Van Life | When Things Don’t Go As Planned

Even though I was not expecting to stay the winter, I have been figuring out how to do it. Sometimes our life does not go as we planned, but how it turns out is always up to us. I hope you'll join me for a nice morning walk and chat from my tiny home on wheels to talk about how I stay centered and how I plan to move forward. If you haven’t already, please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE and hit the BELL to continue to receive content like this. Hope to see you next Saturday!
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[@markrenfrow9873]

Hey Ms. Dee. Of course when it's cold out something warm to eat/drink is comforting. Anyone that gives you grief for using individual serving packages are not seeing your life/style in storage terms. What works for you is fine with me. It's hard for me to imagine why folks would be mean to you, other than the fact that their are a$$holes in the world. So take their words/opinions with a grain of salt. Stay warm, happy, and you.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you Mark! I appreciate your encouraging words ☺️

[@designdoctor247]

yes and why do people judge u? IMO They r probaby the same people who would quickly say...do NOT judge them 🤣😂🤣 it was more than kind of u to respond to the neg comments Dee.

[@charisma-hornum-fries]

Sometimes... Sigh...

[@sew_gal7340]

You shouldnt have to be green when youre living the van life anyway, you're already leaving such a tiny footprint that you can technically do whatever and still not even touch the level of pollution that sticks n bricks ppl do. I own my house and honestly just the single shower a day is already using a ton of water and really wasteful as well.

[@t.k3025]

We all need to do what we can because of climate change.

[@joyceb5864]

My water tip: I heat a full kettle of water, use a portion, then pour the rest into a large thermos bottle. Instant hot water all day without reheating. If it is not all used, then it goes back into the kettle the next day. The kettle is only heated once a day, so it saves on butane, too.

[@LadyBugout]

That's a great idea!

[@kathleenkline4622]

I make a thermos full of coffee at night before bed...hot coffee in bed makes climbing out in the cold so much easier! And, it can be used to warm my tootsies under the covers overnight, even if it isn't as soft and squishy as a hot water bottle. Our ancesters used a hot brick...this is my version.

[@joyjournal6157]

I do that too. I've got one with the press top and it's secured in place with a bungy.

[@vickymull9758]

Dee, I really appreciate you for always portraying such positive energy on your channel and always with a beautiful smile! You have your van set up to utilize every possible space efficiently and you seem to appreciate every single day. What a nice way to live life. And I'm not sure how you do it with van life on the road but you never seem to have a bad hair day! Thanks for all the positivity you share with your viewers.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, Vicky! Lol-I’m glad YOU think so. I was editing this video and was like, ‘why didn’t I look at my hair better!😜

[@estrellanoche6409]

Love the way you organize your life/style.. if all people would care about our environment like you.The world wouldn't be in problems dear Dee. Greetings from Holland.🇳🇱

[@LadyBugout]

That is so nice of you to say. I appreciate it☺️

[@designdoctor247]

Amen

[@debbies6192]

Hello Dee, You shouldn't have to justify things to anyone else. This is "your" life; not their's. Be in His Peace. ❤️

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that☺️

[@allegrosotto2126]

Absolutely!

[@judyb2425]

You are doing us a favor sharing your life with us. You never need to explain your choices. You are amazing

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that! 🥰

[@tomcaldwell5750]

I am a Connect owner and I agree with you Dee, it is to much trouble in install a diesel heater for such a small vehicle. Thanks for the affirmation practice. You are such a blessing to your viewers, I don’t understand why anyone would chastise you about using paper and plastic. You warm our hearts on a winters day. Just keep being you and ignore the haters.

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that, Tom! You are always so encouraging and positive🤗

[@TGIFunday]

I love your positive attitude.. you are right.. walking does warm you up and gets the blood pumping. Especially up hill..🤣👋💕😁

[@LadyBugout]

You are the best!!! Can’t wait to get to have a good walk together at some point again.

[@maarten_notjustagrip]

Hi Dee, I found that running the engine for warming up the van has a dual purpose, in that, if its cold enough to need the warmth, then the starter battery benefits from a bit of a run too.

[@maarten_notjustagrip]

I have also found that a dog blanket or "furniture pad", or even a foam yoga mat OVER the outside of the windscreen does FAR more towards keeping the cold out. Its the biggest thermal bridge on the vehicle, and if you can keep the glass from actuall getting cold... The secondary effect is that IF it snows, you dont have to clear the snow from the winscreen. You simply pull the blanket off.

[@Lisa_GalCali]

@@maarten_notjustagrip great advice!

[@LadyBugout]

Good to know! Thank you🤗

[@ovangal3852]

@LadyBugOut - Dee - People just need to calm down about how you do things. I agree with you. You are doing the best you can with what is offered out there in the marketplace and mindful of your budget , etc. You're doin' great. Thanks for your content. It has been very helpful to me as I begin my build and planning for my future! 😉👍

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that! I’m glad it’s been helpful☺️

[@raymccormick545]

Dee, some people can only value their existence by tearing down others. They cannot see past their own pathetic outlook on to see what others offer to those looking for help or information provided. Your true fans will be there for you and others that have to put up with the bullying by the few. ❤

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate you saying that, Ray😊

[@ritasmoot1823]

Dee, I have watched you since you first started your channel and have always appreciated the way you have cared for the environment. Zero waste is not always sustainable in the world we live in. But, I always thought that given the life style you live, you are very balanced and I feel grateful for your example. Also, I love that you show others it is possible to choose what kind of day to have or how to respond to possible issues. Things happen and we can’t control everything, but, we can control how we react. You are such an inspiration and will continue to be. Because, you make it that way. I like to say “make it a great day “ INSTEAD of “have a great day “! Safe travels my friend and enjoy the journey. And even a person’s back yard can be a journey. 😊

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, I know you have been here since day one! I appreciate you so much and am grateful for your kindness. I love that ‘make it a great day’-so true!

[@Lonewolfwilly67]

I feel that most of those trolls that complain or make comments judging you are most likely NOT PERFECT themselves. Take care and continue making yourself happy in your life. 😉🤠👍

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, Bill!😊

[@pnhenderson]

You do a wonderful job taking care of yourself and your little minivan, it’s so organized and you are too, for small vans, I watch and Ninth Element, you both are similar in how you live comfortably in the space you have. Thank you Lady Bug Out for being who you are, you have Blessed life dear.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much! ☺️

[@bonnienklyde918]

Hi Dee, I dont know how anyone could possibly be mean to you. Youve never been negative in any way. Your very kind to everyone no matter their circumstances. I know what it feels like to be picked on and when someone does this its for reasons from their own negative lives that it comes from. Its sad that people feel the need to be mean to others. They will reap what the sow. On a better note, youve put out another great video and are very much appreciated for all your hard work. Just keep doing what your doing however you want to. We are all learning so much from you and your life, in a very positive way.

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that so much. Thank you🥰

[@Texasgirl4real]

You do not need to apologize for the stuff that you use in your life. Please don't feel the need to explain yourself. Everybody does things there own way... 🤠

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you for reminding me☺️

[@paulampaquette]

I have a Ford Transit Connect. Also chose NOT to insulate. I found a good way to stay warm is to run a kennel heating pad, very low watts, from a small Jackery inside all the proper blankets. Works really well for the whole night.

[@LadyBugout]

Great tip. I have a small heating pad that I do the same with- but I’ll have to check into a kennel pad!!!

[@dianepines9014]

Affirmations are great! Would you like to share a few of yours? Your energy is uplifting!😊 Not going as planned sounds like my life from 19 on!

[@LadyBugout]

Absolutely!! I will be doing a whole video with my affirmations. Lol… yes I wonder if life ever goes ‘as planned’

[@karenb1627]

Intentions. Affirmations. LAYERS. I love all of this. How I start my day makes a huge difference in it. We speak the same language. 💜💜💜💜💜

[@LadyBugout]

🧘🏻‍♀️ it sure seems like it☺️

[@dansmith6508]

Cupid Heater by Kovea. Simple, safe, reliable, inexpensive and runs on the same butane canister your stove runs on. Perfect for a smaller space like yours. I have been using one this winter in my Sienna mini van. Cannister lasts about 5 hours with heater on low. You wont need to run it constantly, just turn on and off as required. Use your small fan to circulate the heat down from the ceiling. I buy the butane from Asian markets for about 2 dollars a can. Crack a window for some fresh air. Cheers!

[@LadyBugout]

Thanks for the tips!

[@JonniesJourney]

It's a great mindset to have for sure. Stay warm friend and hike on.

[@LadyBugout]

Miss you Jonnie! Thank you for being a great encourager and kind human☺️

[@carolekorade1792]

Thanks for a nice day love and hugs to you. I enjoy you and your travels.Carole

[@MoBangFoYoBucks]

Love instant oatmeal!🥰 Quick and easy.

[@LadyBugout]

So good! 💃🏻

[@Crazy-s8s]

Ms Dee you are such a beautiful inspiring soul You’re positivity and upbeat attitude is so good to see It took me most of my life to get the point of realizing it is the “ quality, peace & joy “ that truly matters Not the quantity Always love your videos and your sharing your continuing journey with us on here Thank you so much Take care & safe travels See ya in your next offering

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you Danny! I appreciate the encouragement ☺️

[@VanlilfewithDaleandBailey]

You look like your in the SE WI area. If you need any help I could maybe help. .... I'm currently in the process of cleaning out my house so I can sell it and buy a van. Van life is in my future.

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate it! I am well. Exciting for you to be getting on the road☺️

[@suerop]

Word and I'll help you get here. -Susie

[@suerop]

I was thinking the same thing. Looks like SE WI. I'm in Port Washington WI. If things get unbearable at any time, just put out the

[@estherstephens1858]

As you were layering your clothes I thought “wow, I’m so happy she dresses warm.” I wasn’t counting the layers though!!! 😂😂 . Stay warm. Stay safe, Dee.

[@LadyBugout]

Lol the more layers the better 😝

[@MsOaktree11]

Hey girl, wanted to chime in here, you are delightful and so is your content and anyone who is sitting on their butts on their couch pathetically gorging on KZbin and probably too many Krispy Kreme doughnuts and criticizing you for a piece of paper that might inadvertently circle through your life needs to get their own life... Thanks for your beautiful life, Lady, and all the much needed light you add to our planet, and whenever your birthday is thanks for having a life that's worth celebrating, one that isn't just measured by self-administered sticky stars for how full your recycling bin is...(disclaimer: I freakin' LOVE Krispy Kreme donuts AND the flippin' paper box they come in!)😉

[@LadyBugout]

😜 I appreciate that

[@krisg3984]

The ski bibs are my friend also , and so comfy ! The affirmations and a walk is such a great idea. Thank you for sharing that

[@LadyBugout]

You are so welcome!☺️

[@martna1]

Do you have a Bible that you read? That's where I get my affirmations. I live in a small home so I have church every Sunday and listen to Christian radio. My Bible is bilingual, English/Spanish. I am almost 71 and looking forward to a new year.

[@LadyBugout]

I do have a Bible!

[@canihelpyou9067]

since you use butane canisters already, look into the little heater from Kovea. i think the model is called Cupid; it uses a butane canister for heat.

[@LadyBugout]

Good to know. I’ll look for it.☺️

[@mswandervan]

I love how you create a warm and cozy environment while out in the winter weather. Although I've not tried it yet, winter camping really fascinates me, especially when people are able to do it in several feet of snow! I'm also a big fan of doing morning rituals and affirmations. You've combined my 2 favorite things here, van life and trying to live intentionally. I hope you do more of these videos in the future. Thank you and safe travels!

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate the feedback. Thank you☺️

[@MOTrav]

Gotta write a second comment. I to enjoy instant oatmeal. It’s fast and tasty, plus I usually add in some fruit like blueberries and some almond pieces. It’s amazing what can be mixed up easily to keep you going! 😎

[@LadyBugout]

Yep!!! I like keeping things simple if I can🤗

[@funcheckout9701]

U can heat your jacket to go out side by heating it with extra hot water bottle , just wrap ???? Tshirt ,jacket ect in it and voila more heat...more happiness

[@LadyBugout]

Thanks for the tips!

[@T_Barb]

People try to have something to bitch about just to be able to bitch. Use what you want to make you happy and comfortable. I’d ignore or block the people who go to each channel just so they can spread their negativity.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. I appreciate it☺️

[@williamlogan659]

Can you explain to a non american, what affirmations are and terms like centering , if that's how you spell it, or being calibrated , what do you say to yourself? ls it just about being content with your life, to envy no one , to be happy with less.

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, that is it.☺️

[@Swimdeep]

The heat is pretty debilitating for me personally. I prefer cooler temps. The other thing for staying warm is using my heating pad in bed when it’s very cold. Just a few minutes and under the covers is toasty warm. Thank you for reminding me about affirmations. Happy New Year Dee!

[@LadyBugout]

Happy New Year! Yes, warm blankets (especially with electric blanket) is cozy warm!

[@kimwade6249]

Crazy that people are so critical… I think more waste is made whilst living in sticks and bricks !

[@LadyBugout]

Yeah… I think it just depends. Thank you for the encouragement ☺️

[@strawberryroad1347]

Are you living in your car now? Not just trips? Money ~ life is stressing me out, but I want to make sure, that when I go, that is taken care off. So it won't follow me into vanlife too. I must say, your channel has been really helpful in my process, because it's familiar, small car/space especially. :)

[@LadyBugout]

My situation is the same. My stress is coming from different areas these days. But it is getting resolved. Yes, do make sure to figure out things BEFOREHAND. Good advice!!!

[@samshepperrd]

I'll buy a roasted chicken ($7-10) leg/thigh and wing is dinner 1. Same next day for lunch. Breast meat usually enough for 4 sandwiches or mix in with stew, soup or stir fry with a pack of frozen veggies ($1);So nutritional ROI is quite high.

[@juliapernicka2698]

I take the chicken breast and heat it in a box of chicken stock with some onion and garlic, remove it to shred, boil some dry noodles in the broth and add the chicken back. Easy chicken soup. Perfect for winter.

[@LadyBugout]

Yum! Thanks for the suggestion.

[@justjj4319]

Heya Ms Dee, I am astonished to hear that people would be brazen enough to criticise your practices, especially as you make it clear your decisions have been reached responsibly and take into account a whole of considerations. Thank you for your care, consideration AND leadership. Go Well, from a fellow van live-er. :)

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much for that☺️☺️☺️

[@orianedeneve7305]

hello , please do not apologize to eat oatmeal in a paper bag ;) im really curious to see the way of life of those who complaint ;)

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you😝 yes i sometimes wonder myself!

[@charlottewilson4680]

Overall most nomades do so much better than we that live in sticks and bricks. I know it is hard. I try hard to only have one garbage bag a week. Yes we eat oatmeal almost every day.

[@LadyBugout]

I agree! I think the important thing is to look for ways and be cognizant of doing better as we are able!

[@deeplansandbudgets]

Okay I have to say this. Anyone who is living in a Tiny Tiny Van, does not have to worry about occasional individual packets. Your environmental footprint is so reduced by not using electricity, hot water, flushing a toilet etc. People who are picking on you over that need to look at their own habits and make sure they are pointing their fingers the right way.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you for that! It helps to put it in perspective ☺️

[@shellyjay8954]

People have no right telling you what to use or eat. I love your cute, comfy van set up.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you!☺️

[@TheBlueOwl21]

Another great video with an interesting sprinkling of mind philosophy. 💙👍🏻

[@LadyBugout]

Glad you enjoyed it, Dave!

[@quash8]

The power of affirmation is amazing. I had a heartbreak in college and spent a few weeks moping around. I started waking up every day and making my first thought very simple: "today is going to be a good day." It didn't solve everything on the first day but it got me started towards healing. Still start every day with a gratitude session.

[@LadyBugout]

I agree! It is more powerful than I think we even imagine☺️

[@rajanikumari3672]

Somebody already mentioned the Kovea Cupid butane heater further in the comments. Also, I have seen a dual purpose heater/cooker (propane) on Amazon that would be good for such a small space. Less moisture & heat output than a Mr. Buddy. I've been looking at them because a Mr. Buddy is not practical in my van with my build & dogs.

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, the kovea Cupid looks interesting!

[@martykong3592]

:) GREAT SHARE and Video! THANKS MUCH especially for the positive thoughts and way you can make your day:) Stay warm and ALL THE BEST ! Cheers :)

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, Marty!

[@maryhight6030]

I personally think you are so awesome. I really enjoy listening to you about taking care of yourself and the environment. Be safe, God Bless 🙏❤️

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, I will🥰

[@juliapernicka2698]

I would love for you to include one of your affirmations in each video. I am enthusiastic. I am energetic. And, I enjoy my day!

[@LadyBugout]

Noted!☺️

[@funcheckout9701]

Set up your coffee night before....just add water....set up glass with toothbrush...add water n do these things n BED. put on extra layers n bed.....put ur hat on in bed....you will lose less body heat by doing these things making morning less cold n stressfull.

[@samanthadodd8112]

Funny, I had cream of wheat and applesauce for dinner last night.

[@LadyBugout]

Sounds yummy!😋

[@susie9893]

"I'm still in my same undisclosed location". Love it! Very wise. Always disturbs me when tubers state where they are and how long they'll be there 🤯 As to criticisms: I think there are ppl out there who just want to find reasons to criticise this lifestyle without making any effort to consider it or understand it. (Guard your heart well)

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you for the encouragement ☺️

[@MOTrav]

Stay comfy and warm. Spring is just around the corner. I always enjoy seasonal changes! 😎

[@LadyBugout]

Same here! Thanks☺️

[@bsavi62]

Time flies and I was sad the Summer was over so quickly…on the other hand we seem to be halfway through the cold season…yay!

[@gschmeidler7134]

The affirmation for others is nice ..but you don’t realize your gift of self with each video, you are worth more then you ever imagined.

[@LaineyBug2020]

Great life advice!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you dear Lainey Bug☺️

[@annnaegele1846]

Was 45 degrees and windy today. Drove to sunny spot. Got up to 90 in my van! Had to open the window and turn on the fan!!!😃

[@LadyBugout]

That is awesome when that happens, lol😝

[@hesaidomegaorion6654]

Your a very positive person. There are fuel pellets on the Walmart shopping search 24 pellets for like $3.00.

[@LadyBugout]

That is great to know. Thank you for the tip.

[@Stephtravels]

Great video! What is the spray you used at the end to clean up?

[@LadyBugout]

It is 1 part water to 1 part hydrogen peroxide. Cleans well!

[@RebaKennedy]

Hi Dee, Thank you so much for this video. Your description of how you start the day with a conscious decision that you will enjoy that day -- it's a great life lesson. Wise. I'm going to try this, starting tomorrow morning as I walk my pup. Loved how you spoke about feeding your mind just as your feed your body, with good things. Thank you for this!!!!

[@LadyBugout]

You are so welcome!🥰

[@debslifesimplified6406]

Its nice that your stationary at the moment. And there is nothing wrong with wanting to be in the cold. You seem to have your heat figured out thats good to. I enjoyed this video. Thanks Dee.

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, it’s been nice! Thank you☺️

[@62WILDCAT]

Have you discovered NON GMO CLEAN Buckwheat ? I'm totally gluten free here in US so finding Buckwheat ( not a wheat is awesome. It's a great protein source too. I've also discovered that anything labeled USDA organic is GMO !! SO I stick to NON GMO products. You reminded me of my outfits when I went snow ❄️ skiing years ago & how fast my body would get overheated skiing ! Even here in NW Florida I wear lightweight thermal underwear as my first layer ( over panties !! ) when temps drop below 50° ! cuz my blood is so used to warmer temps !! Thanks for your encouragement to get myself out in the 🌞 earlier of a morning ! I listen to a Morning Inspiration on FB every morning first thing ( it's short ) , then get my hot drink & listen again ! You are showing us all how it's possible to stay comfortable even in 🥶 cold weather !! Eternally grateful for you popping up in my life ❣️ I'm not living NOMAD VAN LIFE yet. Cuz my Toyota Solara Convertible doesn't lend itself to this !! Searching for THE affordable reliable vehicle for ME ! BLESSINGS to you DEAR ONE 🤗 💕 Joining you in Positive Affirmations daily too. I AM PEACE WITHIN is my daily one !

[@LadyBugout]

I have not heard of that. I’ll have to look it up. Than you for your positive encouragement☺️

[@abbyabroad]

I find this intriguing! I grew up in the southern US and moved to southern China n 2018 instead of Beijing, where I'd been before, because I thought I just HAD to be in a warmer climate. I'm back in Beijing now and have realized--ahhh!--that I think I ... prefer colder climates? Maybe? Because I love going for long walks and you don't get sweaty! And it's invigorating! But maybe I'm just nuts, haha. On a different note, I recently started using affirmations and agree that they are helpful. Yay!

[@LadyBugout]

It is strange how I’ve begun to really enjoy colder weather-never thought I would in a million years lol 😛

[@cataestacio]

Hi Dee you have been an inspiration for me! And I always admired how you live a simple, minimalistic, light lifestyle that doesn't harm the planet. keep up the good life!

[@LadyBugout]

I'm so glad! Thank you☺️

[@HOPEbus]

Hey hey Dee 🤗 oh I've missed ya ☺️,we've been super busy but very happy 🤗 making some time to catch up on what uv'e been up to 🤗 Cheers to putting u first , nothings better then self love my friend . 💫💗🙏🎉 Whoop whoop 💗

[@LadyBugout]

Hey hey! No worries of course I know you are super busy. You’re doing the important stuff!💪🏼💃🏻🙌🏼

[@jwebbw]

Hi again, 60 degrees plus ski bibs, so like a comfy 70's ? The lowest temperature I've car camped in was 9 degrees in the CA Sierra Mt's and I had a good down sleeping bag. To expect someone living in their vehicle to also be recycling is sort of ridiculous. One of the best things I enjoy while ruffing it in a vehicle is the sun's warmth 'solar heat', it just feels right. Take care, stay warm and travel on !!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you! Yikes…9 degrees is not fun🥶

[@livinglikarockstar]

Agreed, definitely nutt'n wrong with your methods! Looks like you might benefit from a quality thermos to store excess hot water for next use. Just purchased warming vest, gloves and blanket from the jungle store. they utilize small rechargeable battery packs which can last 10-12 hours, haven't used them yet but once on the road they should come in handy, thanks for sharing!

[@LadyBugout]

Great tips! Thank you☺️

[@HOPEbus]

Oh my word 🤗.... I know when u n I meet we will chat for hours n hours 💫 I choose to live AND talk very similar 🙏❤️💫 Loved this video

[@LadyBugout]

Yep! I know we will ☺️

[@kimberlyramos9349]

You're a gem - a bright light on this earth! I loved it when you chuckled after saying, "do-do;" it made me laugh. Be happy, be free, be YOU! 😁💃🙏

[@LadyBugout]

Glad you enjoyed it!😆

[@ronniemead805]

You inspire me with your morning routine. I have been remis in doing my daily exercise, which is so important for both the mental and the physical. Starting tomorrow morning I will be going for my morning walk, while doing my affirmations. Seeing you traipsing through the woods alone inspires me no end. If you can do it so can I. Cheers!

[@LadyBugout]

I’m glad! Stay warm and have fun out there🤗💃🏻🙌🏼

[@greensavant2573]

You speak as someone who is familiar with The Power Of Now by Eckhart Tolle. And Affirmation yes, and, always remember to give gratitude.

[@LadyBugout]

💃🏻🙌🏼🐞

[@jeanstrait2904]

Dee, I wouldn't worry about what others say, you are an amazing,beautiful young lady and have a beautiful,cozy home. I don't think many could live in a tiny space very long and have a beautiful smile on their face every day like you. Your home is cozy, emaculate and so organized and you can see all the love and care you have put into it. As far as I can tell you are perfection in everything you do. Enjoy every moment and please continue to do what you are doing. Wishing you a blessed 2023. Mama Jean from South Texas Hugs ♥

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much. I appreciate it🥰

[@marksadventures3889]

As the late Bill Hicks once said - "what is it with those people - are they lizards - always want it hot and sunny" - warmth is okay but I think you appreciate it far more if your climate is colder. I love living in the place where I am on the edge of the fells and the Pennines with cold fresh winters and snow and frost and I love walking on the moors, frost crunchy under my feet, my breath in a mist before me. plastics are okay if you use them constantly and not just buy and throw so don't worry Dee. I'm actually thinking of moving back to Scotland - to the Hebrides where my ancestors are from. It's colder there and if it isn't cold enough, maybe Canada ..lol...Wisconsin?

[@LadyBugout]

Sounds like a good plan! I’m liking the cold more and more for sure 🤗

[@denisescruggs2157]

I do not like instant oatmeal, organic or not! COOK YOUR OATMEAL- It's so much better!

[@LadyBugout]

👍🏼

[@martna1]

I live in a home and have ONE small trashcan (32 gallons) for pickup every week. It's nobody's business how much trash you make.

[@LadyBugout]

🙌🏼

[@Bernimv]

I love your concept...been under the weather with DCD wanting to catch up As to others...as you always keep positivity is great.. Your ideas of packets has given me ideas that are wonderful. I grew upon Oatmeal but now must be in the whole, Groats 😁

[@LadyBugout]

Hope you feel better soon!

[@michaelsullivan1262]

I don’t recycle, I use packets and ziplocs and plastic bags and don’t care. Also, plastic utensils and disposable plates. Don’t care what the world thinks. Bunch of babies.

[@LadyBugout]

There ya have it!!!😆☺️🤗

[@elicore.biz81]

I love watching all of your videos. The black handbag in this video looks really nice...where did you get it?....If you don't mind me asking.I've been looking for a similar bag.

[@LadyBugout]

I got it on Amazon. I think I put the link to it. I think it’s called a sling bag…I’ll check.

[@EfficientRVer]

You're 99th percentile in most ways, definitely including being aware and diligent about caring for the planet and people. That anyone could complain about your very mild use of consumer products, is incomprehensible to me. Ignore them. In most cases, probably the great majority, the complainers would lose in an impact study of their total lifestyle versus yours. Many probably have pets that generate more waste than you do. Not to mention kids, houses, vehicles, vacation habits, restaurant habits, corporate jobs with environmentally destructive employers, and 1000 other things. You could multiply your impact by 10x, and still your presence would be a net positive for humanity and the planet. That is not true of most people.

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate the words of encouragement. I never really thought of it that way. ☺️

[@Delilaah57]

Oatmeal almost every day! I make mine in my 3 quart instant pot, chop up a whole apple, cinnamon, sea salt and coconut oil. In one mi nute, the best oatmeal ever. I usually grind up some flax seeds, sweeten it with a date and coconut sugar! Fabulous way to start the day! When I remember, I pray and give thanks to God for it's abundance before I eat. Thank you for affirming affirmations!!

[@LadyBugout]

Yum 😋

[@leahv.2537]

Thanks for sharing your process with us. Good grief, people get on your case about being sustainable out in a van?! Come on now folks, don't be judgy on her for that! Gosh, people are crazy 😳

[@LadyBugout]

Yep😜

[@Turleyswheels]

Ha ha I’m a typical man I would just buy a big bag of sugar , a big frying pan for a full English , but each to there own . If it works for you great . Your van looks great . And you’ve made it just right for you’re self that’s cool . Love the way you explain , you’re cute😋

[@LadyBugout]

Fair enough! I agree we all need to do what works for us. Thank you for being here☺️

[@steveshea6148]

Try a heated under- vest... it makes a difference worn next to a base layer for me in/resting in colder temperatures on a regular basis, aka most of the day. ActionHeat from canada makes 12v/7v system that can run off your vehicle when you're in it and off a 7v battery when you're out. They have us website. Originally really for old weather motorcyclists, its a great tool for the cold weather living toolbox especially those whose inside temperature or temp they live in throughout the day is below or well below 60F. It's great for when you're sitting or low activity as your body ramps down its heat production.

[@LadyBugout]

I’ll have to check it out!🤗

[@kathyhurrle2966]

People who criticize KZbinrs are just jealous of them. It’s as simple as that. Pay them no mind. Besides you can’t please everyone so do what’s best for you. I thank you for sharing your journey with us.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, Kathy!

[@2Tim1.6]

That's exactly right. Life is 10% what happens around you and 90% how you react to it. Good for you for knowing this.

[@LadyBugout]

Indeed!

[@lisafleming9603]

Dear Lady Bog Out, the naysayers are just envious of you and most likely don't take the time to recycle themselves, as I have found to be very time consuming living with someone who loves to cook more than walk. And admittingly, this is the first of your videos to bump my envy bone, so please please don't take it personally. People handle stress differently and they wouldn't be watching your videos if there wasn't something attracting them. Remember, you're the one who gets to drive away from unpleasant neighbors, eat anytime or what you want (not me). Well then handle the comments the same way and win all the way around, beautiful Lady Bug out.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. I appreciate it☺️

[@danielsayger4872]

As a Buddhist I also do morning chants/affirmations to set my daily intention. I greatly appreciate you showing each and every detail of your daily routine (I use a spray mixture of one tablespoon of Dawn in a quart of water to clean practically everything 😁). I am a single gay man and at 56 years I too have decided to live as you do. But in my case I will eventually be getting a Toyota Sienna and sharing it with my 90 pound French Shepard. He is my best friend and companion. Thanks again for your inspiration and luminous attitude.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, Daniel! That’s a great idea with the Dawn mixture. Hope to meet you on the road some day🤗💃🏻🙌🏼

[@alexanderweaver7066]

Dee, armchair "quarterbacks" not only criticize sports players but those in other endeavors. Pay no attention to them as they troll around the internet, You Tube, Facebook and other social media platforms. You have alot of wonderful people who subscribe to your channel because you provide entertainment and information we love. You have no agenda, only you, your beautiful Ladybug van. We appreciate what you give us. Keep up the great work and your channel will only grow bigger and better.

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that so much Alexander. Thank you ☺️

[@tracyd7432]

I feel bad that you are feeling the need to explain yourself. I'm sorry, some people can be jerks. People sharing their ideas is one thing, but those that admonish others doing what maybe they do not agree with should just keep it to themselves. Anyway, love your videos and your calm spirit AND that van of yours! Take care! 🥰

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you for the kind words☺️

[@funcheckout9701]

Hi Dee, thank you for all your videos and standing behind the 'movement'. Movement being ...independence and saving money normally wasted on bad rentals. May I add ...plz unless you have already...a hot water bottle....put this bottle in your shirt in the morning b4 u get out of bed. In your bed put an extra set of pjs that were warmed in the bed ....put these on...so u can climb back in bed while car in warming up. When car is warm its then easier to 'mentally function.

[@LadyBugout]

I use a hot water bottle all the time!!! You’l see it pop up on various videos. It has a little grey sweater and I love it!!!

[@solovantravel]

STILL one of my favorites. Good common sense and beautiful build. There is a small heater that you can use all night that runs on electric. I have a big van 159" and I do not have a diesel heater. I am simplistic.

[@LadyBugout]

Thanks for the tip!!! I’ll look for one☺️

[@alexanderweaver7066]

Oops! I have a wandering loose finger that prematurely ended my comment. I document my travels on Facebook only to let my friends and family know and see what I'm up to. Trolls don't bother to read my posts. I love your channel. So, keep up your excellent way of documenting your travels.

[@LadyBugout]

No worries! 🤗

[@rosalieogden479]

I wonder what kind of footprint those people that are calling you out for paper, plastics, and the such are leaving. I recycle as much as I can, but let's get real. We can't be completely free from waste. Living in a sticks and brick home means having so much around you that causes pollution, etc. Your footprint on the world is much smaller than average. Those making waves should take care of their own business.

[@LadyBugout]

Agreed🤗

[@h3bysuzanne184]

I love your video/post today! ❤❤❤ Getting your mindset ritual…Sooo important!! I love you darling 💕🌹🥰🙏

[@LadyBugout]

You're the best!🥰

[@georgeschlachter7281]

Hi Dee, I have a diesel heater, they work well, however they are very noisy. Tried 3 of them. I still use them as i am in Canada AB and with temperatures of 5deg F you need something. If you want to know more ill be glad to let you know everything i learnt on the heaters. I build all my own equipment thus I can help with install info etc. I believe you have found the "Key". The key is to remain resilient and resourceful. We can use any unforseen turn of events to our advantage, and turn a seemingly negative situation into a positive one. Life doesn't always go as planned, but with the right attitude and a bit of creativity, it can be an exciting journey that leads to success.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you George! I appreciate the information and will definitely keep you in mind if I ever do go that route. It is kind of you to comment here and be so positive and encouraging. It means a lot.☺️

[@csmith2535]

You are a nicer person than I, I wouldn't give a rats behind what anyone thinks of my "carbon footprint". For me, I don't see the appeal of van life unless I were traveling all the time. It seems uncomfortable and restrictive, of course just my opinion.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you for sharing your opinion. ☺️

[@BeautySolutions4u-]

I don't know why people feel the need to talk to you about your trash. You are already "saving the environment" more than most, even those that are commenting about it, probably, just by the way you eat and live. You cannot please everyone so just ignore those that always have something negative to say. You are doing amazing and are an inspiration to most of us.

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that. Thank you 😊

[@rogerwendorf158]

That is the best set of clothes to wear for the cold. The bibs and mitten I have found over 30 years of working construction were the best solution. You must have lived in the mid west. Along with that if I may add is rubber boots over your shoes, work the best for keeping your feet warm. You definitely got it together. Stay warm sweetie

[@LadyBugout]

Thanks for the rubber boot tip!!!💪🏼

[@lynnerowe2642]

Me again. Sorry. Did you build your cabinet or purchase it somewhere. I love it! I think you did a video on it but I can't find it. Thanks again

[@LadyBugout]

I bought it. Here’s that video kzbin.info/www/bejne/poDOZ5Sre6yrja8

[@samshepperrd]

Nice thing about not "gutting" a van is the plastic panels in most passenger vans provide a good bit of dead space between metal exterior wall and inside. I try to avoid single use plastics (packaging). Especially hard plastic. But sometimes it's practically impossible. Too bad. We used to do just fine with paper, cardboard and cellophane packaging (or no packaging) for everything.

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, I think you are right. That dead space helps. I know… packaging… some day!!!

[@corporate_target]

Can you share your (hopefully free) affirmation source? I have been doing nightly affirmations with my toddler, but, as I learned from you, some morning ones would be good too.

[@LadyBugout]

I will be creating one for next week if you want to use that😝