How To STAY In Your Feminine Energy (even when you're triggered)

[@月亮-g5f]

I want to pinpoint that not every man is capable of having healthy relationship with a woman, regardless how feminine, soft, self aware she is.

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Agreed!

[@EarthAngel888-v5s]

Yes true. He's unhealed and toxic. Avoid!

[@miso6422]

@@loranisabalorio996that’s not true, feminine women attract everyone

[@BriannaWeldon]

14:25 woman, you are SPITTIN! When we don’t trust ourselves, we put too much trust in other people and don’t let them fail. I needed this distinction.

[@edgreen8140]

As a psychologist I say she is right you’re pushing him away by not asking for help. Men don’t like nagging or complaining. Talking is fine!

[@Selfmagnet]

I guess I’m in masculine mode because my armor is up and staying my distance because I feel disrespected. That’s all I ever knew how to do. I appreciate this video I’ll use these tips.

[@amberrose9609]

If you feel disrespected by Someone, the most “feminine” way of reacting is to leaveeee.. So it is good to stay your distance cause they don t respect you in the first place. Feminine is folosind your intuition and body, if your body is tensed around someone maybe it is for a good reason

[@planetemilyjanet7582]

Maybe you have good intuition!! Do not let a man disrespect you!!

[@PlaywithDaisy]

Women need a hint of both. It’s okay to have both.

[@namedrop721]

If you feel disrespected you probably were. Exit.

[@veronikavanquish]

Happy you came yo this point of self-realization! I also always have my Armour up, but it's cuz I feel I can't trust ppl to be as caring as me. But I guess like this video said..I gotta learn to trust that I can be caring to myself and walk away if needed instead of trying to control situations. Workkkk haha

[@balbi1677]

Girl, I must say, you’re glowing!!! You’re always polished and beautiful, but in this video you are even more gorgeous. I can feel your feminine energy from here ❤

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Thank you so much!!! ❤️

[@Shukzsheikh]

I agree! You look gorgeous, tell us about your skin routine and what you eat x

[@VickitaTrivedi]

@@Shukzsheikh glow up video coming this week :)

[@Subjugatedhappywife]

Girl. Best video yet. I’m a 4 year supposed trad wife who rages at her husband and stepson at least 2-4 times a month. I’m constantly reacting to random innocuous things they do as if they’re the end of the world and they hate me. It’s something I’m ashamed of. My husband is constantly telling me to slow down, relax, take a moment and stop just raging. You have given the best advice. Thank you. You may help save my marriage. 😮

[@Subjugatedhappywife]

Also my husband said “keep listening to her. 🎉”

[@biancat7761]

The only thing that really stopped me from feeling angry straight away was asking “will this matter in 5 years?” If the answer is no, then don’t get angry about it. If the answer is yes, then RAGE It allows you to have boundaries with your rage and rules with it. Rage is not an emotion that needs to be eliminated. It needs to be controlled and relative to the situation. Literally changed my whole emotional state. Was so chill after I was told this

[@edgreen8140]

Tegretal

[@namedrop721]

I’m not going to judge but I would definitely ask myself how random or innocuous the things that set you off are… Entirely so that you can be better submitted of course. But you may in fact find that these things are not random. And then you have a whole other kettle of fish. When that day comes, resist the urge to yell at anyone but quietly work towards building a large bank account to leave.

[@Subjugatedhappywife]

@@namedrop721 they’re random and innocuous. Im very capable of introspection so im confident they’re ridiculous over reactions to things that can easily be handled calmly later. Most of the rages are rooted in feeling indignant when I have no business. I have no intention to leave my family. They’re not doing me wrong, I’m being ridiculous. I think you’d be surprised how many women walk away, when they’re the problem.

[@agnieszkamiller3008]

Asking about somebody's intentions or why they are suddenly acting distant towards you is not armour trigerred by trauma, it's communication.

[@mintberryXoXo]

absolutely agreed, but I think it´s about what happens after communicating fails and we women fall into the good old spiraling, which then may result in double texting, calling and our mind going bonkers with all these potential scenarios. I believe she means staying in your feminine energy also just means not catering to the guy but staying calm for our own sakes.

[@Kyra-fe6do]

there’s obviously times where both situations happen. theres times when girls go overboard with it and times when its needed. did she really need to explain that though?

[@Holly_honestly]

You are the only creator I’ve watched who has actually explained how to properly use our masculine energy in a relatable and easy to understand way. Wow literally wow. You are so helpful. You’re gonna change my life. Thank you thank you thank you

[@paulinabogacz7569]

Thanks for opening my eyes. I’ve finally understood how my brain works in the ‚danger mode’

[@KimRope]

Yes and also ladies sometimes when you think he’s cheating or talking to someone else he actually is - and rather than keep healing yourself so you can not be a “nag”, leave :)

[@loveself6396]

Just cheat back

[@ayjanannageldiyeva6058]

​@@loveself6396no I don't think that's the best idea because when that cycle of cheating starts it's gonna be a never-ending one and you'll wish u should've left earlier

[@MsNellfraser]

EXACTLY! And that’s how I felt. Not being triggered anymore. I’m just leaving. I’m no fool.

[@Val.Kyrie.]

If you’re in your feminine, you would leave. It’s not about being walked all over, it’s about getting up and going.

[@normaligara8456]

​​@@loveself6396that's ho behavior, but you're from the baby mama culture so understandable.

[@sarahfrancescutti9873]

Fabulous idea about taking our masculine energy to plan and schedule our day, self care, etc! Definitely going to use this approach!

[@stargirlhq]

i opened youtube feeling super upset, this was the first video that popped up. i needed this. thank you❤

[@rosseoko]

This is my favorite video on this topic so far. I especially love the last part about being intentional with when to use your masculine energy. As women, I believe that having structure and the 'know-how' of execution-skills that, in my case, come a lot from my engineering background-can help us build a life on our own terms. This includes creating stability, achieving financial freedom, and fostering a sense of calm and balance where we can express our best feminine energy.

[@mluna1898]

Vickita, I just want to say that you are truly the reason why I started to glow-up this year, your videos are always full of information that I feel like I can't get anywhere else. Thank you so much, you clearly want the best for us!

[@RachelNoellesChannel]

So good! Our armor is a defense mechanism that we created as a little girl to keep us safe. Its okay that we did that but its time to level up and tap into our power!

[@eggyj16]

I have learned soooo much about myself from this ONE video than any self help book, any therapist I've had, any self development course I've taken. This video is absolute GOLD ADVICE for those who need answers to help themselves and steps to follow. Going to re-watch to take detailed notes. Thank you thank you!! ❤

[@ashleyr7346]

this video is top tier omg

[@ladyashley315]

Love this especially the point about not trusting yourself and as a result focusing on the other person

[@bigvictory143]

the last piece of advice is absolute gold

[@TimeQuxxn]

Im the older sister. Thank you for being a sound voice while im figuring life out ❤

[@martacarvalho7315]

The first 5min of this video... It explains a lot! I'm actually blown away by how I've never realised this, or why nobody explained it to me. Damn. Let me just finish watching

[@Mrs.Deanna_Ember]

Thank you for this advice 🙏 Exercise has helped me a lot, along with prepping dinner earlier. The less I stress, the easier it is to be in my natural flowing feminine energy ❤

[@SimiiiD_]

Girll you are such an inspiration. I discovered you just few days back and binge watching all your videos. It’s so easy to understand and put on the work. Loving your content( subscribed immediately) please keep going !!!!🥰💖

[@mamadebatom]

Such a great video! I love how you turn the concepts into practical movements! Thank you ! 💞

[@zahrascrown]

Vickita, thanks for providing us with practical ways to improve our emotional intelligence while enhancing our feminine energy. Ladies, there are so many gems in this video! It’s worth saving and listening again and again!

[@vinirajan6426]

This is truly one of the most helpful videos I’ve seen on yt. It touches on so many points that I thought I couldn’t verbalize, followed by a solution. I feel seen and heard and now can move forward with a plan. There truly are so many gems in this video that I’ve saved it for future listening. Thank you!

[@mandyt9594]

I am so grateful for you and what you do. Your videos contain a WEALTH of info! What resonated with me is the section on trusting yourself. Just the other day I was feeling indecisive and asking a friend which top I should wear. It might seem like a little thing, but when you can trust yourself with things like that, you can trust yourself to make good decisions in relationships. I love how you give practical advice. You give tips and things we can do daily ,like choosing our masculine energy carefully. That helps me sooo much! I've been doing more things to help increase my feminine energy, but to actually plan it out like that? I love that! Thank you again 💓

[@sourabhidas]

Can u make similar videos for married women ? It’s not always easy to just divorce n walk out. How to stay in feminine energy when they don’t listen and keep up with our emotional needs?

[@Nilofar-d4l]

Literally same here! In fact I needed this video so damn much today.

[@RP-uu7oq]

I actually just dealt with this. I did pull my energy back from him. I stopped doing his laundry, took myself out for fun outings, bought myself gifts, pushed his messes into his areas where I didn't have to see them. I also told him what I needed and that I would leave if I didn't get that. He has seriously stepped up. Something unfortunate happened recently, and when I called him, he immediately began to take care of it. I think the big thing to remember is this: there are places we can go if we really need to leave. College will always be there for us. Shelters. I was a sahw, but I was willing to do what needed to be done. Thankfully I didn't have to, but you can care for yourself in the meantime as you build up to leave. Hopefully you won't have to. If you're in a dangerous situation, this will be different. Don't test anything if he has violent bones in his body. But if your situation is like mine, do things for yourself. Be selfish with your time and energy, and if he's worth anything, he will turn it around.

[@amalaankem8117]

Yes!

[@leonemoana]

Thank you very much for this video.

[@luizacanella9877]

amazig video. really helpful. being a woman is a prvilege. no more struggling and stress, i can have it so easy and soft. thank you

[@sarahfrancescutti9873]

Amazing video! I've been working with my masculine and feminine energy but haven't heard it put so clearly! Just went thru a stressful month due to a job change so definitely saw my masculine energy take over. Took this weekend to slow down and soften into my feminine again.

[@leospectrum]

Hey Vicki! Thank you for this video as this is exactly what I am practicing at the moment. I resonate with the 70% feminine energy. That’s my target. but I run a business which usually takes 8h of my daily time. In my mind, business is masculine and so I have let myself embrace masculine energy during those hours. Basically my day looks like this: - 2h morning routine (feminine) -4h work (masculine) - 2h lunch break + rewind (feminine) - 4h work (masculine) - 1h workout (masculine or feminine depends on the sport) - rest of the day (feminine) My question is: can you be feminine while working or not? xx

[@Arpita-d4s]

yes love you can definitely stay in your feminine by planning out the schedule and having a core belief system that everything is working out in your favor so that you don't end up in a fight or flight situation and when you working it doesn't seem like a burden but rather as an embodiment of your highest self. you already have what you want so you are just in the process of bringing it into reality. One more tip i'd love to include is to start accepting the fears which you feel within and tell yourself positive affirmations, imagining yourself as a feminine being who's using her mind and the work needed aka masculinity to bring her goals into reality. love you xx

[@reinalouvet4049]

I love this! Can we see a routine of this feminine energy life? I would love to see how it would be like moving through the day in that way

[@TheAmandaElaine]

This video was on time. Thank you! ✨

[@faeqakhan5473]

I needed this video so badly rn

[@jaieeashtekar2804]

This was needed to be heard so much!! thankyou so much ❤

[@tanikae966]

Your videos powerful,healing informative.You articulate so well. I love that you not only give realistic examples but solutions and steps to use . Thank you for the effort time & care you put in. Your authenticty in wanting to help us level up if felt and received. Thank you girly ❤

[@QuinnShardae]

I am so glad I found you, your words have really hit me where I needed them right now, and I thank you so much for putting time and effort into helping other women realize who their true selves are.

[@GA_206]

Yes! You are always here!! I been loving your courses and have much Love and appreciation for you girl. Thank you for looking out for us ladies out here 😘❤.

[@cristeengier2855]

This video has been transformative for my relationship. I'm so glad that you exist and that you thoughtfully put this together. Thank you

[@neriahdowney2759]

you are such a blessing. your it advice calms my nervous system and i can’t wait to put this into practice

[@iamshatonia]

I am on my Devine feminine journey and this video came right on time! Girl you are life saving 🤎

[@OlgaMfrench]

Girl, sending love and blessings your way, you’re amazing ❤❤❤❤

[@bo-bo]

I wish my mom had taught me these tips 20 years ago. I will do so if I have a daughter. Thank you ❤

[@marjitamahanta9263]

one of the best videos ive seen on feminine energy. thanku sm ! i could resonate with each and every thing u said and I LEARNT SO MUCHH!!!

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Wow, thank you!

[@amalaankem8117]

Would love a video with the same concept applied to marriage/committed relationships

[@kristenbrasil]

Feminine energy vs staying true to our boundaries while openly communicating is something I get confused by.

[@MeganDunlap-hl2nb]

I agree. I am someone who has stayed quiet many times when I should have spoken up.

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Staying quiet = no Expressing how you feel = yes Expressing how you feel by yelling, screaming & dysregulating yourself = no Expressing how you feel by remaining emotionally regulated & calm = yes The power is in your delivery and tone ❤️

[@JessSoReal]

@@VickitaTrivediAmen.

[@laurena5165]

@@MeganDunlap-hl2nb I was kind of confused with this also but I think her point is that we must manage ourselves in tough moments and not making our emotions someone else’s responsibility or creating a situation where we are emotionally out of control and waiting for their reaction or response or change in behavior to ease it. We have to do that work within ourselves since the emotions are coming from our own past experiences and because we cannot control others

[@SBTLT]

That self trust part him me hard! Amazing video well done girl 👏💕

[@niqsworld9713]

Love how she did the introduction ❤

[@mariposagirl79]

I was looking for answers about this problem. But the one who takes me out of my feminine energy is my own father. I try to be a good kid and discipline my attitude and mindset but lately my dad has been just getting on my nerves with him constantly putting me down, and treating me like I'm not his daughter. He is a weak, feminine man, and he disrespects me and my family, which always makes me want to shout at him to get his attention or bring clarity to his mistreatment towards us. I can't do it anymore, I will not react to him or let his actions affect me.

[@JessSoReal]

Yes well that's different. A father just like a husband should protect his daughter spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically and even financially. He should not be making you feel unsafe and to show your respect towards him so you wont dishonor him you might have to place deeper boundaries with him by removing him out of your life. This is how you can honor him by not holding anything unforgiveness towards him and having deeper boundaries with him since he does not respect you. Now if you have to stay in the same house as him, try keep as much boundaries with him as possible until its time for you to leave and move out on your own.

[@mariposagirl79]

@@JessSoReal Thank you for taking the time to reply to me. I do have to live with him for now, so I will do as you say. I'll keep my distance and if he happens to start something I'll just not give him the time of my day and focus my energy elsewhere.

[@Daina412]

I’m really sorry to hear about your situation. My father was the exact same and the worst years of my life were living with him. He was an alcoholic who would always tell me how no one would ever love me. This did so much damage as I grew up and I ended up in an abusive relationship with someone just like him because I was desperate to escape home. I don’t know what age you are but my advice to you would be to leave home as soon as you can so you can begin the healing process. Find support nearby like Women’s Aid if that’s available to you and explain the emotional abuse and how you are not safe at home. If your dad has a drinking problem Al-Anon is a great place for families to get support , that was the start of my healing journey then I got into a refuge at Women’s Aid and I stayed there for a year and a half before getting my own place. My dad is no longer here, he took his own life a couple of years ago but I’m still in therapy trying to undo all the damage he caused. But I’m so much happier and I don’t experience daily panic attacks anymore. I come home and it’s my sweet little cat waiting for me 😊 I worked so hard to get here and it’s been worth it to feel safe in my own home, I never thought that was possible. I really hope and pray for the same for you, never give up and remember he hates himself not you ❤ xxx

[@JessSoReal]

@@mariposagirl79 Amen and anytime. I understand what its like to come from abusive parent(s). I truly pray your father heals and learns how to treat you better and God bless you on your continued journey to thriving in your femininity.

[@JessSoReal]

Also if I can just give one major tip that has helped me heal from my trauma with my father is journaling and processing these emotions and coming to a understanding and letting them go. If you can you should start journaling and run to your journal every time to release your emotions and come to a understand with acceptance so you wont hold any resentment or anger towards your father and of course still place those healthy boundaries to guard your soul, your heart and to keep you safe from him emotionally wounding you.

[@relaxwithme__]

You look so good babe ❤ thanks for all your tips. Helping me glow ✨ and grow 🌿

[@gammavannabae]

Queen, I’m just loving your ideas and gameplan. And the new graphics are adorable! Keep shining ! Thank you!

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@toviwill]

Love the advice you shared! Thank you! 🙏🏽 ❤

[@bakhytgul4457]

Wow, so much wisdom, deep and meaningful advice. Thank you love 💖

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Glad it was helpful!

[@shrek8909]

thank you so much for this it's actually really helpful

[@samanta0951]

Love the self soothing tips !

[@brionajohnson7201]

Thank you for this video! The timing is so perfect. I needed this message today.

[@itzjacayla]

this video came at the perfect time

[@oktobersown82]

Love the subtitles/ cc❤also....been binge watching you

[@shantelrb853]

Thankyou so much for your Videos they have been such a big help for me and the tip for using your masculine energy the night before to plan and prep is gold 👏🏻 xxxxx

[@giaw7867]

Geeze - one of the best videos ever - Home run

[@Kat-px6vf]

This video came exactly at the right time 🥺💕 Needed to hear this rn

[@erikamagallanes8181]

I appreciate this Vickita 💚

[@PureDivineHappiness]

Favorite video! So many Gems, bless you. Thank you.

[@sharifamaria9452]

Thank you for sharing your knowledge! …by the way I love your lipstick, what shade is it? 🤩

[@nickalicious2335]

Lots of great points!

[@LuxIqraa]

This is one of my favorite videos on youtube. Thanks so much ❤

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Wow, thank you!

[@aanchaljeaf1961]

Omg this content is very informative❤

[@tanikae966]

Agreed!

[@AF-gy7vu]

ugh u are so prettyyyy

[@VickitaTrivedi]

🥹❤️ thank yoi

[@Elegantem]

Omg the baby pic of you dressed as a princess in the intro is precious 😆😆😆 Periodt!

[@EarthAngel888-v5s]

That's a popular meme dear, it's not her.

[@attractgreatlife]

Thank you so much for this video! its amazing!

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Glad you liked it!♥️

[@anitavora8007]

Thank you for sharing your feminine insights in this video. Grateful for you. ❤️

[@VickitaTrivedi]

You are so welcome

[@MichellePerdomoCoaching]

I love this so much ❤️ I can identify so much with everything you are saying. Thank you for your amazing insight!

[@lolita5555]

Minute 9 to 10 ❤

[@kellykaly]

This one was so good, thank you for your reminder & guidance! ❤

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Glad it was helpful!

[@inesrezqi3288]

Great content and you are glowing ✨

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Thank you so much!!

[@eloisiacasillo9045]

Thank you for this

[@lisar.2549]

Kind of amazing advice!

[@izzymeadows1748]

I adore your videos. I’m Learning so much. I wonder if you could do a video on how to handle in a feminine way your man who stares/ ogles at women when your out with them. I don’t want to react and give my power away, but I would like to get my point across. I just preheat to not notice or put my head down as it physically makes me feel Like shrinking away so I automatically slump . My guts churn and my heart sinks and I d love to stop that and for it to wash off me. Thank you and thanks for all you do xxx

[@bethestar3922]

Thank you for this video

[@luzyarri9423]

Dealing with a break up that keeps you in a good place for you and leave as a lady

[@zohorsenoussaoui190]

You're so well spoken ! Oh wow gosh ❤

[@stardustNine]

I love this topic and needed to hear this today so first off, thank you so much! I have a question about this, what about when it comes to complaining to your man about outside things that have nothing to do with him or what I'd rather refer to as venting, lol. I've always been a very emotional person and I've struggled with a lot of things for a long time. I have a very strong need to talk to someone about my frustrations with life and other people in order to release all that negative energy and feel better. I'm also always willing to be that empathetic listening ear to my people as well. I have a very masucline man and he really has a small tolerance for my venting which makes me feel so hurt because im just looking for him to be there for me. Imo that's just what you do for the people you love. I like my man to be my best friend and he does too as he always calls me his best friend. I'm afraid of bottling up my very intense emotions I know that would be extremely unhealthy for me. I do struggle with emotional regulation and my whole life I have coped with that by venting to the people close to me. Thanks for your help and I think this would make a great video topic if you don't have one about this already. So grateful for you and your videos!❤

[@wildflowerslie]

i love this video (and all your other videos honestly) but i really struggle with just the normal things in life (that seemingly aren’t even a blip on everyone else’s radar) due to my adhd. i know that routine is the best for my adhd but also my worst enemy because i struggle so much with organisation; and time keeping (due to time blindness / not perceiving time the same way as everyone else) so i’m always late or (very rarely) super early but that comes with a lot of sacrifice (ie not sleeping) 😅 as you can see prioritisation is also not my strong suit haha (again, due to the adhd brain perceiving everything as the same level of importance 🙄 which causes decision paralysis in the end)… executive dysfunction (just getting things done) is a major issue in our daily lives so i’d love to see a video for those with adhd or other chronic conditions (eg i also have fibromyalgia).. there just aren’t enough hours in the day it seems and it’s really frustrating haha or like, time doesn't stand still waiting for me to feel well enough or can finally will my body and brain to listen to me and move normally and get shxt done.. this tends to lead to me overcompensating when i can do things but i then overdo it and then triggers my fibro to flare up even more (an example of a fibro issue is clothes feel like wearing heavy armour and moving feeling like torture; or extreme fatigue where you're bedbound) and then i'm out even longer (if that makes sense) i dunno… if you see this, i'd love some advice or to see a video addressing chronic health conditions and / or adhd and navigating life with them to succeed. much love ! ❤

[@bloatedcorpse2728]

you give such amazing advice

[@madisonn3809]

What a fabulous video truly beautiful 💖

[@lhippocamperouge7845]

I get what you said but personally when I start to not give a thing about a man it’s generally means that I’m losing interest 😢

[@viviantejada]

excellent video. thank you for this

[@chiccamille]

Thank you ❤ ✨✨

[@ajeanw]

Kind of agree but when you say protecting is masculine I don’t agree. Have you ever heard of momma bear? There is nothing more ferocious than a mother protecting her young and that’s across all species - the need to protect the vulnerable is a biological female trait. Perhaps the way humans have come to express it over time may not be but that protective instinct is not just masculine…

[@BriannaWeldon]

We all have feminine and masculine. Sometimes we need to go into our masculine energy, but ideally not constantly.

[@LosAngelesLaura]

That’s the bear going into her masculine mode to protect her cubs.

[@EarthAngel888-v5s]

Excellent advice 💯

[@mischum2915]

This is interesting, thank you 😊❤

[@RiyaRawat-xi9ek]

Loads of love to you vick 💕❤

[@veronikavanquish]

This vid would have changed my life course. Still can but damn, im a little late in the dating rodeo. Better late yhan never as they say tho! Thank you!!

[@PeachyKins]

I love this last segment about planning BUT... I pick out my best outfits when I see them in a pile on the floor together ❤️ 😌 😏 never would have CREATED without that chaos. And then... I note it as a future item (masculine) jk I have a steamer and don't leave dirty laundry on the floor. This is my chaos to creation vibes ✨️

[@PeachyKins]

"Dirty clothes' is subjective lol

[@PeachyKins]

The point I'm making is do what works for you. This video is awesome inspiration love this channel 👏 🙌 ❤️

[@ritaanderson819]

Love this!!❤

[@sarahamin10]

Wow ❤❤ This is so deep ❤❤

[@rgrandberry1234]

Hello pretty lady!!!!! Excellent video!!!!! Thanks' for sharing!!!!! xoxxoox

[@chelseaelise]

Amazing video! Thank you!! 💐

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Glad you liked it!

[@aprildawnmusic_]

Question about the first point in dating, because I’ve tried this in so many different ways and it’s always backfired: Isn’t it authentic to not stand up for ourselves? Shouldn’t it be more about the art of expressing what we’d like or what our standards are in a feminine way and then seeing what happens as opposed to completely withdrawing? Because for me, if I did have a problem or I just wanted clarity, which is normal, I would feel congruent, and like it was self abandoning to not say something out of fear that I would be perceived as an masculine or in my masculine. it could also be perceived as mixed signals because the energy is inconsistent, which also sets a precedent for how to be treated and contributes to the dynamic. That strategy would feel like a masculine strategy in itself because I’d be going against my nature instead of learning how to direct my feminine nature in such a way. This doesn’t mean nagging or complaining or making leaps and assumptions right off the bat, ofc. How about learning to communicate at the right time? Not making demands, Or complaining, maybe asking a question or simply expressing what you would like in order to feel connected and then being willing to withdraw if the other person isn’t willing to meet up?

[@lienledegen7455]

Great video!