I was the Venus and she was the 12th house. It was unrequited love and the most painful experience of my life. She didn't want my love, didn't believe my love was real, and decided the best way to get me out of her life was to be cruel. I reacted very badly to the rejection and responded with cruelty in return. We were both left emotionally scarred. Almost two decades later, I had an email exchange with her and apologized for my end and she forgave me. A few years after that, I had an intense stabbing pain in my heart and was flooded with images of her in my mind. I googled her and found she had gotten married at the exact moment that the pain in my heart commenced. So there remains a psychic connection at least on my end.
@Jamiylayla3 ай бұрын
Hi @KamranPasha72 - I regret that you went through such a situation. I've also encountered challenges like being Venus in the 12th house, facing deception, lies, and manipulation. Even though it was unreciprocated love, she could have handled it with more grace and empathy. We learn from such experiences. It's natural to reflect behavior back, so be cautious and thoughtful in similar encounters. If you come across such situations again, take care. I sincerely wish you all the best and send you love and healing. ❤️🩹
@pmlover18106 ай бұрын
Her Venus, mars , sun and mercury is near my 12th house cusp. I definitely feel the connection. I want to always buy things for her but she resists or always want to pay me back. I want to take care of her but she’s not letting me. I know she thinks about me more than she lets on. Her moon and rising is in cancer. My Scorpio moon is trine her ascendant. I don’t “feel” she is taking advantage of me, if anything she is resisting my efforts to love her.
@pmlover18106 ай бұрын
@@Jamiylayla no that is a great suggestion to discuss. What is your email for me to discuss a synastry and composite service with you
@Jamiylayla6 ай бұрын
@@pmlover1810 I have been gradually accepting new clients, but currently, I am unable to take on additional clients due to personal commitments. Being a full-time mother and managing a busy business demands most of my time. However, when my situation changes, I will gladly get in touch to check if you are still interested. Feel free to leave your email address, and I will contact you. I apologize for any inconvenience this may cause.
@pmlover18106 ай бұрын
@@Jamiylayla thanks for the note. All good. I will keep an eye on your availability then
@tinktinkjudy6 ай бұрын
My Venus is in my new partners 12th house and I feel like he’s scared of me or keeping a secret from me idk. I’m never completely sure how he really feels. My Saturn conjuncts his moon..sextiles his Venus..and squares his Lilith. What could that possibly mean?
@Jamiylayla6 ай бұрын
Confusion, fear, and paranoia are common in 12th house synastry. The best approach is to engage in an open conversation and be transparent. However, it's important to note that he may not be forthcoming or truthful. With your Saturn conjunct his Moon, he might perceive emotional restrictions from you, and with Lilith in a square position, there could be underlying tension or discomfort. A comprehensive analysis would require knowledge of the overall chart, including Lilith's sign placement and house position.
@The_Eleventh_Sign5 ай бұрын
I'm in the same situation as the venus person. he's so evasive and I can't tell how he feels about me. I give up😔
@JamiylaylaАй бұрын
@@The_Eleventh_Signbe straightforward and ask how he feels about you. This is the only way you’ll know and if he holds back for whatever reason at least you know you asked.
@tinktinkjudyАй бұрын
What book are u reading from at some point in this video pls?
@JamiylaylaАй бұрын
Hi, I'm not reading from a book, I'm referring to my notes. I frequently jot down everything I want to express and refer to those notes while speaking, as I tend to forget details. I absorb a great deal of information but struggle with recall. My learning style is quite complex. There are numerous books available on synastry, including works by Ronald Davidson, Penny Thornton, and E.W. Neville, to name a few.