Venus in the 12th house synastry : “ Where the hell are we going with this ?”

[@OnyxxRose]

Wow this is an extremely deep synastry. I can see the pain in your speech. I am currently the Venus person. it is so hard to let go. I am the runner, I’ve left and he came back. we hurt each other so much, sometimes I feel very triggered and when I leave it almost feels like death. but being in the presence of this 12H person just makes me feel so full. You’re right there really is no love like this. Unconditional

[@loveastroaspects1111]

Oh well . Been on both sides of the coin . It’s heavier when you don’t run but only when around the Venus person . Have fun while it lasts

[@OnyxxRose]

Love AstroAspects thanks I’m gonna be positive about it

[@Lita3921]

My Venus is in Virgo in 12th naturally so I have to protect my energy. I no longer go above and beyond for anyone. I need a relationship of mutual flow. I don't do one sided-unfair relationships. I crave spiritual relationships BUT not at the sake of my peace or sanity✌️Knowing yourself is so important 🧘🏽‍♀️

[@marylugarcia6704]

A-fucking-men! You’re amazing. This is how we ALL should be. Not get swept into twelfth house psychological games.

[@jazlyn2159]

this is so accurate I’m the Venus person… but I wish I was the house person lol 😭

[@daphneyanet4702]

As a Gemini venus, and being the venus person in the 12th synastry I deeply connected about what you were saying, because what you felt is what I felt

[@firebee8293]

The more you resist neptune the more integrity you have. The your karma will improuve. And you will be able to do the right things for the people that matter. And you. You will respect your decisions more.

[@asialevystone5287]

Omg I love how you explained being in both sides of the connection 😍

[@loveastroaspects1111]

Thank u ☺️

[@firebee8293]

Never betray any one, never turn your back to no one for a 12 house love. Never hurt no one for a 12 house, dont leave behind no one for the 12 house . You will just break your heart and other. Better smoke then ...its more responsable. Really

[@TheRitchExperience]

This is all facts Any other Venus house connection I’ve had thus far, has been dry 😅😂 I’ve known the Venus person for about a decade now. My 12th house has a ball with him, everything is amazing. And my Venus is in Pisces 😅 But when it’s bad with us… it’s bad. I go through emotional breakdowns often with him. I’m my nastiest self around him with my wounds and oddly enough, he hasn’t run away yet 😂

[@loveastroaspects1111]

😍❤️❤️❤️

[@234dream_big]

I feel it reverse im the venus and i feel love he sees me as a friend it's unrequired love

[@beyondyourlove800]

I am Libra rising, Venus in Sagittarius and currently running away from a 12H relationship. He just keeps forgiving me for constantly breaking up with him. I was so triggered all the time i had to seek deep spiritual healing and now i meditate and pray a lot!! We currently are living apart and cannot break up! I don't know why. It's been almost 3 years. I love him so much but I am so exposed and vulnerable and he is so oblivious to me, it seems. Like, he cannot see me. Even though he wants me, and tries so hard. I just do not understand it.

[@loveastroaspects1111]

Is his Venus in virgo ?

[@candyDREAMER]

As a ViG experiencing my 2nd Venus in the 12th house I appreciate this video 😂🎉

[@SunnySideOut]

Woow! As a Gemini Venus who has been the Planet person in a 12th house synastry I completely relate to your stories. I’m also a Libra ascendant! You’re right, nothing compares after you’ve experienced it. And once you’ve tasted the growth and transformation (as someone who’s very spiritually attuned) it’s all you seem to attract afterwards. I also have a moon in Virgo so I tend to just be really comprehensive as an individual. Thank you for sharing :)

[@niamarie4313]

Hey, I know I don’t know you but do you have an Instagram? I would to follow you and gain more information lol

[@hshfyugaewfjkKS]

My experience has been the opposite of what you describe. My 1st house Capricorn Venus falls in his Capricorn 12th house. We keep breaking up and getting back together. We cannot stay apart from each other. He does trigger me with his running and then I say fine there's the door, don't chase him and let him leave. Which makes him want me more. He is terrified bc I see all his trauma and stuff he tries to pretend doesn't exist. I don't think he knows what to do with the deep feelings and vulnerabilities we stir in each other (I have all my own trauma, too). My venus also trines his 8th house pluto and my 8th house Pluto squares his natal gemini moon. So I know I am transforming his emotions. We simply can't stay away and I am always forgiving him bc I know he acts from his trauma, but damn it, it's harrrrrrd. Six years we've been doing this. We have only been able to make it to 4-5 months each time we get back together, and then he leaves. And it's always out of NOwhere so I do not trust him. At. All.

[@plutonian_aquarius]

Wow. This sounds like me and my Libra Venus person (I’m 12H person)…I’m always triggered by him and his avoidant/emotional unavailability, wanting to run away/break up, feel so unloved by him a lot of times but feel like we can’t leave. I also feel like he withholds SO much info which makes me not trust him. We only make it to about 6 months each time, separate for a few months and come back together stronger each time. But I am TIIIIIRED. My Pluto also conjuncts his Sun and trines his Moon, and my Venus sits on his descendant. There’s soooo much here keeping us locked together (thanks to the Pluto synastry) but I really want to be done with it, feels like a chain around me

[@lems_moya]

I’m an Aries stellium in my 12th house and my current sp is an Aries sun, mercury and venus and they are in my 12th house. It’s weird because we clearly care about each other but he’s also so distant towards me. I want to pull him in closer but I also realise that i need to surrender to the flow otherwise I’ll lose myself. We’re both healers too so our connection feels so fated and spiritual. It’s so strange.

[@annoor5481]

I'm a Venus in virgo and I love your energy, I love your accent, its really sexy with your soft voice 😊..I'm currently the house person..his Venus in leo . Everything you said is very true!..I'm glad we're not in a relationship, because he know that he can control me when is running away, but when I'm with him his so shy and wanna do anything for me. I'm holding myself because I can see thru his Bs and I just act like nothing happened . I can't help it, Ill always love him, unfortunately 🙄

[@KimmiTheOracle]

Damn I’m the house person and I’M the one who was getting cheated on and taken advantage of and taken for granted smh

[@sylviegoncalves]

I hope that you continue to share your knowledge:)

[@theoutlandishblueprint2419]

I’m a Pisces sun mars and Saturn and I’m in my second Venus in the 12th house connection, well 3rd, and this time my Venus fell into the house persons, this persons moon is in Pisces as well and I was the one over-giving and not receiving anything back no effort, but he would tell me how he felt some times, but wouldn’t do anything about it. Like he said to me one time on a call. “I’m so happy you reached out, I know I said we’ll talk, but you have been on my mind a lot… like a lot” and I was just like okay… that doesn’t mean much with our you showing it. (This was after I ran the first time) and then we started to rekindle things again and I asked if he’d be open to hanging out he said yes and that he would check in with me, and never did, our hang-out date passed and and I reached out, he didn’t say anything through his birthday (3 days passed) and my spirit couldn’t take it, so I ran so far away and shut him and everyone he knows out of my life.

[@theoutlandishblueprint2419]

So 9 months later once I let go around my birthday he messaged me happy birthday 🤨 lol this confused me because he distanced himself and we had spoke a few after I had ran that last time in that last comment, but I was just like huh? I replied not how I wanted to but how I thought I should since I hadn’t heard from him in a while… a month later I had reached out and let him know the truth, that I was really happy to hear from him but was upset and confused and told him I’ve attempted to clear the air with him but this time I was going to walk away completely with or without him… he replied a day later and we spoke on the phone, our conversation ended with us telling each other that we love each other and I said I would move on romantically and sexually… once that conversation happened l, I felt relief and I had fully let go because I was secure with the love that had grown… I had experienced another brief relationship and that’s ended and had started to really see God as my center and was doing rituals for the lions gate portal when it first started until the lions gate portal date, and on lions gate outta now where I felt a weird yearning energy from him and he popped into my mind…. I reached out and just said hey, you popped into my mind I pray your okay… he replied so fast and said it was perfect timing, he asked me out to lunch and offered to pick me this Saturday so we shall see what’s next although I’ve come to the conclusion that we are both guides to each other and are in each other’s lives to take a more concentrated look at our emotions and know how to work with them to better fulfill our purposes as individuals, that’s our purposed that we have together me having my moon in his 4th house is helping him feel safe somewhere to express and learn his emotions because he doesn’t have that in his day to day life…. He puts his moon in my 12th house and I put my Venus in his 12th house l, when we meet, I will better explain the science of the 12th house so that we can uses this placement for our highest good 😀🙌

[@guddlyguddly2900]

Hey any update?

[@tomoutlines6825]

First of, i truly hope your heart and soul are completely fine at the moment you read this. Second, thank you for this very very very informative video as you mention, things might depend on everything. I do have a friend, female friend which her venus and Mercury are in her crush 12th house and his mars are in her 12th house, she's older than him (10 yrs) and he's a pisces sun abs she's a virgo sun. And I'm trying my best to help her out, but seems like I don't have anything since I've never had this placement before, in your experience how do you see it?!

[@LilBoSkeetE85]

This aspect is really hard but it take maturity, communication, and an healthy amount of space to work. The Venus person usually puts the energy out there and the the 12th maybe longing for it fear it subconsciously. The way the relationship starts will always make the 12th person suspicious. They kinda believe the Venus person choose them as an option which is normally the case. However over time the Venus person falls just as much in love. Instead of embracing the Venus person has really fell in love the 12th person really never gets over how they were chosen. This cause Tik for tak for tak kind of energy. IMO this aspects works better when a guys Venus falls into the woman's 12th because a males will be more assertive giving the 12th house person the comfort they need to feel secure in such a vulnerable position.

[@rinb5183]

Bang on buddy ... you explained it so well .. I was the 12th person and I always suspicious n scared of venus person

[@mramelb1]

I was the Venus person I feel it was the opposite. I wanted stability.. it was so confusing and painful. I was emotionally cheated on

[@vedicastrologypriestess]

This was amazing. You are so brave to share your experience. I am a Libra ascendant (sidereal chart) with Venus in Libra along with Jupiter and rahu. My Venus, jupiter and rahu is falling into his 12th house. He’s been on my mind day and night anytime I have free time I’m thinking about him. I had a crush on him since we were teenagers but he went away to the military right when I was going to finally come out and tell him. Now, 9 years later we met up and “made love”. I can’t get him off my mind. It was probably the best feelings in my life. However, his Venus is in Capricorn, conjunct moon, Neptune, and Uranus. I don’t know how this will go long term?!?! His Venus falls in his third house (we met through his cousin who I dated when we were teenagers which is why I never was able to confess how I felt about him) CRAZYYYY

[@loveastroaspects1111]

😍❤️

[@loveastroaspects1111]

His Venus and moon in ur fourth is a good sign . Let’s hope it all ends well . Don’t let the delusion take the reality away

[@vedicastrologypriestess]

@@loveastroaspects1111 Aw thanks for that advice! 💕

[@vedicastrologypriestess]

@@loveastroaspects1111 yes, his moon/Venus in my fourth house. I see that he was very comfortable to jump in my bed and sleep very comfortably the first night he came to visit me (after 9 years). His personality isn’t usually like that Scorpio ascendant Pluto in the 1st house. It’s been over a month and I still go to sleep thinking about him and waking up with him on my mind. Not sure if he thinks about me as much? 🥴 lol I asked him to come over in a “joking way” and he replied “lol I can’t right now I’m waiting 😂” I don’t know what that means. I don’t know what he means he is waiting for? I asked but he didn’t reply to the question he replied to another second question I asked. His moon and Venus are in Capricorn, maybe Capricorn’s take things more slowly in love?? His Saturn in Aquarius is opposing my Sun in Leo. And the rest of his planets are in my 3rd house in Sagittarius (all sidereal placements)

[@vedicastrologypriestess]

@@loveastroaspects1111 also my Mars in Gemini falls in his 8th house via his ascendant chart. While my sun falls in his 8th house in Leo via his moon chart. I heavily activate his 12th and 8th houses. I think we both felt the intense energy when we were teenagers but we NEVER acted on our desires. But if I wasn’t around his cousin, he wasn’t there either. He always was around when I hung out with his cousin. He was so caring towards me but we only stayed as friends. When he came to visit me for the first time after 9 years, one of the first things he said was “we’re grown now” implying that we can do whatever we wanted with each other without the consequences of “others” like family or friends. It really seemed like a fairy tale. As much as I wanted that moment for so long, I became very overwhelmed with intense feelings (my moon in Scorpio over his ascendant), and crazy insecurities came up which caused me to start “pushing him away”. He has very sensitive feelings Moon conjunct Venus in Capricorn. But he forgave me for bringing up my insecurities I putting them on to him.

[@meomeo-j5d]

thank you so much for sharing this

[@pugninja7037]

I was the venus.. It was just a total fog, also alot of pluto aspects, moon conjunct pluto sun sextile pluto, ascendent conjunct pluto, eros conjunct pluto, I'm a sun &mercury 12th,moon conjunct neptune.he was moon & pluto 12th . Just a horrible HORRIBLE connection. Psychological fog.

[@teanna4569]

I have sun Venus and mars in his 12th … he just told me he’s not letting me go, we only been talking since August we not even together, it’s long distance he text me literally EVERYDAY… I think he is obsessed 😮

[@indrar1990]

I have 12th h venus in aries and don't no wat is going to happen but I like spirituality.

[@honeybfly1980]

Im the venus person but he ran away from me. He has sun in 12th and Im a pisces moon so I guess thats why I attracted him

[@honeybfly1980]

His venus is in my 8th house

[@cosmicdancer6876]

I have my Venus nataly in 12 th house and my situationship has his Mars and Moon in my 12th house synastry

[@ArcanaSun]

He’s a sun a Pisces, i am a moon in Pisces and both our moon is in the 12th synastry and also his Venus hits my 12th he saw me before I ever saw him and he started a divorce for me. I hope it last we are both very very evolved spiritually but yes it was hidden at first

[@xlinsdayx]

My venus and my mars are conjunct his moon in the 12th house in leo... its so hard to let go

[@EarthAngelHeals]

Keep making videos 💚

[@addyyylaidefanf5215]

i have been with my bf of 4 years and we have synastry venus and sun in 12th house along with 2 and 7. we are keeping relationship secret from world and in long distance relationships. he or i have never cheated, also we both found out about spirituality together and in long distance its so SO helpful. he has venus in taurus and mine is in saggitarius.. im so confused also, he left a girl for me. i know its a bitch move but, i was immature, but yet i am grateful

[@unifiedastrology6770]

Thank you for sharing your experience! I have a question though, why would you say, for you, that even though the house person has supposed power over Venus, at the same time Venus can betray and use house as a doormat? How would you explain that apparent contradiction?

[@loveastroaspects1111]

It’s possible when Venus is afflicted or immature . This placement is after al the place for prison , devotion and delusion . But the return will happen in either case . It’s very highly likely . Atleast for a apology .

[@CCCCCCCCCCCmany]

I have a intercepted chart Technically Sun and Mars are in 11th and Mercury in 12th But if using whole signs; progressive charts is also in 12th house I’m always into the 12th house. I really need to chill out because it’s heavy af every time it ends.

[@CCCCCCCCCCCmany]

Venus Gemini

[@firebee8293]

Neptune is smoking glue someware thinking he will give all and gives nothing, while poor saturn is working hard for some one needs and security. If they ware parental figures you would know one parent you loved most but they left you broken while the other that you never loved will be providing hopping one day you ll appreciate him. Its just not fair to love neptune. For no one. Its sad and irresponsable.

[@firebee8293]

Because neptune may inspire you to be goid but the one that actualu sacrifice and makes the good deeds come to fruition is saturn. And it dont feel good, but you can see your goid intention proven. Only saturn is loyal to the cause. Point.

[@prettymina5755]

And what about his venus conjunct my moon in scorpio 12th house our plutos there too with his mercury and my jupiter and rahu oppositing his moon in my 6th house his mars in my 8th house

[@ironcommander01]

I have Gemini venus in 12th house & till now most girls run away from me. At the age of 27, no girlfriend... Not even minor interaction with women.

[@AZ-vb4uj]

hi, i'm a female. his venus conjunct my jupiter in 12H. my venus falls in his 9H. his jupiter rx is in my 5H, where my moon is placed. his moon conjunct my asc, and my moon conjunct his ic in 4H. now, we are just close friends, we meet 2-3 times a week and just recently, i found myself falling for him. he gave me some hints about his feelings as well. oh, and we have north node 7H in composite. how will this play out? thank you

[@Buybi124]

What if the house person also has venus in his own 12th house.??? 😢 he has Taurus Venus in Krittika and I have Taurus Venus in Rohini. He is a Gemini Lagna with Saturn in lagna. Mercury-Rahu-Venus and Sun in his 12H. I am Pisces Sun Lagna. Venus-Mars Rohini. I felt a very strong connection with him even tho we met online. He is from Nepal an I am from the Philippines. We don’t talk anymore. Nothing romantic stuff I just feel this way about him. We also have MOON-KETU Synastry his Swati Moon in my Swati Ketu. My Anuradha Moon in his Anuradha Ketu. Omg. I cannot get him off my miiiiinndddddddd. I don’t know but I hope he feels and thinks the saanmeee ugghhh I miss hiimm so much a looott. I don’t have any connection with him for 2 years. I wishh we could meet in this life again.

[@firebee8293]

The more you know the worse it gets. I will never chose this 12 house feeling i rather be in a platonic relationship with out sex that feel disconected then take all this karmas that maybe are not even mine. Every planet in the 12 is betray enemy angels that decide one day they are going to sufocate you in your sleep. You just do a wrong small understandable error and it starts. No thank you. I dont want to live my karmic enemues and see them as mt soul mates. No no no.

[@vvelasco51]

😢 my Venus falls in his scorpio 12th h. To make it worse, he has pluto+moon in his scorpio 12th. Very traumatized

[@NovafyT]

Venus person in my 12 (Leo)has Mars and Mercury too. What do you think?

[@selenparman6450]

How does it play out if my scorpio stellium (southn node, venus, pluto, saturn) sitting on other partner’s 12th house with his neptune?

[@ashleymitchell31]

When she said all her relationships have been venus 12th house synastry, I don't now why but I laughed.

[@LegendaryMel]

Bcuz u r mean

[@fi6594]

7:06 venus runs from house 9:33 venus wants to trust house but scared it will be abused

[@juliajulia88888]

hello please I do not understand anything more about this placement we say everything and its opposite, we say suddenly that it is an unconditional love type twin flame but yet there are many people who have this placement and at the same time we say that this placement is rare ...; I do not know who to trust, what other aspects in the charter of the two people will come to mitigate the newcomer in house 12, what factors can make this aspect negative in the theme in addition? thank you

[@asialevystone5287]

Make more videos 💞

[@kwavy17]

What about 12h Mars conjunct 12 Venus synastry how would that play out?

[@dnabart]

Yes, asking too. I'm 12 venus .im interested in someone who's mars falls in my 12h and conjuncts my venus

[@firebee8293]

No no no. To hell with love in the 12. I will never love unconditionally in the 12. I could actually do something good for some one i care and feela like family then. No other people deserve love more. Because they are family. And actually need us. And there is a real bond not this incertenty. Sry but it think its sick. I try it and i am ashamed. I am so glad i didnt abandone no one for the 12h person

[@firebee8293]

Omg its sounds terrible. I dont want any more 12th house or astrology...i think im just going to let go of relationship and astrology all togeder.

[@firebee8293]

They are your enemies. Why rin in such karma. Maybe you ware not even a bad person in a past lufe maybe your not a bad person in this life. Why take from the poor. Im poor in hapiness i have a moon pluto. Why shud i pay for something if i am not even shure i deserve it. I cry a lot. I dont want any ... There are things that hurt more like your parent death the other one suffering why shud i forget my personal sorrow for an enemy from the past and forget in what pain i shud be more invested. You can cry over a man when other things are more important to pay for. Like your family, your mom your dad.

[@firebee8293]

Where is the conection in the 11 house, 5 house is boaring? So i shud do what meet every guy that i wronged in the past like so they can hurt me back. No ...no ...im sry 12 house is secret enemies. You live them because its a revange, you are supposed to live them and they are supposed to hurt you. No thanks man. I dont think i deserve it. I dont remeber roses shapain love in this life. So why shud i pay if i bought nothing.

[@isabe11e99]

I am the 12th house person with his Venus in Virgo, and I AM THE CAPRICORN MOON PERSON IN HIS 8TH HOUSE CAPRICORN MARS.. kill me.