Vengeful Vibes How Holding Grudges Alters Your Energy

[@LindaEnger]

❤❤❤ This was a perfectly timed message. THANK YOU SO MUCH! ❤❤❤

[@PatB-xl1de]

I was recently made aware of a deep resentment I was holding not just for the person who was so hurtful but for me for exposing my family to this very toxic individual who initially appeared to be the “sheep” until the “wolf “ came out.This time I also saw how our goodness became a trigger for her, causing her own resentment and anger that came out as abuse. I will be working through the anger to let go of the resentment and open up the healing joy of forgiveness. Thank you 💙🦋🙏🏼❄️💙🦋🙏🏼❄️💙.

[@MontanaLight]

One of my favorite phrases is: "Resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die."

[@brendaleelynch2339]

Hi Nancy, many OLD thoughts, some imagined with a specific person, have been surfacing consistently for me. As a child, teen, and young adult, I had to suppress my words to keep peace in the family home. It appears to be a cleansing process for me to bring up emotions in order to release and letting the other person's contribution go, forgiving them as well as myself. Thank you for continuing to post spiritual guidance. 😇🙏❤

[@purelybeing]

We love you, Nancy!!! How powerful. Thank you 🤗

[@K3Bear11]

You are just such a sweetheart and inspiration!! I am so glad I found you!! I just love listening to you and how you talk about such expanded topics!! Thank you so much!! OX

[@rebeccaallen5547]

Thanks for talking about stuff like this. It's something that all of us can identify with.

[@teyronnewreality]

Thank you for this very important video, time for releasing as circumstances have rocked my world for too long . I can relate to this video. I believe I am a good person but I have fallen into resentment that still affects my life. I will give it another go. Appreciate the help 🙏

[@elainesuth6771]

I understand that my anger must’ve been quashed when I was too young to remember. Anytime I’d been hurt, I always wondered what had hurt the other person so bad that made them do that to me 🤔 & as the years went by I realised I was using sarcasm to cope with it. I’m 61 now & learning to forgive the national health service for the damage done to me as a child as I still have the pain!

[@rollingrainbowthunder2155]

"Just release it down the grounding field." I like the simplicity of that. Listening to this video reminds me of a healing workshop that I went to several years ago. They were helping one of the men release his stuffed anger. When he started yelling, it triggered a fear in me. I had a fear of men's anger. I started crying like a baby. Then the group helped me to work through my fear of men's anger. Also, sometimes for me, anger is a signal to set a boundary. The group helped me learn how to set boundaries. Other ways that I have released resentment/anger is by journaling - writing it out. There is magic in the pen, but I usually have to be bleeding and on fire to get to a point where I am willing to do the journaling. "Just release it down the grounding field." I like that. 💖

[@MsVintage61]

wow, this is just what I need. as a live-in caregiver for my elderly parents (for over 11 yrs) resentment is something I really struggle with and feel guilty about. I have done a lot of releasing and it has gotten better but Guides have shown me I still have a LOT left. it's not "one and done" , it's a process and there are layers. thank you

[@lizfay2565]

I so needed to hear this today ❤ Such supportive words and a much needed release. So grateful to you ❤

[@heidipetersen5426]

Super helpful. I’ve always been a very forgiving person and have encouraged others to forgive. I relate to what you’re saying about being frustrated with where we are at as a world and country. I recently was surprised at my feelings regarding the United Healthcare incident. It exposed my deep frustration with insurance company’s and big corporations and the greed that drives so much of how our country is run. I keep working to stay in a higher frequency and stay in peace, unity, compassion, love…. It’s helpful to know that even as healers and souls wanting to bring in more light for the highest good of all, we too can have our shadows. Thank you for shedding light on this and providing tools for releasing all that does not serve the highest good.

[@GinaGraziano-h7l]

Nancy I absolutely love you and appreciate everything you do to keep me grounded. These are stressful times. You truly keep me grounded. My daughter watched Fancy Nancy and I watch you. It’s like an even trade off between mother and child. 🙏🏼

[@nancyrebecca]

@@GinaGraziano-h7l these are stressful times thank you so much for the love 💙💙💙

[@clairepuckey7299]

So helpful so pertinent in my life. I love when science can back up the spiritual 💚

[@KamS-ex2oi]

Brilliant information Nancy! Thank you for sharing. I had so many ah-ha moments listening to this information. I went to a family gathering yesterday. Before walking into the house, I showered myself with the frequency of love!!

[@Dragon-e8s]

10 in ❤chat today . im a grateful soul who shows up everytime when Nancy post 📫 Amazing guidance, care wisdom and love

[@suzimpeters]

This enlightenment works for me. Thank you! When I hear a message for me, I note it in my journal. This is a reference point to build upon. I use you initials to “shorthand” my note taking. I noticed that the initials for the people I feel resentful for are the same as your initials. Synchronicity? Gratitude!

[@melissayates6295]

My friend and I listened to this one together. Love it! We will try it. Thank you Nancy Rebecca!

[@LaurieHuntsinger]

I appreciate the information to help with the quicker release of the energies. Thank you Nancy.

[@divadiva6455]

This is perfecto. The statement about just setting the intention to let go of….. is SO helpful!!! My sense is the ripple effect of this awareness is significant. Thank you Nancy with love from MN, US. MaryC 🌲🌲🌠

[@JaneStanton]

Thank you Nancy I will be adding this to my toolbox. I have been wishing people I feel resentment and anger towards, that they find and live in peace. This has helped me tremendously. 😊🫂💜

[@barbarahanly4257]

Been feeling this heavy dark collective energy the last few days, thank you for sharing and helping validate for me ❤️

[@greendesert6202]

Very needed conversation, thank you 💜🤍💜

[@oliviapeters8629]

This is such an important conversation and I am grateful for your insight

[@jessicataylor13]

This was very much needed for me. Thank you again for sharing your knowledge with us. It’s been a great help to me.

[@MarciaCarter-i9n]

Thank you for this reminder❤🎉sadly I am guilty of that!

[@carmennoel4622]

Thank you Nancy for this subject on resentment. It brought up a lot of issues I was dealing with. I use your technique and I let go of a lot of old energy that I was not aware that I have in me. Thanks again it was a really good video. ❤

[@gilbertgiesbrecht6871]

Helpful reminder 🙏🏽🌹🙏🏽

[@Kayenne54]

I've got lots to work on. Ah well. Back to the drawing board. Though to be fair, I don't hold vengeful thoughts, but resentment and hurt, absolutely.

[@gina2553]

Thank you SO much Nancy! 💗

[@cathyevans2755]

Thank you Nancy! Very helpful!💖

[@yakicahoon1605]

I would love to hear this applied to "righteous anger." HOW do we stop anger that is justified?

[@marie-annecody83]

This is up for me at present...two resentments presented themselves to me recently and I thought I was not a resentful sort of person...one was just about a fellow masseur who wanted to swap a massage with me 2 years ago and I gave her one, at a time when I really could have done with the money, I lost £10 as i paid for the room..and despite asking twice she still hasn't returned the favour. I'm not sure why this is so big for me, but it is. Im working on it!

[@rturney6376]

Growing up I was the youngest of five. My mom worked. I was left at home with an abusive, narcissistic brother. 😢 Even when my parents were home, if he raised his hand 🤚and threatened to hit me I wasn’t punished for yelling. I wasn’t allowed/supposed to scream 🙀 in fear until after he hit me. 😢 I grew up hiding 😶‍🌫️ at the library, outside of friends’ homes. 😢 I was seen as over exaggerating. 😢 My parents kicked him out eventually. My parents divorced and he wanted to move back in. I begged my mom not to let him. She told him this. He wanted to get me back for this. 😮I moved out because I was afraid of eventual violence against me and my things. None of my siblings or parents ever really cared 😢

[@nancyrebecca]

@@rturney6376 I have heard your story many times when working with clients. It is such a struggle when one of your children is the abuser of the other children. If it was a husband or wife, it might be a little easier to just get divorced. But how do you divorce your child? But we must set boundaries even with children.

[@rturney6376]

@ hi Nancy!! Thank you!! 😊 ❤️🌻😘😘🙏🙏🙏 I like KZbin because I can put my story out there until it’s no longer holds me down/back!! Thank you 😊 🙏 again for your work and videos!! So helpful!! ❤️❤️❤️🌻🌻🌻🌻😘😘😘😘🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@julieanderson7560]

Thank you Nancy

[@kyrayoung9459]

Hello and thanks Nancy!!❤

[@laravladimir493]

My moon cycles used to bring up huge rage towards my parents. Bubbled up and over every month from so much pain and trauma ! Doesn't happen so much now

[@loshinipillay-ry4dj]

Profound energy advise

[@talofek2976]

Love and blessings dear Nancy ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@TxanaSiriani]

Thank you for this! ❤

[@pam9166oldsoul]

Good morning , Nancy and all !!!💜 Here from way down South !!😊

[@JuneTranmer]

Don't you think the Solar Plexus chakra holds onto emotions and those threads that connect us to other people that can be hurtful to us and them? I was told that many years ago but maybe that applies to broken relationships. This is such a useful exercise - I do share your grounding technique with all of my patients - it's so appreciated. Thank you! And I totally agree that getting angry can be absolutely appropriate but we mustn't dwell on it. In the Five Elements system, Wood is the place where anger (or lack of it) comes from and when there is an imbalance there, it can squash the Joy, which is from the Fire element next in the cycle. So in order to have healthy emotions, we need to be more like children who are able to move through all of them more easily, until they learn to hang onto things....Lets be more like the children! 🙏💞✨

[@furstfemme]

Thank you

[@donnawoodford8145]

I woke up disappointed by some people in the world. This should help. Thx.

[@Isabella-hf9ol]

Hi, from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 ❤

[@zenalawrence9903]

Hi from West Sussex ❤

[@elizabethcoulas2652]

Nancy could you please explain a step on how to let go and release please ? Letting the feeling go trough you to ground ? And is there something else I can do to support? Thank-you so much

[@nancyrebecca]

@@elizabethcoulas2652 I recommend my grounding meditation, which is free on my website. If you need more direction trying to find it I will see what I can do. No you do not need to feel it or let it run through your body. You just pretend that you can just dump it down your grounding over and over and over again until you feel more relaxed in your body. Unfortunately, it may not clear at all, depending on how much you have in your energy field… But just set your intention the next day and the next day and the next day until it is no longer a trigger. And for some people, this can take a year or more, but it is worth the effort.

[@elizabethcoulas2652]

@@nancyrebecca It certainly IS worth the effort . I will do that and thank-you for elaborating Nancy thank-you so much for your work that you give.

[@lindabuchanan4416]

Hola Nancy 💎

[@Chaqade]

Such a good message, but the constant ad interruptions did not help. Sorry, I had to point that out for it is not calming and takes a lot of effort to stay in peaceful listening mode with the wonderful and extreme timeliness of your message for me today. Many blessings!

[@barbarabindzus2134]

💖🙏💖🙏💖🙏💖🤗

[@fieppiep2502]

❤

[@talofek2976]

No resentful but welcoming the new, fresh nourishing energy 🙏🩵🙏🩵🙏🩵🧚