Update... This Changes Everything

[@amrou1340]

It just dawned on me she said her husband changed when they got married. But she married him within a week of knowing him WTF

[@OnDaMission]

This part

[@oc2538]

Exactly, you need a full year of dating to say you somewhat know someone. You probably need another year living together to really see their true colours. She didn't want to know him. She wanted a ring and money and any cost

[@humblecrabd6981]

!!!!

[@robcubed9557]

That would've made more sense if her and her husband were BOTH late-teens/early-20's and had an arranged marriage and were both from good stable families.

[@Mahdi0_0Mohammad]

Bruh fr tf 😂😢

[@agsmith43]

When I was younger, I used to feel so bad because my mom never got into a relationship or married. If I ever asked why she didn't date, she would just say that I'm enough and that would take away from me. When I got older my mom told me the truth. I told her I felt bad that I held her back from finding love. She told me that she did date every so often and that no man made her feel comfortable enough to bring around me. (I physically matured at a young age, I'm talking almost C cups by middle school). She said being alone was worth it, if she knew I was safe in our own home. No man was worth my innocence. I hugged her so tightly and was so thankful. Even though I still wish she could have found that special someone, she protected me and she wouldn't have changed a thing. Some mothers know what true sacrifice is.

[@thomasarnoldcoe6527]

Selfless Mum Legend

[@dubious_gal]

Good on your mom. My mom did date and they were all either physically, emotionally, or sexually abusive. She now says she does not know what she was thinking back then and she should have done it on her own, but that she bought into the idea that she needed to "find a father figure" for me. Very sad because I have to live with the trauma and anger and she has to live with the guilt and regret.

[@Selsmittenxo]

You have a wonderful mom❤

[@iceprincess13]

THAT IS A MOTHER!

[@kaysmoke_]

I love this. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏾

[@shellymoore4510]

He didn’t change, he was always the same…..you just didn’t know him.

[@mett978]

This is it

[@droosyg252]

This!

[@Diehard40kfan]

Didn't wanna know. She had her eye on the prize and brushed of the sirens and flashing red lights she was probably hearing the whole time she was with him. "Check engine light. It's not a big deal. I gotta get to work!"

[@caringdarling2541]

Exactly

[@brandinshaeffer8970]

My mom brought men around when my sister and i were little. I specifically remember one man being very touchy feely with me in the car when my mom ran back in the house. As soon as she got back to the car i asked to run inside. I called my granddad who pulled out of can of whoop ass and threatened my mom within an inch of her life if she brought another man around us.

[@Sarah-Bcl]

Save your life that your grandpa was around ❤

[@rhondapelletier2141]

Awesome grandfather❤

[@eduardasilva5326]

Grandpa is the best!

[@__rachel___]

Thank God for Your Grandaddy 🙌🏾

[@aylinsanchez9496]

Kudos to your grandpa

[@AbaNPreach]

Aba Here. Sorry for the out of focus footage, it was early morning filming and I was half asleep. Totally my fault but we only shoot things once so we figured wed rather give oyu our authentic take rather than refilm. Well do better! Happy thursday

[@op8ztv]

Fun Fact: Aba rhymes with Grabba.

[@biancathediva]

You good, love this content! Keep up the good work exposing 🫡

[@tnago916]

Anything to push the blame back on a woman. Rich or poor, a lot of men are like this yet society doesn't want to come to terms with admitting that.

[@tonybablony2041]

That’s a bet

[@janakugel3456]

No worries ❤

[@moniquecastelo]

moving your kids into two different men's houses is diabolical and idgaf if it comes off as victim blaming

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

Yeah I agree 💯

[@charlizeway]

Diabolical work… these kids need to be taken away from her as well. God help them 😞

[@Ash_Wen-li]

She doesn't deserve any of what happened to her but she definitely didn't do any work to prevent it from happening

[@Blazecfc]

She needs to be blamed. She wasn’t even the victim here it’s the daughters. So let’s keep blaming her.

[@Shay45]

Men that she barely even knew at that!

[@bunggelo]

No child should have to grow up and discover that something so deeply personal was put out there by their mother for thousands of people to commentate on. These girls have to face the world eventually. I don’t think the internet should be privy to their experiences of assault in open forum like this.

[@mtsemcomfort2255]

That's ALL I've been thinking about. Just sad

[@EverMade007]

This is 2024 a new generation of 30, 40, etc yr old ppl that feel grown but hey.

[@willspann9894]

I was thinking the exact same thing, and she got all glammed up to do it...WTF

[@Queenxmarquise]

Imagine right? It’s viral at this point.

[@Frugal637]

I agree but I’m glad they are seeing that these content creators are full of it and the sprinkle sprinkle life is not all what it’s cracked up to be.

[@Tawonna522]

She was ridiculously thirsty!!! Those poor children 😢 😢😢😢

[@neecephillips4052]

Even the sprinkle sprinkle lady says not to bring men around your kids, so sad

[@tnago916]

@@neecephillips4052 She's never given advice about doing that. She knows how men are, society won't acknowledge that though.

[@DopeDevastation]

And what about how society won't acknowledge men go through the same thing, it's not a men thing women prey on little boys all the time, it's a people problem so cut the selective judgement out like women never do it

[@amarie9092]

She even came out and said “aht aht don’t blame me for your actions” she further elaborated but I’m giving cliff notes

[@Notarealperson-nz1ko]

But they were his kids

[@DopeDevastation]

​@@tnago916 women are the same way but society won't acknowledge that

[@CategoricalImperative]

Ex serial dater here. In my personal and "3rd party observer" experiences.... people who try and rush a relationship forward via unprotected sex, marriage, moving in, etc.... are try to skip the part where you get to know them. Why? .... because they know that they can't hide that "crazy" much longer, and they want to lock YOU in before they are exposed. Rushing-in, is a conscious (or sometimes subconscious) relationship mechanism used by the trifling, degenerate, criminal, and annoying amongst us. Exceptions to this are extremely rare.

[@Shawndrea]

This!

[@cierralucas797]

Love that you added annoying😂

[@SutanaMonae88]

ooooohhhh gooooooddddd point...yes....!!! Thats true. cus healed ppl or ppl who are healing usually are in a place where they dont even trust themselves (in the sense of their old behaviors) and are trying to change soooooo they are usually not quick to act so rash... unless of course....they are kinda suffering somewhere mentally themselves and are "ducking for cover" in a new relationship.... Thanks for that insight!

[@maxtorque5329]

Bruh...you nailed it...all the chicks I've dated who were rushing me into marriage..I found out later that they were complete nutjobs

[@tanakahoshii5579]

This is facts! Also , beware of someone who wants you when you're vulnerable.

[@Empanada_muncher63]

It always starts with being told your mature for your age..

[@Handsome_Hustler_88]

Gaslighting

[@josephbth5562]

Truly. Everyone gets told that once in a while, but some idiots think that makes them wiser than their peers. Temperament is also often misinterpreted as maturity, but we all crumble all the same when shit hits the fan and learn to pick ourselves with trauma, thinking you can just skip through adversity and gain wisdom is naivety to its utmost degree😂

[@MK-Hogan]

Classic grooming. A man 20 years older than you has nothing in common with you. He just wants to see you as inferior and control you. Bad decisions here from the jump.

[@huricanethreeonesix]

​@@Handsome_Hustler_88more like grooming

[@Adaaaaaaa.]

Always. Meanwhile a person 20 years older than you could run circles around you without breaking a sweat if they wanted to. How much more when it's in a romantic/sexual relationship where common sense tends to exit the chat. And that's before we even get to where the person may or may not be an actual predator.

[@tiffiebaebee]

I hate her for monetizing her daughters trauma. No regard for thier feelings.

[@sjboxoffice]

this should be illegal

[@chanineyordy639]

I 100% agree with you. Not only did they have to go through something traumatic, now their business is online for everyone to know about.

[@Dlynn54]

It's a form of child abuse.

[@mikaylamyers3410]

There wasn't not 1 ad when i watched so, i didn't think it was monetized.

[@AreYouABadfishToo]

Even if she didn't monetize her video, KZbin still does. They can and do insert ads now, even if the creator deliberately chooses not to monetize it. This was a new change in the past year or so. Regardless, even if no one profited from her video, she's still sharing her kids' personal, deeply private information online. That is wrong!! Parents, stop sharing your children's business online!! Any of it! Children are entitled to privacy.

[@plubcenguin1405]

This whole story is incredibly disturbing. Those poor kids, man.

[@RoblEsquire]

Ummm idiot.... we have not heard if this story is confirmed

[@dendrien]

They gonna be so messed up kidos, big time. Evil parents both of them

[@VinceroAlpha]

@@RoblEsquire Hey jackass, she moved in with a Stranger in less than a fucking weeks and as a result of her kids got scarred for life your ass needs to just shut up 🤦‍♂️

[@D13vest]

yup. Its diabolical to lie about such a thing

[@carlocarlos]

The said part is I think she should lose her children but child services system is probably worse. What a awful situation, she’s directly responsible for them being 🍇d

[@frederickvalencia4976]

When she said age gap 20 years she wasent looking for a husband.... she was looking for her Father

[@j.b.2391]

And her father is also a rapist. Wow

[@dezhester3819]

Unhealed daddy issues will have you messed up man 💯!!

[@bruninhamrso]

She was looking for the father that generated her. And she found

[@memyselfandi3288]

@@bruninhamrso 😱

[@Ngozi838]

More like sugar daddy

[@anacruzmartins]

"Social media got y'all f'd up." Yup, that about sums it up.

[@izzyraj]

Yep!! They are letting social media pick their husbands and wives and are shocked at the results 🤦

[@LestaIsley]

I had to look up the creator they're talking about that she looks up to. Yikes I really feel terrible for decent people who want to just find love. This is dystopia. I don't know what a better word is. Just terrible.

[@I2obsturn21]

Factzzz

[@taniawilson710]

Amen

[@allaboutrap1]

Yup

[@thatmanvan2018]

This needs another update. A family member on the husband’s side responded with a video and it’s an even bigger plot twist than we thought

[@jvstred9112]

Whats the video called?

[@angelajones201]

that family member has blue contacts and is crazy as hell.... y'all never look at the source. these niggas also left out the fact that those kids were HIS kids the 2 year old and 4 year old girls were his the two older sons were not his. How would the cousin know what the uncle did in bed?

[@__rachel___]

@@jvstred9112 I had to type in the search bar ‘isis husband niece’

[@baileyjohn5010]

Where is this video?

[@thatmanvan2018]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/gKqpeqOPg82GpLcsi=se8BGyFyWFPyQpJk

[@AbaNPreach]

She did file a restraining order and got police involved from the screenshots I saw online of the police report.

[@tonybablony2041]

Betski

[@noemad5391]

I am not saying she's lying, but I find the way she handled this online a bit weird. I'm curious because anyone can file a restraining order, but did it say why?, did the police report say why? Again maybe I'm just a little distrusting of this shit because we have seen the lengths people will go for online notoriety.

[@agonferina]

Her kids need a restraining order from her

[@RoblEsquire]

Fucked up on ya'll part to run with an unconfirmed story!!!!

[@Vanessa-xx3yz]

​@@noemad5391aside from her being reckless and gullible, what has changed to make people all of a sudden not believe her story? Why would she try to divorce the guy for no reason when her brand is built on her being married to a "high value man"?

[@glossbaus2128]

I heard a psycologist (expert in narcissism within family dynamics) say that when a younger person is "mature for their age" it is because,more often than not, they were exposed to circumstances that forces them out of their childhood. Like poverty, SA, PTSD etc. People need to stop using that as a flex sometimes..

[@Kontroversiii]

Crazy thing is she made all immature decisions. Some older men just like to say that to encourage silly women who would accept it like some sort of flattery. She really made some dumb decisions and he could see that.

[@glossbaus2128]

@alleykittycat I am sorry you went through that. I hope you're in a better place now. Hugs.

[@glossbaus2128]

@@Kontroversiii facts, and he lovebombed her but she was also blinded by his resources that she forgot the art of discernment.

[@NekoEspada]

I agree with that, I was "mature for my age" at 12. Grew up in poverty, father murdered, single mom away a lot because she had to work 2 jobs to support us, I was the eldest son so I felt like I had to step up and grow up fast.

[@Arcilios]

Yep parents went through a divorce and moved countries when I was 7. I had to learn to grow up FAST.

[@TheTataxx]

The only victims here are the children. She is reckless and irresponsible, and he is a monster. One does not absolve the other. Those girls were put in danger and had their trauma exposed to the world. Absolutely disgusting. Exploited physically and financially by their parents...

[@ducksquidbat8315]

She is a monster

[@アキコ2003]

​@@ducksquidbat8315 hmm not really.

[@1Plebeian]

​@@アキコ2003 bottom feeder.

[@Coco-xq7zh]

@@アキコ2003hmm yea she kinda is, more on the irresponsible side

[@tnago916]

@@Coco-xq7zh Not to the same level he is, it's always easier to blame a woman. She should have known what he was capable of the second she met him, but that's too much misandry for society.

[@JAYDEE-t5l]

U guys last point was so spot on.. now that she has even more kids , shes gonna need even more help and because of her previous thought process , she might make even worse decisions cause she needs more help now and not just financially but now emotionally on top of that 😢 its just becoming a sad cycle/ loop... does she have family to live with and the kids until she can get an apartment? With her thought process she probably dont wanna work and dont wanna be living with family or an apartment.. so shes gonna be on the hunt for the next monster

[@AreYouABadfishToo]

god dammit you're right

[@rameninstantaneobts31]

Pues no creo, despues de ese suceso ella desconfiara de lps hombres y no se ira a vivir con el primero que le ofrezca boda

[@vakabonkapmache2422]

Facts

[@jacobfromallstate4963]

She was talking about how she thought her husband was this wonderful Christian man of course he turns out to be a monster smh. Being religious doesn't make you instantly moral.

[@ienjoyliving4568]

2 Corinthians 11:13-15 For such men are false apostles, deceitful workmen, disguising themselves as apostles of Christ. And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light. So it is no surprise if his servants, also, disguise themselves as servants of righteousness. Their end will correspond to their deeds. We must be careful for these false people, because they don’t listen to the words of God

[@Vanessa-xx3yz]

Lots of monsters hide behind money, charity or religion

[@marcelly715]

Often, just the opposite

[@GrimAngel01100]

​Shut up, no one wants or cares about you preach and your scripture. more importantly, stop trying to pretend like he wasn't a real Christian. That's why people don't take ya seriously, zero fucking accountability.@@ienjoyliving4568

[@_Seanwar]

It's takes Christian discernment to vet a Christian spirit, I see now that she wasn't even in the Spirit to test his Spirit.

[@thesuperdingos]

I feel worse for the kids more than anything else in this situation. They deserve better than this.

[@mr.duanesharpe]

It’s over with. Women that have kids are a NO NO NO NO NOOOO. Sad to say but I feel sorry for the kids also and the roller coaster relationships the mother puts them through. Nope.

[@michaeloconnor8134]

I just hope they beat the odds and grow up to be in a much better situation

[@ostentatiousbeats]

​@@mr.duanesharpenot all single moms are like that. Some take a long time to introduce their kids

[@theinitial]

I honestly think child services needs to intervene after seeing this

[@mr.duanesharpe]

@@ostentatiousbeats I get that. Heck. I would agree with you about 2 decades ago but NOW. I mean now. It yields no benefit for a man that has none to date a single mom. If you can state 2 actual benefit for a man. I would love to hear that and this is my point. I just need 2 benefits. Simple right.

[@RadicalJTK]

The saddest part is that it was her children that had to bear the pain of her vanity and greed.

[@courtneyw6224]

Like mother, like daughters. She wasn't protected and her kids weren't either

[@nobushidono9897]

@@courtneyw6224 And her kids are gonna perpetuate the cycle.

[@Shay-rx4xu]

​@@nobushidono9897naw they not going to bring kids here into this hellhole like most smarter people

[@cassieinspire3940]

@@nobushidono9897 Or maybe not, don't wish ill on innocent kids.

[@nobushidono9897]

@@cassieinspire3940 "This is an out moted idea. There are no innocent victims. If you live on this planet, you're guilty. Period, f*ck you, end of report, next case. Next fuckin' case." - George Carlin kzbin.info/www/bejne/pWS0eIymp7x5Zpo

[@Sageblood]

Omg thank you. I genuinely have a lot of sadness and empathy for her. But clearly someone failed this woman when it came to teaching her what she deserved from a partner and what her value is. And at the end of the day she has a large part to play in what happened. My mom did not play when it came to keeping any man she dated away from me, and I’m shocked how little precautions this woman took.

[@AreYouABadfishToo]

She can be a victim _and_ she can be irresponsible at the same time. The two things are not mutually exclusive; both things can be true at the same time. Which is, what I believe, happened in this situation.

[@Rekki_Rekki]

She married a stranger and shes shocked that the stranger did strange things... 🤔

[@5thHouseProductions]

Crazy Tings!

[@poluv9898]

"Not all men"

[@mtt-h4m]

“ wasn’t mature enough for me“ girl , mature people don’t seek for dating advice on the internet, mature people have opinions of their own and they practice discernment

[@tomtom2719]

Mature people usually don't need help finding other mature people....

[@saffy771]

Also age doesn't have that much to do with maturity, just because the guy is 20 years older doesn't mean he's gonna be more mature. Also soo many young women are being told they're mature for their age. If she was actually mature for her age, she would have not gotten deliberately pregnant with a man who's not even her husband. She would have not agreed to move in with a man she has only been dating for a week and introduced her children to him right in the beginning.

[@Bobobaggins93747]

💯💯

[@Slide4nun]

People who are mature don’t date women 20 years younger than them, everybody really thinking we living in a James Bond film

[@LujainAhmed-y6c]

As a single parent you are automatically a target for all kind of predators. This lala land of happily ever after is a lie..

[@MelissaMartinez-n3n]

Yessss

[@AnamaryDominguez-h4i]

This.

[@unhingedlife]

Omg we have the same name. You don’t know how rare that is for me

[@1ndz3980]

How did u end up as one

[@luckysportQuick]

They were his kids and she was married to him.

[@cynt1908]

Tbh, I feel like her whole story is a lie. Here me out. She said she took her daughters to the hospital and the hospital confirmed that they were both touched. Hospital staff are MANDATORY reporters. They would have gotten the police involved and charges would have been filed and she would not be sharing this story on social media because of the ongoing case. I don't believe her. It's just a weird story to be accusing someone of crimes on social media instead of filing charges.

[@Steph-sl2uo]

The hospital did. Charges were filed. She showed the paperwork on a live.

[@Suzies411]

The first thing, if the hospital said they were touched, they would contact social services, they have to investigate before they hold someone accountable, her husband isn’t charged so something not right here.

[@Mirandanns]

This isn't victim blaming. Her CHILDREN are victims, she's an accessory

[@goodmorningfrommt]

Hey, YES.

[@kaarlina4258]

That’s the CORRECT word!!!

[@JK-nq1dl]

These were HIS kids not the stepkids.

[@kamikazeftw]

@JK-nq1dl people seem to conveniently leave that part out when talking about this

[@JayDrego]

FACTTTSSS 🗣️

[@hayyanyousufkhan6032]

My first reaction to seeing the thumbnail was "Oh no".

[@pupsie.s]

me too bro. i gasped. started praying... i aint even religious like that 😭🙏

[@hayyanyousufkhan6032]

People like these make me lose hope in humanity

[@gumballwatterson3231]

yep. and my second reaction was "fuck, my empathy is at dangerously low levels right now"

[@bigponcho2211]

On everything. I Immediately said no way before even clickin

[@Soulful-me5787]

Me too

[@chrismejia6274]

LMAO "It don't take a firefighter to recognize a fire." BARS!!! Preach be preaching!!!

[@HacheckoRico-b3w]

Amen!

[@PolarBary]

Preach be quoting the Bible too ! (Psaume 23) _Et en français, SVP !_ 😎

[@Jake38nine]

I literally got into an argument with a woman who was complaining about spending 6+ years with a man and he "deceived her", "He changed suddenly." While I was holding her accountable that nobody changes SUDDENLY after 6 years unless it's a medical condition. Even then medical conditions take time to show. She eventually burst out about her history with this man and how he was a CULT LEADER. Yeah, that proved my point that he wasn't just this sweet, loving, charming man and "Changed suddenly". Nah, the literal signs of cult leaders are often love bombing and extremely charming. If you're an adult and you don't see these signs within SIX YEARS, yeah, you're not a victim. You agreed to be in that cult. Either you're hella easily manipulated and need to take accountability for that so you can prevent it in the future oooorrr you truly did agree to be in this cult knowing all the bad things you are complaining about now, and need to come clean about it. This is why I don't treat people like victims. You have to literally be minding your own business and have something happen to you for you to be a victim or be a child. Anyone 18 or older is harder to believe is a victim unless they are truly minding their own business and someone actually harms them out of nowhere. No way you're getting into a relationship in the 21st century and crying ab use after several years. Sorry, this isn't the 1900's or 1800's anymore. You have rights and the same exact freedom as men. Your choices lead you to be with that person. You're not a victim. ESPECIALLY after several years. You're just a complainer and need to get over it. I stopped feeling bad for people who complain, but never change their behavior or shut up.

[@apriladelewhyte]

The most absurd part is that she is trying to promote herself as some sort of matchmaker when she has picked the worst dudes so far lol.

[@eds02]

Yeah as I commented in the previous video. It seems that she ignored a LOT of red flags, and she said in the previous vid that she’s a person that is very protective of her kids and doesn’t let her kids sit on ppls laps and etc. But bro, marrying some random old geezer within a week is way worse.

[@silverquis]

It doesn't matter because the dude had money. That's what she cares about the most.

[@eds02]

@ Yeah… and that’s just sad

[@NotAdultingToday]

What I'm wondering is she was with the father of her older kids for 7 years and no marriage? What happened to that guy? If he's still around I might want to look into getting custody of my kids. This chick reeks of irresponsible.

[@Siren-zx1mz]

She's a narcissist

[@theoverunderthinker]

if you only know someone a week, a lot of red flags don't have enough time to start waving yet, much less be ignored.

[@IamjustBruh]

Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child. This is a huge example of that quote

[@karriemramzy9256]

*every child

[@IamjustBruh]

@ my bad. Thanks 😂😂

[@saint037]

shite😢

[@boxcutter4]

I see this quote on every video about shitty parents I cannot see it anymore

[@trbassix23]

Let somebody talk long enough….they will tell on themselves. And she DOCUMENTED her horrible decisions that led to this tragedy. Social media is a helluva drug….🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Caliboi310]

The crazy thing brotha is she’s volunteering all of this information like she isn’t doing anything wrong. Sad and pathetic asf lol

[@ImYukaByeBye]

Or worse she lied about all this cause this isnt making sense and why is this man not charged?

[@wagderlinroman1432]

This is disappointed & disturbing!!💀

[@D13vest]

I guarantee you her social media will be used to vindicate her husband

[@mapletree3434]

​@@D13vestWow! I thought about her kids' privacy, but you're so right!

[@loud_and_proud_trini]

The fact that there’s a wedding pic up in the right corner is CRAZY 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@HiddenPoet_101]

“It doesn’t take a fire fighter to recognize a fire.” That quote was fire. 🔥

[@orangechickenz]

And you recognized that that quote was fire without even being a fire fighter 😮 that's fire 🔥

[@Sapienism]

@@orangechickenz And you recognized that that comment was fire without even being a fire fighter 😮 that's fire 🔥

[@LornaLawrence-m5m]

❤😂😅

[@adrianchatman5734]

Being a victim does not absolve you of accountability. Let me say it again for the people in the back: Being a victim DOES NOT absolve you of accountability!!! Im so sick of the use of the phrase "victim blaming" to cover up shitty decision making processes. It's the biggest dodge of accountability going. Especially since very few things happen in a vacuum. You can be a victim and still be a piece of crap who screwed up. Both can be true at the same time. The messed up thing is, I'm willing to bet that this is far from over.

[@helenperez17023]

@adrianchatman5734 well said!!!

[@Omniryu]

It's the fact that, we all know she had people in her life, questioning her decisions and trying to convince her she was wrong and she just pushed them away.

[@hotshower695]

​@@Omniryu are you assuming that or has she mentioned something along those lines?

[@Omniryu]

@@hotshower695 I'm assuming. But I'm also not stupid. You know she did. Pretending she didn't is naive.

[@mical2great]

This how i feel whenever these chicks say theyre victims cause they dated 20 year olds while still in HS. Like yea dude is sick af for datin that young but you get called a perv for callin out the girl obviously not giving af about what she waa doing

[@Boba_Tourette]

I’ve been dealing with my Mom having her partners move in with us, or we moved in with them. It’s been like this since I was 1 years old. Most of the time, I didn’t meet them first. And even if I did meet them first, they’d move in or we’d move in soon after. It never once mattered how I felt about it. Although, she tried to convince me my opinion mattered, but it didn’t. Don’t do this to your kids. It messes them up in so many ways.

[@ms_emjay17]

I’m so sorry you experienced that. I empathize with that trauma.

[@Erinb8185]

@@Boba_Tourette I'm so sorry. I hope that you are old enough and financially stable enough to have your own home.

[@stacy-annmorgan6685]

That’s why my sister is single after her two kids. She said she would kill if someone touched her kids. Another sister allows any man around her kids. Hopefully u have a better living situation.

[@darkydoom]

I've always thought/said if something happens to my husband, I'd never have another person come into my house. I don't think I'd even be in a relationship before. I'd fuck around outside my house, have friends, but NEVER come near my kids. I find it wild when single parents bring new people into their lives and homes willy-nilly. I'd be like 1 year you can meet them, maybe sometimes dinners, move in? Nah

[@drehardin]

😢

[@Thetindercouple]

I remember a guy who was dating me and wanted to meet my kids so badly. This guy acted so genuine acted so principled. 3 months down the road I see a message from his wife 😮he lied he was single and not only that he had other women he was playing. He finally disappeared without saying a word to me amd am so proud i kept my children off his sight😢😢😢. I am so insecure when it comes to my children. I introduced now my 3 years boyfriend after 7 months.

[@TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

I think you mean that you’re so protective and particular about who you have around your kids, which is wonderful! 🙏🏾🫶🏾✨

[@nataliexrd256]

Shuler King Comedian said it recently, social media have you thinking you're behind people you already passed.

[@UnpopularAdvisor]

It’s been proven that many people refuse to think for themselves.

[@jr3kg3]

💯👏🏽💯✨️🫡🌷🌅

[@echochambers4165]

FAXX

[@buddha6784]

@@nataliexrd256 💯💯💯💯 logic on point

[@NewDawn4U]

So true 👍🏽

[@GFY94]

The worst part is she had stated in that other vid she had the same trauma happen to her in the past and wished her children would never experience it, then introduces strangers to her kids and doesn't take necessary precautions. It's like she's to infatuated with being a housewife then being an over protective mother.

[@Kontroversial84]

I got the impression that bcuz she asked God to not let that happen to her kids, she thought she could just be wreckless and everything would be fine.

[@dendrien]

This, is a women who prioritizes herself and her needs and her men long before her kids is ever a priority. Strait up. No amount of trauma justifies this behavior. We really need to be bring back shame to society big time.

[@silverquis]

It's not about being a housewife, it's about the bag and will always be the bag.

[@itzgin3290]

It's the lie social media sales and she fell for it, she wants to be a trophy wife (WHERE IS THAT EXACTLY?) yet she isn't even worthy to be a girlfriend, she is mentally unstable and needs help - Every child deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children.

[@tiffanykim2773]

Thing is she was over protective and they were still abused sadly.

[@jasmeen5712]

What's awful is that in one of her video, you can hear one of her daughter screaming "Ow" and crying. She wouldn't stop doing her makeup and just said to her audience "ignore the kid, she's with her dad". Who knows what he was doing to her when she was doing her videos?? Sick...

[@xelaander8429]

Oh my god no!!!!!!

[@orchideluxe]

I’m not defending her at all here, but if I were her at that moment, I wouldn’t imagine that he could’ve been touching his own daughters.. She should’ve checked to see what was going on but I would think that the kids were playing with each other and their dad was monitoring them so I didn’t have to, not molest1ng them…

[@QueenRenne]

Yes! There’s a compilation video going viral that shows Isis on multiple videos of where A CHILD IS SCREAMING IN PAIN IN THE BACKGROUND! She just continues on putting on her makeup and giving relationship and dating advice while IGNORING her children that is with her husband in the house. 😱😡 I can’t believe her! I’m so disappointed, disgusted and devastated for the children. I just had another talk with my children. This is why I’m not dating anyone. I’ve been offered to go on dates, but MY CHILDREN’S SAFETY COMES FIRST! 🚩👀💅🏾💯

[@Becalavelle]

@@QueenRennepost the video

[@Insomnish_Yaksha]

@@QueenRennewhere was this video posted?

[@nikitaletsie9086]

When i first saw a video of her about marrying a monster, i immediately went to see her reels and her videos. Gosh social media is messing people up.

[@adim00lah]

My sister met some guy in DR on a "girls trip" and said she wanted to get married. I was scared for her thinking he was using my sister for money / greencard, and recommended she get to know dude first. Just for giving my sister this advice, my mom got so mad at me, she stopped talking to me. It's been 9 years since I've heard from my mom. My sister had 2 kids and never told me or my brother. They say "protect black women" and when I try I lose my family. 🤷🏾‍♂ Marriage didn't even last 2 years, now she a single mom. Don't save them, they don't wanna be saved.

[@currency2266]

You tried your best. Thats all you can do.

[@chaucerianfraud6767]

You were right. Nobody is hated more than those who speak the truth.

[@JeromeProductions]

But it’s always our fault, huh?🤦🏾‍♂️

[@jahfaricoumarbatch3947]

Damn. That’s rough and the innocent party, your nieces/nephews, didn’t have any part of that decision making

[@casanovasparks89]

Had to read this twice. I know its your personal life but at some point you just gotta take note of how ridiculous some shit is and leave it up to God, allah yahweh whatever you prefer.

[@jaz2381]

The moment I saw your first vid, I was hoping y'all would watch her other videos, because bro... ALL the signs were there in my opinion, she ignored them because she wanted security and put a time limit on herself. and yes. social media has people MESSED UP on both sides when it comes to dating.

[@polivepea]

Yep

[@justjayy85]

Precisely, she didn't want to lose her fantasy land that she has smh

[@shaywilliams260]

In one of her videos her daughter has literally yelling ow and crying in the background. Instead of going to check on her she was like sorry for the noise guys, ignore that 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@1Plebeian]

Drizzle Drizzle

[@Mogadypopz]

Most dudes are starting to realize how delulu some woman are getting, that the 60% of men under 30 have given up on dating (according to pew research study). Main reason a lot of men say are expectations. And people wonder why men are 50% more likely to go online dating.

[@marknewton3579]

That is going in my book of quotes: "I don't need to be a firefighter to recognize a fire" - Preach

[@pauldesrosiers5710]

Salute to you guys saying what needs to be said. Adults are expected to be held accountable for their actions. The first thing i would've said in her situation is why is this man 20 years older than me single if he's a high value man? And why is he wanting to get married when he barely knows me? I feel horrible for her kids and i feel bad for her because no one should ever be victimized like that but my god she did absolutely nothing to protect whats supposed to be the most important thing in a parents life and she doubles down on stupid and plasters all of this all over the internet. Mothers day should not be a day celebration it should be a day of reflection for her for the rest of her life wtaf. She could've done better, and was expected to do better.

[@daynaclemons8626]

I’ve been single for 5+ years. My kids have never seen a man in my bed. 2+ years since I just stopped dating. You can’t be that lonely to just let anyone in your kids life.

[@KNGnBLK]

@@daynaclemons8626 I don't think that it was her being lonely as much as it was her looking for a come up following Shera7's "advice"

[@dvaunt3516]

My kids met my replacement the day he moved in.

[@elleash3040]

LITERAL APPLAUSE!!! Yes mama!!!

[@TheLateral18]

She doesn't want to work

[@bayro7]

you never bring a man home unless he already dating you and he already been knowing you for some time. 6 months minimum

[@calamitynatalie8590]

Our eldest daughter is 14, my husband (her father) and I have spoken to her about people who say the phrase “You are so mature for your age”, those people are lying to you, they are trying to manipulate you, and they do not have your best interest in mind. She told us of a friend who had an older teen boy say this to her, we contacted the friends parents to give them a heads up. Even with both parents in the home you need to be so mindful and teach your kids, prepare them! Don’t let them be naive, keep it age appropriate sure but there are ways to discuss relationships. Have an open door policy so your children will come to you without being stressed or anxious that they will be judged. They don’t have to go through this alone!

[@Nicobs2k6]

At 9:02: Here is a translation for non-French speakers "Right now?! Right now??!! The Lord is my shepherd. Your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. I don't fear no evil." So, Preach is reciting a majority of the Psalm 23:4-5. There you have it folks!

[@ferzinhaN]

😅😅😅. Thank you for the translation.

[@TravisFebruary]

Mercy bookoo

[@punksoab]

Being so upset that you switch languages is common. As a Spanish speaker, it happens and it isn't super rare. I have never been so completely disgruntled that I switch languages to recite a Bible verse. That level of frustration is bananas. That's infarction territory right there.

[@zeala1]

@@TravisFebruarymerci beaucoup

[@talkswithjordan1995]

@@punksoabhonestly speaking Portuguese I do the same thing but to reference the bible is a next level of disbelief 😂😂😂

[@bethelight3017]

The switch up to French @9:02 has me screamingggg 😂

[@Malacostvmbre]

When I was a little girl my mom was a single mother and I almost fell victim to a pedophile(her ex), my mom was very protective of me and saw how he acted towards me and the things he would say when she went to the bathroom for a second or to look for something. She saw the red flags from a mile away and I never saw him again. Thanks mom ♥️

[@leeuchiha5661]

She claimed that when she was young, she was abused by a neighbor, that being the case, you would think she would be incredibly incredibly cautious about who has access to her children.

[@ApohMay]

But the thing is, following her story so far, he didn't harm her children she had before she met him. He did the ones they had together. There's no way anyone can prepare for that, given her others were just fine.

[@theuzumakis2624]

I think you need to read up on how being molested can affect your decision making, it can be totally the opposite, or you could be blind to the same tactics that you fell for as a child.. Remember, an unhealed adult is basically a damaged child internally.

[@mollygriffin5474]

I mean they were *HIS* biological daughters. So I get why she didn't pay much attention, if you can't trust your husband with his kids, who are you going to trust ? Hopefully, people can learn from her mistakes.

[@CloudTribe]

She was, but society thinks everyone who isn't friends and family are the dangerous men, so she was looking the wrong way. Overwhelmingly things like homo side or grape will happen from someone who knows you.

[@Soulcrochet]

@@ApohMayeven if he didn’t girl it’s still not an excuse

Ya'll are gonna need to do another update. There is even more to this story and her negligence to the abuse. It's disturbing and honestly she is at fault too.

[@CheyenneBasore]

The first video to this, I felt bad for her, being a mother myself. But watching this video too, bruh... WHAT THE ACTUALY FUCK. You're kids don't matter to you, money matters to you. Social status matters to her and glitz and glam, not her kids. Was what happened horrible? Yes. Was it a consequence of her own actions, yes.

[@paolaalfaro7615]

the way she still had pictures up of her 2 daughters on her social media at the time of posting is CRAZY. absolutely no regard for her children's privacy

[@CamCam-mq6ji]

she lacks boundary recognition. this is a clear indicator or narcisssism. god help those children.

[@artangel04]

She was definitely groomed as child and with all her background shared in the previous video, her behaviour is not surprising. This is so unfortunate on all fronts. I hope they get the help they need.

[@onlyelectronics]

Will therapy be enough

[@Rambo007-_-]

Jail will fix her

[@alayhaferron1972]

@@onlyelectronics no. She has probably never had a relationship that didn’t include sexual violence

[@alayhaferron1972]

@ jail for what?

[@Rambo007-_-]

@alayhaferron1972 putting her kids in a dangerous position for no reason, and not doing proper research on the man before allowing him to touch her children

[@mtsemcomfort2255]

Those poor poor kids didn't even get a chance to choose if this information should be shared with the whole world or not. They've been born to horrible PARENTS.

[@melancholicpeaceencapsulated]

My ma did the same thing when my sisters and I were younger. She was a single parent dating around and she bought this one man home. It wasn’t until I grew up that my eldest sister had told me that same man had repeatedly sexually assaulted her the whole time he was dating my mum. Please, single mothers- I know it gets lonely but when you are raising kids, you are not just dating your potential partner, you’re finding a father for your kids. My heart aches for my sister and now she will always hold some kind of grudge against my mother for not having protected her. As will I.

[@WolfamongSheep626]

Wait hold up she was about to be homeless with two kids and begged a man to move her in after a week? SHE’S THE DUSTY SHERA RAILS AGAINST!!

[@niqerfaguettranykyke]

No no, it's not the same thing with women. Only men can be dusties as they are sole providers, in the sparkle bich universe

[@niqerfaguettranykyke]

Not in the sparkle bimch universe where men are seen as sole providers.

[@d.speedy5083]

Abd remember she said she could do everything on her own and is "self-efficient"? These are the same ones to be calling guys "dusty" yet have absolutely nothing going on for themselves. It's hilarious and sad at the same time..

[@gracea3594]

Apparently she works in law earning 90k so she was desperate for a man not that she couldn’t financially take care of herself and kids. Also if she actually listens to Shera she’d know that she tells women to always have their own money, car et. before getting in a relationship with a “high value man”. She has always discouraged single mothers with young children from dating and to only introduce their children a long way down into a relationship.

[@The_Anais_Watterson]

@@niqerfaguettranykykethat’s actually not what shera promotes. She promotes women having their own money and resources But if that’s what helps you sleep at night, please continue to lie to yourself 😂

[@mayraruesga8776]

I don't understand women like this. It blows my mind. I got married young, and due to the stresses of life we divorced. We were both 24 and had two daughters at the time. One was 5 and the other one was a couple months old. I made the decision that my daughters would never live with another man. I always said I'll remarry once the youngest is off to medical school. She is now 17 years old and has one more year before going to college. I put them first and don't regret it one bit. My goal is to travel and see what happens in the future. At least I can sleep at night knowing no one I dated hurt them.

[@chuckokoye2410]

Its selfishness. putting her own happiness and wants above the well-being of her children. what kind of idiot moves theirs kids into a mans house that they barley know? how come she doesn’t have anyone in her life that would tell her this is irresponsible? the whole situation makes me so sad for those children

[@mayraruesga8776]

I completely agree with you. ​@@chuckokoye2410

[@andremotivation6561]

It's easy, most women have NO accountability or foresight. The "women are perfect" economy has ruined most of them.

[@punksoab]

Wait O.o medical school means she'd already have her BAS... you can go for it when she's 18. You don't have to wait for 22/23. Congrats on your girl getting close to the high school finish line. Tell her to enjoy the lack of stress lol

[@downbad2874]

No one has to do it like you tf many people don't understand women like you who think cause a relationship ends you can't move on

[@AlexanderSkinnerVids]

Those kids gotta be AWAY from both of these clowns, good lord

[@SHUPization]

I am woman and i think they are right. She made too many bad decisions at the expense of her children

[@HasanPikerIsADouche]

So she was irresponsible with her men, and that never stopped... she thought she found a big fish and didn't do her due diligence to vet the guy. Such an irresponsible move when u have children

[@Vanessa-xx3yz]

Love your comment and Piker is a douche. Very astute. 👍

[@charlizeway]

Hasan Piker is a douche indeed

[@carlocarlos]

Yes it’s insane, she’s directly responsible for the child 🍇. She is nuts and her children have had irreversible damage done because of her actions. Infuriating , be a single mom, better than child grape

[@alexneumann3092]

Love your name.😂

[@JK-nq1dl]

@@carlocarlosHe touched HIS daughters allegedly and not the older kids she already had.

[@alpha.chhangte75]

She deleted all her old videos. That says a LOT

[@SuckerPunch92]

She sure did. That's because she was putting on a show. I've been there. It's really embarrassing.

[@KeyshiaK-os3ms]

Yessss!!! Plus they would bring those up in COURT!!!

[@kyli1204]

Because they were with or about the abuser of her children. Tf

[@taylotus]

She now has a DUTY to delete all of it! She was out here tryna teach other women the same GOOFY level of thinking that led her to this situation. Ain't no way she can keep those up

[@Franzifii]

That is a sign of maturity. Why would she leave those videos online when the advice in them led her into an absolutely hellish situation? An irresponsible person would leave them online to profit financially off of them, despite them being dangerously bad advice! Smh

[@ladyenfamouz]

I’m Nigerian, but Preach getting worked up in Creole had me roooooolling because it’s like I completely understood the outrage in another language lol

[@emiliesamantha470]

It’s mostly French but the last sentence was in creole

[@DavidDexterDD]

*I'm favoured only God knows how much I praise Him,* $230k every 4weeks! | now have a big mansion and can now afford anything and also support God's work and the church.

[@DavidDexterDD]

Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!

[@LoriJennings-]

Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?.. I have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

[@DavidDexterDD]

It's Ms. Evelyn Vera doing, she's changed my life.

[@DavidDexterDD]

I started pretty low, though, $5000 thereabouts. The return came massive. Joey is in school doing well, telling me of new friends he's meeting in school. Thank you Evelyn Vera, you're a miracle.

[@ArlissaPinkelton-pk8sc]

Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.

[@ammonohran9534]

Yo wtf is the "THIS IS A SICKNESSSSSSSSSSS, of the Highest Order."

[@theharbingerofconflation]

Pasta Martin Ssempa. Dey eat da PooPoo!

[@myblackisb-u-t-ful7514]

Dad may be white

[@flor8953]

Yow, sickness it’s when it’s funny, this ain’t funnyy

[@theharbingerofconflation]

Pasta Martin Ssempa

[@moMoney_den_followers]

so, let me get this straight, marries this dude within 1-2 weeks of knowing him, he apparently SA her 4 times within the first months of their marriage, and she just figured he was gonna change and what a great husband he will be???? man this women needs to have her kids taken🤦‍♂️ not only that but her story doesn’t even add up about how he just “so happened to reach out to me ONE DAY after i left my ex” yeah sounds more like she’s a cheater and was talking to dude beforehand because if this women had 2 kids, i highly doubt she’s leaving a stable environment without being reassured that the grass is greener on the other side🤔

[@yvetischo]

Have you met these modern women? I assure you they will do just that and worse. She literally told that man she was homeless and needed a place to stay.

[@SophiaZhu-zr2fl]

@@yvetischo It's crazy how she was trying to be different from modern women yet she is the stereotype.

[@Harvy500]

Trophy wife. Same as every other trophy, when it loses its shine and relevance it gets put in a dark place to gather dust and be forgotten. It just takes time.

[@trustinyeshua5966]

Well said…you’re absolutely correct 👍🏼

[@violet7752]

I agree. She married him within a week of knowing him. He didn’t have to work hard to win his trophy. A woman that wants to be a trophy wife is letting a man treat her as a possession.

[@patinajadeatherton2385]

I’m sorry, but if you don’t take the time to REALLY get to know a person before marrying them, you are basically just asking for whatever SHIT is coming your way. Just found your channel after seeing her original I married a monster video. LOVE everything you guys have said - and SUBSCRIBED. 👏

[@nuthouse2385]

Thank you two for having the courage to say this out loud, this needed to be said. I believe she said in the previous episode that she had been SA'd herself, whether that's true or not, we don't know. She presents victim mentality (making unhealthy choices, looking for a savior etc.) mixed with lazy "too pretty to work" princess attitude. I am a survivor of SA myself and I most applaud you for the part at the end when you mentioned that this trauma attracts the wrong people. I can unfortunately speak from experience that this is very true. It's bad and hard enough to get yourself together after being SA'd but then to go through more hell because sick people literally sense this dark chapter within you and prey upon you almost feels worse. I got me to a breaking point where it was time to turn the victim into a survivor. I had to learn to respect and love myself again, to take care of myself, to listen to my instincts and protect myself when the alarm bells ring. To watch her dragging her children into her mess is absolutely devastating and I hope that they will survive her and everyone else she allows access to them.

[@taurusstudios5497]

I had pity for her initially, but even with her past, I have to say that she's partially responsible for what befell her kids. There were too many red flags for her to ignore.

[@minecraftvvg4250]

I only have sympathy for the kids for having to be brought to a toxic environment where their mom Chose a man because of financial reasons instead of venting and even realizing the red flags. Bitch carried about the luxury he brought

[@tnago916]

I think straight women should just stop dating. Doesn't matter what you do or say, if a man you choose does something wrong the blame will always fall on you.

[@tnago916]

​@@minecraftvvg4250Rich or poor, a lot of men do this.

[@johndoe1274]

@@tnago916 narcissistic men are statistically more likely to be in positions of power.

[@hahahahstski]

99% of women desire rich men. Saying a woman wanting a rich guy(something almost every woman wants) means she somehow should have known that he is gonna be a secret pedophile psychopath is CRAAAZY to say

[@Sm1th1997]

21:10 "You're still a kid." Hearing this put it all into perspective for me. How would a PDF File lure a kid in a adult's body. Not with candy and toys, but with money.

[@naussinthamaurice]

I’m at work and when he started speaking creole I forgot what I was doing at work 🤣🤣🤣 Haitians listening to this story is like 😮 “oh oh one week” 🤣🤣🤣

[@IsThatOC]

She reminds me of my sister! My sister would meet someone on a dating app and move in with them the next week. I use to be so frustrated with her because she would drag my nephew over to someone's house and they would start living with them, then she would cut off contact. She would randomly reach out if she needed something. She still does that to this day but luckily my nephew is with us and he's 18 now. The woman in the video definitely is reckless!!

[@Jake38nine]

If you were telling her constantly it was a bad idea, then she can no longer utilize the victim card. She's 100% accountable for her own decisions and if ANYTHING happened to her child, then that's ALSO 100% on her. She knew better. She's not a victim. She's an accomplice.

[@BigHomieSteveTheMetalHead]

She sounds like a narcissist or possibly someone with Borderline Personality Disorder.

[@emilyk.5664]

I'm glad you have your nephew now. It's your job as a mom to be VERY discerning before ever introducing your child to someone...let alone moving in with them. Makes me sad that this happens to a lot of kids.

[@blacbeuti]

Thats crazy... a week. Didn't no one say anything? Does she have more kids? Why couldn't she stay with a family member in the meantime while stacking up?

[@Jake38nine]

@emilyk.5664 Honestly, people need to be more careful about who they sleep with in-general. Its pretty irresponsible to sleep with people willingly without all the protections in the world available at that moment. You either be extremely responsible while having sex, or you don't have sex at all or face the consequences. And if you have a kid, you should be held legally responsible for ANYTHING that happens to them. Meaning, if you irresponsibly bring random men into your home, you're just as responsible for what happens as the men are. That would prevent women from making dumb decisions. If women are held to the same consequences as the men who diddle their kids, guarantee women would be much more protective to save their own hides. You're an accomplice if you let random men into your home and he riddles your kids. You're not a victim. The only victim is the kid. This is why I habe a higher standard for single moms. Unless you're single because your husband died, that's different. But dating and marrying people irresponsibly is your issue. You're not a victim in the choices you make. Nobody "changes" in a day. The only people who change in a day are dishonest people. Skepticism is a lacking skill in humanity, which is why I'm highly skeptical of humans in the first place. I've rejected women who SA'ed me, whereas other weaker men would've desperately had sex with her. I later found out these women eventually started dating pedos. Yeah, it's not hard to discern terrible humans.

[@-.-hyuga-.-882]

100% agree. My bf of 10 years didn't meet my son until we had been dating for 9 months. Protect your children.

[@theharbingerofconflation]

Smart... but I hope he knew from the start

[@JK-nq1dl]

But these were HIS kids

[@evelinapushkash6827]

@@JK-nq1dlthey are referring to her letting this monster meet the kid after knowing him for one date. Her boys from previous relationships

[@JK-nq1dl]

@@evelinapushkash6827But many people in these comments seem to think the kids he touched allegedly were the kids she let him meet too soon

[@kiim0]

For real. I remember being 22, dating a 25 year old divorcee. I had already known her for 10 months, and it was not until another 5 months of dating her did she even let me know her childs name, yet alone meet her daughter.

[@EmmanuelBrito]

Arrested development keeps you playing the same character in different stories

[@Berevezje]

I like what you said

[@valarmorghulis4801]

demons. demons do that

[@needyourname438]

I was a huge advocate against "Victim Blaming". This made me open my eyes. If you make a decision, you deal with the consecuences.

[@RonomanRpper]

The kids ALWAYS suffer, imagine growing up and finding a video of your mom saying she let a man in her life that r@ped her and her mom…..this is a sick world we live in

[@JK-nq1dl]

No these were HIS kids not the older kids she let him meet quickly. She had boys these were HIS daughters.

[@iTROLLxTHExTROLLZ]

Aba - "Social Media got y'all Fxcked Up" yep sums up a lot of wild situations in today's society smh

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

It's got some people feeling entitled to a lifestyle they don't want to build but for someone to build it for them.

[@xerxestheimmortal1]

The more i learn about this lady, the more awful i find out she is. I feel for her kids the whole world knows about their trauma, and their mom is a selfish idiot.

[@elledez8108]

My thoughts exactly!

[@MK-Hogan]

That was my first thought. This should NOT be on the internet. She’s posting their most horrific trauma to the public without their understanding or consent. That’s disgusting.

[@ImYukaByeBye]

​@@MK-HoganIll say it Is there a trial or any charges to this man? This dude if this is true SHOULD BE IN PRISON

[@ImYukaByeBye]

​@@MK-HoganThis woman strikes me as odd asf

[@itzgin3290]

@@MK-Hogan Most women nowadays are starved for attention and tiktok/etc makes it extremely easy to get it, not to mention validation, and they search for an echo chamber too, which is really sad.

[@LFC4178]

People take for granted how vulnerable we are when we come into world. If your parents(s) are stupid, you’re going to suffer.

[@leneescott]

My son will be 13 next week, he's only met one man I've dated and we were engaged at that time. Being a parent and dating isn't exactly easy, but you need to put your kid(s) safety first.

[@mihaisfira7612]

Putting yourself in a situation where you and your kids are that much dependable on a stranger is insane

[@beewest5704]

That why barely after a month he could gr@pe her & knew she was not going anywhere. 😭😭😭

[@zeanolafboyopos1409]

The moment she said that she feels lonely without a partner is a big indication that she is unfixable. She inevitably met the demon.

[@downsuncovery2590]

Most people feel lonely without a partner. Thats just human nature.

[@zeanolafboyopos1409]

@@downsuncovery2590 of course no man is an island but to yearn for something that strong to the point that you'd sacrifice your children's safety for a partner is just sad. I don't know her but her life decisions tells me that there is definitely something wrong with her.

[@priestessraefalla1730]

Maybe if youre desperate and dont know how to have fulfilling relationships with people in general ​@downsuncovery2590

[@shurundaTV2815]

I hear the both of you loud and clear and l enjoyed the commentary! -Shurunda

[@Gina-i5p]

There are two other videos where you can hear her baby girl screaming "no" and "stop" in the background and she just casually dismisses it, tells her fans to do the same and said the kids are with their father yet she claimed she watches them like a hawk and she doesn't how and when he did it..... SMH! There are a lot of discrepancies in her videos that don't paint her in a good light.

[@dominiqueclark6312]

😮

[@forensicmomma8360]

JFC😮

[@DivaDerin]

She watched them like a hawk with outsiders, not when they're with their father.

[@Gina-i5p]

@DivaDerin I don't care who the baby is with. If i hear them cry or scream no or stop, I stop everything and see what's going on. If it's a false alarm, it's fine, but I have to see for myself. In cases of this kind of abuse, ofently the abuser is someone close and trusted, so her being a survivor and a mother that is not a natural reaction, that should have raised an alarm. Please watch more of her videos for more context.

[@MrKingkz]

Wow I don't even know what to say they are both descusting

[@Muhle007]

3men within the space of a year is wild. She needs to also check on those boys because if this man can do that to his SMALL children then what will he do with kids that are not his. I feel sorry for the kids because she didn't give herself time to get to know these men.

[@TheDarkAdventure]

I noticed that too. When she said the doctors checked the daughters for abuse she didn't mention the boys getting checked.

[@beewest5704]

And the fact that she said she would move into a guys place so soon if she had 2 daughters shows that she was sleeping on them boys. She did not say anything about having them checked & asking them if her husband did anything to them. We have many men walking around with trauma they never told a soul cause their moms & society thinks it does not happen to boys.

[@JK-nq1dl]

@@beewest5704She didn’t have 2 daughters. Those are HIS kids. She had older boys but that’s NOt who he allegedly touched.

[@cassieinspire3940]

@@JK-nq1dl He touched his own kids with her. She had 2 previous boys and 3 daughters with the man.

[@lilikm900]

The younger boy was abused. But she wouldn’t talk about that because it would be obvious she put the boys in danger moving them from one stranger man to the other

[@kikialeaki1850]

9:02 I love when Preach gets confused or pissed off and switches languages😅

[@Nicobs2k6]

I can't lie, I love it too! It's worth learning French, let me tell you that! Now I need to work on Haitian Créole 🤣

[@kikialeaki1850]

@@Nicobs2k6 right! I didn’t have any particular interest in HC at first (I already hop from language to language so creoles or patois would be “more” work in my eyes) but after hearing that first “tout de suite,” it made me wanna pick it up and also relearn French. He’s a good motivator😭

[@Caliboi310]

@@kikialeaki1850the fact that he kept it glinf after the fact made it tjat much more funnier. It’s like he couldn’t stop 😂

[@13randonr.93]

It’s the best shit ever honestly lol

[@latashalea944]

You know it’s bad when he speaks his native language. 🤣

[@stepanieaustinpowell9294]

I wonder if the mom was molested as a kid or otherwise abused- as soon as she said she felt so immediately comfortable with her husband my ears pricked up- people don’t understand when u r traumatized you will feel comfortable with what you are familiar with- what you are familiar with is bad situations bad people shit that will further traumatize you and nasty people can tell you are vulnerable too. It’s an awful devastating cycle.

[@Edward-hn8ed]

The more I learn about this woman, the less I want to.

[@opheliadays5803]

She’s gained so many followers in the past few days and that video has millions of views and legit two days ago she was averaging 2-4k views with 20k followers

[@bruiseleeroy7010]

​@@opheliadays5803all off her daughter being touched

[@edjohn5114]

Facts but I just can’t look away. This is a great case study that applies to too many modern women 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@opheliadays5803]

@@edjohn5114 I’m low key stoked for this to blow the whole red pill and bad bitch era to smithereens. Bring back respectable average working men and women who want families. The new narrative makes it seem like young escorts and rich old men are the only people worthy of reproducing.

[@Barlowh2o]

​@@opheliadays5803 you nailed it

[@p1xelshooter287]

at 1:10 she said her mom said to go with the best breeder. this woman was doomed from the start

[@greglane501]

Yup. Single moms dooming their daughter to become single moms. Even if she didn't tell her that, she would see that it's possible to raise a child by yourself and would only pick dudes based on breeding purposes anyway. It's so sad.

[@johannawebley4101]

I dont even understand what kind of advice that is? What is "the best breeder"?!??!

[@p1xelshooter287]

@ best breeder is guys like me

[@p1xelshooter287]

@ jk 😂😂😂💀 but it’s delusion that’s what it is

[@calebross3790]

I had to rewind to make sure I was hearing correctly. Cause WHAT

[@delanodemees9582]

I believe this was an episode of When predators meet. A sexual predator vs a financial predator. Sadly two young girls are broken and traumatized for life

[@KittyKat-zo1ue]

Sexual predator is a billion times worse

[@indigoneutral]

!!!!! Energy matched energy, with the biggest losing parties being the children.

[@JeromeProductions]

@@KittyKat-zo1ueobviously but never go after a guy for just their money that’s a foolish move

[@stinedange9152]

You’re not a financial predator if a man is offering money in exchange for manipulating you and your family. There’s a reason the term ‘sexual predator’ implies someone who’s seeking out those who are sexually vulnerable… whereas ‘financial predator’ is not a term. The creepier one’s sexual predilections, the more money and power is required to hide his deviance

[@eljos1]

Idk if it’s verified that he did what she said he did but, I wouldn’t be surprised if she is making all this ish up. Im not saying she is lying but I definitely don’t trust her

[@kolrox73]

Left my abusive husband 23 years ago a little after our son was 1 year old. Not one man has ever met another man! And never lived with anyone till this day! My son moved out earlier this year and he still ain’t meant one guy I ever dated! Not that I dated a whole lot! But the reason I didn’t go to clubs and stuff while my son was growing up! I worked 9-5 had to drive to and from so that was 10 hours a day then had to come home make dinner and baths and then once school started had to put homework in there before bedtime! So barely got enough quality hours during the week so I still wanted to spend all my weekends with my baby! I adore him. He was and still in always first! This girl was 100% silly!

[@Ministress999]

I notice how the comments completely missed the full blown photos in the background of the video of the husband AND the kids.

[@olatomiallison6373]

Clocked it quick

[@LucyTegegne]

I thought that must be her dad at first😣

[@Mel-lah-nay-tedreader]

I literally paused the video and ZOOMED in

[@afs6508]

The guy is 20 years older than her, he's supposed to look like her dad 😂.

[@katrinalee7570]

@Ministress999 • Not only did I peep this out I also noticed that there is only a picture of 2 of her 5 children. Why is that?. ALL of the children were born when she met him.

[@Theeverydaymistic]

This is the reality about the “high value man” and the type of women that chase them. Those relationships are not based on shared values etc. … they’re not goals …. They’re miserable .

[@decode3667]

She's using the excuse of "religious", there's no religious rich men. Just egomaniacs pretending to be moral.

[@RebecaAiimee]

It's not victim blaming. The kids are the victims, not her. She took decisions thinking about her own interests with the idea of becoming a trophy wife, but she put her children in a dangerous situation. She was highly irresponsible. When you become a parent, your kids are you number one priority. THAT'S LIFE. Too bad if you like partying, too bad if you like dating, TOO BAD. If you can't handle it, you know damn well there are options.

[@marinab.8590]

As a single mom who raised 3kids on her own and never dated or remarried l appreciate you guys! Thank you for speaking out against this issue. My children are now adults and two are married. My son is turning 28 this Saturday and he already owns a house. He also got accepted to an ivy league school and was awarded a scholarship that will cover full tuition! I am extremely proud of my kids, it was very hard but to all single moms out there, you can do it! You don’t need a man to help you. I am not saying that man are not important, they definitely are but in my case their dad passed away so he couldn’t be in their lives . I am also a victim of SA by my stepfather, l was terrified of something like that happening to my kids that l stayed single.