Surrender to Death: Dharma Talk with Frank Ostaseski

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[@deborahrivera6064]

Thank you Frank for this talk and to Roshi and Upaya for making it possible. As a retired hospice and palliative nurse, I have observed such clinging, fear, angst and denial in most Americans about something which will happen to us all. This greatly increases suffering for themselves and their families at end of life. Sadly, I waited in hope for 45 years of my career for the "Healthcare" system to catch up ,which never happened. Most physicians (and the whole way our health care is delivered and paid for) still treat death as a disease which must be conquered at all costs, or they deny it altogether. The biggest of those costs seems to be much distress; physically, emotionally,spiritually and financially. Gratitude for your ongoing efforts to continue the conversation. In Gassho🙏 with deep bows.

[@kdpunshon3073]

Frank, I only found you last week but since having you enter my life when I needed you so much I feel blessed. I will listen to your wise words as long and as often as I can. I'm 68 and finally I'm trying to catch myself while I have a little time left. You are such an amazing person. I really love to listen to you. Thank you.. Thank you for all your talks on the internet. I don't live in the USA so these talks are more precious to me. ❤

[@tsundun]

Thank you for be here , Frank.

[@Mariposa2239]

I took 3 pages of notes. Thank you, Frank.

[@rosenajia2384]

So soft-spoken but absolutely revolutionary ideas.

[@FrankOstaseski411]

thank yo u for your kind words and attention.

[@TPool64]

Beautiful. So true. I have been sitting this week next to a family member who has come back from the edge of death, and many of the things you describe here happened. Learning how to convey that life is precious is what I am sitting with as I sit with him.

[@dalya188]

Thank you Frank!

[@eileenfrazier9087]

Very moving. Thank you Grank.

[@suzanneherzstam8222]

Love you Frank

[@judeworth938]

Thank you Frank...p.s...love your hair ! ☺

[@mojavewander9308]

🙏

[@chacaloso361]

Might be time to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. The dharma is great, don't get me wrong, but there is no true salvation in it eternally. The fact that we worry about death so much towards the end is proof.

[@stevenbursey9624]

I'm not sure how reflecting on Death at the end of life points to Jesus Christ. All peoples from all the ages have recognized the importance of death and have honored it in some way. Mat your belief serve you well in times of need. Others have different ways that are equally as valid. Frank is a blessing and helped me with the recent passage of my Mother. It was my good fortune to find him at the right time. Thank you!