]

Lornzie i love your look here ,simple but catchy 😍

[@titysardonyx207]

Just discovered this channel today and I have been binge watching videos. Wow! So grateful I found you guys. I love the honesty. And of course, I subscribed! All the love from Nigeria. 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@reginamutua9233]

Heeeey. Looking lovely ladiees 😊. Juleeess....I love your energy and vibe and the extranesss(💯😂)...yaani! Bless.💫 Great job😊

[@virginiahperiah5777]

Me to mans : so you can be alive and not check up on me? Then he tries to ask how I'm doing and I be like..this is my call boo,if you want to know how I am feeling, call to ask ..then I proceed with my agenda....lool.

[@lastnamepinto7568]

😂😂 what???

[@emmiemson7599]

So meeee

[@diannenashy4203]

😂😂😂😂pettyy!!!

[@flossyc54]

Soooo meeeee. Then he hangs up and calls me.

[@titysardonyx207]

Meeeee

[@mrs.andersson2854]

I agree with Shikie on communicating when out or even when you change locations. What if smth happens to you and you told me uko Lang'ata and now uko Naivasha., if smth happens to you nitajuaje uko Naivasha????

[@puritygikunda8365]

I love this.... Its opening my eyes coz honestly am learning that i have been giving guys chances they dont deserve..Thank you for this... I hope one day I'll enjoy this relationship thing

[@tutooh23]

Way to start my week😘😘😘almost forgot it's a monday

[@anitamutai7844]

Got to work… and what is the first thing I watch using the office wifi… over 25

[@sheilachepkoech9902]

Meeee tooooooo

[@a.w.m1348]

No Monday Blues with you guys💖

[@dr.ohuruc.1511]

Truuuuu

[@tevinmilla8377]

Jules spoke of Personality shaming, but I think another unspoken rule should be that of Body-shaming. e.g if she's got some weight don't say that you wish she were skinny. If your guy got a belly don't say to his face that you like guys who have toned muscles and abs more.

[@samanthaumutoni8273]

Just discovered this channel and now I'm hooked 😝

[@overtwentyfive7805]

Welcome aboard Samantha!

[@wanjerimacharia6461]

On the first date issue, I’m always about the man paying I don’t even do the curtesy reaching for my wallet, however if the date didn’t go well I may pay or ask for a split bill, and that’s cause I don’t want any expectation.

[@petersonmars6089]

I just bumped into this channel and you guys have really nice content. I watched one video and now am trying to watch all of them. Much love from the +256

[@TheAviari]

still not over 100k views?? cmon people.they deserve that youtube silver play button

[@essyn9779]

Lornzie, that Over25 tatt is 🔥

[@linetwanjikukabucho1985]

I really like how y’all are not homophobic 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@angelaashiono6345]

Why are you doing this😭😭I have a class right now😭I’m here for it anyway😂❤️

[@elsiemuliebi3592]

Guess who just missed her class because she also sat in her towel watching these girlies😂

[@dr.ohuruc.1511]

😂😂😂I just opened my books to feel better as i watch

[@angelaashiono6345]

@@elsiemuliebi3592 life😂😂

[@Meenges]

@@dr.ohuruc.1511 me too giiirl

[@deardiary....2640]

Great way to start the week

[@fezilesithole5882]

Lornzie shame on you, all this sexiness, all this hotness. What have we done to deserve all this beauty you are serving us?🥰🥰🥰

[@veevyanmuiya7956]

Jules kwa ground vitu ni DIFFERENT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.....LOVE U GUYS and your content ❤

[@zipwangui]

I love you gals unconditionally. This is a chanel i vibe with kabisaaaa. Much love.

[@clarettewaithera8990]

i need such a brother. my brother drains my pockets woi!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@timothymaracha1437]

Lornzie at the end looked at her beer like: where'd my drink go?

[@bobouistic]

Mimi napenda tu we called when we wanted to talk, if she missed me she called, if I missed her I called, there was no protocol from the start, granted tulikuwa maboys for a couple of years before dating, this wife tumetoka mbali na bado hehehehe hizi njaro za kuangalia we are all using the same tactics, ubaya you women are too smart not to notice 😂😂😂😂.

[@dianamichael2130]

This is sweet.. Friendship definitely makes the relationship stronger and more mature👌

[@bobouistic]

@@dianamichael2130 mature with an extra dose of fun and stupidity hehehehe, date a friend, it makes life a lot easier.

[@jameskaranu]

This was a great video. Lakini you could have made it to a podcast if it was 30 minutes. It gives space to stretch the convos more. Come see in kando kando tuongee 😃

[@overtwentyfive7805]

Good idea

[@JejeNdungu]

Its 1am and am here laughing my ass like crazy. I just love you guys.

[@asiimwekemigisha7240]

I could rewatch all week, Julia you give me life ...... and it’s awesome how you guys compliment each other

[@judyjepchumba1638]

Yes over 25 please get a proff to talk about those problems. We also need to know so that we know how to tackle them .

[@christinagitari6689]

😂imagine I adressed that first issue jana with my man..heeeh. this guy he looks too long.looking isn't bad I also look lakini kuna ingine🤨

[@dianahspencer3405]

I haven't watched in a while, still great content!!! But wait, Lorna isn't single anymore? She was my WCW 😱

[@emmamalmqvist285]

I really enjoyed this video 🤩

[@tessnjokie4847]

Jules you're 100% my spirit animal..such a vibe!🥰. Your bro is👌😜. Well done queens please upload more often.

[@lizirungu4570]

rewatching this and I just realized Julia said it's related I promise flash forward to her podcast that has the same names what are the odds 😂😂😍❤

[@irenejackson2893]

I am cooking while watching this episode but guuuuys I had to put everything on halt just to come and comment after hearing Jullz statement of personality shaming 😂😂 I swear am loud as well and there isn't any good conversation coming from us if you are going to try use that against me or just trying to hint I should shut up 😂😂abeeeeeeg. How now?!

[@irenejackson2893]

Aaaiiii I was born that way oooh. I can't help it 😂😂😂😂😂 big up Jullz. You won my heart

[@gracewanjiru1175]

Hey gals..Shikie which hair is that?it looks good

[@lucykesh18]

🔥🔥🔥

[@fyonaingabire6479]

Ladies looked faaayiiiin🥴

[@diannenashy4203]

I love you guys!! 100k subbies by the end of the year1🤞🤞😊😊

[@user-br1mq1ue9b]

What camera are you guys using coz damn 😍

[@overtwentyfive7805]

Canon G7 X mark 2

[@priscillahwamuyu6142]

Jules is such a vibe!

[@wamz9191]

Loved this episode!!

[@justbeingmeciru]

U guyyyysss I missed u.please post every week

[@tabbytirop9018]

Ivy is so missed in this particular episode 😢

[@mercygathungu8624]

Me being patient not to skip ads for you guys 🙋🙋

[@laurenzanashi5058]

Love you guys....super entertaining never miss an episode

[@thesereti]

Jules is literally my alter ego 😍😍

[@skienimmoh]

I loved this episode more.. your experiences felt real

[@misswanzuu7050]

I love this! I feel so educated and affirmed. Am watching this with paper and pen. I just like how raw and honest all this is. This is real life!!!Amazing. Also Jules....You are my twin!

[@leahwairimu883]

I love you guys so much...this video is really helpful

[@PointBlankevumbi]

from my understanding, if family is being a problem to beloved, id talk to them without saying it out loud with beloved present. the actions after will show if the take my wishes seriously. if she's present when i address it, it will make matters worse coz the family may double down. may be wrong, my take all the same

[@westonleona8979]

hey girls..you guys are such an inspiration..me and two of my other friends in camps want to start a channel too..your blessings please

[@TheAngela024]

distracted by how good you three look today

[@charlottewanjiru9780]

Warembo! Ya’ll hit the nail on the head with all your points. Mad love❤️🙌🏾#ALMOSTOVER25😜

[@sarahgathirwa8086]

Why can't we download the video??

[@TrueManWithin]

Okay, I tried to not comment but I had to. I'm from South Africa and I've watched damn near every episode and I can't, for the life of me, stop watching because of Julia. I love the topics too though....but Jules just makes the show for me. And the Over 25 merch looks awesome, can we purchase some over here?

[@diannaachando9160]

Waaah, I have learnt so much. Kwanza the swearing one haki I didn’t know. Thank you for teaching me

[@millicentkiqi1740]

Shikie which shoes did you match with your outfit? 😊

[@wendys1709]

Waaaahhhh.... Jules that turning before hand...pregame😂😂😂😂

[@justmo6896]

That part ya initiation then ukataliwa hurts😀yooooo nitapata feelings haki😂plus the communication thing really matters in a relationship

[@shikokanyi4286]

About paying dates...I think the men should still pay even on the second date🙂

[@kijana2030]

Why stop at 2?

[@julietRemaxKe]

The man should pay,ALWAYS

[@julietRemaxKe]

@@kijana2030 exactly

[@estheratera]

He should always pay.. Unless I decide to spoil him on his birthday

[@ngusalearnold8044]

Your best episode yet

[@norahk5]

I am obsessed with Julia...

[@joangathungu1725]

It's funny how you called Derrick😂

[@maureenwanjiku8982]

Personality shaming point 👏👏

[@alindipat]

You ladies are just the best ❤

[@annegichanga4000]

Jules nakutafuta till nimesubscribe. Anyway great conversation.

[@mitchelleoriedo5148]

eeeei nice this is so great

[@kijana2030]

Okay, can us subscribers have a meeting in the comments section. 1st and only item on the agenda: WHO IS THIS WHO IS PERSONALITY SHAMING OUR JULES? ASHINDWE!!!

[@bintimrembo]

Kabisaaaa

[@pearlmnyebeleza3231]

New Subie..loving you guys

[@sherrieshallom3360]

Jules is such a viiibe....I love y'al😘😘l

[@dr.ohuruc.1511]

@misstiramisu where do we get the over 25 merchandise the teee is a bombb