"I Feel Dead Inside, I'm No Longer Attracted To Men" | OF Model Quits

Kimchiprincesa Explains why she quit OF and what it did to her.
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[@DoYaRememberMe]

Her problem isnt OF, it is the realization that its purpose isn’t actually to empower her, but instead it’s to please men.

[@rhuonaChanel]

This is sadly true. She might have realized at some point that the power is not in her hands, Once she objectified herself it was out of her control

[@mantistoboggan4783]

Some people feel empowered to be working on OF, especially if they are thriving and making $$$. Like Aba said, only a small % of ppl can be doing this work well and be content.

[@TheoHawk316]

In other words, she found put the point of Feminism lol

[@user-sm1jp4en9u]

Who cares ?

[@plymakkayestudio1827]

DEEP..if anything, its the opposite of empowerment..lol She realized real quick that being Men's sex object is the opposite of women's empowerment..SMH!!!

[@motelghost477]

Doing porn is a very painful way to find out that you have a soul.

[@jackiechan4AAR]

Interesting way to put it. 😂

[@ScurvyRascal]

Very underrated comment!

[@ahmedwanjugi109]

😂😂😂

[@2Hard4UrGrandma]

Holy shit, someone frame this comment.

[@a.mp.m7340]

Htf didn't you get censored??

[@enigmavariations3809]

If someone stops smoking or stops eating unhealthy food, does that make them a quitter? Its OK to be a quitter, if you're doing something that's bad for you.

[@illmaso786]

Yeah her statement there was sooooo off. Like she’s talking about how bad this path is for her mental health, but she’s not a quitter? I think she’s addicted to it

[@kingmanga8575]

⁠@@illmaso786nah she’s not addicted. She just knows her life will drastically change if she stops doing OF and makes less money so she’s trying to justify it.

[@LilyFlowers-hh3sc]

@@kingmanga8575 She's saying the pain isn't worth the money. I mean that's why I never did it. But I was very self aware at an early age. Most people are not. You're not either. If you even watch this stuff then you're not self aware. Free stuff doesn't count. It's actually worse. Free stuff is just redirected stuff from the stuff that others pay for so if you're watching it you should feel lucky to have these people. If you don't want to do that then stop watching stuff.

[@kingmanga8575]

@@LilyFlowers-hh3sc lmao I’m confused at what point ur trying to make. Ur saying people who watch porn aren’t self aware? To what extent?

[@LilyFlowers-hh3sc]

@@kingmanga8575 If someone understood what that stuff was going to do to their body they would never even watch it. Men and women often get addicted to it and they can't get off with a normal human person. This is hurting relationships all over the world. So if someone is watching that stuff on any level they are not self aware. It is much better to save oneself for a loving partner or at least a close friend. Magazines were not near as addictive. The online world is too over stimulating. You don't think about it like this because you're not self aware. You don't even use proper grammar. Stay in school. Peace.

[@lilyklein7046]

If your ‘empowerment’ and ‘liberation’ still ends up being in the service of men, it’s neither empowerment, nor freedom…

[@EternalflameC.L.]

Wow this comment

[@orppranator5230]

That’s too vague, what about doctors and nurses? They surely provide services for people, including men.

[@Islamzindabad-z7g]

@@orppranator5230those are powerful women working hard jobs

[@CelestialExility]

@@orppranator5230I know you didn’t compare a doctor who saves people’s lives to an OF wh*re

[@CelestialExility]

@@orppranator5230I know you didn’t compare a doctor who saves people’s lives to an OF ho

[@sravansubhash5075]

Preach looks like he sits in a comfy couch and reads a newspaper first thing in the morning while having the TV turned on

[@trevorking2820]

Don’t forget the pipe!

[@Drew-cv2jl]

And the spectacles dangling at the end of the nose :)

[@will8349]

@@trevorking2820#pause

[@Emperor_Palpatine_66]

😂😂😂

[@tedigrizli]

He's got a bold sense of style and I'm here for it :D

[@JustaNobody-j8x]

Therapists are probably adding “experience in post-OF recovery” to their resumes and advertisements now.

[@tala_ph]

LMAOOOOOOO

[@c_Durka]

😂😂😂 I'm dead

[@mk-ld8ih]

You're onto something. Considering how much these Internet prozzies make, you can charge crazy sums as well.

[@TheAcad3mic]

They would have to rename it but its genuinely smart play. Sex-worker re-enfranchisement. AI related job losses as well.

[@Hellkite-er5pg]

Also, future therapists will graduate with a minor in OF post-recovery.

[@PeterMasalski93]

Wow? Who would have though that demeaning yourself online isn't a path to happiness.

[@LilyFlowers-hh3sc]

We should say this to anyone that goes down a dark path and finds their way out? People often look for ways to make easy money especially when they're young and naive. Why don't you go say this to an ex gang member that used to sell mind altering substances and finally stopped. See how that goes. I would suggest doing it behind a screen as well. 🤗 Also I bet you still watch the free stuff. I don't. You're a hypocrite and I'm not.

[@hinkle3634]

@LilyFlowers-hh3sc lmao-what?People don't have to be hurting to want easy money. Anyone can do it and I did it. There's this side of me that thinks "they're losers and if anyone is going to get money from some cumsnot coomer it should be me" and there's the other side that says "am I encouraging people to wrong themselves by feeding into their sexual degeneracy?". I've searched for answers and I've concluded neither idea is wrong.

[@mingiinterlude]

@@LilyFlowers-hh3sctheres other ways to make easy money besides completely throwing away your self respect and selling yourself lol. 😭girl to girl its embarrassing that you think this way.

[@amanda2702]

@@LilyFlowers-hh3sc💯

[@prettyboyg1278]

@@LilyFlowers-hh3sc What a weird and soft feminist bs take lmao Two wrongs dont make a right. Whataboutism at it's finest, as people like you would usually call it lol Which makes you what, Lily? Right, a hypocrite. Selling drugs is pretty much as bad, but at least you get to keep your dignity to some degree and the majority of society would respect a gang member more than a prostitute. Because a prostitute makes her money by offering her own body and making herself vulnerable to her customers and there is zero agency or strength in that, which is why society will never see them on some eye to eye level.

[@Arlene_witha_y]

Because deep down everyone has some level of integrity and self respect So when they disrespect themselves and don’t behave with integrity they start to erode at their own soul! I know i have the body and face to make money with it, but I don’t. Because my peace, my identity, my self respect, my integrity is far more valuable to me than the money i could make from giving the most personal parts of me away to strangers.

[@CEWIII9873]

maybe you have the "body and face to make money with it" during the Bubonic Plague!

[@leunamreyo3663]

Damn, really had to add in the comment of "I know I can make money because I'm so hot, BUT I WONT" We get it. You think you're top tier. Of course. Your channel is about being proud being a single mom.

[@YourNosesShadow117]

that big ahh forehead, who knows if you’d make money lmao

[@jessd3601]

It’s just so sad. All of it. Misled people thinking sex is no big deal, lonely men that buy sex for comfort, women that bought into the idea that them “owning” their own body means selling it for sex… it’s just crushing. I pray for healing for them all. I pray people learn how deep their sexuality is entwined with their soul.

[@Billy-bc8pk]

They will not. The zeitgeist has already convinced normies that this sort of thing is normal, and it will crush all future relationships. Replacement rates are already well below par, so we're heading toward an inevitable collapse.

[@jessd3601]

@@Billy-bc8pk I have faith people are being called back to God. Even those rejected by society.

[@BoinkrNanis]

I cannot feel bad. Being a prostitute of any kind, since the beginning of time, has always been a negative. If youre someone that doesnt understand that then im sorry. Drugs are bad, you dont do them, crime is bad, touching things that are not yours is bad, all of these things are inherently bad things we as a society knows. So Im sorry im not sorry. If youre someone, especially a freaking woman and you dont understand being a prostitute is a bad thing then idk, failed parents or something. It doesnt make any sense that these people,a gain, especially women, have zero discipline over their own nature. Women legit turn 18 and become whores because they have a FOMO and competition with other women that these young women simply refuse to discipline. Dont even get me started on the freaking men! Buying sex? Learn to play the fucking guitar young men, jesus, get some social skills! Young men, pro tip, women are so starved for genuine attention from men, youre gonna be hard pressed to find any young women that are turning down dates now. Shoot your shot. What I have noticed about both young men and women, everything they are displaying is fatherless behavior and it really shows how super important it is for young men and women to have a real male authority figure in their upbringing. Everytime I look around and think "man, how do these people keep making these mistakes, I never had problems with these things" then I remember "OPh yeah, your dad was always there". Feminism kicking men out fo society is having really nasty effects that we all knew would happen. Feminism is really ruining society by brainwashing women and exodus of men.

[@trevorsamuel1114]

Blessed comment

[@scholasticbookfair.]

​@@jessd3601they truly are. He's calling people left and right

[@dynamichunter843]

The same women that thought the porn industry was degrading women and abusing them, felt empowered to own their own onlyfans and now are suffering the same problems. If only anybody could have expected this…

[@SoulyG]

It's almost like objectifing yourself to fullfill some man sexual fantasy is not that easy and safe

[@melodramatic7904]

Actually, in the beginning, there were a ton of women who were trying to sound the alarm and tell them that they're just emploiting themselves, but we were called names and ignored.

[@Anthonybrother]

@@melodramatic7904 non-hoes are exceptions.

[@Latte-dq1tb]

“Be your own pimp!” OF marketing probably

[@Captain_FIipper]

Have these people literally zero foresight

[@Randy_84]

*fast cash usually comes with a very high price*

[@HadrianGuardiola]

I even declined beig a linemen because I didnt want to fall off a damn pole. My dad did construction and fell of a regular ladder and shattered his ankle. Eff that 😅

[@RG-xl7ql]

I feel bad for her, but I also feel like she should've seen this coming, especially considering the amount of stories regarding the mental affects of s*x work.

[@Badabingbadaaaabom]

The world is set up to brainwash us all like it’s not our fault. We’re sexualized before we even lose our virginity. We’re brainwashed !!! And ppl are waking up well women r but men r continuing to watch porn just cus u do things behind closed doors doesn’t mean u deserve more respect than her

[@Jr-qo4ls]

Agreed.

[@youtuber-cc8sx]

I don’t feel the slightest bit bad for this fake narcissist nor any of their kind

[@donny3498]

Nah don’t feel bad, do you feel bad for people that chose to do drugs and then overdose? I sure don’t, choices lead to outcomes and if you make poor choices your gonna have poor outcomes

[@Badabingbadaaaabom]

@@donny3498 ya but women r brainwashed into thinking it’s cool and liberating and most of these chicks get pimped out and there is brainwashing and psychology to it

[@shadowsly2219]

I just hate the cope of "i dont need the money" "theres no amount..." THATS BECAUSE YOU ALREADY HAVE THE MONEY

[@soccerchick1]

@ every celebrity EVERR

[@archangelmichael9199]

Exactly 💯💪🏻 if they didn't have the money they've be right there, yet man are the disgusting ones and they hate on the ones who make her pay and give her reason for shitty content.

[@Izlandprincess1]

Because its only when you've been there and experience you can then realise. This happen in many other instances. They make all the money and realise money isn't really worth it.

[@yonatanghebrehiwot4215]

Its like walking out of a robbery mid way bringing a sum of money with u and then telling people that u stopped because u felt bad

[@shadowsly2219]

@Izlandprincess1 nah, if you pay me 40k a year to take pics of my butt hole for 10 hours a week of work, you won't hear shit from me. And that's just to replace what I do now.

[@BlackMasterJoe89]

Complaining about the dirty men who use OF is like going to Skid Row and being shocked at the drug use. Like, what?

[@user-cu1ns4cm8j]

Great analogy.

[@scratthesquirrel5242]

more like "complaining about how dirty men who use OF are is like going to skid row to sell crack, and surprised at how many fenta-zombies there are"

[@RaizelSX]

Even worse it's more like selling drugs on skid row and being surprised that people do drugs

[@calhountubbs4031]

There modern women. Can't expect common sense from them.

[@lukmanalghdamsi3189]

plus on the she is behind a screen and sees that what if it wasn't behind a screen. well because it was behind a screen and people don't know personally they will do more of that creepy shit. so because it's behind the screen it was that creepy. i don't say that there aren't very creepy men out there on public but behind screen anyone can be creep

[@heavymetalmusichead4969]

She went into a career that degrades and objectifies women, and then is surprised that she feels degraded and objectified.

[@philkim8297]

The point aba makes about the importance of one's personality matching their job is definitely true. I know I could never do what first responders do. I'd get burnt out so fast.

[@blade1hunter100]

I never get why OF girls are "disgusted" with their clientele. Its like a bar owner opening up somewhere and then getting shocked that their custoners are drunks.

[@pikits196]

because the clientele is unnecessarily disgusting. the reality is that men who do onlyfans rarely leave with these kinds of mental issues or regrets, in fact many don’t regret it at all. Because the treatment is simply not the same, she shouldn’t be surprised her clientele is disgusting but it’s not because of ppl into sex work themselves have to inherently be disgusting. it’s the way that men who ARE into sex work approach it, they don’t have to be cruel and hateful, they don’t have to wank with one finger and point with the other. but they do, and i think to some degree women who don’t explore male dominated porn sites and forums are kind of surprised by how hateful and depraved and hostile those men can be. it truly is a different level, ofc women all know men can be perverted and dirty but a lot of women don’t expect to talk to guys who will say shit like.. “subbed to u bc u remind me of my daughter and u look just like her” yk?

[@BlackDiamond2718]

Or selling weapons to warlords

[@kevintanza6968]

You see that with almost any professional in any industry. It's this weird thing where people end up hating their clients. And for the life of me, I don't understand why. You're literally having a living because of these people.

[@IL_Bgentyl]

They hate reality. You ever notice women always complain about the opposite of what they have 😂

[@69Kazeshini]

Hollywood producers getting mad at their audiences for hating their low effort shitty movies

[@M-wi5tw]

As a therapist of 25 years, I can honestly say that I have never seen so many people struggle with mental health issues. My waiting list is a mile long. Most therapist that I know have said the same thing. It's like the sky has fallen.

[@Deeptunester]

Hey, business is booming! I feel like it isn't so much that the number of people with mental health issues are increasing (though I'm sure it is to some extent), but moreso that discussing and working on mental health is a more acceptable and less stigmatized part of society nowadays and so more people feel comfortable reaching out for help when they're struggling.

[@Misericorde451]

Hey, genuine question. Do your patients actually have legitimate mental issues, or are they just making things up to be quirky? Because the amount of time I've seen/heard people so easily pull out the "B-b-but I have ADHD OCD PTSD and sum shit, so you have to excuse my actions!"-card makes me doubt they actually have those.

[@D_McGeezacks]

People always had mental health issues, they're just more aware of it now and addressing them has become less stigmatized

[@espon2112]

@@Misericorde451they’d need a diagnosis to spew that. They can do that online but won’t work with a therapist (depending on how the service runs) they’ll have previous MH information.

[@thewarlock539]

Work at a hospital and I've noticed the same. I'm seeing children come in with MH conditions we've never seen before 2020. That year did so much damage it's unreal.

[@pallinagialla97]

For example, in France they have at least 6 weeks paid vacation a year, quality food and quality interactions and chill with loved ones and various friends. The full-time work week is just 35 hours there, and yet they have a pretty high GDP compared to most of the rest of the world. Dutch people clock out exactly at the time that is written in their contract and then they do lots of sports and socializing always during their free time. The Spanish have longer work hours, but a chiller vibe to it, and in whatever street you walk across Spain you can make new friends and live cool adventures and often there is a party going on non-stop in the streets. Work is important, but life is way more than just about work.

[@JackoFrenchtonDoggo]

France has a 40-50% income tax. I’m not going to subsidize other people’s leisure with my hard-earned money.

[@pallinagialla97]

@@JackoFrenchtonDoggo nope: it's from 0% to 45%... Most people have 30% and it includes the fact that everybody enjoys high quality healthcare and access to quality universities.

[@andrewashworth8327]

@@pallinagialla97 You are forgetting the employer contributions to Sécurité sociale. It's much higher in France. Not that I don't appreciate the more humane system they have, but as they say, there is no free lunch. You will pay more in taxes. Don't forget the 20% VAT.

[@Timberjagi]

@@JackoFrenchtonDoggo Yet if something happens to you or your direct family you will have no issue with it. Health insurance is pretty low (between 100/200 euro) and pretty much everything is covered by it. Remember when i lived in the USA and my wife broke her arm and we still had to pay 1000 dollars even though we were insured really well, yet the same thing was 20 euro in Europe because of some medication that was not fully covered. The USA is great if you have 20 million dollar and more available to spend, if your part of the middle class and lower class the USA is just a shitshow

[@miamazingness]

I love Spain. I lived there for a year. I wouldn’t say their economy is doing great, but I definitely love their lifestyle.

[@simonrudduck8726]

It’s a big sign of strength to be able to share those ideas so honestly. The trick is now to not let the sharing of real emotion be like the striptease itself.

[@gamefax5741]

That job is a honey pot for creeps. Gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you. Prolonged exposure to evil, negativity, or difficult subjects may transform you into something you never wanted to be.

[@maylingtorres]

Totally agree...Preach said it perfectly: "It kills my soul." I pray that she will put her "pride" aside and get out of that line of work. I hope and wish for her health and restoration too. It's incredibly sad to see all of these young people suffering with mental health issues.😞

[@planexshifter]

Or you just realize it’s a job and not let it affect you

[@ricardokojin7]

People who do that job are just as morally fucked up as the so called "creeps".

[@handsomeman-pm9vy]

Eric Adams: I want to be major of New York City. Wizard of Oz: Be very careful what you wish for.

[@EJx5493]

That's deep

[@Selvarin]

She won't quit till she's physically stopped, because this is her "creative outlet"...but she hates the clientele. Who really has the problem?

[@monicajaramillo6940]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Valen-mh9fh]

Some possibilities: (a) Maximise revenue since she's already in it; (b) Dependent on the money; (c) Pride/inability to accept their responsibility in their mistake; (d) A ruse to scare off new entrants i.e., competitors; (e) Mental health. Or some confluence of all those and/or other factors.

[@uprightaardvark]

I have one of dudes' albums, I really didn't enjoy the second one tho

[@SalemPhiladelphia]

@@Valen-mh9fhwhen in doubt go with C

[@uprightaardvark]

I just listed my most accomplish worthy sex acts as rated by Father William of the Catholic Church in order of bars for how close to barred from the Kingdom of Heaven I am. The other stuff there too, but that's section one now. We going for zero calls, sometime people have this audacity to call and start with "esteemed," it has this word and no on the title bro. Me high off my gourd off 21g of shrooms and naturally I figure I've been made, why on Earth would I ever super friends into steamed seasonal veggies bro?? The worst of the side options for real at the restaurant. Zero peppercorn bro. The absolute unmitigated gall of this individual. Don't worry revenge was had. Got his whole family what they had on the santa list, cept he got a picture of the rapper jermaine cole with a lil thought bubble saying you know what you did mister ya flopped on the naughty list with your shenanigans."

[@sekerondorsette245]

I've seen videos and articles where they talk about how mostbp-stars end themselves and have serious drug addictions and often OD. Watching her express her self and seeing her trend of thought and how she feels about her customer and herself... i can see why.

[@LUVBUG24K]

I’m so glad she came out and said this, these younger girls are being so manipulated to think this is normal and it’s extremely sad

[@Bongtaker]

This is like a drug dealer blaming the customer for buying.

[@obsidianbeau4087]

That's because it is the customer's fault for buying. How else this the dealer making money? By force?

[@jono1]

@@obsidianbeau4087 It's the dealer's fault for selling.

[@slumbrrbunnie]

They are both equally at fault as the market would not exist without one another. Neither is guiltless or innocent in that situation.

[@Bongtaker]

@@slumbrrbunnie good brain on this one

[@kylemack8864]

@@slumbrrbunnie I disagree, she didn't join onlyfans for the men she joined for the money. She was free to choose other ways to make money. She choose exploitation for money and did it willingly.

[@idjilju2835]

A tale told as long as time. The OG sex workers could’ve told her that

[@OseiTheWarriors]

At least the OGs weren't doing it during this online era they didn't have a digital footprint that will follow them for years

[@LamezNation]

​@@OseiTheWarriors You're saying this like she didn't make the choice lol. If in 2024 you as a fully functional adult don't realize that once you upload to the Internet it's forever💯💯, you gotta be either dumb or high of some ish. Regardless Accountability💯

[@RobinXlone]

thats the thing tho. they dont view OF as real prostitution or sex work.

[@elizegood7722]

@@OseiTheWarriorsI was just having a conversation with someone about this! These people don’t realise that the women back in the day are okay with families now, because unless you were a consumer - you didn’t know what they previously did and that saved them from _a lot_ of these issues the newer ones are having! Heck, even the new street walkers are all over IG (and some OF), making it known what they’re doing, even when they’re told by OG’s and p!mps to get the hell off of it. However, they believe they know everything until it leaves a hole in their head! Forget smacking them in the face.

[@marlom7882]

The thing is the older ones always do or at least usually do but the younger generation is always stupid enough to believe they’ll be the exception

[@Ladybirdtaj]

God bless, protect, and guide her to find her authenticity & light 🙏🏽 she's speaking her truth and warning others of the emotional and spiritual damage this does - power to her 💪🏽

[@GrannyLovesSquares]

We ALL fall short of His Glory. Feeling bad is a blessing. Some feel nothing. Jesus would tell her to go and sin no more. He would tell us to support her in love. Thank you very much for your loving and supportive comment.

[@Sam-ul9fm]

Let’s be real here, she’s addicted to the fast money and uses the male attention as a coping mechanism. She has a choice to stop and do something way less soul sucking and emotionally destructive yet chooses not to being 100% self aware (given her tik-tok). She needs deep counseling and I truly feel for her

[@jasonandrews1770]

Imagine having a low-class job and being suprised to deal with low-class people

[@watasht0ff360]

This is too deep and is probably going to hurt a lot of people. Y’all keep in mind that this is a genuine comment, not one meant to attack anyone in anyway

[@bgrego88]

Its crazy how this chick couldn't put that together

[@Royalbloodline1990]

Most of the men that entertain sex workers are pedo weird dudes.

[@jordanj190]

Can’t make this shxt up

[@StrigidaeStrigiformes-sv6mj]

@@bgrego88 So. You are telling me that you gon set yourself up for such a failure. Then become surprised when you've lost respect for yourself and the intimacy of sexual intercourse? Huh. Genius zhit, this girl is revealing. She deserves a Nobel Prize in philosophy.

[@_Eisley]

"I'm not a quitter" she says. To actually think that stopping sex work is a bad thing and equates to giving up. She's upset for a reason, yet she continues to do the thing that mentally tears her down and it's only going to get worse with time. So, she's basically forcing herself to be miserable because she trying to prove something to herself. This is actually really sad

[@2Ten1Ryu]

maybe it's also because she is sharing it online and doesn't want to end on a negative note. but she is not accountable to those people... I find it really sad as well. at least she was brave enough to share it. more women should hear videos like this before they do OF. shaming her at this point doesn't benefit anybody.

[@imetmikemo182]

​​@@2Ten1RyuPersonally, i always try to shame the cognitive dissonance that leads to ones mental deterioration & self destruction. I get what you are saying though. "When you are not just doing superficial things like applying makeup in front of it, a mirror can be one of the hardest things to look into."

[@blubirdhill2608]

​@@2Ten1Ryu It's fair to shame people being delusional. She's not quitting due to her greed for money and her addiction to attention. Shs has the audacity to call her subscribers "disgusting", while she is engaged in (and benefiting from) said behavior. If she were qutting, that would be one thing. However, she plans to continue profiting from the same thing she's decrying, and that is worthy of zero respect or pity.

[@samiam2088]

@@blubirdhill2608 Not really, people who patron sex workers tend to be just incredibly mean for seemingly no reason and I never actually understood that. Even if you don't respect the work, the customers seem to take pleasure in dehumanizing and degrading the service worker. To me it's like being a POS to a waiter - someone who is 'beneath you' so to speak and performing a service, and despite it being a purely transactional situation, there's no reason to get nasty and cross certain boundaries of decency and etiquette. But apparently it's fine to just be horrible to sex workers because the dynamic is transactional?

[@samiam2088]

@@imetmikemo182 Are you trying to "shame" the person, or just not allow them to indulge in cognitive dissonance?

[@NorthernRealmJackal]

Wow. Who would've thought that glorifying sex work and trivialising its impact would have dire consequences for everyone that fell for the meme? What a truly unexpected turn of events.

[@Romeo9933]

We feel you and that you really feel empty, but there is tomorrow. Just put it on your schedule and just change. Fool everyone and just do it! No need to feel any type of way.....just do it! Take that time to make your plan and start with some action. Don't worry about what the world will think. You just may be a savior of many.....WE NEVER KNOW!!! Take the actoins toward what you want to be and clean the bad feelings. You will live, love and hopefully be happy! No excuses....just do it!

[@KarmaDarkly]

Oh no, a sex worker is upset that the men they interact with is transactional and they don't give a damn about your feelings.

[@1Plebeian]

Does she give a damn about their feelings? Does she treat them in any way other than as cash cows or servants of her dreams? She is what she is, and this is just a small portion of the karma she deserves returning to her.

[@Kuhmodo]

This is why I've always said it's a hard no for anyone doing OF. I just don't have the mental capacity or the psychology degree to put up with this in a relationship.....

[@cecee3480]

Not every job is for everyone. It’s really that simple.

[@datboijdope]

​@@1PlebeianProbably not, but she seems to care about her own feelings. Why else would she post a video like this to random strangers online?

[@WaynerTheGamer]

THEY THE LAZIEST OF ALL SEX WORKERS 😆😆😆 FAKE SEX WORKERS

[@HellaNGMusic]

She was onto something in the start, but then instead of taking personal responsibility, she externalised the blame to the men who watch her... She could and should just stop exposing herself to the worst parts of humanity, but she's "not a quitter"... Sad really.

[@Politickin]

She is a “victim” that likes attention and money.

[@Sykologist_Music]

Well said

[@MrJCerqueira]

this ain’t it

[@drewmungus5841]

I'm usually on the women's side with the topic of sex work, but I find her complaints pretty silly. You'd have to be extremely naive to not expect to interact with scummy men when going into sex work, especially when she says she's already had negative experiences with men. Then why would you opt into that work? If you just wanted to try it or were desperate for a quick buck, then I get it and it's sad that it didn't work out, but that'd not what she's saying here. She lost most of my sympathy with that line about "I won't quit unless somebody physically stops me" then you're the only one to blame for the mental trauma you're distressed about, plain and simple.

[@Ash.Attack]

everyone knows the defnition of insanity right? doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome. so by "not being a quitter" you're only hurting yourself while thinking oh its not my fault. she likes the money too much. get some self respect and find something that is better for your mental health

[@j.lingle4713]

She had bad relationships with men so she started an OF account. She burns out on OF, but when she goes to date in the future, decent men will have an issue with her having had an OF account…

[@pallinagialla97]

Good and balanced video, guys, thank you! You are not too dramatic about it, despite it's a tough story, and you manage to smile and giggle in face of life, but you're not ridiculing this important topic. This way, and also thanks to her, I have a balanced overview of what's going on and I can draw my opinion. Thanks! 🙏

[@TEFFTPATTERN]

“I can’t stop because I’m not a quitter” homegirl you aren’t running a marathon lol, this isn’t one of those circumstances where it’s a test of your tenacity, this is a test of your own self actualization and you’re failing miserably, no pun intended

[@purpleprinc3]

My mumma didn't raise no quitter!! That's what I tell people when they tell me to stop smoking...😂

[@ArshesNei8]

She won't stop because she's not old and used up. It has nothing to do with her being a "quitter"

[@Noname-rw9qz]

@@purpleprinc3bruh🤣

[@OrphansCorpse]

Oh it's the O&A guy. Hi.

[@Supreme_Lobster]

by continuing to do it she is actually quitting. she is quitting from following good morals, her conscience, God, and the things that would actually be edifying for her

[@MyNameIsNotCraig]

She was really expecting the guys on OF to be sweet/kind AND give her bundles of cash.

[@brawndothethirstmutilator9848]

The smart ones pay someone to communicate with the subscribers and social media followers so they don’t have to. At least it gives them a degree of separation.

[@joeruhe8030]

That's a new type of OF delusion. She's disgusted because these men have gf/wives and kids?

[@1Plebeian]

Some of them do exactly that! And they get treated by her like the dupes they are lol.

[@Sephiroso.]

She wasn't. She's literally just experiencing a lot of the same stuff that any online content creator with a big following experiences, just to a greater degree given her line of work. Humans are not built to handle being insulted by hundreds of thousands of people. It doesn't matter how tough you think you skin is, that WILL get to you. The only thing you can do to make it so it doesn't is to literally build a wall between you and the people and never see said comments. Never read comment sections, hire someone else to handle your social media/respond/etc. Otherwise, it will take it's toll on you and you will break down eventually or want to quit. Doesn't matter if you're in OF, a streamer, a youtuber, a movie star, they all experience the same shit to varying degrees depending on their popularity. Granted, OF girls experience it the worst almost no matter their popularity due to the almost universal vitriol they receive from all sides.

[@hayley179g]

Why wouldn't they? They're getting a service for payment, why should they be karens?

[@bonkieboy9229]

Knock Knock Who's there ? Consequences. Consequences who ? Consequences of your own actions.

[@CEWIII9873]

how about: your m0m

[@Learner_29]

Accountability? Whats that?

[@zajebancija11]

To me the most ridiculous thing is to share these very personal thoughts and problems on Tiktok. This should be talked with a close friend, family member or psychologist but not on social media. But good luck for her. Hope she can change her life.

[@pedromatus4038]

It's called "I sold my soul and I want it back"

[@MsJoyce31202]

Yes.

[@brandonsexperience2008]

Best comment 😂😂😂😂 crazy how they default to blame men

[@Threegreentails]

@@brandonsexperience2008 she is not "blaming men", she is talking about particular type of men and even more specifically SOME of her "fans".

[@illuminahde]

​@@ThreegreentailsNo one is to blame but herself. She chooses who she prostitutes herself to. For a price, anyone in the public can buy her sexuality. You don't get to complain about your customers if you're trying to have a good business. Remember, being a prostitute is her choice. The fact that she won't be able to pair bond after so many sexual partners isn't ONLY because sex is transactional for her. Women (men too but women especially) struggle to find themselves able to feel love for one person as their partner count increases. It's not the fact that the world will forever see her as a prostitute now, it's the fact that she will always think of herself that way now. I feel sad that society lied to her and told her prostitution was a viable career choice.

[@xNevikKx]

@@Threegreentails ...but she's crying because she sold her soul.

[@reyr.8552]

I started doing crack last year, my teeth are falling off, I’ve lost my job, my wife left me, my kids hate me but I wont quit because I’m not a quitter. Thats what I heard.

[@chill3282]

As a dude who has been addicted to crack I wouldn’t say getting uncomfortable messages on OF is a 1:1 comparison but sure

[@carlaboyd7407]

Well said… love the analysis wish I would have just read your reply instead…save some brain cells

[@Porcelynn_doll]

Are you forreal?

[@Creoles.nature]

🤣

[@smoothmusic4340]

Cocaine is a hell of a drug

[@TonimeiDavis]

No wayyyyy who would’ve thought 🙄😂

[@selinatakerei2392]

It blew my mind when my niece told me I should be supportive of the idea of OF because it was all about women taking their power back. She walked out when I pointed out that whoring yourself to the creeps of the world is not even close taking power back, it’s actually destroying your power along with your sense of self worth and your soul. I will never understand how these women are convincing themselves that shit is making them powerful. Money don’t mean shit when you’re destroying your soul. Money is a man made concept, the soul is eternal.

[@shaani7978]

This is what us ‘pickmes’ and ‘haters’ were saying all along…OF/sex work/p0rn is not the way to go. Go to college, get a trade, work at Walgreens- something that doesn’t include degrading yourself in such a vile way. Those videos and images will be around forever and will mess up your life.

[@OseiTheWarriors]

Exactly, thank you!

[@joshuadelton5970]

It's not for everybody at least but I agree.

[@Bereal-yd5gh]

pick-me behaviour is a conscious choice that women make to depreciate other women to make themselves look better in the eyes of men.

[@Bereal-yd5gh]

pick-me behaviour is a conscious choice that women make to depreciate other women to make themselves look better in the eyes of men.

[@vonnie0_0]

@joshuadelton5970 Let’s be fr, it’s not for *anybody.*

[@PhantomMite]

Its sad that a lot of people now who do OF or corn are finally understanding that the industry rapidly increases your likelihood of mental health issues, severely impact the relationships you had/have. Meanwhile therapist are rubbing their hands like birdman.

[@zippo5294]

True, yet since a lot of them felt empowered at the time and wouldn't listen to anybody, I find it hard to have empathy for them 🫤

[@mercy5754]

Like birdman 😂😂

[@PhantomMite]

@mercy5754 The sad part is that I'm not even lying. In the mental health field, there's an increasing amount of patients directly or indirectly impacted by a close person to them being part of the industry. There's going to be a whole new generation fueling the need for therapists for this issue.

[@Birdflaps20]

Forgot to mention how much this affects their kids or future kids, I’ve heard wild stories

[@aquarian-talk]

Was that a jab at therapy?

[@failingartist3524]

Her runnig around the topic is just insane

[@puppetmaster8514]

A mental note to the future me: there will always be someone who will buy, its about what you want to sell that defines you. A person who sells rocks is a kind of way, a person who sells books, another. Who do you want to be?

[@CEWIII9873]

whatever makes more money simple

[@juan-pauldwyer]

Imagine calling your customers disgusting.... But not calling what you yourself do disgusting. Lol

[@Drew-cv2jl]

Upside down world

[@darrylwilliams4457]

Exactly when that business is built on perversion 😂😂you shocked at what men come with this game fucking hutspa

[@whateverwhatever4026]

Exactly. Third time saying this, it's like an Ice Cream Saler getting angry and upset when you buy and eat his ice cream. What did you think was the deal here? "Oh I was just being creative making frozen treats that look pretty! I didnt think you'd eat em!!!😭"

[@themidgetsman]

Two things can be true at once.

[@bombsovadecatur]

Wait so because she’s an X worker she deserves to be dehumanized? I like chicken nuggets but I wouldn’t support kicking chickens ya know

[@V0ltron]

She took down more boxers than Mike Tyson.

[@stacks1536]

Lmao

[@Kickdoeshit]

The day she knew "I do whatever I want." And "I'm dead inside" actually go together.

[@michaeld.wilkins7124]

Pin

[@michaeld.wilkins7124]

📌

[@HerFather]

😂

[@milton7763]

“There were things at the beginning that I super appreciated” Da Moneeeeeyyyy

[@redpapa859]

You die inside when you sacrifice happiness for drama

[@SUPER_HELPFUL]

One of the best paying and easy jobs I've ever done was delivering hospice medication on a motorcycle. Riding all over southern California was fun, the pay was great, and I had to quit after 2 months. When everyone you are interacting with is close to someone who is dying, or they themselves are dying it gets incredibly depressing VERY fast. Everywhere from three story mansions in gated communities to halfway houses in some of the worst neighborhoods; everyone dies and sometimes it is a long painful process.

[@RaenRyong]

Yup, I have huge respect for anyone who has to routinely deal with death and despair - so doctors, nurses, hospice workers, etc. I'm nowhere near emotionally strong enough for it and it would wreck my mental health

[@cheemthief]

@@RaenRyong i worked at a hospital as security and we had to take the funeral home people to the morgue and let them in when i tell you i never dared to look in the room and would just wait on the outside and it still messed with me seeing so many people get rolled out i only worked there for a year .

[@3_Klos1122]

@@cheemthiefsounds like McKee medical center in Loveland. Took a leg to the morgue once. Popped my share of cold ones (out of the coolers) death cart looks like catering cart but nobody dares to ask if it is during the elevator ride

[@ConstantineIII]

Hospice is tough man. I used to volunteer there as a companion for about a year. You'd hang out with people that were dying and just be with them. Talk about whatever they want. Just let them get their final thoughts out to someone who would listen before they pass away. Some stuff is just heavy to be around. This is a mild story in terms of badness but I hung out with this one guy once who just finished his MD-PHD. That's basically being in med school for six or 7 years before you graduate. Busted his ass his entire adult life and right as he finishes, boom, terminal brain cancer out of nowhere. Never got a chance to be a doctor. He was lined up to do important medical research and save lives like he always wanted and that opportunity was robbed from him. I have pretty thick skin but even I got upset at just how deeply unfair life can be sometimes. Anyway what I'm trying to say is no shame in not wanting to be around that. I'm sure you brought meds to kids too which is its own special kind of hell. God bless and hope your new job is treating you better.

[@listentotheanimalscreamsha1511]

What company did you work for? I'm in Cali trying to get into this field of work.

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

@5:45 - 'I just don't wanna quit ...I'm just not a quitter.' - knowing when to quit is an important life skill, mam.

[@nightfighter7452]

She means to say she "can't" quit. She has no other skills, disqualified herself from any normal employment in the future, and I guess she hasn't been saving any of that money she's been making and can't retire yet😂

[@Mictlantecuhtli]

​@@nightfighter7452You can be addicted to easy money and exactly that OF is. She is addicted.

[@markusgorelli5278]

I can appreciate that not everyone has the guts to resign and they need to be fired. But she is self employed - so I don't know who she thinks is going to come along and "fire" her - hopefully not any of her clients because that might not end well.

[@angelicagalabuzi1131]

This comment...❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 FACTS!!!!!!

[@StrigidaeStrigiformes-sv6mj]

She can't stop. Won't stop. Bad boi baby *eh eh, eh eh* . Then she gon blame diddy for going to his base. GTFOH. I only feel sorry for good women who end up in bad situations. Not dumb women who go to yacht parties and resorts known to be populated by segs fiends.

[@milton7763]

“Monetarily supporting me” Hoooooooeeeeeee

[@miamazingness]

I love you guys’ take on this.

[@thecommoncentrist]

She's not conflicted at all. How are you disgusted by men with families following & not women with families producing it?

[@Bongtaker]

Because woman do thing = good Man do thing = bad Ie. She's jaded just let her cry in her little corner, she'll wallow in her pity crying about all the disgusting men while advertising to them and doing what they want for money.

[@Rairyuujin]

Yoooooooooo this would break her entire reality!

[@instintosoldato9019]

Because that would go against the victim mentality they have

[@DeathlyShadow12]

Yeah that part was confusing. Like it's so bad that these are guys with kids and families? So what does that say about you as a creator, that you're MAKING content that's bad for kids and families? It's hard to hold the moral high ground when you're just as complicit in the immoral behavior.

[@emem2863]

Because those women aren't her fans.

[@addebisislittlehatfromoz6201]

"I won't stop until my soul is removed from my body" "Men are disgusting, because what I do is disgusting"

[@commissarkitty3553]

Rides a bike, puts a stick through bike wheel, falls, blames men.

[@Gymthingz]

You can’t make this ish up. This is crazy

[@salsipuedes8425]

I break up with my ex bf because he consomued OF content it really destroys relationships

[@The_Winners_Legion]

"Men tell me disgusting things, because I do disgusting things"😂

[@1Plebeian]

"I did this to feel BETTER than others with a luxurious lifestyle, not to feel worse! =("

[@rezzoc91]

I mean, I feel like already basic content creation burns you to a crisp. I have an IG profile where I had minimal success talking about minority languages, and I stopped it because I felt an incredible amount of pressure, I can't even imagine the toll that would take to run something like an OF account. I feel like we need more education for people, because these relatively new forms of jobs come with the "too good to be true" label.

[@ichbinnichtich]

It's crazy and sad that these people get into OF but don't think about the consequences. It can impact every aspect of your life. If you ever stop and want a decent job, people at work might know you have an onlyfans. If you have kids, your kid might be bullied for it. Many men don't want a serious relationship with someone with an OF. Most men (& woman) won't respect an OF person and you can see it by the disgusting comments. This mentality of like "I should be able to do what I want and no one should judge or treat me differently" it's silly because although most people won't stop you they will still judge you and treat you differently.

[@KingNexusMOCs]

"Monetarily supporting me" "They're checking in on me" "I wouldn't call them when I'm having a really hard day" Sounds like a para social relationship to me 🤷

[@jeffcruz6748]

they're nothing to her but she's surprised by the weirdos who treat her like nothing?

[@1Plebeian]

​@@jeffcruz6748 viola.

[@EnraiChannel]

It is.

[@Kuroganemk2]

@@jeffcruz6748 She is the biggest weirdo here tbh lol

[@hoi-polloi1863]

Sounds like a parasitic relationship to me...

[@LeoPard-HQ]

At the beginning, I felt sorry for her. Then, I was conflicted. Now, I don't feel sorry for her at all. In fact, I'm mad because she didn't learn anything from her experience. It's always somebody else's fault.

[@tebohosefatsa8280]

True man. true.

[@sc_arriola382]

I couldn't believe the conclusion she came to keep doing it but in a different way like she genuinely thinks the customers are the problem not the OF

[@Bonesawisready926]

Women are wholly divorced from the concept of accountability these days.

[@bc9554]

@@sc_arriola382we should ban men from accessing onlyfans to protect women 🫡

[@1dingerr]

I feel no sympathy for OF girls. You chose easy money over dignity. Enjoy your life now.

[@kourtenayt1927]

I have definitely considered it as an " attractive" woman and my 9-5 life sucks sometimes and doesn't pay me exuberant amounts of money . But when I'm not working I have peace of mind, no shame/embarrassment, no digital profile that will follow forever if I decide to change jobs, no likely stalkers, no creepy energy being put towards me.... I just don't think money is worth any of those things.

[@frickfran]

I’m 29, have been told to do OF from twitch, TikTok, etc. and I would have had I not gotten older and learned more about myself and the world. I’m SO glad I understood my body deserves more than I was willing to give her a year ago. ❤ There is nothing wrong w showing ur body to ppl BUT this world of hypersexuality and men literally just not understanding how this majority of the time happens TO women not the other way around is sad.. women have been manipulated into doing things they don’t wanna do for a millennia, get it together guys. We are tired of waiting on you. 😮

[@stephaneog3977]

she says a lot of people following her OF are disgusting ( married, in couple , have kids) but she is not disgusted by their money

[@imalizard2113]

I mean, who did she expect? A bunch of single Nobel peace prize winners?

[@Youarenotgoddobe]

She's upset because she discovered the immoral side of people who are living double lives. People who she thought was better than that where not .

[@meanmelodies]

can she force them to unsubscribe?

[@servine1212]

​@@meanmelodiesThey pay her bills, so technically yes. Realistically no.

[@dlilinger]

Her delusion and her oblivion is actually unbelievable and astounding. She talking about men who are disgusting when she is the very one who is the most disgusting of them all. Lady you are the one serving them your shame. Same as a drug dealer looking down on addicts. You are the one serving them this bs. Like the drug dealer you are the bad guy and not the other way around.

[@miriamuSama]

Correction; One of my best (male) friends of 24 years had a girlfriend who did OF. She was the abusive one to him. So don’t assume that these women are always the victims of picking a bad man. Sometimes it’s the other way around.

[@uprightaardvark]

Ah human relationships are a complicated two way puzzle, the simple joys of one are in jointly solving this, or not, different strokes different folks. After understanding all there is to know about how I was the craziest of bitches, and that's why I kept finding them, and moving on past all that, ya see me freeze frame dodging one of them crazy crystal lamps outta pier one imports, something kinda comforting in familiarity on them honestly, it's always the go to, when Mercury commands them to hurl one at me as I have failed to recite a string of words deemed important. Do I hate this situation nah, did I willingly end up here, high high chance of this happening, extra guilty. I feel like my therapist got his own unresolved lamp trauma saying it's odd to compliment women on what they've made for themselves financially. Four of those tossed in succession at some dude ya met recent, ya gotta be doing well for yourself especially factoring in the cleanliness of the rest of the placed and all that jazz. Mercury need to get demoted by them NASA folk though, top ten inciters of this decade fasho. Just constant instigating. 😁

[@kungaroomanga5639]

That’s crazy

[@godsangel67able]

It's just easier to always paint women as the victims and men are the bad ones. society doesn't do a good Job of recognizing women abusing men.

[@nightwatch3359]

You're right! Just like that white blonde OF creature who murdered her black boyfriend by stabbing him to death. Befor thee actual murder took place, there's cctv and other evidence of her abusing the heck of him physically and mentally. It just makes me wonder, how long was that going on for because I would of left her ass after 3 strikes, your outta there. But if it was actually me I would of never gone there because OF, is a Instant deal breaker for me. ✋🏽😓

[@JamFlava1]

Your best male friend is an beta male. Can’t he just slap her or just leave her and who the hell will date an women who do only fans….I don’t want to be arrogant but the guy is an Beta male 🤷‍♂️

[@Eskinore]

Like a gun manufacturer calling gun enthusiasts evil for indulging in their weapons.

[@afrodite1634]

IT IS ALWAYS A GOOD REASON TO QUIT SOMETHING THAT IS DISRESPECTING OR HARMING YOURSELF!!!!!

[@petereichler3083]

Disgusting content will attract disgusting people.

[@orangeyellow-me1pz]

EXACTLY.

[@karaiakauma3179]

No lies detected here

[@traceydumase]

I meeeaaannn...

[@joshmillere6263]

At the end of the day it is still an addiction, doesn't matter who it is addiction will make anyone ugly. Good people get caught up in drugs, and good people can get addicted to porn. They are not the same thing at all but they are more comparable than you think.

[@1Plebeian]

Girl: commercially objectifies herself. Guys: Treat her like a commercial object. Girl: surprised Pikachu face. Also, she equally thinks of and treats her clients as trash. I can't with these tears.

[@a.b.kelley5163]

A woman who bust down for strangers on the internet, is now calling those strangers disgusting… look at the pot calling the kettle black

[@d-chudasama]

She wants the money on her terms, but won't stop doing it because she only cares about the money

[@Every14days826]

A sw with a conscience, she is something else smh.

[@samiam2088]

I dunno, quite a bit of society openly calls sex workers disgusting, I don't know why the clientele should be any better.

[@jobejacobs62]

True. Also this chick is attracted to hot men only.

[@mosttafazahid826]

Both of them are disgusting

[@Blissfulanon]

The issue with doing this isn’t porn itself. It’s the fact that it’s an easy and simple way to make money and you’re SUPPOSED to take that money and build it into something else.

[@Megan6772]

it's the playing both sides for me. "I'm not gonna quit, I'm not a quitter"......then acting like she's above it....."I'm gonna use it to create something that has nothing to do with pleasing men.....like, keep your money at this point"......**she says while she continues to make content and take their money**

[@Obsidiansoul74]

Of is not art. If any female reads this, from a female please listen, OF is not art and you are a sex worker and you are obliged to the men who pay to money. Paying someone desensitises that paying man to think he can say and do whatever, because he paid. I've never even been on an looked at OF, but I'm so upset by young women saying it's harmless, and it's art. It's sex for money, not art.

[@Anthonybrother]

they're children repeal the 19th

[@Bonesawisready926]

Stupid people gotta learn the hard way, let em.

[@Itshotaf]

👏

[@need-to-know-]

Depends on what he thinks he’s paying for.

[@rambonatorrrr6694]

You're definitely a guy. Women don't refer to themselves as females.

[@gametime2473]

I am the exact same way, everyone tells me to stop smoking crack but I am NO QUITTER!

[@PrayingPanda]

It's empowering!!

[@psyicario8791]

That’s right never quit smoking crack😂

[@RandomNoob1124]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Surteronarto]

mama raised no bitch and i aint no quitter il die rather than give up my meth

[@martinsramkad1761]

😂

[@chestnutlw8031]

That’s a pretty straight-up question before I check out this video. Thanks, guys, you’ve really got me thinking about this.

[@edg8-eddylikescake312]

9:50 this is accurate about work some can do labor others can’t, some can be offices agents others can’t

[@kylespevak6781]

1:37 it's pretty obvious the upside is money and the downside is mental health and dignity

[@JESUSWONTHEWAR]

Which makes it very satanic

[@katl1489]

Bingo AND unlike classic prostitution/escort where you can keep those secrets for the most part, with OF you're secrets are shared/downloaded and your reputation is tarnished for years to come.

[@OneNiftyBoi]

And the big thing is that the money is short term but the effects on their Mental Health and dignity are long term (likely for the rest of their lives).

[@San-lh8us]

@@JESUSWONTHEWAR so every office job where you gain some money but leave feeling like your soul is leaving your body is also satanic, right?

[@JESUSWONTHEWAR]

@San-lh8us lol 😆...I would never compare sx work to an office job. I work in the beauty industry. It's exhausting on busy days but never felt my soul crushed.

[@javianjohnson8746]

"What pride? The reason you're in the state you are in right now is because you're not so proud of yourself!" - hit the nail right on the head!! 🔥

[@clob3896]

Hey atleast she stoped doing such things right?

[@fatgirl4501]

For real, too proud to have self respect lol

[@whm_w8833]

The pride in the ability to seduce people for their money. It’s still take skills. The courtesans would know.

[@laszlokiss483]

@@clob3896 Idk did they or did they just make a video about how they were going to quit ?

[@someguy803]

​@@clob3896 She said she isn't going to stop because "I'm not a quitter" which is the ultimate low IQ bs stance to take on her part.

[@aLwE17]

People who have regrets doing stuff like OF are sadly the kind of people who never really look 10 years ahead into the future or take the thought of it seriously. These people usually think like they're still kids in elementary school who think that when they grow up into an adult they become a new person with a new life in a new place, and with a new blank slate to work on their new person. These people fail to grasp the concept that they only have 1 life right now and that life is a continuous river and anything they do upstream will always be seen downstream by everyone, that life isn't a movie that when they had enough life just cuts to the next scene of them in a new country living a totally different and happy life sipping champagne in an luxurious cabin living a nice and cozy life or bringing a turkey to the dining table where their family is excitedly waiting.

[@moonie2687]

Ppl becoming self aware after its to late and the damage is already done.

[@floppydisk1137]

".. how disgusting their DM were." but their money weren't disgusting. GTFO. 😂

[@HeliosX28]

Right Lol, you still did it and took the money so stop complaining

[@rdpillsforall6884]

At this moment she realized what being literal street hooker is like 😂

[@BS_Profile]

Exactly. If any guys find her attractive and want to see her naked, she probably says that's "creepy and weird". Unless of course, they give her money first.

[@KwertyKeys]

Many people started in lockdown as they were about to be homeless and their kids were hungry. Stop abusing poor women for trying to survive.

[@Centerstage1]

My thoughts exactly!

[@brandonhanserd7832]

So she thought she was going to have some honest interactions with men who aren’t married and aren’t creeps on OF 😂😂. I swear you can’t make this shit up. Now she hates all men because of her experience. No one forced you to do OF

[@Valen-mh9fh]

She sounds kind of, at best, naïve, at worst dumb... "I was really surprised when I went to the soup kitchen and found homeless people there." 😂

[@definitelytre3649]

the clients are between married and single tbh

[@manifest2203]

The problem is not that it is transactional. The proeblsm is d6sgusting customer behaviour.

[@AHalz]

@@manifest2203you know who pays for OF content? Creepy men who have no self control over their actions, that’s who. The clientele will never been sane minded men who are nice to women

[@vinceee_r]

@@manifest2203bro, its porn. There’s only one kind of people making accounts on those sites and interacting with the models. Those with disgusting fantasies. Its SW. all sorts of disgusting sexual stuff is gonna be involved.

[@oakleavesandonions771]

I worked as an exotic dancer for 8 years. (Retired to be a stay at home mom. Happily married, supportive partner, etc. So I’m already an exception to the rule in that sense.) I got into the business for my health- mental and physical. I didn’t expect to make much money. In fact I was shocked at how much money I made. And I loved it. Even after quitting, I still love that period of my life. It really does take a certain type of person to thrive in that environment. And what you guys brought up about being motivated into it by money might be a big part of that. I never considered it that way until you mentioned it, but I didn’t become a stripper for money or self esteem. So money and self esteem were not the primary factors that brought me in to work in the evening. I just really loved dancing.

[@zakarysantana2635]

of all the type of dancers you couldve been you decided to become the lowest class of dancer

[@ponytoast1231]

From what I read actual SW don't have that experience as much since a lot of their clients don't care that much about doing it and just want company and someone to talk to and have some physical contact because they are lonely, terrible clients are much rarer and being in person people tend to be nicer than online being disconnected.

[@katl1489]

Totally depends on your clients. Yes high class escorts can cherry pick regulars who are relatively easy. But a drug addicted street walker gets beaten/raped/robbed weekly. Also the number reason you get paid is not for the sex it's for the discretion. Source: am former prostitute.

[@dragonmaster951753]

Your Mario & Luigi fit today was 🔥.

[@Spahki]

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[@Nicholas_Dubois]

Underrated comment of the century!

[@williambanks3989]

Pin this

Daaaamn, height and width ratio is also on point.

[@rohateanonis4657]

Mamma mia

[@ciciciciciclala]

A few of the things I'm most proud of up until now in my life concern quitting. Quitting a job where my boss disrespected me so much he cussed me out in front of clients. Quitting a bachelors degree after almost halfway through even though I got good grades because I found something that I knew I could put my heart into. Quitting a relationship because he was s*xually abusing me. Quitting can be extremely hard, but even more important. Girl you're showing some alarming symptoms of degenerating mental health. No job is worth a burnout or a depression. Quit, trust me, you'll be proud of yourself eventually.

[@smokythecameraman]

it's EASY MONEY, i don't get how you people aren't understanding what's happening - this girl "won't quit" because she doesn't wanna lose easy money she has no talent at all ALL she can do is get naked to earn money she's whining about it also she literally said other people are financially supporting her because of what she'd doing, she then said no amount of money can have her continue yet she refuses to quit - otherwise im not happy being treated like a whore when i am a whore she's just ashamed that garbage gets treated like garbage - if your only skill in life is getting naked for strangers - EVERYONE will treat you like garbage

[@MrKingkz]

But having a wank on cam is her way of being creative 😂

[@speedude0164]

I actually really relate to what she said there, mostly in regards to school. I had this type of never quit mentality growing up, maybe in part due to me being extremely successful in my early school years and not having experienced failure as a consequence. My notes had been declining throughout high school, and when my time came to graduate, I still had zero clue what I wanted to do with my life, ultimately deciding to try studying computer science hoping I would get invested in the program and succeed. Although I didn't necessarily hate it, the investment definitely wasn't there and my performance was abysmal. I had to stop and think about my situation now that my money was involved, and I realized there was no good reason for me to continue. I was looking at years upon years of failing and retaking classes if I didn't drastically increase the time I dedicated to my learning, I wasn't even sure this would end up being something I wanted to make a career out of, and the whole experience would drain tens of thousands of dollars from my bank account. I just need more time to try different things and see what I'm really passionate about, so I made the decision to quit after my second year. Sometimes, it's not about failing to accomplish something great, but rather understanding whether or not that accomplishement is really worth the cost.

[@Bunny11344]

True u can’t stay in a toxic work environment or relationship

[@nio731]

You can’t sell your soul and wonder why you are soulless

[@lindseymy]

Good points about life and career. Thanks for pointing these out. I needed to hear more about that. 👍

[@antonydrossos5719]

I've dated ex-dancers in the past (not deliberately), & they tend to have similar experiences, which severely biases their view of Men & Masculinity. I don't know if they ever realized that their line of work only showed them a very extreme side of Men's Psyche.

[@swampsprite9]

Most women have a string of bad experiences with men because most men don't treat women well. Men really can't speak on this since none of them are women who date men, and most abuse of women happens when no one else is observing. Men mostly just see the false, public personality of other men.

[@Ndasuunye]

when your exposed to something for a long period of time, your mind warps into considering that a norm. then when you step outside the new comfort zone, your brain has to readjust and remember that your norm is actually not normal and what the world is showing you outside of your bubble is more normal than the extremist view you've experienced.

[@xronann]

how is it extreme if it's so normalized and prevalent?

[@CnD.c]

@@xronann Prevalent maybe but normalised is a stretch. The men these types of women run into are not really top caliber, from her examples; married men who cheat on their wives with OF models. As you can see it's literally a broken men symphony and then they copy & paste that image on all other men, i.e her hate for men comes from this.

[@timsmith8506]

I’ve worked in clubs since I was 19 and have dated a lot of dancers just because they were there. I’m not ever sure how I would deal with someone that didn’t have that experience.

[@RagingWB]

That's like saying "The worst part about being a Heroine dealer, is that guys that are buying it smell and give me crumbled notes'.

[@velvetvulpix]

It’s nothing like that .

[@luked.4131]

Not really. It's more like "they keep robbing me, and overdosing and dying" is more realistic.

[@approximateknowledge5577]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@smartyjonez5470]

And she’s so bad looking !

[@ChristinaFromYoutube]

Except intimacy is literally your identity and can not be shared in this way without total devastation. Heroine dealing isn't a core aspect of who someone is.

[@gjohannes1344]

The single most important part of you is your soul and the things you do that strengthen or weaken that soul.

[@DESX312]

She degraded herself for money and feels bad about it now. How surprising.....

[@whenraindropsfall]

I think it's easy to point the finger and shame her when you aren't a young, attractive person who realises they can make money quickly. It's a rare person who wouldn't take full advantage of that. She, like many, have fallen victim to the false narrative. But the true culprit are the men who keep such an industry, financially compensated

[@DESX312]

@destinycantwait This isn't to brag, but in high school and college, I had 0 issues with women. I dated significantly in freshman and sophomore year. Junior year, I got with the person who ultimately became my wife. Due to outside circumstances, she had to move away for a few years. I can't begin to tell you how many times I went to parties with friends just to have a good time and women came up and fondled my junk, or threw their legs on my lap whenever i was sitting on a couch, or were generally feeling up on me. You know how many times I cheated on my (at the time-girlfriend) during this period? 0 times. Was I REALLY, REALLY, tempted to? Absolutely. Yet I never did it. My point is that you can use attractiveness as an excuse, but ultimately, it comes to willpower and your own decisions as the primary factor to your own predicaments.

[@whenraindropsfall]

​@@DESX312I think it's great you no issues with women but I think from your comment it's reasonable to conclude (1) You're not a woman because the market for men is laughable compared to women and (2) You weren't young during only fans Not really flex that you weren' t part of a platform that didn't - or barely even - existed. It's like boomers saying they didn't watch porn - they didn't even have much porn. Even more so, my comment was directed towards the general population who would give in to the temptation - because they would - and not your specific situation. The truth remains the biggest disadvantage of youth is financial freedom yet Only Fans invites women to earn a salary that pales the paycheck of Master Degrees. To say the average person wouldn't be tempted to take such a proposition at the cost of their dignity is delusion

[@colegreen9504]

The dark part is these men will watch this hear her diss them and still not miss a payment after

[@robotpanda77]

The delusion on those guys is unreal. To even assume the girl is the one you are actually talking to is wild enough when its far more likely you are talking to her bf or someone she pays to respond to messages.

[@thedarkestfateful]

Those men have their own set of problems.

[@KashifReza-sl3vu]

They are a lot of weak men who pay for things that are free

[@dwaynedontlike4638]

By that same logic she'll say all this and not miss posting content for those men.

[@xavierjones6852]

Yeah.. we can blame the chicks but it’s the dudes funding it that’s the real problem. Actually even that may be the side effect of something bigger issue. Probably part of the loneliness epidemic

[@LadyBugPicnic12]

I was a cocktail waitress at a strip club. Yes, just a waitress. Good money bringing people drinks and not showing nudity. It still took a toll on me. Just being around that sad environment. Sometimes it looks like fun is happening, but there is a lot of darkness in a very dark lit strip club. I can only imagine having to sell myself like that all day long. I couldn’t do it.

[@tamiausten873]

I watched a video on Michael Jackson. He started performing at strip clubs and we all know he was a baby when they started. When I watched the video of him singing "when I had you", I was confused. Who let this little boy sing such a mature song, what does he know about relationships? I didn't know he'd been exposed early. I've never been to a club at 23, I've been at some bars in hotels or close to my house or at golf clubs but never a club. I'm grateful for my sheltered life. Even this sheltered, porn has hurt me badly. I'm a woman and I don't even masturbate. When I relapse into this, I can't do anything, can't sleep, can't leave my bed either, I don't want to even talk to my mom or anyone else. I end up feeling really sick. I can't imagine how people who engage in the acts feel 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. Such a cruel world

[@lepotdefleur9906]

Prolly have to deal with all the looks from the "costumers" and the touching, if the "security" staff was slacking on the job or your boss did not mind or care.

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

I had a buddy who would do it for vacations. He'd bed old ladies, or ladies that weren't his type. And, he didn't understand why he drank so much! "Buddy, you hurt/hate yourself!"

[@Katreat4000]

Enviroment changes people. Most people deny biology today but unfortunately our tribe brain is forced to conform to the rest of the tribe/"workplace" to better fit in. Greed makes most people blind, you have very good self insight by your actions and thoughts. Hope you doing okay today and have found a better path that you yourself is at peace with, because you deserve that 😊 Everyone deserves a good healthy mindset 😊

[@ashtangaxashtangapranayama8526]

Having to? "Having" 🤷🏾

[@amendex]

It's difficult to be attracted to your cash crops, they're just crops.

[@jadeviper4]

Man I love you two so much💗Don’t ever stop filming please! I usually only open my KZbin to watch you guys.

[@AniseedLake]

They always get upset and try to expose the industry AFTER they've made all the money from it. Weird that.

[@tamiausten873]

Not all wait to get money before they quit. I saw some testimonies on KZbin. She's not even being self aware, but many other people are. A lot of men have talked about this lifestyle, the myth that sex is a man's thing is a huge scam, you'd think men would like being objectified because they like sex and it's the woman getting used: they all feel used. Adam 22 will never admit it but you know something has died in him long ago for him to go this far, his wife even acted uncomfortable, while he kept on parading the mess🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@imetmikemo182]

​@tamiausten873 while i pretty much completely agree with everything hou wrote here i would simply push back a bit and say that society still views it in a lense of being more 'funny' rather than sad when a man debases himself. Not saying its right just saying thats definitely the way it still is because self depreciation is most definitely seen much more of a masculine quality rather than a feminine one.

[@nickb6425]

A lot of them don't even specify the industry; they blame ALL men lol. I just don't understand how they can glorify SW like yea get it girl, but it's not just the weirdo men that are disgusting, it makes a lot of them generalize all men lol. But you doing it and providing it? Go queen.

[@JossyStudio-555]

She said "My creative outlet" I'm Dead 😂😂😂

[@MasterIceyy]

Write fan-fiction like the rest of us

[@uprightaardvark]

My love language is being a male gigolo to female inmates guessed my family physician in concern. This ain't a Dhar Mann saga, I was just extra cooked and thought I was being crisp or something. But I relate to the struggle

[@personanongrata47]

she really be saying that people sub for the "art" like these guys are "researching/cultured" girl if you dont get ur shit and get tf out

[@lidiagizaw3828]

yes loser coz women can like sx too

[@JPoct21]

@@personanongrata47facts she took the word “for research purposes “ too seriously 😂, Iike a bunch of biologist studying the human body and how to make it better.

[@SamuelSilva-bx9wo]

"For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have ... pierced themselves with many sorrows."- 1 Timothy 6:10

[@vam9785]

it must be super draining dealing with weirdos on a platform like that and exposing yourself naked to creeps and losers ... no thanks