Vent cause life suck

[@Horrorscopes-qf6iy]

Why do parents actually destroy every kids dreams when they are the ones telling us to follow our dreams 😃

[@catplays478]

Yes, let's *gollow* our dreams

[@comic6742]

@@catplays478 😐

[@catplays478]

@@comic6742 😶

[@pekaisphat]

@@yumi-chan509 well, not my body fyi. 😀

[@yumi-chan509]

@@pekaisphat 🥲yah

[@whos.aishaaa]

"You would cry too if it happened to you" Too late, *It already has.*

[@misxrq3164]

@Crystal afton don’t do it! Your wonderful! Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise!

[@kitkatyas]

same but me but with my face, I felt comfortable with it, One day someone in my class said "She has pimples." It crushed me, I thought no one cared yet I was wrong

[@misterstrawberry4427]

Same :’)

[@STARZSTOPSENDINGTHIS]

@Crystal afton lmao if your faking then please don’t joke about it because it’s actually a really bad thing and people actually k1ll themselves. but if your not please don’t do it. we’re here for you 😾💓💖

[@wikemazowski7108]

I wanna die sometimes, especially when people comment on how I look weird just because of pimples. The only person I feel I can truly trust is my best friend, sometimes I feel I cant even trust her. They put these words in my head and now my self-esteem is so low, I might starve myself trying to get the “right” body image.

[@nebulanobody]

Parents: “follow you dreams!” “You can be whatever you want when you grow up!” Kid: “I wanna be (something)!” Parent: “you won’t make any money” “you wanna work at McDonalds?” “You should be (something) instead” Like bruh 😭

[@hannapooksao1925]

Kid: Your the one who told me I could be anything. I don't care if I will barely make money, I just want to be a (Something). No, I don't want to be what you want me to be. I don't want you making my life choices, mom/dad.

[@therandommuffin4799]

I know right! I've wanted to be artist all my life but my parents always say I won't make money and I'd end up homeless!

[@_yuki_9384]

Yeah they said that and I said I want to be a sientist or an actor and they said: “you won’t be any good at acting and you won’t earn any money as a sientest”

[@just_aeru996]

I wanted to be an artist but my parents said: "thats not a good idea, you have to be real good to make a living out of THAT salary"

[@hannapooksao1925]

@@just_aeru996 You live how you choose, parents don't even know what they tlaking about like first its 'follow your dreams!' then 'your terrible at art, you can't be an artist'

[@princessigma]

I used to feel the same way im confident now,hella confident but i acheived that with lots of pain and backlash I know everyone says this but,being postivite is key to a new better way to make yourself happy one day you will be on your own with your own career to which you love to do so never give up even tho you think ur ugly

[@francescacapacillo1163]

Hi yoimiya I main you

[@Stelledore]

The monster under my bed says it’s time for this comment to get pinned

[@princessigma]

@@Stelledore awe lol thank you but really its okay,Just wanted to anyone who is in a rough time to feel better about themselfs

[@princessigma]

@『Simple Mimii』 thank you!!

[@Stelledore]

@@princessigma y e s :)

[@dark_sky2338]

My mom told me, once, to lift up my shirt (note I was staying at my sister's house for the summer cause she's in collage) and so I did, my mom stared at me for a few seconds and said, "your getting bigger" never have I ever cried that hard in my life because of my mom, and sense I was at my sister's house my mom hardly saw me for the summer but yet the one day we decided to go home for a day my mom had called me fat. My own mother is the reason I'm so insecure about my body.

[@bread2315]

Something familiar happened to me, my dad decided to call me fatty as a "joke" He didn't stop for a while, one time he called me that infront of some old friends, they called me that for the rest of the day, just one reason I'm insecure about my body. I'm sorry that your mum said that to you, I'm sure your not fat, and you are no doubt beautiful, also, if you did read my vent then thank you, it happened 2-3 years ago :)

[@elyxisea]

My mom and dad always pat my stomach and say "you're getting fat" It really hurts and I don't know how to tell them

[@stolas5067]

My whole family everyday says “oh your really big you should go on a diet” I cry at night holding my stomach so I’m very insecure I don’t wear any revealing or tight clothes. But I feel so bad for you all

[@blueberrymikusoda]

that happens a lot to me except it's with being "too thin" now im just waiting to be shamed for being fat.

[@shirohatakee]

Man this makes me so insecure about myself also because I remember playing outside and this 5 year old said "I thought I saw that thing" when I have really loose clothing and almost reveals my chest, that's why I'd always wear better clothes and cover up myself

[@itsmeray_8351]

And then they asks us "why are you so miserable?" or "whats even your problem?" YUP PARENTS ARE THE *BEST* 😃💢

[@mxghann963]

I’m miserable all the time because I have never been an open book but I’m trying to tell my mom what’s going on but she gets mad whenever I have an negative emotion it’s just making me want to stop trying to tell her anything

[@ophie_doki4861]

Srsly my mom will literally get mad when im sad/angry she just says that im just trying to make other ppl sad too and that its bad to show emotion cause then its gonna ruin everyone else’s day too- like MA’AM 🧍‍♂️ Im sorry i have eMoTiOn but i am the one who is sad in the first place why do i give a damn that other ppl r suddenly negative bc of that i am the one in pain 😀✋ like- whaT?

[@that._.m4yfeild670]

So true…l

[@Thats_Exterior]

My mom and dad love me. They always say I am an amazing kid so yes, parents are the best.

[@mxghann963]

@@Thats_Exterior same

[@Lazlo7316]

And my parents always say “Your eating to much” Or “Your not eating enough” And when they say I’m not eating enough it’s like, I’m not hungry, and I haven’t eaten that much for the past few days and you just now noticed!?

[@hzlii0776]

I’ve been losing my appetite and only ate 2-3 meals a day, my mom even asked “what happened to your appetite? You always say yes to food!”

[@cttvyymq]

I eat one or two halfs of a meal

[@aussiechick1317]

U guys don't know how relative this topic is its not even funny. I'll have a small breakfast and then my mum will accuse me of trying to be super skinny when I'm no were near skinny and then she'll stuff me with food and I can't say no or else and then the next day she'll say I need to go on a diet because I'm to OVER WEIGHT. And that will repeat over and over again. Which makes me feel so ugly and shameful and she'll be so cruel about it which ends up with me balling my eyes out at night. I just can't stand it anymore I'm so sick of it

[@aqiec]

@@aussiechick1317 im so sorry, you should confront her about it just so she understands she is being unfair,but if she wants to be like my brother and deny it and blame it on you, Then call someone for help ;_;

[@sena_hai]

Me too!

[@puffs4295]

I’m so sorry hey destroyed your confidence but just because they destroyed it doesn’t mean it’s gone! You’re still extremely beautiful and never let anyone tell you different ❤️

[@nava3914]

Hey?

[@yummii1816]

They* i think

[@oksanathompson5771]

egg

[@Revoltnite]

As a person who’s on the “ chubbier” side I always feel self-conscious about my body weight and it feels A MILLION times worse when someone puts people down like that so yeah, I can relate and I hope you feel better soon 💙

[@kekwkwowwkmw]

as person whos on the skinnier side most people say to me “eat more!” “oh look the stick-o is walking” “you only ate (a number) of (a food) eat more” “yay shes eating more” and many more i often just fake smile to some of them or just say nothing

[@pastel_lav]

@@kekwkwowwkmw same it's so annoying, rude and hurtful

[@kekwkwowwkmw]

@@pastel_lav I know right do they know how it feels?

[@pastel_lav]

@@kekwkwowwkmw That's the problem they don't, not only that TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️ S*XU@1!ZED but my aunts husband was talking about how skinny i was and he s*xualized me, and he touched my thigh weirdly and said how skinny i was i'm still traumatized from him and he did other stuff.

[@kekwkwowwkmw]

@@pastel_lav im so sorry that happened to you!

[@PawzfullofPixel]

Parents always be the ones that say the most hurtful shit

[@Lesbianemunene]

And siblings

[@zuninona]

and then they be like “omg visit me when ur older will u don’t leave me in a retirement home”

[@altturtle9882]

@Idk Anymore. believe it or not raising a child is stressful. Especially if they are commenting about them to random strangers

[@altturtle9882]

@Idk Anymore. yes. I agree, my parents yelled at me today because I didn’t wash my hair yesterday :/ .I have strict parents, my mom is so loving and my dad is too. They are under pressure though and tend to say things they wish they didn’t.

[@altturtle9882]

@Idk Anymore. it’s sad that almost no one sees the stress of parents though. I’m not on parents side. O understand you

[@Anestheticcritera]

Parents should stop commenting on how their children look. It's their body, their choices. If they are a bit heavier or skinnier, just let them live in peace if they don't mind!

[@SillyLele]

And the problem is THEY THINK ITS FUNNY OR OK LIKE NO look I’m the youngest and I don’t feel like me and my sisters experience this but if they did I’ll be disappointed in my parents

[@SillyLele]

AND THE OTHER PROBLEM IS THEY DID the you know what AND THEY MAKING FUN OF THERE CHILDS BODY like didn’t you wasted your time to make to have a child NOW YOUR WASTING YOUR BREATH TO MAKE YOUR CHILD FEEL USELESS WHY just why-

[@UltimateGummyCat22]

I agree unless you are unable to walk properly bc of ur weight you should try to fix that but yeah

[@loveeebug]

Exactly, my friends mom always comments about her looks and I hear her stay stuff whenever I’ hanging with her and her mom. It realky sucks

[@kat-ke9hb]

My parents always say that I'm too fat D:

[@iwckies]

Here’s my story on how I’ve gotten insecure with my body. It first started when my mother would take away all my dresses and skirts because I didn’t know how to properly sit in them, mind you she never taught me how to all she would say is “don’t sit like that!” And constantly yell at me for it. Now I was about 6-8 then so as a child i didn’t know how to because as you grow up, you learn. I would beg her not to throw them away because I loved wearing dresses and skirts but she refused and threw them all away in front of me. As the years went on i started to grow out of my really skinny body which means I got bigger thighs and a little more gut into the stomach, and I would see all these people wearing skirts and dresses and I questioned if I’d still look good in any of them because I haven’t worn them for years. Recently I finally got dresses and a skirt from my cousin who didn’t want them anymore and I was wearing this red skirt around my house and my mother calls me to her bedroom to give me this weird looking shirt to go under my skirt. She was saying something about tights and I slightly refused because I did start to grow a insecure about my body especially my legs and how they looked, and I wanted to grow out of my insecurities by showing my legs because that was sort of a way to help finally get out my insecurity for my legs. Well my mother didn’t like me refusing and she would purposely sexualize my skirt by saying “Well men are just gonna look at you!” “The boys at your school could just come up to you and pull up your skirt!” And purposely pulled up my skirt. I didn’t have shorts under because I had just put on the skirt and went to go do something down stairs real quick until my mom called me. I called her out for it and told her that made me uncomfortable, and she said “well boys are going to do that because they’re gross” as if she knew everything or what she thought was gonna happen would actually happen. I cried a lot in my room and I felt so insecure with myself and felt that if I did wear the skirts would people use me for my body? Even since I have been quite insecure but I’m starting to finally wear more dresses/skirts to get over that.

[@fropee6503]

I'm so sorry for you! Sometimes, moms could be a little judgemental but even so just know that you're perfect the way you are! You don't have to change anything about yourself!

[@shimmerswiftie22]

I am so sorry for that.

[@Aneesay]

Your moms a d!ck. She shouldn’t be saying or doing that to anyone especially her own kid, that makes people uncomfortable. I hope you have a better life bc you don’t deserve this you deserve a good life! >:( not a life where people are telling you what to wear,what to do. I hope you have a good day! And remember your beautiful and perfect in your own way, don’t let anyone say your not! :) -Bom/Bunny

[@StarberryCreetH]

@xXGlitchguyXx I mean as long as the vent relates to the topic then its fine...

[@ethereals.channel.]

surprised you still call her a mom 😚

[@KitKat-A]

"Your pathetic" are the words form my father before leaving the house to go out with some friends, and even worse is that when my mom come home from work most of the time she doesn't talk or say anything to me, only to my siblings. Once I was trying on some clothes that my sister asked me to try on, I went down stairs for my mother's and sister's opinion on the clothes I was in, but when I cam down and show them my mother looked at me and all I heard from her was "You look even fatter then before" I have cried so hard that night. Also Happy Halloween everyone That's my story

[@daisythorne8737]

No matter what size, shape, height you are, or even disabled or just anything in general, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, I say this because I grew up in a house where my mom and everyone told me, and my siblings no matter how you look, you are forever lovable, huggable, joyable, and fun to be around, no matter what you look like. Hope this is nice for you to read, If not that's ok! You took time to read it, that's the best I could ask for from you. Thank you for sharing!

[@bigjucyqs]

I'm not the best on comforting but don't listen to her, a real mother will love you and instead of hurting your feeling they will help you. Your beautifull the way you are

[@overtone269]

Listen... You are beautiful the way you are and if people can't see this its their loss!Remember ,there are people that will always support you ,and if you don't then you have one now!

[@ms.katarina3752]

So let them be , just be u and and stand up for ur self no one in ur body is stopping u

[@arlshaz]

awh, so sorry that your mother said that to you. I hope you're ok now

[@puppiidoggii8837]

Somebody: **feels bad** People: **talks about their problems instead** Btw I hope ur ok! The animating is rlly good :D

[@fralife1613]

Really, thanks❤💜

[@imlilyandimcringey3993]

yeah! but at least i would know somebody’s experiencing the same things as i am and i’m not alone. whenever i vent to friends they just say, “ok lol? anyways-“

[@starrysaurus7436]

@@imlilyandimcringey3993 i'm sorry to hear that

[@melancholyonmercury]

@@imlilyandimcringey3993 yea they just completely ignore it. They did the same thing to my suicidal friend. Very misfortunate.

[@shinobukocho01110]

@@imlilyandimcringey3993 slap your friends 🙂

[@sakuraspeeddies9128]

"Be who you want to be dear!" "I will not raise an lgbtq+ person in my household." Like bro, wth🧍‍♀️

[@kazukau]

That’s sad- my parents are homophobic and I’m scared something similar will happen to me :(

[@sakuraspeeddies9128]

@@kazukau It's okay, as you're they're child maybe things will go in a different way and be better for you :D

[@certifiedcvaporeonfycker]

SOMETHINGS NOT FITTING IN WITH THE FIRST SENTECNCE

[@certifiedcvaporeonfycker]

@@kazukau STOP FEELING BAD your an amazing person i know it you dont need to be scared

[@dontcall_donttext]

Right when you feel amazing in your body it’s always parents to say.. “You’re so skinny! Like a twig!” “You’re gettin’ a little chubby.” “You look like a bobble-head!” “You have a she-mustache now! Haha!” “What are those bumps on your face?” “So moody! No wonder your friends get mad at you.” “You’re a young lady now. Start wearing bras.” Edit: The last one is annoying cuz i’m flat. AF.

[@busybodiesihy]

First one is me but idc 🤩🤩

[@IDrawstuffsometimes]

My mom called me fat once 😍

[@R2nny]

Everyone in my family calls me skinny twig n pimple factory 🤩

[@joy363]

Yall are beautiful stfu 🤩

[@starlit_ivy]

My mom said I need to get in shape

[@VIVVSSS]

I'm very lucky to have caring parents But ur beautiful no matter what! Don't let their words get to your heart, remember beauty comes in all shapes and sizes :) Also that tweening and edit is just so amazing and smooth!

[@Ruxxide]

Your very lucky

[@iwckies]

I know you’re trying to help and all but saying “I’m glad to having caring parents” on a vent video about their parents being rude isn’t helpful at all, It makes the person venting feel worse.

[@shanayaarkinp7608]

So lucky

[@rowannnnnnnnnnnnn]

My parents want what’s best for me

[@jquli]

@@rowannnnnnnnnnnnn I don’t think that’s the best if that’s what they’re gonna say to u..

[@czombei4995]

i used to be fat shamed as well, and im confident af in everything i do!! girlie, people who bodyshame are a waste of your time. appearance is secondary, health is top priority, arent i right? everyone says that you should ignore it, but i think you can gain experience from this :) it’s all a part of the challenges in life you’ll get through it!! i believe in you!!

[@sleepyass]

i got bullied because of my voice since I have a speech disorder I hate it so much :( and every time when I need to present or read when i'm finished, everyone giggles at my voice.

[@COfmBrd]

periodt queen

[@czombei4995]

@@sleepyass they just don’t know better. they’re either immature or they’re just straight up bullies. i know a lot of people with speech disorders and i completely understand the difficulties of even speaking regularly :( and that kind of motivated me to become a speech therapist-in-training :) if you want i could help you if you want !! but really, those people just don’t understand. don’t feel upset because they laugh at you!! once you accept yourself, they will be laughing with you:)

[@sleepyass]

thank you for the help but I don't want a speech therapist now though Thank you for the offer, once i'm older I could maybe visit

[@czombei4995]

@@sleepyass im not professional yet but liKe okay :) have a good day ehe

[@HejHej00883]

I feel you, today when we went to a restaurant my dad said when I ordered that I was eating like a pig and then at home joked about me getting fatter. I’m twelve, TWELVE.

[@biryoutubekullancs4071]

Please don’t listen to him. Parents are sometimes so ignorant and rude. Don’t forget to take care and love yourself. I hope you have a great day

[@elixirmage4659]

I'm so sorry. Don't listen to him! He's so so wrong. Have a great day!

[@Raven_loves_Coffee]

Ikr? My brothers call me a pig when I'm only 10 and make fun of my weight 😠 that's so mean of them

[@millie..]

That’s so childish. He’s probably just embarrassed that you look better than he ever has. Don’t listen to him. Size doesn’t matter. Eat what the hell you want as long as you are happy with it. 💗

[@millie..]

@@Raven_loves_Coffee that’s very mean. I’m really sorry.

[@ISaudios]

I’m not good at comforting people but I want you to know that even though your parents try to bring you down you still have all of your sweet subscribers (and people like me who come across This) to help you! You can write on this comment however you want and I’m sure everyone would give you support! ✨👌😁

[@SugarBubbleTLovesYou]

That is so true! The smallest thing my parents could say about my physics would always just hurt me and make me feel like I’m just rubbish. They break down the small confidence I have in myself :(

[@pandabear7333]

My father actually forces me to wake up early, eat fruits daily, no milk in the morning or not for a day, always makes me feel insecure about myself but never calls me ugly. IRL I am literally so fat and have a big stomach that my father gets annoyed by it. Today he actually asked me to connect my fitness watch on his phone so that he could tell me when to walk, sleep stand etc. Obviously I will refuse like I want some privacy too. And not only that he has become so much health conscience that I don't know who is now. He was earlier cool, eat what we want to but not too much, never forced to wake up and go on a walk and now he has become really... Strict and whenever I don't reach my step goal which 10000 he would scold me by saying "stop being so lazy" or "walk faster" or "do your meditation". Me and my mom are so freaking tired of his spying on us and having records. I still love my dad and my mom equally but I want my cool dad not the strict one.

[@SulkyStella]

Just tell him, “You’re not the father I love” and walk out of there, like. Maybe stay with a friend or another family member if possible. Maybe if your father feels guilty he’ll apologise and stop being so strict and unfair.

[@miloooooouwu3372]

OkAy but ur cute your your everything hes not ✋🏾🤐 but the i want my COOL dad not the STRICT one

[@oilyfloor3514]

My dad nicknamed me chubby girl.

[@SenFx-tk8mg]

@@oilyfloor3514 That isn't ok.

[@Lazy.Eye27]

P.J still, literally controlling their life is way too far. I get that they may be overweight but dang. Going as far as literally controlling someone's life and every move is just out of control and super annoying. If he really wants to help he shouldn't be putting all that pressure

[@merbeeduck9256]

I hope you’re alright. Us humans all come in different shapes and sizes, we have no right body type. We shouldn’t make people like us for our body- instead just be proud and have people around you that like you for you! I’d suggest tho that you should tell your parents how you feel, if you don’t want to that’s okay! But just know that there’s nothing wrong with you, inside and out. And just be you at the end of the day ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@dumdum1789]

Yes, but there is a limit

[@merbeeduck9256]

@@dumdum1789 limit?

[@dumdum1789]

@@merbeeduck9256 if you get to large you can get heart problems, not being able to walk correctly etc.

[@merbeeduck9256]

@@dumdum1789 oh yes I know about that- of course I’m not referring to the unhealthy stuff-

[@starz4andeexz]

No dont do it, DONT GIVE ME HOPE!

[@Fischsles]

This is something parents should never do.... criticizing your child for their body is wrong, though I still experience it, it has calmed down. I hope you feel better soon, remember that your body is perfect and don't change who you are

[@pogcat6725]

I’m gonna get attacked for this 100% but atleast SOMEONE had to say this, y’all gotta stop doing something called trauma dumping. Before you reply please read the whole thing. I feel happy that you guys are opening up and it’s nice that this is a calm and peaceful vent area, but are you forgetting that the creator also needs comfort? If your confused on what trauma dumping is, basically dumping your vent on another persons vent when they ask for comfort. Example: “Yeah this happened today.. (explains)” “Same, my dad/mom/guardian and said this and then (whole ass story)” In really bad cases, people *completely* overshadow the fact that the creator needs comforting too. It is a super ass move to trauma dump, and I just feel so bad for the creator rn because I barely see anyone in this comment section trying to comfort the creator. Fra life, I am sorry this happened, you are so strong for being able to deal with all this at once, I hope things get better for you.

[@diavolohearts]

fr, people need to stop making this about themselves. seeing a vent is not an invite to trauma dump

[@user-pw5vs7iw8b]

I mean, as long as they don't make it all about themselves it's ok, but it's mostly just people showing the creator they can relate, which makes some people feel better, others don't. Sorry if I seem rude, I'm not very good at typing out emotions

[@CloudySkyAvp]

So true. Ppl these days are so *blind.*

[@slam.p]

@@CloudySkyAvp that’s a little harsh tho

[@CloudySkyAvp]

@@slam.p nah, it's true in my opinion If u dislike it, it's better not say anything and move on I supposed

[@wanderer5647]

I personally haven't gone through that so I can't relate but I really hope things get better for you soon and know that we all support and care for you ❤️

[@COfmBrd]

[@Blair-u9r]

I hope you don't go through that... Noone deserves that pain

[@therandommuffin4799]

"You dress like a homeless person!" Is what I'm told by my step dad everyday and it makes me so self conscious about my clothes and how i look and he also makes fun of the way I act and certain things that I do that make me seem like I'm used to being poor or something. I can't do anything without him saying something about it! Just let me be myself god damn!

[@Elliestuffz]

Oh my- I also use my favourite dress, I wear it everyday to the shopping centres. But my parents are nice, I’m sorry this happened to you.

[@cambriebadon]

atleast we all know how that feels and we will NOT treat our children like this.

[@liliii..]

Agree

[@liliii..]

@Vanshika Boddu same but of i Will...

[@cambriebadon]

@Vanshika Boddu im not saying everyone is gonna have kids. YOURE saying that. and tbh idk if i want kids either so stfu

[@candyfloof9266]

Yes, I would never want to body shame my future kids because I know how it feels

[@candyfloof9266]

@Vanshika Boddu I kinda want kids but also not because I'd rather adopt because I dont want the pain when giving birth and yes they are very hard to take care off i would know i have a baby niece and she would try to eat the curtains and ants. I have to try and keep her entertained with toys

[@luluddiie]

Sei perfetta così come sei..non ascoltare le altre persone, ascolta il tuo cuore💗"tu sei quella speciale" non dimenticarlo

[@Ilovegojoandtoji]

You made cry 😭

[@j.emariano2756]

Thank you, and i 100% agree with this

[@luluddiie]

^^❤️

[@nunzianapolitano2768]

@-NaNa._.WGF- hahaha infatti tutti Inglesi ci sono in questo video😂

[@paprikaeater]

omg the animation- it's so beautiful you're so underrated how haven't I seen your channel before-

[@Tia-icy]

La perfetta rappresentazione dell'adolescenza 2021

[@Tia-icy]

I genitori non capiscono che ormai non è più come ai loro tempi che esisteva brava gente e quindi si poteva dire tutto tranquillamente adesso viviamo in un mondo dove o sei perfetto o non sarai mai accettato

[@verit4suppost3]

@@Tia-icy purtroppo è vero

[@andra._.]

@@Tia-icy mi ha emozionato😔🤧❤💖🧸

[@Nobody-bk6sl]

@❄️Tia❄️ Verissimo, mi hai fatto commuovere😔

[@jellyyamada9161]

@@Tia-icy anche se nessuno è davvero accettato perché nessuno è davvero perfetto

[@phill7564]

Fra,lo so che sia difficile,ma non ascoltare ciò che gli altri dicono l'importante e' che tu sia fiera di te stessa :)

[@djduudjdid9024]

Fra, I know it's difficult, but don't listen to what others say, the important thing is that your proud of yourself ;) (English IMAO)

[@st4rnn4n]

@@djduudjdid9024 the "fra" is like "bro" in this case

[@BumyXD]

Its sulla fra cause its her name (nick

[@LuigiXIV_official]

@@djduudjdid9024 Fra is her name

[@zairuthe_weirdo6969]

DUDE YOUR PROBABLY SO PRETTY THOUGH! YOU DONT HAVE TO WORRY YOUR BEAUTIFUL

[@thedarktime2008]

Look im not that good at comforting people so im just gonna say this : dont give up if your parents brought you down get back up stay positive and dont believe entirely what they say. I dont watch you often but i can see your a great youtuber and hope you have a good life going forward.

[@viktoriaalbert7189]

damn, i have toxic parents too. my mom always wants me to go do sports. this year, i finally found some hip-hop dance sport in the town and she said no. THEN WHAT SPORT SHE WANTS ME TO DO???

[@roman.6]

I, on the other hand, when I was 7, doing rhythmic dance. Then after a while I realized that I didn't like it and that it wasn't my dream. Today I sing, and I am happy. But my mother says that if I would have done dance it was better, and when she sees some dancers on the internet she tells me "look, if you did dance you could do it too", but she doesn't want to understand that I don't like dancing and I prefer to dance. Italian: io invece quando avevo 7 anni, facendo danza ritmica. Poi dopo un po' ho capito che non mi piaceva e che non era il mio sogno. Oggi faccio canto, e sono felice. Però mia madre dice che se avrei fatto danza era meglio, e quando vede delle ballerine su internet mi dice "guarda, se facevi danza riuscivi a farlo anche tu",però non vuole capire che non mi piace danzare e preferisco ballare.

[@viktoriaalbert7189]

@@roman.6 I think you had choosen the right choise! If you don't prefer dancing then you had choosen the right way :D

[@roman.6]

@@viktoriaalbert7189 💜Yeah! By the way,the same for you, choose with the heart (but also with the brain a little) have a nice day :D!

[@alexli_gacha6943]

i'd say watch how to do hip-hop dance online, then you could show her some moves and say that this is something you want to do. or do it in ur free time! hip-hop looks like a cool sport/activity to do!

[@viktoriaalbert7189]

@@roman.6 Thx for the help!

[@H4Z3L_nVt]

Dang, tbh this is sadly relatable, I wouldn’t say my parents are bad, my mom would encourage me my dad too kinda but they always have to add something like “but it’s still not enough” or something like “well if you tried harder then….” It hurts like it kinda just makes me want them to not compliment me rather then complimenting and then shoot me down again, it feels more awful. One other annoying thing is that if they see that you haven’t slim down much, they would tell ate you for eating so much and fat shame you and also just yell at you and say how much progress you made before like what? You were the one saying I didn’t slim down much?-

[@gitch5020]

"every child deserve a parent not every parents deserve a child." -Dhar mann

[@PanlessXO]

I don’t remember this being said in Dhar mann

[@pekaisphat]

@@PanlessXO what do you expect his pfp is a gacha maid cat boy thing.

[@LesIieMeyers]

@@pekaisphat exactly

[@PanlessXO]

@@pekaisphat since when did the pfp come from?

[@lolo98697]

@@PanlessXO It doesn't mean anything and what's the problem with his oc i find it beautiful me 🤨

[@bread2083]

MISS I have a reccomendation for you, it sucks having your parents destroy your self-esteem, hell it does. But to keep feeling confident in the body you were born in, I reccomend watching body positivity compilations on YT. they always help me when im feeling down about my body.

[@TaliLovesFrogs]

Those 3 beginning words are the words I despise. I am always called by my dad name

[@bread2083]

@@TaliLovesFrogs sorry about that, I wouldn't know it triggers people off, I'll change it

[@jellytaishi9113]

that thing for me is too late

[@bread2083]

@@jellytaishi9113 its never too late hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[@bread2083]

@@jellytaishi9113 its never too late hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[@cookie8335]

To everyone out there: Your beautiful You valuable Your important “ the only failure in life is giving up” Many people say to me “omg your so skinny” but it’s ok you should love yourself and your body just the way it is nobody’s perfect who cares if people judge you atleast you aren’t a model that doesn’t eat forever and then they starve to death atleast your yourself being yourself is beautiful ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤍💖💗💓💕💞💝

[@is0bel991]

everyone is beautiful just the way they are!❤️ Don’t listen to anyone who destroys your joy in life it’s your choice and your time of living do you whatever you want!❤️

[@Blobbiexe]

Crying is natural, I feel u, I try to lie and say I’ll be more confident, yet I’ve become more socially awkward, stay safe

[@Lion_RoarJungle]

“ Your such a dramatic kid, Grow up! “ Is the thing from the mother so don’t punch you pillow respect it. It holds your tears when no one else does .

[@ykwsophiaz]

damn, you're such a good editor. finally italian people are getting more likes

[@COfmBrd]

i didn't even know she was Italian, how beautiful!

[@user-fj9td2bh2o]

When your parents compare you, body shame and tell all their friends about your failures. This video is relatable.

[@notstarlisx6810]

A wise man once said "every child deserves a parent(s) but not every parent deserves a child"

[@Aliyahyuh]

"Did you know 17 muscles are activated when you cry. so just remember at least you have a passion for fitness"

[@yuyuko9940]

...

[@sunwashedsoda]

S c i e n c e

[@kaeyamainsyourmom9648]

Image just saying you want to work out and your friends kill someone you loved and they tell you that your working out now

[@かわいいてんし-m2l]

Glad to know I can work out on the bus.

[@aisha-df5cx]

Capisco come ti senti, è successo anche a me e purtroppo continua a succedere, ma non devi lasciarti abbattere da loro. Sei una persona meravigliosa e non devi cambiare a meno che non sia per te stessa

[@xxakarixxoryourlocallesbia8963]

“The worst thing that parents do… Is tell us to do something else because it’s stupid(for example being a KZbinr,etc.) and destroy our lives and dreams.” -Akari ############ (Me)

[@MilkIsASauce]

I hope you do end up in a good place in life! My family has sometimes had some difficulty and got mad at me and ruined things for me. But I love your content!

[@middaugust]

"ur eating too much" "u never eat" "ur fat" "u need to eat more, ur so skinny" "follow ur dreams" "you wont make it" "focus on school, study" "why arent you spending time with us?" "you can add ur friends on whatsapp" "who are you talking to? why is it so secretive?"

[@Felxzq]

When you can’t even feel good abt yourself at least once: 👁👄👁💁✨

[@frog_enthusiast101]

My grandparents are body shaming me. Like saying: “You’re too skinny” multiple times “Eat some more” or even “Gain some weight”. Like everyone else are getting body shamed. Sometimes I wish I gained weight but my friends always say that “Nobody is perfect, you don’t need to gain weight or lessen your weight to get pretty.” I told them that I was getting body shamed but they told me “Ignore who are body shaming you.” Or maybe “Don’t mind them because we all look amazing.”

[@starrydayz1436]

No offense but when I see people like u talking about how skinny u are really angers me, like we know u have the perfect body....

[@imnotasleep8708]

I feel the same way. Whenever I want to wear like some sweats and a hoodie my parents usually say, “You look like a homeless person, go change.” But if I want to wear a skirt or a cropped skirt they say, “Not in my house, go wear that when you move out.” Or “I don’t want everyone thinking that my daughter is a wh0r3.”

[@down-like-the-tower]

I can’t lie and say I can relate to this, but I have friends who can. I can tell that it’s probably the one thing that breaks you down constantly, but you have to be strong and bounce back when it happens. You can do this! I know you can! I’m proud!

[@ciaociaociao273]

Ricordati questa frase “l’unica persona che può prendere decisioni sul mio corpo sono io. Il mio corpo deve piacere a me.” Sei bellissima, non lo dimenticare 💗

[@Sky-xk7pg]

That's just beautiful

[@ciaociaociao273]

@@Sky-xk7pg 💗💗

[@ciaociaociao273]

@BoofuPlaysMC 💗

[@leroy4139]

People come in all different shapes and sizes. Honestly, as long as you’re healthy and doing what’s best for yourself, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. ❤️

[@hazelxs8169]

I know a lot of kids have parents like this, and I really feel sympathy for you. I’m not bragging, but I’m glad I have wonderful parents that make me feel happy. (Editing is on point❤️)

[@yashiro7319]

Si. È sempre così Ma a me si aggiunge anche la sorella pestifera che ti fa sentire in colpa di essere nata e che alcune volte ti fa veramente piangere male... Eh la vita è difficile TwT

[@peoplewithblacknailsrhot]

Don't worry, you're not alone. We are all in this together. Something I've learned is that these are the parent's own insecurities. Parents are just overthinking and don't see how beautiful you already are

[@poisondazai]

parents need to think about what they are saying. they never actually take awareness or anything like that. (also guys remember this is supposed to be their vent, its ok for storytimes if it makes them feel good, but dont take it to the next level like only about yourself, this is their video, you should comfort them)

[@idontcare_aboutyou]

My mom when i feel better be like: “Your useless” “Why are you a brat?” “Selfish.” “Your stupid” Mom, you said “i get angry so you can learn” but your making me learn how to traumatize my kids and say words that hurts feelings

[@hannapooksao1925]

Then when you have kids their like: WHY IS SHE/HE CRYING? YOUR THE WORST MOM STOP BEING SO MEAN TO YOUR DAUGHTER/SON THIS IS NOT HOW I TOUGHT YOU TO ACT WITH YOUR- -CHILDREN!

[@idontcare_aboutyou]

@@hannapooksao1925 ikr

[@idk_5941]

Noo, mi dispiace tanto... Non ti dirò di fregartene di quello che dicono, perché so che è praticamente impossibile, però prova a non pensarci troppo, amati per quello che sei SEMPRE, sono sicura che tu sei perfetta, ognuno di noi perfetto nel suo modo!💖 Non ti fare scoraggiare dalle parole inutili che dicono, ok?💖 Ti do un abbraccio virtuale

[@veeveevuvu]

*Hug* I once put on an outfit which I loved , felt comfortable in. But that got shot down by family members. All of a sudden I felt so insecure , I wanted to cry , I ran upstairs , Wanting to change. Then a minute later we had to go out . I possibly couldn't get changed into "regular" things , So I just quickly put a coat on. Ran to catch up, We had to go somewhere which isn't very cold- (It's quite warm) They kept on asking me , "Do you want to take your coat off , honey?" , "Aren't you hot in that?", And I just replied with "No , I'm fine" I had an urge to say how I felt , but it was best to keep to myself.

[@SashaMeowwwwwww]

I have parents like this... When i start to like myself They start to say "Maria! Your fat do some sports or walk outside!" I walk outside everyday to spend time with my best friends...and i move enough for a single day... What she wants me to do? I really feel im not a good child for mommy , what type of child she wants me to be? (Hope your alright)

[@shadow_pig9034]

you ARE good enough. Your parents aren't good enough for YOU.

[@PanlessXO]

Your mom is fucking careless and stupid Wth?

[@saturnrules]

This is honestly really relatable to me. Small vent warning ⚠️ I recently came out as non-binary to my family and my mom said I’m to feminine to be non-binary……And then I cut my hair and ended up changing my clothing style out of dysphoria ✌️

[@changeruseralt3917]

@DQ ツ That's kind of rude

[@itz_softmacaron1790]

My parents don’t do this, and it is a blessing to have them. Remember, people sometimes feel the same as you! Don’t fake smile or fake being happy, it’s not barbie, it is real life. Try to confront your parents, or find a therapist or someone close to help comfort you. Please know you are beautiful, I don’t want you going with what I had to deal with. I was only nine, feeling like a waste so I cut myself. Luckily my parents helped me. I know I may not have the same problems as you, but please look in the mirror everyday, and say you are a 💫 star! Have a nice day/night!

[@Chotc_Hly_owo]

This happens almost every day to me tbh when I finally get "skinny" they tell me to eat more and when I do they tell me I should eat less 😀

[@chiusodirei]

Non devi ascoltare le persone pk avranno sempre da giudicare... tu sei tu e non ci deve essere nessuno che ti deve impedire di amarti per quello che sei, tu sei bellissima, divertente, avrai tantissimi amici e tante persone ti vorranno bene.. e ricorda....SEI PERFETTA❤️🌸💗✨

[@V0C4L01D_forever]

Can we just talk about the tweening? It’s amazing! Hope your doing better *sends virtual hug*

[@_ml1ssaaa]

This is one of the most relatable videos i have ever watched, im sorry because I know how it feels and nobody should have to be shamed by their parents or anybody for that matter, My mom compares me to all my siblings and to herself, she tells me i need to lose weight all the time, she tells me how much I look like my dad and calls my dad ugly, it hurts so much to know that you cant even have any trust to your parents, our parents want us to trust them and have good relationships with them but how can that happen if the treat us in a horrible way ☹️💔

[@mangogutz6996]

I hope you get through this safely and enjoy life as much as you can! Just so you know there are people who love and care for you you just haven’t met them yet

[@user-kg3gf4cz9k]

Ik, it really sucks. Great work! Keep following ur dreams and dont let anyone stop u ♡

[@Vampxxo]

Everything will be okay because everyone is pretty on their own way!

[@aezowy]

my parents literally tell me to be a doctor when i wanted to be a astronaut. my dreams are already ruined 💃

[@busybodiesihy]

asian parents 101

[@ms.katarina3752]

And who are they that’s ur dream not theirs so don’t give up u become someone who there dream never give up

[@aezowy]

@@ms.katarina3752 thank you

[@golden_rushbear1299]

@@aezowy hey, what are they to tell you to be a doctor if you don’t want to be whatever you want!

[@xenon-p4u]

i hope things get better for you. meanwhile, that is some really good editing!! your work is amazing!!

[@oss1883]

Ah yes because parents these days don’t understand that what they say have a harder impact then anything else in their kids life, I have a feeling gen z parents would be better because they would understand the kids more. One can hope Also i think you are lovely and even if they are your parents you should ignore them, I know it’s hard but they don’t understand that you don’t need to be pretty on the outside to be happy. It doesn’t matter what they think as long as your happy

[@ibelieveinpeople]

My parents’ hatred for my body and their own bodies legit made me confident just to spite them. I’ve done physical training for years and I’ll flaunt that without anybody else’s opinion, and that’s said by someone with body dysmorphia. It gets bad some days but my stubbornness overcomes the self hatred.

[@deviglax1070]

bro that's just badass. you are badass.i love you

[@bibiitron]

I see everyone telling stories so I'm gonna tell mine, when I was a like 9 or 10, my parents would judge me because I looked too skinny, so as I grew up, I made sure to eat a lot to look to not look skinny, and now they don't judge my body, but I'm now, not confident about it, because I'm scared of what people would think of me- Idk if that made sense- My English is kinda bad sorry- Btw, don't let people judge your body, you're perfect and you look stunning :]

[@tillplush]

“follow your dreams” “be yourself” “i love you” i can’t follow my dreams when you destroy them. i can’t be myself because apparently to you i’m not good enough. do you really love me when you’re always blaming me?

[@luna_moon2981]

Honestly love we’ve all been there but at the end of the day it’s your body and if you happy then who cares about what parents think. ❤️

[@itsmeflozenne5453]

When a baby tries to walk and their parents witness it, they motivate the baby but when you're older they just do the opposite thinking that they're right.

[@sonogelatoconunaltroaccoun5801]

Quando realizzi che sono i tuoi amici a distruggerti l'autostima: 🤡 Però almeno non si è soli, non bisogna soffrire per queste cose Sú con la vita💗

[@mugattx]

Io senza amici:

[@Abby.B33]

EVERYBODY PLEASE LISTEN TOO THIS! (Including the creator of the video) You’re perfect the way you are. You don’t need to change a thing. You are not fat. You are not a twig. You are PERFECT. Don’t starve yourself. Don’t feel bad about yourself. Don’t listen to those who shame you for your body. I’ll say it again, you’re beautiful, perfect and amazing in your own ways. Don’t argue with me, I’m just saying facts.

[@cassyxd5674]

True

[@CosmicallyUniversal]

My sister ruined it for me, they were calling themself fat and I said that they’re not, but I think the day after I felt good because my friends cheered me up saying my body isn’t fat and isn’t skinny, but then my sister called me chunky, fat, because I eat food a lot, but it’s just because I’m trying to lose weight but I don’t wanna die. I feel your pain :) your body is perfect no matter what, don’t let other people bring you down, it’s your body they can’t change it or control you just be yourself :D

[@hachi7]

I remember this time, I was at my Grandmother house, I was werring pajamas ( it was cloth but they were too short for me so that’s why I wore them as a pajamas) and my grandfather came to me and say " why are you werring that, you’re ugly in it" the next day my un uncle came and my grandfather start to say shit about ( my hair, my face , my body ... ) my grandmother say " do your hair we’re going out " after that she was yelling at my grandfather and we go shopping, I remember crying in the car, my grandmother’s Sister was comfort me, I was felling really bad this day, but I love my grandmother and her Sister :3 Sorry for the bad english, I’m french 😅

[@Sbrjdjd]

TU SEI PERFETTA COME SEI, TI ADORO💕❤️💞

[@neveson]

dw don’t listen to them if they are going to tell you bad stuff like that then that’s not good parenting, parents should praise their child not shame them you are amazing just know that ☺️ btw that animating is flawless 💗

[@y.tsxnoda]

Fra nn sei L unica Anche a me succede Mi dicono “devi dimagrire” “devi metterti a dieta”…….. Ma ci metto una pietra sopra..

[@perla03]

Ma a me lo dicono sempre,io ci metto una pietra sopra,ma .........anke i miei compagni di classe lo dicono 💔😔

[@perla03]

@@auraswoosh lo so,ma nn vogliono capire,sono testardi Meno male che ho il mio fidanzato,che mi accetta per come sono 😔❤

[@baka7277]

Sometimes, parents say this, not knowing it could hurt their child. Sometimes their pride doesn't let them know they are the cause of making their child upset. My parents love me and everything.. but when they try to compliment me by comparing me to others in my class, I feel like if I CAN'T compare, then I'll let them down..

[@gorget]

i am so sorry that happend to you! i can relate but that is a story for another time but… i know that eventually get through this! you are perfect in your own way and dont let your parents, your friends, or even anyone get in the way of how beautiful you are

[@himari_342]

And then when you confront them about it they just say "stop talking back"-

[@zuninona]

“But mother, didn’t you say speak up when someone hurts your feelings? You’re hurting my feelings, and if you don’t stop, I might as well develop anorexia.”

[@JJayceeXoxo]

I loved my body for a while, a long while. I felt comfortable and I felt comfortable as me in clothes I liked to wear. Until, a boy that is my class had word go out that he was... a bit werid with women, he had confessed to me before and made smooching sounds when talking about a girl he liked, (my friend) and has made several uncomfortqble comments. I actually liked school bc all my friends were there, now I wanna stay at home forever.

[@COfmBrd]

honestly i felt that on a personal lvl... i always feel good about myself, and the only reason im so confident is because i carry myself, i'm still a kid but i have to act like an adult and parent myself because my own parents cant do it. I also know that some people just arents born with that same kind of fire, so i hope you get out of this toxic house-hold soon

[@pxiinom]

And the worst part is that your own parents doesn’t realize that their actually hurting your feelings so bad.

[@iii_.izxkuuu3032]

🥺:( nessuno è perfetto

[@Aneesay]

Aw..:( you deserve better! Parents shouldn’t do this to their kid, it’s disrespectful,rude, and it makes people insecure and uncomfortable. I hope your having a very good day! Reminder!: “You looked pretty/good so don’t let anyone make you doubt yourself!”. -Bom/Bunny |~

[@iiephnxia6944]

It already did.. they say I'm too skinny like a tree stick😔

[@therockq]

Same my mom always body shame me by being skinny I eat much I eat many foods, sometimes I have midnight snack but I just grow tall and still skinny, she also made my gums bleed today 😶

[@Tom_LightStar_576]

Siamo perfetti come siamo

[@Tom_LightStar_576]

E tu sei perfetta come sei

[@goat5998]

(PLEASE PIN THIS!) 1: just because your in a fight with someone does not mean you have the right to bring up things that person asked you not to. 2: your a human too, your not a monster, your life has so much meaning if someone has passed please do not blame yourself! 3: if your trying to let go of someone block their number get rid of everything that reminds you of them but please do not do any harm the person. 4: if you commit suicide you are waiting so much of your life, your life is precious everyone will not forget abt you no one will hate you. 5: do not threaten somebody for a “joke” it’s not funny, just because you said it was a joke does not make anything true.

[@koramii3631]

and you're gonna listen to them?? look, no one's opinion matters when it comes to your personality or how you look, it's your own that does. you're beautiful no matter what that old man and lady have to say about it.