I love, love, loved this episode. I love how she talked about being a "recovering awkward" person. It made be laugh out loud and feel a sense of relief at the same time. It's good to know that the awkwardness will pass with practice and work. Thank you Lewis, you've really made a difference in my life and in turn my families' life.
@YET646 жыл бұрын
Fastlife me too
@YET646 жыл бұрын
Captivating face like it
@n3bie6 жыл бұрын
for real tho, I think this is my favorite interview of all time. pretty much ever
@popipagkalou47553 жыл бұрын
Is there the possibility to exist friendship between a man and a woman without sex?!
@popipagkalou47553 жыл бұрын
Which is the line between flerting and aiming sex interraction?
@seyfun14526 жыл бұрын
Summary: 1) Popularity isn't created by attractiveness, but by how many people you like- popular people had the longest lists of how many people they like in which activated a science principle "we like people who like us". 2) Ambivalence is the killer of connection and your health, career and happiness suffer. Ambivalent people are more toxic than toxic people. 3) Don't try to pretend you're an extrovert, don't fake it until you make it - it creates hesitancy in your voice, inconsistent behavior and a terrible impression in which the other person thinks you're fake. 4) Every interaction is an experiment. When you take this approach, you'll be calmer and braver. 5) The best approach - signal "friend, not foe" with showing your hands with purposeful hand gestures, creating eye contact, and sparks questions. The best opener - you want to signal this interaction is going to be different. You set up someone's response based on the trigger you ask. Don't say "what do you do?", it signals autopilot, I don't want to invest too much in this, and I judge you on your career. Produce dopamine, the pleasure hormone, with priming - the words you use create emotions in other people. So use positive words, "I can't wait to see you on Friday", "we're going to have so much fun". Then you signal their brain to look for hits, not misses. Don't cue the person to feel depressed, anxious, sad. Conversation sparkers: "What are your personal passions?", "Do you plan a vacation?", "Wasn't this presentation great?". You don't want to talk about surface things and boring questions, but don't go to personal topics either when you barely know each other. 6) When we feel fear and anxiety, we produce a fear chemical in the people around us, and they catch and mirror it. Your emotions are contagious. Infect excitement, not anxiety. 7) Make a note of every interaction you had through the day. Average interactions create average results. 8) If you haven't seen a friend in 8 years, how would you greet them? Treat people like old friends- be verbally, physically excited. 9) Think: what emotion do I wanna infect today? Is it excitement, gratitude, calm, confidence, assertiveness? It doesn't mean you can't have a bad day or you can't feel down. Just be honest about it, apologize to the people around, and don't think about it too much. Don't hide in your house, get out, and let others infect you too. 10) Serotonin is a chemical that make us calm. High neurotics, they don't produce as much as serotonin and not as fast. And sentences like "it's all going to be fine", "there's nothing to worry about", "calm down" just stress them more. You can take care of the issue itself on your own with practical, doable solutions immediately to really take off the rock from their chest. 11) There are 6 resources to humans- status, money, love, information, goods, services. We need all of them but we have a primary one, usually it's the one we didn't get in childhood. You have to be able to ask for the main resource and recognize it from others through their complaints. 12) You can optimize parts of your personality but 35%-55% is genetic while the rest is shaped in early childhood. So don't try to change people or make them better. Just turn fights into discussions: talk about how you're wired, so you don't try to change the other person, but simply ask for your resource. For example, high openness people can say to their romantic partner "are you up to try this new restaurant or should I call my friend?". 13) The big five traits theory- openess, conscientiousness, extraversion, neuroticism, agreeableness. It's the only personality assessment which is scientifically based. Everyone has them, it's a spectrum of high, low, or moderate. Figure out what are your trigger points and have another person take care of it so you stay calm. 14) Conscientiousness difference creates the most relationship problems. 15) Happiness: the small and daily things make you happy- not big, euphoric experiences that happen once in a while. Also, it comes from optimization of your natural personality. This feeling of control, capability and optimization creates happiness. 16) We're biased to think negatively and expect the worse. We can retrain the brain and flip it to a not necessarily positive state but neutral state. 17) A lot of pain, suffering and stress in dating comes from not asking important questions- and going after lust. Ask questions about their values, routines, preferences, religion, future goals, early on so it won't get discovered on the first fight! Avoid giving in to chemical reactions that have no real basis. 18) It's not what you say but how you say it: your tone, cadence and pitch consist of your vocal power. Keep your voice in the lowest range possible. 19) Answer the phone in the right way: speak from the outbreath, and be expressive as they are, to show you're on the same emotional page. 20) Amateur lie detectors do worse than people who don't know anything about lying. Look for leaks in incongruencies, read microexpressions and listen to your first intuition. 21) Couples that show contempt will get divorced in the next 30 years. One sided lip raise shows contempt. 22) Liars look you in the eyes more to see if you believe them. Shifty eyes show nervousness, not necessarily lying. 23) Phone has the most amount of lies. To decrease it, say it "I'm going to be taking notes and send you the full summary afterwards. Please review them and check if we got everything right". 24) In negotiation, make sure you have the downward inflection in your voice and have authorative tone. 25) Prior a meeting, practice saying the hardest things to another human, not mirror. 26) 3 different kinds of proofs: social, testimonals, media.
@seyfun14526 жыл бұрын
Lewis Howes Thank you for being an amazing host and interviewing gorgeous Vanessa! The school of greatness is such a great way to learn what truly matters in life :) Wish you two all the best, thank you for inspiring me!
@Perceptionsz6 жыл бұрын
oh my God. thanks
@WE23anime5 жыл бұрын
@@seyfun1452 ....i take it that you are a super high conscientious type....thanks for the breakdown
@seyfun14525 жыл бұрын
@@WE23anime absolutely right!!
@bbexy4 жыл бұрын
@@seyfun1452 thank you!
@lauraashley14 жыл бұрын
I watched this interview twice it was so good! This girl is incredibly smart, resilient, and confident. I actually enjoyed observing her so much! She is such a positive role model for other girls and people in general. Such good points she makes. Was so glad to have found this. Absolutely loved the way you both interacted together as well. Also love how confident Lewis is. I never realised how hot he was before I watched the way he acts in this video.
@emilyworkman7 жыл бұрын
I love this girl. She's so honest in her interactions.
@georgekurgansky59862 жыл бұрын
Me too lol.
@rajeshj83832 жыл бұрын
Is she ? I mean I like her too but I feel like she knows exactly what she must say and exactly what she shouldn't. She has mastered the art of getting into a frame of mind before entering a conversation, so the right things come out. I really like the analysis of this right frame of mind. I'd like to talk to her when she's being normal.
@adamt9069 Жыл бұрын
@@rajeshj8383 so true. I agree. But her content seems non manipulative too so she is probably a pretty good person without using her learned skills.
@goldenparachute392 Жыл бұрын
@@rajeshj8383 that makes her all the better. I can’t even count all the times Lewis interrupted and interjected and that could have easily made her lose her train of thought. But it didn’t, she still managed to bring the conversation back to the point of what she was talking about.
@LizzoBlizzo2 жыл бұрын
The energetic flow is so organic with these two. I love it, feel like I’m hanging w friends with wonderful conversation. 🧠 ❤️ ⚡️✨
@lesleybrady3948 Жыл бұрын
I thought she was friendly flirting at some points 😂😂😂.. but it was respectful whatever it was 😂 Xx
@goldenparachute392 Жыл бұрын
I thought Lewis interrupted her sooooo much. She’s so goood! It didn’t even phase her and she would stay on course.
@changethematrix2 жыл бұрын
I love how you talked about being friends with everyone in high school. That was me. I dressed in a way that I could meld in with any group. On my 18th birthday I stressed out because I had a few friends in each group and back then, the groups did not like each other. My mom said, "They are your friends, so they will have something in common." For 1989, it was the most bizarre party. Jock guy talking to nerdy girl. Headbanger talking to cheer leader. Goth talking to prep boy. Like I wish I had taken video of my 18th birthday party. I could have made it into a weird movie.
@andin916 Жыл бұрын
Same 😂 always a random mix with me
@cynthiaevelynsolis3461 Жыл бұрын
Are u a Libra by chance ? Lol 😂
@sonnyecho9195 Жыл бұрын
Awesome you were and are a bridge builder how very cool and super powery is that!?!? That is a great story when you can appreciate the beauty in each and not be limited to a particular clique, I just think that’s great.
@TheKingWasi6 жыл бұрын
Love how she explained how to be a better partner in a relationship by understanding if they're more or less neurotic and how to reassure them with what they need! Thank you, Lewis!!!
@multimillionaire27447 жыл бұрын
Her smile is stunning
@adriesagoodman55237 жыл бұрын
I saw you at Chalene's marketing impact a couple years ago and found your story so inspiring and memorable. So much has changed for me since then, becoming a mother & wife, LIFE CHANGING. I listen to your podcasts as I drive, run, lift, any time I can and the information and inspiration you spread helps me become a better mom, wife, and overall as a better person! I appreciate the amazing people you bring onto your podcast you attract such positivity and I just want you to know how much I look forward to learning from your podcasts whether it's just five minutes or an hour. THANK YOU!! Keep spreading knowledge, positivity, and kindness!!
@ElisaPopescu7 жыл бұрын
The School Of Greatness is really providing the type of education a lot of us wished they`ve had in the traditional educational system. It`s such a pleasure to watch you manifesting this vision that you had with SOG, Lewis. Love your interviews!
@persiah77795 жыл бұрын
I love their chemistry. This is one of the first interviews where I felt they acted like it was just the two of them talking.
@TheTkeyX7 жыл бұрын
This was one of the most awesomeeeeee interviews I have ever seen :))))) love you both..you're such a great people:) much love. Thanks a million:)
@DeePhilling5 жыл бұрын
Wow! How can you not love her?? Just a lot of energy genuine!
@sherrykao9785 жыл бұрын
I so agree with her opinion on ambivalent people ! They really drain your energy.
@lodz31897 жыл бұрын
I love love love this women! Religiously watching your podcasts every morning Lewis, so good!
@harrymatadeen7 жыл бұрын
wow! didnt expect this. she has a lively personality, plus good knowledge. :)
@RezaMolavi7 жыл бұрын
Harry, if you get a chance to see her in person, you see how fantastic she is in person.
@harrymatadeen7 жыл бұрын
Reza Molavi i will endevour to. thank you my friend!
@yotonyishere7 жыл бұрын
not even 30 minutes and I'm already a big fan of Vanessa!! her body language & face expressions are the cutest things ever :D ....ps I'm def getting her book (handsdown)
@TanyaBouzaglo7 жыл бұрын
I was so nervous to meet you Lewis when we were at the Summit Of Greatness in Ohio. You made me feel so comfortable. You are very present in the moment and that immediately put me at ease with you. You really are a fantastic human being creating amazing connections.
@TanyaBouzaglo7 жыл бұрын
I would like too Lewis. You made quite an impression on all of us with your first one.
@Here_Today_7 жыл бұрын
every new interview manages to be a favorite. I don't know how you do it, but keep doing it!
@amandahodgson20807 жыл бұрын
this episode was incredible. Vanessa has info that will help so many! buying her book to read on an upcoming long flight. No where near a failure! No way, no how. Thank you L and Vanessa
@Jo716037 жыл бұрын
Hi Amanda!
@melissababaei4043 жыл бұрын
I LOVEEEEEE her!!! I can't believe she said she thinks she's awkward, like in what world?! lol...her personality is one of a kind, draws you in and makes you smile!
@ShelleyM0073 жыл бұрын
Two of the loveliest people talking together-what a pleasure!
@bi2u47877 жыл бұрын
Getting this book asap. Great interview and she is beautiful!!
@michaelglynn58564 жыл бұрын
Vishal I agree that she is hot as heck and leaked out tons of blazing hotvinformation
@sabinazakaradze61587 жыл бұрын
I am really impressed by everything Vanessa said and want to thank you Lewis for giving me an opportunity to get answers for so many questions that bugged me for so long. You guys are a true inspiration, thank you for what you do.
@freesatire4 жыл бұрын
Vanessa deserves so much credit and love from her fans!
@drkarenbukharibukhari9931 Жыл бұрын
thanks dr vanessa and the show presenter to praising me
@irmabronder3 жыл бұрын
Very interesting. And Vanessa's voice is a pleasure to listen to. Beautiful Vanessa. Much love. xx
@thereolister4 жыл бұрын
I feel social media is a great tool to get you where you need to be and have so much to talk about that the person can't turn you away. I'm understanding now you have to put yourself into the conversation otherwise you will be left out. I like the part where she said that if you show up to an event and you feel really nervous that others will feel it and without a doubt you will make leave with getting so much out of it that you have no choice but to do something with it.
@bobbyn287 жыл бұрын
wow its been forever since I've watched but glad to se there's an intro Lewis. I'd say work on/ test it more but I like the idea. Biggest takeaways : 1. vulnerability is sexy 2. own your weirdness 3. your confidence is contagious
@westdiddy48257 жыл бұрын
I read her first book and it's helped so much! This video just makes me like her more and Lewis you are always a great host! Great job to you both!
@attilatech7 жыл бұрын
Vanessa Van Edwards and Lewis Howes, you have done a great job with this podcast! You have put some very complicated and scientific information in terms that everyone can understand. I’m teaching Human Relations and communications and I love this idea about excitement or fear transferred from person to person as a chemical and hormonal marker. Wow! If you can influence your own attitude and state of mind, you can influence other people just my being near them without saying a word. Vanessa, you are going to sell lots of books. I love your stories and examples. Lewis, you have done an amazing job with the podcast and the videos. Thanks for the inspiration!!! Attila
@attilatech7 жыл бұрын
I would love to review or give feedback, but when I clicked on the link nothing happened. Would you provide a link maybe through your website? Anyhow, your content is amazing! Thank you for inspiring millions of people!
@lana4442 Жыл бұрын
This woman is incredible, so authentic and smart! I’ve ordered two of her books just now. So excited to read them!
@lewishowes Жыл бұрын
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@MajkCajk7 жыл бұрын
wow. When im going thru my notes on this podcast i have NEVER had so much of notes as i have now :D Amazing podcast, Vanessa is absolutely wonderful women. I have to read that book :D Thanks Lewis! :)
@Lifelonglearner543212 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite conversations. She's amazing and spot on.
@denakelley43632 жыл бұрын
I listened to this podcast on Spotify, and it was so interesting I'm re-watching on YT. I plan on buying both her books. Terrific podcast!
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much❤️
@veteranmindset79447 жыл бұрын
Wonderful interview. I can't wait to read Vanessa's book and keep moving forward with my passions! Keep it up team!
@melikhovhannisyan87392 жыл бұрын
This is my second interview with Vanessa first I came across at Impact Theory which I loved 🥰 was awesome interview and now with Lewis I do really love this girl she is so positive wickedly smart and very honest thanks to Lewis also for his work and effort also very positive and nice guy . Kepp up the great work
@ScienceOfPeople2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoy it! 😊
@tonyc63326 жыл бұрын
I am 4 chapters into CAPTIVATE and I am loving it. It is a great book and a very fun read. Well done Vanessa!
@SaraRahimi7 жыл бұрын
Own your weirdness! Love it.That was great Lewis. Thank you and a big hug to both of you!
@michazaken53232 жыл бұрын
That’s a strong soulmate connection right here!!! The chemistry between the two of you is undeniable but also the brave, effortless friendship. You can just tell it’s soulmates:)))
@vkane0117 жыл бұрын
New 'all time favorite' episode, Vanessa Van Edwards is such an incredible human, driven by meaningful work and consistently delivering in an authentic way! Just like the one and only Lewis Howes👌Thank you both for all that you do, your work has changed my life and I'm so, sO grateful for that! 🤗🙏
@MsMonikakovacs7 жыл бұрын
Loved her, great companion on my AM walk :)
@SpoonOfConsciousness7 жыл бұрын
what a great way to listen I'll have to try it
@savinomarketing7 жыл бұрын
I've been doing something since February called the Chaos Challenge but I don't want to spoil what it is because one of my goals is to meet Vanessa and have her be the daily participant. It has truly changed my life.
@if73632 ай бұрын
Absolutely best interview ever. Best interview of Lewis. And one of best Vanessa's interviews.
@lewishowes2 ай бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for listening.
@Mlnyc1003 жыл бұрын
People always remember how you made them feel. Now that's the truth 💖
@elizabethespinoza47794 жыл бұрын
I could listen to these two forever
@amandamcdowell7 жыл бұрын
Loved this podcast! Many brilliant gold nuggets here. Just bought your book Vanessa. Looking forward to learning more from you!
@d.collins11344 жыл бұрын
Lewis, fantastic interview. Vanessa is one of my favorites. Her research and insight on human interaction is fascinating. And love her book, Captivate, reading it now. You have some of the most interesting and informative guests. Thank you sir.,well done again.
@lewishowes4 жыл бұрын
Vanessa is awesome! Thanks for watching.
@gracecook33923 жыл бұрын
3 years late in the comments section, but even as a woman I smile at pretty much everyone. That or I do the nod even if I feel intimidated. My personal reason for that is that someone is much less likely to come at you if they see you see them and aknowlege them. People are much less likely to attack someone who faces forward confidently. The sharper your claws the less you need to use them.
@warfreak387 жыл бұрын
I love watching her and listening to her speak. Very smart woman. There's a lot of aha moments every time I watch her.
@Lafleursoleil9 ай бұрын
Vanessa Van Edwards is such a beautiful and inspiring person. I love this so much!
@lewishowes9 ай бұрын
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@ScienceOfPeople7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ❤
@stephanvaleros99487 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the fun episode! It's inspired me to "infect" everyone around me with excitement more intentionally (and I'm already seeing improvements in my relationships!!) So glad I paused the podcast app to watch this video because it was fun to follow along with the body language cues, haha. Keep up the greatness, you two!
@miamisammy4020 Жыл бұрын
Omg! She’s so cute! I love her! You always have great guests, Lewis! You always deliver excellence!
@VoiceoverMomentum3 жыл бұрын
I’ve got to stop watching this podcast ...I buy all the books! Including THIS one. AMAZING!
@lewishowes3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you! 🙏
@raffacasting7 жыл бұрын
The ambivalence was the best insight i got from it. Was exactly what killed my last relationship.
@lissitoj34284 жыл бұрын
Wow! Whoever said Smiling was contagious was absolutely right on point. Thanks for transmitting your positive vibes and points. XOXO 💯💓😁😁😁🙌🙌🙌👑👑👼👸
@kristenwonder62557 жыл бұрын
Love this!! Took 2 days for me to finish but I absolutely love listening to both of you separately so I LOVED listening to you two together. I sent the interview to all my friends :)
@A-Pro1007 жыл бұрын
Incredible video! I think I share some character traits of Vanessa. I really loved the whole PQ/EQ, optimization and capability talk. I love topics on the science of the brain and people!
@shivanksays6 жыл бұрын
This girl is awesome.
@basantabc7536 Жыл бұрын
She's fascinating and incredibly insightful. Loved the interview.❤❤❤❤
@lewishowes Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@AnaKatarinaPessoa7 жыл бұрын
Great interview! I love to hear Vanessa, her observations and advice are so good. She is a real expert in body language and in the science of people, in general. Congratulations for this episode, Lewis.
@donnaquinlan65302 жыл бұрын
Favorite guest so far I needed this that you Lewis
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
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@kurtsmock22467 жыл бұрын
Vanessa has the coolest communication style. Her cadence and tone is so special! =)
@creativeraven22226 жыл бұрын
Plants evolved before us and they communicate chemically too. Makes sense for us to respond to each other this way. Language is relatively new.
@staceyb57042 жыл бұрын
Great energy in this episode! I was positively surprised by how both of you opened up and showed very personal stories. Thank you
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome 🧡
@cherylcallahan54023 жыл бұрын
Lewis Howes W/Vanessa Van Edward's appreciate your commentary Listening from Mass USA TYVM 💙 Vanessa
@diana06202 жыл бұрын
❤ Excellent. Something that never gets discussed with a men and women's insecurities
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@marytavares86896 жыл бұрын
I had Vanessa’s book on my Audible wish list, and scrolled back to this interview to decide if it was the best choice of book for this month....Yes. I’m a group fitness instructor and have an endless storehouse of energy and motivation to workout. I often think about how I intend for people to catch that from me (like it’s a contagious thing) but didn’t know if that idea had any validity. I love how she talked about that concept and how it’s scientifically proven. 🙏🏼
@harevir6 жыл бұрын
Control, capability and optimization are the key to be happy. Loved that part, plus the tetris effect.
@muddyshoes45172 жыл бұрын
Yesssss!!!! 37:48 "I love big ideas, but I know a an athlete that you have to execute on a daily basis to make them happen"
@travislloydonline7 жыл бұрын
This was a great conversation to listen to while working on a project proposal!
@paulinemukundi73182 жыл бұрын
I have just discovered Venessa but i already like her!
@theelmz59236 жыл бұрын
Lewis, I absolutely loved this interview... Truly powerful, inspirational and reassuringly comforting. Vanessa's awkwardness is her superpower! Truly a beautiful Soul.
@Dani-uu9mn7 жыл бұрын
I loved this episode! It was fascinating start to finish because it not only teaches about connecting better with other people but also taught me a ton about myself. I'm totally a "recovering awkward" person. Lol Keep up the great content Lewis! 😁
@lillybizzo3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this great interview!! Vanessa has been one of feel people that helped change my way of seing and interact with life. I watched her course on The Great Course Plus and I felt in Love with what I learned from her. Even know english is not my first language, Im a brazilian and my primary language is portugues, it's still clean enough to understand everything!! May God Bless all!!
@kayh543 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤ Thanks to both of you for all your Greatness! ❤❤❤
@lewishowes Жыл бұрын
You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡
@hinatalieclaire6 жыл бұрын
Amazing interview. I need to watch it again. Thanks!
@aussieruth30895 жыл бұрын
The chemistry between these two is electric.
@nazaninsabzpouri36772 жыл бұрын
Love this conversation and graceful. But as a non-English speaker, can u put subtitles? Thanks Naz 😊
@SamA-vy6lq6 жыл бұрын
She is my spirit animal!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@bbexy4 жыл бұрын
The 😍 TWO OF YOU 😍 would make a great couple 💖. I know you're married Vanessa... and Lewis, you're in a relationship, but there's definitely some magical attraction going on here. ADORABLE!!!! I just discovered each of you tonight. Your smiles are INFECTIOUS, you're both GORGEOUS, INTERESTING and INSPIRING. Thanks for sharing your past struggles and vulnerabilities and for such an informative video!!!
@marama49cabrera574 жыл бұрын
Yes.🙏🏻
@joincoffee93833 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one sense his tiredness and rushing at the end of the interview? He even blocked his face using the book. And that caused her fawning with huge smile and trying to catch his eyes while he was dodging her eye contact. I don’t know. Vanissa is a kind, genuine sweetheart. I feel bad and sorry for her for the ending part. She deserves an apology, at least in my book. Otherwise it’s a great interview.
@KeepPrayingCA7 жыл бұрын
i love you! you are so cool, humble, real, great interviewer you know when to shut up lol and also when to ask more questions. even when you have people that don't really answer your questions and keep going on and on you know how to still try to stay on point. but love how you have all these people i have been finding "naturally". its such a small world but now really. anyways you ROCK
@donnaquinlan65302 жыл бұрын
I’m going in again for a listen such a fun visit/talk
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
👍
@RachelGarwood7 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed watching this interview and learnt about some interesting concepts. Thank you Vanessa and Lewis for sharing such empowering and transformational content.
@louisagraham89573 жыл бұрын
Loved this so enlightening
@lewishowes3 жыл бұрын
👍
@adamforrest87315 жыл бұрын
SHES REAL, AND AMAZING
@Adry40435 жыл бұрын
Vanessa is amazing. Thank you both for this extremely helpful and intelligent conversation.
@firstlast2034 Жыл бұрын
Lots of information for success!!
@lewishowes Жыл бұрын
🙌
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
❤
@SonyaLooney16 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorite books I read this year! I loved that she read her own audiobook. So much value!!
@MysticButterfly7 жыл бұрын
Loved this interview Lewis! What an amazing person Vanessa is 😊 Thank you for the great tips. Another fantastic video!
@amberscottcmt7400 Жыл бұрын
One of your best episodes to date!!
@lewishowes Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! 🧡 Any chance you can pre-order a copy also? It would mean a lot to me if so! Here is the link: lewishowes.com/gmytcc
@kaledoniajdubrey92396 жыл бұрын
Just went to Amazon to purchase her book after listening to this podcast. Thank you!
@doomeddodo3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I herd this about high neurotic people because I always worry and I thought that it can't be normal.
@jermaineedwards71577 жыл бұрын
Love the insights Vanessa. Thanks Lewis. great content as always inspiring me to consider what my PQ is and infecting others with the right emotion :)
@jermaineedwards71577 жыл бұрын
Happy to :)
@sands77793 жыл бұрын
uplifting interview - loved Vanessa's explanation of neuroticism - length of time to self calm - "when people tell me it will be fine it makes me more nervous" 😀 I like the idea of working with the way you and people are wired - negotiating with it
@josecosta90583 жыл бұрын
You both makes the interview very excited!
@lewishowes3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 😃
@HonzaRajnyy7 жыл бұрын
So many notes from this one single podcast. Thank you both for this awesome conversation. Started as a form of procrastination (not gonna lie, right? ) and ended up as one of the most valuable things in a long time. Cheers from the Czech republic.
@luissarti42276 жыл бұрын
One of the top episodes. Thank you both for sharing your gifts! Don’t worry so much about the book. It’s going to do great. I’m fact, getting a copy of both your books. Again. Gracias!
@Katyayanibetha5 жыл бұрын
Love this. Grateful for this brilliance to light my way.
@queenfeminine86846 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU Vanessa and Lewis, I am appreciating this video and hopefully can use it in my daily life..thanks for the inspiration!