"How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it." - Marcus Aurelius
@pteronine94 жыл бұрын
The slow but steady increase of awareness of my part in relationships releases a very different kind of sadness than the sadness of loss seen as something inflicted upon me by the other. While it's true that none of us are entirely innocent, when you come face to face with your own half-hidden, now surfacing, impure motives behind your actions, it is, as you say, humbling. Thanks for this message, Acyuta-bhava.
@susand42554 жыл бұрын
Yes. The Venus/Pluto square in its meaning of self purification, purging or giving up that which is unwholesome in ourselves, including bad habits, seems very fitting for this Lenten season and the discipline of giving up attachments and attitudes that separate us from Love/God.
@Franticity74 жыл бұрын
Makes sense, if venus wants thing clean, then everything that keeps it from being clean needs to be addressed
@gratitudeindeed81904 жыл бұрын
Amen. The closer you get to God. The more humble/patient you become. When we are a light to others..peace follows.. However guard yourself.. Some want to put your light out. Knowing this we can realign to peace...stay humble. Love your outlook/spirit.💋💋🌻🌻🌞🌞😇
@annetipa92574 жыл бұрын
"Non reaction requires control and strength. We must remain non reactionary long enough to recognize our own hypocrisy and implication". . . "and find the grace and mercy, in doing that, in the process". Thank you. . From a cap. stell,Tau Asc. & pluto conj nth. node.
@G_ATA_74 жыл бұрын
♈️🌞 & Venus here experiencing this square strongly. Mindful but firm on what needs to go. The relationship has been based on deception from the start and only my codependency/love addiction allowed it to last this long. Since gaining clarity and doing self work I’ve been detaching without anger but unapologetic firmness and put boundaries in place to protect my energies. I had so many red flags showing compassion would be self-deception. We need to accept when someone is just bad for us and see beyond their attempts to drag us back into their personal hell repeatedly.
@jazladen4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much, as a ,Pluto square Venus person' myself I can identify so much with the meanings you have been talking in this video.It is always a big challenge to ,domesticate' this strong energy.
@thatsvesda4 жыл бұрын
I don't know Acyuta..the more I say to myself that I need to manage my anger by practicing detachment and discipline and the more I get mad and lose my temper. But here is what I was thinking about while listening to your experience. By the time it was Aqua season I had an argument at work, lost my temper and left for good. I was feed up and I know why I reacted like a fool but I admit I could do better and was mad at myself for a couple of days. I couldn't sleep at night and got the habit to have some dark chocolate to copy with negative emotions and feel little better. Cacao is fantastic because of its nutritional value but need to be consumed in moderation as any other great food. Well, the more I prohibited myself from eating it, the more I was binge eating and feeling extremely disappointed about my behavior. One day I surrendered and bought 4 bars to keep at home. At first I approached one of the bar with the clear intention to eat it all. What happened in reality was that I felt satisfied after eating a couple of squares only, to the point that I haven't eaten any chocolate from then. I just don't feel like it. Maybe the issue has nothing to do with anger, which is a spontaneous response to something that doesn't match to my core values and trigger a strong emotion within myself. Maybe the issue has to do with those skills I realize I am deficient of and would rather allow me to express it in a functional way. I may also need to accept things the way they are, giving myself the permission to get angry while resisting the urge to manipulate circumstances to please my ego and have a say about other people opinions or ignorance. Most of the time we feel the urge to debate about something which is insignificant to begin with and doesn't add any meaningful contribution to conversations. What for? I haven't happened to lose my temper since then and I am doing my best to stay healthy and excercise to release stress and negative emotions. My resolution is to whistle each time I feel triggered and literally count to ten to dissolve emotions and detach. Maybe the other person is gonna have a laugh and the debate is gonna end up peacefully. Who knows? (I am gonna give it a try and let you know. If you don't hear about me, consider the experiment to be over. You'd be right to think that I ended up with a punch on my face ahah)
@MtHopeAntiques4 жыл бұрын
I was always taught to turn the other cheek” God will deal with them” etc... it’s been to my detriment & ive lost everything including my self esteem & still flailing while others rob me blind & abuse me emotionally & physically, I’m really hoping God kicks in soon & turns stuff around so I can have peace & Happiness, it’s definitely been a long suffering journey at this end! Not sure what kind of evil deeds I did in my past lives to deserve this but, I am pretty sure by now I’ve paid my Karma back! Not trying to sound like a victim but it sure has been a tough ride!🙏❤️
@JessMakeSense4 жыл бұрын
“We need a little poop in a garden right” I couldn’t have said it better myself. I’m still laughing! Nothing makes a flower happier then a little poop in there garden. Awesome. Venus-Poopto I mean Pluto right.
@Yogis4064 жыл бұрын
Yes! I did and acted today. I put in a complaint to my sons school about how he is being treated. I think this square gave me the courage to speak with a mars like energy. They got my point and my son is happier already. So thanks universe.
@astrocore67909 ай бұрын
4:44 - Venus ⬛ Pluto
@nicole_catari4 жыл бұрын
So on point! I feel these energies currently coming to a crescendo in my life. Good to know I’m not alone. Thank you for posting!🙌🏼
@j-may4 жыл бұрын
Dude. Your talk about taking a beat to reflect...and admitting that there may be envy or something mixed with other issues... Thank you. That really helped me. Lately the amount of vitriol I feel towards a coworker as she sings to herself in her cubicle and yet has the nerve to instant message me to ask me to turn down my earbuds ... I thought I was going to loose it and now I imagine that maybe I can exercise compassion
@amelia22ize4 жыл бұрын
That was really helpful with a situation I see brewing! Much gratitude🙏
@deb23194 жыл бұрын
great share today, thank you! you nailed it on ditching the "just gone rotten"
@vincelfk4 жыл бұрын
Here is my thing Acyuta, I respect that you promote grace, discipline, & compassion. Fighting fire with fire leaves nothing but a burned down or severely damaged community. What I want to point out is sometimes before it even gets to the area of if we should or should not take action, folks often become defensive when someone tries to illuminate an issue period, and this is what I tend to allow to anger me and it's something I need to work on, so I appreciate the advice. I mean consider this analogy, coming from someone who has a special relationship with Pluto. Let's say we have a person being sexually abused within the family structure, it is not uncommon that members of the family may ostracize the person that is trying to bring light to what is being hidden. When family roles are set, they usually don't want anyone shaking up the tree saying something is wrong. I feel with Pluto, it's often a challenge of, can others handle the truth of my observation, there is a time and a place for everything, however with Pluto it often seems like it can pull up deep issues that folks may never want to address at anytime, issues that can come back to have a huge impact on how we develop in relation to each other. Also I wanted to say, that when we stay a little too neutral or detached from a situation, *with no implication that you are promoting passivity at all times... I think sometimes when we fail to take action at all, it can leave people who are truly victims in the material realm feeling that nobody stood up for them, nobody spoke out when it was time to give a person our love in the form of protection, in particular children who may be suffering through abuse.
@vincelfk4 жыл бұрын
@Lady, Lady Thanks, I was trying to add to that that often the subject matter is completely unwelcome.
@meredith35884 жыл бұрын
" Do I need to be the administrator of justice?" I will be asking myself that from now on.
@bradfitzgibbon82704 жыл бұрын
I seriously love this, I think what he's talking about with Venus squaring Pluto could be applied to those who have it in the chart, minus the specifics of signs and the Martian theme, just the aspect in general. I have this between Aquarius and Scorpio and I get so annoyed hearing people dooming this aspect. It is a beautiful aspect the square and all the tension and chaos that comes with it is meant to bring attention to it and what he says about this aspect is very true and the important thing here is that there is positive potential and I just love this 🖤
@latifahshakur54664 жыл бұрын
Brad Fitzgibbon omg same. Plus im an aqua sun. 🙃
@chocolateccm149310 ай бұрын
It’s the best Venus-Pluto aspect because you get to know unconditional love from inception. Upon coming of age for a romantic relationship it allows you to see everything for what it actually is. Relationships are very transparent even when the partner tries to hide and manipulate-everything is clear. We are not blinded by emotions or sweet words-we are the try-&-tested: the seers.
@landisdesign4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this! Literally just had a recognition and forgiveness of my childhood suppression Thursday afternoon. It was great hearing you reference your I Ching work! I miss hearing those, as they always bring another layer of reflection to the messages of the day.
@morgantheall4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for posting this. I listen to your talks everyday, sometimes registering to old favorites, and 5is struck a crowd. I have Venus square Pluto in my birth chart, Venus in Virgo. I have suuuuuch a hard time with people not being perfect or there being one wrong thing in a relationship. I appreciate you putting some struggles into words for me and giving a perspective that I need.
@solanasally36184 жыл бұрын
Me too. I appreciate this talk. I have Scorpio Venus squared to Pluto and Mars.
@bairdsnow2 жыл бұрын
Same. Venus in Virgo square pluto. My venus is also 1st house
@mvino72034 жыл бұрын
I read this a day late but am laughing (uncomfortably) re the” elimination aspect. My dog got into some foil wrapped Hershey kisses this week (which is super bad in many ways) so my vet recommended feeding pumpkin and watching her bowels. Some foil came out so I felt ok. But then last night she was unsettled, disruptive in my bed in the middle of the night and I eventually woke up covered in clear doggie barf accompanied by two pretty big globs of Hershey kiss foil. She’s a rescue and has a pretty strong elimination system. But clearly she needed to share this with me.
@thepathofcinnamon56884 жыл бұрын
My dog has had melanoma for the past year. Had him euthanized on Feb 29th. The words "mercy death" came to my mind while listening to your perspective. The fates always amaze me. #RIPGizmo 🐕
@oldeshoppebluzboy22984 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you brought up martial arts study in this the intense Mars exalted in Capricorn conjuncting Saturn and Pluto with Venus square Pluto astrology weather report. Being born/incarnated with a natal Mars In Pisces, I discovered and gravitated to martial arts training to instigate growth and better discipline, stamina, character, internal spiritual strengths as well as physical strengths, use martial arts to strengthen all the aspects, ways that a having Mars in Pisces placement is challenged as Mars in Pisces can be a complacent, weakling, weak willed, whiny Mars placement, but very imaginative, creative, feelings driven Mars from my own experience of navigating it over 6 and 1/2 decades. I spent decades in the study of Chung Do Kwan, training I started while overseas in the military at age 18 with South Koreans of the Tiger Division in the Nam, Sgt Lee Jin Ho specifically, then later also added training in Wing Chun with Master Augustine Fong to bolster and coincide with my Chung Do Kwan training. One of the erudite bits of wisdom my Korean Master/Instructor taught me was " A wise man thinks twice before he speaks.. and then he still says nothing." which I immediately realized right when he said it I needed to meditate on and remind myself of a lot to work on... and still do after all these years when you brought up the aspects of the venus square pluto energy to show up in energies wanting to criticize and find every and all faults in others or in groups or the collective or even replying to others, and I have learned to nod my head a lot and say nothing way better than 45 or more years ago though.....38 years of successful marriage and being a parent, grandparent now too, taught me great lessons to just nod my head a lot while smiling and say nothing too..Cheers and best regards from an old Bluesman in Colorado...You are a extraordinary erudite astrologer and profoundly wise spiritual guide and teacher and I greatly appreciate your channel and uploads.
@nicpatean59464 жыл бұрын
Slow is smooth; smooth is fast 😎
@vanessapetrea24904 жыл бұрын
Thank you! It’s been a challenge with how far I’ve come, and I still have so many layers to shed and realign more lovingly. So many layers of the veils. Not just one! Lol😉😆
@amymcdonald10944 жыл бұрын
Thank you... grateful for your guidance. ♥️
@angelicelrod48864 жыл бұрын
The you for your truth and insight.
@lesliecone62324 жыл бұрын
that's funny. my dad used to always say, 'be careful how hard you squeeze the pimple kid, the consequences might not be what you expect.' thank you for the reading
@ironylulz4 жыл бұрын
Love you love your work 💜✨🙏
@LillyD.R.4 жыл бұрын
Well expressed reflections today. Thank you in kind.
@southernbelle2234 жыл бұрын
Wow. Talk about accurate.This is really gross but I am having a thrombosed hemorrhoid lanced tomorrow. To say the very least, this has been very painful. I am very nervous about this procedure but I have to get relief. I have Cap rising at 27, Libra sun at 25, and Aqua moon at 15. Thank you. You are very insightful
@ReydiantReality4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@walkyourdog65844 жыл бұрын
I know this is weird but i have never experienced the phenonmenon of "road rage." What sets me off is the sound of a dog or multiple dogs incessently barking. I get more and more anxious and upset and then very angry. It seems like a physiological response.
@dotology4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much :)
@aprilemily71484 жыл бұрын
Sounds silly, but the heat at the root of my frustration is (in the case of a realtor dismissing my real and legal concerns) is that after 3.5 hrs in a dental chair I had cleared today (Sat of this transit) to recover, lie around, see a movie, blah blah instead I was just up to my eyeballs in irritation. My approach is a 24 hr rule, to think and respond properly. This is likely a 72 hr rule; and I need rest, meditation, quiet yet I'm seething instead. Do not mess with a Cancer's home write off a Scorpio (on the side). Usually, everybody loses.
@thrinedemol4 жыл бұрын
Hello, I discovered your videos recently. I love the way you talk about astrology. I have one question, if I may ask : which house system do you use and why ?
@sandralee90514 жыл бұрын
Thanx Adam ♡
@ELTarTree4 жыл бұрын
'Tension' ha ha, just a bit! Venus conj my Sun.
@ShillBullshit0074 жыл бұрын
Me too! With Chiron in the mix, facially distorting lmao
@veenas28464 жыл бұрын
Totally Brillant!
@indranimeier98794 жыл бұрын
Can you recommend a book on Shadow Work? Thank you.
@Adam-Elenbaas4 жыл бұрын
Check out the Souls Code by James Hillman!
@indranimeier98794 жыл бұрын
@@Adam-Elenbaas Thank you. Will do.
@mmangelsun4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. What was the iChing reading this morning - the number? Would love to know so I can read it, and the changing lines.
@LadyRebecca3634 жыл бұрын
Hi ya✨ Dear 🌙One🙏 Awe, I just completely dig on it when You talk the Mercy💕 Forgiveness thang 😉🤗 I love the i-ching & Chan & Pema Chodron🌺 & Eckhart Tolle 💕too, Duane Dyer(rip) Sahdguru, there are so many,! Thank you for tonight, I really appreciated your ✨Voice tonight 🌠 🙏 Wowsa so many Awesome replys in chat tonight ! Thank you All graciously 🌙😇
@Jo-xj2bb4 жыл бұрын
Anger 100% comes from fear....
@sparklingglitter40624 жыл бұрын
Thanks :)
@Dibsylou4 жыл бұрын
On the big world scale, does Venus (money) square Pluto reflect the stock market and people wanting to get out.
@susand42554 жыл бұрын
I was wondering the same thing.
@aprilemily71484 жыл бұрын
Went to bed, opened the fridge (this happened twice 2nite (Sat), got pistachio ice cream, hours later had orange sorbet, then raisins and cashews....I'm infuriated w/ my realtor. My mantra is "I am not my anger" as I shovel food (albeit just a little of all of it). Last week is was a creep who owns the dental practice I HAD TO go to, he was dead wrong and I could polish a hundred mirrors and want them OUT OF MY LIFE. Have mercy on my righteous soul before I eat my way through this....I didn't get the "forgive myself" lesson. What can I do.
@brittaanderson80554 жыл бұрын
Homeopathic. We need a little of the poison to cure the dis-ease.