I got rejected from NYU for my PhD degree (p.s sorry for the tears !)

[@drveekativhu]

hey everyone! thank you for your support! love you always!- I'm really sorry for the strange noises randomly throughout the video; I don't know what they are and cannot hear them in editing only after I upload : sorry if it's loud!! xxxx

[@studylife3813]

Vee check out the youtuber called servants of Christ

[@nope3949]

Hey, love, I also got rejected from NYU a few days ago. I was crushed. I didn't know what to do, and I still didn’t know what I was supposed to do, but I’m figuring it out. We are here to support each other!

[@darkacademiaaudiobooks]

Would you consider going back to Oxford for a PhD ?

[@樹宏-m9o]

@@darkacademiaaudiobooks tht's been on my mind too

[@Olivia_Rose_1308]

You’ve graduated from Oxford and Harvard - both unbelievable achievements! You are an inspiration to so many and whilst it’s absolutely gutting now, rejection makes us all the more resilient. It does not define our self-worth and you have achieved so much already that with or without NYU you have such a bright future. Keep being your brilliant, determined self - NYU do not know who they are missing! 💖

[@ana-pq3cs]

Rejection is redirection Vee whether it’s for a degree, a relationship or an opportunity. You will have something better and meant for you coming your way. I used to cry when I was rejected by schools, employers, in love and by friends, but now I realize that my life has still been amazing without all those things and people that I chased but rejected me… I’ve got on to get better schools, jobs and met amazing people in my life that saw the potential in me. It’s their loss. Cry it out for awhile and use it as fuel and motivation to work on your next plan! 💪 I was rejected by my crush recently and I was sad, but I know that I haven’t met even half of all the people that I will love and that will love back in this life. It’s extremely hard to not let it affect your self-worth, but I remember that not everything worked out as I wanted to be in the past and I still had an incredible and fulfilled life. In a way, it always works out in the end and always for the better. ❤️❤️❤️

[@schoolinwithsig5438]

I agree xxx

[@khadijafayyaz6184]

What a beautiful and motivational comment!! Thank you

[@樹宏-m9o]

Hey I just want to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for leaving such a motivational comment, you made my day

[@lulu_fiona2522]

It SUCKS that NYU rejected someone so inspirational, passionate, and an incredible person like u Vee. I know u probably don’t need me to say it, but. Stay strong, u’ve got this.

[@sofia3193]

Oh Vee I’m so sorry! I know what it feels to be rejected from your dream school/ program but don’t worry, it will get better! NYU is not the only school in the world and there are lots of unis that would love to have you as their students! You have already achieved so much, you should be super proud of you! You inspired me so much, as well as lots of people and this shows how successful you are! 🥰

[@drveekativhu]

thank you so much this is so sweet!! - and of course ! there are so many awesome schools and I can't wait to explore them ! thank you xxx

[@TheFlowerGirl77]

Hi Vee: Before I go into super support mode, I am first going to come at you as an American student who has been there and who can give some advice you may not know. 1. Every doctoral program can only taken a very limited number of students. This is because these doctoral programs are fully funded and that funding almost always comes from the supervisory team in your field. Unfortunately that also means that domestic students are often preferred because there isn’t the added cost of applying for and waiting on a visa for an international student. Many programs will still take on international students but, again, it REALLY is ultra competitive for a very, very narrow number of slots. Example: My children’s father had wanted to do a doctorate in the states and applied in New York (mainly because there was a girl there he had been in love with { 😉}, but they didn’t take him because they had no extra funding for his role. He had also applied to a program in another state and that lab, at the time, had JUST been given funding for a new research protocol and had a role he could fill. He started his Ph.D. there BUT halfway through, his P.I. (Principle Investigator) was recruited by another organisation and decided to disband his lab in order to take this new position in another state. Which means ALL of the doctoral students had to find new labs to finish their doctorates in because the university couldn’t keep them on without funding. Again, they ALL had the necessary credentials for their research focus but without funding, it just wasn’t possible. He then wrote to labs working on similar research in another country and there were TWO labs who were waiting on funding for new projects that he would fit into perfectly. As a result they BOTH decided that whoever received the funding would take him on. So, he didn’t get a PhD from New York or from another US state, but got a DPhil from Oxford instead - NOT because he wasn’t competitive enough for any of them, but because of funding. 2. Taking the above example. Also know that MANY doctoral programs can and many will direct you to programs which may still have funding to take you on. This is often not known to potential students but it happens a lot. So, if this department couldn’t take you on, perhaps they know a department (even still within NYU or perhaps another NYC uni) that can take you on. 3. Which brings me to #3 - Almost ALL doctoral programs will offer you feedback on your application, including factors on their side that may have factored in. It is worth asking for that feedback now, before your application is filed away. Not only is this a massive help but you can ask to have it reconsidered if you can provide any further support to the application. This sometimes happens as well as the difference between your position in September and that in March may have greatly changed. For instance, in September, you hadn’t yet given your talk at Harvard etc. 4. Even if the feedback can’t be worked to benefit the application as it is now, speaking to the school does help. Try to speak DIRECTLY to the person who would have been your doctoral supervisor. Don’t speak to some namelsss, faceless, admissions person. Speak to the person you wanted to work with. Sometimes the admissions decisions are made by people unrelated to the individual you would be working with most and by hearing your voice directly a role may end up being made possible anyway. This happened to me when I went to apply for a job at a university. There was a general HR department that had no understanding of the field I was applying to but I happened to have the email address of the director of the program. I wrote to the director explaining why I felt I could benefit his study and the next week I had a job. 5. Even if none of this helps, it is worth the fight and you will definitely gain feedback to take and learn from for the next time. It is hard to receive those rejection letters. I know. I really have been there. Especially when you know deep down you have what it takes and you are ready to show it. I once applied for the same job three different times, improving my knowledge, skills and experience between each effort and still it was a no every time. It hurt - A LOT, but I knew it wasn’t about me. It just wasn’t meant to be my role. Please know Vee, you are worth it and you DO have what it takes. There may just be other factors that have nothing to do with you such a funding, lack of supervisor for your proposed thesis, lack of space to take on as many students as they may have want, or anything else. Please take on board the advice I have given and, worst case scenario, you just find out this was not a role meant for you after doing everything possible to secure it. Our hearts break for you. We do REALLY know how much you wanted it. It mat not be too late, but if it is, your door just happened arrived yet but when it does - STAND BACK BECAUSE YOU ARE COMING THROUGH READY, STRONG, AND INVINCIBLE!!! So, so, so much love, 🌹, Ariadne and Hannah

[@Zhi_sj]

I am nowhere near doing a PhD but WOW!! this comment is just such an amazing example of what a supportive community Vee has built for everyone. Major props to you guys for organising and writing all this advice and sharing it with everyone. I'm sure it'll end up really helping someone out there (and hopefully for Vee especially!) ❤️

[@cocolina53348]

This was a long read but this should be pinned ! So much valuable information here.

[@BridgetteAmofah]

Agree. This is such an insightful and well-thought-out supportive comment, restoring my faith in the internet x

[@helennaomi8694]

This is amazing advice, not just for Vee but for anyone embarking on a similar path. Thank you!

[@sandrex1978]

This great advice. This what social media is supposed to be about. You are a good human ❤

[@blessingncube8743]

Don't be crushed Vee.. We all go through these rejections on our way to Greatness 🙏 ☺ 🛐

[@DarkStarM]

The first time I applied for a PhD in Engineering I got rejected. At the time I was super sad and disappointed but now I look back and realise that my project was not a solid one. Half a year after that, I reapplied to another PhD program with a new and much improved project, and I got in. If I got accepted the first time, I would suffer later because I still had a few things to learn first. Take this rejection as an opportunity to improve yourself and the ideas that you have and want to explore during the PhD. If you have the chance, start doing some research on related topics and publish some papers. That will help when applying next time. Don't give up and stay strong!

[@yesutoryesutor8434]

Same as I thought, I think Vee needs to get some experience in the field first. I think she should go to Zimbabwe and get her hands dirty, NYU would not reject her after that…just my thoughts though

[@jaylencalinaw1080]

that static at 2:01 shook me to the core

[@khalilahd.]

Oh my goodness Vee I’m so sorry 🥺. I know how hard you worked to get there but just remember if it’s meant for you it will happen. That just means they missed out on having you as one of their students. Not the other way around. I wish you nothing but the best. This will not change how successful you’ll be 💜

[@drveekativhu]

thank you so much; this is so sweeet of you!!! - thank youuuuuuu

[@ParisItohan]

OMG!!! NYU! Are you for real right now?! Why’d you reject my girl??! Vee, you’d be just fine!!😌 Pls don’t stress over it! You’re already a shining star 🌟 and we’re all here to watch you progress throughout your stages in life! PLS DONT STRESS TOO MUCH BABY GIRL!! LET IT ALL OUT!!! There’s more wins to come girl! I personally don’t like seeing you like this. Personally, I’m currently studying for a bachelors degree at Carleton university and it’s been a roller coaster for me but I’ve been striving! You’re my role model and seeing you like this ain’t no good! What haven’t you motivated me to do?!! From creating my KZbin channel to being determined to study outside my motherland. It really is okay to be sad Girlll. But you’re gonna make it through!! More wins and successes Baby!!! LOVE YOU!! Pls support my KZbin guys🥺

[@drveekativhu]

Awwww this is so sweettttt thank you so much !!! I really appreciate this 💛💛💐💐💐

[@alice-elizabeth]

I'm sorry you didn't get accepted. 😔 But honestly it's their loss. 🤷‍♀️ I really hope you'll get in somewhere soon, I know you will! 💕

[@ida8087]

The fact that you still had a smiley face amidst those tears is something else. You are such a sweet girl Vee! It even takes more courage to share moments like this! Thanks for sharing❤️❤️❤️

[@onetreehillobessed1]

Omg I nearly fell out of my chair at 2:02 lol; Sorry for your disappointment Vee and take your time to recover before worrying about other options

[@TotalDramaOwenandNoah]

It’s ok, we all have our highs and lows, you’ll get there, it’s good to see people like you actually trying their hardest to succeed God bless you 🙏🙏🙏

[@artinaminute]

Rejections feel so personal! I got rejected by NYU for my BA but ended up going to an even better school 🏫 that was the right fit for me. Perhaps it’s too early to suggest this, but could you try applying to Columbia? I feel like you could also try coming here (NYC) as a content creator too, haha. You have so many options and possibilities ahead of you ❤️ You sharing this will also help a lot of your younger viewers who may feel alone or lost in their own rejections or failures!

[@kingpickles8762]

Hello Vee, I’m truly sorry to hear about your rejection. There will be times where we be at our lowest in times and there will be times where we celebrate our successes. You give me inspiration, and I’m glad I discovered your channel, do not give up Vee. You are so much more than a rejection! - sending you love and care. 🤍

[@TheProjectBoss]

On to the next babes.. you’re already super amazing!! Don’t doubt yourself please, the world needs you. Thank you for your contribution so far to this vision you’ve set your mind to. I know it’s soo hard to hear, but it’s simply redirection to something better. Just at the right time, you’ll get something which you’re the best fit for and where you’ll deliver the best value. Hang in there, you’re really loved and thank you for sharing this. You’re such an inspiration..

[@TheOlgacool]

You are the definition of Black Excellence and I know it hurts! I know! I didn’t get the job I wanted. I missed Christmas celebrations to apply and just that hurts me so much! But you are much bigger than that rejection! You will prevail and I can’t wait to see you win again and again! Cheers my friend to the success coming your way!

[@obamabarack9669]

Vee, you are so inspiring. There's no doubt in my mind that you will succeed at your goals. You're right. You're going to look back in a year and see how far you've come. I'm going to be applying to graduate school this fall, and I have this same fear of being rejected. But no matter what happens, my passions drive me to persist. Let's do this together! ❤️💪

[@ceel7068]

Sweetie, You can do it!! You can re-apply. Don't give up! Use this year to start the work you want to do. You are young you still have time. JUST DO IT!!! You are in our prayers. We love you Vee❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Sarah_989]

Thanks for sharing your highs and lows of your journey with us! I love your boldness and authenticity. You’ve got this and God has greater plans for you and your purpose❤️

[@jinyiting8944]

you posting this video and sharing your vulnerability with us has already been incredibly helpful xxxx

[@emmyygabriella]

Omg vee :( I’m so so sorry this happened to you. I’ve been through many rounds of rejection, so i get how this feels. The first time i applied for graduate school, i applied to six schools and got rejected from all of them. I was your age at the time, and it hit me to my core. The next year, i applied to one program and got in but after a year of being there, i realized that it wasn’t a good fit so i left. After another year, i applied to more programs and got into them all, including NYU. I’m a NYU graduate student now, at 27, and honestly it was all about timing. God’s timing. NYU is missing out and I’m so upset that they rejected you. But i want to pass on a lesson from when I got rejected: this is God/the universe/who or whatever you believe in saying, “not yet”. Your time is coming, Vee. I know it ❤️

[@marlashots]

You are meant for greater things, Vee!!! You got this ..you are unstoppable! 💛

[@karamkhaddour5579]

Last year I got rejected from 23 colleges from all around the world, I know how it feels to be rejected and starting doubting yourself and your abilities. However, life move on and failure is just here to teach us and maybe inform us to move in a different direction. Remember there is always rainbow in the clouds

[@amanda2412]

Hi Vee, Just backing up the incredible words of support in here. You are a such an extraordinary person with a brilliant future ahead. It’s a bit scary to not know how it is going to play out but something even better is coming your way. Thank you so much for sharing. We care for you and so it’s heart warming to be able to provide you with positive words and send good energies your way. All the best for your next steps ❤️

[@longunicorn]

Hey, Vee. You are a truly inspiring, vibrant soul who cares deeply about the work you do. Remember that the only thing left to do now is to get back up. Things happen, but remember that you are strong, and capable of taking on whatever life throws at you. I know you're going to get accepted at somewhere even better. I just know it. Thank you for being such a marvelous person. Honestly, it's their loss.

[@boldprecious]

I’m so sorry Vee. Stay strong!! I know how it feels to be disappointed. You’ve got this regardless. You’ll win, stay strong. I love you. 😘

[@omak544]

You are amazing and you ARE making an impact, on my life and those of so thousands of people that watch your videos. There’s better in store for you ❤️❤️❤️✨

[@Tadiwa.N]

I recently got rejected by my dream university for my dream postgraduate degree and I was heartbroken and felt like that was the end, but I started reading your book, literally 5 days ago and the rejection is redirection chapter was just everything I needed to hear. I needed to know that it was not the end and that rejection does not define me.I learnt so much from you speaking about following up on why the application wasn't successful. I have followed up and I am currently working on improving myself for the next application cycle when I reapply and also apply to other schools. I am so sorry that this has happened, it is just awful. I am sending lots of hugs your way and I just want to say that you have done so much for young people in education. I'm a girl from Zim as well and seeing you navigate the world and education is so inspiring. Thank you for everything that you do💗💗 PS I've been recommending your book to literally everyone I know. It is phenomenal 🌻🌻

[@soniaa.1004]

I’m sorry, Vee. It makes me so sad to see you like this. You are a genuine and a real badass person. Take the time necessary to cry out and pour out your emotions. To me, you’re a huge inspiration.

[@KaelynGraceApple]

Sending you a big hug ♥️

[@krisonaga6569]

You are so beautiful! I personally respect how someone deals with the hard moments in life wayyyy more than their glorious ones. You have my upmost respect and I admire and appreciate your vulnerability in this video 👏

[@chloscove]

allow yourself to feel the way you feel

[@goodie6636]

Don't be sorry for crying Vee! We're here for you and it's fine to show your emotions. I'm rooting for you, something would work out❤

[@AshleysDiary]

Don’t worry Vee- God has bigger plans for you ❤️bigger than NYU. Everything happens for a reason 😩🥺trust me on this - I was in your shoes the whole of January - but trust God and his amazing plan ❤️

[@aiden-cat8026]

Hello Vee, I know that that I'm just a random kid on the internet but I know that it's hard to get rejected, even though I'm only a 14-year-old (almost 15 haha) and have never experienced it. I just want to tell you that YOU are amazing and YOU are the one who always motivates me to study harder. Right now I'm struggling a lot with things and it's hard for me to have any motivation to reach my goals but your videos really help me even in the most difficult times of my life. I love you and stay strong!

[@stacie6782]

So many factors go into whether or not PhD programs accept students, many of which are outside of someone's control. It's not necessarily personal.

[@Hassanali-tu8dv]

Sorry to hear about the rejection Vee. It happens to the best of us and your one of the best. My rejections were different to your but lead me to improve and I ended up with something better in the end. So it is normal to feel upset but I am sure you will continue to excel and get the PhD you deserve.

[@badgyalbb]

Your redirection is coming Vee !! It's really you being put on the right path !

[@jashang9445]

Noooo vee! Don't be discouarged. Your amazing and just never give up!

[@butterflybeauty2377]

I have watched your videos for a while now but all I can say Vee is that you are so inspirational to me and many people who want to make change in the world. I wanted to up a few days ago because I was stressed out with my health and classes. You have come a long way to give up your journey and just because one door has closed another one will open up to you with an abundance of blessings. Trust the process and we are stronger than we think .Much love to you 🤍✨

[@productivitywithbang]

Hi Vee, thank you so much for your openness and showing the struggles that are behind every success. We cannot say anything for certain in life; however, life generally gets better. You WILL get to where you wanna be, or a place that's right for you! Watching this video, I empathize with your feelings of rejection from NYU since I've also been rejected to 70+ engineering internships that I've been applying to for the summer - as a student at U of Toronto. Rejections happen, and they do not necessarily reflect your skills or ability to contribute. You are still an amazing person, Vee! You are kind, hard-working, and your passion for education will help other people so much. Keep on working towards your vision, you will get there :D

[@miadiyanah196]

Veeeeee do not be sorry for the tears. I feel all your pain and I’m truly heartbroken with you :( you are allowed to cry and be disappointed about it. Honestly you deserve this more than anything my friend. But hey you’re such an asset and I love what you’ve been doing - championing girl’s right. it’s truly inspirational. You’re inspirational. In God’s time my love. God has better plans ❤️

[@kerrydolman8017]

Vee, this makes me feel so, so sad - do allow yourself to feel sad but please not for too, too long - also please remember 'as one door closes another one opens' - enjoy your time with you friend - much love to you now as ALWAYS - 💖

[@tishcee9800]

You and your videos keep me on my biomedical course, they keep me so motivated and refreshed, thank you

[@siya_gg8225]

Please don't feel bad ❤️ it's okay... you'll get another chance just don't give up. You're strong and you've given your best and that's what matters ❤️

[@yuecoocieme3541]

I won't say ik how you feel cause I'm stressing out for my finals currently. I want to say that there's a reason for everything, keep being you Vee, I don't know you personally but ik you're destined for greatness. Keep your head up queen. Everything will fall in place. If you were able to complete your Master's Degree online with the time zones, juggling work and all then I'm sure everything will be fine. Love you!!

[@naomiamakpavboya2962]

Awww, this breaks my heart so much Vee. You’re beautiful, and smart and I know there are better schools out there that would be lucky to have you because your type is rare. Don’t give up girl, because you know exactly what you bring to the table. Love you ❤️❤️❤️

[@iquestionexistence8730]

You are so inspirational Vee, you seem like such a lovely and genuinely compassionate and caring person. I can totally understand why you cried during this video. As cheesy as this is to say, your feelings are valid, but I hope you know that this doesn't mean you weren't worthy of a place there

[@meeomelovescookiesandhisto459]

My gut reaction was 'if Vee got rejected then there's no hope for any of us!'. But from what I've heard, PhD applications are a lot about fit with the department and a lot of people have to apply for multiple years to get in. NYU knows, like all of us, how valuable and awesome you are so this doesn't mean that you're not good enough in any way. I'm dreaming of doing my PhD in the States as well so I feel for you but you're such a powerhouse. I know you will take this sadness and grow from it, and I know you'll go on to do even greater things. Edit: I also appreciate you being vulnerable here. It must be so hard to grieve over this publicly but you're such a good role model in showing your audience that you don't have to push bad feelings away, you need to process them.

[@christy7516]

You're right. And it's research based. There's no such thing as a professional PhD

[@awaasallah]

So sorry Vee. It will get easier day by day. Don’t give up on your dream, gal you got this. Just stay focus on your direction and keep trying, never give up and in the end it will all work out for the best. Good luck because your future is bright.

[@LarissaSaliba]

I'm so proud of you, Vee, for all you've accomplished and so happy we have someone in the world like you who I know will change the world for the better. I know this must be heartbreaking and I'm so sorry but I'm sure the best is yet to come. You are an inspiration!!!

[@okuhleqasana830]

Thank you for your courage in sharing this moment with us Vee. We believe in you and your dream.

[@justpeachybaby271]

It's their loss girl! I'm so sorry because that was your dream school and you've worked so bloody hard. There's others school who would love to have you. Don't let this set you back! The whole world is out there for you sis. We're all behind u💜💜

[@plainjanex9970]

Head held high, Vee 🧡🧡 you are such a successful and wonderful person, don’t let this bring you down! If it wasn’t meant to be, there is something much better waiting for you. Lots of love x

[@JulieStardoll]

i am going through a very similar situation right now vee - applying to phds as well and I've gotten rejected left and right so far. i feel your crying sooo much - literally spent months crying because i felt like my profile sucked and i have been feeling so so hopeless. spent days and days blaming myself for not doing more to make my profile better. felt hopeless because i feel like i am getting older and i am losing one more year. literally have no idea what i am going t do if i don't get in and would have crying fits/mental breakdowns thinking about it all. i feel you so much right now - but if you had spoken to me a few months back i was feeling far worse. i am still waiting to hear from a few other schools but i have slowly come to terms with it now - if i don't get in, it is what it is and i will just have to keep going and doing whatever is the next best thing. don't worry vee, you're strong. i know you will get through this.

[@meganadochim3490]

I'm soo sorry Vee. Greater things are yet to come ! You inspire me soo much .

[@joanansanchez3734]

I love you Vee! Thanks for being so vulnerable. You are so empowering ❤️

[@artisticromance]

Hi Vee, I am so sorry to hear this and I know exactly how you feel. I got two rejections before getting onto my PhD programme and each broke my heart. Now I have my PhD and I'm a lecturer in a university here. I always think of your mantra - rejection is redirection. I've had lots of other rejections - funding, articles... it's all par for the course in my job, so your words have helped me so much. Sending you lots of love and I can't wait to see all that you continue to achieve xx

[@Mary-fp3fc]

thats so inspiring to hear, may I ask which uni did you attend just curious? also welldone!!

[@lisachdd]

You'll be okay. Its all going to be alright

[@DeonnTheProfessional]

Thanks for sharing this with us. I think the internet has become a place where everyone shares their highlight reel and we forget that sometimes even when you try your hardest things do always work out in the moment and it's heartbreaking. Can't wait to see what awesome things this situation has made room for.

[@On.Life.With.L0ME]

Hey Vee, I believe that rejection is God's redirection for our lives. It was just not part of the plan He has for you because He has other plans way better than you could ever imagine. You are such an inspiration so I know that there are plenty of accomplishments and blessings lined up for you. Love you❤

[@NdahambelelaHaifene]

Hi Vee, I just wanted to let you know that it’s all going to be alright. I got rejected for job opportunities (2 of them in the same week) last week and those emails came in the same day and as if that wasn’t enough for the week.,I got 6 rejection emails for job this week again. I was at a point where I was soo demotivated to even send out any more emails or applications and I had to allow myself to feel the emotions that came with that rejection and not rush through it. So, take time to process the rejection and regain strength again to continue persevering. There is one statement that has been carrying me through the past week and I though I should share it with you; “God will never let me step in a room where he knows I won’t be utilized fully as he wished and if a door to an opportunity closes, he saw what was in that room and couldn’t allow me to enter”. Also, delay is not denial. I hope you get better..❤️🌸

[@KittyAndTheBooks]

I am sorry that this dream of yours didn't come true. My grandma always says that you never know what things are good for, so I am sure there will be an even better thing for you to go forward with your dreams.

[@marilis12]

Vee, you have been giving us so much strength all this years, so! Take it back and bee strong, girl! You deserve something better!

[@schoolinwithsig5438]

You've got this Vee, keep your head up high! xxx

[@dakshk3982]

I got a rejection earlier today as well from one of my dream programmes, but it is us, who keep up the fight for change, to then change the world. This is just the world testing you to make even more and greater change, and I wish us *both* luck and love in this journey!

[@peanutbrittle99]

I’m so sorry to hear! I hope you get into another university that would make you happy! Sending many hugs ❤️

[@aimee692]

Wishing you lots of strength in this hard time! And thank you for sharing your struggles, we all go through it sometimes!

[@YPM498]

I’m so sorry Vee! I’m going through rejection as well because I just got rejected from an internship program that I was so committed on getting. I spent weeks preparing my application, and networking. Someone told me “Maybe it’s just not for you” which stung a lot. But I had to accept that it is just not my time. But that will not stop me from applying again next year. Do not give up on your dreams. You can always apply again next year and spend this year gaining more experience to add to your CV. Reframe your mindset. Just because this year is not your time maybe next year will be. Maybe next year will be better because the pandemic will be non-existent by then. Right now everything is still uncertain with the restrictions because of the new variants. Delay is not denial.

[@delisasimelane2901]

I am so sorry Vee😪 but as you always say that rejections are a redirection in life. Keep shining🤗

[@almond_b25]

How can they even reject you?? Their loss girl! You're such a smart and wholesome person! You motivate me so much! Keep studying and never give up! A rejection means nothing! 💖💖

[@Mr-Sam-I-Am]

What about UPenn GSE or Teachers College, Columbia University (TC)? NYU is great, but Harvard, Penn, Stanford, and TC are the top ed schools. I am attending TC starting this fall for my second master's. It is a school that I think may align with your values.

[@Atonic91]

I agree TC is top notch

[@fafaadam6151]

Oh I'm so sorry for this Vee❤❤😢 But rejection is God's protection and redirection.. I know it's easy to say because it is a strong dream of yours but I am convicted that you will get in the best school for you❤❤❤ Have your moment and know that you will rise for this ❤

[@rechaelbooklicious687]

Vee I just want to emphatise with you because getting rejected sucks big time and its going to hurt for a little bit but you will thrive regardless!! and you can always reapply dont loss faith or be discouraged. the most annoying part i think is when your plans get crushed but i think thats also part of life. just know we are all tremendously proud of you !!

[@leratodiane2308]

I got rejected for my Masters in Public Administration and I was shattered and still unemployed but I believe that a greater things are gonna happen and God knows what’s best , trust God and everything will happen and ... let’s goo

[@annabella3755]

HOW did they reject you?!?!?! I'm sorry you have to go through this but thank you for sharing this- it's so helpful to see people as amazing as you also get rejected and have roadblocks and know that these things happen to even the best of us. I know you will be back even stronger!

[@colinhaye5109]

I'm so sorry 2 hear..but remember we r always there 4 u no matter what

[@manuela993]

I am so sorry :( My brother got rejected to every PHD including his dream school last year (MIT). He worked for a year and re-applied and got into every PHD including MIT's PHD this year! Sometimes you just have to try try try again ♥️

[@rishitachakraborty9783]

May I asked how he improved his application in that year / what changed?

[@manuela993]

@@rishitachakraborty9783 He worked for a year at a research lab and worked 24/7 in many papers, he focused on publishing as many papers as he could. PHD committees want to see proof that you can carry out research. Try to publish 3 papers in the next year, pick a topic and gather some hard working smart friends as co-authors and do some scoping review or anything related to your field that is publishable. Everyone that got rejected then accepted into PHD's worked super hard to publish stuff to prove they could deliver research. Best of luck!

[@rishitachakraborty9783]

@@manuela993 Thanks.

[@Alina-zj3zf]

Dear Vee, you are such great inspiration for me, making me want to chase knowledge, intellectual and important perspectives of the world, getting me excited for studying and education!

[@marijasiveida8687]

Hi im really sorry, but everything is gonna be okay don t cry

[@reygils]

You deserve the WORLD queen! I am sure in the future you will be so grateful that NYU rejected you because you will get something much better!

[@pilarg2121]

If they rejected you, WHO on earth would they accept!? They made the worst decision ever! One of the most inspirational young figures doing so much for society and equality will find a much better place for sure ❤️

[@ellona3645]

I got rejected from my dream school, then applied again and got accepted! Now it makes sense, if I got in the first time I wouldn't be able to travel and do an exchange semester because of the pandemic. :) God's timing.

[@ivonribie]

I can’t believe NYU rejected you! Howwww whyyyy you’ve done&always do amazing, inspiring stuffs! It’s alright Vee. It might be a redirection 😊 we’re always here to support you! You got this Vee! 🌻❤️

[@mainyakudirwa5494]

Do not worry dear God has the purpose for that. Love you 😍. God will open the door for you one day ❤ 💛 🙏

[@vickyo2047]

Even though you didn't get in, you are still amazing and I know you will build things up again :) Also, recently I have been preparing for GCSE mocks it has been stressful and seeing people that don't work as hard as I do a lot of the time get better does hurt a lot, but still pushing to get those 9's

[@nostalgia545]

For PhD programs you need to have prior research experience. You need to also have dedication to that field. It’s hard to go from classics to educations suddenly without having prior experience in it. Also you need to be prepared to rotate with different professors and find the type of research you want to do.

[@AttackOnAlchemist]

as someone who has been rejected from a PhD program before, I am so sorry! it really hurts but I've realized it was a blessing disguise. It allowed me to reevaluate goals and timelines. Still want to get a PhD one day but I've acknowledged that it's simply going to take time. Some tips from someone who's been through the process before: Stay in contact with your professor of interest. Research interests are so, so important. If your research interests aren't lining up with any faculty, they will move on to the next person. Apply to multiple. You'll hear back from half. For education related PhDs, they rarely accept anyone under 25. They want you to have professional experience, especially classroom experience. Keep it up! For many people, the first round of PhD applications are the learning round.

[@emanthewriter]

It’s okay you’re meant for something better...❤️

[@zainabshire]

Better things in store for you always!! and like you always say rejection is most def redirection❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@charleneezeora8025]

It’s okay!!! Don’t give up 🤞🏽

[@faithngwenya7634]

Habakkuk 2 vs 3For the vision is yet for an appointed time; But at the end it will speak, and it will not lie. Though it tarries, wait for it; Because it will surely come, It will not tarry.

[@lindiwemoyana5849]

Vee, these a reason for everything sis... Trust the process love😍

[@emmie0502]

I have been watching your vlogs while writing my PhD applications (also in Education)! I was planning to only apply for one, but my partner convinced me to apply for at least one other university. Last week I got rejected for the university I initially applied to (my first choice). Not because I wasn't good enough, but because they had a massive decrease in funding and they ended up not having a spot in my specialization at all. One of the profs reached out to me and said that I did everything right, but the money just wasn't there. I felt quite defeated for about 2 days. I was still waiting for hear from my second application, but I definitely lost faith. Especially because I didn't think I would get a scholarship / funding and I would not be able to afford it without. Three days later, I got accepted to the PhD program and offered the most amazing scholarship. The university wasn't my first choice, but I am so glad I applied anyway. In 6 months I will be moving from Europe to Canada :).

[@subnauthroshni6314]

Hi, may I ask which university you got accepted to?

[@ThayHenriques]

I know how u are feeling. I was also rejected from my top school for my phd in comm (usc), however, I got into northwestern, another great school. We just have to think that sometimes the best for us is not exactly what we have been dreaming for a while! Good luck with your new start, I know u are gonna keep shining ✨🌟💫

[@lovagirl7777]

Sending you lots of love 💕 💕 you’ll get through. & something better is coming for you girl! Keep your head up you sweet soul!!! Xx

[@beamlakbekele8787]

Got jus got rejection yesterday for a job that applied for , that I really really wanted ... Sending u love from Ethiopia . Better things will be coming ... Trust the process. You got this !