Are We in Trouble? Laughing Off the Internet's Craziest Criticisms

[@judimuller4835]

Gary saying: the people who comment are not in relationships....trust me, a lot of those people ARE in very respectful relationships and are just shocked by how misogyn and disrispectful Gary is

[@evap.5121]

If everyone sees the same thing there's a reason for it. He gives off a icky vibe of being domineering and acts like his way is THE way also like he's scared or insecure about you becoming your own person and leaving him. To me he will always be the grown man who aggressively pursued a 19 year old girl, who didn't even know who she was yet and married her as fast as he could to lock her down.

[@jenniferurbanic]

agreed. previously he right away jump to the audiance is the problem because I am an European man. But there are many examples of European men that don't talk like him. He is projecting and trying to sound more old school stereo type. The controlling part is where he leans and makes it sounds she can't have a day off. But I am sure he doesn't actually have that much control of her schedule. I don't think she will allow him to have that much control of her day

[@cece2086]

Call me a reformed Gary-hater. Sorry guys! I love how you guys keep on going with these couple sessions. As someone with a lot of trauma from growing up in an abusive home, I find myself automatically assuming the worse when a man shows the slightest assertion. I appreciate you guys doing these and it’s healing in a lot of ways.

[@svrarararrrr]

Lol again I couldnt listen to them for more than 2 min😅 They respect neither each other nor their audience.

[@irmilia7843]

I don‘t think that‘s true. Having a relationship that‘s based on trust, requires a lot of truth being told. Truth isn‘t always comfortable but necessary for a long lasting (healthy!) relationship. The problem with our society is, that people think everything has to be in harmony to be good and I think that’s one of the problems why so many relationships fail nowadays. This is only my opinion and not criticism towards your comment. But I think it’s important to really listen to people and trying to understand each-others language rather to cancel right away. ❤

[@svrarararrrr]

@@irmilia7843 I dont know anything about their relationships and I dont really care. When husband publicly tells his wife “Who are respectful, smart and beautiful? YOU? Haha” - everything is pretty clear.

[@deannaelaine8769]

@@svrarararrrr that's not what he said but okay

[@MaryamPirzada]

“We talk how we normally talk” maybe ask her if she likes how you talk to her ???? People have strengths & weaknesses. You may not be highly emotionally intelligent & that’s okay! You are very intelligent and have built an empire & Legacy with your wife; congrats on that. Your wife is highly emotionally intelligent; lean on that. Peace and love.

[@marianahoward8069]

💯 I think culture does play a huge role on how we communicate and what is acceptable to communicate to others. I’m Venezuelan and have a very direct way of communicating with my husband, but he grew up in an American household that doesn’t communicate their thoughts or feelings at all. I’m glad we’re able to work on things together and he appreciates direct (and respectful) communication.

[@hilderenshof2476]

And this ladies and gentleman, is why you do not judge and assume. Especially not about someone elses marriage. And especially especially not about a marriage that exists so so long and both partners seems incredibly happy. Keep it to yourselves

[@dorinehelene]

2 grown adults having a conversation!! Loved this episode!! Go you 2 ❤️❤️

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤🙏🏻 thanks for watching!!

[@MJ-zg4qg]

You guys are amazing! Honestly I do think that some people aren’t used to having someone honest and sincere around them. Gary would die for Valeria in a second, he seems extremely loyal and well-mannered. He isn’t a nice guy, but he is kind and genuinely interested in what she is saying.

[@nau304]

If she is okay with how he is... I dont see why others have issues with their relationship. She is not 5.

[@Leaena20]

Now for the people in the back: Emotions aren't a bad thing, they are necessary 👏👏👏 Great statement. There is a biological reason they exist.

[@madeline8395]

I find him very refreshing!!!!

[@hagitbab]

Totally agree with you!! Finally someone without a filter. We love you guys!❤

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤❤❤

[@MariiaAndreieva-z6h]

I never comment, but I really do read comment section… Maybe Gary in life doesn’t have any connection to what a lot of people think…but yes, he can give such impression…. Gary has such a strong personality and life experience and is so similar to my Russian father😂 my dad is such an incredible person and at the same time is the hardest person to deal with😂😂

[@kimgirl702]

I'm at the part where Gary is asking the doctor the mortality rate, and honestly, people who don't appreciate Gary are missing out BIG TIME. This is a man who not only will do anything to protect his family, but is also very intelligent and takes charge when needed. There's a yin and yang to this marriage, and I love it. I think the haters are so used to having to be their own woman AND man for themselves, that they've lost sight of the value of a real man.

[@bublik8351]

You’re great together. Never change!

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

❤ thank you!

[@cristinitaandco]

I can’t say how he is in the marriage it’s just he just gives this not warm person in general like you always want to be correct. It’s hard to describe, she maybe can be controlling but he is different he is just not as welcoming or approachable gives this arrogance always always having the different opinion. Changin is good sometimes specially when your wife is telling you she appreciate it

[@mmmam6628]

Gary is misunderstood, but in 10 to 20 years from now, people will catch up.

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@kcflaca07]

I love this conversation ❤

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Glad you enjoyed this one!!

[@Alorajones19]

I think gary was just raised traditionally. I understand the comments that say he comes off as arrogant because of how strong minded and set in stone he is, but in a way its better for some women to have a leader of the family. Valeria can be in her feminine energy with a guy like Gary by her side. We need men, men need women. Not all marriages are peaches and sunshine 24/7. The world forgets for better, for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, like those are not just meaningless words. Valeria i know ur not religious (at least i dont think u are) but pls teach your boys to know God so when life burdens them they turn to him instead of seeking answers from the world. Dont follow your heart bc it will deceive you, follow the Lord. God bless you and your family.

[@Lulu-l]

Not gonna lie, I was wainting for this video, I read a lot of the comments in the other video and some where harsh...I personally like your relationship and dynamic with Gary, but some people where saying that SOMETIMES the way he speaks to you is a bit condescending, and I agree, BUT this is not always and also I don't think he realizes he is doing it or that he does it on purpose. He crealy has a big love for you. They where too harsh on Gary.

[@irisdanagher]

Well done Gary! You got it spot on with your analysis of the Karen's!!!!!!!

[@evap.5121]

lol men also comment about how cringe he is. He sounds like those people who accuse everyone who disagrees with them of being jealous

[@MadelineShinnefield]

Great convo! The girls that get it, get it 😉❤️ and congrats again on your green cards!! 🇺🇸

[@ValeriaLipovetsky]

Thank youuu ❤❤

[@shaniavidar2159]

Loved watching this video! I actually really enjoy your dynamics, Valeria and Gary. We live in Bay Harbor Islands, hang out in similar circles, and have three boys ourselves. I always tell my husband that I wish we’d run into you both at an event sometime because I know we’d totally hit it off. Keep up the great content!

[@SkyiiABCDEFG11]

Linda… Who’s that, why u call him Linda 👎🏿

[@nadyanadya2883]

Liked without even watching Now a whole hour with Valeria and Garry! Btw, please, tell me is Garry a shortening for Garfield?

[@svrarararrrr]

He is Gregory

[@BelindaOs-i1n]

Lovely listening to you both! Couples communicate in different ways. Valeria and Gary are obviously happy with their way of communicating. Thus, outsiders shouldn't try to tear their relationship (or Gary) apart.