Using a Condom, doesn't make it Safe Sex

After listening to Family Matters from Drake, a topic that is close to my heart got to me. Using a #condom doesn't make that it's spiritually safe sex. Three years ago I took a step back from #sex and started to evaluate what my values were with sex and it totally changed my perspective on sex. How do you view sex?
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Love, Mischa
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[@Lilablaublassgruen]

Haha, "nice" headline/ titel for the video! Well, same opinion over here. I never really thought about the energy we exchange and share when I was younger. But I really can tell that there is more than just the exchange of body fluids (of course stay safe and protect yourself if you are not in an exclusive relationship!!!) but I never realised or thought about it WHEN i was younger. Today, and that might also be something different as the "taking" part - just my personal ecperience - but also might not be sooo different. I never ever - ok, well, never say 'never ever' 😅, would just have s*x with someone I do not know good enough or did not feel and experience the energy of the person for a while. A ONS therefore is a nogo for me now. I am really straight with it. Did not have s*x with someone else for some years now. I don't care about what others think or say. I wisely chose and well, also just really changed in a lot things during the last years. I mean, if I would like to have s*x, I could, but: what is the price to 'just have s*X with xy'? For me: too high! Never used tinder, never will use it. But I know (from earlier times of my life) some other platforms. Not my cup of tea anymore. I mean, relationsships really did change and its super hard for me personally to meet someone I really do feel a connection with on different levels AND it matches some other important parts/things/whatever ;). And if I don't, well, I won't do more intimate stuff. Might be me and my 'fault' but I just have my own 'standards, values, wishes, needs, desires, ..." and 's*x', well it's definitely not just s*x. I wisely chose and if I do not met somone who 'matches', I just stay by myself 😄. But I also don't judge on others. Anyone picks their personal choices or actual preferences and its okay as long as its 'fair play'. Very interessting topic!

[@post.mischa]

Yeah, I get you. At first at felt weird for me to see it like this. Cause the 'social' expectation towards sex is totally different. To be honest, due to the fact as well in how much more relaxed I feel about this topic now, I get you, I do not care about it at all what other people think about it. I rather be alone or just have peace with myself with looking at it like this. No need to live up to social expectations that might even be a bit unhealthy. And it is always nice to hear that I am not the only one looking at it like this