The Day I Quit Was The Day I Died To My Father

[@bigdogg1206]

The cost of your new life is your old life. Thats pretty deep. Thanks for sharing that.

[@Vanader]

Word. Thanks for watching

[@MrWiseinheart]

Same principle when you choose to follow Jesus. You gotta die to yourself and rebirth for Him.

[@mmtruslow]

8 years of public safety is plenty. You did your part.

[@Vanader]

thanks brother

[@mmtruslow]

Personally I think everyone should do two years of something to help run the country. Anything from public works, parks department, police, fire, military, emt, dispatch- whatever it takes to get everyone to see how hard it is to keep a civilization functioning.@@Vanader

[@MikeStevens]

@@mmtruslowI reckon if you built some student debt forgiveness into the deal, you'd get a lot of interest in that idea.

[@matthew2531]

​@Vanader that is absolutely true. I wonder if the technology skills you have gained could benefit firefighters

[@mickhardin15]

"Hard for somebody whose identity is wrapped up in what they do..." It's an amazing freedom to realize that you are a person first, not what you do. Not many can achieve this enlightened place.

[@eberrebeltran7318]

Thanks for sharing this moment of success! You have been so motivating and sincere in your journey ❤

[@Vanader]

Thank you so much!!

[@rrittenhouse]

DAMN that was powerful. I could listen to your voice all day. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@Vanader]

Thanks for listening my friend it means a lot

[@Hadasengel]

This was so inspiring. Thank you. You are amazing!

[@petercordingley927]

I recently turned 52, I currently live alone with no children and unhappy with how my life is going. I have been on a quest to reinvent myself with the skills I have gathered over my years of various jobs and I want to learn new skills. I have ideas of projects I want to pursue and I'm interested in your quest to reach out to similar people,

[@tkalward4196]

I am in utter shock at the gift you provided to me through your words. I am going to give this to my Son and Daughter, so many truths. I am in the process of developing a new product, your video(s), have totally taken me in a new, exciting direction. I am sure your words have inspired millions of people. They most definitely did me. Thank You.

[@josephgonzales5030]

This video went straight to the heart, Evan. Thank you so much for sharing. I have an upcoming date in mind for when I need to leave the day job. And when the time is right, I'll be joining the community you started. Until then, thanks for all the content.

[@deebo7276]

I was a bit preoccupied with a meeting coming up about my graduation thesis, and now I see this wholesome video from a wholesome dude (your domestic production video was recommended by the algorithm) which really puts the context of meaningfulness around what I'm doing and you've reframed that so nicely, and blew away my worries. I'm a bit speechless that I've managed to come across such a quality video at a such well timed moment. Thank you!

[@sasandabirian8768]

Youre a god sent man. I couldnt find the reason to get out of bed and go to my job. Which also im the owner of and building it for years. This helps alot. 😊 Wish you could talk more about the group.

[@Vanader]

you got it friend

[@Overthinkery]

Thank you for your transparency. Ive been working for 2 years to build my new vehicle. It doesn’t feel like I’m as far as I should be. Spend every second you can with your dad. I lost mine 3 years ago and still think about him constantly.

[@demogadget]

Thanks for this. Greetings from Holland.

[@rickfazzini22]

Thanks for sharing this, my son and I are about to start selling a product that we came up with and your story of courage helps me realize what I need to do.

[@Vanader]

I’m glad this video is making a difference. Thanks for watching

[@SpecialistCinema]

I was just thinking of my choice to move on. Thank you very much for reminding me of those soft skills. Glad to be be apart of this channel.

[@Vanader]

Thanks you again for watching my stuff! I see you popping up in the comments

[@SpecialistCinema]

​@Vanader Last year was rough. I'm trying to change my life. I'm glad I can support through views. 😊

[@MrFraneque]

So brave, so inspiring. I'm somehow in this point. Let's do it

[@jeffs.9299]

You did tight…. My story & i’m pushing 80…. Had the dream Job selling for IBM when Computers were a new thing …. But i was in Chicago after Army service & my wife & i longed for the California promise land of the late 60’s so i quit IBM for a temp job selling life insurance in San Diego my dad said “always playing” 50+ years & 3 successful Companies of my own latter now living with the same wife on the Beach in Rosarito mex just south of my 3 grandkids in San Diego.. deciding which new business to start…….it is great to be alive is it not?

[@laurencewainwright]

Glad YT recommended you. I don't know why I clicked, but this was powerful. I need to change, and your phrase "meaningful work with meaningful people" really expresses what I have always wanted but could never verbalise.

[@Vanader]

i appreciate you sharing that

[@danuwatana9664]

The most valuable 14 minutes. Thank you.

[@RockFan410]

my situation is so similar to yours it's scary... I recently had a conversation with my father talking about how lonely of a road it is to build a business. For me it's been a slow process. This video found me at a great time. thank you...

[@valleyfarmstead]

Just found your channel recently. Your quirky, funny, informative, but most of all genuine. I have a pet market product with huge potential so really enjoying your content and advice in your videos.

[@Vanader]

its excellent to have you here my friend. thank you for watching!! if i can ever help in any way please DM me i got you :)

[@alantripp6175]

Amen. As we grow there will be a time when we have to choose our own path, one that only we can see.

[@tclodfelter8789]

That's powerful!! I'm glad you found something for you and your family's future!!

[@mythriftedhomeandgarden830]

I teared up while listening to you because I can totally resonate. First I want to thank you for your service!. I am embarking on the same journey, but right now, it is a struggle because I can't seem to get it right. I already lost a lot of money with my Amazon FBA. I don't even have that breadth of knowledge and understanding like you do how to make my business work. I know what you mean about being lonely because I don't know anyone in my immediate circle who is doing the same. I am in a paid mentorship group, but it focuses on promoting the group rather than really getting the support for the clueless wannabe entrepreneur like me. I can't talk about it at work because it causes envy ( ask me how I know LOL), even if I am not making money. I think just the potential scares them! LOL. I am a medical professional, and I also have CFS, but by the grace of God, I can still maintain my full-time job by pacing, so I don't crash often. Thank you for the videos you create. I am getting invaluable lessons from them!

[@xSammyGx]

bro, this was so epic, thank you. the redwoods retreat will be a great success. keep going, stay on fire!

[@Vanader]

Can't wait! sometimes the thing that sounds the most fun is what really works. thanks for the love sammy

[@labradoodle28]

Thank you for sharing. I can relate so much with the event that you pointed out.

[@craigduddles5650]

Glad you chased your dreams. Look forward to learning from you.

[@HealthyMBS1]

Thank you for your honorable sacrafice and service to your community saving property and lives as a paramedic fireman. Good luck in your business

[@christophergrace1085]

This resonates so much with me. I've been working in EMS for about 20 years, and it's definitely rough. This is a career I loved and has afforded me many opportunities over the years. Unfortunately, I didn't think about what's next. I started in EMS young, I'm not even 40 yet, and I'm over 20 years in the same job. For the majority of my career, I worked for hospital based systems and, in turn, do not have a pension. I was also the young naive kid and didn't contribute to a 401k or similar. 3 years ago, I moved as far away from everything to start over. I am lucky that I now have access to a pension. 20 years in, I find myself asking if I have another 10, 15, 20 years left in me. I honestly don't know, but I do know I want to spend more time living. Idk if that is reducing my spending to avoid OT. Maybe retiring all together and using my pension to start up something for myself to build income streams. Sorry for the long comment. This has been something on my mind for a while now, and seeing this... well it just hit home for me. Great work and keep it going!!

[@bastje]

I am today literally on that part of my life where I want to start something myself. I feel it strongly. I am happy that I found your channel, and this video by the way.

[@j.t.5826]

Its pretty tough to leave a job like that. You have to be happy in what you do because we only have one life.

[@chickensync]

Bravo for sharing this emotional growth. I'm a new visitor and subscriber. I look forward to learning more about you & your content. Thank you

[@josephworwa8193]

I really appreciate how you use your actual numbers for the video.

[@stephenluttenberg6043]

Hey man I’ve got somewhat of similar story 10 years in youth ministry - quit 2021 where I had to make that hard choice between calling / job and my own business. Went full time operating our own business got debt free retired the wife from her job now we work three sometimes four days a week with a couple of employees living our best lives - very very lonely to share because nobody we know has done it or know how to relate with us

[@reypolice5231]

You answered a lot questions I never even knew consciously that I had. The whole thing about father son to man man journey unfortunately happened for me at 7 years old, and i was on my own. No help given but help always demand. One of many double standards. Thank you for your insight.

[@HYANGSD]

I stumbled onto your channel for business advice, but took away so much more. This video is a powerful gem that deserves way more visibility. Thank you.

[@itsbubbalips]

Amen ❤ I’m glad I found your videos

[@justtiredofallthebs]

You are a very likeable person. Keep on prospering, sir 🙂

[@eugeneleon9923]

I stumbled upon your channel. This conversation is/was thought provoking. Exploring more of your content. Thank you Sir.

[@NateReimers]

I just left my career fire job after 8 years a couple months ago. It's a tough decision for sure.

[@Vanader]

you have felt it too. see. i knew i wasnt alone

[@NateReimers]

Same feelings for sure. It was a job I loved and I owe a lot to the job, but it also had a lot of toxicity and negative sides to it. I poured a lot of blood, sweat, and tears into my career, but my family definitely took up the slack. I also spent 3 years building my part-time business to transition over. Thankful for where I'm at now also looking for some deeper meaning behind what I do now. I feel like when you actually get adequate sleep and have a chance to just put priorities where they need to go then you find other ways to give to others. @@Vanader

[@kylemathews9677]

Brave move and to each their own. Success is great but freedom is best. I hope you find a way to feel successful without giving 365 days a year to anything.

[@countpicula]

Thanks for sharing buddy. You earned the subscription.

[@olivermuriithi1287]

Thanks for this video, really inspiring. Please finish the manufacturing business series...

[@pulgarcito2947]

Even the dog is feeling it 😢❤ 😂 it really touch me sir thank you for sharing that

[@danishshaheen5973]

This was absolutely incredible 😍👏 thanks

[@JOESRQFLUSA]

THANK YOU FOR SHARING! 😊

[@ardi_arti_andi]

I am a fireman working on my fba hoping to get there one day

[@Vanader]

A fireman taught me FBA :)

[@ardi_arti_andi]

@@Vanader that's awesome, well I hope to one day get to that point

[@PresidentUSVI]

Wow, this is my life and what I have on my mind all of the time.

[@adamkonrad]

Pretty great. The best part is that I know it's true because I've experienced it.

[@claydavis8998]

At the point where you mentioned about you being forced to work both Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, I immediately thought of the countless similar threads in the subreddit r/antiwork. Did your dad experience these same struggles, policies and procedures in his 44 years as a fire fighter? How many school events, life events, ball games, parties or family events did he miss out on? Was it worth it to him? Did he take more pride in his job than being a father? Work schedules across wide variety of business sectors have changed to almost round the clock, very long hours or just terrible hours in general. Sounds like your Captain in that situation didn't have the guts to stand up for you. I am sure you made the right choice.

[@masonhoang5850]

First like and view anyways, keep up the hard work dude. I'm sorry that this happened but we will be here for you ya know.

[@Vanader]

Mason! thank you for watching my videos and throwin love at me. Means a ton!!!

[@Gmblrxfe]

This is a very good subject bro...I just started to notice what I was doing to my son. I'm glad you have the clarity in your life to capture these details in the life of a man and share it

[@Vanader]

i didnt even think about it from that perspective. wow. thank you for watching brother. especially for sharing that with me

[@JosephMenaMindset]

Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽 this video is raw and let’s us know there are real people turning their dreams into reality. Recently lost my business in 2023. I’m back on the workforce. I would much appreciate the opportunity to connect. What is the best way to get a consultation with you?

[@Vanader]

Dm me on instagram we can chat @vanadergrowth

[@keithsanford1374]

You just dropped so many jewels in this one video man.

[@Rayzorbladez]

I'd do pretty much anything to hear my Dad again

[@likevvii]

Thank you for sharing your story!

[@Vanader]

Thanks for watching!

[@dwightk.schruteiii8454]

10:13 at this point I realized what your dad was to you, signifying that old life, son to man, my mom is to me.

[@carloshenryjr]

truer words were never spoken

[@kingkryptoknight3653]

One of the biggest problems with old school thinking is their belief in only one way. It's so narrow-minded especially when they don't have much in the end

[@jujjuj7676]

Just because parents have false ideas of how life should work, by no means equate to you automaticly following the same false ideas as well. Live life your way cause they want be around to judge you in the end, only you will...they just need to get over that shit real fast. Id be more concerned about why they have that hangup in the first place and make sure you dont apply similar repetitive behavior to ur own kids. Let that toxic behavor stop with you...😊

[@jasonrobinson6728]

It’s not a false idea at all, our parents come from a time in which stability trumped family availability. I’m 40 with a wife and stepson, but I’ve also been at my job for 18 years working overtime. So with that said, I’m more inline with mindset of the older generation than my own. My wife is on the other side of it though.

[@jujjuj7676]

@@jasonrobinson6728 bud, you just made my point in your own statement. You said your older and your bias towards a belief similar to the older generation. Go back and reread the shit I typed and what I said. If you work on comprehension more you may get it this time around. Thanks for agreeing with me and proving my point. Lol ( Hence having false ideas how life should work)

[@jasonrobinson6728]

I comprehended very well. My point is just because disagree doesn’t make it a false idea or wrong. These principles that his dad and I live by are very backbone of civilization and what keeps the world going. Of course times change but working principles will remain steady!!!

[@1-God1-Truth1-Life1-Forever]

You made your Daddy sound useless with your "Why would I come to you...?". After dedicating a lifetime to support you, you made him sound like a heartless tyrant with your "You would just crush my dreams". That's not good for any man, especially a dad, son or husband. I have to question was it the fact that you quit or your sneakiness and mean words that broke the camel's back? I don't know your situation, so I'm not judging. You just don't seem like the only victim, here . Compassion matters with loved ones and strangers, alike and words matter. Blessings and Love. M glad your business is a success. Transition is possible with kindness.❤

[@jaysonwilliamson970]

This is how an adult handles it.

[@LeviWritesBooks]

Sign me up for this community. I'm well into this path of business now.

[@fictionaddiction4706]

Did you succeed or are you more tired? I also quit my job, And I hated it. Just feel frustrated because every thing I think of has been done before.

[@LeviWritesBooks]

Well done.

[@kelisurfs247]

I have a feeling that his captain told his dad about his quitting back when it happened.

[@ConfusionDistortion]

Evan: You can't eat likes and followers. Hannibal Lector: I could.

[@carnivoremike]

you are one inspiring mofo. much respect to you.

[@mebeasensei]

Iggy Pop told his Dad he was quitting college. Epic moment.

[@Vanader]

thats it! thats the kind of event im talking about. real shit

[@BybleBytes]

Great testimony! Firefighters run in when everybody is running out. You all deserve all the appreciation in this world. My channel is based on biblical content. Would it be possible to create an income based on your philosophy?

[@Vanader]

absolutely possible

[@SAVAGE_A7]

Pretty sure it was when he caught you dancing in drag thru the window

[@Jeffrie_Baer]

Still look like a fireman 😆🤣🤣🙏❤

[@NGOMindset]

You’re right. All my friends in real life aren’t entrepreneurs or even have a desire to invest. It’s hard to relate after a while. My personal community and inspiration is made of of KZbinrs and Tiktokers. Thank you for sharing! Makes me feel like I’m a part of it.

[@raidwerks]

❤

[@nneisler]

You quit the fire department but kept the mustache.

[@randyelrod8510]

@VanceE Someone doing exactly what you're doing And going through the same things

[@jaysonwilliamson970]

A selfish, cowardly decision. If you didn’t want your dad to talk you out of it, you should have told him shortly after you quit. Instead, you showed him disrespect and caused heartache and confusion (not to mention likely caused embarrassment) of making him stumble into what happened a whole two months later. Plus it’s an assumption that he “only knows one way”. He maybe only did things one way, but he likely knows many ways. Don’t listen to your fans, from whom you’re seeking justification. Your decision to quit was the right one. Your decision to not tell your father was very wrong.

[@slybeezy1]

Your what they call a rad guy🫵🏾🔥

[@Vanader]

appreciate the love sly

[@slybeezy1]

@@Vanader its nothing man thank you for dropping those gems