CHIT CHAT | A FEW NEW THINGS | WHY DO WE SAVE STUFF...

#Nbeauty #Nordstrom #summermakeup
Hi all...a little Chit chat GRWM video...this video is in Collaboration with Nordstrom....#ad
Tom Ford Traceless Soft Matte Foundation 5.6 Ivory Beige/ Bisque bit.ly/3nIJK6t
Laura Mercier Translucent Powder ( under eye ) bit.ly/2NT9Gzo
Charlotte Tilbury Powder Face bit.ly/3wAI2Iz
Nars Smudge Proof Eyeshadow Base bit.ly/3sL7Uin
Charlotte Tilbury Tinted Eye Brow Gel Caramel ( I could not find this…it may be discontinued…OH NO…please NO )
Charlotte Tilbury Filmstar Bronzer Fair Medium bit.ly/3vAXEdV
Buxom Blush Mykonos bit.ly/3iNEJcO
Nars The Multiple Cream bit.ly/3wLZJFq
NARS Mambo Pencil bit.ly/35yt1LA
Charlotte Tilbury Lip In Mrs Kisses bit.ly/2S4dQ9A
Charlotte Tilbury HappiKiss Crystal bit.ly/2OAd7LQ
Trish McEvoy Dramatic Lash Mascara bit.ly/3zAfYa3
Charlotte Tilbury Angel Alessandra bit.ly/3wEQW7K
MAC Spice Lip Liner bit.ly/3a1yBIR
Follow me on Facebook: / tammysagelessbeauty-10...
Follow me on Instagram: / tammysagelessbeauty
MY BLOG:
uppiesbeads59....
MY INSTAGRAM:
/ tammysagelessbeauty
MY TWITTER:
/ uppiesbeads59
MY FACEBOOK
/ tammy.uppiesbeads
All Items purchased by me unless stated...some affiliate links are used, they help to support this channel**
BISOUS,
Love you all.....Tammy

[@pammalin9188]

Tammy, I don’t know if this sounds strange but I so enjoy going thru this stage of life journey with you. Your life messages are empowering, your self care advice is spot on and your attitude is so real and relatable. Thank you for being you and sharing your real life with us. I appreciate you very much.

[@bernadineroselt4680]

Tammy . Cannot tell you how much joy it brought me today hear yr contagious laugh 😆 gorgeous smile 😊 chit chatz 💁‍♀️this video was absolutely necessary!! Something we all needed to hear .. why we hoard & hold into things we don’t use anymore .. I do not know 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️but you shared such truth with much grace as usual 💁‍♀️thank you ! Yess .. let’s enjoy life again & live lighter 💁‍♀️love yr hair colour & safe ft make up !! You just the best 💁‍♀️💁‍♀️💁‍♀️

[@judykilger5417]

Agree with you Tammy! Live every day and enjoy the things you love ! The China , the silver etc! No one else will love it as much as you ! Also I want to tell you I’ve been treating my hair every week to the oils you recommended ! Wow, my hair is so shiny and soft ! It’s never felt this good! I always coloured my hair , 38 years and I’m slowly transitioning to white/grey hair! Just want to thank you for the info on the treatment! I’m 63 years young and finally my hair is not dry and brittle any more!!!

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

YAY....so happy it is giving you the hair YOU LOVE...thanks for sharing Judy!!

[@roxanneelsey6266]

I always look forward to the chit chat video. It feels like visiting with a good friend!

[@karenwade6713]

I'm downsizing this year also. I'm 55 and sold my 4BR/3 bath house with yard and am having a brand new 2 bedroom/2.5 bath townhouse built, which will be ready next month. I can't wait! No yard at all just a nice little courtyard. I got rid of so much stuff, it felt great mentally but physically.....whew, never again. My girls are grown, I work from home and I am living my best life!

[@Jerseygirl2miami]

Love the makeup! Gorge as always !😘 and you’re so right ! We need to use all the lovely things we own everyday!

[@mariac1437]

I feel for you Tammy, we did it 3 years ago, 4 children and all their stuff and 40 years worth of ours, the stuff I saved for the kids, all got thrown out, they didn’t want any of it!! I had baby outfits dry cleaned!! All that $$$!! We tried to sell our house and build another much smaller one at same time, the stress at our age almost killed us, physical and mental, as a result I think 3 times before buying anything!

[@doreenmaggio3624]

Good morning , yes I have downsized . I also have had to go through many of my Mothers , Fathers , belongings Uncles and Aunts , Grandparents too . Not only don’t the kids or anyone else want these things but the value of all these once very expensive pieces have depreciated it to practically nothing monetarily wise . I understand and agree with you whole heartily . You as always look Lovely and your content is a blessing . I fit in and that means the world to me , being included in the beauty world after 60 is such a healthy and happy feeling . ❤️🌹

[@reflexology52welsh48]

I love the idea of using good dishes, when my little granddaughter comes over, we use all the beautiful china for our pbj lunches, and she picks out a beautiful teacup from the cup collection to drink her milk out of!❤️

[@lilygudsnuk5394]

So good to see you Tammy-as always, love your videos and chats! When I moved, going into 5th year, from Connecticut to New Mexico, I too had to go through 25 years of stuff. We gave away or donated about 3/4 of what we had, taking only what we absolutely needed or loved. I think in saving items for “special” occasions we try to “preserve”them so they don’t break, get stained or damaged somehow. But by doing that we also deprive ourselves of the joy the item brings us. So- my words of wisdom line up with yours- if you love it, use it/wear it and if ya don’t- get rid of it❤️Lily

[@LinZLou2000]

Glad you mentioned the china. My grandma has always used her best dishes everyday-she said it’s because her grandma taught her that WE are the special occasion and EVERYDAY is an event. ❤️

[@virginiaconway374]

Love your make-up application. It looks so natural, perfect.

[@maryellengrayberg9146]

Tammy thank you so much for demonstrating several of these products. I have been looking into Tom Ford and I just purchased a lipstick and yes it's definitely not inexpensive but, it's a beautiful lipstick and I love it. I own several of the Charlotte Tilbury lipsticks and I love them also, I'm kind of a lipstick junkie. I love what you have to say all of the time because it is so sensible! The conversation about people keeping things, and then when they die the family especially if you live in senior housing, they put them in the community room and people just come by and take things that other people have kept for years and years. You are so correct in so many of the topics that you have covered which is why I so enjoy listening to your videos❣️

[@lorrainem1870]

We had a 28 hundred square foot house and moved into 12 hundred, trying to get rid of stuff and slowly am, you are absolutely right, get rid of stuff you don’t use, my kids already told me they want nothing of ours 😂 I wish we never had a big house, all it made us do was work hard keeping it clean, inside and outside, love your videos Tammy, you always put a smile on my face with your sense of humour, take care🤗

[@cindareid7701]

One message that touched me relates to something my mother taught me…..everything tastes better when served on a beautiful and served plate with love. Use it up, wear it out , and do without. These are words from Her mother who raised 4 kids as a widow during the depression.

[@salvi_1]

I loved that you shared how we shouldn’t save everything. When I lost my parents suddenly, they had 30 years of stuff. It was overwhelming and all I wanted was the pictures.

[@daniel596061]

I been asking my children, sisters and nieces if they want something from my house and there is a few things but not much. So I decide once and while to give away my stuff to an organization to help people in need. I want my home to be serene and not complicated. There is enough of that in the world. I love love your chitchat and sharing part of your life I am sure touches a lot of women. Great topic, and thank you. 🌸🌸🌸

[@cindywiemers9149]

Amen Tammy!!! Yes, use your pretty dishes and things. We only live once! Enjoy every day! Love ya, Cindy 🌻💗

[@Justpinklady]

You are just so DARLING!!!! So great to see you again!!!

[@Sashas-mom]

Excellent advice. Loving this spontaneous flow of This video. Thank you Tammy. ❤️🤗

[@susanleary1843]

Thank you Tammy. I know you don’t care about makeup all that much but it’s always fun to see you do makeup. I am so happy for you. Everything sounds great. I found your thoughts about getting rid of crap very helpful. Thank you. I’m glad you’re away from the horrible frogs, mostly.

[@KH-bk8xs]

You hit it right on the nose so many times over. We have learned so much from you. Suzi Orman must be PROUD of your shared experiences. The china is coming out and the lifetime of STUFF IS GOING! Love You!

[@barbaratodd1769]

We got rid of a lot of our stuff when we moved here a few years ago and I am pleased to say that we have stayed on top of it! About a month ago, I was sick of looking at my closet and ended up trying on every piece of clothing! If it did not fit perfectly, if the color was not perfect, if I had to keep adjusting it, if it was too short or too long, out it went! Now my husband has decided to do the same! Glad to see you back on camera, you did great! Take care - Barbara

[@BlingyBea]

We did the same thing when we moved to our last house 🤞6 years ago, we got rid of all our stuff and just kept what we wanted and bought new furniture for this house, our other furniture wouldn’t fit in this house. We let our kids take what they wanted and we gave the other stuff away. My sister and niece took my bedroom set and paintings, best thing we ever did.🥰

[@lindamorgan8672]

I've had a couple moves that were a disaster and nightmare to accomplish. I downsized about 8 years ago and it was a weight off my shoulders!!! I'm glad you're through the worst of it and that you're BACK!

[@margaretr.4427]

You are so right about the fact that our kids and relatives don't want our stuff! It's so hard to let objects go but it is for the best. I'm starting now so it won't be such a shock when I actually get ready to move in the future!

[@Aurora-uh9nk]

Thank you dear Tammy, so lovely to see u and hear you 😘 yes, I totally agree ....sort out yr stuff , down size , keep what makes u happy and USE IT !! Love ur interesting chit chat too ! Thank you so much for showing us yr MAGNIFICENT ESTATE ....such a dream house ! You can be .....so vain and superficial just like many others on u tube ...HOWEVER, you being down to earth and so genuine makes you UNIQUE ! Love u sweetie take care xx

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

This means so much to me...I want you to always feel you are with a friend when you tune into my videos...that's exactly who I feel I am talking to ..all of my long distance friends...

[@janalynch5234]

Like my mother always said “Use all your beautiful things because if you don’t, the next one will!” 😂

[@ellenebay3470]

I've been thru several moves and downsizing since selling my townhouse in 2008. I'm down to the perfect sized 2bedrm, 2 bath 1000sq ft apt. Moves are never easy, but every time I sell, donate, throw away stuff I feel so much freer. Now I have only what I really use. I highly recommend this to all my friends. It's exactly as you said, Tammy, u will be burdening others after u have passed. BTW..loved today's look on u. I've tried and liked other Trish McEvoy products but not the mascara. I will give it a try when I need my collection replenished.

[@SleepyHollow1974]

I get it! Same thing happened to hubby & I with our move from NY to FL! You’re not kidding; my daughter didn’t want our stuff. And I don’t EVER want to see another moving box! I agree don’t save things! You don’t know about tomorrow. Enjoy your new life!

[@lilt1317]

You are so down to earth, no airs or graces. Love it.💗

[@yolandahorne580]

Totally agree with using everything that brings you joy, so so right.

[@jerig8527]

I felt your exhaustion and hard work through your process, we sold our home after 18 years, I gave away tons of stuff to family and the good will. And after we moved and relocated to a rental while building our new home we gave more stuff away, no longer would work after the rental house in our new home, finally moved into our forever home and so happy to have a home again! It feels so invigerating to have been free of all the stuff. I felt the same way, give it to those to want them while your alive, so others don't need to go through it. (I am a young 64 yrs) Less dusting too, I kept my most presious items and have everything I need. I have had and do have beautiful things and went from Mediterranean decor to modern decor with the open concept and a smaller home. I love, love it that I don't have so much to clean and care for, like you I like to clean my own home. Life is a adventure and a joy, so many new memories to look forward too! I loved the family gatherings, dinners, etc. too. Now I don't really want to do that anymore, so we order in or go out to our very cute town and our visitor's love any of it. I do make brunch for friends when they come and that's very easy and can be down ahead. This is such a great time in life and so much fun with my amazing husband, today off to the beach! Thanks for being you! And I am so happy you are back, love the videos, I think of you as a friend. ox

[@lisachasteen1487]

Tammy, you look quite beautiful!!!! I really enjoyed this episode today and listening to your life lessons!!! Thank you for all you do you are quite a blessing! Lisa

[@michellekelly2937]

This was a very inspiring chat. It really made me think. I have a teapot that my grandmother bought for me, and I've never used it. It sits in the cupboard (glass cabinet) on "display" with all my fancy tea cups. I absolutely love it, but for some reason I consider it "too good" and "too special" to use everyday. I also have a set of dishes that I bought and absolutely love, but have only used a few times. I'm so afraid I'm going to break a plate and will not be able to replace it. I need to start enjoying the things I really love and use them while I still can. Thank-you, Tammy. ♥

[@jeanetteh.9240]

The teapot is no double irreplaceable, but unless you are sure someone in your family will want it, I encourage you to go ahead and use it. Even if it gets damaged, better that than having it end up in the home of a stranger. As for your other good dishes, check the Replacements, Ltd. Website for your pattern. While replacing a piece might be expensive, at least you will know that you can! E-bay is also a good resource for china.

[@horseygirl645]

Just a suggestion. A friend of my mom’s sets her dinning room table for each season or holiday. She includes all of the decor for the season or holiday. Doing this allows her to enjoy all of the special dish ware and decor regardless if anyone is coming for lunch/dinner. Love the video. Thanks so much for sharing.

[@michellekelly2937]

That is so sad, thinking of her setting her table and putting out decorations, even when no one may be coming. She sounds like a wonderful woman. I hope she's not alone too often.

[@pcakes122]

This is awesome and inspirational! I love hearing stories about people (especially women!) who are not dependent upon other people for their happiness! 😊

[@greengiant3421]

Tammy, going thru almost thirty years was emotional as heck. I am a “saver”. You are 100% correct, our children doesn’t want our “junk”. We gave them so much stuff to go thru. Their team jackets, cheerleading outfits, a gazillion prom & pageant dresses, plus all of the beautiful items they made us at school. We cried, we laughed & they tossed most of it. It killed me, but like you said they don’t want all this junk. We have downsized so much. We are building what we think is our last forever home & I will be using everything like you said. No more special dishes. We are going to enjoy them & make more memories daily.

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

YES...make everyday SPECIAL....those will be your best memories...

[@victoriaaustin2468]

Love your beautiful spirit and heart, Tammy! Glad you are getting settled and have new perspective with "stuff." Funny that I viewed this video today as I posted a "get rid of your stuff" message on FB today. Will have to send you the link as it is perfect for your video. Yes, we moved too. But we kinda upsized after downsizing. Crazy, I know. Our family grew and grew and grew! And they depended on us for holiday events. Our blended family of six children ended up with 16 grandchildren. So we went from our little downsized nest of 1800 sq to a bit larger open plan of 2600 sqf w/pool for the kids and grandkids. Now it's almost 10 years later and I'm ready for another move to a quiet country setting. But hubby loves it here near his best friend and his "hobby shop." So we may be here until the "end." lol! We shall see! LOL! Don't know how we will get rid of some "stuff" as hubby still oves his big Christmas light and music show that he puts on for the community. It's a LOT to store. And I'm about done with two or three fully themed decorated trees in every room of my house. I'm ready to enjoy seeing other people do it and let me sit back and enjoy trips with children and grandchlidren and live more simple, intentional loving lives. Not that we haven't been doing that too. But sometimes too much "stuff" gets in the way of what is most important.

[@tamaraljubisic3665]

My Mom and I were talking one day and she really nailed it... she said ya know we spend so much energy accumulating stuff and then we need more stuff/space to hold the stuff and at some point, we spend time and energy unloading that stuff. What if we skipped the accumulation of stuff and just live with different focus. As much as that stuck with me, my house is also full of stuff. Blessings to you in your next adventure.

[@feebee4799]

Looking good Miss Tammy. I hope your doggie babies are feeling better. 💕

[@marianeculek3261]

I had started watching one morning and had to stop to go to work BUT I came across it today and you are making me laugh!!!!!

[@gingershaffer2547]

Holy Moly!!!!! I forgot just how beautiful your hair looks when it is down! Your simple application of make up today was brilliant! I hope I can replicate this. Oh how I wish you were my neighbor! You my dear are just fabulous! My husband is so happy I'm wearing make up again. Thank you for your inspiration. BISOUS!

[@hillshounds]

What you said about special china at the end of this video resonated with me. I recently moved to what I intend to be my final home. I'm 58, so expect to have quite a few years here. Anyway, I had a set of china displayed in a cabinet for years prior to my move. Never used it. Those are now my everyday dishes. Yes, I eat a sandwhich off of Royal Doulton! And the crystal glasses which were previously on display but never used are now being used.

[@queens6583]

You just make my day Tammy. Today I got together with 5 former coworkers ( we are all ICU nurses, though I retired in 2019 after 44 yrs) and we went out to Riverhead L.I. to go Strawberry picking and had a lovely lunch outdoors in a restaurant. Some of my friends had covid and thankfully recovered, so I hadn't seen them for the past year and a half. It was wonderful! What you said is true about our children, nieces.... not wanting our stuff or even their grandparents "special" things. I do not buy Knick knacks because I have too much of that stuff from my mother and I envision my daughters cursing me when I'm gone. Looking forward to your Florida home tour in the future.

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

Isn't it so nice to be able to be with friends again...and to go strawberry picking...I wish I could have gone with you...love picking all berries. Thank you for sharing ...and for your kind words!!

[@Melissa-mz3qu]

Tammy - funny story. I told my grandkids several years back that they would be eating on "fine china" for dinner. The meal was homemade "pot pie" little did they know, it was actually the. 69 cents Banquet chicken pot pies....on that fine China. I made a decision THAT night, that I would use my China !! My dad passed away several years back. That is when I changed my mind about storing/not using "stuff". I also agree with, start purging now and keep and enjoy and use what you decide to keep.

[@mbraden8949]

So happy to see you back. Totally understand your absence -- girl you had a huge task of packing, clearing, selling, moving. Phewwww, makes me tired thinking of it. I packed up 30 years of accumulation less than a year ago and moved cross country and I still need to clean out more so my son doesn't get stuck with all this stuff. LOL - the rose made out of bread - - my mother did the same thing.

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

Thanks so much! 😊....I don't think any of us really understands the accumulation of stuff until we have to move it...UGH!!

[@godsgirl0019]

You’re really naturally beautiful!!!

[@pattymccoy2866]

We moved several years ago from a large home to one that was smaller. We sold and gave away quite a bit. We go thru things several times a year and have a clear out. Now when I buy something I try to find something to get rid of . I am very guilty of holding onto things my boys made me when they were little. 😊 I cherish them all. You look wonderful Tammy! You always do dear lady! ❤

[@littlebearmg5]

Tammy I love your wisdom thank you god bless you 🌹

[@lauriesparrow245]

We moved after 40 years in the same home we raised our children in. You are soooo right! It was the most grueling nightmare on my hubby and I physically. Emotionally it was so heartbreaking for me because I was leaving my best friend and neighbor who was dying of cancer. No words… needless to say, it was gut wrenching. Our daughter and son in law and grandkiddos surprised us and finished the garage. I don’t think we could have done one more thing. We had a moving company who moved the majority but we had moved some things and furniture into a storage unit before we listed it on the advice of our realtor, depersonalizating and making things look roomier. True confession, most of it is still in that unit. We can’t even get ourselves to go in there and finish the move. But.. good news! I read the average time to finish a move is 5 years..I figure we must be right on schedule.. lol

[@elainebines6803]

My mum said to me 'only write down words that you don't mind anybody reading' great advice. I know that was a little off topic. Your grwm videos are probably my favourite on your channel.

[@mariemcgrath8681]

Yes, we just moved after 25 yrs from a lge house ..... sheer hell & exhausting, actually fractured a disc in my 74 yrs old spine (still hurts). Agree, keep what you 'really' love & USE it ! Make-up great !!

[@gwenmassey7631]

I could not agree with you more. We moved from England to Germany, each time we move we think we have a clear out but I can assure you we dont! Most of the gear we paid to store for over 2 years has sat upstairs in the ‘loft’ for the past 8 YEARS!!! I vow this winter we will start and go through EVERYTHING. If it hasnt been used since we put it up there then it is going in the bin or to the charity shop. PROMISE. 💐💐

[@debbiepayne903]

Loved your advice on getting rid of “stuff”. We moved twice in 7 months so I feel your pain. Continue to get rid of things so our children won’t have to!

[@Kat-n-Ollie]

Great vid, Tammy! We will be moving from CA to Northern Oregon or Northern Idaho within the next -2 years and we are already purging. Tossing out everything I don’t love, old stuff and downsizing before we move. I can only imagine how difficult it will be based on your experience. I hope things keep getting better and they fix your darned sink! 😉❤️🌹

[@rubygold2242]

Thank you!! I needed to hear that! Donating all my stored junk! Love it!

[@debbylynch7450]

After watching you, Lisa, and Patti move, I am being brutal getting rid of things (donating). It feels so good to see cleared out spots that I'm really motivated to keep going. I never had kids; my husband has three from his previous marriage, but like you said, they don't want our stuff!

[@christineh4834]

Such valuable advise! An object may mean the world to one family member, and not others. I held onto old family china for years; never used it, just dusted it off now and again. My kids don't know the original owners, and they don't want it...heck! I don't know some of the pieces owners...but it was like a duty to keep it. I donated those beautiful pieces, and believe new owners will find joy in them.

[@susanhatfield2551]

Yes, it is a lot of work to move and I know this because we did it 4 years ago. We had stuff from 50 years of marriage plus our kids and grandkids stuff. We lived in Michigan our entire life and then we got this bright idea to move to Venice Florida. It was the best thing for us to do, we love it. We go back home every year for a couple of months to see our kids and family and then we’re ready for Florida again. I love your look Tammy and your hair is so beautiful. I liked your gray but I like this color better .💕🙏🏻

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

Thank you Susan....isn't it nice to be away from cold weather....I love it

[@-nellie-m3711]

Tammy well said about storing Stuff, we downsized quite a few years ago once our children left home, we lived on acreage and had a very lovely large home with lots of gardens and Lots of Work came with it, I wasn’t quite ready to get rid of the Stuff I had back then, But, last year during the hit of Covid, we decided to renovate our Forever Home completely and that’s when I decided to get rid of all that Stuff that I never used, it was just taking up cupboard space that I could use for other things and not have everything cluttered up, now I have a place for everything, my Mum gave me a dinner set that my Dad had given her for their 25th wedding anniversary (he has since passed) and I had it stored away…WHY, I don’t know 🤷🏼‍♀️, now I use it and it gives me fond memories, I donated just about everything in our home because I changed the decor to Hamptons style and became a minimalist, if I hadn’t used something in some time, it got donated and now I actually have space in my cupboards, I’m sure I’ll end up filling that space at some time, because my hubby is almost at retirement age, I want to start picking up extra linen and towels so that should see us throughout the rest of our life, these are things we have to start thinking about at our age, I don’t want our children to have to go through all my stuff that they’re not interested in, especially having boys Lol 😂, I still kept things that have special meaning to me and hopefully will have that same meaning to them when I’m gone, Thank You Kindly for sharing some of your life updates, you look beautiful as ever and I totally get the aches and pains all over the body, aches that you didn’t even think would ache Lol 😂 when you said right down to your toes, I’m hearing you friend. All the Very Best on your new journey in Life with your Louie and the Pups 🐶🐶, I have one very special little fur baby myself, who is treated like a child. Blessings from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺💖💖

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

Thank you for sharing with me Nellie...😘

[@-nellie-m3711]

@@TammysAgelessBeauty Tammy, Thank You for reading my novel, you truly are beautiful in every way, inside and out. 🤗🤗

[@robinspencer9611]

I feel your pain! I lost my husband and mother last month to cancer, left my Maui Hawaii home of 42yrs, moved with just my fur baby and “a bag” and have to figure out what to do with all my mother’s things! I’m alone in a strange land(San Francisco Bay Area), scared and overwhelmed! This has put my body through heck( my weight,81pounds) ! So yes, moving for me was not pleasurable! By the way , I’m 60 and feel like I aged 20 years in a month! Thankyou for your videos! They make me smile!🥰🌺🌺🌺

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

Oh my goodness...my thoughts and prayers are with you...what an awful time for you...try to focus on the wonderful memories of both...perhaps you can find strength to move forward...so very sorry!1

[@robinspencer9611]

@@TammysAgelessBeauty Thankyou Tammy! Life throws us curve balls and I must keep moving forward! Sending Aloha to you and your family!🥰🌈🦋🌺🌺🌺

[@kimhough7753]

Gorgeous Tammy! I moved from Virginia to Georgia and packed my house up by myself…32 years of ‘stuff’ to go through! Very stressful and emotional! Got rid of tons of stuff I didn’t use and bought a much smaller house. Love ya Tammy! 🥰🥰🥰

[@Papermadepretty143]

So beautiful! So true about the "stuff" stuff. Slowly getting rid of stuff we have held on to for years. tyfs

[@CPARROWHEAD]

Good video, my husband and I are retiring this month and moving to a home up north that we just purchased. Not looking forward to all the hard work, but am looking forward to a new life, I will be using all the things I have kept put away. Thanks for the good advise! Your makeup looks beautiful!

[@kasey77]

I watched one of your videos a few years ago where you said you cleaned your house every Monday! 5,000 feet of cleaning every Monday is marathon training. As beautiful as your house was, you're free of that! You're inspiring me to grow my hair long. Have a great day and thank you for sharing so much of your life.

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

I will not miss the upkeep at all.. Yes, grow your hair long if you want to.......

[@Sunny-ry2cj]

I always feel really good watching and listening to your life attitudes and warm stories. Today you helped motivate me, I will think of you and smile while I work on clearing out all my old stuff.

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

It actually feels pretty good once we let go...Thanks so much Sunny

[@lisacorreia7160]

My dad just passed and we are going through his things now. He was a pack rat. I have learned that i do not want my daughter to go through what I am currently going through. When i am done with Dad’s I will be purging my own stuff. This is so hard.

[@sherryg5813]

Yes no one has any idea how mentally and physically exhausting it can be to go through the things from a loved one you lost. Especially when you've been a caregiver to them and exhausted already.

[@mariamarimari1971]

your hair color looks beautiful. Tammy you just be yourself. We love you.❤️❤️😘😘

[@lifeinthelauralane]

Great video!!! Beautiful makeup look! Just finished cancer treatments and during it I decided the same thing....I'm not saving anything for special occasions anymore because every day is a special occasion! So good to have you back! 🙂💝

[@maggiemae1510]

Totally agree. Downsizing is hard work. You look great!

[@deborahbertolino9314]

You are so right to use all the things that we keep for special occasions. I had China and silverware from 1990 that I am using like crazy now and loving it

[@debbielynch6564]

It is so wonderful to see your love!y face again! I missed you. Now that the hard work is done, you and Lou and the girls can settle into your happy life in Florida! Thank you for keeping it real. Would n love to see more videos about your meals, cooking, recipes. Also would love to see more crafting😘 I am pulling out my beloved mom in laws red and white English Castle china and will begin using it daily. It does bring my joy!!!

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

YES...enjoy the things you LOVE NOW......Thanks for sharing Debbie!

[@tracyschnepf2500]

Hi Tammy, great seeing another video. I did the same thing with my parents Chiba. It sat in my mothers closer forever and then in my attic for years until one day I said the hell with this, no ones ever going to see them. They are now my everyday dishes and I love it ! Have a great weekend, enjoy the yard sale, I also love having them!!

[@aostafy2118]

So my husband picked out our china and I am not a big fan but it is sentimental so I shall try to use it more often, he won't even remember it was his selection! My silver is beautiful and tucked away in a silver chest. I have collected many pieces of dishware over the years that is not being used, I pass by it in the basement and know it's time to purge! Enjoy your time in NY, I am off to Wegmans!

[@robinswaytoday]

Hi Tammy, That is good advice! Get rid of your stuff now and use the items you love everyday. 👍❤️❤️❤️

[@j.bridgetk.3924]

Love the look Tammy it’s so natural and so pretty ...so happy to see you do a video I’ve missed you😎

[@bchurch4317]

Amazing advice. You are lovely. 💚🌷

[@eileendunn3470]

Just watched you, Tammy, and Patty, Rockstar Mom. I never want to move again. 😂 You look beautiful! XO

[@yvonneanderson7691]

You have worked so hard!!! So beautiful and full of great advice!!

[@r.melindar.1349]

Another beautiful look! Your skin is flawless without makeup!

[@jennysalomon5800]

Thanks Tammy for all the advice and keeping it real.

[@robinp2039]

You are so pretty. Very French girl technique! Blush for eyeshadow 💕

[@loraoliver1516]

“I’m pretending that I have the eyesight of a twenty year old right now.” 🤣 That’s me! Thank you as always for the laughs and helpful information. 😘🥰😘

[@liliking4477]

Everything you said is absolutely true!!! No one wants your stuff! 💯 I really to need to stay on top of cleaning things out so my kids won’t have to once I’m gone ❤️

[@paulineowens4937]

Thank you Tammy for sharing and for your wonderful wise advice.

[@TeaRoseLover]

Hi Tammy! I agree with you. We use our China dishes daily. They're Wedgewood and beautiful to use.Why store them away in a closet unused? Life is meant for living!

[@mazipaz9709]

thanks for a great video Miss Tammy. I tell my friends and family the same thing: use your things, enjoy them now, and stop saving them for later!

[@rhondafrank1895]

Thank you for good advice to throw stuff away You are so funny, you always put smile on my face,

[@valeriawhatley8772]

Always look forward to your videos. And I only watched three people not really into social media Mrs.Tame . But I love ❤️ you down to earth agent like a fine wine you are beautiful inside Love to you Lu in your for babies. Best wishes for a great health I keep you guys in my prayers

[@conniespellman4405]

Tammy your such a joy. Totally enjoy your company.

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

Thank you Connie...

[@joanndumont1344]

You are so right about using the things we love. I used to keep some clothes for special occasions, then it would go out of style or not fit me anymore. I always think of the lady who had bought a very nice dress and was keeping it for a special occasion which never came and her family finally buried her in it.

[@deniselamb8859]

I love your chit chat video's Tammy and it is so good to see you back. Looking stunning as ever.

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

🤗...thank you Denise!

[@lindahunter842]

We have downsized twice. It’s lots of work, and sometimes it made me scratch my head why we had so much stuff! Oh my goodness! It’s a job to deal with it responsibly, I realized we had very busy lives, two full time jobs, a cottage, golfer . No time to get rid of stuff you didn’t need. We have less stuff now, but it’s a challenge to keep it at bay. BTW, love your hair color.

[@irenarenata1778]

Should the second layer of mascara be applied after the first has dried? Or immediately after the first is applied?

[@janicemiller4788]

I did the same thing a few years ago w the stuff we ‘save’. My thoughts were same as yours, if you love it enough to KEEP it, USE it!! Best advice ever, can’t wait to see your dishes/China when you get back to Florida!! 💕stay safe

[@CountryloverCountrylover]

We’re also getting ready to downsize. We live in a 6 bed house here in the UK countryside which we have been lucky enough to call home for 25 years. We have 3 adult children and now 3 grandchildren with more to come so it will be a wrench to leave. I’ve been decluttering for a year but there is a way to go yet! Thank you I’m really enjoying this sort of video

[@jackienolan9142]

There’s something about Tammy in this video. Just a little more radiant! Anyhow it’s a day off for me because yesterday was birthday and I took a long weekend and I’m sitting here enjoying my morning and now I can watch a Tammy Get Ready With Me! 😃😃

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

Happy Birthday to YOU!!

[@kindnessworks71]

Happy birthday to you may God continue to bless you with so many more

[@jackienolan9142]

@@kindnessworks71 thank you very much! You are so kind! God bless you too! 🙏👍🙂

[@snowangel7216]

Hi Miss Tammy! I loved your apartment tour video and I watch every single one your videos even though I don't comment that much lately. I had a baby girl last year and been through so much with my ex in court but so far it's all working in my favor and he's out of out lives for now but your videos always put a smile on my face so thank you for that and I love you! I also lost my dog 2 months ago (Angel) and it's been rough, I know you know the feeling with beautiful Bindi and I know they are all happy in heaven. How are the doodles doing after being sick? I love hearing about them! They're so precious and cute. Sorry for the long message. Bisous I love you. Have a blessed day everyone!!

[@TammysAgelessBeauty]

Oh I am so sorry to hear about your fur baby...they are so special and the ache is deep....Having a beautiful baby girl probably helps...Here's to your new life...keep moving forward...forgive...and let your light shine...sending lots of love your way...Thank you Courtney!!

[@beacuz]

Moving is just so much work. I have that set of China I purchased in 1978. I just loved it. I was not even engaged or even dating my husband and I had this beautiful China. It has followed us everywhere and when we scaled down earlier this year - my daughters said they did not want it and I made my oldest daughter take it for my oldest granddaughter. Do I think she will keep it after I have departed this earth? Absolutely not😂. I totally understand wanting to keep your things but you are correct that most of the items my daughters do not want.

[@pattymartin8368]

So wonderful to see you back.