Utah Mom Says No to Man in Daughter's Dorm

[@RaeLaRae09]

To think only if the feelings of a confused MAN over a whole building of women in the dorms. Shame on USU.

[@leahshaw1447]

It is a real worry for concerned parents, and to put girls in the possible danger of a confused male without consent is criminal. Places where males and females share facilities is OK since everyone involved is aware of that fact. But to put a male in with a female without the knowledge and consent of those involved is wrong and deceitful. If I were the girl, I'd transfer to a university that doesn't cater to this bs.

[@Kokomadeta]

The law WILL NOT change in Utah, and here's why. Spencer Cox, who was elected under suspicious circumstances, cries crocodile tears over these issues and REFUSES to protect women and girls. Democrats in Utah vote for him.

[@donquijote6030]

Absolutely correct. Democrats who have moved to Utah are desperate to colonize the state and take control. Utahns need to take a stand and fight back.

[@conservativeriot5939]

We need to take away women's right to vote. It's been our downfall.

[@BoMwarriorVlog]

Yeah, I didn't vote for him either time. 😒 He helped get rid of the Dixie State University name his first term, which was a purely Leftist maneuver. Utah's been slowly & quietly infiltrated by the Left for a couple decades now. 🙁

[@BobSmith-lb9nc]

Gov Cox was elected in a normal, fair way. Why are you lying about that?

[@suzannemcvicker617]

​@@conservativeriot5939 keep thinking like that and watch the Republicans lose.

[@mrich9654]

This is Utah, not California. If you’re okay with this nonsense, then move to a blue state.

[@DemocratsUnite]

I support transgender inclusivity. It should be the law in all 50 states.

[@suzannemcvicker617]

​@@DemocratsUnite in other words, you hate women.

[@SouEuIAm]

The problem is that so many Californians have been moving to Utah, and in the end, you get crap like this. We need to wall of Utah and not let any Californians in.

[@douglasolsen6861]

Trump

[@josiahgibbs5697]

The school didn't meet the terms of a contract. The contract would be that the daughter was in a woman's only dorm. It doesn't really matter if legally the school thinks it has to accept men as women, to have a meeting of the minds to make a valid contract, the student has to also believe that men can be women. The student thought that only women can be women. The best case for the school is to say there was no meeting of the minds and therefore no contract.

[@therealliviedawn]

Get rid of Cox and we get rid of a lot of this nonsense. Mental health is not to be celebrated, it is to be helped.

[@douglasolsen6861]

Trump

[@gdrew7]

Remove all state and federal funding for USU immediately!!

[@wickedbird1538]

😮😮When I was a child, males were arrested for intruding on innocent girls.

[@blizzard2oo]

Democrats strangely think women are not to be respected and allowed protection and privacy!! Remember Joe Biden has been opposing girls' privacy since he got into power!

[@lauriespeth1524]

Time to flood Governor Cox office Stop this outrageous nonsense in our Utah universities

[@douglasolsen6861]

Trump

[@oshemer5066]

This mother is mistaken if she thinks USU is a conservative community. I teach a couple classes for them, and the school has become very woke.

[@KESaxon]

So what happened to the daughter? Did they let her move out of the dorm but still stay enrolled? Would’ve liked to hear about that as well.

[@llamalinguist3250]

"in a position of power" That is 100% the sketchiest part of this whole thing.

[@mineolahome5243]

Outrageous!!! Woke politics over the safety of young woman!! Trump can't get here soon enough!!

[@donfarmer4020]

The university did this??? No some person or a couple people did this. Stop saying universities or the government or the school districts, etc. did it. People did this. They had to give the ok. These people should be held responsible for their dicisions. If they truly think it is ok why not take responsibility for it and not blame the university. If possible vote them out or just fire them. Or better yet send you kids to a Christian school like Hillsdale college in Michigan.

[@loganbrown8752]

How are we supposed to know the individuals responsible? Fundamentally, employees make decisions on behalf of their employer, and represent the employer when doing so. Of course the "university" can't make decisions, it's an institution. But we blame the institution because the people running it hired the people the made this decision, and we don't know the specific people who did it. It's up to the people running the institution to then hold people accountable for the bad decision that reflects poorly on the institution. But yeah, I agree, fire the people responsible.

[@donfarmer4020]

@ start at the bottom and ask who said this was ok? If they don’t give you the answers you fire them. People say start at the top and work your way down. If you do that they all will blame the bottom guy. It never comes from the bottom guy. He has no authority to make that type of decision. When the person says it wasn’t me then you know it was either the last person to say it wasn’t me or the person that said it was him/her. Then you find out who has the authority to make that decision final. It is best to fire both. The person that said it was him/her should have spoken up. And the person that said it wasn’t me should have put a stop to the nonsense.

[@conservativeriot5939]

​@@donfarmer4020 absolutely not. It's both. The individuals represent the university.

[@jessicablank6470]

Good for this mom!

[@happymomali]

Stupid move UT State. 😢 You knew this would happen.

[@lauriespeth1524]

Need to put a Recall into Utah law

[@JustBeingRSelfs]

Federal Funding IS the problem here. It is why colleges MUST allow this and other ill conceived ideas. If your school receives federal funding, If you're school accepts federal student loans, the school must abandon its own values and accept the Federal nonsense that comes with it. Private Schools are the only way out.

[@justincoats7236]

You may be right. I think it's more afraid of lawsuits. That group has a lot of money and lawyers who would love to sue anyone opposing them. There are also the 5 crazies who love to help make this happen.

[@llrmiller]

This happened to my daughter at Texas A&M University in 2022. Man in a dress in an all female dorm. I didn’t know until three months in because my daughter didn’t want to cause a fuss. The individual needed a therapy cat. The cat litter made the hallway on that end of the dorm stink. But the girls didn’t want to complain because they 1. Didn’t want yo face retribution or they genuinely thought this person might commit suicide. Why is a suicide risk hired as an RA? A healthy, competent woman was passed over to accommodate a mentally unstable White male (not that I am into identity politics) just highlighting the hypocrisy.

[@kristofersagers8158]

I'm a USU alum and my kids are coming of age in the next few years. Maybe they won't be attending USU. BYU was having issues at the Provo campus but they're in the process of finally cleaning it up (regardless what the SLC Tribune propaganda says). I've long been a USU fan, but I'll gladly swith my allegiances if it means a more conservative, wholesome environment for my kids. This is 100% unacceptable--but not surprising as this nonsense is everywhere (yes, even in Utah! I hope more of the great people of Utah start to realize this)

[@jonjahr3403]

So basically, you you wanna shield and shelter your kid's even after they become adults instead of letting for themselves like adults?!

[@kristofersagers8158]

@jonjahr3403 This is being normalized across America and I will not alter my position by what I perceive to be your attempt to manipulate me. We all have boundaries. We parents all--at least most of us, to avoid speaking in absolutes--want the best for our kids. I perceive you have a strong belief in letting your kids experience life and make their own decisions. You may be surprised that I applaud your statement, with one caveat, if you will. I also believe that I have been entrusted by God to teach and protect my children to increase the likelihood that they'll feel the Spirit and choose His ways as they grow. I'm a HUGE advocate of free agency. I also believe parents have a sacred responsibility to protect, nurture and teach their children. I will ALWAYS do what I can to protect my kids--especially my daughters. While I can appreciate your perspective because I place a lot of value in my children having opportunities to learn and grow. I reserve the right to remove unnecessary, immoral elements of society from my kids' lives. I know they can always choose that--and i'd still love them if they did. I'd always pray for them to choose that which is most important: following God, loving God and loving others so they can return to Him.

[@blizzard2oo]

@@kristofersagers8158 My kids are endowed with free agency AND they are free to vocally protest stupidity when they see stupidity(voyeurism and exhibitionism)

[@rickreallylikedthevideobut7899]

@@jonjahr3403 So basically, you;re saying you support per verts?

[@jonjahr3403]

@@kristofersagers8158 You say "This is being normalized all across America" I assume you mean the USA, as The America's are not one country but two distinctly different continents. North America and South America. With the smaller Central America sandwiched inbetween. And, the only thing that is being normalized, is the belief that everyone should be free to be themselves. Not what you, the mormon church or any other religion (for that matter) thinks they should be. You say you're this "HUGE PROPONENT" of free agency. Praying for them to make decisions you think are right is one thing. It is another and totally out of bounds for you to mistreat others just because they're different from you. There's nothing wrong with a trans person being open about their lifestyle in public. As long as they're not physically harming nor threatening anyone else. If you're worried about a trans person causing harm to your kids. Then that speaks to either prejudice or a lack of knowledge about them on your part.

[@Monica-io5ru]

If Governor Cox doesn't fix this nonsense President Trump will! This is unacceptable!

[@jlamb2760]

This garbage infuriates me SO much. I've had enough!!!

[@DemocratsUnite]

So you support bigotry?

[@moonbuni59]

@@DemocratsUnitenot bigotry. The women in that dorm signed up for a all women dorm. If they signed up for a co-Ed dorm that would be different. Many dorms have shared bathroom and shower spaces.

[@DemocratsUnite]

@ and, the RA is a woman

[@suzannemcvicker617]

​@@DemocratsUniteyou hate women

[@rickreallylikedthevideobut7899]

@@DemocratsUnite So you support perverts?

[@BobSmith-lb9nc]

Merrill Hall, USU, Logan, Utah. A competent reporter would make sure these basic facts were in the story. We also have a USU in Brigham City, Blanding, Moab, Salt Lake City, Tooele, Eastern, Vernal, and Roosevelt.

[@marilyhill1963]

It is UVU in Orem, UT. Utah Valley University! Not USU!

[@BobSmith-lb9nc]

@@marilyhill1963 Thanks. I corrected that.

[@SprocketGames]

Thank you

[@GregFessia]

I will now speak of restored gospel truths that are fundamental to the doctrine of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Please consider these truths carefully. They explain much about our doctrine and practices, perhaps including some things not yet understood. There is a God, who is the loving Father of the spirits of all who have ever lived or will live. Gender is eternal. Before we were born on this earth, we all lived as male or female spirits in the presence of God. -Dallin H Oaks President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of JESUS CHRIST of Latter-day Saints

[@llamalinguist3250]

Too many Latter-Day Saints refuse to acknowledge what our own church teaches.

[@marciabueno5093]

WTF? Thank God Trump signed that order today!

[@informationtechnologies2234]

Um, Trump is back!!! Get loud and let the higher ups know! Get a lawyer, you will win!

[@Amalie.x7fv]

I’m super surprised that Utah state this this! Any other bluer state, maybe, but not Utah lol

[@oshemer5066]

Utah has become very woke unfortunately.

[@llamalinguist3250]

This is also specifically Utah State University.

[@katedaniels9623]

What is R A?

[@kai-jm7bb]

Resident Assistant or Advisor

[@johnl5316]

In 1968 my dorm , which had been an old sorority house at Stanford, had boys and girls. There was no problem at all

[@femaleKCRoyalsFan]

People back then knew if they were male or female

[@loganbrown8752]

Well, that was the expectation going in. This was expected to be a girls only space.

[@TheHaas123]

In the same room? On the same floor, sure but the same room?

[@donfarmer4020]

@@johnl5316 when you go into knowing that there at both genders in a dorm then it’s expected. But if it’s a woman’s dorm then it shouldn’t be expected. And regardless of what you say “there was no problem “ I wasn’t there but trust me when I say there were plenty of problems.

[@__-pl3jg]

Also this is Utah. The morality standards are a bit higher than California. I'm not trying to be snippy, just pointing out facts.

[@worldbfree7576]

I was watching "the onion" clips and then this came on, thought it was just going to be another parody video. What a stupid thing to be worried and obsessing over.

[@donquijote6030]

It is worried to have males attempting to occupy female spaces? Only and idiot would make such a claim. An idiot or a grapist.

[@kare7840]

You've never raised a child have you?

[@best1213best]

It is a legit concern. Most of the time, these people who do this to women turn out to be a creep at best. This needs a review and change.

[@Imthebrownunicorn]

So stupid you had to comment.. so I guess the student and the parents have a right to make their comments known too.

[@fabian2006]

yea put a creep on a teenager dorm for the hole year...fucking stupid ppl this days

[@lauriespeth1524]

Time to flood Governor Cox office Stop this outrageous nonsense in our Utah universities

[@douglasolsen6861]

Feds set the standards and the rules aka guidelines and bully and manipulate with money … time to call Trump