Vanessa Van Edwards on How to Become More Charismatic and the Body Language Cues You Need to Avoid

Vanessa Van Edwards on How to Become More Charismatic, the Precise Reasons Some TED Talks and Speeches Go Viral, and the Body Language Cues You Need to Avoid
Bestselling author Vanessa Van Edwards has studied thousands of hours of TED talks and shares what TED talk speakers whose talks go viral do versus what other non-viral TED talk speakers do. She also explains the key ingredients to being charismatic, and the top body language cues to avoid if you want to be effective.
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[@alexanderlyon]

Great interview. I came for Vanessa but I'm so thrilled to learn about Carey's channel.

[@matthewweimer5861]

This episode was awesome! As an ambivert I've struggle with picking up on the cues. Thanks Carey and Vanessa!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for watching! I'm glad you liked it and could relate =)

[@sylvialyles919]

What happened at the 12:20ish mark???? Your voice sped up and went silent??? I missed an important part of what you said!!! Awesome Ted talk so far!!!!

[@eloyzalukhu8712]

Thank you so much Vanessa. I learn a lot. Thanks Carey for your leadership podcast. So grateful to learn this much for free. So good. Warm regards from Jakarta, Indonesia.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for watching! I'm glad to know you learned something =)

[@karentaylorsmells]

So brilliant thank you both 😀

[@Aviao100]

This interview was really good, watched it till the end

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[@juanpablorios235]

So good 🙌🏻

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2 Chronicles 15 New International Version Asa’s Reform(A) 15 The Spirit of God came on(B) Azariah son of Oded. 2 He went out to meet Asa and said to him, “Listen to me, Asa and all Judah and Benjamin. The Lord is with you(C) when you are with him.(D) If you seek(E) him, he will be found by you, but if you forsake him, he will forsake you.(F) 3 For a long time Israel was without the true God, without a priest to teach(G) and without the law.(H) 4 But in their distress they turned to the Lord, the God of Israel, and sought him,(I) and he was found by them. 5 In those days it was not safe to travel about,(J) for all the inhabitants of the lands were in great turmoil. 6 One nation was being crushed by another and one city by another,(K) because God was troubling them with every kind of distress. 7 But as for you, be strong(L) and do not give up, for your work will be rewarded.”(M) 8 When Asa heard these words and the prophecy of Azariah son of[a] Oded the prophet, he took courage. He removed the detestable idols(N) from the whole land of Judah and Benjamin and from the towns he had captured(O) in the hills of Ephraim. He repaired the altar(P) of the Lord that was in front of the portico of the Lord’s temple. 9 Then he assembled all Judah and Benjamin and the people from Ephraim, Manasseh and Simeon who had settled among them, for large numbers(Q) had come over to him from Israel when they saw that the Lord his God was with him. 10 They assembled at Jerusalem in the third month(R) of the fifteenth year of Asa’s reign. 11 At that time they sacrificed to the Lord seven hundred head of cattle and seven thousand sheep and goats from the plunder(S) they had brought back. 12 They entered into a covenant(T) to seek the Lord,(U) the God of their ancestors, with all their heart and soul. 13 All who would not seek the Lord, the God of Israel, were to be put to death,(V) whether small or great, man or woman. 14 They took an oath to the Lord with loud acclamation, with shouting and with trumpets and horns. 15 All Judah rejoiced about the oath because they had sworn it wholeheartedly. They sought God(W) eagerly, and he was found by them. So the Lord gave them rest(X) on every side. 16 King Asa also deposed his grandmother Maakah(Y) from her position as queen mother,(Z) because she had made a repulsive image for the worship of Asherah.(AA) Asa cut it down, broke it up and burned it in the Kidron Valley.(AB) 17 Although he did not remove the high places from Israel, Asa’s heart was fully committed to the Lord all his life. 18 He brought into the temple of God the silver and gold and the articles that he and his father had dedicated.(AC) 19 There was no more war until the thirty-fifth year of Asa’s reign.

[@TempleofChristMinistries]

This is why this world is deceived because you judge someone by their external expressions and fail to see the truth, as it is written, Christ knew the hearts and minds of men, he did not jude by outward appearance, if someone judges you by your facial expression and thinks there is something wrong then they are deceived and in this, someone can manipulate you very easily because they simply say and do the right things, this is how predators deceive their prey, because they appear to be something they are not, because you have judged by outward appearance, yet if you judge by in inward appearance then you would see the Predator for what they really are a deceiver, there was a sexual predator paedophile who had molested many children in in his family and relations and one thing he said is that it was easy to deceive them, this is why those who judge by the power of the spirit make the right judgement and can see through the falsehood knowing that this person cannot be trusted knowing they are trying to deceive you, when this woman speaks she is a false person because she is trying to be something that she is not, she appears to me to be emotionally unstable Within, if you make a speech and find that you are exhausted then there is something wrong, because you are labouring at something when you should be free from this, if you simply bring forth what is within in a peaceful relaxed state not something which is hard labour. You will find that you will not be exhausted and can speak for hours, this is the problem with those who simply studies the heart they failed to see the heart,